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Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused.
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Paulo Coelho
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Because you are the superhero fledgling. Iβm just your more attractive sidekick. Oh, and the herd of nerds are your dorky minions.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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God I want you
in some primal, wild way
animals want each other.
Untamed and full of teeth.
God I want you,
In some chaste, Victorian way.
A glimpse of your ankle
just kills me.
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Clementine von Radics
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This life is mine alone. So I have stopped asking people for directions to places theyβve never been.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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When a woman finally learns that pleasing the world is impossible, she becomes free to learn how to please herself.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Nuns freak me out.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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I will not stay, not ever again - in a room or conversation or relationship or institution that requires me to abandon myself.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Wildflower; pick up your pretty little head,
It will get easier, your dreams are not dead.
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Nikki Rowe
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Or maybe spring is the season of love and fall the season of mad lust. Spring for flirting but fall for the untamed delicious wild thing.
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Elizabeth Cohen (The Hypothetical Girl: Stories)
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My cat is not insane, she's just a really good actress.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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I should have kissed more than your hand...thought I'd have more time," he whispered between liquid, panting breaths. "...too late now."
I looked into his eyes and completely forgot the rest of the world. In that moment, all I knew was that I was holding Stark in my arms, and I was going to lose him very, very soon.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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At best, youβre the untamed hero; at worst, you offend people wherever you go.
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ε’¨ι¦ιθ (ιιη₯εΈ [MΓ³ DΓ o ZΗ ShΔ«])
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She had always been drawn to the untamed, wild things of the world.
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Sarah J. Maas (A Court of Frost and Starlight (A Court of Thorns and Roses, #3.5))
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Die Dorkamese Twins.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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She was born to be free, let her run wild in her own way and you will never lose her.
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Nikki Rowe
β
Being human is not hard because you're doing it wrong, it's hard because you're doing it right.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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She has fought many wars, most internal. The ones that you battle alone, for this, she is remarkable. She is a survivor.
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Nikki Rowe
β
He was like some wild, untamed creature that you could keep and feed for a time, but in the end you knew you'd have to let it go for its own sake as well as yours.
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Sherrilyn Kenyon (Night Embrace (Dark-Hunter, #2))
β
I never said I didn't like kissing you. The problem is too many guys have like kissing you." - Erik Night to Zoey Redbird (Ch 26)
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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Never allow your mind to wander untamed like a wild animal that exists on the basis of survival of the fittest. Tame your mind with consistent focus on your goals and desires.
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Stephen Richards (Think Your way to Success: Let Your Dreams Run Free)
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Fear and Bigotry are bred fom isolation and ignorance.
-Shekinah
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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Who am I? the monster repeated, still roaring. I am the spine that the mountains hang upon! I am the tears that the rivers cry! I am the lungs that breathe the wind! I am the wolf that kills the stag, the hawk that kills the mouse, the spider that kills the fly! I am the stag, the mouse and the fly that are eaten! I am the snake of the world devouring its tail! I am everything untamed and untameable! It brought Conor up close to its eye. I am thils wild earth, come for you, Conor O'Malley.
"You look like a tree," Conor said.
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Patrick Ness (A Monster Calls)
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There is music in your soul. A wild and untamed sort
of music that speaks to me. It defies all the rules and laws you humans set upon it. It grows from inside you, and I have a wish to set that music free.
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S. Jae-Jones (Wintersong (Wintersong, #1))
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Blessed are those brave enough to make things awkward, for they wake us up and move us forward.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Your bad taste is fucking immortal!
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P.C. Cast
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As I kissed her the heat of her body increased, and it exhaled a wild, untamed fragrance.
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Gabriel GarcΓa MΓ‘rquez (Memories of My Melancholy Whores)
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Be careful with the stories you tell about yourself".
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Water, we go to you dirty and rise from you clean.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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Privilege is being born on third base. Ignorant privilege is thinking youβre there because you hit a triple. Malicious privilege is complaining that those starving outside the ballpark arenβt waiting patiently enough.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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WE CAN DO HARD THINGS.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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You'll see. She can be nice sometimes.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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Here's to The Untamed:
May we know them.
