Tunde Quotes

Now they will know,” shouts one woman into Tunde’s camera, “that they are the ones who should not walk out of their houses alone at night. They are the ones who should be afraid.

A True Wise Man Surrenders Every Thing Freely To God While Alive. A Foolish Man Surrenders Every Thing Forcefully At The Time Of Death.

Bliss was it in that dawn to be alive,” says Tunde in his voiceover report, because he’s been reading about revolution, “but to be young was very heaven.

Tunde, life comes in seasons,” she told me. “Everything shifts and changes. I try to get the most out of the season that I’m in, because I know I’ll never get it back.

Tunde tries to imagine what it'd be like to have one. A power you can't give away or trade. He feels himself yearning for it, repulsed by it. He reads online forums where men say that if all the men in the world had one everything would be back to the way it ought to be. They're angry and afraid. He understands that.

He’s crying a little now, from the shock and the shame and the fear and the humiliation and the pain. Tunde recognizes those feelings; he’s known them since the first day Enuma touched him. He has written in the scribbled notes for his book: “At first we did not speak our hurt because it was not manly. Now we do not speak it because we are afraid and ashamed and alone without hope, each of us alone. It is hard to know when the first became the second.

Embracing uncertainty empowers you to take risks. The beauty of uncertainty, I’ve found, is infinite possibility.

To build endurance, you have to endure.

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The other women take it up and the street is filled with the sound, the city is filled with it; the country- Tunde thinks- must be full of this joyful warning. He is the only man here, the only one filming. This revolution feels like his personal miracle, a thing to overturn the world.

A goal is a wish, but a standard holds you accountable.

If you want to change things, you have to change things.

One Must Always Remember That Birth, Old Age, Disease And Death Comes At Any Moment In Regardless Of Whom We Are Or What We Have In Forms Of Material Possession.

Lõppude lõpuks on iga inimene just see, mida ta mõtleb. Sinu tunded on su mõtete orjad ja sa ise oled oma tunnete ori.

It’s human nature to want to be right and prove everyone else wrong. It’s wise to know that you cannot find peace of mind by giving everyone else a piece of your mind.

It’s not enough to be a future-oriented person. You must also have the gift of foresight to know what your future-self will thank you for doing today…and just get on with it.

As we deepen our gratitude for our countless blessings, we rise higher to become an irresistible magnet for all that is possible for us.

TUNDE ADEBIMPE: Failure is the best. After you fail, you’re free.

Fiecare om trebuie să lase ceva în urma lui atunci când moare, așa spunea bunicul meu. Un copil, o carte sau un tablou, o casă, un zid înălțat de mâna lui sau o pereche de pantofi. Sau o grădină. Ceva ce mâna ta a atins în așa fel, încât sufletul tău să aibă unde se refugia atunci când îți sosește ceasul; iar când oamenii se uită la copacul ori la floarea pe care le-ai sădit, tu ești acolo. Nu contează ce faci, spunea bunicul, atâta timp cât schimbi un lucru față de cum era înainte ca tu să-l atingi transformându-l în ceva care să îți semene de îndată ce-ți iei mâna de pe el. Deosebirea dintre omul care doar tunde iarba și un grădinar adevărat constă în atingere, spuse el. Cel care tunde iarba e ca și inexistent, grădinarul va trăi o veșnicie.

There are no little blessings in life. And when you live every moment with a sense that there is always more than meets the eye, you are rewarded with feeling truly blessed in all situations.

Realism is wisdom to use power true to life. Self-doubt will only hold you back from pursuing your dreams, and the harsh realities of life will only humble your self-importance.” ~Tunde Salami

The bigger the risk, the bigger the prize is how life works in lots of situations. And when we show intelligent bravery in the face of a risk worth taking, the prize is often bigger than we can ever imagine.

Gratitude shields you from the calamity of greed. When you are grateful for all that is meaningful in your life, your heart is guided not to covet all that is attractive but superfluous that is not in your life.

A weak willpower makes every potential way forward look like a brick wall. But when you are hungry to tap all the talents you are born with, every opportunity looks like an open door to where you are meant to be.

