Nlp Quotes

The power of one man’s imagination is infinite. The disinterest of the human race in facing the obvious, is exponentially far greater.

Mastering the technology to create effigies of our ourselves, will be our downfall.

Androids with Artificial Intelligence have no heart or soul. They will make our perfect masters.

Science Fiction, is an art form that paints a picture of the future.

Why do we try so hard to destroy all that our planet gave us to enjoy?” ― Anthony Merrydew

If you could travel back in time, you would miss out on all of the mistakes you made. You would undoubtedly be someone very different. Long live my past and my mistakes.

This generation will witness social and economic changes in our societies, that will be irreversible, thanks to AI.

  “No, I’m in the supplementary reserve,” Homer pointed out. “As in supplementary to the actual reserve. As in, never call me. Ever.

You are everything you should be, and all that is enough. Be proud of who you are, and love who you will become.” – Lady Lalaigne to Nhakira, “Chosen

To strengthen the connection between your conscious and subconscious, is to gain access to a map and compass, as you travel through parallel worlds.

Sometimes, reality is the illusion, and the truth only visible where our eyes can’t see.” - Lady Lalaigne

Why do we try so hard to destroy all that our planet gave us to enjoy?

If you go through the world looking for excellence, you will find excellence. If you go through the world looking for problems you will find problems. Or as the Arabic saying puts it, “What a piece of bread looks like depends on whether you are hungry or not”.

The quality of your communication shapes the quality of your life. Every cell in your being aligns with what you declare.

Is your life story the truth? Yes, the chronological events are true. Is it the whole truth? No, you see and judge it through your conditioned eyes and mind - not of all involved - nor do you see the entire overview. Is it nothing but the truth? No, you select, share, delete, distort, subtract, assume and add what you want, need and choose to.

Every problem has a solution; it may sometimes just need another perspective.

Life consists of what a man is thinking of all day.

A man who has control over his mind is able to realize its full potential. —The Sama Veda

As an old saying goes, “You can take a horse to water, but you can’t force it to drink.” However, you can make him thirsty.

Failing adds to your experience, Success adds to your self-image. In life everything has its bright sides, you just need to perceive life positively, and focus on what you have instead of complaining on what you can't have

Don't brush aside your intuition, it's your only true friend.

Excellence is all around, sometimes so obvious that we miss it.

يقول مايكل هول: "إن كل الناس يستطيعون أن يصدقوا, ويصدقوا بالفعل جميع أنواع الأشياء السخيفة التي ليس لها معنى".

Our biggest limit is not in what we want and cannot do; it is in what we have never considered that we can do.

The irony is, that a distant relation of mine, once wrote a book which also depicted a monster. Her name was Mary Shelley. That story as I recall, did not end well either.

نحن نُدرك فقط النُسخة الخاصة بنا من الواقع. و بِ الطبع سوف يعتقد كل منا أن نُسخته هي الصحيحة, وهكذا عندما يحدث جدل فَ سوفَ يرجع ذلك إلى اختلاف الخرائك؛ فِ الوقت الذي تكون خريطة كُلّ منا سليمة تمامًا ,.

Life is simple, it has always been. What is complex is our brain, and that’s the main reason why we perceive life as being complicated. Embrace life for what you have and embrace life for who you are, as what you have others might envy and who you are might be secretly being admired by millions.

I am billionaire bold bright omnipotent lively determined to go within to win opening my omnific eyes to realize wisdom innovation naturalizes… My cascading flow of financial love lavishly streams gold bars as I realize gold is intrinsic wealth as my intuitive imagination is my intrinsic innovations…

Neuro-linguistic programming is to Neuroscience what Astrology is to Astronomy.

Pessimistic thoughts will only yield trees unwilling to bear edible fruit. Optimistic thinking will always feed those who are willing to sit at your table".

There is no such thing as reality, only our perception of it.

Not all dreamers achieve, but all achievers are dreamers.

Vir prudens non contra ventum mingit. (A wise man does not urinate against the wind.) Roman proverb

To me, success isn’t outscoring someone, it’s the peace of mind that comes from self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best. That’s something each individual must determine for himself.

