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You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.
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Sharon Salzberg
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Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself.
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Harvey Fierstein
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Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.
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Marilyn Monroe
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The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself.
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Michel de Montaigne (The Complete Essays)
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You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.
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Sharon Salzberg
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Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.
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Shannon L. Alder
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Dare to love yourself
as if you were a rainbow
with gold at both ends.
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Aberjhani (Journey through the Power of the Rainbow: Quotations from a Life Made Out of Poetry)
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How would your life be different ifβ¦You stopped allowing other people to dilute or poison your day with their words or opinions? Let today be the dayβ¦You stand strong in the truth of your beauty and journey through your day without attachment to the validation of others.
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Steve Maraboli (Life, the Truth, and Being Free)
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Whenever I am in a difficult situation where there seems to be no way out, I think about all the times I have been in such situations and say to myself, "I did it before, so I can do it again.
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Idowu Koyenikan (Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability)
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I never loved another person the way I loved myself.
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Mae West
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Don't waste your energy trying to change opinions... Do your thing and don't care if they like it.
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Tina Fey
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When you work on something that only has the capacity to make you 5 dollars, it does not matter how much harder you work β the most you will make is 5 dollars.
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Idowu Koyenikan (Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability)
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If you once forfeit the confidence of your fellow citizens, you can never regain their respect and esteem. It is true that you may fool all of the people some of the time; you can even fool some of the people all of the time; but you can't fool all of the people all of the time. -Speech at Clinton, Illinois, September 8, 1854.
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Abraham Lincoln
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You may be the only person left who believes in you, but it's enough. It takes just one star to pierce a universe of darkness. Never give up.
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Richelle E. Goodrich (Smile Anyway: Quotes, Verse, and Grumblings for Every Day of the Year)
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Each star is a mirror reflecting the truth inside you.
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Aberjhani (Journey through the Power of the Rainbow: Quotations from a Life Made Out of Poetry)
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A fine glass vase goes from treasure to trash, the moment it is broken. Fortunately, something else happens to you and me. Pick up your pieces. Then, help me gather mine.
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Vera Nazarian (The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration)
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Love me or hate me, i swear it won't make or break me.
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Lil Wayne
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I am my own experiment. I am my own work of art.
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Madonna
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Whenever you are going through lifeβs challenges, remember that for iron to be cast into its desired form, it must first go through intense heat.
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Idowu Koyenikan (All You Need Is a Ball: What Soccer Teaches Us about Success in Life and Business)
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Self-esteem comes from being able to define the world in your own terms and refusing to abide by the judgments of others.
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Oprah Winfrey
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Don't try to fix me, I'm not broken...
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Evanescence
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Be an Encourager: When you encourage others, you boost their self-esteem, enhance their self-confidence, make them work harder, lift their spirits and make them successful in their endeavors. Encouragement goes straight to the heart and is always available. Be an encourager. Always.
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Roy T. Bennett (The Light in the Heart)
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even
in the loneliest moments
i have been there
for myself.
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Sanober Khan
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You just have to say to yourself, "I am not willing to accept anything less than what I deserve! I am smart! I am Beautiful! I am a good woman and I deserve to be happy!" It all starts with you.
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Amari Soul (Reflections of a Man)
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I donβt want anyone to hold back who they are. Itβs not okayβ¦ itβs not a good thing
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Connor Franta
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We're miserable because we think that we are mere individuals, alone with our fears and flaws and resentment and mortality.
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Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love)
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My dear Watson," said [Sherlock Holmes], "I cannot agree with those who rank modesty among the virtues. To the logician all things should be seen exactly as they are, and to underestimate one's self is as much a departure from truth as to exaggerate one's own powers.
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Arthur Conan Doyle (The Adventure of the Greek Interpreter (The Memoirs of Sherlock Holmes, #9 ) (Sherlock Holmes))
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Maybe your country is only a place you make up in your own mind. Something you dream about and sing about. Maybe it's not a place on the map at all, but just a story full of people you meet and places you visit, full of books and films you've been to. I'm not afraid of being homesick and having no language to live in. I don't have to be like anyone else. I'm walking on the wall and nobody can stop me.
