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Your best chance at sexual satisfaction in marriage is not to focus on appearance alone but rather to find a woman of virtue. Proverbs 31 describes her as a woman who “fears the LORD” (v. 30). When a woman is motivated by kindness, compassion, generosity, and understanding; when she is good at forgiving (because every husband needs plenty of forgiveness); when she is desirous to serve as Jesus models service, she’s going to be a very satisfying sexual partner and an overall kind wife as well.
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Gary L. Thomas (The Sacred Search: What if It's Not about Who You Marry, but Why?)