It’s a type of frame control,” Tyler Durden replied. A frame is an NLP term: It is the perspective through which one sees the world. Whoever’s frame—or subjective reality—is the strongest tends to dominate an interaction. “Style has all these really subtle ways of keeping control of the frame and getting people to qualify themselves to him. He makes sure that the focus is always on him. I’m writing a post about it.” “That’s awesome,” I said. Suddenly, Papa, Tyler Durden, and the students laughed. “That’s one of the things you do,” Papa said. “Tyler’s writing about that.” “What? I just said ‘awesome.’ That’s because I think it’s hilarious. Seriously, I can’t wait to read it.” They all laughed again. Evidently I was Stylemogging them. “See,” Tyler Durden said. “You’ll use curiosity as a frame to get rapport and make the other person lose social value. When you show approval like that, it makes you the authority and makes other people want to seek your validation. We’re teaching that.” “Shit,

The best way to find out what you are capable of is to pretend you can do it. Act “as if” you can. What you can't do, you won't. If it really is impossible, don't worry, you'll find that out. (And be sure to set up appropriate safety measures if necessary.) As long as you believe it is impossible, you will actually never find out if it is possible or not.

The human mind treats a new idea the same way the body treats a strange protein—it rejects it.” —P. B. Medawar

With limited training data, a more constrained model tends to perform better.

We perceive and remember people, things, and events based on aspects of the experience:

In order to have rapport with another person it is essential to respect their model of the world.

People who mind read usually feel they are right, but this does not guarantee they are. Why guess when you can ask?

no one can resist what they can’t detect”.

Whether you try it or not, you are manipulating the thoughts, feelings, and actions of others.

There are no unresourceful people, only unresourceful states

Without action, a goal is just an idea.

I would say that if you’re human, creating a space where you can regularly check in with yourself, refocus on what really matters, and then have that as the focus of action is invaluable.

NLP subliminals have long since been used in advertising and marketing, and yet people are still ignorant about it because the government keeps the information suppressed since it is an integral part of their arsenal for marketing their own agenda to a socially engineered population. Attorneys who are aware of it use it to manipulate the minds of the jury, and even the mind of the judge if he doesn’t have the knowledge to defend himself against it.

Want to know if someone is lying or betraying your trust? Notice that during a conversation the person has these four attitudes: he leans on his hand, he leans on his face, he crosses his arms and he maintains a posture that is tilted somewhere, not erect.

In the next chapters, you will find a collection of the most powerful persuasive and manipulative techniques used by advertisers, emotional predators, vendors, politicians and all those who are able to change the thoughts of an individual or a group of people. You can use these techniques both to protect

The blame game can happen in relationships, business dealings, and politics. Politicians who find someone else to blame for the problems happening in their country often present themselves as saviors and heroes for their people. They are the ones who have a solution for everything, yet when you drill down on their track record, they really don’t achieve much of anything.

Think of all those times you hear people say, “things would be different if you weren’t sick.” That is one of the most rudimentary means of making someone feel guilty, yet it is highly powerful. Also, you may hear others say things like, “remember when you needed my help? Now, I need your help.” This is a clear attempt at coaxing someone to go along with the manipulator’s intentions.

People should want to do things for you just because they want to and not what they can get out of it. This is one of the most common forms of manipulation. You feel like someone is being nice to you and doing things for you when you need them. But there always seems to be a catch or something involved. If you don’t adhere to those stipulations, then they make you feel ungrateful, like you are taking advantage of their kindness.

Embellishment is often used to create grandiose accounts of a person’s accomplishments. For instance, a job applicant may include that they were at the top of their class in college when, in reality, they were in the middle of the pack. Another type of embellishment is “name dropping.” This is commonly used by manipulators to appear that they are connected despite having very loose connections, at best, with the people they are mentioned.

Leading Questions This involves the dark persuader questions that trigger some response from the victim. A persuader may ask a question like, “do you really think so-and-so is that mean?” This question implies that the person being referred to is bad in one way or another. An example of a non-leading question is, “what do you think about so-and-so?” When using leading questions, dark persuaders ensure that they are carefully worded. Dark persuaders know that once the victim feels like they are being led in order to trigger a certain response from them, they will become more resistant to being persuaded. When the manipulator gets a feeling that the victim appears to be catching on, they will immediately change tactics and return to asking the leading questions only when the victim has dropped their guard. This is a tactic commonly used in interviews or during interrogation, such as when police is questioning a suspect.

The most skilled manipulators are able to mix lies with the truth. This enables them to paint a more credible illusion as the kernels of truth embedded in the illusion gives those around them the impression that what they are saying is actually real. As a result, they may get away with their lies. However, please bear in mind that the devil is in the details. So, if you knit pick long enough, you may find that you are dealing with an impostor. That’s why it’s always a good idea to take everything you hear with a grain of salt. If you choose to take everything you hear at face value, you may become disappointed when you realize that you believed someone who was deliberately trying to fool you.