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Hugo Hamilton (The Speckled People: A Memoir of a Half-Irish Childhood)
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Envy is for people who donβt have the self-esteem to be jealous.
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Bauvard (Some Inspiration for the Overenthusiastic)
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At every given moment we are absolutely perfect for what is required for our journey.
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Steve Maraboli (Life, the Truth, and Being Free)
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In your own life it's important to know how spectacular you are.
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Steve Maraboli (Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience)
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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?
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Marianne Williamson (A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of "A Course in Miracles")
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You have a unique gift to offer this world. Be true to yourself, be kind to yourself, read and learn about everything that interests you and keep away from people who bring you down. When you treat yourself kindly and respect the uniqueness of those around you, you will be giving this world an amazing gift... YOU!
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Steve Maraboli (Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience)
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Don't belittle yourself. Be BIG yourself.
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Corita Kent
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At the core of your heart, you are perfect and pure. No one and nothing can alter that.
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Amit Ray (Meditation: Insights and Inspirations)
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Today is a new day and it brings with it a new set of opportunities for me to act on.
I am attentive to the opportunities and I seize them as they arise.
I have full confidence in myself and my abilities.
I can do all things that I commit myself to.
No obstacle is too big or too difficult for me to handle because what lies inside me is greater than what lies ahead of me.
I am committed to improving myself and I am getting better daily.
I am not held back by regret or mistakes from the past.
I am moving forward daily.
Absolutely nothing is impossible for me.
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Idowu Koyenikan (Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability)
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The price tag you put on yourself decides your worth. Underestimating yourself will cost you dearly.
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Apoorve Dubey
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Your comfort zone is a place where you keep yourself in a self-illusion and nothing can grow there but your potentiality can grow only when you can think and grow out of that zone.
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Rashedur Ryan Rahman
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She might be without country, without nation, but inside her there was still a being that could exist and be free, that could simply say I am without adding a this, or a that, without saying I am Indian, Guyanese, English, or anything else in the world.
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Sharon Maas (Of Marriageable Age)
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Youβve got to be sure of yourself before
You can ever win a prize.
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Napoleon Hill (Think and Grow Rich)
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Accepting personal responsibility for your life frees you from outside influences β increases your self-esteem β boosts confidence in your ability to decisions β and ultimately leads to achieve success in life.
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Roy T. Bennett
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Make peace with yourself before you move forward. Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward.
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Roy T. Bennett
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Those who mistrust their own abilities are being too wicked to themselves, discouraging themselves from doing what they should have been excelling in. If you are good at discouraging yourself, you can't be a good leader because leadership is built on inspiring others to face challenges.
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Israelmore Ayivor
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Remember no one really cares what you look like. They care what they look like. You are the only person in the world to have worried about your face.
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Matt Haig (Notes on a Nervous Planet)
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Be patient. Your skin took a while to deteriorate. Give it some time to reflect a calmer inner state. As one of my friends states on his Facebook profile: "The true Losers in Life, are not those who Try and Fail, but those who Fail to Try.
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Jess C. Scott (Clear: A Guide to Treating Acne Naturally)
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Hard work does not go unnoticed,
and someday the rewards will follow
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Allan Rufus (The Master's Sacred Knowledge)
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When you express "purity" which is the truth about yourself, you feel a love for yourself that is expressed by self-respect, self-esteem, and self-confidence!
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Tae Yun Kim (Seven Steps to Inner Power)
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They are called, "SELF-worth" and "SELF-esteem" for a reason... we can't let others decide what we are worth, that is so dangerous! Empower yourself!
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Jaeda DeWalt
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You all have your own distinct personal backgrounds. Of course some of you come from rich families, some from poor families. But circumstances beyond your control like that shouldnβt determine who you are. You must all realize what youβre worth on your own.
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Koushun Takami (Battle Royale)
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I am sure it is everyoneβs experience, as it has been mine, that any discovery we make about ourselves or the meaning of life is never, like a scientific discovery, a coming upon something entirely new and unsuspected; it is rather, the coming to conscious recognition of something, which we really knew all the time but, because we were unwilling to formulate it correctly, we did not hitherto know we knew.
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W.H. Auden (Markings: Spiritual Poems and Meditations)
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When admiring other people's gardens, don't forget to tend to your own flowers.
