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We learn by example and by direct experience because there are real limits to the adequacy of verbal instruction.
Malcolm Gladwell (Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking)
Flow is an optimal state in which you feel totally engaged in an activity...In a state of flow, you're neither bored nor anxious, and you don't question your own adequacy. Hours pass without your noticing.
Susan Cain (Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking)
Discouragement is not the absence of adequacy but the absence of courage.
Neal A. Maxwell
Fear and shame are the backbone of my self-control. They are my source of inspiration, my insurance against becoming entirely unacceptable. They help me do the right thing. And I am terrified of what I would be without them. Because I suspect that, left to my own devices, I would completely lose control of my life. I'm still hoping that perhaps someday I'll learn how to use willpower like a real person, but until that very unlikely day, I will confidently battle toward adequacy, wielding my crude skill set of fear and shame.
Allie Brosh (Hyperbole and a Half: Unfortunate Situations, Flawed Coping Mechanisms, Mayhem, and Other Things That Happened)
He is suffering from delusions of adequacy.
Walter Kerr
Finally, we can accept this stunning, irrevocable truth: Our Lord can lift us from deep despair and cradle us midst any care. We cannot tell him anything about aloneness or nearness!....He who cannot lie, will atteast to our adequacy with the warm words, "Well Done.
Neal A. Maxwell
The only talents he possessed were delusions of adequacy.
Jodi Taylor (The Nothing Girl (Frogmorton Farm, #1))
It is extremely difficult to say with any sense at all of adequacy what To the Lighthouse is all about.
Arnold Kettle
Mere adequacy is never adequate.
John Lanchester (The Debt to Pleasure)
If we turn away from our own pain, we may find ourselves projecting this aversion onto others, seeing them as somehow inadequate for being in a troubled situation.
Sharon Salzberg (Real Love: The Art of Mindful Connection)
It is never worth while to absolutely exhaust one's self or to take big chances unless for an adequate object.
Theodore Roosevelt (Letters to His Children)
I believe people try to make others feel inferior so they can feel superior. Whether this is because of race, color, or anything else doesn’t matter; they cause the same thing. Prejudice is actually a sign of weakness and insecurity, and it comes from doubts of one’s own adequacy.
John Kaniecki
We must go down to the very fundamentals of life. For any merely superficial ordering of life that leaves its deepest needs unsatisfied is as ineffectual as if no attempt at order had ever been made.
I-Tsing
Her eyes appeared to regard him out of many thousand years: all emotion she might have felt, all words she might have uttered, would have seemed inadequate beside the adequacy of her silence, ineloquent against the eloquence of her beauty
F. Scott Fitzgerald (The Beautiful and Damned)
No true fiasco ever began as a quest for mere adequacy.
Drew Baylor
One does not suffer nearly so much from one's inadequacies as from one's unused abilities.
CrimethInc.
At least one indication of unbelief is the tendency to measure life's challenges against our own adequacy instead of God's promises. To enter our Sabbath rest, we must put an end to self-reliance - trusting in our own abilities to overcome difficulties, rise above challenges, escape tragedies, or achieve personal greatness.
Charles R. Swindoll
It has often been suggested to me that the Constitution of the United States is a sufficient safeguard for the freedom of its citizens. It is obvious that even the freedom it pretends to guarantee is very limited. I have not been impressed with the adequacy of the safeguard. The nations of the world, with centuries of international law behind them, have never hesitated to engage in mass destruction when solemnly pledged to keep the peace; and the legal documents in America have not prevented the United States from doing the same. Those in authority have and always will abuse their power. And the instances when they do not do so are as rare as roses growing on icebergs. Far from the Constitution playing any liberating part in the lives of the American people, it has robbed them of the capacity to rely on their own resources or do their own thinking. Americans are so easily hoodwinked by the sanctity of law and authority. In fact, the pattern of life has become standardized, routinized, and mechanized like canned food and Sunday sermons. The hundred-percenter easily swallows syndicated information and factory-made ideas and beliefs. He thrives on the wisdom given him over the radio and cheap magazines by corporations whose philanthropic aim is selling America out. He accepts the standards of conduct and art in the same breath with the advertising of chewing gum, toothpaste, and shoe polish. Even songs are turned out like buttons or automobile tires--all cast from the same mold.
Emma Goldman (Red Emma Speaks: An Emma Goldman Reader (Contemporary Studies in Philosophy and the Human Sciences))
It took twenty-five years from the prediction of the neutrino to its detection, almost fifty years to confirm the Higgs boson, a hundred years to directly detect gravitational waves. Now the time it takes to test a new fundamental law of nature can be longer than a scientist’s full career. This forces theorists to draw upon criteria other than empirical adequacy to decide which research avenues to pursue. Aesthetic appeal is one of them. In our search for new ideas, beauty plays many roles. It’s a guide, a reward, a motivation. It is also a systematic bias.
