Vex King Relationship Quotes

Lasting relationships, romantic or otherwise, require layers of compatibility, attraction, understanding and hard work.

We must clearly communicate our needs and expectations for the sake of the relationship and to make sure our unconditional love doesn’t encourage unconditional tolerance.

Those who are comfortable being alone can often love deeply and purely, because they are not sharing to receive, but simply giving.

Self-love is doing what we need to do to feel whole again.

No relationship is a total waste. Despite how painful they may be, they teach you about what you want and what you don’t want. They can remind you that you deserve better. And if it’s painful enough, a bad relationship can be the catalyst for a journey inward. But no relationship, either with a past lover or friend or family member, is worth damaging future opportunities to connect with others or yourself.

When it’s right, you’ll both just know. No games, no guessing, no convincing. If you have to prove your worth, they aren’t for you. Don’t chase those who leave you feeling uncertain. Wait for the one who chooses you clearly and without hesitation.

Love is not all you need to be with someone. You can love anyone, but that doesn’t mean you should be in a relationship with them. Compatibility, respect, trust, reciprocity, vulnerability, intimacy, communication, understanding and honesty are needed. Effort is a must.

Unhealthy relationships drain all the goodness out of us. We give everything to someone who just won’t match our efforts and willingness to try. We empty our love bank to make them feel wealthier, while we become broke. We give ourselves up to someone who doesn’t respect us enough to treat us well in return.

With global advances in technology, our society is becoming more engrossed in personal gadgets than in the world around them. We hold our phones more than we hold real conversations, and each other. We’re so busy looking down at screens and engaging in digital interactions that we forget about the environment around us. It seems people would rather experience an event through a camera than use their eyes to enjoy what’s in front of them. Concert audiences are lit up by the shimmering of phone screens. This isn’t to say that we shouldn’t capture mementos of these precious times. But living through a screen prevents us from being present in the moment. As we continue to distract ourselves from the present moment, we become more anxious, fearful and stressed. Worries overwhelm us in our everyday lives because we’re now conditioned to live elsewhere, rather than right here. What’s more, we ignore the people around us and our personal relationships pay the price. This is often why we feel distressed, disconnected and lost. Our vibration is lowered because we feel like we’re in some imagined situation that doesn’t match up with our lived reality. We relive moments of the past, fear the future and create obstacles in our minds. We devote creative energy to destructive ideas – and this invites turmoil into our lives. Now is the only time you have. Once your past is gone, it doesn’t exist, no matter how many times you recreate it mentally. The future hasn’t even arrived; but again, you keep taking yourself there mentally. Tomorrow comes disguised as today and some of us don’t even notice. Nothing is more valuable than the present moment because you can never get it back.

Just because they’re your family, it doesn’t mean they have the best intentions for you. Many of us are taught that there’s nothing more important than family. But biological relationships don’t always equal supportive, close relationships. Friends can be more like family than family itself. We shouldn’t conceal the fact that sometimes it’s our own family members who are the most toxic people in our lives.

The surest sign that you’re on the right track with someone is when both your connection and communication are easy and natural – not forced or purposely delayed.

May you find a love that radically accepts the parts of you that you’re still working on.

Find someone who will help you return to the love within yourself, over and over.

Your partner should support your happiness, not be the reason for it.

Love can only occur with open eyes and an open heart.

It’s okay to move on from people who aren’t giving you back the same energy. Whether they’re friends, family or lovers, don’t be afraid to let go of relationships that no longer serve a purpose in your life. Dead weight will weigh you down and feel exhausting to carry around.

All relationships require work. They require endless communication and tremendous understanding, and they can be very challenging. But while giving up isn’t always the answer, sometimes you have to walk away, especially when you lose your sense of self.

It’s vital to remember that you can’t change others unless they want to change themselves. You can influence them and facilitate change, but you can’t make them change. And they’ll only decide to change when they have an incentive – such as a better life or a better relationship with you. If they don’t identify a problem with their way of being, they won’t be motivated to change.

But, you have to know how to share, open up, and be vulnerable. This ‘not knowing how’ is one of the reasons people find it difficult to begin or maintain relationships, and it makes absolute sense.

Having a high level of self-disclosure is one of the most important building blocks in an intimate relationship, as well as in social ones, too.

Create a relationship where you talk to each other about your problems, not where you talk about each other on social media. Statuses don’t fix relationship issues, honest conversations do.

As you grow older, you begin to truly grasp the value of your time and energy. You stop clinging to those who make you feel like you need to prove your worth or chase them just to stay close. You let go of relationships that drain you, those that lack trust, safety, understanding, or appreciation. Instead, you choose to be with those who see you, who cherish you, who meet you with the same warmth and authenticity you bring. The peace that comes from genuine connection becomes sacred, and you realize that your energy is far too precious for anything less than real.