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If your actions create a legacy that inspires others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, then, you are an excellent leader.
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Dolly Parton
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Those who mistrust their own abilities are being too wicked to themselves, discouraging themselves from doing what they should have been excelling in. If you are good at discouraging yourself, you can't be a good leader because leadership is built on inspiring others to face challenges.
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Israelmore Ayivor
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Teach them the quiet words of kindness, to live beyond themselves. Urge them toward excellence, drive them toward gentleness, pull them deep into yourself, pull them upward toward manhood, but softly like an angel arranging clouds. Let your spirit move through them softly.
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Pat Conroy (The Prince of Tides)
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If a man is known by the company he keeps, so also his character is reflected in the books he reads.
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J. Oswald Sanders (Spiritual Leadership: Principles of Excellence for Every Believer)
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It had become usual to give Napoleon the Credit for every Successful achievement and every stroke of good fortune. You would often hear one hen remark to another, “Under the guidance of our leader, Comrade Napoleon, I have laid five eggs in six days” or two cows, enjoying a drink at the pool, would exclaim,
“thanks to the leadership of Comrade Napoleon, how excellent this water tastes!”...
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George Orwell (Animal Farm)
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Do you know great minds enjoy excellence, average minds love mediocrity and small minds adore comfort zones?
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Onyi Anyado
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Tweet others the way you want to be tweeted.
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Germany Kent (You Are What You Tweet: Harness the Power of Twitter to Create a Happier, Healthier Life)
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The race for excellence has no finish line.
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Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum (رؤيتي)
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When you walk in silence your excellence will always speak for you.
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Onyi Anyado
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Passionate people are always ready to stand for their dreams even if no one stand with them. They vote and vote alone for their dreams but never loss their nomination for excellent leadership!
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Israelmore Ayivor (The Great Hand Book of Quotes)
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So many people think that they are not gifted because they don’t have an obvious talent that people can recognize because it doesn’t fall under the creative arts category—writing, dancing, music, acting, art or singing. Sadly, they let their real talents go undeveloped, while they chase after fame. I am grateful for the people with obscure unremarked talents because they make our lives easier---inventors, organizers, planners, peacemakers, communicators, activists, scientists, and so forth. However, there is one gift that trumps all other talents—being an excellent parent. If you can successfully raise a child in this day in age to have integrity then you have left a legacy that future generations will benefit from.
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Shannon L. Alder
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When you walk in distinction, even the photocopying machine can’t replicate your unique quality.
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Onyi Anyado
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Dare to courageous in life.
You have nothing to lose.
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Lailah Gifty Akita
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What the average call excellent, the excellent call average.
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Onyi Anyado
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Ego can’t sleep. It micro-manages. It disempowers. It reduces our capability. It excels in control.
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Robert K. Greenleaf (Servant Leadership: A Journey into the Nature of Legitimate Power and Greatness)
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Yes, content is king but excellence is his queen. ~ Onyi Anyado.
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Onyi Anyado
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Today's Arab crisis is not one of money, men, morale, land or resources ... The real crisis is rather one of leadership, management and perennial egotism.
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Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum (My Vision Challenges In The Race For Excellence)
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True leaders are willing to die for their dreams. They don't oppress with ignorance; they impress with visions". They live like Martin Luther King Jr, Nelson Mandela...
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Israelmore Ayivor
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companies should focus on one of three value disciplines: operational excellence, product leadership, or customer intimacy.
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Alexander Osterwalder (Business Model Generation: A Handbook for Visionaries, Game Changers, and Challengers (The Strategyzer Series 1))
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Learn to master your thoughts and watch closely what you deposit into your spirit. Speak over your life. Living in peace has transformative power.
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Germany Kent
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If a Christian is not willing to rise early and work late, to expend greater effort in diligent study and faithful work, that person will not change a generation. Fatigue is the price of leadership. Mediocrity is the result of never getting tired.
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J. Oswald Sanders (Spiritual Leadership: Principles of Excellence For Every Believer (Sanders Spiritual Growth Series))
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Directing attention toward where it needs to go is a primal task of leadership.
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Daniel Goleman (Focus: The Hidden Driver of Excellence)
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If you don’t value excellence, you won’t achieve excellence.
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Glenn C. Stewart
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If someone does a Great job or provide excellent service, make sure to recognize and reward them! If someone wrote a book you enjoy, tell them. If you want people to put out their best and to strive for excellence, encourage and support them. - Strong by Kailin Gow on Leadership
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Kailin Gow
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Good leadership puts the interests of the community as a whole before those of any specific group. Credibility of leadership can only be established through action and not words.
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Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum (My Vision Challenges In The Race For Excellence)
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If you as a leader allow people to halfway do their jobs and don’t demand excellence as a prerequisite to keeping their job, you will create a culture of mediocrity.
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Dave Ramsey (EntreLeadership: 20 Years of Practical Business Wisdom from the Trenches)
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Your need to feel significant will never be met, until you can conquer your fear and manage your focus.
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Shannon L. Alder
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If you are going to achieve excellence in big things, you develop the habit in little matters. Excellence is not an exception, it is a prevailing attitude.
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Oren Harari (The Leadership Secrets of Colin Powell)
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We must be the ones to re-define the world class standards of excellence
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Fela Durotoye
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In a world full of daisies dare to be a rose.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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We weren't born to create excuses, we were born to create excellence.
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Janna Cachola
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Leadership is bringing people into new realms of excellence and challenging them to become distinguished in their chosen field.
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Onyi Anyado
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Anyaele Sam Chiyson Leadership Law of Influence: It takes an influential leader to excellently raise up leaders of influence.
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Anyaele Sam Chiyson (The Sagacity of Sage)
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What matters more than where you are is the direction you are heading.
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Cameron C. Taylor (Does Your Bag Have Holes? 24 Truths That Lead to Financial and Spiritual Freedom)
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Have an attitude of positive expectation.
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Germany Kent
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Do what you love and love what you do, with excellence.
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Onyi Anyado
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One thing is undeniably clear. We have all had bad experiences, we have all had tragedies in our lives which help to shape who we are.
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J. Loren Norris
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If you cannot see where you are going, ask someone who has been there before.
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J. Loren Norris
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good leadership can help creative people stay on the path to excellence no matter what business they’re in.
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Ed Catmull (Creativity, Inc.: Overcoming the Unseen Forces That Stand in the Way of True Inspiration)
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Humility is a most excellent barometer," he said, "and ought to be looked for in all those we are made to look up to.
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Alan Bradley (The Golden Tresses of the Dead (Flavia de Luce, #10))
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Do what no one else can do and you will become what no one else can become.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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EQ is so critical to success that it accounts for 58 percent of performance in all types of jobs. It’s the single biggest predictor of performance in the workplace and the strongest driver of leadership and personal excellence.