Sabine Hossenfelder (Lost in Math: How Beauty Leads Physics Astray)
Adequacy is sufficient: everything else is irrelevant.
Adam Osborne
Only in quiet waters things mirror themselves undistorted. Only in a quiet mind is adequate perception of the world.
Hans Margolius
One’s lack of confidence over oneself contributes to one’s downfall, even if such a downfall is avoidable. It diminishes whatever probabilities there are of overcoming the hurdles on the path to our success. It strips us of our ability to win a battle even when the circumstances favor us. Most of our strength, capacity and resilience gets nullified when we harbor the slightest of doubts over our own adequacies. The more the sense of insecurity, the closer we move towards defeat.
Nihar Satpathy (The Puzzles of Life)
I’m still hoping that perhaps someday I’ll learn how to use willpower like a real person, but until that very unlikely day, I will confidently battle toward adequacy, wielding my crude skill set of fear and shame.
Allie Brosh (Hyperbole and a Half)
The world of finance hails the invention of the wheel over and over again, often in a slightly more unstable version. All financial innovation involves in one form or another, the creation of debt secured in greater or lesser adequacy by real assets.
John Kenneth Galbraith (A Short History of Financial Euphoria)
And everyone knows that it's better to have an expert show you -- and not just tell you -- how to play tennis or golf or a musical instrument. We learn by example and by direct experience because there are real limits to the adequacy of verbal instructions.
Malcolm Gladwell (Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking)
The UN investigators point out many of the other issues we’d tried and failed to convince Facebook’s leaders to address: the woefully inadequate content moderation Facebook provided for Myanmar; the lack of moderators who “understand Myanmar language and its nuances, as well as the context within which comments are made”; the fact that the Burmese language isn’t rendered in Unicode; the lack of a clear system to report hate speech and alarming unresponsiveness when it is reported. The investigators noted with regret that Facebook said it was unable to provide country-specific data about the spread of hate speech on its platform, which was imperative to assess the problem and the adequacy of its response. This was surprising given that Facebook had been tracking hate speech. Community operations had written an internal report noting that forty-five of the one hundred most active hate speech accounts in Southeast Asia are in Myanmar. The truth here is inescapable. Myanmar would’ve been far better off if Facebook had never arrived there.
Sarah Wynn-Williams (Careless People: A Cautionary Tale of Power, Greed, and Lost Idealism)
He's an undersized pissant with delusions of adequacy.
Lois Greiman (One Hot Mess (A Chrissy McMullen Mystery, #5))
Wisdom teaches us to embrace both the adequacy and the limitations of our God-talk, to keep the two in tension. Perhaps accepting that paradox is true faith.
Peter Enns (How the Bible Actually Works: In Which I Explain How An Ancient, Ambiguous, and Diverse Book Leads Us to Wisdom Rather Than Answers—and Why That's Great News)
What is adequacy? Adequacy is no standard at all.
Winston S. Churchill (Churchill by Himself: In His Own Words)
Wilson argued further, as he had to, that the federal courts are not bound to the Constitution. “The weightiest import of the matter is seen only when it is remembered that the courts are the instruments of the nation’s growth, and that the way in which they serve that use will have much to do with the integrity of every national process. If they determine what powers are to be exercised under the Constitution, they by the same token determine also the adequacy of the Constitution in respect of the needs and interests of the nation; our conscience in matters of law and our opportunity in matters of politics are in their hands.”10 Moreover, the only legitimate opinions the federal courts can render are those that endorse and promote the expansion of federal power. “[T]hat if they had interpreted the Constitution in its strict letter, as some proposed, and not in its spirit, like the charter of a business corporation and not like the charter of a living government, the vehicle of a nation
Mark R. Levin (Ameritopia: The Unmaking of America)
George grinned. 'A pity you're perfectly dreadful at shooting.' Aubrey shrugged. 'I've had all the lessons. I'm adequate.' 'Adequate? I suppose it depends on what you mean. If you mean that you haven't actually shot yourself by accident, then by all means describe yourself as adequate.' George laced his fingers together and placed them on his chest. ''I'll come, then I might be able to spare you some embarrassment.' 'I'm honoured.
Michael Pryor (Blaze of Glory (The Laws of Magic, #1))
in 1969, I still regard Jesus Christ today as the chief focus of my perspective on God but not to the exclusion of other religious perspectives. God's reality is not bound by one manifestation of the divine in Jesus but can be found wherever people are being empowered to fight for freedom. Life-giving power for the poor and the oppressed is the primary criterion that we must use to judge the adequacy of our theology, not abstract concepts.