Don’t let the wrong crowd shape your drive to do better for yourself and others. For as long as a lofty dream lives in your heart, rely on your inner voice to awaken you to the right opportunities, at the right time.

When I look back at the biggest shifts in my life, doubt was always there. Think about the times when there was a big shift in your life. I’m going to guess you felt the same. Uncertainty, I’ve come to learn, has to exist to give you room to shift. To make room for opportunity to walk in the door.

You reap what you sow is a timeless compassionate alert to humanity. Be wise to live each moment as if it were your only chance to shape your destiny.

It’s not always easy to do what we feel in our heart to be right, but the wise know that inner peace is often the worthy reward for choosing to follow the quiet voice within.

When God reveals His will in the silence of your heart, but it all seems impossible to you; He will hold your heart hostage until you elevate your vision, thoughts, and actions.

Your mind is your strongest muscle. It holds the key to your belief about the way you feel and the way you see yourself.

So much of the pain I’ve experienced in my life has been tied to love. To love is to accept pain, to take it in, to grow from it, and to love again.

We all need help sometimes. And when someone is the right person at the right time for you, whatever little help they offer will enrich your life forever; and vice versa.

With every bad mistake comes pains and lessons. And the willpower to push again for success is not in getting bitter for the pains, it is in getting better for the lessons.

Blissful is your life when you never stop finding ways to maintain a healthy balance between taking care of yourself and helping others ease the pains that life can bring.

The beauty of uncertainty is infinite possibility.

The purpose of life is to discover your gift; the work of life is to develop it; and the meaning of life is to give your gift away.

Knowing what’s next keeps you knowing only what you know. Embracing uncertainty empowers you to take risks. The beauty of uncertainty, I’ve found, is infinite possibility.

Whatever it is that makes you want to hide, you have two choices—learn to love it or change it.

It didn’t occur to me that I could learn on the job, that everyone has to start somewhere, and that I could be hired because of my potential, not because of my experience.

One Must Choose Among Both Parties Either To Be A Wise Man That Die To Live In Righteousness And Blissfulness For Eternity Or Be A Foolish Man That Lives To Die For Vanity.

Don’t get lost following the crowd. Others may guide you, but only your inner compass can point you in the direction to make your own unique mark in the world, however big or small.

As you strive to grow, be wise to never ignore fear nor feel helpless in the face of fear. But always figure out whether your fear calls for faith-driven courage, caution, or patience.

When life knocks you down: crying ‘why me’ usually only makes the pain harder to bear; trusting that pain usually leaves a seed of destiny is the most reliable path to a glorious bounce back.

People we associate with influence the direction our life takes. And so often in life, success flows from not leaving our friendships to chance, and consciously choosing friends we need in our life.

Some decisions have more profound impacts on our lives than others. Wisdom is knowing when a decision is a litmus test of your inner strength to stand up for what is right and the life you really want.

The darker the night, the more delightful the dawn. So, when the journey to your big goal gets tough and your heart is weary; a blissful breakthrough is on the way, as long as you keep pressing forward.

What if every noble desire is bestowed with divine grace for it to manifest at the right time, and all we are asked to do is the needful? Doing your best is all you can control, and it’s often good enough.

No day reigns eternal: today becomes yesterday, and tomorrow becomes today. So, when today gets you down, keep in mind that tomorrow is just around the corner, and your power to hold on is simply limitless.

To be alive is a divine gift. And the more you gratefully unwrap your unique package and intentionally express the best of who you are, the less energy you have to waste on trying to impress or outdo others.

There’s incredible power in trusting that you are created braver than you seem. When a raging storm of life threatens to humble you, calmly face what’s facing you, and you come out stronger than ever before.

Life is a multi-generational relay game. Each generation reaps the fruits of the sacrifices or excuses of the generations before it. And one life well lived can be a legacy of pleasure passed on for generations.

Even the most fruitful seeds remain dormant until they are planted in good soil. To give the seeds of our dreams the best chance to come alive, our purposeful actions must speak louder than our pathetic excuses.

What we believe is possible for us is nothing compared to what God can make happen for us. And moments that truly take our breath away are those moments when divine will put impossible odds in their rightful place.

