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You are enough to drive a saint to madness or a king to his knees.
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Grace Willows (To Kiss a King)
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We notice things that don't work. We don't notice things that do. We notice computers, we don't notice pennies. We notice e-book readers, we don't notice books.
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Douglas Adams (The Salmon of Doubt: Hitchhiking the Galaxy One Last Time)
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Lovers of print are simply confusing the plate for the food.
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Douglas Adams
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She was a ray of sunshine, a warm summer rain, a bright fire on a cold winter’s day, and now she could be dead because she had tried to save the man she loved.
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Grace Willows
“
Did you recently turn into a jerk or have you been one since birth?
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Priya Ardis (My Boyfriend Merlin (My Merlin, #1))
“
Don't stop" I tease in a seductive voice. " Give me more, Ben. Did you read eBooks or..." I run my finger slowly down his chest."Hardbacks?"
He pulls his hands behind his head and a smug look washes over his face. "Oh, they were hardbacks, all right. And I'm not sure if you're ready for this, but...I have my own TBR pile. You should read it, Fallon. It's huge"
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Colleen Hoover (November 9)
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It seems to me that anyone whose library consists of a Kindle lying on a table is some sort of bloodless nerd.
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Penelope Lively
“
Do I look like I want to be involved in your teen love saga? Ask someone who cares.
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Priya Ardis (My Boyfriend Merlin (My Merlin, #1))
“
I've got to stop being such a snob about leather-bound books, he reminded himself. E-books do have their moments.
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Dan Brown (Inferno (Robert Langdon, #4))
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Why did you wear heels? How are you supposed to fight a gargoyle in what you're wearing?
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Priya Ardis (My Boyfriend Merlin (My Merlin, #1))
“
...Something we once loved, and love now, in the shape of a book. Maybe eBooks are going to take over, one day, but not until those whizzkids in Silicon Valley invent a way to bend the corners, fold the spine, yellow the pages, add a coffee ring or two and allow the plastic tablet to fall open at a favorite page.
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Russell T. Davies (The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy (Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, #1))
“
sad things are beautiful only from a distance
therefore you just want to get away from them
from a distance of one hundred and thirty years
....i'm going to distance myself until the world is beautiful
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Tao Lin (this emotion was a little e-book)
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Alone-- it is wonderful how little a man can do alone! To rob a little, to hurt a little, and there is the end.
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H.G. Wells (The Invisible Man, with eBook)
“
Well, can you tell her that?"
He looked down at his feet. "I will. I will."
Guy-speak for, "I plan to keep avoiding her until she gives up.
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Priya Ardis (My Merlin Awakening (My Merlin, #2))
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(in response to the question: what do you think of e-books and Amazon’s Kindle?)
Those aren’t books. You can’t hold a computer in your hand like you can a book. A computer does not smell. There are two perfumes to a book. If a book is new, it smells great. If a book is old, it smells even better. It smells like ancient Egypt. A book has got to smell. You have to hold it in your hands and pray to it. You put it in your pocket and you walk with it. And it stays with you forever. But the computer doesn’t do that for you. I’m sorry.
”
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Ray Bradbury
“
You'll get fired if anyone finds out about us!"
"So many rules in this century," Vane muttered.
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Priya Ardis (My Merlin Awakening (My Merlin, #2))
“
If I were to lock you up in a dungeon, I guarantee you would not be bored.
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Priya Ardis (My Merlin Awakening (My Merlin, #2))
“
How do you press a wildflower into the pages of an e-book?
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Lewis Buzbee (The Yellow-Lighted Bookshop: A Memoir, a History)
“
Plus, I happened to be a history nerd. Why else would I be interested in a guy born in the year 519?
”
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Priya Ardis (My Merlin Awakening (My Merlin, #2))
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Life Is Too Short--So Kiss Slowly,
Laugh Insanely, Love Truly,
And Live With Passion.
”
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Andy Vogt
“
He’s so powerful. Who knows maybe he’s advanced past eating
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Priya Ardis (My Boyfriend Merlin (My Merlin, #1))
“
Oh honey, someday a real man is going to make you see stars and you won't even be looking at the sky."