James H. Cone (Black Theology and Black Power)
Christian joy is a deep experience of adequacy and confidence in spite of the circumstances around us. The Christian can be joyful even in the midst of pain and suffering. This kind of joy is not a thermometer but a thermostat. Instead of rising and falling with the circumstances, it determines the spiritual temperature of the circumstances. Paul put it beautifully when he wrote, “I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content” (Phil. 4:11).
Warren W. Wiersbe (Be Rich (Ephesians) : Gaining the Things That Money Can't Buy)
The amount of understanding produced by a theory is determined by how well it meets the criteria of adequacy–testability, fruitfulness, scope, simplicity, conservatism–because these criteria indicate the extent to which a theory systematizes and unifies our knowledge.
Theodore Schick Jr. (How to Think About Weird Things: Critical Thinking for a New Age)
Theologically, the demand for “circumcision” can take many forms, even today. It appears whenever one thinks along these lines: “Faith in Christ is fine as far as it goes, but your relation to God is not really right and your salvation not adequate unless…” It does not matter how the sentence is completed. Whenever such fine print is introduced to qualify trust/faith, there is “circumcision,” and Paul’s defense of the adequacy of trust/faith can come into its own again. The Galatian situation is never far; in fact, it is all too familiar.
Leander E. Keck (Paul and His Letters)
The refusal to belong to any school of thought, the repudiation of the adequacy of any body of beliefs whatever, and especially of systems, and a marked dissatisfaction with traditional philosophy as superficial, academic, and remote from life—that is the heart of existentialism.
Walter Kaufmann (Existentialism From Dostoevsky To Sartre)
That position comes down to this. The world is not simply composed of physical causes strung together in strictly materialistic and mechanical fashion requiring, say, a physics for their complete explanation. The world is also a series of meaningful signs requiring a hermeneutics for their decipherment. Whatever they are, UFOs “vibrate in phase” with our forms of consciousness and culture. We thus cannot even conceive of them outside or independent from their observation. This most basic of facts puts into serious doubt the adequacy of any traditional scientific method. Such methods, after all, work from an ideal of complete objectivity, which in turn demands an effort to eliminate all interference with the observer. But what if the observer is the very mode of the apparition? What if the observer is an integral part of the experiment?
Jeffrey J. Kripal (Authors of the Impossible: The Paranormal and the Sacred)
As Osborne famously declared, "Adequacy is sufficient. All else is superfluous." Jobs found that approach to be morally appalling, and he spent days making fun of Osborne. "This guy just doesn't get it," Jobs repeatedly railed as he wandered the Apple corridors. "He's not making art, he's making shit.
Walter Isaacson (Steve Jobs)
I recommend the freedom that comes from asking: Compared to what? Hierarchical systems prevail by making us feel inadequate and imperfect. Whatever we do, we will internalize the blame. But once we realize there is no such thing as adequacy or perfection, it sets us free to say: We might as well be who we really are.
Gloria Steinem (Doing Sixty & Seventy)
Societal pressures work to pull you up to the line of psychological adequacy, and psychotherapy can be used when society falls short. But these aims are far too low. Falling within the current normal range of psychological health is nothing to aspire to. We are interested in far exceeding this line - in psychological greatness.
Designing the Mind (Designing the Mind: The Principles of Psychitecture)
Jesus was born into an existence that I cannot fathom, and He died a death of the very same sort. And therefore, what insanity causes me to presume His inability to understand the difficulties of my existence when His wildly eclipsed mine, and why do I doubt His adequacy to engage the death within me when He died a death for me?
Craig D. Lounsbrough
I love you, in ways inconceivable. I love you, in ways unheard of. I love you, in ways unseen. I love you, in measures undetermined.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
The woman who coveted unfulfilling love? We had no medicine for her so we eradicated her entire reality, and torched the remainder of her pieces into ashes.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
No other thinker was so well prepared to give new impetus to the philosophical questions of the younger generation. Though many of his students and successors have attained a higher degree of exactitude and adequacy in their logical analyses of problems in the theory of knowledge, [Moritz] Schlick had an unsurpassed sense for what is essential in philosophical issues.
Albert Blumberg
He had to do what He did (redeem) that you might have what He is (life). Here is the “much more” of your salvation: Christ in the present tense! Not what He was—that would condemn you. And not just what He will be—that would only tantalize you. But He gives you all the overwhelming adequacy of all that He is right now for every step of the way and for every bend in the road.
W. Ian Thomas (The Mystery of Godliness: Experiencing Christ in Us)
Most of us are very sensitive about our roles as mothers. If the misogynist feels his partner is betraying him for the sake of the children, he may begin to attack her adequacy as a mother. However, her maternal adequacy is rarely the real issue. The children are simply scapegoats for his anger. He is simply exploiting his partner's fears of inadequacy to get her to acquiesce to his demands.
