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But in every way, the shared metaphors we use of female access to power - 'knocking on the door', 'storming the citadel', 'smashing the glass ceiling', or just giving them a 'leg up' - underline female exteriority. Women in power are seen as breaking down barriers, or alternatively as taking something to which they are not quite entitled.
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Mary Beard (Women & Power: A Manifesto)
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Women in power are seen as breaking down barriers, or alternatively as taking something to which they are not quite entitled.
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Mary Beard (Women & Power: A Manifesto)
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Just do not give up at the first signs of resistance because you can break through many barriers with persistence.
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W. Anton (The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them)
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This idealization of motherhood is essentially a means of keeping women from developing a sexual consciousness and from breaking through the barriers of sexual repression, of keeping alive their sexual anxieties and guilt feelings. The very existence of woman as a sexual being would threaten authoritarian ideology; her recognition and social affirmation would mean its collapse.
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Wilhelm Reich (The Mass Psychology of Fascism)
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The mind will ever be unstable that has only prejudices to rest on, and the current will run with destructive fury when there are no barriers to break its force.
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Mary Wollstonecraft (A Vindication Of The Rights Of Women)
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The reasons are as pervasive as the air we breathe: because sexism is still confused with nature as racism once was; because anything that affects males is seen as more serious than anything that affects “only” the female half of the human race; because children are still raised mostly by women (to put it mildly) so men especially tend to feel they are regressing to childhood when dealing with a powerful woman; because racism stereotyped black men as more “masculine” for so long that some white men find their presence to be masculinity-affirming (as long as there aren’t too many of them); and because there is still no “right” way to be a woman in public power without being considered a you-know-what. I’m not advocating a competition for who has it toughest. The caste systems of sex and race are interdependent and can only be uprooted together…. It’s time to take equal pride in breaking all the barriers.
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Gloria Steinem (My Life on the Road)
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Notice when you keep expecting a strategy to work, even though it consistently falls short. This isn’t your fault; it’s not the right approach for you.
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Sari Solden (A Radical Guide for Women with ADHD: Embrace Neurodiversity, Live Boldly, and Break Through Barriers)
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Poverty is created by barriers; we have to get around or break down those barriers to deliver solutions. But that’s not all. The more I saw our work in the field, the more I realized that delivery needs to shape strategy. The challenge of delivery reveals the causes of poverty. You learn why people are poor. You don’t have to guess what the barriers are. As soon as you try to deliver help, you run into them.
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Melinda French Gates (The Moment of Lift: How Empowering Women Changes the World)
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Writer Tara Mohr (2014) discusses ways in which women minimize their impact with the use of qualifiers in their communications. Similar to “I’m sorry,” one of these qualifiers is the word “just.” Mohr explains that using this modifier—as in “I just want to add…” or “I just think…”—diminishes a woman’s power. “Just” quickly disempowers what might otherwise be a stunning idea by connoting something more along the lines of “barely” or “I’m saying this with apology.
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Sari Solden (A Radical Guide for Women with ADHD: Embrace Neurodiversity, Live Boldly, and Break Through Barriers)
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Communism—and this is not the communism of Lenin or Stalin, but the communism of Rosa Luxemburg, the most potent and horrifying of the "Red women," and even, briefly, of Wilhelm Reichrepresents a promiscuous mingling, a breaking down of old barriers, something wild and disorderly
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Anonymous
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Women with AD/HD want to connect but because of their difficulties with executive functioning, they often develop emotional barriers. The combination of cognitive struggles and emotional barriers or the intersection of these makes them avoid relationships even more which decreases the likelihood of starting or maintaining relationships or of reconnecting after a break in the connection. Many fears, negative expectations, and much pain surround these areas. They key for these women to take stock of their barriers and make a plan to slowly start getting back on the road to relationships.
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Sari Solden (Women With Attention Deficit Disorder: Embrace Your Differences and Transform Your Life)
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Progress knows no gender. It’s time to break down barriers and accelerate change for all. Inclusion is not just about inviting women to the table; it’s about ensuring their voices are heard, valued, and respected. Let’s invest in the capabilities, dreams, and aspirations of women, for in doing so, we invest in the progress of humanity.
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Carson Anekeya
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A woman cannot give a man his sense of maleness. He can desire her, but not identify with her. At best, she can give him a negative identification: I am the opposite of her. This can be very thrilling, but still leaves him deprived of an object of positive identification. (..) other men are brought in to fill the void. They provide contact with an element the inventor, consciously or not, knows he needs to assert himself as fully male. (..) By joining in their sexual games, the woman grants absolution and permission. It isn’t so much that these men use women to get to other men as that they need the woman to help break through the guilt barrier that blocks them from their feelings about other men.
