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Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but it sure makes the rest of you lonely.
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Charles M. Schulz
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder… or forgetful.
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J.M. Barrie (Peter Pan)
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I mean she's Cleopatra... shouldn't she and Antony have known better? They were so different..."
"Variety is the spice of life"
"And from a thousand miles apart"
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder
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Ally Carter (Uncommon Criminals (Heist Society, #2))
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You know what they say. Absence makes the heart grow fonder."
"If my heart grows any fonder, it's going to hop out of my chest and into yours.
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Olivia Cunning (Backstage Pass (Sinners on Tour, #1))
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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Eleanor Roosevelt
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People say absence makes the heart grow fonder, but I think they’re wrong: Proximity makes the heart grow fonder.
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Jenny Han (P.S. I Still Love You (To All the Boys I've Loved Before, #2))
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Aye, well, he'll be wed a long time," he said callously. "Do him no harm to keep his breeches on for one night. And they do say that abstinence makes the heart grow firmer, no?"
"Absence," I said, dodging the spoon for a moment. "AND fonder. If anything's growing firmer from abstinence, it wouldn't be his heart.
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Diana Gabaldon (Voyager (Outlander, #3))
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Whoever coined the phrase ‘Absence makes the heart grow fonder,’ was an idiot.
Absence makes a bitch go crazy.
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Toni Aleo
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder
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William Shakespeare
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I hadn’t seen Jennifer in a week. Absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder. Whoever said that was a damn fool. Absence makes the heart suicidal. Take my heart for example. It hadn’t stopped hurling itself against my ribs—at odd times, day or night—for a week.
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Penny Reid (Beard Science (Winston Brothers, #3))
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Proverbs often contradict one another, as any reader soon discovers. The sagacity that advises us to look before we leap promptly warns us that if we hesitate we are lost; that absence makes the heart grow fonder, but out of sight, out of mind.
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Leo Rosten
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People say absence makes the heart grow fonder, but I think they're wrong: Proximity makes the heart grow fonder.
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Jenny Han (P.S. I Still Love You (To All the Boys I've Loved Before, #2))
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Absence makes the heart grows fonder, doesn't it?
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Simon Van Booy
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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Becca Fitzpatrick (Crescendo (Hush, Hush, #2))
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One idealizes people when they're away, it's true that absence makes the heart grow fonder, and when one sees them again one's often surprised that one saw anything in them at all.
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W. Somerset Maugham (Christmas Holiday)
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Absence may or may not make the heart grow fonder, but it certainly freshens the eye.
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Stephen King (Everything's Eventual)
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Sometimes absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder. Sometimes it just makes the heart hurt.
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A.J. Compton (The Counting-Downers)
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Absence doesn't always make the heart grow fonder. Sometimes it just teaches us that we can live apart.
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Michael Faudet (Smoke & Mirrors)
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Over the years I’d learned absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder. The heart becomes wary, somnolent and cynical during periods of prolonged absence, burdened with cares and fears borne in solitude. However, absence does make the body greedy and irrationally amorous with frustrated need.
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Penny Reid (Happily Ever Ninja (Knitting in the City, #5))
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-“You know what they say. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”
“If my heart grows any fonder, it’s going to hop out of my chest and into yours.
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Olivia Cunning
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You know what they say. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”
“If my heart grows any fonder, it’s going to hop out of my chest and into yours.
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Olivia Cunning (Backstage Pass (Sinners on Tour, #1))
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You know what they say. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” “If my heart grows any fonder, it’s going to hop out of my chest and into yours.” She melted. She scooted up his body to kiss him. “That’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever said to me.” “It sounds sort of fatal,
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Olivia Cunning (Backstage Pass (Sinners on Tour, #1))
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Absence might make the heart grow fonder,'
'I don't think that's possible ... You have no idea how much I love you.
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Nicholas Sparks (The Wedding (The Notebook, #2))
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Absence does not so much make the heart grow fonder as give the heart time to integrate what it has not previously absorbed, time to make sense of what happened too quickly to have any meaning in the instant. This is always true. If it is in absence that people forget each other, it is also in the quiet pause of absence that, minds running in symmetry, people come to know each other; there is sometimes as much intimacy in the span of continents as in the shared hours before dawn.
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Andrew Solomon (A Stone Boat)
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i know they say that absence makes the heart grow fonder. but sometimes, absence can also reveal the waning of once fond feelings. time passes and it's a surprise to realize that you haven't missed him, or her, or the place or the job that once felt like a match.
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Heather Cochran (The Return of Jonah Gray)
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Absence is supposed to make the heart grow fonder,
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T.F. Lince (Room 119: The Whitby Trader)
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Absence truly does make the heart grow fonder.
