Burke Quotes

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The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.
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Edmund Burke
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When you read a book, you hold another's mind in your hands.
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James Burke
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Woman is not made to be the admiration of all, but the happiness of one.
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Edmund Burke
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Those who don't know history are doomed to repeat it.
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Edmund Burke
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Reading without reflecting is like eating without digesting.
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Edmund Burke
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Life is a fight, but not everyone’s a fighter. Otherwise, bullies would be an endangered species.
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Andrew Vachss (Terminal (Burke, #17))
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Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could do only a little.
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Edmund Burke
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Rudeness is the weak man’s imitation of strength.
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Edmund Burke
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Well is it known that ambition can creep as well as soar.
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Edmund Burke
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But what is liberty without wisdom and without virtue? It is the greatest of all possible evils; for it is folly, vice, and madness, without tuition or restraint. Those who know what virtuous liberty is, cannot bear to see it disgraced by incapable heads, on account of their having high-sounding words in their mouths.
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Edmund Burke
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Never despair, but if you do, work on in despair.
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Edmund Burke
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Our patience will achieve more than our force.
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Edmund Burke
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Never apologise for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologise for the truth.
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Edmund Burke
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It is ordained in the eternal constitution of things, that men of intemperate minds cannot be free. Their passions forge their fetters.
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Edmund Burke (Reflections on the Revolution in France)
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Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge of Truth and Knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods." [Preface to Brissot's Address to His Constituents (1794)]
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Edmund Burke (On Empire, Liberty, and Reform: Speeches and Letters)
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Liberty does not exist in the absence of morality.
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Edmund Burke
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Only boring people get bored.
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Ruth Burke
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When bad men combine, the good must associate; else they will fall one by one, an unpitied sacrifice in a contemptible struggle.
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Edmund Burke (Thoughts on the Cause of the Present Discontents (Classic Reprint))
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No power so effectually robs the mind of all its powers of acting and reasoning as fear.
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Edmund Burke
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Louisiana is a fresh-air mental asylum.
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James Lee Burke (Pegasus Descending (Dave Robicheaux, #15))
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It is not, what a lawyer tells me I may do; but what humanity, reason, and justice, tell me I ought to do.
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Edmund Burke (Speech on Conciliation with America)
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He that wrestles with us strengthens our nerves and sharpens our skill. Our antagonist is our helper.
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Edmund Burke
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Among a people generally corrupt, liberty cannot long exist.
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Edmund Burke
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Am I a mindless fool? My life is a fragment, a disconnected dream that has no continuity. I am so tired of senselessness. I am tired of the music that my feelings sing, the dream music.
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Ross David Burke (When the Music's Over: My Journey into Schizophrenia)
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God bless the Reference Librarians
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James Lee Burke
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It is a general popular error to imagine the loudest complainers for the public to be the most anxious for its welfare.
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Edmund Burke
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If we command our wealth, we shall be rich and free. If our wealth commands us, we are poor indeed.
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Edmund Burke
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Saint Petersburg in revolt gave us Vladimir Nabokov, Isaiah Berlin, and Ayn Rand. The first was a novelist, the second a philosopher. The third was neither but thought she was both.
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Corey Robin (The Reactionary Mind: Conservatism from Edmund Burke to Sarah Palin)
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The people never give up their liberties but under some delusion.
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Edmund Burke
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Cats are the lap-dancers of the animal world. Soon as you stop shelling out, they move on, find another lap. They're furry little sociopaths. Pretty and slick -- in love with themselves. When's the last time you saw a seeing-eye cat?
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Andrew Vachss (Safe House (Burke, #10))
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People will not look forward to posterity who never look backward to their ancestors.
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Edmund Burke (Reflections on the Revolution in France)
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There is no safety for honest men except by believing all possible evil of evil men.
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Edmund Burke
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There is a boundary to men's passions when they act from feelings; but none when they are under the influence of imagination.
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Edmund Burke
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If you do whatever it takes to accomplish your goals to live the life you desire, It will be worth it. I promise! But if you find some excuse to justify quitting your journey, you will regret it. This is also a promise!" -gbb
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Glenn Brandon Burke
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The greater the power, the more dangerous the abuse.