May we raise them.
May we love them.
May we read them.
May we elect them.
May we be them.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Tish is sensitive, and that is her superpower. The opposite of sensitive is not brave. Itβs not brave to refuse to pay attention, to refuse to notice, to refuse to feel and know and imagine. The opposite of sensitive is insensitive, and thatβs no badge of honor.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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The truest, most beautiful life never promises to be an easy one. We need to let go of the lie that it's supposed to be.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Iβd love to try to tame you... And I would simply adore it if you turn out untamable β
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Simona Panova (Nightmarish Sacrifice (Cardew))
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Being human is not hard because you're doing it wrong, it's hard because you're doing it right. You will never change the fact that being human is hard, so you must change your idea that it was ever supposed to be easy.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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The only thing that was every wrong with me was my belief that there was something wrong with me.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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When women lose themselves, the world loses its way. We do not need more selfless women. What we need right now is more women who have detoxed themselves so completely from the world's expectations that they are full of nothing but themselves. What we need are women who are full of themselves. A woman who is full of herself knows and trusts herself enough to say and do what must be done. She lets the rest burn.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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A broken family is a family in which any member must break herself into pieces to fit in. A whole family is one in which each member can bring her full self to the table knowing that she will always be both held and free.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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When I did finally speak, I surprised myself by saying exactly what was on my mind.β¨βYou must hate me.β
She stared a long time at me.
I did,β she said slowly, βBut itβs mostly myself I hate.β
Donβt,β I said.
And why the hell shouldnβt I hate myself? Everybody else hates me.
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Kristin Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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There is no greater burden on a child than the unlived life of a parent.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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The braver I am, the luckier I get.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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I stared at myself in the mirror. Okay, just ugh. I had to get some sleep tonight - the bags under my eyes had bags.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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A woman becomes a responsible parent when she stops being an obedient daughter
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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You are here to decide if your life, relationships and world are true and beautiful enough for you. And if they are not and you dare to admit they are not, you must decide if you have the guts, the right - perhaps even the duty - to burn to the ground that which is not true and beautiful enough and get started building what is.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Hard work is important. So are play and nonproductivity. My worth is tied not to my productivity but to my existence. I am worthy of rest.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Wild is an interesting word. We imagine wild to be untamed and out of control but, of course, nature isn't like that; nature is controlled, ordered, extremely disciplined by all its elements.
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Sally Green (Half Wild (The Half Bad Trilogy, #2))
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I donβt want any of this. I just want to be what I was before you showed up here and all hell broke loose. I want to be popular and dating the hottest guy in school. Now Iβm none of those things, and Iβm a human who has scary visions and donβt know what to do about any of it.
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P.C. Cast
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We forgot how to know when we learned how to please.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Perhaps imagination is not where we go to escape reality but where we go to remember it.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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We all have bad things inside us, and we all choose either to give in to those bad things or to fight them.
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Kristin Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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That wildness, that untamed fierceness...They weren't born of a free heart, but of one that had known despair so complete that living brightly, living violently, was the only way to outrun it.
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Sarah J. Maas (Queen of Shadows (Throne of Glass, #4))
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Gideon was an untamed animal behind closed doors, a lover who bared me to the soul every time he made love to me.
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Sylvia Day (Entwined with You (Crossfire, #3))
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Then your heart is a black, shriveled thing, because you absolutely betray me.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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It's not the cruel criticism from folks who hate us that scares us away from our Knowing; it's the quiet concern of those who love us.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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As with all my children, you must find your own path, and through that discovery, you will decide what each earth child must ultimately decide-whether she chooses chaos or love.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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We're so special, when you look in the dictionary under short bus, there's a group picture of us,'' Stevie Rae said, sounding weak but definately alive.
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Kristin Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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I am an artist, my hair is rarely tamed & sometimes I sleep till noon,
My house is messy and I speak to the moon.
I care less about the materials that I share with my world and more about the passion inside myself.
Im an artist, what more can you expect?
i am full of soul, love and all the rest.