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Travis Bradberry (Emotional Intelligence 2.0)
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A visionary is a leader of excellence who sees what others do not see, who achieves for now and plans for the future, who positively impacts different generations and raises up other visionaries.
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Onyi Anyado
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The present representative of the Dedlocks is an excellent master. He supposes all his dependents to be utterly bereft of individual characters, intentions, or opinions, and is persuaded that he was born to supersede the necessity of their having any. If he were to make a discovery to the contrary, he would be simply stunned — would never recover himself, most likely, except to gasp and die.
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Charles Dickens (Bleak House)
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If you pair excellence with humility, people not only won’t run over you, they will respect you.
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John C. Maxwell (Good Leaders Ask Great Questions: Your Foundation for Successful Leadership)
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The secular mind and heart, however gifted and personally charming, has no place in the leadership of the church.
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J. Oswald Sanders (Spiritual Leadership: A Commitment to Excellence for Every Believer (Sanders Spiritual Growth Series))
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One reason why people are unable to understand great Christian classics is that they are trying to understand without any intention of obeying them.
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J. Oswald Sanders (Spiritual Leadership: Principles of Excellence For Every Believer (Sanders Spiritual Growth Series))
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Christ manifests his divine leadership in your sincere followership. Christ's followers become true leaders because Christ is the model of true leadership.
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Israelmore Ayivor
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No experience of the failure of his policy could shake his belief in its essential excellence.
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Babara Tuchman
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Your comfort zone is not that comfortable.
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Onyi Anyado
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The call of distinction cannot be heard by the average, neither can the vision of distinction be seen by the eyes of the mediocre.
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Onyi Anyado
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Serving my generation with excellence will in turn mean my generation can lead with excellence.
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Onyi Anyado
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Leaders do not conform; they reform. If you conform, you are nurturing mediocrity. If you reform, you are breeding change.
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Israelmore Ayivor (Leaders' Ladder)
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Excellence comes when we balance quality with quantity.
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Amit Ray (Mindfulness Meditation for Corporate Leadership and Management)
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Leaders must draw the best out of people, and friendship does that far better than prolonged argument or mere logic.
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J. Oswald Sanders (Spiritual Leadership: Principles of Excellence For Every Believer (Sanders Spiritual Growth Series))
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Talent silences your competition; genius deafens them.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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Okay, here’s a cheat I learned in a leadership seminar. It’s called active listening. Someone says something, a complaint, or a criticism, or they’re excited about something that happened to them. For a lot of us, our instinct is to offer a solution, or expand on an idea, to fix or offer something. The key is to think about how they’re feeling, be receptive to that, and parrot it back to them. They just got a new car, and they’re happy about it? A simple ‘that’s excellent’ or ‘you must be so proud’ works. It leaves room for them to keep talking, to know you’re listening. For your teammate who just lost someone she obviously cared about, just recognizing that she’s upset and she’s right to feel upset, that’s enough.
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Wildbow (Worm (Parahumans, #1))
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good leadership means leading the way, not hectoring other people to do things your way. Bullying, bickering and competing for dominance are, event in a low-risk situation, excellent ways to destroy morale and diminish productivity.
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Chris Hadfield (An Astronaut's Guide to Life on Earth)
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A person with low standards will forever be walking. A person with high standard will soon stop walking and start running. Later, they’ll soon stop running and start galloping. The next time you see him, he’s either flying or soaring.
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Israelmore Ayivor (Leaders' Ladder)
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Core values serve as a lighthouse when the fog of life seems to leave you wandering in circles; when you encounter that moment where every decision is a tough one and no choice seems to clearly be the better choice.
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J. Loren Norris
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Don’t mistake activity for achievement. To produce results, tasks must be well organized and properly executed; otherwise, it’s no different from children running around the playground—everybody is doing something, but nothing is being done; lots of activity, no achievement.
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John Wooden (Coach Wooden's Leadership Game Plan for Success: 12 Lessons for Extraordinary Performance and Personal Excellence)
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We have to change the culture from one in which people simply do their own job in their own function to make their own numbers look good (a vertical focus) to one in which people are focused horizontally on the customer and on improving value streams that deliver value across functions.
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Jeffrey K. Liker (The Toyota Way to Lean Leadership: Achieving and Sustaining Excellence Through Leadership Development)
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We must humble ourselves before [others] so we may learn from what others have lived. It is only when we have added their expertise to our own that we can truly excel towards our most ambitious goals and reach our fullest potential.
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A.J. Darkholme (Rise of the Morningstar (The Morningstar Chronicles, #1))
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When it comes to leaders we have, if anything, a superabundance—hundreds of Pied Pipers…ready and anxious to lead the population. They are scurrying around, collecting consensus, gathering as wide an acceptance as possible. But what they are not doing, very notably, is standing still and saying, ' This is what I believe. This I will do and that I will not do. This is my code of behavior and that is outside it. This is excellent and that is trash.' There is an abdication of moral leadership in the sense of a general unwillingness to state standards….Of all the ills that our poor…society is heir to, the focal one, it seems to me, from which so much of our uneasiness and confusion derive, is the absence of standards. We are too unsure of ourselves to assert them, to stick by them, if necessary in the case of persons who occupy positions of authority, to impose them. We seem to be afflicted by a widespread and eroding reluctance to take any stand on any values, moral, behavioral or esthetic.
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Barbara W. Tuchman
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Do you know invisible determination and effort will always accomplish visible distinction and excellence?
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Onyi Anyado
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A leader who sows confidence will reap excellency and legacy. A leader who sows fear will reap stagnancy or complacency.
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Israelmore Ayivor (Leaders' Ladder)
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If records refuse to be broken, shatter them.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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An entrepreneur is a leader of excellence, trailblazer and pioneer who constantly brings change to their generation.
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Onyi Anyado
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Serving my generation with excellence will mean my generation can in turn lead with excellence.
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Onyi Anyado
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Writing and achieving your goals is not failure, not having a goal to write in the first place is the start of failure.
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Onyi Anyado
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Leaders motivate people to understand that they can do better than they’ve already done and go farther than they’ve reached.
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Israelmore Ayivor (Leaders' Ladder)
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Entrepreneur, if you're going to start up, make sure you start up with excellence in mind
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Onyi Anyado
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The act of deeply thinking through problems, energizing people, and aligning them toward a common goal is the only way to practice and develop real leadership ability.
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Jeffrey K. Liker (The Toyota Way to Lean Leadership: Achieving and Sustaining Excellence Through Leadership Development)
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Difficulties are God’s curriculum for those who want to excel.
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Samuel R. Chand (Leadership Pain: The Classroom for Growth)
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People who swim very well in troubled waters are respected and celebrated than those who swim excellently in calm waters.
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Israelmore Ayivor (Leaders' Frontpage: Leadership Insights from 21 Martin Luther King Jr. Thoughts)
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It's excellence in leadership when everyone wants to manufacture a black shoe and you manufacture a designer black shoe with gold medal on top. Do something new; do something better!