It's always easier once you get to the destination to forget about the hills and winding roads you had to take to get there, but I knew that there was a lot of doubt and desire and hope all mixed together on the way.

When you leave a relationship at the right time, you can still cherish the good parts, but when you let it go on for too long, all that you're left with are the messy parts. It was difficult to remember the joy that we once had.

Anyone is free to think it’s their birthright to write you off. But no one can truly hold you back from living with the conviction that your best is yet to come. That’s the awesome power of Faith. It’s your birthright, claim it!

Right choices create right conditions for one’s destiny to activate and bloom. Sometimes the life you want is just waiting for you to start doing certain things you’ve never done before or stop doing certain things you’ve always done.

This is a season to acknowledge your value, your uniqueness. This is a season to see yourself fully for who you are. Be your own inspiration and then spark the light for others. Find your voice, trust your gut, and speak because we are all listening.

Kulno oli vait ja laskis Lutveid rääkida. Oli, nagu kuulaks ta iseennast, seda ennast, kes elas, patustas, kannatas ja kaebas aastate eest. Või ei kannatanud ega kaevanud tema sugugi nõnda? Ehk ei oska tema Lutvei kaebehelides muid toone tabada, kui aga ainuüksi neid, mida ta millalgi iseenese rinnas uulatanud? Võib-olla meie ei tea ilmast üldse muud, kui aga seda põrmukest, mis leidub vähemalt idunagi meis enestes? Kõik muu on ehk sealpool meie ilma läve, kõik muu on hauatagune, surnute riik, kuigi ta oleks elavaid täis. Nõnda mõistaksime teiste kannatusi ainult kannatades ja teiste valudele kaasa tundes tunneksime tõepoolest ainult iseenestele kaasa. Meid huvitab teiste kannatus ainult sel määral, kui palju nad meie viisil kannatavad. Kes kõigele kannatusele tahavad kaasa tunda, need peavad võima kogumi kannatusi maitsta, peavad võima kannatada kui ussike, kui rohulajuke, kui lõhnav lill, kui pakatavalt muhelev maa, kui liivaterake.

How shall the burial rite be read? The solemn song be sung? The requiem for the loveliest dead, That ever died so young?   Her friends are gazing on her, And on her gaudy bier, And weep! — oh! to dishonor Dead beauty with a tear!   They loved her for her wealth — And they hated her for her pride — But she grew in feeble health, And they love her — that she died.   They tell me (while they speak Of her “costly broider’d pall”) That my voice is growing weak — That I should not sing at all —   Or that my tone should be Tun’d to such solemn song So mournfully — so mournfully, That the dead may feel no wrong.   But she is gone above, With young Hope at her side, And I am drunk with love Of the dead, who is my bride. —   Of the dead — dead who lies All perfum’d there, With the death upon her eyes, And the life upon her hair.   Thus on the coffin loud and long I strike — the murmur sent Through the grey chambers to my song, Shall be the accompaniment.   Thou died’st in thy life’s June — But thou did’st not die too fair: Thou did’st not die too soon, Nor with too calm an air.   From more than fiends on earth, Thy life and love are riven, To join the untainted mirth Of more than thrones in heaven —   Therefore, to thee this night I will no requiem raise, But waft thee on thy flight, With a Pæan of old days.  