Excerpt from Grace Willow's Last Minute Bride
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Grace Willows
“
loneliness can fly a helicopter through a cut-out shape
of a helicopter the same size as the helicopter
and that's it's only skill
and it isn't good enough
but it's still amazing.
”
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Tao Lin (this emotion was a little e-book)
“
The combination of razor-sharp wit (completely real) and his credentials (completely fake) had won them over in the end.
”
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Priya Ardis (My Merlin Awakening (My Merlin, #2))
“
…she was so exhausted and tired, so overwhelmed, that she needed a Red Bull, to calm down and fall asleep.
”
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Haidji (SG - Suicide Game)
“
The last declaration he'd made to me hung between us. The L word. The one that had nothing to do with like.
”
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Priya Ardis (My Merlin Awakening (My Merlin, #2))
“
In the end, what makes a book valuable is not the paper it’s printed on, but the thousands of hours of work by dozens of people who are dedicated to creating the best possible reading experience for you.
”
”
John Green
“
A computer does not smell ... if a book is new, it smells great. If a book is old, it smells even better… And it stays with you forever. But the computer doesn’t do that for you. I’m sorry.
”
”
Ray Bradbury
“
God sees us with the eyes of a Father. He sees our defects, errors, and blemishes. But He also sees our value. What did Jesus know that enabled Him to do what He did? Here’s part of the answer: He knew the value of people. He knew that each human being is a treasure. And because He did, people were not a source of stress, but a source of joy.
”
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Max Lucado (Grace for the Moment Volume I, Blue, eBook: Inspirational Thoughts for Each Day of the Year)
“
There is no future for e-books, because they are not books. E-books smell like burned fuel.
”
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Ray Bradbury
“
There are lots of great ideas in my book, but as a cohesive unit, my book is only held together with glue at the spine.
Or it would be, if it weren’t an ebook.
”
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Jarod Kintz (This Book Has No Title)
“
My name is Arianna Morganna Brittany DuLac--you can imagine why I went by the name Ryan.
”
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Priya Ardis (My Boyfriend Merlin (My Merlin, #1))
“
Electronic books are ideal for people who value the information contained in them, or who have vision problems, or who like to read on the subway, or who do not want other people to see how they are amusing themselves, or who have storage and clutter issues, but they are useless for people who are engaged in an intense, lifelong love affair with books. Books that we can touch; books that we can smell; books that we can depend on.
”
”
Joe Queenan (One for the Books)
“
Black is associated with power because all vibrational energies of all colors are drawn into one place, ready to be used. Wear black when you feel the need to draw energy to yourself for reviving your strength, energy, and will.
”
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Tae Yun Kim (The First Element: Secrets to Maximizing Your Energy)
“
... the Kindle is a "roach motel" device: its license terms and DRM ensure that books can check in, but they can't check out.
”
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Cory Doctorow (Context: Further Selected Essays on Productivity, Creativity, Parenting, and Politics in the 21st Century)
“
I guess you can call me "old fashioned". I prefer the book with the pages that you can actually turn. Sure, I may have to lick the tip of my fingers so that the pages don't stick together when I'm enraptured in a story that I can't wait to get to the next page. But nothing beats the sound that an actual, physical book makes when you first crack it open or the smell of new, fresh printed words on the creamy white paper of a page turner.
”
”
Felicia Johnson
“
It doesn’t matter how long we’ve used something; all that matters is how awesome the thing replacing it is. MP3s and automobiles happen to be really, really awesome, whereas ebooks—at least so far—are fairly limited in their awesomeness.
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John Green
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Books are completely disappearing. Remember in Fahrenheit 451 where the fireman's wife was addicted to interactive television and they sent fireman crews out to burn books? That mission has been largely accomplished in middle-class America and they didn't need the firemen. The interactive electronics took care of it without the violence,
”
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Finn Murphy (The Long Haul: A Trucker's Tales of Life on the Road)
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If people knew how powerful books were, they’d all have one in their hand or a tablet loaded full of e-books, just like me!