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Israelmore Ayivor
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Define excellence vividly, quantitatively. Paint a picture for your most talented employees of what excellence looks like. Keep everyone pushing and pushing toward the right-hand edge of the bell curve.
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Marcus Buckingham
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There has to be a way to redirect employee's driving ambition and to channel it more productively. There is. Create heroes in every role. Make every role, performed at excellence, a respected profession.
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Marcus Buckingham
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Be not professional in what you do, rather be excellent. Excellence has life in it - it has colors in it - it has sweetness in it - whereas professionalism is a dead corpse exuding the disgusting smell of obedience. Excellence requires no obedience, yet in excellence you act your best, without all the life-sucking efforts.
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Abhijit Naskar (Time to Save Medicine)
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Serving God should elevate our level of excellence in every part of our lives.
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Brad Lomenick (H3 Leadership: Be Humble. Stay Hungry. Always Hustle.)
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The price of excellence in teamwork is eternal vigilance
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John Adair (Develop Your Leadership Skills (Creating Success))
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Look Fabian, the world is full of sheep, don’t settle for being a sheep, even if you do reside over those creatures, act more like a Ram.
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T.A. Uner (Stone Ram (Leopard King Saga, #1.3))
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An ambitious amateur will rise above a complacent master.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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Your Fight With Someone Over An Issue Doesn't Change That Person...It Only Gets You Burnt Out...People Change When They Make-up Their Minds To Change! Never Forget That...
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu (My Heritage)
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Leaders are readers, disciples want to be taught and everyone has gifts within that need to be coached to excellence.
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Wayde Goodall (Why Great Men Fall)
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Real Fathers are Role Models worthy of emulation. They choose to live exemplary lifestyles of leadership and excellence
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Fela Durotoye
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You have to grab the goal, visualise your vision, excel in excellence and then become distinct in distinction.
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Onyi Anyado
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Serving my generation with excellence will mean in turn, my generation can lead with excellence.
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Onyi Anyado
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Get excellence or live average.
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Onyi Anyado
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A goal is not just an object on a pitch; it is also a milestone on your journey of excellence.
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Onyi Anyado
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A true leader does not derive power from his position, but from his ethics, from people’s love for him, and from his knowledge, education and excellence in his field of work.
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Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum (Flashes of Thought)
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My role as a role model is to teach my generation how to excel in the role of distinction.
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Onyi Anyado
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Data has no ego and makes an excellent co-pilot.
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Jay Samit (Disrupt You!: Master Personal Transformation, Seize Opportunity, and Thrive in the Era of Endless Innovation)
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Start local, think global & constantly raise the bar of excellence.
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Onyi Anyado
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James and John wanted the glory, but not the cup of shame; the crown, but not the cross; the role of master, but not servant.
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J. Oswald Sanders (Spiritual Leadership: Principles of Excellence For Every Believer (Sanders Spiritual Growth Series))
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No leader lives a day without criticism, and humility will never be more on trial than when criticism comes.
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J. Oswald Sanders (Spiritual Leadership: Principles of Excellence For Every Believer (Sanders Spiritual Growth Series))
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The use of a good process that engages people is much more desirable, even if it does not initially achieve all the results.
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Jeffrey K. Liker (The Toyota Way to Lean Leadership: Achieving and Sustaining Excellence through Leadership Development)
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Down with, "Fake it, till you make it."
Up with, "Make it so you don't have to fake it!
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Raju Mandhyan
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Breaking from the herd is better than getting lost in it.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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I start with the premise that the function of leadership is to produce more leaders, not more followers. —Ralph Nader, consumer advocate
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Jeffrey K. Liker (The Toyota Way to Lean Leadership: Achieving and Sustaining Excellence through Leadership Development)
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Dream big and dare to make it happen. You have a heavy power; don’t misuse it carrying a paperweight load. Make it big!
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Israelmore Ayivor (Leaders' Watchwords)
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You can't achieve excellence in life if you fear opinion.
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Janna Cachola
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Having a sense of urgency is good, but ensure to bring an essence of excellence in what you do.
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Janna Cachola (Lead by choice, not by checks)
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You become like that, what you admire most. By admiring excellence and practicing, it can boost you to become excellent.
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Mark LaMoure
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The sweeper of the street is a leader in his own respect provided he does his job well with all love, diligence and attention than anyone would do when given the same broom sticks.
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Israelmore Ayivor (Leaders' Watchwords)
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The 'U' goes before 'ME' in Customer.
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Janna Cachola
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Why live my personal values at work? This is an excellent question to ask. If your attorneys are planning an insanity defense.
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Stan Slap
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True leaders know that time spent listening is well invested.
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J. Oswald Sanders (Spiritual Leadership: Principles of Excellence For Every Believer (Sanders Spiritual Growth Series))
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tact is the ability to deal with people sensitively, to avoid giving offense, to have a “feel” for the proper words or responses to a delicate situation.
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J. Oswald Sanders (Spiritual Leadership: Principles of Excellence for Every Believer (Sanders Spiritual Growth Series))
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True greatness, true leadership, is found in giving yourself in service to others, not in coaxing or inducing others to serve
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J. Oswald Sanders (Spiritual Leadership: A Commitment to Excellence for Every Believer (Sanders Spiritual Growth Series))
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Sports teach us how to persevere. How to deal with adversity. How to become part of a single heartbeat that defines a team. Sports teach lessons in leadership, respect, and courage.
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Gary Mack (Mind Gym: An Athlete's Guide to Inner Excellence)
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Everyone is a business person. You must be in the business of managing your time. Managing your time means managing your life. Good time managers are good life managers, and vice versa.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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Don't apologize for expressing passion.
Don't back down when it comes to your integrity.
Don't let anyone undermine your standards for the sake of ease.
Be a character of excellence, NOT excuses.
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Janna Cachola
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What do the people closest to you value? Make a list of the most important people in your life-from home, work, church, hobbies, and so on. After making the list, write what each person values most. Then rate yourself on a scale of 1 (poorly) to 10 (excellently) on how well you relate to that person's values. If you can't articulate what someone values or you score lower than an 8 in relating to that person, spend more time with him or her to improve.
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John C. Maxwell (The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: Follow Them and People Will Follow You)
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Of the various qualities of leadership, women were rated far, far ahead of men on being “honest,” “intelligent,” “compassionate,” “outgoing,” and “creative,” and were considered just as “hardworking” and “ambitious” as men. Men were perceived as excelling only in being “decisive.”1 The preference for men as leaders, then, suggests that the frame for respondents emphasized the role of decisiveness in leadership.