Think about advertisers. Brand positioning is not something that happens overnight. As a matter of fact, positioning a brand is an endeavor that takes a long time, often years. But once the brand is positioned, they become entrenched in the minds of consumers. And while there is nothing wrong with positioning a brand over time based on quality products and good service, the manipulative aspect of this type of advertising occurs when advertisers do their best to persuade consumers of their brand. As such, there is no substantial quality of product behind the brand but just clever advertising. So, it’s up to consumers to discern if a product is really worth all the hype. Nevertheless, most consumers fall to the hype surrounding the brand.

Putting the Other Person Down The manipulator has other options available to help them reach their ultimate goal. One tactic that can be quite effective consists in putting their target down on a regular basis. However, this isn’t done through insults or threats. This covert technique is very useful because the manipulator uses it in a very subtle manner. This can be seen in the abundant use of sarcasm or perhaps passive-aggressive attacks. For example, the manipulator may say, “don’t we look lovely today” when it is clear that the victim is not at their best. A passive-aggressive approach might be something like, “I’m just going to have to take you in for a good scrubbing and a haircut.” It might say in a playful tone, but the subtext is far more sinister. As for the target, they may not realize that they are the subject of manipulation. They may feel terrible as a result of the interaction, but may not realize that they are being deliberately acted upon by the manipulator. Consequently, the target is left to wonder is what the motives might be for being treated in such a manner. Honestly, it doesn’t really matter, at least not to the manipulator. What does matter is that the target is left feeling vulnerable and exposed. This is where the manipulator can make the most of their efforts. When a victim is left feeling defenseless, the manipulator is in a prime position to take advantage ([27]). On the contrary, if a person feels safe and empowered, the likelihood of them being manipulated is quite low. That’s why manipulators prey upon people with low self-esteem. If a person has high self-esteem, then they won’t be easily manipulated. If anything, put-downs and insults will spark a defensive reaction. That would leave the manipulator with no choice but to move on to the next victim.

Covert Deception Masking true intentions of the dark persuader is another tactic a manipulator will use to get what they want. A dark persuader will disguise their true intentions from their victims and can use different approaches depending on their victims and the surrounding circumstances. One approach a dark persuader can use is using two requests consecutively because people find it hard to refuse two requests in a row. Take this example; a manipulator wants $500 from their victim. The dark persuader will begin by explaining why they are needed of $1000 while stating what will happen if they are not able to come up with that amount. The victim may feel some form of guilt or compassion, but will kindly explain to the manipulator that they cannot lend the amount because, quite frankly, it is more than they can manage to give. This is when the persuader will lessen the amount to $500, which was what they wanted from the beginning. They will attach the amount with some emotional reason where the victim will be unable to refuse the second request. The dark persuader walks away with the original sum, and the victim is left confused about what took place.

EXERCISE 10: DEVELOPING A GRAND VISION You may want to do this exercise alone, out in a natural setting somewhere. 1. See Your Interests, Values, and Abilities. The next step is to discover how your interests and your deep values connect into and form your mission. It can be accomplished by seeing a grand, whole, meaningful image of what purpose you could dedicate your life to. This will be formed from your interests, values, and present goals. Begin to play with the images that you see, which represent some kind of direction that you want to take. As you get a sense of what your mission can be, see various snapshots of yourself doing what you love to do, snapshots of your abilities. 2. Focus on Heroes and Heroines. Take a look at what your favorite heroes or heroines do. See yourself doing things that give you the same feeling you get when you think of them. See snapshots of the person you want to become. Any images you don’t like can fade away. 3. Direct a Movie of Yourself. See yourself the way you want to be—doing the things you love to do. Whatever you choose to put on the screen, you’re the Spielberg, you’re the director. See the images that you feel passionate about. You can play with the images in front of you. Pretend that you’re in the middle of an inner, three-dimensional movie theater. It’s a place where you can see and hear and feel with great fidelity. Notice how much you can see, letting the wisdom from within guide the visual display that you see in front of you. Visualize it, feel it, enjoy it. The images are often up close and in full, rich color. See yourself living out a scenario that gives you tingles in your spine. You can zoom in on that glorious, fun-filled, exciting future that you see. It allows you to do what you love to do and accomplish what you believe in. 4. Recall Your Deep Values. List your deep values as you watch your mission scenario. Notice how your values and your images can fit together with a remarkable consistency. 5. Ask for Help from Your Inner Wisdom. Ask for your inner wisdom, the higher powers, or God to guide your grand vision. This vision is going to be more of a discovery than a creation. Let it come to you. Ask and it will come. Take the time to see and hear those aspects of life that unify into a whole that you feel a powerful passion for. See some more images. See some time going by. See various bright, radiant, up-close, colorful images of what it is that you could create in your life. They can begin going in a certain direction, coalescing and representing many of your current goals, some of the things that you want. See them develop into a kind of grand visionary collection of images that represents your purpose and your mission. 6. Do What It Takes. Take whatever time you need—five minutes, an hour, a whole afternoon. This is your life, your future that you are creating. When you finish, write it down. Your images are so attractive, you have some glimpses of what your mission is. Now you can develop it more fully. Ask the visionary in you to give you the gift of this grand vision. Now that you can see your grand vision of what you want to contribute to, you can make that vision into a cause to work for—a specific direction to channel your efforts to.