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Terry Schott (The Game (The Game is Life, #1))
“
Until recently, I was an ebook sceptic, see; one of those people who harrumphs about the “physical pleasure of turning actual pages” and how ebook will “never replace the real thing”. Then I was given a Kindle as a present. That shut me up. Stock complaints about the inherent pleasure of ye olde format are bandied about whenever some new upstart invention comes along. Each moan is nothing more than a little foetus of nostalgia jerking in your gut. First they said CDs were no match for vinyl. Then they said MP3s were no match for CDs. Now they say streaming music services are no match for MP3s. They’re only happy looking in the rear-view mirror.
”
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Charlie Brooker
“
We will speak for the books."
...
"Like the Lorax?"
"The Lorax speaks for the trees," I remind her.
"Books are made out of paper. Paper is made out of trees."
"What about e-books?"
"We can speak for them too."
"Audiobooks?"
"Audiobooks speak for themselves." She grins. "Get it?
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Paul Acampora (I Kill the Mockingbird)
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Much is to be gained by eBooks: ease, convenience, portability. But something is definitely lost: tradition, a sensual experience, the comfort of thingy-ness — a little bit of humanity.
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Chip Kidd
“
I prefer physical books to eBooks, because an eBook can’t be the solution to a wobbly chair like a real book can.
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Jarod Kintz (The Days of Yay are Here! Wake Me Up When They're Over.)
“
Crazy people love their Kindles.
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Dermot Davis (Brain: The Man Who Wrote the Book That Changed the World)
“
The good news (for writers) is that this means that ebooks on computers are more likely to be an enticement to buy the printed book (which is, after all, cheap, easily had, and easy to use) than a substitute for it. You can probably read just enough of the book off the screen to realize you want to be reading it on paper.
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Cory Doctorow (Little Brother (Little Brother, #1))
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But if you don’t know where you want to go, I suppose any path will get you there.
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David Baldacci (The Finisher (Vega Jane, Book 1): Extra Content E-book Edition)
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You won't find the tales I bear in any books . . . My tales are from the Moon Realm.” —Ebb Autumn
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Richard Due (The Moon Coin (Moon Realm, #1))
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Life is way too short, so try to enjoy every minute of it with a sense of humor!
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Christina Scalise (Are We Normal? Funny True Stories from an Everyday Family)
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Though I enjoy the occasional eBook from time to time, I will only stop reading books printed on paper when they pry them from my cold, dead, withered hands, and even then, they will be hard pressed to take them from me.
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H.L. Stephens
“
La memoria es como libro en el cual se escribe toda nuestra vida. Algunas veces deseamos cerrarlo y olvidarlo para no recordar todos los escabrosos detalles, y otras veces deseamos abrirlo y observarlo detenidamente, queriendo volver a sentir lo mismo que sentimos en aquel momento.
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Audrey Dry (Sin mirar atrás)
“
मेरी कविता क्या है!
सच्चाई के दो मोती हैं;
एक खुशी की परछाईं का
एक दर्द की गहराई का
--
विकास प्रताप सिंह 'हितैषी
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”
Vikas Pratap Singh (Ehsaas - Valentine Special eBook (एहसास))
“
Op visite in zo'n ongestoffeerd huis kun je moeilijk aan de gastheer vragen of u even op zijn iPad mag kijken wat hij de laatste tijd zoal gelezen heeft.
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Kees van Kooten (De verrekijker)
“
Redistribution of this e-book is permitted, so long as it is distributed for free.
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Andy Weir (The Martian)
“
The unadmitted reason why traditional readers are hostile to e-books is that we still hold the superstitious idea that a book is like a soul, and that every soul should have its own body.
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Adam Kirsch
“
the book is like the spoon, scissors, the hammer, the wheel. once invented, it cannot be improved
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Umberto Eco (This is Not the End of the Book)
“
You are enough to drive a saint to madness or a king to his knees
Excerpt from To Kiss a King by Grace Willows
Coming this summer to Amazon Kindle and paperback.
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Grace Willows (To Kiss a King)
“
The tree leaves rustled like that noise e-books make when you turn the page.
