“
I’ll wear it like a badge of honour forever that he loved me first, that he loved me at all.
”
”
Jessa Hastings (Magnolia Parks: The Long Way Home (Magnolia Parks Universe, #3))
“
Forgive me, you are amiable
and heavenly perfect.
It is me who carries
the old pain as if it were
a badge of honour.
”
”
Tatjana Ostojic (Cacophony of My Soul: When Love Becomes Poetry)
“
Don't seek a failure-less life.
Wear failure as a badge of honour. Seek a fearless life !
”
”
Manoj Arora (Dream On: Every setback is a little nudge from HIM to Dream On)
“
Some bruises you wear like badges of honour: when you got it playing rugby, or quad racing, or falling off something while drunk, no opportunity is lost to show off a good contusion. A bruise inflicted by someone else, however, is a whole other story: it's like a big flashing arrow marking you out as punchable, and before long there'll be boys queuing up to add bruises of their own, as if they'd just been waiting for somebody to show them it could be done.
”
”
Paul Murray
“
He lowered his voice. "You are a true shield-maiden; you do not turn from a scar on a man's face."I looked at him and did not lower my eyes. "My father was an ealdorman, and his brother ealdorman after him. He taught me that a scar is the badge of honour of the warrior, and this I believe."He regarded me for a long moment. "I think I am glad we did not face your father and his brother in battle," he said, "for they were of better stuff than what we have found here."In saying this, he gave my dead kinsmen much praise. I felt that praise came rarely from the Danes, and took a strange pleasure in hearing him say this. I did not speak, but he lifted his cup to me, and I again took up mine. - Sidroc the Dane to Ceridwen
”
”
Octavia Randolph (The Circle of Ceridwen (Circle of Ceridwen Saga #1))
“
Rejection is no badge of honour.
”
”
Johnny Rich
“
A slut isn’t a person, it’s in the eye of the beholder. Like beauty, or an annoying eyelash. We decide who a girl is based on something she’s done (or even just rumoured to have done) and then brand her with it as if it’s a permanent part of her identity. Guys, on the other hand, get to wear their relationships and ‘conquests’ like medals or badges of honour, which are much easier to take off, and hurt a lot less.
”
”
Laura Bates (Girl Up)
“
I sincerely thank the Lord God Almighty for the amazing gift of writing that He bestowed upon me
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Feeling nothing was now a badge of honour.
”
”
Ece Temelkuran (How to Lose a Country: The 7 Steps from Democracy to Dictatorship)
“
In Pompeii, when a woman named Clodia Nigella was commemorated, her career was emblazoned on her tombstone as a badge of honour: ‘public pig-keeper’.
”
”
Tom Holland (Pax: War and Peace in Rome's Golden Age)
“
Anxious behaviour is rewarded in our culture. Being high strung, wound up, frenetic and soooo busy has cachet. I ask someone, “How are you?” and even if they’re kicking back in a caravan park in the outback with a beer watching the sunset, their default response is, “Gosh, so busy, out of control, crazy times.” And they wear it as a badge of honour.
This means that many of us deny we have a problem and keep going and going. Indeed, the more anxious we are, the more we have to convince ourselves we don’t have a problem. This is ironic, or paradoxical. And it seems awfully cruel.
”
”
Sarah Wilson (First, We Make the Beast Beautiful: A New Story About Anxiety)
“
Sometimes claims of polyfragmentation and ongoing abuse and victimisation can become a kind of ‘badge of honour’: it can be an earnest, unconscious demonstration proving that we cannot recover, rather than the tragic reality of overwhelming suffering that will take a lot of hard work and dedication to overcome.
”
”
Carolyn Spring
“
...spells of incarceration or exile were almost badges of honour for Enlightenment writers.
”
”
Kate Berridge (Madame Tussaud: A Life in Wax)
“
I am busy. That phrase is the curse of our time. We are all busy, of course, but it's regarded as a boast, a badge of honour to be busy
"I'm so busy! I've got 300 emails! Admire me!" Busy, busy, busy, all the bloody time. Being busy makes it difficult to find time for adventure, difficult to find time for ourselves and for some fallow time in the wilderness.
”
”
Alastair Humphreys (Microadventures: Local Discoveries for Great Escapes)
“
My Kind of Girl
A letter of inspiration from a loving Mother
Understands who she is
Stands for what she believes in
She cannot be broken
No one can belittle her
When trials come her way
She remains unfazed
My Kind of Girl
Walks with confidence
She exudes excellence
An epitome of elegance
She does due diligence
Being mindful of her intelligence
And knowing her importance
My Kind of Girl
Builds her own future
A certified trailblazer
Who utilizes the power within her
To be of good influence
Always on top of her game
Yes, she keeps soaring like an eagle
My Kind of Girl
Takes charge for her own life
Secures her name in historical archives
For she is no ordinary woman
An extraordinary being
She dares to dream
In the world, she makes a difference
That is my kind of girl
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
My basic hypothesis is this: the people who run the media are humanities graduates with little understanding of science, who wear their ignorance as a badge of honour. Secretly, deep down, perhaps they resent the fact that they have denied themselves access to the most significant developments in the history of Western thought from the past two hundred years; but there is an attack implicit in all media coverage of science: in their choice of stories, and the way they cover them, the media create a parody of science. On this template, science is portrayed as groundless, incomprehensible, didactic truth statements from scientists, who themselves are socially powerful, arbitrary, unelected authority figures. They are detached from reality; they do work that is either wacky or dangerous, but either way, everything in science is tenuous, contradictory, probably going to change soon and, most ridiculously, ‘hard to understand’. Having created this parody, the commentariat then attack it, as if they were genuinely critiquing what science is all about. Science stories generally fall into one of three categories: the wacky stories, the ‘breakthrough’ stories, and the ‘scare’ stories. Each undermines and distorts science in its own idiosyncratic way.
”
”
Ben Goldacre (Bad Science)
“
Shine Bright
Take it from me
This life is amazing
You are the one with power
To choose what you desire
Please make the right choice
Do not just make noise
Have a voice
Which people can listen to
Be that special person
Who is known for solutions
And not for causing trouble
You have what it takes
To turn this world around
Let go of any self-doubt
Get out of the mud
Shake off the dust
Work hard, my child
Make sure you shine bright
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Much, much later. when I am back home and being treated for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). I will be enabled to see what was going on in my mind immediately after 11 August.
I am still capable of operating mechanically as a soldier in these following days. But operating mechanically as a soldier is now all I am capable of.
Martin says he is worried about me. He says I have the thousand-yard stare'.
Of course, I cannot see this stare. But by now we both have more than an idea what it means.
So, among all the soldiers here, this is nothing to be ashamed of. But as it really does just go with the territory we find ourselves in. it is just as equally not a badge of honour.
Martin is seasoned enough to never even think this. but I know of young men back home, sitting in front of war films and war games, who idolise this condition as some kind of mark of a true warrior. But from where I sit, if indeed I do have this stare, this pathetically naive thinking is a crock of shit. Because only some pathetically naive soul who had never felt this nothingness would say something so fucking dumb.
You are no longer human, with all those depths and highs and nuances of emotion that define you as a person.
There is no feeling any more, because to feel any emotion would also be to beckon the overwhelming blackness from you. My mind has now locked all this down. And without any control of this self-defence mechanism my subconscious has operated. I do not feel any more.