Susan Forward (Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them: When Loving Hurts and You Don't Know Why)
On a certain afternoon of July, at the tawniest hour, on Galvez Island, the earth -- the tilting spinning earth -- was unearthly. There is no accounting for this adequacy, this splendor that overtakes you. You lack neither flour nor oil while the famine lasts. On a certain afternoon, at a certain hour, the earth is earth no longer, but a fragment of eternity. And you, greenhorn jest of time, are a fragment of eternity too.
Benjamin Taylor (Tales Out of School)
This is not a story which denies trans identities; nor that argues trans people deserve to lead anything other than happy lives, free of harassment, with access to good healthcare. This is a story about the underlying safety of an NHS service, the adequacy of the care it provides and its use of poorly evidenced treatments on some of the most vulnerable young people in society. And how so many people sat back, watched, and did nothing.
Hannah Barnes (Time to Think: The Inside Story of the Collapse of the Tavistock's Gender Service for Children)
1981, for example, Adam Osborne released the first truly portable personal computer. It was not great—it had a five-inch screen and not much memory—but it worked well enough. As Osborne famously declared, “Adequacy is sufficient. All else is superfluous.” Jobs found that approach to be morally appalling, and he spent days making fun of Osborne. “This guy just doesn’t get it,” Jobs repeatedly railed as he wandered the Apple corridors. “He’s not
Walter Isaacson (Steve Jobs)
The opposite state from the condition of psychic entropy is optimal experience. When the information that keeps coming into awareness is congruent with goals, psychic energy flows effortlessly. There is no need to worry, no reason to question one’s adequacy. But whenever one does stop to think about oneself, the evidence is encouraging: “You are doing all right.” The positive feedback strengthens the self, and more attention is freed to deal with the outer and the inner environment.
Mihály Csíkszentmihályi (Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience)
The Portland school board's policy equated integration and racial assimilation. This policy, Rist explains, is a "means of socializing nonwhite students to act, speak, and believe very much like white students." It leaves dominant group values intact, does no damage to notions of white superiority, and helps to gain the support of those whites who view it as a means of helping "nonwhite peoples to become fully human by instilling in them `white' ways of thinking and feeling." In keeping with the assimilationist tone of the program, the principal assigned one or two black children to each classroom, and scheduled only a few special teacher-training sessions, which were poorly handled. The principal's desire was to treat the black students just like the whites. This approach was undermined by his failure to recognize and address fears and misconceptions of teachers about the black children's academic ability and behavior problems, the adequacy of their home backgrounds, and their moral turpitude.
Derrick A. Bell (Silent Covenants: Brown v. Board of Education and the Unfulfilled Hopes for Racial Reform)
As public awareness of the predicament of the Negro family increases, there will be danger and opportunity. The opportunity will be to deal fully rather than haphazardly with the problem as a whole—to see it as a social catastrophe brought on by long years of brutality and oppression and to meet it as other disasters are met, with an adequacy of resources. The danger will be that the problems will be attributed to innate Negro weaknesses and used to justify further neglect and to rationalize continued oppression.
Martin Luther King Jr. (Where Do We Go from Here: Chaos or Community? (King Legacy Book 2))
At least one indication of unbelief is the tendency to measure life’s challenges against our own adequacy instead of God’s promises. To enter our Sabbath rest, we must put an end to self-reliance—trusting in our own abilities to overcome difficulties, rise above challenges, escape tragedies, or achieve personal greatness. We must cease striving and trust God to provide what He thinks is best and in whatever time He chooses to make it available. But this kind of trusting doesn’t come naturally. It’s a spiritual crisis of the will in which we must choose to exercise faith.
Charles R. Swindoll (Jesus: The Greatest Life of All (Great Lives Series Book 8))
What would ultimately help Dibs the most was not the sand mountain, not the powerful, little plastic duck, but the feeling of security and adequacy that they symbolized in the creation he had built last week. Now, faced with the disappearance of the concrete symbols, I hoped that he could experience within himself confidence and adequacy as he coped now with his disappointment and realization that things outside ourselves change - and many times we have little control over those elements, but if we learn to utilize our inner resources, we carry our security around with us.
Virginia M. Axline (Dibs in Search of Self)
Perhaps you name us the ones who give up excessively, prematurely in love, but maybe, we just don’t bow to a love that arranges itself as a battlefield. Perhaps we do not showcase our power in bargaining and suffering for love. We channel our force into dwellings that feel like home, not warzones.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
In the following pages I argue that we have both philosophical and scientific reasons to doubt the adequacy of this widely accepted doctrine of materialism. In the history of Western philosophy, as we will see, it has turned out to be notoriously difficult to formulate a viable concept of matter. And physics in the twentieth century has produced weighty reasons to think that some of the core tenets of materialism were mistaken. These results, when combined with the new theories of information, complexity, and emergence summarized elsewhere in this volume, point toward alternative accounts of the natural world that deserve careful attention and critical evaluation.