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Linda Tarr-Whelan (Women Lead the Way: Your Guide to Stepping Up to Leadership and Changing the World)
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Bob Iger, Disney's chief operating officer, had to step in and do damage control. He was as sensible and solid as those around him were volatile. His background was in television; he had been president of the ABC network, which was acquired in 1996 by Disney. His reputation was as an corporate suit, and he excelled at deft management, but he also had a sharp eye for talent, a good-humored ability to understand people, and a quiet flair that he was secure enough to keep muted. Unlike Eisner and Jobs, he had a disciplined calm, which helped him deal with large egos. " Steve did some grandstanding by announcing that he was ending talks with us," Iger later recalled. " We went into crisis mode and I developed some talking points to settle things down.
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Walter Isaacson (Steve Jobs)
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In (hyper-loyal) cultures, loyalty is so highly prized that it covers a multitude of leadership sins. I’ve seen numerous bad leaders cover their ineptitude by stressing the importance of loyalty over competence. They teach that loyalty is more important than excellence and they use that idea to distract the team from their own inability to perform.
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Phil Cooke
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When leaders tolerate mediocrity, it’s a cancer that spreads like wildfire.
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Frank Sonnenberg (Listen to Your Conscience: That's Why You Have One)
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Effective leaders can never be content with mediocrity. They make excellence a priority.
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Gift Gugu Mona (The Effective Leadership Prototype for a Modern Day Leader)
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Don't be ashamed to be high maintenance when it comes to your development.
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Janna Cachola
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If you don't like hard work, get used to mediocrity.
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Janna Cachola
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There are structure and strategies in leadership but you can add excellence and perfection to it.
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Anyaele Sam Chiyson (The Sagacity of Sage)
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We can change the NEWS if we can enhance academic excellence,youth leadership,blissful marriages & world peace.
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Anyaele Sam Chiyson (The Sagacity of Sage)
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As I tell my children, 'If you are going to do something, do your best while you're doing it.
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Michelle Moore (Selling Simplified)
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Entrepreneur, if your going to start up, make sure you start up with excellence in mind.
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Onyi Anyado
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The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision. HELEN KELLER
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Pat Williams (The Leadership Excellence Devotional: The Seven Sides of Leadership in Daily Life)
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Visualize yourself at your best. Be determined to earn the proud badge of excellence. By working hard and practicing, one day you will earn its golden title.
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Mark F. LaMoure
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He who cannot swim should neither chase the dolphins nor play with sharks. For him disaster awaits like sunrise.
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J. Loren Norris
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SEEK SIGNIFICANT CHANGE • Never be content with performance or results. • Remove all excuses for getting to the next level. Don’t say “no”; ask
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John Wooden (Coach Wooden's Leadership Game Plan for Success: 12 Lessons for Extraordinary Performance and Personal Excellence)
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Entrepreneur, your either raising the bar of excellence or your exhaling at the bar which is expensive.
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Onyi Anyado
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The change "grief cycle", for some people, may be excitement, enthusiasm, engagement, effort, and excellence.
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Paul Gibbons (The Science of Successful Organizational Change: How Leaders Set Strategy, Change Behavior, and Create an Agile Culture)
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Part of the pursuit of excellence involves eliminating as many surprises as possible because life is full of the unexpected.
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Alex Ferguson (Leading: Lessons in leadership from the legendary Manchester United manager)
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Our values have led us where we are in life right now. We can't excel beyond the power behind our values that we have embraced...
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Assegid Habtewold (The 9 Cardinal Building Blocks: For continued success in leadership)
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Creating the right mind-set and a positive attitude today, will help you to start crafting a clear plan of how you intend to make your life a success.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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People who achieve marvelously in critical challenges are commended than people who achieve same things on the silver platter.
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Israelmore Ayivor (Leaders' Frontpage: Leadership Insights from 21 Martin Luther King Jr. Thoughts)
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My belief is that good leadership can help creative people stay on the path to excellence no matter what business they’re in.
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Ed Catmull (Creativity, Inc.: Overcoming the Unseen Forces That Stand in the Way of True Inspiration)
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If EXCELLENCE is one of your values, not only you self-critic and evaluate your performance consistently, you BEG others for honest feedback...
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Assegid Habtewold (The 9 Cardinal Building Blocks: For continued success in leadership)
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At the end of the day, our organisations are here for people. We must not only be about product innovations, we must also be about innovation in leadership.
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Janna Cachola
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You are an ambassador of your company as soon as you put your uniform on
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Janna Cachola (Lead by choice, not by checks)
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Passion gives power while attitude designs excellence! You can do it because you have the passion; you can do it very well because you have the right attitude!
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Israelmore Ayivor (Leaders' Watchwords)
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The unfairness of judging others comes in that we judge them on the basis of our own values and beliefs, yet we can never exactly stand on common ground.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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My prayer;Lord grant me the spirit of excellency.
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Lailah Gifty Akita (Think Great: Be Great! (Beautiful Quotes, #1))
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Be punctual; it shows your respect for other people.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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John Wooden focused almost entirely on improvement in the present moment. He let the score—winning—take care of itself. Don’t let yesterday take up too much of today.
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John Wooden (Coach Wooden's Leadership Game Plan for Success: 12 Lessons for Extraordinary Performance and Personal Excellence)
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Courage is a habit that is learned by acting courageously whenever the quality of courage is required.
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Brian Tracy (12 Disciplines of Leadership Excellence: How Leaders Achieve Sustainable High Performance)
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There are no perfect decisions, only excellent applications.
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Todd Stocker (Becoming The Fulfilled Leader)
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Entrepreneur, you don't need 20 years of experience in your industry but rather, you do need an idea that will bring disruption over the next 20 plus years. ~
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Onyi Anyado (The Doorway to Distinction: 200 Quotes To Inspire You To Reach New Levels Of Excellence)
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Good management has considerable impact on engagement levels of the employees and drives them towards excellent performances.
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Abhishek Ratna (No Parking. No Halt. Success Non Stop!)
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Trademark yourself with the mark of excellence.
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Mark F. LaMoure
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We seek excellence before we seek understanding, wisdom before we gain knowledge, success before we understand hardwork; for this reason we need great teachers and leaders.
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Wayne Chirisa
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Be excellent in your own terms.
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Abhijit Naskar (The Education Decree)
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It is not speed that matters, it's persistence.
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Abhijit Naskar (The Film Testament)
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Don't stop believing,
Don't be afraid of change,
Don't underestimate yourself,
Don't make excuses,
Don't cheat yourself,
Don't ever ever STOP!
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Germany Kent
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It is not just about what you can do that will make you a leader. It is about how well you can do it.
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Israelmore Ayivor (Leaders' Frontpage: Leadership Insights from 21 Martin Luther King Jr. Thoughts)
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Be a character of excellence, not excuses
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Janna Cachola
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When you turn your problem into passion, your solution becomes success.
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Janna Cachola
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Engagement is on task behaviour, Engagement gets the job done.
Presence is an emotional behaviour, Presence is the seed for excellence. Don't just engage in your work, be present too.
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Janna Cachola
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By adopting an agile mindset and providing improved engagement, collaboration, transparency, and adaptability via Scrum's values, roles, events, and artifacts, the results were excellent.