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Edmund Burke
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RIP Leah Burke. She died of acute awkwardosis.
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Becky Albertalli (Leah on the Offbeat (Creekwood, #2))
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Mr. Spier, memorizing the Hamilton soundtrack is not going to save you on the AP Euro exam.
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Becky Albertalli (Leah on the Offbeat (Simonverse, #3))
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Why should we look to the past in order to prepare for the future? Because there is nowhere else to look.
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James Burke (Connections)
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Nothing turns out to be so oppressive and unjust as a feeble government.
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Edmund Burke (Reflections on the Revolution in France)
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Horror itself is a bit of a bullied genre, the antagonist being literary snobbery and public misconception. And I think good horror tackles our darkest fears, whatever they may be. It takes us into the minds of the victims, explores the threats, disseminates fear, studies how it changes us. It pulls back the curtain on the ugly underbelly of society, tears away the masks the monsters wear out in the world, shows us the potential truth of the human condition. Horror is truth, unflinching and honest. Not everybody wants to see that, but good horror ensures that it's there to be seen.
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Kealan Patrick Burke
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A lie is an act of theft. It steals people's faith and makes them resent themselves
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James Lee Burke (Pegasus Descending (Dave Robicheaux, #15))
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The progress of human enlightenment can go no further than in picturing people not as vicious, but as mistaken.
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Kenneth Burke
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The use of force alone is but temporary. It may subdue for a moment; but it does not remove the necessity of subduing again; and a nation is not governed, which is perpetually to be conquered.
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Edmund Burke
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Money can't buy happiness but it'll sure keep a mess of grief off your front porch.
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James Lee Burke
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They never will love where they ought to love, who do not hate where they ought to hate.
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Edmund Burke
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When people make a contract with the devil and give him an air-conditioned office to work in, he doesn't go back home easily.
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James Lee Burke (In the Electric Mist With Confederate Dead (Dave Robicheaux, #6))
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Kings will be tyrants by policy when subjects are rebels from principle.
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Edmund Burke (Reflections on the Revolution in France)
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I get sad every time I hear a person say "I don't read." It's like saying "I don't learn," or "I don't laugh," or "I don't live.
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Alafair Burke
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I have not yet lost a feeling of wonder, and of delight, that the delicate motion should reside in all the things around us, revealing itself only to him who looks for it.
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Edmund Burke
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Society is a partnership of the dead, the living and the unborn.
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Edmund Burke
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All that is necessary for evil to triumph, said Burke, is for good men to do nothing; and most good men nowadays can be relied upon to do precisely that. Where a reputation for intolerance is more feared than a reputation for vice itself, all manner of evil may be expected to flourish.
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Theodore Dalrymple (Our Culture, What's Left of It: The Mandarins and the Masses)
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It's like it doesn't even matter if I like my body, because there's always someone there to remind me I shouldn't.
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Becky Albertalli (Leah on the Offbeat (Simonverse, #3))
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The greatest gift is a passion for reading.
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Edmund Burke
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The human mind is often, and I think it is for the most part, in a state neither of pain nor pleasure, which I call a state of indifference.
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Edmund Burke (A Philosophical Enquiry into the Origin of our Ideas of the Sublime and Beautiful)
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A state without the means of some change, is without the means of its own conservation.
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Edmund Burke (Reflections on the Revolution in France)
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It is our ignorance of things that causes all our admiration and chiefly excites our passions.
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Edmund Burke (A Philosophical Enquiry into the Origin of our Ideas of the Sublime and Beautiful)
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Bravery is a willing decision to do what must be done. Fear is a cancer that is cured only by doing what must be done, backed by an intelligent, open mind.
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Corey Aaron Burkes
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It has been my experience that most human stories are circular rather than linear. Regardless of the path we choose, we somehow end up where we commenced - in part, I suspect, because the child who lives in us goes along for the ride.
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James Lee Burke (The Glass Rainbow (Dave Robicheaux, #18))
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Writing is like being in love. You never get better at it or learn more about it. The day you think you do is the day you lose it. Robert Frost called his work a lover's quarrel with the world. It's ongoing. It has neither a beginning nor an end. You don't have to worry about learning things. The fire of one's art burns all the impurities from the vessel that contains it.
