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Sometimes," Catelyn said slowly, "the best thing you can do is nothing. When I first came to Winterfell, I was hurt whenever Ned went to the godwood to sit beneath his heart tree.
Part of his soul was in that tree, I know, a part I would never share. Yet, without that part, I soon realized, he would not have been Ned.
Jeyne, child, you have wed the north, as I did ... and in the north, the winters will come."
She tried to smile.
"Be patient. Be understanding. He loves you and he needs you, and he will come back to you soon enough. This very night, perhaps. Be there when he does. That is all I can tell you.
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George R.R. Martin