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Scott M. Graffius (Agile Transformation: A Brief Story of How an Entertainment Company Developed New Capabilities and Unlocked Business Agility to Thrive in an Era of Rapid Change)
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Excellence doesn’t come by obeying doctrines. Excellence comes through recognizing the flaws in the prevailing doctrines of the society and throwing them away if necessary in the path of progress.
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Abhijit Naskar (The Education Decree)
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High performance teams have six characteristics that allow them to consistently achieve exceptional levels of results: Common Purpose Crystal Clear Roles Accepted Leadership Effective Processes Solid Relationships Excellent Communication
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Pat MacMillan (The Performance Factor: Unlocking the Secrets of Teamwork)
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The past cannot change what is to come. The work that you do each and every day is the only true way to improve and prepare yourself for what is to come. You cannot change the past, but you can influence the future by what you do today.” —
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John Wooden (Coach Wooden's Leadership Game Plan for Success: 12 Lessons for Extraordinary Performance and Personal Excellence)
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Where there is no rest there is energy.
Where there is no disruption there is normality.
Where there is no profit there is bankruptcy.
Where there is no gain there is insolvency.
Where there is no injury there is safety.
Where there is no team there is individuality.
Where there is no hindrance there is opportunity.
Where there is no injury there is safety.
Where there is no sense there is inefficiency.
Where there is no failiure there is competency.
Where there is no decline there is industry.
Where there is no strength there is infirmity.
Where there is no idleness there is activity.
Where there is no weakness there is intensity.
Where there is no failiure there is industry.
Where there is no leadership there is anarchy.
Where there is no repetition there is originality.
Where there is no increase there is deficiency.
Where there is no ignorance there is capacity.
Where there is no impotence there is ability.
Where there is no falseness there is authenticity.
Where there is no excellence there is mediocrity.
Where there is no mistake there is quality.
Where there is no amatuer there is ingenuity.
Where there is no error there is mastery.
Where there is no defect there is virtuosity.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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The lesson: good leadership means leading the way, not hectoring other people to do things your way. Bullying, bickering and competing for dominance are, even in a low-risk situation, excellent ways to destroy morale and diminish productivity.
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Chris Hadfield (An Astronaut's Guide to Life on Earth)
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No matter how great you are at what you do, as long as you remain known only within your own family circles, then you and your talent will die in obscurity and irrelevance. Position yourself to influence the masses by having a media, marketing and communication strategy.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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Teaching simply means, find your niche and excel at it! Teach children. Teach patience. Show compassion....Your actions as a servant are teachable moments. In other words, don't be a servant alone. Bring someone beside you and teach them how to serve with a willing heart.
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Mary Rodman (Mary Magdalene a Woman of Resilience)
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good leadership means leading the way, not hectoring other people to do things your way. Bullying, bickering and competing for dominance are, even in a low-risk situation, excellent ways to destroy morale and diminish productivity. A few NASA teams have in fact come somewhat unglued
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Chris Hadfield (An Astronaut's Guide to Life on Earth)
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The key questions and challenges that we must all continue to pose and remind this key sector (the media) should be, 'Do you realize the power you have, to build and to destroy; to promote success or failure; to bring life or death to a cause or talent; to give a platform or take it away?
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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Too often we don’t call out a wrong or expect ourselves or others to act with routine integrity, excellence, or love. There has been a worldwide failure in leadership, birthing an apathetic populace, unjustifiable poverty, unconscionable greed, and a globe ravaged and booby-trapped by war.
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Brendon Burchard (The Motivation Manifesto: 9 Declarations to Claim Your Personal Power)
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Passion is so key in leading and creating excellence that I will hire passion over education or talent every time. I prefer to have both, but given a choice I will take passion. La Rochefoucauld once said, “The most untutored person with passion is more persuasive than the most eloquent without.
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Dave Ramsey (EntreLeadership: 20 Years of Practical Business Wisdom from the Trenches)
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On the cross, leadership dies. On the cross, success dies. On the cross, skills die, and excellence dies. All of my strengths—nailed to the cross. All of my weaknesses—nailed to the cross. All of my yearnings for bigger and better, for anything other than Christ himself—nailed to that same cross.
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Alicia Britt Chole (40 Days of Decrease: A Different Kind of Hunger. A Different Kind of Fast.)
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Learn from mistakes and set-backs (yours and other people’s), pick yourself up, make necessary changes and try again. I once came across a saying that went something like, “The wise learn from the mistakes made by fools!” So at some point we all have been fools, I suppose, since we all make mistakes.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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Serious businesses and lenders will tell you that managing your cash flow is one of the most important aspects in the health of any business. Managing you time flow is key to a healthy and successful life, because, Time is equal to Life. The quality of time expenditure is in direct proportion to the quality of life enjoyed.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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You are now creating many possibilities, revolving your life around an entity with no bounds and no limits. What can this body do once it understands its real power? You can either guard it with your life and do what is necessary to survive, or you can lead and create the superpower that it possesses by Living. Growing. Knowing.
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Jay Ibrahim (Raise the Bar: To live a life of Excellence in Health, Wealth, Relationship and Spirituality)
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Realise your Stewardship role as a parent – you raise children to offer a quality gift to society. Even your spouse should not be treated as an object or possession you own; support them to be the best of what they were created to be. Do your part and trust God for the rest. If you have empowered them, trust them to be responsible.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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With respect to relationships within the church, the leader is to be above reproach. Detractors should not have a rung to stand on. If a charge is preferred against him, it fails because his life affords no grounds for reproach or indictment of wrongdoing. His adversary finds no opening for a smear campaign, rumor mongering, or gossip.
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J. Oswald Sanders (Spiritual Leadership: Principles of Excellence For Every Believer (Sanders Spiritual Growth Series))
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The clever seek comfort,
the wise seek peace.
The clever seek pleasure,
the wise seek contentment.
The clever seek riches,
the wise seek happiness.
The clever seek laughter,
the wise seek joy.
The clever seek company,
the wise seek comrades.
The clever seek crowds,
the wise seek friends.
The clever seek approval,
the wise seek respect.
The clever seek fame,
the wise seek reverence.
The clever seek acquaintances,
the wise seek allies.
The clever seek accomplices,
the wise seek helpers.
The clever seek associates,
the wise seek partners.
The clever seek connections,
the wise seek mentors.
The clever seek accolades,
the wise seek excellence.
The clever seek recognition,
the wise seek awards.
The clever seek prominence,
the wise seek followers.
The clever seek leadership,
the wise seek impact.
The clever seek power,
the wise seek influence.
The clever seek titles,
the wise seek respect.
The clever seek fame,
the wise seek dignity.
The clever seek glory,
the wise seek integrity.
The clever seek wants,
the wise seek needs.
The clever seek luxury,
the wise seek convenience.