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Leslie Braswell (Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power)
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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Tarryn Fisher
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Have you ever heard of such a thing as a phone?" I snapped. "You could have called so we knew you weren't dead."
My anger bounced off him. "I see my diabolical plan has worked," he observed.
"What plan?" I asked with narrow eyes.
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Tone down the outpouring affection, Remington, or I might get the wrong idea and kiss you.
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Corrine Jackson (Ignited (Sense Thieves #3))
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The American church avoids lament. The power of lament is minimized and the underlying narrative of suffering that requires lament is lost. But absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder. Absence makes the heart forget. The absence of lament in the liturgy of the American church results in the loss of memory. We forget the necessity of lamenting over suffering and pain. We forget the reality of suffering and pain.
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Soong-Chan Rah (Prophetic Lament: A Call for Justice in Troubled Times)
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I am not convinced absence makes the heart grow fonder. Perhaps we should test the veracity of this axiom more thoroughly, you and I.” —The Dowager Marchioness of Wallingham to her nephew upon his fourth request for an increase in funds.
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Elisa Braden (Desperately Seeking a Scoundrel (Rescued from Ruin, #3))
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Absence doesn't make the heart grow fonder if there's nothing there to begin with.
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Mariana Zapata (Wait for It)
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Sometimes neither distance makes the heart grow fonder nor absence lessens surging passions.
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Faraaz Kazi (More Than Just Friends)
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ABSENCE, n. That which "makes the heart grow fonder" — of absence. Absence of mind is the cerebral condition essential to success in popular preaching. It is sometimes termed lack of sense.
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Ambrose Bierce (The Unabridged Devil's Dictionary)
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Absence does not make the heart grow fonder, where books are concerned.
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Alexandra Petri
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Absence makes the heart grow Fonder.
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Olivia Cunning (Backstage Pass (Sinners on Tour, #1))
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I think about that stupid fucking saying, Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and I want to barf. I’m already beyond fond of everyone, so I’m all set.
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Jessica Park (Restless Waters (Left Drowning, #2))
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but tequila makes it so she doesn't give a shit if she's fond of you are not
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Lois Greiman (Unscrewed (A Chrissy McMullen Mystery, #3))
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder, they say, but my Aunt Jane used to add on to that, "of somebody else". Out of sight, out of mind is the truer proverb.
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Mary Westmacott (A Daughter's a Daughter)
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Absence doesn't make the heart grow fonder. Absence makes the bloody penis wander. ~ Heartbreak's A Bitch!
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S.M Phillips
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the September wind wafting the few trees West End still had lining the block to the south. I guess absence really does make the heart grow fonder,
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James Patterson (Burn (Michael Bennett 7))
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Absence does make the heart grow fonder—at first, at any rate. Mrs. Bunting was well aware of that. During the long course of hers and Bunting's mild courting, they'd been separated for about three months, and it was that three months which had made up her mind for her. She had got so used to Bunting that she couldn't do without him, and she had felt—oddest fact of all—acutely, miserably jealous.
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Marie Belloc Lowndes (The Lodger)
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✓My music had roots which I'd dug up from my own childhood, musical roots buried in the darkest soil.
✓What makes my approach special is that I do different things. I do jazz, blues, country music and so forth. I do them all, like a good utility man
✓What is a soul? It's like electricity - we don't really know what it is, but it's a force that can light a room
✓There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities.
✓I did it to myself. It wasn't society... it wasn't a pusher, it wasn't being blind or being black or being poor. It was all my doing.
✓What makes my approach special is that I do different things. I do jazz, blues, country music and so forth. I do them all, like a good utility man.
✓There's nothing written in the Bible, Old or New testament, that says, 'If you believe in Me, you ain't going to have no troubles.'
✓Music to me is like breathing. I don't get tired of breathing, I don't get tired of music.
✓Just because you can't see anything , doesn't mean you should shut your eyes.
✓Don't go backwards - you've already been there.
✓Affluence separates people. Poverty knits 'em together. You got some sugar and I don't; I borrow some of yours. Next month you might not have any flour; well, I'll give you some of mine.
✓Sometimes my dreams are so deep that I dream that I'm dreaming.
✓I don't think any of us really knows why we're here. But I think we're supposed to believe we're here for a purpose.
✓I'd like to think that when I sing a song, I can let you know all about the heartbreak, struggle, lies and kicks in the ass I've gotten over the years for being black and everything else, without actually saying a word about it.
✓.There's nothing written in the Bible, Old or New testament, that says, 'If you believe in Me, you ain't going to have no troubles.'