”
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Daniel Nayeri (Straw House, Wood House, Brick House, Blow)
“
A wounded animal yet bears teeth
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Billie-Jo Williams (The Book of Redemption (The Destiny of Dragons, #3))
“
When you stand inside somebody's library, you get a powerful sense of who they are, and not just who they are now but who they've been. . . . It's a wonderful thing to have in a house. It's something I worry is endangered by the rise of the e-book. When you turn off an e-book, there's no map. All that's left behind is a chunk of gray plastic. ~ Lev Grossman
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Leah Price (Unpacking My Library: Writers and Their Books)
“
If you drop a book into the toilet, you can fish it out, dry it off and read that book. But if you drop your Kindle in the toilet, you’re pretty well done.
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Stephen King
“
Soft sun shone down on a misty cathedral at the opposite end of a football-field length courtyard. The cathedral had a long pointed tower with beautiful rose and ivory stained glass windows. Pink-petal flowers and deep green ivy climbed the stones from the ground to it’s roof. A large fountain stood in the middle of the courtyard with water falling from several lion’s heads. Between the misty air and rolling slope of the earth, the grounds reminded me of a long lost fairy tale.
”
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Priya Ardis (My Boyfriend Merlin (My Merlin, #1))
“
Sometimes your dream is so special that... you can't kill it. You can't die even if you try. Life will find a way to fulfill it, and a way to keep you alive. Because the Earth needs dreamers to survive.
”
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Haidji (SG - Suicide Game)
“
You don't see people getting pulled over by the police for reading ebooks on their smartphones.
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Jason Merkoski (Burning the Page: The eBook Revolution and the Future of Reading)
“
For every blissful moment you must an anguish meet.
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Billie-Jo Williams (The Book of Conflict (The Destiny of Dragons, #6))
“
I don’t think they’ll ever replace the living and breathing,” says Gary. “They said that about e-books,” says Kevin. “You can’t stop progress.
”
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Margaret Atwood (The Heart Goes Last)
“
Thank God for old-fashioned hardcovers. The e-book reader she had at home wouldn’t have packed nearly the same punch.
”
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Christine Warren (Heart of Stone (Gargoyles, #1))
“
You say good-bye, and you think you'll be free. But I'll be awaiting you, in your final destiny.
”
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Haidji (SG - Suicide Game)
“
For more than five years, I’d made little progress with my efforts at quiet diplomacy—for one thing, the Soviet leaders kept dying on me.
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Ronald Reagan (An American Life: An Enhanced eBook with CBS Video: The Autobiography)
“
Life is paradoxical, but I believe that I could also be the same person I am today, if life would have cut me with happiness instead of pain.
”
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Haidji (SG - Suicide Game)
“
At this horror I sank nearly to the lichened earth, transfixed with a dread not of this nor any world, but only of the mad spaces between the stars.
”
”
H.P. Lovecraft (Complete Collection of H.P. Lovecraft - 150 eBooks with 100+ Audio Books Included (Complete Collection of Lovecraft's Fiction, Juvenilia, Poems, Essays and Collaborations))
“
Librarians who are arguing and lobbying for clever e-book lending solutions are completely missing the point. They are defending the library-as-warehouse concept, as opposed to fighting for the future, which is librarian as producer, concierge, connector, teacher, and impresario.
”
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Seth Godin (Stop Stealing Dreams (what is school for?))
“
—¿Cómo una persona puede sentirse sola cuando está rodeada de gente? —le pregunté.
—Supongo que en eso consiste la soledad —me respondió—. En aislarte cuando se supone que tienes que sentirte rodeada.
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Audrey Dry (Sin mirar atrás)
“
Excerpt from Ursula K Le Guin's speech at National Book Awards
Hard times are coming, when we’ll be wanting the voices of writers who can see alternatives to how we live now, can see through our fear-stricken society and its obsessive technologies to other ways of being, and even imagine real grounds for hope. We’ll need writers who can remember freedom – poets, visionaries – realists of a larger reality.
Right now, we need writers who know the difference between production of a market commodity and the practice of an art. Developing written material to suit sales strategies in order to maximise corporate profit and advertising revenue is not the same thing as responsible book publishing or authorship.