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Nikki Rowe
β
The thing that gets me thinking and questioning most deeply is a leader who warns me not to think or question.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Every life is an unprecedented experiment. This life is mine alone. So I have stopped asking people for directions to places theyβve never been. There is no map. We are all pioneers.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Aphrodite makes us understand why women have drowned their babies.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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Or maybe I had known him or maybe there's something that happens between some people at a level that goes beyond time measurements and what society thinks is proper. Maybe what had happened between Stark and me in those few minutes in the field house had been enough to have our souls recognize each other. Soul mates? Was that even possible?
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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To see ten thousand animals untamed and not branded with the symbols of human commerce is like scaling an unconquered mountain for the first time, or like finding a forest without roads or footpaths, or the blemish of an axe. You know then what you had always been told -- that the world once lived and grew without adding machines and newsprint and brick-walled streets and the tyranny of clocks.
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Beryl Markham (West with the Night)
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Because once we feel, know, and dare to imagine more for ourselves, we cannot unfeel, unknow, or unimagine. There is no going back.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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The mermaid is an archetypal image that represents a woman who is at ease in the great waters of life, the waters of emotion and sexuality. She shows us how to embrace our instinctive sexuality and sensuality so that we can affirm the essence of our feminine nature, the wisdom of our bodies, and the playfulness of our spirits. She symbolizes our connection with our deepest instinctive feelings, our wild and untamed animal nature that exists below the surface of outward personalities. She is able to respond to her mysterious sexual impulses without abandoning her more human, conscious side. What happened to the girls who dreamed of being mermaids?
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Anita Johnston (Eating in the Light of the Moon)
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I donβt want any of this. I just want to be what I was before you showed up here and all hell broke loose. I want to be popular and dating the hottest guy in school. Now Iβm none of those things, and Iβm a human who has scary visions and donβt know what to do about any of it.
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Kristin Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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What is better: uncomfortable truth or comfortable lies? Every truth is a kindness, even if it makes others uncomfortable. Every untruth is an unkindness, even if it makes others comfortable.
βLiz Gilbert
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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We only control what we donβt trust.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Maybe Eve was never meant to be our warning. Maybe she was meant to be our model. Own your wanting. Eat the apple. Let it burn.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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She was a gypsy, as soon as you unravelled the many layers to her wild spirit she was on her next quest to discover her magic. She was relentless like that, the woman didn't need no body but an open road, a pen and a couple of sunsets.
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Nikki Rowe
β
Jack came whirling in like a little gay tornado with Duchess following him.
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Kristin Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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Being fully human is not about feeling happy, itβs about feeling everything.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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We werenβt born distrusting and fearing ourselves. That was part of our taming. We were taught to believe that who we are in our natural state is bad and dangerous. They convinced us to be afraid of ourselves. So we do not honor our own bodies, curiosity, hunger, judgment, experience, or ambition. Instead, we lock away our true selves. Women who are best at this disappearing act earn the highest praise: She is so selfless. Can you imagine? The epitome of womanhood is to lose oneβs self completely. That is the end goal of every patriarchal culture. Because a very effective way to control women is to convince women to control themselves.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Mothers have martyred themselves in their childrenβs names since the beginning of time. We have lived as if she who disappears the most, loves the most. We have been conditioned to prove our love by slowly ceasing to exist.
What a terrible burden for children to bearβto know that they are the reason their mother stopped living. What a terrible burden for our daughters to bearβto know that if they choose to become mothers, this will be their fate, too. Because if we show them that being a martyr is the highest form of love, that is what they will become. They will feel obligated to love as well as their mothers loved, after all. They will believe they have permission to live only as fully as their mothers allowed themselves to live.
If we keep passing down the legacy of martyrdom to our daughters, with whom does it end? Which woman ever gets to live? And when does the death sentence begin? At the wedding altar? In the delivery room? Whose delivery roomβour childrenβs or our own? When we call martyrdom love we teach our children that when love begins, life ends. This is why Jung suggested: There is no greater burden on a child than the unlived life of a parent.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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If my hair gets any frizzier, I'll shave it to the scalp. Or light it on fire. Whichever is easier.