✓Other arms reach out to me, Other eyes smile tenderly, Still in peaceful dreams I see, The road leads back to you.
✓I can't help what I sound like. What I sound like is what i am. You know? I cannot be anything other that what I am.
✓Music is about the only thing left that people don't fight over.
✓My version of 'Georgia' became the state song of Georgia. That was a big thing for me, man. It really touched me. Here is a state that used to lynch people like me suddenly declaring my version of a song as its state song. That is touching.
✓Absence makes the heart grow fonder and tears are only rain to make love grow.
✓If you can play the blues, you can do anything.
✓I never considered myself part of rock 'n' roll. My stuff was more adult. It was more difficult for teenagers to relate to; my stuff was filled with more despair than anything you'd associate with rock 'n' roll. Since I couldn't see people dancing, I didn't write jitterbugs or twists. I wrote rhythms that moved me. My style requires pure heart singing.
✓It's like Duke Ellington said, there are only two kinds of music - good and bad. And you can tell when something is good.
✓Rhythm and blues used to be called race music. ... This music was going on for years, but nobody paid any attention to it.
✓Crying's always been a way for me to get things out which are buried deep, deep down. When I sing, I often cry. Crying is feeling, and feeling is being human.
✓I cant retire from music any more than I can retire from my liver. Youd have to remove the music from me surgically—like you were taking out my appendix.
✓The words to country songs are very earthy like the blues. They're not as dressed up and the people are very honest and say, 'Look, I miss you darlin', so I went out and got drunk in this bar.' That's the way you say it. Where in Tin Pan Alley they would say, 'Oh I missed you darling, so I went to this restaurant and I sat down and had a dinn
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Ray Charles
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I have made it an observation since our absence, that we are much fonder of the pictures of those we love when they are at a great distance than when they are near us. It seems to me as if the farther they are removed their pictures grow the more finished, and acquire a greater resemblance; or at least our imagination, which perpetually figures them to us by the desire we have of seeing them again, makes us think so. By a peculiar power, love can make that seem life itself which, as soon as the loved object returns, is nothing but a little canvas and flat color. I have your picture in my room; I never pass it without stopping to look at it; and yet when you are present with me I scarce ever cast my eyes on it. If a picture, which is but a mute representation of an object, can give such pleasure, what cannot letters inspire? They have souls; they can speak; they have in them all that force which expresses the transports of the heart; they have all the fire of our passions, they can raise them as much as if the persons themselves were present; they have all the tenderness and the delicacy of speech, and sometimes even a boldness of expression beyond it.
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Héloïse d'Argenteuil (The Letters of Abélard and Héloïse)
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Absence doesn't make the heart grow fonder. It makes people think you're dead.
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Christopher Fowler (The Book of Forgotten Authors)
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As sociologists are fond of pointing out, many of these aphorisms appear to be direct contradictions of each other. Birds of a feather flock together, but opposites attract. Absence indeed makes the heart grow fonder, but out of sight is out of mind. Look before you leap, but he who hesitates is lost. Of course, it is not necessarily the case that these beliefs are contradictory—because we invoke different aphorisms in different circumstances. But because we never specify the conditions under which one aphorism applies versus another, we have no way of describing what it is that we really think or why we think it. Common sense, in other words, is not so much a worldview as a grab bag of logically inconsistent, often contradictory beliefs, each of which seems right at the time but carries no guarantee of being right any other time.
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Duncan J. Watts (Everything is Obvious: Once You Know the Answer)
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Please. As if acid grows flowers better than water.
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B. Abbott (High Poets Society)
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The poets had it all wrong. Absence didn’t make the heart grow fonder. It made the heart forget.
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Regina Kyle (Triple Threat (The Art of Seduction, #1))
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Absence doesn't make the heart grow fonder. Whoever said that was a damn fool. Absence makes the heart suicidal.
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Penny Reid (Beard Science (Winston Brothers, #3))
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Absence does not make the heart grow fonder-it makes it wander. It sends a clear message that the client is not important enough to command your time. More clients are lost to neglect than to any other cause.
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Anthony Iannarino (The Only Sales Guide You'll Ever Need)
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He kissed her long and hot, drinking in her taste and scent. Her hands went to his hips, her fingers hooking through the belt loops on his khaki shorts. She pulled him against her, arching her back, the fly of her jeans against his.
Josh sucked in a deep breath and finally, reluctantly, lifted his head.
“I’m so damned glad to see you.”
“I’m so damned glad I got on that bus,” she said, her voice breathless, her smile wide.
“I hope you’re planning to stay for a while. Like all day. And night. And then the next. Four or five.”
Her eyes widened. “The next four or five days?”
