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Racism, prejudice, dishonesty, laziness, gluttony, materialism, selfishness—all these grow more unpleasant the longer you have to accommodate them. If you’re already tired of having to excuse your partner of one (or certainly several) of these, you’re going to have a tough time when it comes to marital satisfaction twenty years from now.
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Gary L. Thomas (The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why?)