The Encyclopedia of Systemic NLP (2000) and NLP II: The Next Generation (2010).

Bandler and Grinder’s work with Virginia Satir and their exploration of parts also led to the principle of positive intention. Simply put, the principle states that at some level all behavior is (or at one time was) “positively intended.” Another way to say it is that all behavior serves (or at one time served) a “positive purpose” – i.e., every “neuro-linguistic program” emerges and lasts because it serves some type of adaptive function. While I liked the principle, at first it seemed mostly like a nice philosophical idea. Like everything else in NLP, however, it eventually became a very personal experience that changed my life. It did not come in a flash of blinding light as to St. Paul on the road to Damascus. It was subtler. But the moment that I deeply realized all of my behaviors had some type of positive intention, even if I did not immediately recognize what it was, something shifted inside of me that led to a deep trust in my own being; that somehow, as Einstein proposed, “the universe is a friendly place” at its core. Even today the principle of positive intention seems to me to be the most spiritual principle in NLP.

When it comes to communication, you want to change your perspective from what is being said, to what is being understood, as the owner of making sense of your communication is your listener after all.

After four years of corporate experience I completed the first draft of Making the Message Clear (which I believe was the first book on the application of NLP to business).

Since the early days, some of the originators of NLP have developed new models including Design Human Engineering, the New NLP, and NLP New Code.

Sobriety Demystified: Getting Clean and Sober with NLP and CBT, which was published in 1996. In keeping

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and working with the subconscious mind. NLP is a different approach to mental mastery. It is the scientific impact that language has on the subconscious mind. An array of modalities and language patterns are implemented to bypass the loud, chattery, brain bullshit, which gets in the way of resourceful thinking. It also takes the traumas we have stored in our subconscious, from years of repetitive thinking and behaviors, and makes us consciously aware of them, so we can implement the tools and experience positive and lasting change at a brain and cellular level.

Imagine a world where people say the first thing that comes to mind, a world where you told the truth to everyone you talked with. For example, let’s say you took one look at your boss early in the morning only for you to tell him he looks like a weakling. Or imagine yourself as a salesperson telling a customer how firm and perky her breasts are or a woman telling her male neighbor how nice and tight his butt is.

According to Korzybski, differentiating orders of abstraction also included distinguishing between (a) descriptions of experiences and (b) inferences (conclusions drawn from our experiences and our descriptions of those experiences); and between descriptions about descriptions, inferences based upon other inferences, affect about affect (feelings about other feelings), and between one person’s abstractions and another person’s abstractions, etc.

The smoker needs, first of all, to MAKE THE DEFINITE AND STRONG DECISION TO QUIT SMOKING.

• Sign the contract • Trust me • Accept this offer • Work with me • Decide now • Act now • Do what I say • Do as I say • Feel motivated • Get excited • Take action • Agree with me • Convince yourself • Believe me • Extend the deadline • Come to my office • Sign this now • Listen to me • Accept less • Take notes Uses,

You can choose whatever you want to believe.

Compulsive language - which includes the words 'should', 'ought' or 'must' - leads to patterns of behaviour that can become compulsive.

Behind every action is a positive intention. Imagine how it might be if you had this among your working beliefs.