He lowered his head, brushing his lips over hers. “I was thinking more like months.”
She laughed softly, her breath hot against his mouth. “So everything I remember feeling last year is still here.”
“Definitely still here,” he agreed. And stronger. Absence did make the heart grow fonder. He also knew it made memories fade and fantasies grow. But it seemed that neither of those things had happened in regard to Tori.
He remembered everything—the freckles on her nose, the length of her eyelashes, the reddish-gold highlights in her hair, the way her laugh punched him in the gut and made him hard as steel.
“Thank God,” she said softly.
“So that’s a yes to the four or five months?”
She laughed again. “Part of me is a very definite yes.”
“That’s the part I want.”
“Well, I can definitely offer you a chance to hang out with me for a few days.”
“Done.”
“You don’t even want to know what for?”
“Doesn’t matter.”
“Wow,” she said again.
Josh brushed his thumbs over her cheekbones. “That’s what I was thinking.”
She blew out a little breath. “So how do you feel about weddings?”
“Are you proposing?
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Erin Nicholas (My Best Friend's Mardi Gras Wedding (Boys of the Bayou, #1))
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Objects are not people. Rarely does an object’s absence make the heart grow fonder.
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Joshua Becker (The More of Less: Finding the Life You Want Under Everything You Own)
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Desire is consonant with the social order because of its reliance on absence rather than presence. When I desire an object, its absence is often helpful in building up my desire: the longer the desired object remains away, the stronger the hold of desire over me. All of our clichés about desire—like “absence makes the heart grow fonder”—affirm this fundamental truth of desire. By the same token, when the object becomes a constant presence, my desire tends to wane. And if I gain too much proximity to the object of desire, the object suddenly disappears or loses its desirability. This aspect of desire is correlative to the functioning of the social order, which is itself a symbolic entity. It allows subjects to relate to each other through the mediation of a symbolic order, which means through absence rather than presence. The symbolic order is, as Lacan puts it, the absence of things, and this absence is crucial for the possibility of mediation, because it serves to eliminate rivalry. If one subject doesn’t have a thing, at least another doesn’t have it either, which provides some degree of consolation for lost enjoyment. This is why prohibition is so important for holding society together: if I see that no one else is able to enjoy, I feel as if we are partners in loss rather than rivals in enjoyment.
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Todd McGowan (The End of Dissatisfaction: Jacques Lacan and the Emerging Society of Enjoyment (Psychoanalysis and Culture))
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People say absence makes the heart grow fonder, but I think they're wrong. Proximity makes the heart grow fonder.
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Jenny Han (P.S. I Still Love You (To All the Boys I've Loved Before, #2))
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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Mike Kraus (Retreat (Epoch's End #3))
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Absence certainly does make the heart grow fonder, dear. At least, in my case it does. I love you very much and being away from you like this makes me realize how important you are to me and how much I need you.
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Cindy Long (Dear Bill)
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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Krista Lakes (Sandcastle Kisses (The Kisses #5))
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This summer has been idyllic … more than that, it’s the unification of this group of formerly lost souls. It’s been a syrupy lovefest for the past three months, and I wish it could last forever.
I think about that stupid fucking saying, Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and I want to barf. I’m already beyond fond of everyone, so I’m all set.
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Jessica Park (Restless Waters (Left Drowning, #2))
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Men are different,” Sophie retorted. “You can see that easily enough, Charlotte. Women may love one man, but men simply love the person they see before them. That old chestnut, absence makes the heart grow fonder, doesn’t work for men. They are like children with toys: They move on to the next shiny object if you take the old one out of their hands.
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Eloisa James (Potent Pleasures (Pleasures Trilogy #1))
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Would he still want her as much by then? What if their connection was this intense because of the current circumstances, and it faded while they were apart? Would he move on without her? Go back to the lineup of available women he had to choose from? Absence made the heart grow fonder. But it could also make it wander. She’d been on the receiving end of that one once already. She didn’t want to go through that again with Nathan.
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Kaylea Cross (Avenged (Hostage Rescue Team, #5))
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Do him no harm to keep his breeches on for one night. And they do say that abstinence makes the heart grow firmer, no?” “Absence,” I said, dodging the spoon for a moment. “And fonder. If anything’s growing firmer from abstinence, it wouldn’t be his heart.
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Diana Gabaldon (Voyager (Outlander, #3))
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If absence makes the heart grow fonder, then DO NOT be afraid to LEAVE someone who is messing with YOUR MOOD in a detrimental way.
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Shay Dawkins (iSin: Upgrade To Life Version 2.0 (Clean Version))
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Absence didn’t make the heart grow fonder, she now knew. It made the heart grow absent, too.