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James Lee Burke
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How do you explain to yourself the casual manner in which you threw your life away?
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James Lee Burke (Swan Peak (Dave Robicheaux, #17))
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I believe every...man remembers the girl he thinks he should have married. She reappears to him in his lonely moments, or he sees her in the face of a young girl in the park, buying a snowball under an oak tree by the baseball diamond. But she belongs to back there, to somebody else, and that thought sometimes rends your heart in a way that you never share with anyone else.
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James Lee Burke (Black Cherry Blues (Dave Robicheaux, #3))
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She was addicted to literature like some people were addicted to heroin.
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allie burke (Emerald Destiny (The Enchanters, #2))
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As the rose-tree is composed of the sweetest flowers and the sharpest thorns, as the heavens are sometimes overcastβ€”alternately tempestuous and sereneβ€”so is the life of man intermingled with hopes and fears, with joys and sorrows, with pleasure and pain.
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Edmund Burke
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Humility is not a virtue in a writer, it is an absolute necessity.
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James Lee Burke
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To make us love our country, our country ought to be lovely.
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Edmund Burke (Reflections on the Revolution in France)
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Our culture is now one of masculine triumphalism, in which transhistorically feminine expressions – empathy, sweetness, volubility, warmth – are seen as impediments to a woman’s professional trajectory in many sectors.
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Antonella Gambotto-Burke (Mama: Dispatches from the Frontline of Love)
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And every good artist knows that the gift comes from somewhere else, and it's there for a reason, and that's to make the world a better place.
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James Lee Burke
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[They] may have for instance taken the view of Edmund Burke, who in the 18th century made the central conservative insight; that a culture and a society are not things run for the convenience of the people who happen to be here right now, but is a deep pact between the dead, the living, and those yet to be born.
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Douglas Murray (The Strange Death of Europe: Immigration, Identity, Islam)
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Wise men will apply their remedies to vices, not to names; to the causes of evil which are permanent, not to occasional organs by which they act, and the transitory modes in which they appear.
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Edmund Burke (Reflections on the Revolution in France)
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And like most middle-aged people who hear the clock ticking in their lives, I had come to resent a waste or theft of my time that was greater than any theft of my goods or money.
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James Lee Burke
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You will smile here at the consistency of those democratists who, when they are not on their guard, treat the humbler part of the community with the greatest contempt, whilst, at the same time they pretend to make them the depositories of all power.
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Edmund Burke (Reflections on the Revolution in France)
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Camouflage doesn't help when the other guy is willing to defoliate the whole jungle.
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Andrew Vachss (False Allegations (Burke, #9))
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For there is in mankind an unfortunate propensity to make themselves, their views and their works, the measure of excellence in every thing whatsoever
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Edmund Burke (A Philosophical Enquiry into the Origin of our Ideas of the Sublime and Beautiful)
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The only thing necessary for the continuance of evil is for a good man to do nothing.
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Edmund Burke
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Emily woke to shadows and their voices. They looked different today, because the entire world hurt. The numbness had worn off sometime between sleep and awake, and she was seeing red. The shadows on the walls were not shadows at all, but red blobs consisting of teeth and claws. Her house reeked of pain. The whole world was fucking bleeding.
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allie burke (Paper Souls)
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The self-esteem of western women is founded on physical being (body mass index, youth, beauty). This creates a tricky emphasis on image, but the internalized locus of self-worth saves lives. Western men are very different. In externalizing the source of their self-esteem, they surrender all emotional independence. (Conquest requires two parties, after all.) A man cannot feel like a man without a partner, corporation, team. Manhood is a game played on the terrain of opposites. It thus follows that male sense of self disintegrates when the Other is absent.
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Antonella Gambotto-Burke (The Eclipse: A Memoir of Suicide)
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In my world, people are always plotting. You have no idea of all the crimes people in business commit every day. Like it was nothing. Or there’s a set of special rules for them. Remember when Bush made that whole speech about β€˜corporate ethics’ last year? What a fraud. You think stuff like Enron or WorldCom is an aberration? It’s only the tip. Business is a religion. Probably the only one practiced all over the world.