But when I close my eyes. I see the dead Taliban looking into this blackness. And I see the Afghan soldier's face staring into it, singing gently as he slips into another world. And I see Dave Hicks's face. shaking gently as he tries to stay awake in this one.
With this, I lift myself up, sitting foetal and hugging my knees on my sleeping mat.
”
”
Jake Wood (Among You: The Extraordinary True Story of a Soldier Broken By War)
“
the most beautiful woman in any room is the woman with the most joy in her heart, not with the fewest wrinkles on her face. Wrinkles are beautiful badges of honour – they represent all the fun and laughter and tears in your life. Iron out the lines and you iron out your life, and that is something I would never do.
”
”
Melanie Hudson (The Last Letter from Juliet)
“
I didn't mind the fact I was a virgin still, but I knew some girls saw it as a badge of shame. It was ridiculous how society acted. You were a prude if you hadn't had sex and a slut if you had. There needed to be a middle ground where people who actually liked sex could spend their time doing it as much as they wanted.
”
”
Laura Greenwood (The Platypus and Her Wolves)
“
Words I Should Have Told My Mother
A tribute to my beloved Mother
I love you for being
Wonderful
Colourful
Powerful
Prayerful
Beautiful
Cheerful
Kind
Wise
Lovely
Loving
Noble
Confident
Excellent
Perfect
Patient
Resilient
Significant
A warrior
And for being great!
These are the words
I should have told my loving Mother!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
I Promise You
A message of hope from a wonderful Mother
I am here to walk you
Through this journey called life
I will look after you
Until you can do so on your own
I know you need my help for now
Yes, I assure you my lovely one
I shall hold your hand no matter what
And stand by you, even in the darkest night
Will ensure your days are bright
Indeed, the Earth can be so rough
Just like the ocean changes its tide
Fear not, for I will be on your side
With you, I will fly high
Until we go to the skies
And touch the shining stars
I will not let my scars
Stop me from being kind
To you my precious child
I will be there
Until the end
I promise you!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
We all have scars. Some of them, like the one you and me share, you can see with your eyes. Some of them, you ink, like you do, on your skin so that they tell the story like a picture book. Like a badge of honour that you overcame something really bad. Then there are others, like the scar that stays in your heart when you’re left alone in a hospital room for a week without anyone visiting you, or when you sleep on a metal bed in a concrete prison filled with bad men or weak men who only touch each other to sin in one way or another. I think it’s harder to talk about those scars and it’s harder to get over them because they wrap around you like poison ivy, making it hard to breathe and pump blood through your heart in the normal way.
”
”
Giana Darling (Welcome to the Dark Side (The Fallen Men, #2))
“
I Pray For This Girl
Oh yes! For the young girl
Who just landed on Mother Earth!
The one about to turn five with a smile
Or the other one who just turned nine
She is not only mine
My Mother’s, Grandmother’s
Neighbour’s or friend’s daughter
She is like a flower
Very fragile, yet so gorgeous
An Angel whose wings are invisible
I speak life to this young or older girl
She might not have a say
But expects the world to be a better place
Whether affluent or impoverished
No matter her state of mind
Her background must not determine
How she is treated
She needs to live, she has to thrive!
Lord God Almighty
Sanctify her unique journey
Save her from the claws of the enemy
Shield her against any brutality
Restore her if pain becomes a reality
Embrace her should joy pass swiftly
When emptiness fills her heart severely
May you be her sanctuary!
Dear Father, please give her
The honour to grow without being frightened
Hope whenever she feels forsaken
Contentment even after her heart was broken
Comfort when she is shaken
Courage when malice creeps in
Calm when she needs peace
Strength when she is weak
Freedom to climb on a mountain peak
And wisdom to tackle any season
Guide her steps, keep her from tumbling
My Lord, if she does sometimes stumble
Lift her up, so she can rise and ramble
Grant her power to wisely triumph
On my knees, I plead meekly for this girl
I may have never met her
I may not know her name
I may not be in her shoes
I may not see her cries
Yet, I grasp her plight
Wherever she is
King of Kings
Be with her
Each and every day
I pray for this girl
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
No one is despised by others unless he be previously despised by himself: a groveling and abject mind may fall an easy prey to such contempt: but he who stands up against the most cruel misfortunes, and overcomes those evils by which others would have been crushed—such a man, I say, turns his misfortunes into badges of honour, because we are so constituted as to admire nothing so much as a man who bears adversity bravely.
”
”
Seneca (Stoic Six Pack 2 (Illustrated): Consolations From A Stoic, On The Shortness of Life and More)
“
The first distinction that we make is between public and private anger. Much research treats the two as equivalent, but in fact they are opposites. Public anger is often worn like a badge of honour. Icelanders protesting against a corrupt political class are emboldened by virtue. They railed against corruption and sought moral redress. Extinction Rebellion is fueled by the anger of righteousness. When people are publicly angry, because they are wronged, or they witness wrong-doing, they want it to be recognized and addressed. This is moral outrage. Private anger resembles its opposite. It is often characterized by shame. People who are angry in their private lives, often seek counseling, rather than retribution. An angry colleague, a stressed parent, or an enraged driver – these are people in need of help, not deserving of redress. But public anger itself is also two-sided.
”
”
Eric Lonergan (Angrynomics)
“
The Priceless Job of Motherhood
God of Heaven
I am here on Earth
To follow a Divine mandate
Of being a loving Mother
I know I have no strength
To do this on my own
I pray for your wisdom
To perform this task
Without a fright
As I raise these children
Please help me remember
I was never hired for this role
But highly favoured
To find myself in it
Hence, I acknowledge this privilege
Of being a parent to them
Lord, I lift my hands
And bow to Your majestic Name
I say at top of my voice
Thank you, Father
For the priceless job of Motherhood!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
My Darling Child
Yesterday, I was a child
Today, I am a Mother
So much like your Grandmother
I realised another life
Was growing inside of me
I had to embrace another being
As part of my daily living
That is how I found my healing
You are my precious gift
My love for you is so deep
When I held you in my arms
I could not help but admire
Such a beautiful Soul
I sang you a song
To express my joy
Of being a parent to you
I knew there was a reason
You were chosen
To journey with me
So, here is my promise
Will be the best Mom I can ever be
I will stand by you forever
And no one can take on
The role I play
My darling child
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
I Promise You
A message of hope from a wonderful Mother
I am here to walk you
Through this journey called life
I will look after you
Until you can do so on your own
I know you need my help for now
Yes, I assure you my lovely one
I shall hold your hand no matter what
Stand by you, even in the darkest night
And ensure your days are bright
Indeed, the Earth can be so rough
Just like the ocean changes its tide
Fear not, for I will be on your side
With you, I will fly high
Until we get to the skies
And touch the shining stars
I will not let my scars
Stop me from being kind
To you, my precious child
I will be there
Until the end
I promise you!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
She Is Remarkable
Salute to the woman who knows who she is
And why she is who she is
A powerful being
Once thrown into the deep end of the ocean
But swam her way back to shore
She never stops moving forward
Nothing can ever pull her backwards
Such a brave warrior
Shout out to the superwoman
Determined to change the status quo
Because she feels the need to do so
Just like an eagle
She soars higher and higher
As the wind blows stronger
She does not let anything deter her
From reaching another level in life
Thumbs up to an amazing woman
A great force to be reckoned with
That committed Mother on the street
Who trades from sunrise to sunset
Trying to make ends meet
Oh, she has a heart so big
Being mindful that come snow or sunshine
She has mouths to feed
I revere this gifted woman
Who uses her creativity
To make an impact in society
Despite the uniqueness of her talent
She remains a trendsetter
It could be the potter in whose hands clay becomes magic
The miner who touches gold, before it even gets sold to the markets
Or the strategist who sits in high-level meetings, making sure organisations do not collapse
A special mention to the special woman
Who chooses not to give up
She understands that others look up to her
The smart lady out there, with a clear vision
She makes things happen for her family, community, and the world at large
She deserves a badge of honour
Because she is remarkable!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Woman of Virtue
She could be as still as a statue
But unapologetically vibrant
Even in her silence
She exudes confidence
Yet, so humble
She runs her race with courage
Because she has a clear picture
Of where she is going
She knows who she is
And what she really wants
She understands what her worth signifies
Extremely dignified
Many odds she defies
Has influence that no one denies
No matter where she goes, she prospers
She makes life so much better
Never doubts her own power
She whose face shines brighter
Such a paragon of splendour
That recognizes God’s favour
Committed to excellence
Crowned with brilliance
Clothed by abundance
Cloaked in resilience
Conquers through experience
She is someone I look up to
A woman of virtue
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
I Should Have Told You
Child, I love you
I wished to be with you longer
But I had to go to a place up yonder
My time on Earth was over
There is something I should tell
I hope you receive it well
Here is a vital fact
Not every parent might share
Please lend me an ear
Learn while you can
I want you to know
That life comes with its highs and lows
Stand for yourself, whether or not it snows
Pray more and fast more
Trust the Lord your God
When storms come your way
Do not doubt your faith
Put on a brave face
Run in the right lane
You shall win the race
Be a good learner
Always be eager
To become an achiever
Keep being a dreamer
Never fear to be a leader
Because you were born to prosper
And that my adorable one
Is what I should have told you
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
My Beloved Son!