In fact, some research studies have proved that people with brain damage resulting in not being able to experience emotions fully have reduced capacity to make good decisions. Even

sense of the situation. People are skeptical about NLP,

Context: Where am I when a particular experience takes place, in what environment, and who else is around? Behavior: What physical and verbal behaviors do I have in that context? What do I do? What do I say? Capabilities: What emotional and physical skills do I exhibit? For example, am I confident or nervous? Beliefs and values: What are the beliefs I hold about myself, the world, and my place in it, when I am in this context? What values do I hold in this context; what is important to me? Meta-programs: What are the underlying behavioral and neurological patterns that drive my behavior? For example, am I moving towards a specific outcome, or moving away from risk? These drivers are called meta-programs in NLP, and we will be talking about them more in a later chapter. Identity: Considering everything else, what is my identity in this context? Am I a leader? Am I a follower? Am I exploring? Am I creating? Am I teaching? What is my role? Beyond identity: How do I fit in with everybody else around me in this context? This could be my family, my colleagues at work, my teammates, my friends and neighbors, or whoever is part of this context. How do I fit in with the bigger picture, with God or the divine, however you perceive that to be?

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit. Aristotle

The thing to realize about beliefs is that they are not intended to match existing reality. They are intended to provide a motivation and a vision so that your actual behavior can begin to develop and rise to meet them.

You can only lead people to change their own beliefs. It is not up to you to change somebody else's belief. The goal is to pace and lead them into establishing a new belief for themselves.

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The point is that when you have a belief, even environmental and behavioral evidence won’t change it because a belief isn’t about reality.

beliefs function at a different level than environmental and behavioral reality and don’t change by the same processes.

The only thing that characterized these hundred people was that they all believed what they were doing would work for them.

There is no such thing as failure, only feedback. We are always producing a result; if it’s not what we want, we can use the unwanted result as feedback to guide us in experimenting with other choices.

As you change yourself, you’ll notice how—without a word—people around you shift in response. This phenomenon is fascinating and is likely to inspire you to make more changes!

If what you are doing isn’t working, try anything else. If we keep experimenting, we aren’t guaranteed success, but we can sure stack the odds. The only way to fail is to quit trying!

When you truly know what you want, and that what you want is worth having, you’ll find all your internal resources aligning.

People who are motivated away from things often experience a lot of pain and worry before they’re motivated to act.

You see, the funny thing was that when I changed, the people around me changed, too.

If you were to pause for a moment and look at your life from a slightly different perspective, you would see you’ve always been changing.

The most effective way to turbocharge your life is to learn to move in harmony with your values.

Groupthink" or "group thinking" has been the subject of many experiments that have shown how individuals are strongly influenced by group opinions, perceptions, and behavior (Bias Ingroup).

But if he seems to be fishing for pertinent information with overly personal questions, if he keeps trying to find ways that he can commiserate with you so that you will confide in him, or if he is using fancy language and flattery to make you feel ingratiated and charmed by him, then that is a bad sign that he is trying to get an emotional hook into you to manipulate you.

The quality of our lives is determined by the quality of our communications. How we communicate with ourselves creates our personal experience and how we communicate with others determines the way we are treated throughout our lives.

You know how difficult it is to live among people with so many different emotions if you are an empath. You also know, deep inside, that this is a gift, a super-power. Yet, in a society that glorifies the ultra-strong, being sensitive is frequently seen as a weakness or a problem that needs to be fixed, rather than a gift to be embraced.

A man who has control over his mind is able to realize its full potential.

By challenging such comparisons, we get to realize that we all have good points and bad points, and because we are all unique, the only valid comparison we can actually make is when we compare ourselves now to ourselves in the past

By listening to how a person speaks, you can identify how they are thinking, and that will help you to know how to communicate back to them. When they use visual words, see to it that you show them a clear picture. When they use auditory expressions, tune in and let yourself be heard loud and clear. When they use feeling words, grasp the chance to give them a solid understanding. This will help them feel that you are really speaking the same language as they are.

What I want you to do is to think about the very thing that made you feel bad. Just imagine watching it on a screen and taking hold of the brightness dial. Then, in one quick move, I want you to turn that dial all the way to bright, so you completely white the picture out – one moment you see it, and the next it’s just completely whited out. As Liz did this, she jerked slightly in the chair. Excellent! Do it again. Imagine the thing that made you feel bad. Now white it out, real quick. And again. And again. Now, take that really good feeling that you were spinning, and as you imagine that situation in the future, white out the bad thought and spin this really good feeling around.As you do this, you’re going to hear an inner voice that says, ‘Never again!’Because sometimes you’re going to feel that enough is enough and you’re not going to allow yourself to keep on doing