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You can't make positive discoveries that make your life better if you never try anything new.
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Josh Kaufman (The Personal MBA: Master the Art of Business)
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Focus on Options, not issues, and you’ll be able to handle any situation life throws at you.
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Josh Kaufman (The Personal MBA: Master the Art of Business)
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Experimentation is the essence of living a satisfying, productive, fulfilling life. The more you Experiment, the more you learn, and the more you’ll achieve.
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Josh Kaufman (The Personal MBA: A World-Class Business Education in a Single Volume)
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All hurt is founded on attachment to anything regardless of its nature. When we detach we vibrationally send ourselves back into the flow of life.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Being "nowhere" is a step towards getting somewhere.
Today, if you feel like you are nowhere, you are in a powerful position to choose the "somewhere" you want to go.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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You can tell if a discipline is BS if the degree depends severely on the prestige of the school granting it. I remember when I applied to MBA programs being told that anything outside the top ten or twenty would be a waste of time. On the other hand a degree in mathematics is much less dependent on the school (conditional on being above a certain level, so the heuristic would apply to the difference between top ten and top two thousand schools). The same applies to research papers. In math and physics, a result posted on the repository site arXiv (with a minimum hurdle) is fine. In low-quality fields like academic finance (where papers are usually some form of complicated storytelling), the “prestige” of the journal is the sole criterion.
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Nassim Nicholas Taleb (Skin in the Game: Hidden Asymmetries in Daily Life)
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Cliché: "The MBA changed my life."
What it really means:
"A fantastic career, a great social life and a healthy bank balance...three of the things I had before I started the program.
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Sameer Kamat (Beyond The MBA Hype: A Guide to Understanding and Surviving B-Schools)
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When we are restless, it only implies that we are everywhere else but in the moment.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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as Google CEO Larry Page put it in his 2014 TED talk: “The main thing that has caused companies to fail, in my view, is that they missed the future.
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Jack Welch (The Real-Life MBA: Your No-BS Guide to Winning the Game, Building a Team, and Growing Your Career)
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If you encourage your prospects to Visualize what their life will look like after purchasing, you increase the probability that they’ll purchase from you.
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Josh Kaufman (The Personal MBA: Master the Art of Business)
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We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all we need to make us happy is something to be enthusiastic about.
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Josh Kaufman (The Personal MBA: Master the Art of Business)
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Sometimes breaking down is the only solution to stepping up.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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leadership, very simply, is about two things: 1. Truth and trust. 2. Ceaselessly seeking the former, relentlessly building the latter.
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Jack Welch (The Real-Life MBA: Your No-BS Guide to Winning the Game, Building a Team, and Growing Your Career)
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Everything is nothing to an individual until they recognize and define it to be something.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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A world full of "certainties"
All the plans, all the vanities.
Where black covers the white
Suited in "confidence"- the constant fight.
A million roads I dream to take
One destination, knowing not I turn where.
A green veil covers for two years, some two decades.
But the "plan" awaits, new roads to make.
I pant, I struggle, I do my best
While they say,
"You are, dear, but so inadequate".
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Sanhita Baruah
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Your people give their days (and sometimes their nights) to you. They give their hands, brains, and hearts. Sure, the company pays them. It fills their wallets. But as a leader, you need to fill their souls. You can do that by getting in their skin, by giving the work meaning, by clearing obstacles, and by demonstrating the generosity gene. And you can do it, perhaps most powerfully, by creating an environment that’s exciting and enjoyable.
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Jack Welch (The Real-Life MBA: Your No-BS Guide to Winning the Game, Building a Team, and Growing Your Career)
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When you remember that you are a unique and very important person created by a divine being we call God, and in "His" very image, then you relax well knowing that your life is a divine plan, and your job is to surrender and allow
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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And for the glorious honor of being bitched at constantly and the esteemed title of Claims Investigator, he’d given up five years of his life as he went to college, created a debt his great-grandkids would curse him over, and got the holy honor of MBA. More Bullshit Allowed. (Zeke)
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Sherrilyn Kenyon (Blood Lite)
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Flexibility is a mental preservative for sanity.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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Don't ignore your discomforts about a place or person. They are normally vital signs for you to change.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Just as a star can’t be seen behind a cloud, you can never shine and be seen behind the clouding of your insecurities.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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The only consistent and unconditional happiness that we are promised can only be found INSIDE each one of us
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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What’s inside something doesn’t make that something, what’s inside it. People are not their behavior.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Giving up on your dreams because it's getting harder is like stopping to paddle your boat in the midst of strong winds: you shall drown.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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When you finally understand that it's all so temporary, you start focusing on what's truly permanent: the connection to God within you
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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Sometimes the best solution is the most painful option
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Regardless of what you lose or the challenges you face, you will never lose your power to make decisions
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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It is only when we change the whole world of our inner world, that the whole world of the external world changes.
