Kristin Hannah The Nightingale Quotes

If I have learned anything in this long life of mine, it is this: in love we find out who we want to be; in war we find out who we are.

But love has to be stronger than hate, or there is no future for us.

Men tell stories. Women get on with it. For us it was a shadow war. There were no parades for us when it was over, no medals or mentions in history books. We did what we had to during the war, and when it was over, we picked up the pieces and started our lives over.

Wounds heal. Love lasts. We remain.

I always thought it was what I wanted: to be loved and admired. Now I think perhaps I'd like to be known.

Some stories don’t have happy endings. Even love stories. Maybe especially love stories.

Love. It was the beginning and end of everything, the foundation and the ceiling and the air in between.

I know that grief, like regret, settles into our DNA and remains forever a part of us.

Perhaps that’s why I find myself looking backward. The past has a clarity I can no longer see in the present.

I am a mother and mothers don’t have the luxury of falling apart in front of their children, even when they are afraid, even when their children are adults.

Today’s young people want to know everything about everyone. They think talking about a problem will solve it. I come from a quieter generation. We understand the value of forgetting, the lure of reinvention.

It is easy to disappear when no one is looking at you.

Tante Isabelle says it’s better to be bold than meek. She says if you jump off a cliff at least you’ll fly before you fall.

You are my sunlight in the dark and the ground beneath my feet.

But when he looked at her—and she looked at him—they both knew that there was something worse than kissing the wrong person. It was wanting to.

In love we find out who we want to be, in war we find out who we are.

It is not biology that determines fatherhood. It is love.

She wanted to bottle how safe she felt in this moment, so she could drink of it later when loneliness and fear left her parched.

You’re not alone, and you’re not the one in charge,” Mother said gently. “Ask for help when you need it, and give help when you can. I think that is how we serve God—and each other and ourselves—in times as dark as these.

If you’re going through hell, keep going.