Special appreciation from a wonderful Mother
Look at you all grown up
Kind, but tough
What an honour
To be your Mother
Truly blessed by your aura
You have done me a favour
By being part of my life
I am grateful that you are fine
May you know whose you are
As your loving parent
I make the commitment
To share essential lessons
That can help you excel
In the path that lies ahead
I hope you will understand
How you will get there
With joy, love and care
Please, lend me an ear
Of this, you should hear
Be grounded in the Lord
Pursue His Wisdom
Acknowledge His grace
Seek His ways all your days
So, when hail comes your way
You will not faint, but reign
Stand tall like a tower
Go higher and higher
Please shine brighter
My beloved son
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
The Things Mommy Taught
Oh, my child!
You are beautiful, without a doubt
Love the person you are
Look in the mirror with a smile
Seek after things that matter
Allow nothing to ruin your good heart
Shun anything wicked for you to hear
Listen, so you too can be heard
Choose to be of good influence
Invest in a better tomorrow
Become no one’s shadow
Learn not to be shallow
Lead so others can follow
Let go of what brings you sorrow
Know where to find joy
Even when I am gone
Remain strong
In the storm, do not get lost
Fix your eyes upon the Lord
Fill your mind with the Word of God
For in it are infinite wells of wisdom
Hold on to His promises
Pursue your purpose
Say a prayer
Make sure you prosper
Each day on this Earth
Remember the things Mommy taught
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
A Remarkable Woman
She is so exquisite
Even without make-up on her face
She is very special
Even if she lets others seem important
She is selfless
Even when the selfish surround her
She offers a lot of love
Even so, she needs it often
She has a big heart
Even though she appears small
She lets others belong
But she longs to be appreciated
She adds value
Despite her own worth being undermined
She is attentive
Nonetheless; no one pays attention to her needs
She is patient
No matter how long it takes, she waits
She is giving
While no one could be willing to give
She is forgiving
Much as the worst was done against her
She is trusting
Albeit her trust was broken a countless times
She is wise
In spite of being treated otherwise by some
She works hard
Notwithstanding that she requires to rest
She is helpful
Yet, there is none to lend her a hand
She makes life seem easy
Whilst going through difficult times herself
She stands by others
Although there is no one to stand by her
She chooses to be peaceful
Against being somehow provoked
She is calm
Undeterred by what is not
She is bold
In defiance of tough battles ahead
She shows bravery
Still in the presence of adversity
She is fearless
Though she may seem helpless
She is spirited
Contrary to attempts to bring her down
She is never destroyed
Irrespective of storms she faces sometimes
She keeps moving forward
Granting the hindrances along the way
She does not look down on others
Regardless of some doing so to her
She recognizes those who shielded her on rainy days
Whenever the sun shines upon her
She keeps on running her race
Because she knows for her, grace is abundant
She puts a smile on, always
Since prayer keeps her in the right place
She is an inspiration
A pioneer of transformation
True leader of economic revolution
How the world aspires for such
A remarkable woman!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Grateful For You
A gratitude poem from a Mother to her miracle child
You are a wonderful treasure
My love for you I cannot measure
In you, God gave me an Angel
Through you, I was blessed by the Heavens
An answered prayer of way back
Just when I thought it was over
My precious gift from Above, you showed up!
Filled with your bright smile and loads of fun
You make me so fine
Oh, what a privilege in life!
To be given such a sense of pride
As I call you my child
While you chose to be mine
You are so kind
You bring me hope every time
I could go through heavy tides
With you by my side
I always rise
You help me to make many strides
I cannot drown, not even once
You give me a better chance
To become a daring Mom
I have peace, even in the storm
Because you teach me to stay strong
So glad you came along
And never left me all alone
What an honour to be your Mother!
My perfect match
Such a great catch!
My very best friend
Will you lend me a hand?
To walk beside you on this land
You are all I ever need
And I am so grateful for you
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
I Pray For This Girl
Oh yes! For the young girl
Who just landed on Mother Earth!
The one about to turn five with a smile
Or the other one who just turned nine
She is not only mine
My Mother’s, Grandmother’s
Neighbour’s or friend’s daughter
She is like a flower
Very fragile, yet so gorgeous
An Angel whose wings are invisible
I speak life to this young or older girl
She might not have a say
But expects the world to be a better place
Whether affluent or impoverished
No matter her state of mind
Her background must not determine
How she is treated
She needs to live, she has to thrive!
Lord God Almighty
Sanctify her unique journey
Save her from the claws of the enemy
Shield her against any brutality
Restore her if pain becomes a reality
Embrace her should joy pass swiftly
When emptiness fills her heart severely
May you be her sanctuary!
Dear Father, please give her
The honour to grow without being frightened
Hope whenever she feels forsaken
Contentment even after her heart was broken
Comfort when she is shaken
Courage when malice creeps in
Calm when she needs peace
Strength when she is weak
Freedom to climb on a mountain peak
And wisdom to tackle any season
Guide her steps, keep her from tumbling
My Lord, if she does sometimes stumble
Lift her up, so she can rise and ramble
Grant her power to tactfully triumph
On my knees, I plead meekly for this girl
I may have never met her
I may not know her name
I may not be in her shoes
I may not see her cries
Yet, I grasp her plight
Wherever she is
King of Kings
Be with her
Each and every day
I pray for this girl
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
I Pray For This Girl
Oh yes! For the young girl
Who just landed on Mother Earth!
The one about to turn five with a smile
Or the other one who just turned nine
She is not only mine
My Mother’s, Grandmother’s
Neighbour’s or friend’s daughter
She is like a flower
Very fragile, yet so gorgeous
An Angel whose wings are invisible
I speak life to this young or older girl
She might not have a say
But expects the world to be a better place
Whether affluent or impoverished
No matter her state of mind
Her background must not determine
How she is treated
Like others, she needs to live
Indeed, she has to thrive!