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA
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When you are in a dark place, you tend to sit back and wait for the light to come. But it won't: because, you are the only one who can find your inner light.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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There is value hidden in every problem: Don't waste it
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Sometimes, the only cost to experience an ecstatic moment is a decision
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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The same home can be a prison or a palace. It all depends on what you decide it to be.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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Life is nothing more than what we internally translate it to be.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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We only get to receive what we internally give to ourselves through the programming of our internal representations.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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It is easier to deal with one with an empty bank account than with one, with a broke mind.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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You cannot go global on the phone or online,
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Jack Welch (The Real-Life MBA: Your No-BS Guide to Winning the Game, Building a Team, and Growing Your Career)
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It is only when you don't want to do something that you never get the time to do it.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Life is nothing other than what we internally translate it to be.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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We call them miracles because they are sourced in the timeless infinite, and uncontemplatable by the time-based ego-mind.
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PhD, MBA
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People with big personalities can make very big targets of themselves.
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Jack Welch (The Real-Life MBA: The no-nonsense guide to winning the game, building a team and growing your career)
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The present moment is aptly named 'present'—a reminder that it is indeed a gift.
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA
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When you feel broken, don't look down to pick up the broken pieces. Look within to see what has remained or is being born.
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PhD, MBA
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Reading self-improvement books is like creating a mental savings account from which we can withdraw viable tools for what we perceive as tough days.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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Don’t determine what you want based on what’s missing in your life. Determine, and focus on what you want based on what you truly believe you deserve for your life
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PhD, MBA
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The truth is what it is to who holds it.
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PhD, MBA
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In order to solve a problem, you can not be a problem as well.
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray, PhD, MBA
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Trusting people is like trusting unreliable conditions that are susceptible to change.
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray, PhD, MBA
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Nothing in your world is going to change unless you change. Because even if something changes you won't recognize it. You will still perceive it with an unchanged and out-dated vision.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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One of the most vital goals in life is to be consistently inspired to be flexible to change, so that we can easily take on different strategies until we arrive at our desired destination
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PhD, MBA
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A negative experience is just a story that one allows to dwell in his/her mind. And it should never influence their inner peace or diminish their thrill to shoot for the stars. Remember, it is just a "STORY.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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Today is the starting line for the rest of your life. Yes, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday. The problem with the past is that we remember memories we shouldn't, and we don't forget what we should“ If your eyes are stuck in the rearview mirror, you're stuck in the past. If you're stuck in the past, you're not looking ahead. If you're not looking ahead, you can't hit the mark of your future.
The universe doesn't care about your past. It is blind to it. The universe doesn't care that I wore pink pants in high school. (Hey, remember Miami Vice?) The universe doesn't care that I got in a fight with Francis Franken and lost. The universe doesn't care about your MBA from UCLA, your drug-dealing father, or that you wet your bed in junior high. The universe simply doesn't care. One person and one person only weaponizes past transgressions: you.
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M.J. DeMarco (The Millionaire Fastlane: Crack the Code to Wealth and Live Rich for a Lifetime!)
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I have anecdotal evidence in my business that MBAs tend to blow up in financial markets, as they are trained to simplify matters a couple of steps beyond their requirement. (I beg the MBA reader not to take offense; I am myself the unhappy holder of the degree.)
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Nassim Nicholas Taleb (Fooled by Randomness: The Hidden Role of Chance in Life and in the Markets (Incerto, #1))
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The vision should be less about what things are going to look like in the future and more about how the company is going to be better positioned to create value and to reap the rewards of that value creation. When we communicate vision in this way, we can go from the world of vague ideals to the world of "this makes sense" for the people who will ultimately be responsible for stewarding the vision. And when it makes sense to them, and they feel connected to it, they do their part so we can collectively bring it to life.
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Hendrith Vanlon Smith Jr.