Paul C.W. Davies (Information and the Nature of Reality: From Physics to Metaphysics (Canto Classics))
In a state of flow, you’re neither bored nor anxious, and you don’t question your own adequacy. Hours pass without your noticing. The key to flow is to pursue an activity for its own sake, not for the rewards it brings. Although flow does not depend on being an introvert or an extrovert, many of the flow experiences that Csikszentmihalyi writes about are solitary pursuits that have nothing to do with reward-seeking: reading, tending an orchard, solo ocean cruising. Flow often occurs, he writes, in conditions in which people “become independent of the social environment to the degree that they no longer respond exclusively in terms of its rewards and punishments. To achieve such autonomy, a person has to learn to provide rewards to herself.
Susan Cain (Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking)
A traveler in China visited a heathen temple on a great feast day. Many were the worshippers of the hideous idol enclosed in a sacred shrine. The visitor noticed that most of the devotees brought with them small pieces of paper on which prayers had been written or printed. These they would wrap up in little balls of stiff mud and fling at the idol. He enquired the reason for this strange proceeding and was told that if the mud ball stuck fast to the idol, then the prayer would assuredly be answered; but if the mud fell off, the prayer was rejected by the god. We may smile at this peculiar way of testing the adequacy of a prayer. But is it not a fact that the majority of Christian men and women who pray to a living God know very little about real prevailing prayer? Yet prayer is the key which unlocks the door of God’s treasure house.
An Unknown Christian (The Kneeling Christian)
What could be more subtle, for instance, than the instinct which had prompted her to hang on the walls of her drawing-room three paintings, all by Douanier Rousseau? Her guests, on coming into this room, were put at ease by the presence of pictures, and ‘modern’ pictures at that, which they could recognize at first sight. Faced by the work of Seurat, of Matisse, even of Renoir, who knows but that they might hesitate, the name of the artist not rising immediately to their lips? But at the sight of those fantastic foliages, those mouthing monkeys, there could arise no doubt; even the most uncultured could murmur: ‘What gorgeous Rousseaus you have here. I always think it is so wonderful that they were painted by a common customs official – abroad, of course.’ And buoyed up by a feeling of intellectual adequacy, they would thereafter really enjoy themselves.
Nancy Mitford (Christmas Pudding (Mitford, Nancy))
In the 2014 Quadrennial Defense Review (QDR), the DOD presented its long-range assessment of United States military readiness and plans for the future. By statute, the National Defense Panel (NDP), a nonpartisan ten-member body appointed by Congress, is required to review the QDR’s adequacy. The panel concluded that under the Obama administration’s military plan “there is a growing gap between the strategic objectives the U.S. military is expected to achieve and the resources required to do so.”71 The significant funding shortfall is “disturbing if not dangerous in light of the fact that global threats and challenges are rising, including a troubling pattern of territorial assertiveness and regional intimidation on China’s part, the recent aggression of Russia in Ukraine, nuclear proliferation on the part of North Korea and Iran, a serious insurgency in Iraq that both reflects and fuels the broader sectarian conflicts in the region, the civil war in Syria, and civil strife in the larger Middle East and throughout Africa.
Mark R. Levin (Plunder and Deceit: Big Government's Exploitation of Young People and the Future)
found myself constantly drawn to the subject of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), which I have concluded is inextricably linked to psychopathy, although this link is rarely mentioned in medical papers or among the psychiatric profession generally. As with psychopathy, people with NPD make up approximately 1 per cent of the population with rates greater in men. Another direct comparison between those suffering with NPD and psychopathy/sociopathy is that both types are characterised by exaggerated feelings of self-importance. In its moderate to extreme forms these people are excessively preoccupied with personal adequacy, power, prestige and vanity; mentally unable to see the destructive damage they are causing themselves and others. Symptoms of the NPD disorder include seeking constant approval from others who are successful in positions of power in whatever form it may be. Many are selfish, grandiose pathological liars; their egos and sense of self-esteem over-inflated, while at once they are torn between exaggerated self-appraisal and the reality that they might never amount to much.