Lord God Almighty
Sanctify her unique journey
Save her from the claws of the enemy
Shield her against any brutality
Restore her if pain becomes a reality
Embrace her should joy pass swiftly
When emptiness fills her heart severely
May you be her sanctuary!
Dear Father, please give her
The honour to grow without being frightened
Hope whenever she feels forsaken
Contentment even after her heart was broken
Comfort when she is shaken
Courage when malice creeps in
Calm when she needs peace
Strength when she is weak
Freedom to climb on a mountain peak
And wisdom to tackle any season
Guide her steps, keep her from tumbling
My Lord, if she does sometimes stumble
Lift her up, so she can rise and ramble
Grant her power to wisely triumph
On my knees, I plead meekly for this girl
I may have never met her
I may not know her name
I may not be in her shoes
I may not see her cries
Yet, I grasp her plight
Wherever she is
King of Kings
Be with her
Each and every day
I pray for this girl
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
My brave husband came back from fighting the Turks and brought me a robe of silk and a necklace of human teeth. He sat up at night by his hearth telling tales of battle. Apparently the Turks are ten times more ferocious and fearless than the Scots. 'Perhaps we should invite them here to drive the Scots back,' I suggested, and he laughed, but he didn't kiss me. That's when I learned the truth about scars. A man with a battle scar is a veteran, a hero, given an honoured place at the fire. Small boys gaze up fascinated, dreaming of winning such badges of courage. Maids caress his thighs with their buttocks as they bend over to mull his ale. Women cluck and cosset, and if in time other men grow a little weary of that tale of honour, then they call for his cup to be filled again and again until he is fuddled and dozes quietly in the warmth of the embers.
But a scarred woman is not encouraged to tell her story. Boys jeer and mothers cross themselves. Pregnant women will not come close for fear that if they look upon such a sight, the infant in their belly will be marked. You've heard of the tales of Beauty and the Beast no doubt. How a fair maid falls in love with a monster and sees the beauty of his soul beneath the hideous visage. But you've never heard the tale of the handsome man falling for the monstrous woman and finding joy in her love, because it doesn't happen, not even in fairytales. The truth is that the scarred woman's husband buys her a good thick veil and enquires about nunneries for the good of her health. He spends his days with his falcons and his nights instructing pageboys in their duties. For if nothing else, the wars taught him how to be a diligent master to such pretty lads.
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Karen Maitland (Company of Liars)
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There's blood pounding through the Duke's head.
Knighthood is glory, he's thinking, not just grace in the saddle and at swordplay, but courage enough to give your life to defend what you hold dear. A noble reward, for noble men. A badge of honour.
He'd never ennoble a merchant. Even Chaucer, whom he admires, but knows to be a fool on a battlefield. Not Chaucer's fault, that; just his merchant blood.
Knighthood's not for the likes of these people; for Madame Perrers' brood. He thought she knew her place. But she's overreached herself; she's as grasping as the rest of them, after all. Do these people think they can buy or steal everything?
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Vanora Bennett (The People's Queen)
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This was very much Billing territory. He picked up on the literary, journalistic and political notions of the radical right: proposals for Jewish ghettoes and yellow star badges; anti-German and anti-alien strictures; moves against the sale of honours and internal corruption; and, crucially, took them to the masses.
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Philip Hoare (Oscar Wilde's Last Stand: Decadence, Conspiracy, and the Most Outrageous Trial of the Century)
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Wear your failure as a badge of honour.
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Garima Pradhan (A Girl That Had to be Strong)
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If soccer really is a ‘a slum sport played in slum stadiums increasingly watched by slum people’ as declared by the Sunday Times in 1985 after the Bradford fire disaster that took 56 lives, then Rayo Vallecano wear their slum affiliation like a badge of honour.
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Robbie Dunne (Working Class Heroes: The Story of Rayo Vallecano, Madrid's Forgotten Team)
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Sir Rabindranath Tagore returned his knighthood to the British in protest against ‘the helplessness of our position as British subjects in India’. Tagore’s early ambivalence about the costs and benefits of British rule was replaced after Amritsar by what he termed a ‘graceless disillusionment’ at the ‘misfortune of being governed by a foreign race’. He did not want a ‘badge of honour’ in ‘the incongruous context of humiliation’.
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Shashi Tharoor (An Era of Darkness: The British Empire in India)
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Wear your sensitivities like a badge of honour. It's what makes you special.
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Ash Alves (Highly Sensitive Warrior: Self-empowerment Reminders for Highly Sensitive People)
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To look out the window, it might be the 1980s still, the height of the heroin plague, the police doing nothing, the politicians doing nothing. The same faces loitering in the forecourt of the boarded-up garage, proud of their intractability, the notoriety of their home. Wearing their failure like a badge of honour, generation after generation, parent and child.
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Paul Murray (Skippy Dies)
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The real badge of honour at work is not to work longer than anyone else, but to work smarter than anyone else.
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David Hieatt (Do Purpose: Why brands with a purpose do better and matter more. (Do Books, 7))
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The executors earn the badge of honour. More work more result. No work no result.
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Chidiebere Orji Agbugba
“
My Mother’s Love
Gave me a chance to live
Grateful that I am alive
Glad she helped me survive
I can feel the depth of her sacrifice
She closed the doors of early death on me
Through her act of bravery
Indeed, she has been so kind
What can one give
To a parent who took the risk
By saving an unborn child?
I am privileged enough
Being counted among the living
Thank God she lived too!
Although she is now gone
Her efforts will not go unnoticed
She chose my life over hers
I will forever honour her
Because for me to be here
It is due to my Mother’s love
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
How Shall I Ever Thank You?
Ode to my precious Mother
For saving my life
When there was a plot to end it
For loving me
When I felt unloved
For treating me with kindness
When some were unkind
For standing by my side
When it was not easy
For providing unwavering support
When I needed you the most
For brightening up my days
As I faced dark clouds
For finding solutions
When I went through challenges
For offering courage
When I was afraid
For bringing me hope
When I was in despair
For showing me the way
When I went astray
For being able to pray
When I asked for a prayer
For everything you have done
How shall I ever thank you?
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
How Shall I Ever Thank You?
An ode to my precious Mother
For saving my life
When there was a plot to end it
For loving me
When I felt unloved
For treating me with kindness
When some were unkind
For standing by my side
When it was not easy
For providing unwavering support
When I needed you the most
For brightening up my days
As I faced dark clouds
For finding solutions
When I went through challenges
For offering courage
When I was afraid
For bringing me hope
When I was in despair
For showing me the way
When I went astray
For being able to pray
When I asked for a prayer
For everything you have done
How shall I ever thank you?
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Thank You
A letter of gratitude to a loving Mother
For the great times, we spent
For the beautiful memories, we shared
For the wonderful life, we had
For the light, you shed
For the love, you gave
For the sacrifices, you made
For the smile, you kept
For the fun, you brought
For the valuable lessons, you taught
For the value, you added
For the amazing things, you did
For the precious gift, you have been
From the depth of my heart
I can never have enough words to say
Thank you!
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Pray With Me
I know God is in control
Throughout the seasons
Even when I face obstacles
While I wish to hear oracles
As I stand on the edge
Of a mountain so steep
In pursuit of peace
There is one thing I believe
When I go on my knees
And honour His will
Before I seal that deal
I have with destiny
It is my plea
That I be set free
To succeed
Help please
Pray with me!