Yet I see sales departments given control over editorial. I see my own publishers, in a silly panic of ignorance and greed, charging public libraries for an e-book six or seven times more than they charge customers. We just saw a profiteer try to punish a publisher for disobedience, and writers threatened by corporate fatwa. And I see a lot of us, the producers, who write the books and make the books, accepting this – letting commodity profiteers sell us like deodorant, and tell us what to publish, what to write.
Books aren’t just commodities; the profit motive is often in conflict with the aims of art. We live in capitalism, its power seems inescapable – but then, so did the divine right of kings. Any human power can be resisted and changed by human beings. Resistance and change often begin in art. Very often in our art, the art of words.
I’ve had a long career as a writer, and a good one, in good company. Here at the end of it, I don’t want to watch American literature get sold down the river. We who live by writing and publishing want and should demand our fair share of the proceeds; but the name of our beautiful reward isn’t profit. Its name is freedom.
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Ursula K. Le Guin
“
Just as we are what we eat, we are what we read.
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Jason Merkoski (Burning the Page: The eBook Revolution and the Future of Reading)
“
Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it."
Goethe
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Paul Alan Fahey (When the Right One Comes Along)
“
There was a feeling on the air like the eve of the end of the world.
”
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Billie-Jo Williams (The Book of Wrath (The Destiny of Dragons, #1))
“
Only fools listen to their hearts. Only fools get attached. We wanderers get in and get out just in time.
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Shruti Upadhaya (White Noise (BEE Books E-Book))
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The only bad thing about e-books is that you can’t burn them if they’re offensive.
”
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Titania McGrath
“
I have said that I dwelt apart from the visible world, but I have not said that I dwelt alone.
”
”
H.P. Lovecraft (Complete Collection of H.P. Lovecraft - 150 eBooks with 100+ Audio Books Included (Complete Collection of Lovecraft's Fiction, Juvenilia, Poems, Essays and Collaborations))
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Good books are never finished but abandoned.
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Marc Alan Edelheit (Stiger's Tigers (Chronicles of an Imperial Legionary Officer, #1))
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What I’m praying is that you will choose those beautiful possibilities over any self-annihilating alternatives. My whole life on earth has been the weaving of a single powerful spell. The best part of all my magic was loving you.” (as spoken by the character Valerie Hyerman)
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Aberjhani (Songs from the Black Skylark zPed Music Player : (eBook Edition 2023))
“
The bad news is most of my books are ebooks and aren't for sale in brick-and-mortar bookstores. The good news is that most of my books are ebooks and are perfect for emailing and I'm perfectly willing to give them away for free.
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Jarod Kintz (Brick and Blanket Test in Brick City (Ocala) Florida)
“
Ciabattari is a master of transformation as she gives these stories of loss, woe, crisis and collapse the salutary and sometimes bracing pleasures of plain good fiction."--Kirkus Reviews
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Jane Ciabattari (Stealing the Fire: Stories)
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They worshipped, so they said, the Great Old Ones who lived ages before there were any men, and who came to the young world out of the sky. Those Old Ones were gone now, inside the earth and under the sea; but their dead bodies had told their secrets in dreams to the first men, who formed a cult which had never died.
”
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H.P. Lovecraft (Complete Collection of H.P. Lovecraft - 150 eBooks with 100+ Audio Books Included (Complete Collection of Lovecraft's Fiction, Juvenilia, Poems, Essays and Collaborations))
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We may need to put down the book from time to time, but we should make sure not to let the computer become the new book. The universal medium, like the universal library, is a dream that does more harm than good.
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Andrew Piper (Book Was There: Reading in Electronic Times)
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Ask anyone with a big book collection, and they'll tell you moving them was the hardest part of the move. Take down a bookshelf and there's often no less than four, possibly up to eight, good Lord if it's over ten, boxes of dense material. This is the single greatest argument for welcoming ebooks. Abandoning print and having your Kindle on display instead doesn't sound like such a bad idea while carrying book box number seven to the car.
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Lauren Leto (Judging a Book by Its Lover)
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Just as television didn't put an end to radio or the movies (to say nothing of books), I don't think e-books will put an end to hard copies, even for someone like me who loves technology and does not fetishize the physical medium of books. ~ Steven Pinker, author of The Lauguage Instinct, How the Mind Works The Blank Slate and The Stuff of Thought: Language as a Window into Human Nature.