The clever seek enjoyment,
the wise seek fulfillment.
The clever seek entertainment,
the wise seek rest.
The clever seek style,
the wise seek grace.
The clever seek brains,
the wise seek heart.
The clever seek appearance,
the wise seek etiquette.
The clever seek beauty,
the wise seek honesty.
The clever seek opinions,
the wise seek facts.
The clever seek truth,
the wise seek knowledge.
The clever seek ideas,
the wise seek wisdom.
The clever seek adventure,
the wise seek discovery.
The clever seek questions,
the wise seek answers.
The clever seek problems,
the wise seek solutions.
The clever seek amusement,
the wise seek books.
The clever seek an education,
the wise seek enlightenment.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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Bathing is not negotiable! So is brushing your teeth and washing your underwear, so that you always have a fresh inviting scent around you. People should want to be around you, not avoid you because of unfriendly odours coming out of your mouth, shoes or armpits. Do the best with what you have; even the old can be made clean and hygienic to improve your image.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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It is rather pointless to go head to head with strong and entrenched competition. But numerous opportunities can be found in the marketplace for a company to maximize its unique qualities, differentiate its products and services, and go after a specific market segment where its competitors are weak and where you can develop superiority, where you can win battles.
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Brian Tracy (12 Disciplines of Leadership Excellence: How Leaders Achieve Sustainable High Performance)
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True leaders pursue knowledge, not recognition;
understanding, not titles;
wisdom, not power;
purpose, not riches;
excellence, not success;
opportunities, not obstacles;
character, not fame;
diligence, not entertainment;
happiness, not money;
dignity, not position;
a career, not a job;
influence, not popularity;
performance, not acclaim;
and pursue dreams, not tradition.
True leaders are givers, not takers;
builders, not destroyers;
doers, not talkers;
encouragers, not flatterers;
lovers, not haters;
warriors, not worriers;
forgivers, not shamers;
performers, not complainers;
givers, not takers;
achievers, not quitters;
doers, not doubters;
winners, not losers;
performers, not manipulators;
and are masters, not amatuers.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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In an environment where there is a shared vision of excellence, where people can be the best they can be on a daily basis, where they know what is expected of them, understand that reward is linked to performance, and believe they can make a difference because they will be heard, they will make a difference. They will go beyond our expectations and great things will happen.
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Frederick Smith
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One of the greatest tools you cannot do without is the media. These various means for mass communication and those involved in them must be your partners and not your enemies; you must not be afraid of them but befriend and love them. If you are going to be significant and relevant then you are going to need someone to help broadcast your voice and channel your substance to the world.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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Jesus’ example of servant leadership sets him apart from so many historical religious leaders. He was not a God who lorded it over his followers and demanded they follow him or coerced their obedience through authoritarianism and fear. Instead, he called them to the excellence of holiness and yet lovingly served them in order to win their hearts and show them the means of reaching others’ hearts as well.
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Sally Clarkson (The Ministry of Motherhood: Following Christ's Example in Reaching the Hearts of Our Children)
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Are you ready to possess your master piece; ready to live a life that is worthy of who you were made to be? You will likely shed a few tears—tears of joy, tears of pain, tears of revelation—you might scream out loud and laugh out loud. You might even stomp your feet, shake your fist or pound the air. That's okay, because later on you might just run out and hug a stranger, love an enemy and sing like never before as well.
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J. Loren Norris
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A leadership comfort zone brings stagnancy, deprives one of innovation, stifles growth and frustrates both the leader and the team they lead. Your personal preferences like leadership style, communication style, prejudices, habits and mannerisms must be effectively managed so that they do not work against you. You have to be careful that your strengths do not end up becoming a hindering comfort zone. Seek to lead, driven by a cause.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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When a CEO looks around her staff meeting, a good rule of thumb is that at least 50 percent of the people at the table should be experts in the company’s products and services and responsible for product development. This will help ensure that the leadership team maintains focus on product excellence. Operational components like finance, sales, and legal are obviously critical to a company’s success, but they should not dominate the conversation.
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Eric Schmidt (How Google Works)
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People are the foundation of any company’s success. The primary job of each manager is to help people be more effective in their job and to grow and develop. We have great people who want to do well, are capable of doing great things, and come to work fired up to do them. Great people flourish in an environment that liberates and amplifies that energy. Managers create this environment through support, respect, and trust. Support means giving people the tools, information, training, and coaching they need to succeed. It means continuous effort to develop people’s skills. Great managers help people excel and grow. Respect means understanding people’s unique career goals and being sensitive to their life choices. It means helping people achieve these career goals in a way that’s consistent with the needs of the company. Trust means freeing people to do their jobs and to make decisions. It means knowing people want to do well and believing that they will.
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Eric Schmidt (Trillion Dollar Coach: The Leadership Playbook of Silicon Valley's Bill Campbell)
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We live in a world in which everything seems to needed now and working quickly is normally viewed as a positive attribute in the workplace...Do not let yourself become too frazzled and stressed by doing everything at high speed.
As I have coached hundreds of individuals in the workplace, I have discovered that we waste precious time by delaying and procrastinating. We might know that the work is very urgent and important but we still might find ourselves being slow to start the task.
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Nigel Cumberland (Secrets of Success at Work: 50 Techniques to Excel (Secrets of Success series Book 6))
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and in life. I’ve noticed that leadership is not a skill. It’s character. Successful, happy, and fulfilled people embody core values such as honor, courage, and commitment to personal excellence. Real leaders command from the heart. They’ve developed an ethical code that makes them both a good teammate and a good leader. When things go wrong, they look within and seek to be better people. Authentic leadership starts with knowing your stand—your purpose in life, against which you will measure all decisions.
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Anonymous
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It is never easy for any leader to choose between differentiation and equality. You are condemned either way. When you treat everyone equally, you are considered just by majority as equality benefits below average people and they seem to always be in majority. At the same time, you are also condemned because you can’t produce results with people having a crab mentality. However, if you choose to reward the excellence and punish the non-performer, you achieve the desired results but get condemned for being unfair, unjust, cruel and Darwinian.
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Awdhesh Singh
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Work is simply, “force x distance” or the product of a force applied to an object and the displacement of the object in the direction of the applied force…holding an object in the air does not involve any work, no matter how painful your hand will be after a few minutes… reflect on your daily activities and the results from them. Are you really working or just increasing your potential without progress or desired results? Your work must produce some movement, progress and change, by effectively using all your energies whether intellectual or physical.
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Archibald Marwizi (Making Success Deliberate)
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Mental toughness is the ability to focus on and execute solutions, especially in the face of adversity.
Greatness rarely happens on accident. If you want to achieve excellence, you will have to act like you really want it. How? Quite simply: by dedicating time and energy into consistently doing what needs to be done.
Excuses are the antithesis of accountability.
Important decisions aren’t supposed to be easy, but don’t let that stop you from making them.