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
God Bless The Queen Mother
Ode to her Majesty
God bless the Queen Mother
Grant her many years of life
We need her in our lives
Show her everlasting love
Cover her with power from Above
God bless the Queen Mother
A descendant of royalty
As she goes in and out of the city
To serve with loyalty and dignity
May she have serenity
God bless the Queen Mother
Whether down the valley or up the hill
On the battlefield, may she win
Please keep her still
As she honours your will
God bless the Queen Mother
Throughout seasons
Wherever she goes
And whatever she does
Let her be favoured
God bless the Queen Mother!
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
A Special Prayer For Mothers
To all the Mothers
Who stand for what is right
They work so hard
Never let the weather dictate
How they love their children
Always there whenever needed
Do what is best for loved ones
Yes, they guide leaders on how to reign
Cry out to God to save future generations
As they plead for true liberation
A reliable source of inspiration
Not ordinary humans
But special women
Whom we call Moms
Fighters of hunger
Seekers of wellbeing
Promoters of longevity
Providers of stability
Pioneers of societies
Pillars of many countries
Teachers of morals and values
We pray for their blessings
And breakthroughs in all they do!
This is our special prayer for Mothers
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Mothers Are So Wonderful
We are the ones who carry babies for months
We feel anxious about their safety
We do our best to keep them healthy
We worry the most when they are thirsty
We feed them when hungry
We are the ones who look after their wellbeing
We ensure our kids’ lives are worthwhile
We find ways to provide optimum care
We are patient to see them grow older
Yes, they always run to us for cover
We are the ones who are called names
When things go wrong with our children
But given no credit when they excel in life
We create conducive environments all the time
We take the bullet for our loved ones
We brace raging storms on their behalf
We are the ones who walk miles
In search of better opportunities for our offspring
We sleep very late and wake up too early
We guide them to achieve great things
We say prayers for them to prosper
God was right to entrust women with childbearing because Mothers are so wonderful
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
A Special Mother
That is who you are
An Angel that once lived with us
Who now left for the Heavens
A loving parent
Such a rare gem
A true blessing
And a precious being
Truly exceptional
To us, you were like the sunshine
That made our days shine bright
You were like the flower
That gave us hope to blossom each day
Just like the rain
That came and washed away our pain
Much like an eagle
That soared against strong winds for our sake
Like a shield that ensures we are safe
Death never took you away
Because in our lives
You are somehow alive
Through the beautiful memories
We gratefully hold in our hearts
Indeed, you are our special Mother
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Our Mothers
Your eyes see hope for tomorrow
Your hearts are made of gold that many wish to borrow
Your minds sharp enough for others follow
Your hands ensure that children grow
Your feet go places where some cannot know
Your courage makes you stand where strong winds blow
Your presence becomes warmth, regardless of the snow
Your influence can be felt within a stone’s throw
You hold nothing back for whom you protect
You speak words with good intent
You treat others with so much respect
You fight and never retract
You pursue a path that keeps your faith intact
You fulfil dreams and make a significant impact
You pass through tough times while remaining steadfast
You conquer battles as you pray and fast
You instil discipline that becomes a great shield
You serve others until they succeed
You give inspiration among those who bleed
You understand that you are rearing a rare breed
You plant and nurture the right seed
You help attract breakthroughs with speed
You care for those in need
You touch lives, indeed
You lead your own to be great every step of the way
You play your role very well, even without a pay
You smile as if every day is your pay day
You exude wisdom and put it on full display
You save generations from going astray
You run your race just like in a relay
You pass the baton with no delay
You carry so much worth as you get to be gray
Hence, we salute you, our Mothers
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
My Loving Mother
I keep thinking of you out of nowhere
I continue talking about you everywhere
When days go by, when I am anywhere
I wish you would appear from somewhere
Though I know you have gone elsewhere
Your departure left me feeling empty
My heart has been heavy
For I have been lonely
I hold your memories closely
Because you made life a bit cosy
Things are not the same, without you in this world
I miss the moments of prayer we shared
The guidance from your end
Precept upon precept
Losing you is something hard to accept
The silent wishes you had for me
The stories you told about your folks
The wonderful chats we used to have
It is all gone, gone for good
Just like you did
Yet I appreciate
That you have been great
And no one can ever take
Your special place
My loving Mother
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
What A Remarkable Woman You Are
You are a child of God
You are gifted
You are triumphant
You are exceptional
You are inspirational
You are irreplaceable
You are loveable
You are valuable
You are beautiful
You are helpful
You are hopeful
You are wonderful
You are powerful
You are prayerful
You are purposeful
You are successful
My blessed Mother!
What a remarkable woman you are
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
I Wish My Mother Was Here
A special wish for Mother’s Day
I wish my Mother was here
So I could tell her
What it means to me
That she saved my life
I wish my Mother was here
So I could pat her on the shoulder
To appreciate her kindness
And all the love she has shown me
I wish my Mother was here
So, I would let her realize
That I am grateful
To be born of a powerful woman like her
I wish my Mother was here
So, I could make her aware
Of the exceptional job she has done
By raising me up
I wish my Mother was here
So, I could thank her
For all the sacrifices she made
Because she has been nothing but the best
I wish my Mother was here!
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Extraordinary Woman
A token of appreciation to my beloved Mother
You are beautiful
Undeniably great
Nature’s most amazing gift
Your smile is worth a million bucks
You shine like a star
Your presence brings calm
Your laughter brightens my day
Your kindness warms my nights
I am fortunate to call you Mom
In you, I see an angel
Under whose wings I remain safe
All because you are so great
What can one do to appreciate
Such an amazing Soul
Who fights like a warrior
For the sake of her children
You wake up each morning
Ensuring that things are in the right place
There is no way one can ever replace
Such an extraordinary woman
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
If It Were Possible
For a loving Mother
If it were possible
I would write you a letter
Send it to the Heavens
Just so you could read
And realise how much I love you
If it were possible
I would get you flowers
As a token of appreciation
For all the great things you have done for me
And the difference you made in my life
If it were possible
I would sit down next to you
Have a deep conversation
Perhaps to hear your current thoughts
And listen to your guidance again
If it were possible
I would spend time with you
Celebrate your presence
Miss no precious moment
And make sure it counts the most
However, it is not possible
Hence, I have no choice
But to accept that you are gone
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
There Is A Superwoman
Her name may not be popular
Have never seen her face on a billboard
But she is worth more!
She may not have much in her pocket
Yet she makes a plan for survival
On her own, she is a survivor
She loves, she laughs
Even when her heart is bleeding
She puts smiles on other people’s faces
Secures a good future for her offspring
From autumn to spring, she is reliable
Like a rare gem, she is so valuable
Her wisdom is beyond understanding
A unique creative
Always in the art of making history
Great contributor to society
Wonderful soul she is
Real fighter for her rights
Who changes many lives
Superpower in the universe
No matter what comes her way
She can handle it
You know why?
She is a Superwoman
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
You Have Done Your Best
A token of appreciation for an amazing Mother
I remember our expectations of you
We knew you would take care of us
Yet we forgot you had your needs too
We never thought in our little minds
You could be sad sometimes
Or be happy at other times
You were good at hiding your emotions
Because you were always in motion
Making sure we had provision
Oh, Mother, yours was a great vision
To you, we were the priority
You wanted to see us prosper
To date, we still wonder
How one could be so selfless
That about her own life, she cared less
Through you, we were so blessed
We sometimes look back and are amazed
At how you managed to make things happen
We still do not have the answers
All we know is that you have done your best!