SIRÁCIDES30 Sir30:1El que ama a su hijo, le azota sin cesar, para poderse alegrar en su futuro. Sir30:2El que enseña a su hijo, sacará provecho de él, entre sus conocidos de él se gloriará. Sir30:3El que instruye a su hijo, pondrá celoso a su enemigo, y ante sus amigos se sentirá gozoso. Sir30:4Murió su padre, y como si no hubiera muerto, pues dejó tras de sí un hombre igual que él. Sir30:5En su vida le mira con contento, y a su muerte no se siente triste. Sir30:6Contra sus enemigos deja un vengador, y para los amigos quien les pague sus favores. Sir30:7El que mima a su hijo, vendará sus heridas, a cada grito se le conmoverán sus entrañas. Sir30:8Caballo no domado, sale indócil, hijo consentido, sale libertino. Sir30:9Halaga a tu hijo, y te dará sorpresas juega con él, y te traerá pesares. Sir30:10No rías con él, para no llorar y acabar rechinando de dientes. Sir30:11No le des libertad en su juventud, y no pases por alto sus errores. Sir30:12Doblega su cerviz mientras es joven, tunde sus costillas cuando es niño, no sea que, volviéndose indócil, te desobedezca, y sufras por él amargura de alma. Sir30:13Enseña a tu hijo y trabaja en él, para que no tropieces por su desvergüenza. Sir30:14Vale más pobre sano y fuerte de constitución que rico lleno de achaques en su cuerpo. Sir30:15Salud y buena constitución valen más que todo el oro, cuerpo vigoroso más que inmensa fortuna. Sir30:16Ni hay riqueza mejor que la salud del cuerpo, ni contento mayor que la alegría del corazón. Sir30:17Mejor es la muerte que una vida amarga, el descanso eterno que enfermedad permanente. Sir30:18Manjares derramados sobre boca cerrada, eso son las ofrendas de alimentos puestas sobre una tumba. Sir30:19¿De qué le sirve el sacrificio a un ídolo? ¡ni lo comerá ni lo olerá! Así aquel a quien persigue el Señor, Sir30:20que mira con sus ojos y gime. Escomo un eunuco que oprime a una virgen y gime. Sir30:21No entregues tu alma a la tristeza, ni te atormentes a ti mismo con tus cavilaciones. Sir30:22La alegría de corazón es la vida del hombre, el regocijo del varón, prolongación de sus días. Sir30:23Engaña tu alma y consuela tu corazón, echa lejos de ti la tristeza; que la tristeza perdió a muchos, y no hay en ella utilidad. Sir30:24Envidia y malhumor los días acortan, las preocupaciones traen la vejez antes de tiempo. Sir30:25Un corazón radiante viene bien en las comidas, se preocupa de lo que come.

Ai kishte dëgjuar më parë avionët të bënin zhurmë të sforcuar po jo si kjo kërkëllitje e metalit rreth e rrotull tij, sikur perçinat po dilnin vendit si ca kopsa të jakave të modës së vjetër. Veç kësaj, krahët qenë shumë të hollë. Edhe në një ditë të qetë e blu, po t'i shihje ato të dridheshin do të thoshe: një çift fletësh hekuri, ja se ç'janë. - Viktor, po anohemi gjithnjë e më tepër... S'kam parë kurrë kaq keq. Asnjë koment. S'mund të mohohej ajo që dukej. Avioni hidhej poshtë e lart si një kartë bixhozi. - Në qoftë se rrëzohemi... - Do të jetë faji im. Unë të futa këtu. Qe një çast fluturimi i rrafshtë, pa lëkundje. Viktori u habit që ritmi i zemrës së tij nuk qe rritur. As nuk e mbajti frymën dhe as nuk u djersit kur avioni nisi të bjerë përsëri. - Ti sikur s'çan kokë dhe aq, - tha Katrina. - Sigurisht që çaj. - Dëgjo Viktor. Nëqoftë se vdekja është përpara çdo minute, nëqoftë se do të përfundojmë në ujë... Dua të të pyes të më thuash diçka. - Mos e fillo këtë Katrinë. - Është fare e thjeshtë. Dua thjesht ta thuash këtë... - Lëri këto budallallëqe, Katrina. Në një kohë të tillë si kjo, të më pyet. E çfarë? Për dashurinë? - Zemërimi e bëri zërin e tij të ngjante përsëri me një flaut. Goja iu zmadhua dhe mustaqet gjithashtu iu zgjeruan. Ai qe gati të fliste edhe më ashpër. Ajo e ndërpreu: - Mos u bëj kështu me mua tani, Viktor. Nëqoftë se ne do të biem, pse nuk do të doje ta thoje këtë?... - E kape këtë rast për të më përdredhur krahun. - Në se ne nuk e duam njëri-tjetrin, atëherë çfarë bëjmë ne? Pse ndodhemi këtu? - U ndodhëm se ti je një grua dhe unë jam një burrë, ja pse ndodhemi këtu. Ç'mendim të çuditshëm që kishte: ateistët pranojnë ritin absolut. Gruaja këmbëngul dhe burri që po vdes, tund kokën. Pse jo? Pas pak, ata ndjenë ngritjen e kontrolluar të avionit. Ai kishte gjetur përsëri një shtresë të butë ajri dhe po fluturonte qetësisht. Ende në ankth, Katrina nisi të mendojë rreth atyre ç'i kishte shtënë në kokë fortuna. - Tani jemi mirë, - tha Viktori. Ajo ndjeu se ishte shumë më pak mirë se ç'kishte qenë ndonjëherë. O zot! Sa shumë humba, mendonte ajo. Dera e kabinës u hap dhe piloti i dytë tha: - Jeni mirë? Ishte rrugë e keqe. Por për një minutë jemi mbi Çikagon e jugut. - Një lumë fjalësh, një kërkëllitje e pakuptueshme erdhi nga kulla e kontrollit në Miduej. Viktori qe i qetë dhe dukej edhe me humor të mirë. Ç'vetëpërmbajtje kishte ai njeri! Dhe nuk t'i përmendte kundër teje, gjërat qesharake. E kishte shumë të mirë këtë gjë. Atje në spital, për shembull. Ai nuk mund të thoshte: "Të dua". Kjo do të qe shfajësim. Katrina vente e vinte nëpër fjalët e thënë nga ai e ajo, ndërsa avioni u afrua pranë tokës dhe u ul. I kishte mbetur mendja te të gjithë ato edhe kur i kaluan te helikopteri, nën fshikullimën e helikave. Vajzat e shërbimit aty, qenë të mësuara. Ato sikur thoshin: Mos u mërzit e dashur, dashuria do t'i zgjidhë problemet e tua. Bëje veten të meritueshme dhe do të dashurohesh. fq.126-128