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Nancy Friday (Men In Love)
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A person’s zealous act of rebellion leading to their expulsion from a pampered private sanctuary is the first step in self-articulation. Passion requires a struggle. Only by risking committing grievous error can men and women claim authorship for their own destiny. Only the vigorous pursuit of our destiny allows us to discover our authenticity. When we learn to stop resisting our innermost calling, when we accept a lifestyle that makes us experience joy by pursuing our passions and the commonplace acts of being, we discover our pathway to bliss. We must listen to the demands of our spirit; we must break free from self-imposed barriers and cultural impediments that obstruct us from achieving the final manifestation of our spiritual being.
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Kilroy J. Oldster (Dead Toad Scrolls)
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Ultimately what I’m talking about is living with controlled disorder, not trying to get rid of it or waiting to get over it. It is not done in a day, and it is not done with medication alone (although it is usually not done without it). You need to ask yourself, “How can I make my life work? How can I make my relationships work? How can I make my career meaningful?” If it means doing things a bit differently than other people, then be different; it takes courage to break through the barriers of shame and guilt to ask for support. If it means breaking the mold, then break it; it takes courage to accept that you can’t do what other people can do. If it means challenging the “way it’s always been,” then challenge it; it takes courage to celebrate that you can often do what other people can’t.
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Sari Solden (Women With Attention Deficit Disorder: Embrace Your Differences and Transform Your Life)
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The feminine nature makes even little things significant. To an extreme, it “blows things out of proportion.” Typically women embody the feminine energy more than men, and this means that when they’re unbalanced, everything becomes a big deal, and they give a shit about so much stuff, it’s overwhelming and at times unmanageable. They don’t have as many barriers in their brain to compartmentalize stuff, so giving a shit about one thing spills over to the other things they give a shit about. It’s easy to become conflicted, over-burdened, and feeling like there is a constant tug-o-war, sometimes in 18 different directions, about what matters most.
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Derek Doepker (Break Through Your BS: Uncover Your Brain's Blind Spots and Unleash Your Inner Greatness)
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The U.S. media’s shallow lens dates back to 1952, when Christine Jorgensen became the media’s first “sex change” darling, breaking barriers and setting the tone for how our stories are told. These stories, though vital to culture change and our own sense of recognition, rarely report on the barriers that make it nearly impossible for trans women, specifically those of color and those from low-income communities, to lead thriving lives. They’re tried-and-true transition stories tailored to the cis gaze. What I want people to realize is that “transitioning” is not the end of the journey. Yes, it’s an integral part of revealing who we are to ourselves and the world, but there’s much life afterward. These stories earn us visibility but fail at reporting on what our lives are like beyond our bodies, hormones, surgeries, birth names, and before-and-after photos.
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Janet Mock (Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More)
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So did women who, at the end of Queen Victoria’s reign, began to break down barriers to law, medicine, and university education. More common was faith in “maternal feminism,” the divinely sanctioned role of women as wives, mothers, and guardians of social convention against those heedless brutes, their husbands. The nurturing role grew as Victorian Canadians came to see their children not as undersized adults but as beings in a key stage of development. Nursing, teaching, perhaps even medicine became logical extensions of the maternal role. So did social reform.
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Desmond Morton (A Short History of Canada)
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The Manson Family numbered around two dozen at this time. It seems there was no shortage of young men and women arriving in Topanga Canyon desperate to join the community. New male recruits were immediately welcomed, but Manson forced female recruits to endure an initiation process. During the initiation—or interrogation—he would take the aspiring Manson girl into a room alone and stay with her for days, breaking down her emotional and physical barriers by forcing her to confront painful memories and continually have sex with him.
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Hourly History (Charles Manson: A Life From Beginning to End (Biographies of Criminals))
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Here again, Adventism must decide if it will move into the future and embrace the Christ who breaks down every barrier that separates human beings, or if it will continue to employ a patriarchal mentality towards its women, young people and laypeople in general. While young Adventists are more likely to endorse an egalitarian ethic than church members in general, Adventism at large seems to be becoming more acutely aware of the need for greater equality in the church and sensitivity to issues of social justice.
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Steve Daily (ADVENTISM FOR A NEW GENERATION)
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Swallow your pride and sow honor into other women who are breaking down barriers.
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Germany Kent
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Knotty Knickers has seen incredible growth since its establishment in 2017. In 2020, the company had 20,000 subscribers and now reaches over 200,000 women every month. Knotty Knickers values inclusion, and the company markets its products featuring women of every race, size, shape, and body type, breaking down industry barriers.
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Knotty Knickers
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A vocal group of Negro leaders, including a courageous and influential Negro woman named Mary McLeod Bethune, was beginning to help women officers and military officials break down even more barriers than the initial campaigns by the Negro press.