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
She Was God Sent
A special appreciation for a loving Mother
She has gone to sleep
Her beautiful soul is at rest
She watched as we wept
When we realized she had left
But we remained kept
By our appreciation for her
She lived life to the fullest
Until her last breath
When blood could no longer flow to her heart
We wondered who would lend a helping hand
Because while alive, she always had our backs
Even when things were hard
We went through intense hurt
As we dealt with her absence
Yet we admired her race
Which she ran with grace
Our gift so rare
A torchbearer
She was our strength
Truly, she was God-sent
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
I Can Only Imagine
A special Eulogy to my adorable Mother
I can only imagine
How you may have felt
That very day you left
Not knowing how your children would fend for themselves
Thank God He made provision for them
I can only imagine
The questions you had
A few hours before you departed
From wondering when you would take your last breath
To trying to understand how your loved ones would react
I can only imagine
That unforgettable day
When we witnessed your transition to Heaven
I still wonder how you went
But I remember your peaceful smile
Even as you steadily waved goodbye
I can only imagine
The place where you are now
Filled with nothing but joy
As you forget the sorrow of this world
While you admire the beauty of Paradise
I can only imagine!
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
I Can Only Imagine
A special Eulogy to my adorable Mother
I can only imagine
How you may have felt
That very day you left
Not knowing how your children would fend for themselves
Thank God He made provision for them
I can only imagine
The questions you had
A few hours before you departed
From wondering when you would take your last breath
To trying to understand how your loved ones would react
I can only imagine
That unforgettable day
When we witnessed your transition to Heaven
I still wonder how you went
But I remember your peaceful smile
Even as you steadily waved goodbye
I can only imagine
The place where you are now
Filled with nothing but joy
As you forget the sorrow of this world
While you admire the beauty of Paradise
I can only imagine!
”
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
With Love from Your Mother
A letter to a beloved child
I birthed and looked after you
Worked hard to raise you up
I never had my own time
You were my priority
I had to give you security
And the assurance that I am there
For you, I wanted what was best
For me, everything was all about you
Now that you are older
I pray your life gets better
So, I am writing you this letter
To tell you it does not matter
What happened in the past
Your future looks bright
Things may not seem alright
As I am not there
Child, I am only here
Because my days on Earth came to an end
But, like an Angel in Heaven
I will hold your hand
Yes, I will cheer you on
Declare your blessings
And countless breakthroughs
With love, your loving Mother
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
My Dearest Child
I think of you so often
And I know you are important
Greatness is your nature
A special gift I did not deserve
You are my treasure
And, this you must remember
As you wake up in the morning
To face another day
Holding on to God’s hand
Go on your knees
May it be your prayer
To be closer to your Maker
Seek His glorious face
Follow a Divine mandate
As you run your race
Honour His grace
All your days
So, when you get to Heaven one day
You can meet the Almighty
When you rest for eternity
While on this Earth
Be the best you could ever be
My dearest child
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
That Is All I Ask
Hold my trembling hand
I am now ailing
Do not let me fall
Indeed, I am weak
When I struggle to see afar
Show me the way
If I sometimes cry
Wipe the tears on my cheeks
Whilst words skip my lips
Hear my voice as I whisper;
“It is me! It is me!
Please help me out.”
For I am no longer young
But old enough
Would you take care of me?
I require you to be there
Like a child needs a parent
Stand by me, time and again
That is all I ask
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
This Life of Mine
Reflections of a fruitful Mother
I am now old
But I am also bold
My ideas I have sold
Through the stories I told
In too many folds
I narrated to my folks
The beauty of my walk
Hence, I will always talk
About the wonders of this world
The wealth of wisdom
I imparted to my children
And many others that came my way
I did not only live for myself
Yes, I graciously helped
I made a great impact
Hence, I do not regret
I am filled with gratitude
As I take this final breath
Knowing I have done my level best
It is time to depart the Earth
I still look back
As I thank the God of the Land
For this life of mine
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Do Not Be Silent
Encouraging words from a Loving Mother to her wonderful child
There is greatness inside of you
Allow your voice to be heard
It is like medicine for the soul
With healing power to the wounded
Let your gifts take you through better doors
Showcase your brilliant work to the world
You can only get going after you have started
So, invest in what is good for you
Be an agent of transformation
Help those in dire situations
Lead others in the right direction
Be part of the solution
Choose to make a mark
Open your mouth
Say what is deep within your heart
Do not be silent
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
My Kind of Girl
A letter of inspiration from a Loving Mother
My kind of girl
Understands who she is
And stands for what she believes in
She cannot be broken
No one can belittle her
When trials come her way
She remains unfazed
My kind of girl
Walks with confidence
She exudes excellence
An epitome of elegance
She does due diligence
Being mindful of her intelligence
Because she knows her importance
My kind of girl
Builds her own future
A certified trailblazer
Who utilizes the power within her
To be of good influence
Always on top of her game
Yes, she keeps soaring like an eagle
My kind of girl
Takes charge of her own life
Secures her name in historical archives
For she is no ordinary woman
An extraordinary being
She dares to dream
In the world, she makes a difference
That is my kind of girl
”
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Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
My Kind of Girl
A letter of inspiration from a Loving Mother
My kind of girl
Understands who she is
And stands for what she believes in
She cannot be broken
No one can belittle her
When trials come her way
She remains unfazed
My kind of girl
Walks with confidence
She exudes excellence
An epitome of elegance
She does due diligence
Being mindful of her intelligence
Because she knows her importance
My kind of girl
Builds her own future
A certified trailblazer
Who utilizes the power within her
To be of good influence
Always on top of her game
Yes, she keeps soaring like an eagle
My kind of girl
Takes charge of her own life
Secures her name in historical archives
For she is no ordinary woman
An extraordinary being
She dares to dream
In the world, she makes a difference
That is my kind of girl
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
My Kind of Girl
A letter of inspiration from a Loving Mother
My kind of girl
Understands who she is
And stands for what she believes in
She cannot be broken
No one can belittle her
When trials come her way
She remains unfazed
My kind of girl
Walks with confidence
She exudes excellence
An epitome of elegance
She does due diligence
Being mindful of her intelligence
Because she knows her importance
My kind of girl
Builds her own future
A certified trailblazer
Who utilizes the power within her
To be of good influence
Always on top of her game
Yes, she keeps soaring like an eagle
My kind of girl
Takes charge of her own life
Secures her name in historical archives
For she is no ordinary woman
An extraordinary being
She dares to dream
In the world, she makes a difference
That is my kind of girl
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
You Are Wonderfully Made
You have a voice
And certainly, a choice
Speak out and let people listen
To what you have to say
Believe without a doubt
That you are not average
You can change the world
Inside of you, there is greatness
Yes, you must be great
Your life should not be in vain
For a purpose, you were created
So, do not feel intimidated
Go out there and be counted
Among the best of the best
Shine brighter and brighter
Because you are wonderfully made
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
It Can Be Done
An inspirational poem from a loving Mother to her child
It can be done!
Yes, we have to believe it
We have seen God do miracles for others
And we know He has power
To turn the situation around
It can be done!
It does not matter what happened in the past
It may seem impossible
But highly possible
To the Lord of all possibilities
It can be done!
Even if you have failed before
You can still try once more
Work until you are sure
Of a better outcome
It can be done!