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Nothing in life is stronger than perseverance; time only promotes it, failure is afraid of it, negative people hide from it, and disease is affected by it. Even rocks give way to perseverance: because if water perseveres its impacts on the surface of a rock long enough, the rock starts to wither.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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I can’t emphasize this enough: the quickest and easiest way to screw up your life is to take on too much debt. The primary reason people spend decades working in jobs they despise is to pay off their creditors. Financial stress can destroy relationships, threaten your health, and jeopardize your sanity.
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Josh Kaufman (The Personal MBA: Master the Art of Business)
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I had a strong bias in favor of Russian scientists; many can be put to active use as chess coaches (I also got a piano teacher out of the process). In addition, they are extremely helpful in the interview process. When MBAs apply for trading positions, they frequently boast “advanced” chess skills on their résumés. I recall the MBA career counselor at Wharton recommending our advertising chess skills “because it sounds intelligent and strategic.” MBAs, typically, can interpret their superficial knowledge of the rules of the game into “expertise.” We used to verify the accuracy of claims of chess expertise (and the character of the applicant) by pulling a chess set out of a drawer and telling the student, now turning pale: “Yuri will have a word with you.
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Nassim Nicholas Taleb (Fooled by Randomness: The Hidden Role of Chance in Life and in the Markets (Incerto, #1))
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There is no exclusivity in the comparison of emotions attached to opposites "
This means that we can not appreciate feeling good when we have never felt bad. We can never appreciate comfort without being exposed to discomfort.
let's make a determined effort every day to do uncomfortable things; because it's only when we push ourselves beyond our comfort limits that we get to uncover the abundant wealth of endurance within us, and get to tap into the true essence of comfort.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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In 1959, the sociologist Erving Goffman laid out a theory of identity that revolved around playacting. In every human interaction, he wrote in The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life, a person must put on a sort of performance, create an impression for an audience. The performance might be calculated, as with the man at a job interview who’s practiced every answer; it might be unconscious, as with the man who’s gone on so many interviews that he naturally performs as expected; it might be automatic, as with the man who creates the correct impression primarily because he is an upper-middle-class white man with an MBA. A performer might be fully taken in by his own performance—he might actually believe that his biggest flaw is “perfectionism”—or he might know that his act is a sham. But no matter what, he’s performing. Even if he stops trying to perform, he still has an audience, his actions still create an effect.
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Jia Tolentino (Trick Mirror)
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An American businessman took a vacation to a small coastal Mexican village on doctor’s orders. Unable to sleep after an urgent phone call from the office the first morning, he walked out to the pier to clear his head. A small boat with just one fisherman had docked, and inside the boat were several large yellowfin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish.
“How long did it take you to catch them?” the American asked.
“Only a little while,” the Mexican replied in surprisingly good English.
“Why don’t you stay out longer and catch more fish?” the American then asked.
“I have enough to support my family and give a few to friends,” the Mexican said as he unloaded them into a basket.
“But… What do you do with the rest of your time?”
The Mexican looked up and smiled. “I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take a siesta with my wife, Julia, and stroll into the village each evening, where I sip wine and play guitar with my amigos. I have a full and busy life, señor.”
The American laughed and stood tall. “Sir, I’m a Harvard M.B.A. and can help you. You should spend more time fishing, and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat. In no time, you could buy several boats with the increased haul. Eventually, you would have a fleet of fishing boats.”
He continued, “Instead of selling your catch to a middleman, you would sell directly to the consumers, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing, and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village, of course, and move to Mexico City, then to Los Angeles, and eventually to New York City, where you could run your expanded enterprise with proper management.
The Mexican fisherman asked, “But, señor, how long will all this take?”
To which the American replied, “15-20 years, 25 tops.”
“But what then, señor?”
The American laughed and said, “That’s the best part. When the time is right, you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich. You would make millions.”
“Millions señor? Then what?"
“Then you would retire and move to a small coastal fishing village, where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take a siesta with your wife, and stroll in to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos.
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Tim FERRIS
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All definitions confine the defined, to themselves.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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I have engaged my students in the quest as well. In my MBA course, Building and Sustaining a Successful Enterprise, we study theories regarding the various dimensions of the job of general managers. These theories are statements of what causes things to happen—and why. When the students understand these theories, we put them “on”—like a set of lenses—to examine a case about a company. We discuss what each of the theories can tell us about why and how the problems and opportunities emerged in the company. We then use the theories to predict what problems and opportunities are likely to occur in the future for that company, and we use the theories to predict what actions the managers will need to take to address them.
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Clayton M. Christensen (How Will You Measure Your Life?)