When it comes to decisions, decide to always decide.
The second we stop growing, we start dying. Stagnation easily morphs into laziness, and once a person stops trying to grow and improve, he or she is nothing more than mediocre.
Develop the no-excuse mentality.
Do not let anything interrupt those tasks that are most critical for growth in the important areas of your life. Find a way, no matter what, to prioritize your daily process goals, even when you have a viable excuse to justify not doing it.
“If you don’t evaluate yourself, how in the heck are you ever going to know what you are doing well and what you need to improve?
Those who are most successful evaluate themselves daily. Daily evaluation is the key to daily success, and daily success is the key to success in life.
If you want to achieve greatness, push yourself to the limits of your potential by continuously looking for improvements.
Within 60 seconds, replace all problem-focused thought with solution-focused thinking.
When people focus on problems, their problems actually grow and reproduce. When you train your mind to focus on solutions, guess what expands?
Talking about your problems will lead to more problems, not to solutions. If you want solutions, start thinking and talking about your solutions.
Believe that every problem, no matter how large, has at the very least a +1 solution, you will find it easier to stay on the solution side of the chalkboard.
When you set your mind to do something, find a way to get it done…no matter what!
If you come up short on your discipline, keep fighting, kicking, and scratching to improve. Find the nearest mirror and look yourself in the eye while you tell yourself, “There is no excuse, and this will not happen again.” Get outside help if needed, but never, ever give up on being disciplined.
Greatness will not magically appear in your life without significant accountability, focus, and optimism on your part. Are you ready to commit fully to turning your potential into a leadership performance that will propel you to greatness.
Mental toughness is understanding that the only true obstacles in life are self-imposed. You always have the choice to stay down or rise above. In truth, the only real obstacles to your ultimate success will come from within yourself and fall into one of the following three categories: apathy, laziness and fear.
Laziness breeds more laziness. When you start the day by sleeping past the alarm or cutting corners in the morning, you’re more likely to continue that slothful attitude later in the day.
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Jason Selk (Executive Toughness: The Mental-Training Program to Increase Your Leadership Performance)
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Whatever the motives out of which they were established, the old WASP admissions criteria actually meant something. Athletics were thought to build character - courage and selflessness and team spirit. The arts embodied an ideal of culture. Service was designed to foster a public-minded ethos in our future leaders. Leadership itself was understood to be a form of duty. Now it's all become a kind of rain dance that is handed down from generation to generation, an empty set of rituals known only to propitiate the gods. Kids do them because they know that they're supposed to, not because they, or anybody else, actually believes in them.
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William Deresiewicz (Excellent Sheep: The Miseducation of the American Elite and the Way to a Meaningful Life)
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Sir, you do understand that - officially - I'm not actually a centurion. I haven't even been assigned to a legion yet.'
The general continued writing as he spoke. 'What was the name?'
'Corbulo, sir.'
'Corbulo, you have an officer's tunic and an officer's helmet; and you completed full officer training did you not?'
Cassius nodded. He could easily recall every accursed test and drill. Though he'd excelled in the cerebral disciplines and somehow survived the endless marches and swims, he had rated poorly with sword in hand and had been repeatedly described as "lacking natural leadership ability." The academy's senior centurion had seemed quite relieved when the letter from the Service arrived.
'I did, sir, but it was felt I would be more suited to intelligence work than the legions, I really would prefer -'
'And you did take an oath? To Rome, the Army and the Emperor?'
'I did, sir, and of course I am happy to serve but -'
The General finished the orders. He rolled the sheet up roughly and handed it to Cassius.
'Dismissed.'
'Yes, sir. Sorry, sir. I just have one final question.'
The General was on his way back to his chair. He turned around and fixed Cassius with an impatient stare.
'Sir - how should I present myself to the troops? In terms of rank I mean.'
'They will assume you are a centurion, and I can see no practical reason whatsoever to disabuse them of that view.
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Nick Brown (The Siege (Agent of Rome #1))
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A classic LBO works this way: An investor decides to buy a company by putting up equity, similar to the down payment on a house, and borrowing the rest, the leverage. Once acquired, the company, if public, is delisted, and its shares are taken private, the “private” in the term “private equity.” The company pays the interest on its debt from its own cash flow while the investor improves various areas of a business’s operations in an attempt to grow the company. The investor collects a management fee and eventually a share of the profits earned whenever the investment in monetized. The operational improvements that are implemented can range from greater efficiencies in manufacturing, energy utilization, and procurement; to new product lines and expansion into new markets; to upgraded technology; and even leadership development of the company’s management team.
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Stephen A. Schwarzman (What It Takes: Lessons in the Pursuit of Excellence)
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Settling an Argument Mark 9:33–37 After Jesus and his disciples traveled to Capernaum, he asked them what they had been arguing about on the way. At first, the men were silent, too embarrassed and ashamed to answer his question. Finally, the disciples admitted that they had argued about which one of them was the greatest. Rank and position were important to the Jews, and in light of the messianic kingdom they expected Jesus to set up, they probably dreamed about status and honor. Jesus gave them a new perspective on greatness and leadership in the form of a paradox. To be important in God’s eyes, he explained, a person must voluntarily become a servant to other people. The goal is not to be first, but rather to take the last place. The highest positions in God’s kingdom go to those who are willing to be lowly enough to serve the needs of others. To illustrate this concept of service, Jesus put his arms around a little child, considered an insignificant person in that culture. He said that when anyone welcomed or showed kindness to a little child in his name, it was the same as doing it for Jesus himself. There’s nothing wrong with ambition or pursuit of excellence as long as they don’t become a source of pride. When we try to achieve greatness by chasing after positions of power, physical strength, popularity, or worldly success, we’re going in the wrong direction. God evaluates us on the basis of humility and service. If we look for opportunities to serve others and put their needs ahead of our own, if we never consider ourselves above doing tasks that seem menial, if we build others up instead of ourselves—that’s when we’re on the track to greatness in God’s eyes. And we just might discover that last place is the best place to be after all.