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Chad Thumann (The Undesirables)
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Absence didn't make my heart grow fonder, it made my heart grow smarter.
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sunnyz
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Yes, but absence makes the heart grow fonder. Indifference kills it.” “Ouch,
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Nicolette Pierce (No Limit (Nadia Wolf #1))
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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sandy Khoury
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Number One is there to deny you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Number Two is there to satisfy you after the abstinence. Number Three is there to give you what you really want—Number One, with conditions.
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J.A. Huss (Taking Turns (Turning, #1))
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Birds of a feather flock together Opposites attract You're never too old to learn You can't teach an old dog new tricks Absence makes the heart grow fonder Out of sight, out of mind Too many cooks spoil the broth Two minds are better than one
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Vishal Gupta (Learn to Win Arguments and Succeed: 20 Powerful Techniques to Never Lose an Argument again, with Real Life Examples. A Life Skill for Everyone. (Argument ... Communication Examination Law Book 1))
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Our marriage needed to be fixed. And what makes the heart grow fonder quicker than absence? Animal sex with strangers, I had to hope.
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Kiersten Modglin (The Arrangement (The Arrangement, #1))
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I only meant, shall I go away or would you rather I didn't" Because, you see, you can be a trifle confusing sometimes. For a simple man. And I made up my mind I wouldn't give you any more cause to be unhappy. Or to despise yourself. I was going away to give you time without me here, looming over you constantly and trying to sweep you off your feet. And to give me time as well, to think...about my life. And also in the hopes that absence would make the heart grow fonder. Not my heart, because if it were any fonder it would explode or melt or disintegrate in some fashion.
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Loretta Chase (Ten Things I Hate About the Duke (Difficult Dukes, #2))
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No wonder American philosopher Jeff Lockwood observes, “If absence makes the heart grow fonder, humans should be head-over-heels in love with nature.
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Jonathan Balcombe (Super Fly: The Unexpected Lives of the World's Most Successful Insects)
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I hadn’t seen Jennifer in a week. Absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder. Whoever said that was a damn fool. Absence makes the heart suicidal. Take my heart for example. It hadn’t stopped hurling itself against my ribs—at odd times, day or night—for a week.
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Penny Reid (Beard Science (Winston Brothers, #3))
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You light the day. You light the way. Even when you’re away. The memory of you sustains. Like a shooting star, there’s a magic trail that’s left behind. Wherever you are, that part of you stays on the mind. Absence may make the heart grow fonder, but in a heart already steady, that love is safely kept. In a hope chest. One filled with mementos. That look of yours!
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Todd DeMartinis (There She Is!!: A Place to Feel Better)
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I went hiking with my sister and a friend on the Appalachian Trail for 7 days. No change of clothes, no hot shower, no bed. By the end of it, I was thankful for just a hot cup of coffee and a shave.
As they say, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”
This is true of people, possessions, and experiences.
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7Cups (7 Cups for the Searching Soul)
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder, you know. You should try it sometime.”
Blake brushes past me, waltzing into the room uninvited. “I let you drive down with Declan and Savannah, didn’t I? That’s five hours of absence, so your heart should be plenty fond.
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Kelley R. Martin (Sucker Punched (Knockout Love, #2))
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For, yes, absence did make the heart grow fonder, but then, after a while, that shield of self-preservation grew thicker, and the heart forsook fondness for survival and all-consuming love for getting by.
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Jolina Petersheim (How the Light Gets In)
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absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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Ashley Bostock (Nothing But Trouble (Irresistible Billionaires #1))
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It was all very well to talk of absence making the heart grow fonder, but “out of sight, out of mind
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Ruth Rendell (A Demon in My View)
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It was all very well to talk of absence making the heart grow fonder, but “out of sight, out of mind” might be just as true a truism. He hadn’t
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Ruth Rendell (A Demon in My View)
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Birds of a feather flock together, but opposites attract. Absence indeed makes the heart grow fonder, but out of sight is out of mind. Look before you leap, but he who hesitates is lost.
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Duncan J. Watts (Everything is Obvious: Once You Know the Answer)
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Absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder. Whoever said that was a damn fool. Absence makes the heart suicidal.
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Penny Reid (Beard Science (Winston Brothers, #3))
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There’s that old saying, absence makes the heart grow fonder. Can absence make your dick grow fonder too?
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Eden Finley (Fandom (Famous, #3))
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Absence does not make the heart grow fonder; it makes people forget.
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Abbie Widin (Catapult: A Woman's Guide to Building a 7-Figure Business)
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder,
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Eva Pohler (The Gatekeeper's Sons (Gatekeeper's Saga, #1))