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Every ending is just an opportunity to start again, wiser, more experienced, and more emboldened for the next act.
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Jack Welch (The Real-Life MBA: The no-nonsense guide to winning the game, building a team and growing your career)
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To all the MBA Gurus / Motivational Gurus/ Teachers/ Trainers - don't use students for your need to increase your followers or your need to earn more money. Give service and to those students who need it.
- Avijeet Rabindranath Das
My Dad, Dr Rabindranath Das, is a doctor who never cheated any of the people just to become rich. He still lives in his old house in my hometown.
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Avijeet Das
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I have failed many times in my life. But I don't give up.
- Avijeet Rabindranath Das
Teaching is a noble profession just as the profession of a Doctor is. Don't belittle this noble profession for the sake of money, followers, and fame. To all the MBA Gurus/ Motivational Gurus/ Teachers/ Trainers - don't use students for your need to increase your followers or your need to earn more money. Give service and to those students who need it. You may live a life of poverty, but you will live an inspirational life.
- Avijeet Rabindranath Das
My Dad, Dr Rabindranath Das, is a doctor who never cheated any of the people just to become rich. He still lives in his old house in my hometown.
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Avijeet Das
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To be someone or to do something, which would I choose?* A man occasionally reaches a fork in life’s path. One road leads to doing something, to making an impact on his organization and his world. To being true to his values and vision, and standing with the other men who’ve helped build that vision. He will have to trust himself when all men doubt him, and as a reward, he will have the scorn of his professional circle heaped on his head. He will not be favored by his superiors, nor win the polite praise of his conformist peers. But maybe, just maybe, he has the chance to be right, and create something of lasting value that will transcend the consensus mediocrity inherent in any organization, even supposedly disruptive ones. The other road leads to being someone. He will receive the plum products, the facile praise afforded to the organization man who checks off the canonical list of petty virtues that define moral worth in his world. He will receive the applause of his peers, though it will be striking how rarely that traffic in official praise leads to actual products anybody remembers, much less advances the overall cause of the organization. I certainly had options. I can’t say I didn’t. I had outs, and could have walked away from FBX. All I had to do was shut up, keep my head down, go through the motions with whatever shitty product was handed to me after FBX, and read along from the Facebook script about how to be a proper product manager. I might even resurrect my career if one of those products was “successful.” In the rapidly ossifying Facebook culture, one could get along simply by going along. Plus, there were real stakes on the line. Consider the number of shares and the fact that at the time of this writing, in December 2015, Facebook is worth almost four times what it was when I struck my AdGrok deal. I had two children, whose mother’s nine-to-five corporate job provided for them, though just barely. Her London trader heyday was long gone, and now her salary was that of your standard-issue MBA inside the corporate machine. I contributed a slab of cash every month, per California support guidelines, but it would be my Facebook stock vesting yet to come that would pay for private high schools and Stanford, so Zoë and Noah wouldn’t have to sneak into this country’s elite through the back door from cattle class, as I had to do.
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Antonio García Martínez (Chaos Monkeys: Obscene Fortune and Random Failure in Silicon Valley)
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You work for 30, 40 years. 40 freaking years getting in the car, driving through traffic, dealing with BS, driving home, and taking the kids to buy sneakers?”
I realized April had come over. How long she had been listening, I didn't know.
“ And you don't want all that?”, She asked me.
“Maybe . Someday,” I said. “I don't even know if I'll go to college, but my mom's looking at an MBA for me, and I go along, mostly. Why? Because I care about business? No, because everyone's on me about my future. Got to get the good grades so you can get a good college so you can get a good business school so you can get on with some big firmware you Shuffle papers and tap on the keyboard That's it, man, that's your life so you get old and wonder what the hell you did with your life. That's not life. Not for a man, anyway.”
April cocked an eyebrow. “The way you described it, it doesn't sound like life for anyone. That won't be my life. You leave it all the good stuff: friends and family. Kids. The things you love to do."
I waved my hand, dismissing it all. “There used to be an adventure. You know? Going west in a wagon train, or going to war, or exploring some place no human being had ever been before. Now what do we have? Look at Sven. Look at that guy. He's my age, look at his life. Then look at mine or Jalil’s or your’s.”
April barked out a laugh. “He can barely talk because someone rammed a sword through his mouth. “
I nodded. “You know the difference between him and me? We're both about 16. But he's a man. I'm a boy.”