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Sanober Khan
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The road to your highest achievements leads through environments that support you.
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Raoul Davis Jr. (Firestarters: How Innovators, Instigators, and Initiators Can Inspire You to Ignite Your Own Life)
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To turn your dreams into reality, all your resources, efforts and concentration should be aligned in the same direction.
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Roopleen
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What is it that would make a creature as fierce, majestic and powerful as a lion is, subject itself to the intimidation of a man a whip and a chair? The lion has been taught to forget what it is.
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Iyanla Vanzant (Peace from Broken Pieces: How to Get Through What You're Going Through)
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Iβm nothing great. But Iβm a roseβ¦ Iβm a rose whether Iβm admired or not, Iβm a rose whether anyoneβs crazy about me or notβ¦ Like I said, nothing great. Just a roseβ¦ But, do you know what it means to be a rose, my friend? Being a rose means βfreedom.β It means not existing by the praises of Others or not ceasing to exist by their disapproval.
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Serdar Γzkan
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Just take this as a warning. Know that there's always a price for not being yourself.
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Benilde Little (Acting Out: A Novel)
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I think your whole life shows in your face and you should be proud of that.
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Lauren Bacall
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Advice to my younger self:
1 Start where you are with what you have
2 Try not to hurt other people
3 Take more chances
4 If you fail, keep trying
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Germany Kent
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Peopleβs confidence in their abilities influences how they approach life. Their dreams are likely anchored to what they feel they can achieve.
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Raoul Davis Jr. (Firestarters: How Innovators, Instigators, and Initiators Can Inspire You to Ignite Your Own Life)
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By creating an image of low self- esteem within ourselves, we bomb and terrorize our true self. When we refuse to forgive, we create an insensible war from old grudges. When we allow stress to impede our healthy flow of energy, we create the weapon of destruction that kills humanity.
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Forrest Curran (Purple Buddha Project: Purple Book of Self-Love)
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Happiness does not come in large incomes or the most exotic home, it comes in small doses of a great self esteem which can be built upon the strengths of an individual.
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Nicholas A. McGirr
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Forget about self-image and self-judgment. It's about self-love, and no one teaches you that at school. No one teaches you that if you accept and love yourself, nothing and no one can touch you.
This is the only face and body you're ever going to get, so be comfortable and happy in it. Own it. Own every aspect of who you are and present it to the world with the utmost pride.
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Connor Franta (A Work in Progress)
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You do not need to pay attention to those voices within you that create pain, or make you feel less competent, smart or able.
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Sanaya Roman (Living with Joy: Keys to Personal Power and Spiritual Transformation)
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Starting over can be the scariest thing in the entire world, whether itβs leaving a lover, a school, a team, a friend or anything else that feels like a core part of our identity but when your gut is telling you that something here isnβt right or feels unsafe, I really want you to listen and trust in that voice.
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Jennifer Elisabeth (Born Ready: Unleash Your Inner Dream Girl)
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Role models are only of limited use. For no-one is as important, potentially powerful and as key in your life and world as you.
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Rasheed Ogunlaru
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Don't ever stop believing in your own transformation. It is still happening even on days you may not realize it or feel like it.
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Lalah Delia
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Unless we take that first step into the unknown, we will never know our own potential!
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Allan Rufus (The Master's Sacred Knowledge)
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This is your life β not your parentsβ, teachersβ or significant otherβs. If you ever find yourself on a path that just doesnβt feel safe anymore, you have every right to stop the car, get out β change your shoes and start walking.
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Jennifer Elisabeth (Born Ready: Unleash Your Inner Dream Girl)
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Innovators are owners of the situation. They own it because they create itβquite literally. They embrace the world as it should match the vision in their heads. And when something is missing from that vision, they fill the gap.
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Raoul Davis Jr. (Firestarters: How Innovators, Instigators, and Initiators Can Inspire You to Ignite Your Own Life)
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The more we see ourselves as a vibrant, successful, inspiring person who boldly declares and manifests her vision, the more we become just that.
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Kristi Bowman
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Vulnerability really means to be strong and secure enough within yourself that you are able to walk outside without your armor on. You are able to show up in life as just you. That is genuine strength and courage. Armor may look tough, but all it does is mask insecurity and fear.