Christopher Berry-Dee (Talking With Psychopaths - A journey into the evil mind)
But I believe that another important explanation for introverts who love their work may come from a very different line of research by the influential psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi on the state of being he calls “flow.” Flow is an optimal state in which you feel totally engaged in an activity—whether long-distance swimming or songwriting, sumo wrestling or sex. In a state of flow, you’re neither bored nor anxious, and you don’t question your own adequacy. Hours pass without your noticing. The key to flow is to pursue an activity for its own sake, not for the rewards it brings. Although flow does not depend on being an introvert or an extrovert, many of the flow experiences that Csikszentmihalyi writes about are solitary pursuits that have nothing to do with reward-seeking: reading, tending an orchard, solo ocean cruising. Flow often occurs, he writes, in conditions in which people “become independent of the social environment to the degree that they no longer respond exclusively in terms of its rewards and punishments. To achieve such autonomy, a person has to learn to provide rewards to herself.” In a sense, Csikszentmihalyi transcends Aristotle; he is telling us that there are some activities that are not about approach or avoidance, but about something deeper: the fulfillment that comes from absorption in an activity outside yourself. “Psychological theories usually assume that we are motivated either by the need to eliminate an unpleasant condition like hunger or fear,” Csikszentmihalyi writes, “or by the expectation of some future reward such as money, status, or prestige.” But in flow, “a person could work around the clock for days on end, for no better reason than to keep on working.
Susan Cain (Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking)
It is not unemployment as such that causes violence; what causes violence, rather, is the loss of self-esteem and feelings of self-worth, the blow especially to one's sense of adequacy as a man (men are, after all, expected to be the "breadwinners" and to "bring home the bacon" in all patriarchal cultures), and the shame brought on by rejection and enforced passivity and dependency, which can all be precipitated by being fired from one's job. Can be, but are not necessarily. For the psychological meaning of unemployment is shaped both by the psychological strengths and vulnerabilities of the individual, and by the meanings that it is given by the culture in which the individual lives — as embodied and symbolized, for example, by the way in which the society responds economically and in terms of moral value judgements to those who are unemployed.
James Gilligan (Preventing Violence (Prospects for Tomorrow))
Delusionary Defilade: Leaders who surround themselves with sycophants remain ‘protected’ from seeing things as they are, continue to see things as they want them to be, and delusions of adequacy often follow. This is usually evidenced by a ‘leader’ telling a group to ‘not let perfect be the enemy of good’ when no plan, perfect or good, is likely to be presented as a course of action. The idea of ‘how things should be’ regarding the problem itself or the team’s capabilities, rather than understanding how things ‘are,’ will result in an incorrect orientation that prevents even a good plan from emerging.
David A. Dolinsky (The Workplace Zombie: One Bureaucrat’s Path to Better Understanding the Virus and Its Vectors)
The Creator of love deems it an easy yoke to bear, withdraw yourself from a love that offers no rest.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Dispatch love, to the aching parts of your heart.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Your soul awakens, at the command of your voice. Command it back to life, Command it back to love, Command it back to joy. Return to the home you have treated as a foreign land. Return back to yourself.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
When the heart whispers a desire to shatter, allow it. Turn on the showers of the eyes, let it ache, let it break, let it be sore. The remedy to a purified soul is through the showers of the eyes.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Render yourself incapable of bearing a love that desires a lessened state of your existence.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Do not hold it together in the face of sorrow, there is nothing benevolent in concealing your emotions to suit a man-created narrative. Fall apart.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Thoroughly run out of grace for half measured efforts, you deserve to be embraced in totality.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Ties that require the most integral parts of yourself to be squashed to keep the flames ablaze, persist to demand more suppressions on your end. Turn your back at the first invitation to alter yourself.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Eternally place on hold the voice that justifies stories in your mind about inadequacy. Make love with the voice that attributes all the logic under the sun as to why you are adequate. Hold on to it, allow it to whisper sweetness in your ear. Abide with it, believe it. Discontinue ripping yourself to shreds. Quit admitting blasphemous utterances about yourself in your dwelling.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Divine brilliance resides within you. The most elevated authority holds your hand forever. Allah ignites the blaze inside of you. Light up, for God, dwells inside of you. You are never on your own. You are never unaided. You are never deserted.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Look inside of you, the pearls of enchantment are instilled in your heart, and the magnificent divinity delights in discovering a home within you. You're bearing a Universe of love, joy, and indefinite changes in your heart. Summon this reality back to life.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
You hold on to what has departed, as though it comprises all of your energy. Have you had a glimpse of your existence? If you are one with the ocean, which scientists have barely even explored the opening of it, does it occur, that perhaps your existence is a magnitude of infinity? You're limitless, let what has departed go.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Shake off the heavy weight of what's finished from your shoulders. Throw away the hot coals in your hands. Delight in new beginnings, Delight in new possibilities, Delight in the new opportunities to create. Let the unexplored part of you come to life, it always turns out better than before