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Leah Price (Unpacking My Library: Writers and Their Books)
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I love books. I’m giving some hard copies of the Sacerdos Mysteries book away because I think there’s something so brilliant about them. The digitisation trend is the future but people will still want the feel and smell of real books.
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Elizabeth Amisu (Sacerdos (The Sacerdos Mysteries, #1))
“
Actual message in letter I mailed: Congrats on getting married! Here’s a hundred-dollar gift certificate to Amazon.com. You could buy something practical, or you could buy 101 copies of my .99 cents ebook. Just kidding—I didn’t mean to imply that buying 101 copies of my book was impractical.
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Jarod Kintz (This Book Has No Title)
“
Marilynn...passed out black cases to everyone. I opened mine to find an iPad inside. Several candidates whistled. Despite my agitated state, it impressed me too. Maybe wizard school wasn’t going to be as lame as I had thought.
“All of your schedules and assignments will be done on these,” Marilynn explained. “The whole school is on these. We’ve had them for awhile now.
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Priya Ardis
“
Y, entonces, en ese instante que tan solo dura un segundo, el cerebro se encarga de abrir la cerradura del cofre en el cual guardas todo lo que aprecias. Cede de tal manera que la tapa se abre y todo lo que hay en el interior sale de forma tan rápida y tan fugaz que no puedes detenerlo.
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Audrey Dry (Sin mirar atrás)
“
In a world of intrusive technology, we must engage in a kind of struggle if we wish to sustain moments of solitude. E-reading opens the door to distraction. It invites connectivity and clicking and purchasing. The closed network of a printed book, on the other hand, seems to offer greater serenity. It harks back to a pre-jacked-in age. Cloth, paper, ink: For these read helmet, cuirass, shield. They afford a degree of protection and make possible a less intermediated, less fractured experience. They guard our aloneness. That is why I love them, and why I read printed books still.
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Mohsin Hamid (Discontent and Its Civilizations: Dispatches from Lahore, New York, and London)
“
He lived like a devil and died like a saint. Life is paradoxical, but I believe that I could also be the person I am today, if life would have cut me with happiness, instead of pain. I would be the same. I didn’t need the pain to grow, or be who I really am inside of me. Because life, life cuts you like a precious stone and shows the brilliance of your essence…but maybe we can learn also with joy and happiness, and turn into the same persons, just happier. We don’t need pain to learn
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Haidji (SG - Suicide Game)
“
It’s always the end of the world,” said Russell Grandinetti, one of Amazon’s top executives. “You could set your watch on it arriving.” He pointed out, though, that the landscape was in some ways changing for the first time since Gutenberg invented the modern book nearly 600 years ago. “The only really necessary people in the publishing process now are the writer and reader,” he said. “Everyone who stands between those two has both risk and opportunity.” Amazon Signs Up Authors, Writing Publishers Out of Deal. New York Times, 10/16/2011
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Russell Grandinetti
“
This is the difference between someone whose heart is purified and sound and one whose heart is impure and corrupt. Impure people oppress, and the pure-hearted not only forgive their oppressors, but elevate them in status and character. In order to purify ourselves, we must begin to recognize this truth. This is what this book is all about — a book of self-purification and a manual of liberation. If we work on our hearts, if we actually implement what is suggested here, we’ll begin to see changes in our lives, our condition, our society, and even within our own family dynamics. It is a blessing that we have this science of purification, a blessing that this teaching exists in the world today. What remains is for us to take these teachings seriously.
Signs, Symptoms and Cures of the Spiritual Diseases of the Heart. Translation and Commentary of Imam Mawlud's Matharat al-Qulub. Schaykh Hamza Yusuf. E-Book S. 10
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Hamza Yusuf (Purification of the Heart: Signs, Symptoms and Cures of the Spiritual Diseases of the Heart)
“
The role of dominance and submission in human sexuality cannot be overstated. Our survey suggests that the majority (over 50%) of humans are very aroused by either acting out or witnessing dominance or submission. But it gets crazier than that: While 45% of women taking our survey said they found the naked male form to be very arousing and 48% said they found the sight of a penis to very arousing, a heftier 53% said they found their partner acting dominant in a sexual context to be very arousing. Dominance is literally more likely to be very arousing to the average female than naked men or penises. To say: “Dominance and submission are tied to human arousal patterns” is more of an understatement than saying: “Penises are tied to human arousal patterns.”