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Alaric Hutchinson (Living Peace: Essential Teachings For Enriching Life)
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And if you canβt see anything beautiful about yourself, get a better mirror. Look a little closer. Stare a little longer. Because thereβs something inside you that made you keep trying despite everyone who told you to quit.
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Shane L. Koyczan (To This Day: For the Bullied and Beautiful)
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Note and Quote to Self β What you think, say and do!
Your life mainly consists of 3 things!
What you think,
What you say and
What you do!
So always be very conscious of what you are co-creating!
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Allan Rufus (The Master's Sacred Knowledge)
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I never want you to deny anything about yourself because you have grown up thinking itβs unacceptable or inconvenient for the people around you.
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Jennifer Elisabeth (Born Ready: Unleash Your Inner Dream Girl)
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NOTE TO SELF β BOOMERANG EFFECT
My words, thoughts and deeds have
a boomerang effect.
So be-careful what you send out!
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Allan Rufus (The Master's Sacred Knowledge)
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Stop giving people the power to control your smile, your worth, your attitude and your day. Donβt give anyone that much power over your life.
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Germany Kent
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Thank you very Much, I enjoyed myself
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Richard P. Feynman
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I will never attend an anti-war rally; if you have a peace rally, invite me.
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Mother Teresa
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If you feel unwanted or unappreciated where you are or by those you're with, it only means you're in the wrong place or with the wrong people. Hang in there. Someone else will see you for the true gift you are.
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LK Hunsaker
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Listen. I wish I could tell you it gets better. But, it doesn't get better. You get better.
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Joan Rivers
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In spite of her plainness that would have made wallflowers of other women, she radiated a great sense of self-importance.
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Robert Galbraith (The Cuckoo's Calling (Cormoran Strike, #1))
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I thought to myself, time was never on my sideβafter all of this, it was, because it led me to the right place at the right time.
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Charlena E. Jackson (Pinwheels and Dandelions)
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Yesteryear, you will never be forgotten. I am healing, and it is a beautiful thing.
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Charlena E. Jackson (Pinwheels and Dandelions)
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True beauty radiates not from outer cosmetics, but from the simple joy of making a difference for those that need your voice, passion, and time without expecting or wanting anything in return...
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Deborah Barnes
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Quotes and notes to self β Find your inner peace!
Donβt
be caught up in your outer world.
Pay
greater attention to your inner world
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Allan Rufus
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An average man is egoistic, proud and has strong self esteem. They always require partners who massage their ego not those who will drag their ego to the mud.
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu
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Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward.
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Roy Bennett
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The possibility of the dream gives strength.
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Lailah Gifty Akita (Pearls of Wisdom: Great mind)
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Heavenly Father, we come before you today to ask your forgiveness and to seek your direction and guidance. We know Your Word says, 'Woe to those who call evil good,' but that is exactly what we have done. We have lost our spiritual equilibrium and reversed our values. We have exploited the poor and called it the lottery. We have rewarded laziness and called it welfare. We have killed our unborn and called it choice. We have shot abortionists and called it justifiable. We have neglected to discipline our children and called it building self esteem. We have abused power and called it politics. We have coveted our neighbor's possessions and called it ambition. We have polluted the air with profanity and pornography and called it freedom of expression. We have ridiculed the time-honored values of our forefathers and called it enlightenment. Search us, Oh God, and know our hearts today; cleanse us from every sin and set us free. Amen!
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Billy Graham
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If you feel you donβt know the right people, turn to the next person you see on the street and introduce yourselfβthat connection could be the key to your future.
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Raoul Davis Jr. (Firestarters: How Innovators, Instigators, and Initiators Can Inspire You to Ignite Your Own Life)
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There's no alternative to being yourself. Accept it, honour it, value it - and get on with it.
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Rasheed Ogunlaru
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How you spend your time when you are not working or studying says everything about who you are and what is motivating your life.
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Jennifer Elisabeth (Born Ready: Unleash Your Inner Dream Girl)
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Okay listen, you think I'm so inconsequential? Then try this on for size. All those who see unworthiness when they look at me and are given thereby to denying me value - to you I say, I'm not talking about being AS GOOD as you. I hereby declare myself BETTER than you.