April made a face, angry, dismissive, frustrated. “What is it with you guys? Is it the testosterone? You know, David, it's the dawn of the 21st century and you live in the richest, most powerful Nation on Earth where there's almost no one starving and no one's slave and no one invading to murder and pillage and rape. And finally, finally after thousands of years of men slaughtering men, women, and children over nonsense, we have a few places on Earth where there's a little piece, a little decency a few places where most people get to be born and live their lives without total horror being rained down on them, and your reaction is, ‘this has to stop!
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K.A. Applegate
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You are alive because you have life. But who is the you that has it?
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PhD, MBA
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Everything is an expression of nothing.
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PhD, MBA
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The big issue seems to be that many women, even those with MBAs, love kids. The average female MBA with no children works only 3 percent fewer hours than the average male MBA. But female MBAs with children work 24 percent less.
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Steven D. Levitt (SuperFreakonomics: Global Cooling, Patriotic Prostitutes And Why Suicide Bombers Should Buy Life Insurance)
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Regret implies that one wasn't consciously present during a key moment in their life.
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA
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It doesn't matter until you give it the matter.
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA
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It was fascinating, Daisy thought, to imagine this as the life she could have led, if, back when she was twenty, she’d said, Are you crazy? to Hal instead of I do. Maybe then she could have been the glamorous single lady, on her own in a big city, in a high-rise apartment decorated in gold and peach with a closet full of beautiful clothes. Maybe she’d have gotten not just her bachelor’s degree, but an MBA, too; maybe she’d be running a national chain of cooking studios. Briefly, she let herself picture a life of first dates instead of PTA meetings; dinners alone, with a book and a glass of wine, instead of with her husband and a sullen teenager, and no one to please but herself (197-198).
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Jennifer Weiner (That Summer)
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In the long run—and often in the short-run—your willpower will never beat your environment. —JAMES CLEAR, AUTHOR OF ATOMIC HABITS Let’s say you decide to remove refined sugar from your diet. There’s overwhelming evidence that it’s not good for your health, and you’re convinced your quality of life would improve if you can kick the habit. There’s just one problem: sugar tastes good, and you experience cravings that are difficult to resist. How can you make it easier to change your eating habits? One of the most effective strategies is simple: don’t purchase products with refined sugar at the grocery store, get rid of any food with added sugar in your house, and purchase a few healthy snacks that meet your new criteria. If sugar isn’t available when and where you experience hunger, and if there are easy alternatives to your typical choices, there’s no need to resist temptation: the structure of your immediate Environment makes your new behavior automatic. A few minutes of willpower applied to altering the world around you can make it much easier to act in the ways you’ve decided to act.
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Josh Kaufman (The Personal MBA: A World-Class Business Education in a Single Volume)
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Our emotions are projections of whatever we are believing at that given time.
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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA
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Go to law school if you want to be a lawyer. If you want to party, go get an MBA. The Rat
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Charles Cooper (Later-in-Life Lawyers: Tips for the Non-Traditional Law Student)
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It's only when you find yourself that you will live authentically
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Today, there aren’t any doors. You don’t need permission from anyone. You just need an internet connection and a computer. Here’s the new paradigm: It’s no longer what you know, or who you know. It’s what you create. This fundamental shift has been brought on by technologies (mainly the internet) that have made it insanely easy to create all kinds of awesome stuff. Want to become a published author? Go for it. You don’t need a publisher. Just write your book and publish it on Amazon. I did this, and now I’m a bestselling author, selling more books than most authors would have dreamed of twenty years ago. Want to sell a product? Go for it. You don’t need a warehouse, or manufacturing equipment, or a storefront, or a bank to finance everything. Raise money on KickStarter, use Google to find a cheap manufacturer in China, and ship your product to customers all over the world on Amazon, or through your own ecommerce store. Want to learn how to start a company? You don’t need to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars getting an MBA. Take a course on Udemy. Or, join a startup accelerator program―and they’ll pay you. Here’s the thing. Even if you’re not doing this stuff, other hustlers are. The trend is happening whether you like it or not. When new resources become readily available, a sliver of society inevitably flocks to those resources and uses them to their advantage, often reaping astronomically high rewards in the process. The competitive advantage has shifted from connections to creations. Knowing important people is still important, but the means of meeting them has changed. The order is now reversed. You don’t connect and then create. You create and then connect.