The first fights were for Negro soldiers to serve in combat and for Negro women to be allowed in the women’s army.
Segregation in civilian life was still very much the law of the land, but the wartime needs in all areas of the military forced the government to admit that they would need to make some exceptions in order to win the war.
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Joshunda Sanders (Women of the Post)
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You see, we anti-feminists don’t dislike women in the least; we prize, cherish, and pity them. We are compassionate. Goodness, to think of the poor wretches having to waddle through life with all those absurd fatty appendages sticking out of them; to have all the useful part of their lives made miserable by the triple plague of constipation, menstruation and parturition; worst of all, to have to cope with these handicaps with only a kind of fuzzy half-brain – a pretty head randomly filled, like a tiddly-winks cup, with brightly-coloured scraps of rubbish – why, it wrings the very heart with pity. You know how your dog sometimes gazes anguishedly at you, its almost human eyes yearning to understand, longing to communicate? You remember how often you have felt that it was on the very brink of breaking through the barrier and joining you? I think that’s why you and I are so kind to women, bless ’em.
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Kyril Bonfiglioli
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Of course, I’m not one to judge people by their appearances, Rhonda, but from how this guy looked I would have said he had graduated high school with three friends tops, all of them in the computer club with him, and that he had some super-obscure hobby he was obsessed with, like collecting ancient musical instruments or making origami rocket ships that could break the sound barrier, and that, if he noticed women at all, he tried to impress them with how many decimal places of pi he had memorized.
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Rebecca Goldstein (Plato at the Googleplex: Why Philosophy Won't Go Away)
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Why do you love Vietnam so much? We escaped the war so we’d never have to go back there, and now you’ve bought a second home over there, and moved all your business operations over there. Are you insane?” Her mother’s voice breaking the sound barrier over the phone. “What are you doing over there all the time?
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Carolyn Huynh (The Fortunes of Jaded Women)
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Permission to Proceed:
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Sari Solden (A Radical Guide for Women with ADHD: Embrace Neurodiversity, Live Boldly, and Break Through Barriers)
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Women have a unique lose-lose position where they are either respected but rejected, or accepted but not respected. What a choice.
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Sabrina Cohen-Hatton (The Gender Bias: The Barriers That Hold Women Back, And How To Break Them)
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Women suffer an immense burden of impression management concerning everyday behaviours, many of which are the same behaviours required for success. Assertive women risk being seen as 'bossy,' whereas assertive men are considered 'decisive.' Women prepared to have a difficult conversation are 'ball breakers,' whereas men are just expected to 'speak the truth.' Women risk being perceived differently to men for displaying the same behaviours, saying the same things, in the same way, in the same context. Women feel the pressure of considering how they will be perceived to avoid being judged less favourably.
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Sabrina Cohen-Hatton (The Gender Bias: The Barriers That Hold Women Back, And How To Break Them)
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People who would not ordinarily reach for a sexist stereotype - let alone consciously act on it - find themselves behaving in a way that inadvertently denounces a woman's competence solely because that idea of incompetence is deeply ingrained in a sexist stereotype: an image of women that should be kind and caring and not critical or judgemental. Any deviation sees women being disliked and denigrated, with their competence being brought into question.
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Sabrina Cohen-Hatton (The Gender Bias: The Barriers That Hold Women Back, And How To Break Them)
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Women cannot be left to bear the burden of calling out inequality simply because they're the ones experiencing it the most acutely.
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Sabrina Cohen-Hatton (The Gender Bias: The Barriers That Hold Women Back, And How To Break Them)
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By denying women the opportunity to fail in the same way afforded to men, by raising the stakes for half of society so significantly, we have yet another socially constructed systemic barrier to women succeeding.
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Sabrina Cohen-Hatton (The Gender Bias: The Barriers That Hold Women Back, And How To Break Them)
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Too many women are smeared just for occupying their [male] space. Particularly those whose space involves holding power. For women who venture into governance, the spreading of fake news and disinformation has been particularly pronounced. Research has found that female politicians are targeted far more than their male peers.
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Sabrina Cohen-Hatton (The Gender Bias: The Barriers That Hold Women Back, And How To Break Them)
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Leadership is service, not a throne to seize
Empowering and uplifting those you lead with ease
Each day, ask yourself how you can lend a hand
Supporting others, not yourself, is what makes a true command
The Queen’s example, a shining light
Acknowledging and elevating others, always in her sight
Breaking through barriers, supporting good causes
Making everyone feel valued, she’s a true leader who never paused
Let us all follow in her regal path
Celebrating each other’s achievements, no aftermath
Age and gender, never to be a limitation
We can all make a positive impact on this nation
Remember, true leadership is not about fame
It’s measured by the success and well-being of your game
So lead with service, and watch your people thrive
For a true leader empowers, and helps their people to survive.