As long as you do it with passion
Just go on your knees and say a prayer
Make sure you prosper
Because it can be done!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
The Sacred Place of A Loving Mother
It felt so unreal
The atmosphere surreal
Yet, you had serenity
As you said your final goodbyes
With conviction, you waved at us
Until you gave your last breath
That was the end of you on Earth
Years go by and I realise
I hope to see you one more time
So, I keep looking around
Your departure left in me a gaping wound
That wound sometimes bleeds
No matter how much I try to hide it
I cannot help but long for you Mommy
Your beautiful smile calmed my nerves
Your warm presence gave me calmness
Your gentle kindness changed who I am
Your wealth of wisdom helped me grow
Your staunch support kept me strong
Your sincere sacrifices brought me hope
Your powerful prayers made me a conqueror
If you could hear my voice
I would whisper the words “I love you.”
If you could see my face
You would realise that I miss you
If you could look at me now
You would understand how much I need you
If you could notice my tears
I know you would wipe them there and there
If you could get closer to me
You would give me a hug and say, “It is okay.”
Because right now, I feel it is not Mama!
Deep in my heart, there is a vacuum
A vacuum that no one can ever fill
Every time I am at crossroads
I wonder what you would say or do
Living next to you was a great blessing
You were an amazing parent to me
And you will always be my inspiration
In sadness, I recall how you prayed
In happiness, I recount how you praised the Lord
In the wilderness, I remember how you trusted God
It is still hard to believe you are gone
I will cherish you forever
My loving Mother
No one can ever take your sacred place
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Our Brilliant Mother
She did not go to school
But she schooled us on many things
She was not qualified
Regardless she gave us quality care
She missed out on her own career
Since we were her full-time job
She was not in a high position
Yet she made things happen
She was not a celebrity
Still, we celebrated her presence in our lives
She never lived life to the fullest
Because she lived for us
She did not have it all
Even so, she was all we had
She was not perfect
Simply the best
This is enough reason to always cherish
Our brilliant Mother!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Always There For Me
Ode to my beloved Mother
When there is no sunshine
And stars do not shine in the night
When the moon is not so bright
And there seems to be no light
You are always there for me
When darkness is here
And my pillow becomes a pool of tears
When I am surrounded by fear
And I need you near
You are always there for me
When the seas are rough on my side
And I swim against the tide
When I run out of time
And I struggle in life
You are always there for me
When I am soaked in the rain
And cloaked by pain
When sadness puts me under strain
And my joy goes down the drain
You are always there for me
When my mornings find me mourning
And middays appear cloudy
When midnights are filled with groaning
And my new dawn is being delayed
You are always there for me
When the road is long
And I need strength to go on
When my voice is gone
And I cannot sing a song
You are always there for me
When my heart is weak
And I feel so weary
When there is no sign of victory
And I sometimes worry
You are always there for me
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
A Godly Woman
Ode to a woman who loves God wholeheartedly
A Godly Woman
Walks according to the Word
Wherever she is in this world
When circumstances do not allow
She still knows her worth
A Godly Woman
Follows the route of righteousness
Although it may seem inconvenient
She finds a way to understand
The path she ought to travel
A Godly Woman
Subscribes to the Gospel
No matter how others question it
She spreads good news to the nations
Even if it means taking on a new dimension
A Godly Woman
Kneels even when she is weak
She searches the heart of God
Until she finds it
Despite what she has lost
A Godly Woman
Keeps her eyes fixed on the Cross
Her aid does not come from across
Hence, she is always afloat
Even in the midst of floods
A Godly Woman
Inspires other people
She is someone you can look up to
Or easily reach for help
A kind-hearted Soul celebrated by Heaven
A Godly Woman
Has Divine power
Always a conqueror
More than a fighter
In every battle, she is victorious
A Godly Woman
Can never afford to live
Without acknowledging her Maker
Every single day, she relies on her Saviour
Because she is a devoted Believer
No one can ever dispute the fact that
She is a godly woman
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Worth More Than A Precious Jewel
What a brilliant woman!
She thinks beyond the now
Yet, she lives in the present
Will not let her past define her
Never scared to face the future
She is very influential
And knows the power of self-love
Takes pride in her life
Such a humble Soul
She lets nothing bring her down
Even after a fall, she stands back up
Where there seems to be no way
Her resilience keeps the enemy at bay
The universe celebrates her bravery
As she walks from victory to victory
A special human with a passion for humanity
She dispels any myth of inferiority
Sees herself as a priority
Recognizes her own reality
She does what she can do best
Always has it covered by prayer
A sister, a friend, a Mother
A daughter, a neighbour, or a leader
Who remains a great treasure!
Because she is worth more than a precious jewel
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
I Love You Mama
You ran in the right lane
You knew that you were in a race
You became my happy place
You brightened my face
You kept me in your gentle embrace
You taught me how to live with grace
You became a powerful woman I could emulate
You ought to be celebrated in essence
You are truly a woman of substance
You and brilliance belong to the same sentence
You filled my space with a sweet fragrance
You lit the room with your presence
You raised me with a clear conscience
You gave me profound guidance
Your teachings, I still preserve
Your prayers, I will treasure
Your impact, I shall not forget
Your commitment, I felt
But, I now have to accept that you left
Here is what I want you to know
I love you, Mama!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
A Letter to My Beloved Son
As you land on this place called Earth
Many things shall be unearthed
As the sun rises, it is compelled to set
Much as you are alive
It may be for a while
But the key things you require
So, listen my child!
Honour the gift of life
Value your time
Please be wise
Opt to be the light
Even on the darkest night
Do not lose sight
Of a future so bright
Follow what is right
For things to be alright
Believe in Jesus Christ
Let Him be your guide
Pray without ceasing
Know your calling
Keep on dreaming
You must believe
That you will succeed
You are part of me
I must tell you no lies
The world can be harsh sometimes
Remember little one
To keep moving forward
You will reap great rewards
And be very proud
With love, your loving Mom
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Such A Great Treasure
This is my lovely daughter
With a special place in my life
She melts my heart with her smile
Calms my nerves with laughter
For her, I have so much love
Love that will keep her warm
On cold winter nights
Even when I left ahead of time
God took care of her
Better than me being there
As I watch her from afar
I do appreciate
That she is truly mine
I once held her in my arms
And she named me her mom
What a privilege it was
To birth such a great treasure!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Until The End of Time
When I am old and grey
Almost on my way to the grave
As the smile begins to fade
And I find myself alone
Not necessarily lonely
For God will be with me
Will not fear to face tomorrow
Because I know that today
And every other day
My Lord still reigns
I believe in His power
Which transforms lives
Yes, I will hold on
No matter what, I will not let go
Until the end of time
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
It Is Well
At times when you are unwell
As you almost drown in a pool of tears
Walk away from any distress
And choose to say, ‘It is well.’
When life becomes so hard
And the pain you face becomes too sharp
When your days feel like cold nights
Be the one to say, ‘It is well.’
When you wonder which way to take
And you are unsure how you will get there
When you go through myriad tests
Trust the Lord and say, ‘It is well.’
When everything seems unfair
And people begin to doubt the God you serve
When you go through things you do not deserve
Learn to say, ‘It is well.’
Things will not always go your way
Because it is the Lord’s will that prevails
That is why in every circumstance
You should pray and say, ‘It is well.