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Jesse Tevelow (Hustle: The Life Changing Effects of Constant Motion)
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What comes from the soul, you can’t fake or learn. You be it, by letting it.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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The thing that gets me is, when I switched to doing an MBA at night while working at Bexley, he was unimpressed. Like he'd had any kind of opinion. Like I wasn't even noticed or acknowledged enough to disappoint. But I have, Over and over, my entire life. My career is a joke to him."
I'm surprised by how angry I'm getting. I think of Anthony, his face permanently twisted into a sarcastic expression,
"He's lost something special in you, Why is he like this?"
"I don't know. If I knew, maybe I could change it. He's just been that way with me, and most people.
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Sally Thorne (The Hating Game)
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When you consistently hold onto your passion with faith and unconditionality regardless of what anyone says or does, the very fire that ignites your passion, will pave a way for your dream to manifest in the physical universe.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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The chaos around you is none of your business: your business is how you feel about it.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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A positive anything however small is something towards your goal. It's better than nothing.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Let's do everything that we can, and let the good Lord do everything else that we can't.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Don't wait to be perfect in order to start. Starting on your dreams in itself is a grand move in perfection.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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All definitions are the interpretations of contrasts. What is, helps define what it is not!
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Emotional intelligence is making a huge mistake, but learning from it, forgiving yourself, and setting new and higher related-standards below which you will never operate.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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The most powerful way to maintain a steady supply of inspiration and unconditional peace is to find and pursue your calling.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Boredom is a kind reminder that we've shadowed our creativity
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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Everyone comes into your life to give you something even if it might as if he/she is taking something from you.
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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You said to get involved with people, that I can’t learn about connections in a vacuum.” I agreed. “So what’s not working?” She pulled a long list from her purse. “This,” Linda said, “is a list I put together of all the involvements I’ve had in the past few months. And nothing’s happening.” I read the list, which looked something like this: Dancing lessons: ballroom, disco, and line Sports: sailing, rollerblading, golf, and tennis Music: opera, modern, and piano lessons Art: ceramics and museums Spiritual: Bible study, worship, and missions Career: Ongoing training, night school to earn an MBA “What are you grinning at?” Linda asked me. I wasn’t even aware I was smiling. I told her, “This is a proud moment for me. I’ve never met a real live renaissance woman.” “Now I’m really confused,” Linda said. I explained, “Linda, this is the most well-rounded, comprehensive, and exhausting list I’ve ever seen. I can’t imagine how you can even get up in the mornings. But it’s not solving your problem. “These are all great activities, designed to develop you and help you in your life. But each of them is primarily functional, rather than relational. Their goal is competence in some skill, or recreation, or learning more about God’s creation. But relationship isn’t the goal. These are ‘doing’ things, not ‘connecting’ things.” Linda started to get it. “You know, I’ve noticed that I am talking to people at these activities. But all the talk is about tennis or management theories. I’ve wondered when someone in the classroom was going to ask me about my emotional and spiritual life.” “Don’t hold your breath,” I said.
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Henry Cloud (Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't)
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You are only susceptible to break easily due to occasionally bends if you are inflexible
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Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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You know that a dream is yours to manifest if it permanently takes refuge in your mind.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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Breathe in, breathe out. Perfect! Your breath is the debt you owe to the bank of life. Your progress is the payment.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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The only person who qualifies to decide on which goal you should or shouldn't pursue, is the one who feels it in your heart; YOU
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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I just wonder what would replace verbal abuse, compliments, conversations and praises if the entire human race were mute.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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Where you are HERE and want to get THERE, when you get THERE, you find that there is no THERE."
Moral: "THERE" only exists because you are comparing it with "HERE." Yet, your "there" changes when your "here" changes. Therefore, grandly appreciate where you are, i.e., "here," because "there" is just a myth that turns into "here" when you get "there." Simplified, HERE and NOW is all there is. Enjoy this moment.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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When you are HERE and want to get THERE, when you get THERE, you find that there is no THERE."
Moral: "THERE" only exists because you are comparing it with "HERE." Yet, your "there" changes when your "here" changes. Therefore, grandly appreciate where you are, i.e., "here," because "there" is just a myth that turns into "here" when you get "there." Simplified, HERE and NOW is all there is. Enjoy this moment.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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You know that it is your life purpose when it pushes you beyond personal gain
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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If you are so sick and tired of being sick and tired, no strategy will be so sick to consider in liberating your life.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana
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You are a slave to anything that limits you: it is the master.
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Jacent Mpalyenkana