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Andrew Vachss (Down Here (Burke, #15))
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Those who attempt to level, never equalize.
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Edmund Burke (Reflections on the Revolution in France)
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No man had ever a point of pride that was not injurious to him.
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Edmund Burke
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Because half a dozen grasshoppers under a fern make the field ring with their importunate chink, whilst thousands of great cattle, reposed beneath the shadow of the British oak, chew the cud and are silent, pray do not imagine that those who make the noise are the only inhabitants of the field.
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Edmund Burke
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I looked at Lucas with the pang that a parent feels when he knows his child will be hurt and that it's no one's fault and that to try to preempt the rites of passage is an act of contempt for the child's courage.
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James Lee Burke (Heartwood (Billy Bob Holland, #2))
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Just roll me in fairy dust and call me a unicorn.
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Lita Burke (Ephraim's Curious Device (Clockpunk Wizard, #2))
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Men are qualified for civil liberty in exact proportion to their disposition to put moral chains upon their own appetites, β€” in proportion as their love to justice is above their rapacity,β€”in proportion as their soundness and sobriety of understanding is above their vanity and presumption,β€”in proportion as they are more disposed to listen to the counsels of the wise and good, in preference to the flattery of knaves. Society cannot exist, unless a controlling power upon will and appetite be placed somewhere; and the less of it there is within, the more there must be without. It is ordained in the eternal constitution of things, that men of intemperate minds cannot be free. Their passions forge their fetters.
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Edmund Burke (A Letter to a Member of the National Assembly (Revolution and Romanticism, 1789-1834))
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Time is ungovernable, but grief presents us with a choice: what do we do with the savage energies of bereavement? What do we do with the memory - or in the memory - of the beloved? Some commemorate love with statuary, but behavior, too, is a memorial, as is a well-lived life. In death, there is always the promise of hope. The key is opening, rather than numbing, ourselves to pain. Above all, we must show our children how to celebrate existence in all its beauty, and how to get up after life has knocked us down, time and again. Half-dead, we stand. And together, we salute love. Because in the end, that's all that matters. How hard we loved, and how hard we tried.
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Antonella Gambotto-Burke (The Eclipse: A Memoir of Suicide)
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Cormac smiled at her, but it was Finn who spoke. "Can I ask you a question?" "Sure." He leaned forward conspiratorially. "So, if I gave you some catnip would you act all weird and stoned?" "I don't know. If I throw a stick, will you fetch?" She smiled sweetly at Cormac's cousin. Burke made a choking noise, covering a laugh with his hand. Finn screwed up his face, as if in disgust. "Dude. I am NOT a dog." "And I’m not a pampered house cat.
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Jeanette Battista (Leopard Moon (Moon, #1))
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Suicide rates have not slumped under the onslaught of antidepressants, mood-stabilizers, anxiolytic and anti-psychotic drugs; the jump in suicide rates suggests that the opposite is true. In some cases, suicide risk skyrockets once treatment begins (the patient may feel not only penalized for a justifiable reaction, but permanently stigmatized as malfunctioning). Studies show that self-loathing sharply decreases only in the course of cognitive-behavioral treatment.
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Antonella Gambotto-Burke (The Eclipse: A Memoir of Suicide)
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Rousseau and his disciples were resolved to force men to be free; in most of the world, they triumphed; men are set free from family, church, town, class, guild; yet they wear, instead, the chains of the state, and they expire of ennui or stifling lone lines.
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Russell Kirk (The Conservative Mind: From Burke to Eliot)
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Age is a peculiar kind of thief. It slips up on you and steps inside your skin and is so quiet and methodical in its work that you never realize it has stolen your youth until you look into the mirror one morning and see a man you don't recognize.
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James Lee Burke (Creole Belle (Dave Robicheaux, #19))
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The great milestones of civilization always have the whiff of utopia about them at first. According to renowned sociologist Albert Hirschman, utopias are initially attacked on three grounds: futility (it’s not possible), danger (the risks are too great), and perversity (it will degenerate into dystopia). But Hirschman also wrote that almost as soon as a utopia becomes a reality, it often comes to be seen as utterly commonplace. Not so very long ago, democracy still seemed a glorious utopia. Many a great mind, from the philosopher Plato (427–347 B.C.) to the statesman Edmund Burke (1729–97), warned that democracy was futile (the masses were too foolish to handle it), dangerous (majority rule would be akin to playing with fire), and perverse (the β€œgeneral interest” would soon be corrupted by the interests of some crafty general or other). Compare this with the arguments against basic income. It’s supposedly futile because we can’t pay for it, dangerous because people would quit working, and perverse because ultimately a minority would end up having to toil harder to support the majority.