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Know Your Worth
My child, you are favoured
In Jesus’ precious Name
Your blessings are abundant
So, embrace your essence
Wherever you are
Keep moving forward
Yes, you must rise
While there is still time
Make sure you shine
Feel the sunshine
Put on a big smile
Avoid what makes you cry
Never ever worry
You carry God’s glory
As you go through life’s journey
Be spectacular
Straighten your crown
And know your worth
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Be The Best
I woke up every morning
Saying an earnest prayer
Asking the Angels to surround you
To keep you safe wherever you go
Remember to play your part
Please be smart
And wear your crown with pride
Ensure you rise
My precious child!
Always follow the light
When it gets dark at night
Continue to shine where you are
Look beyond the confines
Touch the skies
Make history
You are not ordinary
My own flesh and blood
Be the best!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Be Great My Child
This is your own journey
I cannot tell so easily
Exactly how to navigate
But I am here to guide you
Because I truly care
And wish to see you prosper
My darling, whatever life brings along
Find ways to deal with it
Acknowledge each season
Pursue your God-given purpose
Choose what is right
Forget that which is not
Be wiser as you grow old
Live the best way you can
Love yourself more and more
Learn to embrace who you are
Say a prayer each day
Create beautiful memories
Dream big and be happy
Wake up, make your dreams a reality
Walk towards prosperity
And build a long-lasting legacy
Whatsoever you do child, be great!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Soar Like An Eagle
Please listen
As I share with you child
What is in my heart
I want you to realize
Your own potential
So, think thoroughly
Understand something
Do not feed your enemies
Dine in front of them
Never hate your haters
Love them instead
Put up a good fight
Remember you live once
Avoid any regrets
Choose to be great
It is my sincere prayer
That you soar like an eagle
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
You Are An Inspiration
Inspiring words from an inspirational Mother to her child
Walk this journey without hesitation
Make a solemn declaration
Have solid determination
Until you reach your destination
This process has no clear definition
Therefore, make sound decisions
Remember, the past has no revisions
Child, have a clear vision
This is what I envision
As a candid resolution
That you will be part of the solution
When you embark on the Great Commission
To accomplish the massive mission
Seek the right information
Celebrate your liberation
Fear no limitation
Pursue restoration
Surpass any expectation
And value your contribution
Can I have a confirmation?
Because you are an inspiration!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
A Powerful Woman
Ode to my wonderful Mother
When a powerful woman departs from this world
She leaves behind a great legacy
For real, she rests in eternal peace
Because her entire life was lived not only for herself
But for countless generations to come
When a powerful woman departs from this world
Although her loved ones shed tears
They still look back and appreciate
As they affectionately remember
What she has done for them
When a powerful woman departs from this world
The Mighty hand of God is seen
Through how she ran her race
Under the influence of Divine Grace
Which leads her to the Promised Land
When a powerful woman departs from this world
Her beautiful memories remain
Her wonderful contribution embraced
Her colourful name celebrated
By those whose lives she changed
When a powerful woman departs from this world, no one can dispute that she made her mark
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
Woman of Virtue
She could be as still as a statue
But unapologetically vibrant
Even in her silence
She exudes confidence
Yet so humble
She runs her race with courage
Because she has a clear picture
Of where she is going
She knows who she is
And what she wants
She understands what her worth signifies
Extremely dignified
Many odds she defies
She has influence that no one denies
No matter where she goes, she prospers
She makes life so much better
Never doubts her own power
She whose face shines brighter
Such a paragon of splendour
That recognises God’s favour
Committed to excellence
Crowned with brilliance
Clothed by abundance
Cloaked in resilience
Conquers any turbulence
She is someone I look up to
A woman of virtue
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
A Remarkable Woman
She is so exquisite
Even without makeup on her face
She is very special
Even if she lets others seem important
She is selfless
Even when the selfish surround her
She offers a lot of love
Even so, she needs it often
She has a big heart
Even though she appears small
She lets others belong
But she longs to be appreciated
She adds value
Despite her worth being undermined
She is attentive
Nonetheless, no one pays attention to her needs
She is patient
No matter how long it takes, she waits
She is generous
While no one could be willing to give
She is forgiving
Much as the worst was done against her
She is trusting
Albeit her trust was broken countless times
She is wise
In spite of being treated otherwise by some
She works hard
Notwithstanding that she requires rest
She is helpful
Yet, there is none to lend her a hand
She makes life seem easy
Whilst going through difficult times herself
She stands by others
Although there is no one to stand by her
She chooses to be peaceful
Against being somehow provoked
She is calm
Undeterred by what is not
She is bold
In defiance of tough battles ahead
She shows bravery
Still in the presence of adversity
She is fearless
Though she may seem helpless
She is spirited
Contrary to attempts to bring her down
She is never destroyed
Irrespective of the storms she faces sometimes
She keeps moving forward
Granting the hindrances along the way
She stands in the gap
And makes things happen
She does not look down on others
Regardless of some doing so to her
She recognises those who shielded her on rainy days
Whenever the sun shines upon her
She keeps running her race
Because she knows for her, grace is abundant
She wears a smile always
Since prayer keeps her in the right place
She is an inspiration
A pioneer of transformation
Cheerleader for economic revolution
How the world adores such
A remarkable woman!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
I Love You Mama
You ran on the right lane
You knew that you are in a race
You became my happy place
You brightened my face
You kept me in your gentle embrace
You taught me how to live with grace
You became a powerful woman I could emulate
You ought to be celebrated in essence
You are truly a woman of substance
You and brilliance belong to the same sentence
You filled my space with a sweet fragrance
You lit the room with your presence
You raised me with a clear conscience
You gave me profound guidance
Your teachings, I still preserve
Your prayers, I will treasure
Your impact, I shall not forget
Your commitment, I felt
But, I now have to accept that you left
Here is what I want you to know
I love you, Mama!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
You Are So Wonderful
You lay bare your brain for others to learn
Great lessons you always share
From you, there is so much to hear
Your head is crowned with wisdom
You show the world how things are done
I call your name with pride
My love for you I cannot hide
You have a heart that is never weak
It does not break, it only bends
When you land into hardships
You find a way to rise
You manage to put on a smile
Stand back up and walk another mile
Despite any pain life
I am yet to meet someone of your calibre
With so much courage to endure
And the patent instincts of a survivor
Oh, woman of valour!
You need no stamp of approval from anyone
Because victory is your birth right
Superwoman, you are so wonderful
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
From My Mother’s Classroom
I looked at her
As she spoke
Every word
Each lesson
Profound wisdom
And valuable guidance
I held it so close to me
I was the curious learner
She, the passionate teacher
The same teachings
Have carried me across oceans
Helped me climb mountains
Walked me through the darkest valleys
Kept me safe in the wilderness
I conquered battles
Beat the odds
Pursued my purpose
Fearlessly dreamt
Lived a life so great
That is why today
I still appreciate
Everything I learnt
From my Mother’s classroom
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)
“
A Better Future
A special tribute to my beautiful Mother
When you were strict towards me
I thought you were being mean
When you advised me to behave
I would sometimes misbehave
When you instilled discipline
I assumed you were ill-treating me
When you taught about being responsible
I did not want to be accountable
When you told me to go to school
I felt it was not cool
When you gave me less money for lunch
I somehow expected more
When you asked for my homework
I was keen to do nothing
When you said I should pray
I only wanted to play
Mother!
It was because back then
I did not know, but now I realise
You were preparing me
For a better future!
”
”
Gift Gugu Mona (From My Mother's Classroom: A Badge of Honour for a Remarkable Woman)