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Starve your everlasting cravings to show up in places that exhaust your body. Starve your desires to show up in places that hold your sensitiveness in barbaric manners. Starve your cravings for places that empty your soul of its oils. Sit with these cravings, until they discover they have no one left to feed them. You deserve to be well-fed and nourished.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Don’t confuse tears of a love that chatters unfulfillment for divine love, for divine love renders itself in a fulfilled state. Frustrated love renders itself in the form of scarcity.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
The love you are hunting for will not prevent you from the obligation to cultivate love within yourself. You will still return home, to more emptiness. Splash interminable seeds of love within yourself, watch your garden bloom, watch your flowers transform into invitations, instead of chasing more nothingness.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
The invariant recollection of pain is the divine existence reminding you of the unattended sorrow that ought to vacate your body. Don’t be terrified to excavate the grave of pain you concealed when you were frightened to witness its dissolvement. You speak of it continuously and accept an identity out of it, but it wails for a release, for the light inside of you makes it unbearable to exist. It doesn’t belong there. Approach pain like a giant, approach pain like a thug, grab it and hold it inside your hands, squeeze the life out of it. Never offer pain an opportunity of permanency in your body. Destroy the bungalow you comfortably assembled for pain, the area it inhabits is meant for something far more beautiful. Sit with it, until it loses all its incense.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
The expressive starve at the hands of the inexpressive. The concerned starve at the hands of the nonchalant. The charitable starve at the hands of the uncharitable. The kind starve at the hands of the unkind. The deeply emotional starve at the hands of the emotionally detached. Despite the strength and confidence, we hold in our hands, we cannot convert the ones unconcerned with our fundamental needs into becoming individuals who suddenly care. At the foremost exhibition of indifference towards your most elementary needs, terminate your readiness to play host to what doesn’t nourish your soul. Locate your tribe, for the earth, is full of extraordinary individuals.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Despite the strength and confidence we hold in our hands, we cannot convert the ones unconcerned with our fundamental needs into becoming individuals who suddenly care.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Love is forever specific, always ready, and never at the mercy of indecision.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
The dance floor of love welcomes the unquestionable, It welcomes the prepared, It welcomes the deliberate. The dance floor of love expands the ground to tear apart suspicion. The dance floor of love expands the ground to demonstrate what the absence of doubt looks like. The dance floor of love, in all its segments, never makes an opening for nervousness, mistrust, inconsistency, and hesitation. Reject the invitation to a dance floor loaded with unpreparedness and anticipation. Love is forever specific, always ready, and never at the mercy of indecision.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Hush the voices in your head, Command the mind into quietness, Place your hands on your heart, Feel the warmness in your heart, Breathe tenderness into your heart, Exhale frustration out of your body. Feel your body melt into purified pleasure. Stretch your face and feel the heat on your cheeks. Feel the heavens surrounding you, Feel the paradises steering out your troubles, Feel the departure of what no longer belongs in your body, Feel the heavens pouring love into your chambers, Feel the deepening of your heart into a sanctuary, Feel the heavens extending the purse of blessings, Feel the Eden stabilizing you back into your authentic state.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
It will be insubstantial idiocy to welcome back a love that triumphs in expressing itself in deficiency. You deserve more.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
They bang at your entrances, looking for the woman who uncovered delight in receiving mediocrity caress, clueless that you annihilated her entire existence. They haven’t transformed a bit, it will be insubstantial idiocy to welcome back a love that triumphs in expressing itself in deficiency. You deserve more.
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
Glance in the mirror Peek at the substantiality the mirror holds. A beacon of sunshine A miracle wandering the lands of the Universe. A force. A genuine, boundless majestic being
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali (The Voice Of Adequacy: Silencing Self-Doubt, Embracing Self-Love)
I didn't say you should experience total contentment, joy, and confidence in the remarkable adequacy of your competence or the amazingly successful circumstances of your life. It's total contentment, joy, and confidence in your everyday experience of God. This alone is what makes a soul healthy.
John Ortberg (Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You)
What, really, are these “equivalence” and “adequacy” stories about? They are the EU projecting power – which it does quite as well as, and probably more effectively than, Washington, in multiple critical regulatory areas – and using its pooling of internal sovereignty to impose its values and standards well beyond its borders.
Ivan Rogers (9 Lessons in Brexit)
There was scientifically supported evidence to show that if the Earth’s available resources were divided up equally among all eight billion humans, everyone would be fine. They would all be at adequacy, and the scientific evidence very robustly supported the contention that people living at adequacy, and confident they would stay there (a crucial point), were healthier and thus happier than rich people. So the upshot of that equal division would be an improvement
Kim Stanley Robinson (The Ministry for the Future)
The Minimal Cognitive Grid (MCG) provides a non-subjective, graded, evaluation framework allowing both quantitative and qualitative analysis about the cognitive adequacy and the human-like performances of artificial systems (in both single and multi-tasking settings). In principle (and in perspective), the psychometric declination of one of its composing dimensions (in particular the “performance match”) could be also useful to evaluate the human-level performances in both narrow and unrestricted settings.