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Rutger Bregman (Utopia for Realists: And How We Can Get There)
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Zooey was in dreamy top form. The announcer had them off on the subject of housing developments, and the little Burke girl said she hated houses that all look alike-meaning a long row of identical 'development' houses. Zooey said they were 'nice.' He said it would be very nice to come home and be in the wrong house. To eat dinner with the wrong people by mistake, sleep in the wrong bed by mistake, and kiss everybody goodbye in the morning thinking they were your own family. He said he even wished everybody in the world looked exactly alike. He said you'd keep thinking everybody you met was your wife or your mother or father, and people would always be throwing their arms around each other wherever they went, and it would look 'very nice.
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J.D. Salinger (Raise High the Roof Beam, Carpenters & Seymour: An Introduction)
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I long ago became convinced that the most reliable source for arcane and obscure and seemingly unobtainable information does not lie with the government or law enforcement agencies. Apparently neither the CIA nor the military intelligence apparatus inside the Pentagon had even a slight inkling of the Soviet Union's impending collapse, right up to the moment the Kremlin's leaders were trying to cut deals for their memoirs with New York publishers. Or, if a person really wishes a lesson in the subjective nature of official information, he can always call the IRS and ask for help with his tax forms, then call back a half hour later and ask the same questions to a different representative. So where do you go to find a researcher who is intelligent, imaginative, skilled in the use of computers, devoted to discovering the truth, and knowledgeable about science, technology, history, and literature, and who usually works for dirt and gets credit for nothing? After lunch I drove to the city library on Main and asked the reference librarian to find what she could on Junior Crudup.
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James Lee Burke (Last Car to Elysian Fields (Dave Robicheaux, #13))
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The Age of Chivalry is gone. That of sophisters, economists, and calculators has succeeded; and the glory of Europe is extinguished for ever. Never, never more, shall we behold the generous loyalty to rank and sex, that proud submission, that dignified obedience, that subordination of the heart, which kept alive, even in servitude itself, the spirit of an exalted freedom. The unbought grace of life, the cheap defence of nations, the nurse of manly sentiment and heroic enterprize is gone!
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Edmund Burke (Reflections on the Revolution in France)
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A kind Providence has placed in our breasts a hatred of the unjust and cruel, in order that we may preserve ourselves from cruelty and injustice. They who bear cruelty, are accomplices in it. The pretended gentleness which excludes that charitable rancour, produces an indifference which is half an approbation. They never will love where they ought to love, who do not hate where they ought to hate.
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Edmund Burke
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I sometimes subscribe to the belief that all historical events occur simultaneously, like a dream in the mind of God. Perhaps it is only man who views time sequentially and tries to impose a solar calendar upon it. What if other people, both dead and unborn, are living out their lives in the same space we occupy, without our knowledge or consent?
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James Lee Burke (The Glass Rainbow (Dave Robicheaux, #18))
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Whatever is fitted in any sort to excite the ideas of pain, and danger, that is to say, whatever is in any sort terrible, or is conversant about terrible objects, or operates in a manner analogous to terror, is a source of the sublime; that is, it is productive of the strongest emotion which the mind is capable of feeling .... When danger or pain press too nearly, they are incapable of giving any delight, and [yet] with certain modifications, they may be, and they are delightful, as we every day experience.