Yes,” Tunde said “And you never knew because you thought anybody not in the latest designer clothes, shoes and not having the latest handset is a nobody.

It was only two months after Tunde, her ex-love interest, suddenly moved to North Carolina, against her wishes, when she met Amiel at a gas station in Lansing.

Tunde was my Nigerian potential last year. It was a very platonic crush since no matter the dates we had, the late nights we laid up, and the times we’ve come so close to having sex that I could imagine the taste of his dick, we never had sex.

The world will seldom change until we change, and we cannot change ourselves if we’re unwilling to be deeply uncomfortable, do the emotional work necessary, and deny ourselves false empathy. If we are to do this difficult work, why not over delicious food and heartening drink?

See, mida ta selle väikse olendi vastu tundis, polnud hoopiski see, mida ta oli oodanud. Selles tundes polnud mitte midagi rõõmsat ega tujutõstvat; vastupidi, see oli uus piinav hirm. See oli teadmine uue hella koha tekkimisest. Ja see teadmine oli algul nii piinav, hirm selle pärast, et see abitu olend võiks kannatada, oli nii tugev, et selle tõttu jäi märkamata ka see mõttetu rõõm ja kuguni kummaline uhkus, mida ta sel puhul tundis, kui laps aevastas.

Uus oli tema jaoks aga see, et kõik tunded ja mõtted on vaid ajutised kogemused — isegi kõige halvemad neist haihtuvad mingi aja pärast.

Halvas tujus inimene näeb asju ilmselt hullemana, kui need tegelikult on. Sam taipas, et halva tuju tunded tunduvad äärmiselt tõesed ja me mõtleme, et kõik on nii sünge, nagu näib — tegelikult see ju nii ei ole.

Nii on see ikka, et kui vaatad ümberringi, näed ennast, ja kui vaatad endasse, näed maailma, üha enam pettudes, üha harvemini tundes ennast petetuna.

Gratitude is an easy to overlook glorious one-way street that you can count on to take you to places beyond your wildest dreams.

Life is sometimes about moving on from a challenging experience wiser. The trick is to stop dwelling on the painful memories, so that we can move forward with the hard lessons.

Procrastination is a silent dream killer. And sometimes the only way to avoid a great dream being snuffed out is to make today that one day you’ve been promising yourself to take that first baby step you know you need to take. ~Tunde Salami

Good fortune is a precious flowering gift. And the wise knows that it blooms better when used as a force for good to make live better for others than when it is hoarded.