Antonio Lieto (Cognitive Design for Artificial Minds)
There was scientifically supported evidence to show that if the Earth’s available resources were divided up equally among all eight billion humans, everyone would be fine. They would all be at adequacy, and the scientific evidence very robustly supported the contention that people living at adequacy, and confident they would stay there (a crucial point), were healthier and thus happier than rich people. So the upshot of that equal division would be an improvement for all.
Kim Stanley Robinson (The Ministry for the Future)
We are unlike the Christians of New Testament times. Our approach to life is conventional and static; theirs was not. The thought of "safety first" was not a drag on their enterprise as it is on ours. By being exuberant, unconventional and uninhibited in living by the gospel they turned their world upside down, but you could not accuse us twentieth-century Christians of doing anything like that. Why are we so different? Why, compared with them, do we appear as no more than halfway Christians? Whence comes the nervous, dithery, take-no-risks mood that mars so much of our discipleship? Why are we not free enough from fear and anxiety to allow ourselves to go full stretch in following Christ? One reason, it seems, is that in our heart of hearts we are afraid of the consequence of going the whole way into the Christian life. We shrink from accepting burdens of responsibility for others because we fear we should not have the strength to bear them. We shrink from accepting a way of life in which we forfeit material security because we are afraid of being left stranded. We shrink from being meek because we are afraid that if we do not stand up for ourselves we shall be trodden down and victimized, and end up among life's casualties and failures. We shrink from breaking with social conventions in order to serve Christ because we fear that if we did, the established structure of our life would collapse all around us, leaving us without a footing anywhere. It is these half-conscious fears, this dread of insecurity, rather than any deliberate refusal to face the cost of following Christ, which make us hold back. We feel that the risks of out-and-out discipleship are too great for us to take. In other words, we are not persuaded of the adequacy of God to provide for all the needs of those who launch out wholeheartedly on the deep sea of unconventional living in obedience to the call of Christ. Therefore, we feel obliged to break the first commandment just a little, by withdrawing a certain amount of our time and energy from serving God in order to serve mammon. This, at the bottom, seems to be what is wrong with us. We are afraid to go all the way in accepting the authority of God, because of our secret uncertainty as to his adequacy to look after us if we do. Now, let us call a spade a spade. The name of the game we are playing is unbelief.....
J.I. Packer (Knowing God)
What I do articulate throughout Back to the Breast is that the ideology of natural motherhood shaped the path of breast-feeding’s return to popularity in every way. The marriage of breastfeeding to the ideology of natural motherhood was an important component in the early back-to-the-breast movement and this fact has continued to have meaningful implications for breastfeeding practice up through today. While it has competed with other ideological constructions in shaping ideas and practices surrounding breastfeeding over much of the last century, natural motherhood has fundamentally influenced how Americans today have come to think about breastfeeding. In the chapters that follow, I focus on the persistence in the belief by countless Americans over the past century that breastfeeding holds value and meaning that transcends nutritional adequacy and infant survival. I trace the efforts, science, struggles, triumphs, and failures of the people and ideas behind the back-to-the-breast movement over much of the last century so that we might better imagine a society in which all mothers receive the support they need to make their experiences as mothers personally rewarding and fulfilling.
Jessica Martucci (Back to the Breast: Natural Motherhood and Breastfeeding in America)
Success was in the takeoff, in the initial appearance of complete confidence in one’s adequacy.
Dawn Powell (A Time to Be Born)
acronym CAMELS stands for Capital adequacy, Asset quality, Management quality, Earnings, Liquidity, and Sensitivity to market risk. Under this system, banks are ranked on a 1 to 5 scale,
Kirsten Grind (The Lost Bank: The Story of Washington Mutual-The Biggest Bank Failure in American History)
The text makes plain in straightforward terms that I’m signing papers as a mechanical agent; that my signature should for all substantive (as opposed to formal) purposes be treated as that of my principal (i.e., the relevant Batros(es)); that although I might be aware in very broad terms of the nature of the documents, I have no personal knowledge of their contents or any authority or expertise applicable to the contents; that I have accepted my mechanical agency on the basis of appropriate assurances received from my principal as to the lawfulness, efficacy, and adequacy of the papers I sign and the actions or outcomes connected to them; and that my principal, not I, bears all and any relevant responsibility and liability.
Joseph O'Neill (The Dog)
Which is why I recommend that, if you cannot assure adequacy with blood work, non-fish eaters, vegans, and flexitarians take a low-dose algae supplement of about 200 milligrams of EPA and DHA per day, with at least 100 milligrams from the DHA
Joel Fuhrman (The End of Dieting: How to Live for Life (Eat for Life))