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Edmund Burke (A Philosophical Enquiry into the Origin of our Ideas of the Sublime and Beautiful)
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I have always been interested in this man. My father had a set of Tom Paine's books on the shelf at home. I must have opened the covers about the time I was 13. And I can still remember the flash of enlightenment which shone from his pages. It was a revelation, indeed, to encounter his views on political and religious matters, so different from the views of many people around us. Of course I did not understand him very well, but his sincerity and ardor made an impression upon me that nothing has ever served to lessen. I have heard it said that Paine borrowed from Montesquieu and Rousseau. Maybe he had read them both and learned something from each. I do not know. But I doubt that Paine ever borrowed a line from any man... Many a person who could not comprehend Rousseau, and would be puzzled by Montesquieu, could understand Paine as an open book. He wrote with a clarity, a sharpness of outline and exactness of speech that even a schoolboy should be able to grasp. There is nothing false, little that is subtle, and an impressive lack of the negative in Paine. He literally cried to his reader for a comprehending hour, and then filled that hour with such sagacious reasoning as we find surpassed nowhere else in American letters - seldom in any school of writing. Paine would have been the last to look upon himself as a man of letters. Liberty was the dear companion of his heart; truth in all things his object. ...we, perhaps, remember him best for his declaration: 'The world is my country; to do good my religion.' Again we see the spontaneous genius at work in 'The Rights of Man', and that genius busy at his favorite task - liberty. Written hurriedly and in the heat of controversy, 'The Rights of Man' yet compares favorably with classical models, and in some places rises to vaulting heights. Its appearance outmatched events attending Burke's effort in his 'Reflections'. Instantly the English public caught hold of this new contribution. It was more than a defense of liberty; it was a world declaration of what Paine had declared before in the Colonies. His reasoning was so cogent, his command of the subject so broad, that his legion of enemies found it hard to answer him. 'Tom Paine is quite right,' said Pitt, the Prime Minister, 'but if I were to encourage his views we should have a bloody revolution.' Here we see the progressive quality of Paine's genius at its best. 'The Rights of Man' amplified and reasserted what already had been said in 'Common Sense', with now a greater force and the power of a maturing mind. Just when Paine was at the height of his renown, an indictment for treason confronted him. About the same time he was elected a member of the Revolutionary Assembly and escaped to France. So little did he know of the French tongue that addresses to his constituents had to be translated by an interpreter. But he sat in the assembly. Shrinking from the guillotine, he encountered Robespierre's enmity, and presently found himself in prison, facing that dread instrument. But his imprisonment was fertile. Already he had written the first part of 'The Age of Reason' and now turned his time to the latter part. Presently his second escape cheated Robespierre of vengeance, and in the course of events 'The Age of Reason' appeared. Instantly it became a source of contention which still endures. Paine returned to the United States a little broken, and went to live at his home in New Rochelle - a public gift. Many of his old companions in the struggle for liberty avoided him, and he was publicly condemned by the unthinking. {The Philosophy of Paine, June 7, 1925}
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Thomas A. Edison (Diary and Sundry Observations of Thomas Alva Edison)
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At cocktail parties, I played the part of a successful businessman's wife to perfection. I smiled, I made polite chit-chat, and I dressed the part. Denial and rationalization were two of my most effective tools in working my way through our social obligations. I believed that playing the roles of wife and mother were the least I could do to help support Tom's career. During the day, I was a puzzle with innumerable pieces. One piece made my family a nourishing breakfast. Another piece ferried the kids to school and to soccer practice. A third piece managed to trip to the grocery store. There was also a piece that wanted to sleep for eighteen hours a day and the piece that woke up shaking from yet another nightmare. And there was the piece that attended business functions and actually fooled people into thinking I might have something constructive to offer. I was a circus performer traversing the tightwire, and I could fall off into a vortex devoid of reality at any moment. There was, and had been for a very long time, an intense sense of despair. A self-deprecating voice inside told me I had no chance of getting better. I lived in an emotional black hole. p20-21, talking about dissociative identity disorder (formerly multiple personality disorder).