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Sidney Poitier (The Measure of a Man: A Spiritual Autobiography)
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She was a young person of many theories; her imagination was remarkably active. It had been her fortune to possess a finer mind than most of the persons among whom her lot was cast; to have a larger perception of surrounding facts, and to care for knowledge that was tinged with the unfamiliar...It may be affirmed without delay that She was probably very liable to the sin of self-esteem; she often surveyed with complacency the field of her own nature; she was in the habit of taking for granted, on scanty evidence, that she was right; impulsively, she often admired herself...Every now and then she found out she was wrong, and then she treated herself to a week of passionate humility. After this she held her head higher than ever again; for it was of no use, she had an unquenchable desire to think well of herself. She had a theory that it was only on this condition that life was worth living; that one should be one of the best, should be conscious of a fine organization, should move in the realm of light, of natural wisdom, of happy impulse, of inspiration gracefully chronic.
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Henry James (The Portrait of a Lady)
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The root of humanly caused evil is not man's animal nature, not territorial aggression, or innate selfishness, but our need to gain self-esteem, deny our mortality, and achieve a heroic self-image. Our desire for the best is the cause of the worst.
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Sam Keen (The Denial of Death)
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Anyone can fail at something they really donβt want. What really takes courage is going after something you want and then failing. There is more fulfillment in life knowing that you tried, rather than settled without a fight.
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Shannon L. Alder
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You cannot be fair to others without first being fair to yourself.
Know that a well-honed sense of justice is a measure of personal experience, and all experience is a measure of self.
Know that the highest expression of justice is mercy.
Thus, as the supreme judge in your own court, you must have compassion for yourself.
Otherwise, cede your gavel.
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Vera Nazarian (The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration)
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The material world is all feminine. The feminine engergy makes the non-manifest, manifest. So even men (are of the feminine energy). We have to relinquish our ideas of gender in the conventional sense. This has nothing to do with gender, it has to do with energy. So feminine energy is what creates and allows anything which is non-manifest, like an idea, to come into form, into being, to be born. All that we experience in the world around us, absolutely everything (is feminine energy). The only way that anything exists is through the feminine force.
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Zeena Schreck
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Firestarters are able to make associations between similar situations and use lessons learned from one sphere of their lives to inform actions and thoughts in seemingly unrelated situations. They look for patterns of success, and then they pounce on situations that have proven to be generators of that success.
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Raoul Davis Jr. (Firestarters: How Innovators, Instigators, and Initiators Can Inspire You to Ignite Your Own Life)
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Dear Yesteryear,
I do not feel alone anymore. I have found love. Maybe I should say love has found me. Well, to be fair, we found each other. Yesterday, I didnβt have a home. Yesterday, I didnβt have a pillow where I could lay my head. Yesterday, it was hard to find peace. Yesterday, I wondered if morning would ever come. Yesterday, I was unable to love, dream, and trust. Yesterday, I didnβt understand life. Yesterday, I was walking in my shadow. I didnβt know if I had meaning or a purpose.
I am healing from my yesteryears. However, I am still rough around the edges and still have a lot to learn. I used to be so empty inside, but now I have lovely people to fill my no-longer-empty arms. Yesterday, my path was different. I was confused, not knowing if I should go right or leftβ move forward or turn around. I do not know what life has in store, but I know for a fact that I do not have to worry about the deadly and narrow path anymore.
Yesterday, my sun was blocked by my shadows and everything thing else that came along that didnβt serve me. However, today, the sun is shining brighter than it ever has in my entire life.
Yesterday, I will never forget you. Youβve taught me many lessons. I was taught lessons that a young person should never experience or even know about. Some lessons in life leave permitted marks. There have been many lessons Iβve learned that have left so many scars on my heart, but life goes on. I use to be overwhelmed by hate, disbelief, and not knowing if I was going to make it. Now, I am surrounded by warm hugs, smiles, love, and peace.
Yesteryear, you will never be forgotten. I am healing, and it is a beautiful thing.
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Charlena E. Jackson (Pinwheels and Dandelions)