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Marco went on. “Let me explain. On the plains of Colorado, something interesting happens to the wildlife when storm clouds roll through. When the cows sense a storm coming, they hightail it in the opposite direction, trying to escape it. But cows can’t outrun a storm. Eventually, it catches them—and they end up right in the thick of it, suffering as they’re forced to put up with the treacherous conditions. The herds of buffalo respond a bit differently. When buffaloes sense a storm coming, they move straight into the dark, windy skies. By heading into the storm, they spend less time in the dangerous environment and come out on the other side with fewer injuries. In your past training, have you been more like the cows, running away from the storms, or like the buffalo, running straight into them?” Niko cringed, thinking about all the times he had opted out of training because the circumstances were not ideal. “Probably more like a cow.” Marco smiled. “Many people think courage is reserved for superheroes wearing capes. But it isn’t. Extraordinary courage is found in ordinary people consistently choosing to face the storm head-on, day after day. We need you to shift your mindset from a cow to a buffalo by reframing how you see the situation. Running from the storms to seek immediate comfort will only prolong the pain. Stop running from the obstacle. Run toward the opportunity. Stop running from relentless training. Run toward the chance to grow. Stop running from the fear of judgment. Run toward the value of being different.” Marco put his arm around Niko. “It is easy to believe that courage means facing storms without fear. But that’s not it. Courage is acknowledging your fear, checking in with your Big Man wisdom, and facing the storm in spite of it. It is inside the darkness of these storms that your greatness can emerge.
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