We have a delectable theory about what is going on here: If you look at all the emotional states that frequently get tied to arousal pathways, the vast majority of them seem to be proxies for behaviors that would have been associated with our pre-human ancestors’ and early humans’ dominance and submission displays. For example, things like humiliation, being taken advantage of, chains, being used, being useful, being constrained, a lack of freedom, being prey, and a lack of free will may all have been concepts and emotions important in early human submission displays.
We posit that most of the time when a human is turned on by a strange emotional concept—being bound for instance—their brain is just using that concept as a proxy for a pre-human submission display and lighting up the neural pathways associated with it, creating a situation in which it looks like a large number of random emotional states are turning humans on, when in reality they all boil down to just a fuzzy outline of dominance and submission. Heck, speaking of binding as a submission display, there were similar ritualized submission displays in the early middle ages, in which a vassal would present their hands clasped in front of their lord and allow the lord to hold their clasped hands in a way that rendered them unable to unclasp them (this submission display to one’s lord is where the symbolism of the Christian kneeling and hands together during prayer ritual comes from). We suspect the concept of binding and defenselessness have played important roles in human submission displays well into pre-history. Should all this be the case, why on earth have our brains been hardwired to bind (hehe) our recognition of dominance and submission displays to our sexual arousal systems?!?
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Malcolm Collins (The Pragmatist's Guide to Sexuality)
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This distorted lens may lead someone studying human sexuality to ask: “Where are you on a spectrum from straight to gay?” This question would miss a pattern we found in our data suggesting that people's arousal systems are not bundled by the gender of whatever it is that turns them on: 4.5% of men find the naked male form aversive but penises arousing, while 6.7% of women find the female form arousing, but vaginas aversive. Using simplified community identifications like the gay-straight spectrum to investigate how and why arousal patterns develop is akin to studying historic human migration patterns by distributing a research survey asking respondents to report their position on a spectrum from “white” to “person of color.” Yes, “person of color,” like the concept of “gay,” is a useful moniker to understand the life experiences of a person, but a person’s place on a “white” to “person of color” spectrum tells us little about their ethnicity, just as a person’s place on a scale of gay to straight tells us little about their underlying arousal patterns.
The old way of looking at arousal limits our ability to describe sexuality to a grey scale. We miss that there is no such thing as attraction to just “females,” but rather a vast array of arousal systems that react to stimuli our society typically associates with “females” including things like vaginas, breasts, the female form, a gait associated with a wider hip bone, soft skin, a higher tone of voice, the gender identity of female, a person dressed in “female” clothing, and female gender roles. Arousal from any one of these things correlates with the others, but this correlation is lighter than a gay-straight spectrum would imply. Our data shows it is the norm for a person to derive arousal from only a few of these stimuli sets and not others. Given this reality, human sexuality is not well captured by a single sexual spectrum.
Moreover, contextualizing sexuality as a contrast between these communities and a societal “default” can obscure otherwise-glaring data points. Because we contrast “default” female sexuality against “other” groups, such as the gay community and the BDSM community, it is natural to assume that a “typical” woman is most likely to be very turned on by the sight of male genitalia or the naked male form and that she will be generally disinterested in dominance displays (because being gay and/or into BDSM would be considered atypical, a typical woman must be defined as the opposite of these “other,” atypical groups).
Our data shows this is simply not the case. The average female is more likely to be very turned on by seeing a person act dominant in a sexual context than she is to be aroused by either male genitalia or the naked male form. The average woman is not defined by male-focused sexual attraction, but rather dominance-focused sexual attraction. This is one of those things that would have been blindingly obvious to anyone who ran a simple survey of arousal pathways in the general American population, but has been overlooked because society has come to define “default” sexuality not by what actually turns people on, but rather in contrast to that which groups historically thought of as “other.
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Simone Collins (The Pragmatist's Guide to Sexuality)
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