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Suzie Burke (Wholeness: My Healing Journey from Ritual Abuse)
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People didn't like having to come up with something smart or helpful or sensitive to say, and they weren't intelligent enough to realize that all we wanted, all I wanted, was to be treated the same as I had been three months before. I wanted to be ignored because of my eccentricities, not because of my brother. And I wanted to be offered help from people because they cared about me, not because they felt some strange social obligation to do so. I wanted the world to sit back, listen up, and let me explain to it that when someone is sad and hopeless, the last thing they need to feel is that they are the only ones in the world with that feeling. So, if you feel sorry for someone, don't pretend to be happy. Don't pretend to care only about their problems. People aren't stupid. Not all of us, anyway. If someone's little brother disappears, don't give him a free hamburger to make him feel better-- it doesn't work. It's a good burger, sure, but it means nothing. It means something only to the Mr. Burkes of the world. Offering free meals, free stays in condos in Florida, even free plumbing. And we let them. We let them because they need it, not us. We didn't let them help us because we needed it, we let them help us because inside of humans is this thing, this unnamed need to feel as if we were useful in the world. To feel as if we have something significant to contribute. So, old ladies, make your casseroles and set them on doorsteps. And old men, grill your burgers and give them to teenagers with cynical worldviews. The world can't be satisfied, but that need to fix it all can.
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John Corey Whaley (Where Things Come Back)
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It is now sixteen or seventeen years since I saw the queen of France, then the dauphiness, at Versailles; and surely never lighted on this orb, which she hardly seemed to touch, a more delightful vision. I saw her just above the horizon, decorating and cheering the elevated sphere she just began to move in,β€”glittering like the morning-star, full of life, and splendor, and joy. Oh! what a revolution! and what a heart must I have, to contemplate without emotion that elevation and that fall! Little did I dream that, when she added titles of veneration to those of enthusiastic, distant, respectful love, that she should ever be obliged to carry the sharp antidote against disgrace concealed in that bosom; little did I dream that I should have lived to see such disasters fallen upon her in a nation of gallant men, in a nation of men of honour and of cavaliers. I thought ten thousand swords must have leaped from their scabbards to avenge even a look that threatened her with insult.β€”But the age of chivalry is gone.β€”That of sophisters, economists, and calculators, has succeeded; and the glory of Europe is extinguished forever. Never, never more shall we behold that generous loyalty to rank and sex, that proud submission, that dignified obedience, that subordination of the heart which kept alive, even in servitude itself, the spirit of an exalted freedom. The unbought grace of life, the cheap defence of nations, the nurse of manly sentiment and heroic enterprise, is gone! It is gone, that sensibility of principle, that chastity of honour which felt a stain like a wound, which inspired courage whilst it mitigated ferocity, which ennobled whatever it touched, and under which vice itself lost half its evil by losing all its grossness.
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Edmund Burke (Reflections on the Revolution in France)
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There are six canons of conservative thought: 1) Belief in a transcendent order, or body of natural law, which rules society as well as conscience. Political problems, at bottom, are religious and moral problems. A narrow rationality, what Coleridge called the Understanding, cannot of itself satisfy human needs. "Every Tory is a realist," says Keith Feiling: "he knows that there are great forces in heaven and earth that man's philosophy cannot plumb or fathom." True politics is the art of apprehending and applying the Justice which ought to prevail in a community of souls. 2) Affection for the proliferating variety and mystery of human existence, as opposed to the narrowing uniformity, egalitarianism, and utilitarian aims of most radical systems; conservatives resist what Robert Graves calls "Logicalism" in society. This prejudice has been called "the conservatism of enjoyment"--a sense that life is worth living, according to Walter Bagehot "the proper source of an animated Conservatism." 3) Conviction that civilized society requires orders and classes, as against the notion of a "classless society." With reason, conservatives have been called "the party of order." If natural distinctions are effaced among men, oligarchs fill the vacuum. Ultimate equality in the judgment of God, and equality before courts of law, are recognized by conservatives; but equality of condition, they think, means equality in servitude and boredom. 4) Persuasion that freedom and property are closely linked: separate property from private possession, and Leviathan becomes master of all. Economic levelling, they maintain, is not economic progress. 5) Faith in prescription and distrust of "sophisters, calculators, and economists" who would reconstruct society upon abstract designs. Custom, convention, and old prescription are checks both upon man's anarchic impulse and upon the innovator's lust for power. 6) Recognition that change may not be salutary reform: hasty innovation may be a devouring conflagration, rather than a torch of progress. Society must alter, for prudent change is the means of social preservation; but a statesman must take Providence into his calculations, and a statesman's chief virtue, according to Plato and Burke, is prudence.
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Russell Kirk (The Conservative Mind: From Burke to Eliot)