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Maheshika Halbeisen (The Job Well Done: The Queen's Way to Successful Leadership)
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There is only one way for women to reach full human potential—by participating in the mainstream of society, by exercising their own voice in all the decisions shaping that society. For women to have full identity and freedom, they must have economic independence. Breaking through the barriers that had kept them from the jobs and professions rewarded by society was the first step, but it wasn’t sufficient. It would be necessary to change the rules of the game to restructure professions, marriage, the family, the home. The manner in which offices and hospitals are structured, along the rigid, separate, unequal, unbridgeable lines of secretary/executive, nurse/doctor, embodies and perpetuates the feminine mystique. But the economic part would never be complete unless a dollar value was somehow put on the work done by women in the home, at least in terms of social security, pensions, retirement pay. And housework and child rearing would have to be more equally shared by husband, wife, and society. Equality and human dignity are not possible for women if they are not able to earn. When the young radical kids came into the movement, they said it was “boring” or “reformist” or “capitalist co-option” to place so much emphasis on jobs and education. But very few women can afford to ignore the elementary economic facts of life. Only economic independence can free a woman to marry for love, not for status or financial support, or to leave a loveless, intolerable, humiliating marriage, or to eat, dress, rest, and move if she plans not to marry. But the importance of work for women goes beyond economics. How else can women participate in the action and decisions of an advanced industrial society unless they have the training and opportunity and skills that come from participating in it?
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Betty Friedan (The Feminine Mystique)
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You have to take a leap of faith and believe that living an authentic life of personal power and pride is more important than the fear and pain that have been holding you back.
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Sari Solden (A Radical Guide for Women with ADHD: Embrace Neurodiversity, Live Boldly, and Break Through Barriers)
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Today I celebrate women who are:
Vulnerable but strong.
Sensitive but assertive.
Always learning but intelligent.
Scared but brave.
Victims but survivors.
Helpless but selfless.
Heartbroken but healers.
Women who break glass-ceilings & barriers.
I see you. I am with you. I am you.
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Mitta Xinindlu
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Trust the Divine Feminine. Let Her guide you. She will not take you away from God or Jesus. She is back and She will lead you to truth and give you strength to break the barriers of fear and oppression. She is your Wonder Woman.
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Mary Ellen Lukas
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When we win the award, I feel something.
When we get the promotion, I feel something.
When we break barriers, I feel something.
But I also feels something when we are dying in the streets. When we are derided for our bodies even as white women try to imitate them. When feminism is limited to the needs of whiteness, or when Blackness is used for profit without acknowledging the brilliance of the creators.
I feel something when a white woman mocks the body of Serena Williams by stuffing padding in her skirt and top. When First Lady Michelle Obama is called a monkey. When nine men and women are murdered in a church because they are Black.
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Austin Channing Brown (I'm Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made for Whiteness)
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We often leave out experiences or information that doesn’t fit with the incomplete picture or story we have been telling ourselves. If we only see the challenges, we won’t have anywhere to add new positive experiences—and they will disappear before they have room to take root and grow.
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Sari Solden (A Radical Guide for Women with ADHD: Embrace Neurodiversity, Live Boldly, and Break Through Barriers)
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President Carter appointed a barrier-breaking number of women—40—to lifetime federal judgeships.45
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Ruth Bader Ginsburg (My Own Words)
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Just as computer science was erecting barriers to entry, medicine—an equally competitive and selective field—was adjusting them. In the late 1960s and early 1970s, dozens of new medical schools opened across the country, and many of the newly created spots went to women. Standardized entry exams also began to change. In 1977, the MCAT, a test for entrance into medical school, was revamped to reduce cultural and social bias. But the game changer was the implementation of Title IX, which prohibits sexual discrimination in educational programs. From then on, if a woman could score high enough on the newly revised MCATs and meet other requirements, med schools could not legally deny her entry, and women poured in. Why wasn’t the same progress being made in computer science? Professor Eric Roberts, now at Stanford, was chairing the computer science department at Wellesley when the department instituted a GPA threshold. Of that period he later wrote, “In the 1970s, students were welcomed eagerly into this new and exciting field. Around 1984, everything changed. Instead of welcoming students, departments began trying to push them away.
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Emily Chang (Brotopia: Breaking Up the Boys' Club of Silicon Valley)
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Women have so much to contribute to the cybersecurity field. Breaking barriers is more than just populating the cybersecurity space with a female presence, but about contributing fresh and different perspectives to a dynamic landscape that requires agile and adaptable thinking.
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Ludmila Morozova-Buss