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Dianne Neal Matthews (Designed for Devotion: A 365-Day Journey from Genesis to Revelation)
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Or, as the united Buddhist leadership phrased it at the time: In order to establish eternal peace in East Asia, arousing the great benevolence and compassion of Buddhism, we are sometimes accepting and sometimes forceful. We now have no choice but to exercise the benevolent forcefulness of “killing one in order that many may live” (issatsu tasho). This is something which Mahayana Buddhism approves of only with the greatest of seriousness. No “holy war” or “Crusade” advocate could have put it better. The “eternal peace” bit is particularly excellent. By the end of the dreadful conflict that Japan had started, it was Buddhist and Shinto priests who were recruiting and training the suicide bombers, or Kamikaze (“Divine Wind”), fanatics, assuring them that the emperor was a “Golden Wheel-Turning Sacred King,” one indeed of the four manifestations of the ideal Buddhist monarch and a Tathagata, or “fully enlightened being,” of the material world. And since “Zen treats life and death indifferently,” why not abandon the cares of this world and adopt a policy of prostration at the feet of a homicidal dictator? This
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Christopher Hitchens (God is Not Great: How Religion Poisons Everything)
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Knowing one’s emotions. Self-awareness—recognizing a feeling as it happens—is the keystone of emotional intelligence. As we will see in Chapter 4, the ability to monitor feelings from moment to moment is crucial to psychological insight and self-understanding. An inability to notice our true feelings leaves us at their mercy. People with greater certainty about their feelings are better pilots of their lives, having a surer sense of how they really feel about personal decisions from whom to marry to what job to take. 2. Managing emotions. Handling feelings so they are appropriate is an ability that builds on self-awareness. Chapter 5 will examine the capacity to soothe oneself, to shake off rampant anxiety, gloom, or irritability—and the consequences of failure at this basic emotional skill. People who are poor in this ability are constantly battling feelings of distress, while those who excel in it can bounce back far more quickly from life’s setbacks and upsets. 3. Motivating oneself. As Chapter 6 will show, marshaling emotions in the service of a goal is essential for paying attention, for self-motivation and mastery, and for creativity. Emotional self-control—delaying gratification and stifling impulsiveness—underlies accomplishment of every sort. And being able to get into the “flow” state enables outstanding performance of all kinds. People who have this skill tend to be more highly productive and effective in whatever they undertake. 4. Recognizing emotions in others. Empathy, another ability that builds on emotional self-awareness, is the fundamental “people skill.” Chapter 7 will investigate the roots of empathy, the social cost of being emotionally tone-deaf, and the reason empathy kindles altruism. People who are empathic are more attuned to the subtle social signals that indicate what others need or want. This makes them better at callings such as the caring professions, teaching, sales, and management. 5. Handling relationships. The art of relationships is, in large part, skill in managing emotions in others. Chapter 8 looks at social competence and incompetence, and the specific skills involved. These are the abilities that undergird popularity, leadership, and interpersonal effectiveness. People who excel in these skills do well at anything that relies on interacting smoothly with others; they are social stars.
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Daniel Goleman (Emotional Intelligence)
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I heard a story about a critical, negative barber who never had a pleasant thing to say. A salesman came in for a haircut and mentioned that he was about to make a trip to Rome, Italy. “What airline are you taking and at what hotel will you be staying?” asked the barber. When the salesman told him, the barber criticized the airline for being undependable and the hotel for having horrible service. “You’d be better off to stay home,” he advised. “But I expect to close a big deal. Then I’m going to see the Pope,” said the salesman. “You’ll be disappointed trying to do business in Italy,” said the barber, “and don’t count on seeing the Pope. He only grants audiences to very important people.” Two months later the salesman returned to the barber shop. “And how was your trip?” asked the barber. “Wonderful!” replied the salesman. “The flight was perfect, the service at the hotel was excellent; I made a big sale, and I got to see the Pope.” “You got to see the Pope? What happened?” The salesman replied, “I bent down and kissed his ring.” “No kidding! What did he say?” “Well, he placed his hand on my head and then he said to me, ‘My son, where did you ever get such a lousy haircut?’” There’s
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John C. Maxwell (Be a People Person: Effective Leadership Through Effective Relationships)
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The third group called to silence is women. This group is not composed of all women all the time but rather of specific women who were asking questions and speaking in the service. The larger context of these verses demands that we understand these questioning women to be a disruption of the peace and order of the service. This is the reason Paul wrote that 'women should keep silent in the churches' (v. 34). Paul's concern is not just with women (for men too are called to be silent in church); his broader concern is with silence, peace, and order in the worship assembly. This perspective allows us rightly to understand the rest of this chapter, 14:34-40. Paul next tells these specific women to 'be in submission.' We tend to think of this as submission to MEN, but the larger context makes this improbable. Our patriarchal and man-centered culture over the millennia has distorted the meaning of this command to submit. Rather than commanding submission to men, the apostle is commanding SUBMISSION TO THE ORDER OF THE WORSHIP SERVICE, that is, submission to the Holy Spirit. This reading helps us understand the next phrase: 'even as the law says.' Normally LAW in Paul refers to the Old Testament, but it can also have a wider meaning. Nowhere in the Old Testament are women called to be silent, nor are they called to submit to their husbands. Yet there is excellent evidence for biblical and broadly Jewish concern for SILENCE IN WORSHIP before God or the Word of God or while learning from the rabbis (e.g., Deut. 27:9-10; Job 33:31-33; Isa. 66:2; Hab. 2:20). It may well be that this is the 'law' Paul has in mind: not about the silence or submission of women, but about silence in the worship service in general (but applying to women in this case).
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Alan G. Padgett (As Christ Submits to the Church: A Biblical Understanding of Leadership and Mutual Submission)
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If you are a great warrior, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before the lowest opponent.
If you are a great general, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before the lowest soldier.
If you are a great politician, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before for the lowest constituent.
If you are a great governor, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before for the lowest peasant.
If you are a great president, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before the lowest citizen.
If you are a great leader, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before for the lowest servant.
If you are a great pastor, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before the lowest parishioner.
If you are a great prophet, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before the lowest seer.
If you are a great pope, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before the lowest priest.
If you are a great teacher, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before for the lowest student.
If you are a great guru, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before for the lowest disciple.
If you are a great architect, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before the lowest mason.
If you are a great engineer, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before the lowest mechanic.
If you are a great inventor, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before for the lowest scientist.
If you are a great doctor, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before for the lowest nurse.
If you are a great judge, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before the lowest lawyer.
If you are a great artist, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before the lowest apprentice.
If you are a great coach, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before for the lowest athlete.
If you are a great genius, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before for the lowest talent.
If you are a great philanthropist, you are supposed to be prepared
to humble yourself before for the lowest beggar.
In the school of patience, it is the long suffering who graduate.
In the school of generosity, it is the kind who graduate.
In the school of activism, it is the devoted who graduate.
In the school of honor, it is the noble who graduate.
In the school of wisdom, it is the prudent who graduate.
In the school of knowledge, it is the curious who graduate.
In the school of insight, it is the observant who graduate.
In the school of understanding, it is the intelligent who graduate.
In the school of success, it is the excellent who graduate.
In the school of eminence, it is the influential who graduate.
In the school of conquest, it is the fearless who graduate.
In the school of enlightenment, it is the humble who graduate.
In the school of courage, it is the hopeful who graduate.
In the school of fortitude, it is the determined who graduate.
In the school of leadership, it is servants who graduate.
In the school of talent, it is the skilled who graduate.
In the school of genius, it is the brilliant who graduate.
In the school of greatness, it is the persevering who graduate.
In the school of transcendence, it is the fearless who graduate.
In the school of innovation, it is the creative who graduate.
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Matshona Dhliwayo