Words are invisible, but they have enormous power to build someone up or tear them down. Truly confident people always find the right words to make others feel capable of more than they had ever imagined.

Opinions that have no foundation in truth kill more dreams than lack of talent. And it is by listening to our heart that we often find deep-rooted reasons to own the power to make our dreams come true.

Life is personal; nobody else can experience yours for you. And if you never lose your childlike spirit, you never give up on your big dreams, no matter how pointless this might seem to others.

Life can seem like an open-book exam. Success then hinges on our capacity to extract and apply relevant lessons from a catalogue of other people’s successes and mistakes to whatever life throws at us.

Life is one giant hologram, and what we see depends on how we choose to look at it. So often in life, gratitude is less about the realities of our life and more about our capacity to look at these the right way.

You will always find that one of the easiest ways to make your life more fulfilling and meaningful is to make life more joyful and meaningful for others. It is one of life’s many paradoxes – just leverage it!

The truth is what it is, and it demands good old-fashioned values from us. So, dressing up what we would love to be true as the truth is always an exercise in futility in the long run.

When the ego has you in its grip, it can distort any reality to make you feel you are the smartest person in the room. But listening with curiosity is the smartest way to show genuine respect to others and gain true wisdom.

Everyone arrives in the world ready to shine. But it takes knowing that your gifts aren’t just for you to fearlessly lose yourself in the service of others and leave the world brighter than you found it.

Sharp-eyed gratitude never fails to see Grace revealed in multiple ways. And it never fails to inspire us to express appreciation for the pleasant things in our life, and to be thankful for the unpleasant things we are shielded from.

Everyone is born in the right place, at the right time, with a one-of-a-kind mission. The core challenge is to fall in love with our unique mission, so that we can recognise the right people and situations lined up for our success with utmost ease.

No amount of material possession can guarantee inner peace. But gratitude for what we have, and patience with noble dreams yet to come true, will always lead us to the wellspring of bliss within.

Genuine kindness is the healthiest blood type for humanity. One random act of kindness can circulate through humanity forever, begetting its kind and nourishing everyone it touches along the way.” ~Tunde Salami

God has absolute wisdom and power in all situations, including those that can give anyone sleepless nights. And when we put in our best efforts and then put our trust in God, the stage is set for Him to showcase His Grace, as only He can.

Striving to live for everyone’s acceptance all the time is like burning your soul out to keep others warm and comfortable.

Prayer and hard work are a strong team for making the impossible possible. A wholehearted prayer makes the right hard work pay off, and the key to activating an answered prayer is often hard work dictated by common sense.

Children are ever so keen to cut their teeth on what their parents do consistently. So, when you treat your parents with loving care today, you are most likely teaching your children how to honour you in the future.

One of life’s greatest obstacles to fulfilment is the habit of getting so caught up in the illusion of how others are doing while taking the reality of how well you are running your own race for granted.

Every day is a precious gift from God, and how we spend every day is how we spend our life and truly express our gratitude to Him.

It’s so easy to confuse the messenger with the message. And sometimes when too many people for our liking are screaming the same message at us, the wisest thing to do is to ponder and grow from the message, even if we can’t stand the messengers.

Regret and guilt can’t change the past. Anxiety and worry can’t shape the future. Our greatest power to redeem the past and shape the future always lies in our one chance to make the most of the present.

Money can empower anyone to do lots of virtuous things, but endless accumulation of money to feed their ego will have a virtuous person do anything for money.

Life reveals itself to us in waves of seasons and milestones, some seemingly joyful or painful in the moment, but the true meaning of each wave in our unique story often only becomes obvious in hindsight.

No one truly has nothing, and no one truly has everything. Choosing to feel blessed for what we have is a proven attitude for making everything we truly want possible.

The magic power of treating others with graciousness means when we don’t reserve the gesture for only those we think can do us a favour, we always have a great chance of encountering great people and great fortunes in unexpected places.

Accurate self-perception is where success begins. As we find the courage to stop buying into other people’s limited perceptions of us, we start to change the way we think about ourself and find the confidence to pursue the right possibilities for us.