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Victoria Scott (Fire & Flood (Fire & Flood, #1))
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Our boys are born with great potential for nurturing, caring, loving, and serving. Letβs stop training it out of them.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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My children do not need me to save them. My children need to watch me save myself.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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I am not easy to love but I am well loved. I try to love well in return.
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Roxane Gay (An Untamed State)
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It's just that living with anxiety - living alarmed - makes it impossible to enter the moment, to land inside my body and be there. I cannot be in the moment because I am too afraid of what the next moment will bring. I have to be ready.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Youβre like a little wild thing
that was never sent to school.
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Mary Oliver (Dog Songs: Poems)
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Rebellion is as much of a cage as obedience is. They both mean living in reaction to someone elseβs way instead of forging your own. Freedom is not being for or against an ideal, but creating your own existence from scratch.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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So, even in the midst of craziness and exhaustion and life-changing chaos, I was filled with peace and the sweet knowledge that I was walking the path my Goddess wanted me on. Not that that path was smooth and pothole free. But still, it was my path, and like me, it was bound to be unique.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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What if everything you have been taught is all a lie and everything you feel is all a truth?
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Nikki Rowe
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The more I read, the more I felt connected across time to other lives and deeper sympathies. I felt less isolated. I wasnβt floating on my little raft in the present; there were bridges that led over to solid ground. Yes, the past is another country, but one that we can visit, and once there we can bring back the things we need.
Literature is common ground. It is ground not managed wholly by commercial interests, nor can it be strip-mined like popular cultureβexploit the new thing then move on.
Thereβs a lot of talk about the tame world versus the wild world. It is not only a wild nature that we need as human beings; it is the untamed open space of our imaginations.
Reading is where the wild things are.
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Jeanette Winterson (Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?)
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I am here to keep becoming truer, more beautiful versions of myself again and again forever. To be alive is to be in a perpetual state of revolution. Whether I like it or not, pain is the fuel of revolution. Everything I need to become the woman Iβm meant to be next is inside my feelings of now. Life is alchemy, and emotions are the fire that turns me to gold. I will continue to become only if I resist extinguishing myself a million times a day. If I can sit in the fire of my own feelings, I will keep becoming.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Don't settle your wild, find a man who doesn't want to tame it.
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Nikki Rowe
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Aedion touched her shoulder. "Welcome home, Aelin."
A land of towering mountains-the Stagehorns-spread before them, with valleys and rivers and hills; a land of untamed, wild beauty.
Terrasen.
And the smell-of pine and snow.. How had she never realized that Rowan's scent was of Terrasen, of home? Rowan came close enough to graze her shoulder and murmured, "I feel as if I've been looking for this place my entire life.
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Sarah J. Maas (Queen of Shadows (Throne of Glass, #4))
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Listen. Every time youβre given a choice between disappointing someone else and disappointing yourself, your duty is to disappoint that someone else. Your job, throughout your entire life, is to disappoint as many people as it takes to avoid disappointing yourself.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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If you are uncomfortableβin deep pain, angry, yearning, confusedβyou donβt have a problem, you have a life. Being human is not hard because youβre doing it wrong, itβs hard because youβre doing it right.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Whether you are brave or not cannot be judged by people on the outside. Sometimes being brave requires letting the crowd think youβre a coward. Sometimes being brave means letting everyone down but yourself.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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When I see a joyful, confident woman moving through the world with swagger, Iβm going to forgive myself for my first reaction because itβs not my fault, itβs just my conditioning. First reaction: Who the hell does she think she is? Second reaction: She knows sheβs a goddamn cheetah. Halle-fucking-lujah.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Belonging so fully to yourself that you're willing to stand alone is a wilderness -- an untamed, unpredictable place of solitude and searching. It is a place as dangerous as it is breathtaking, a place as sought after as it is feared. The wilderness can often feel unholy because we can't control it, or what people think about our choice of whether to venture into that vastness or not. But it turns out to be the place of true belonging, and it's the bravest and most sacred place you will ever stand.
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BrenΓ© Brown (Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone)
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She turned her face to me. 'Can you tell I've been crying?'
"For the gazillionth time, no. You look fine.'
Shit. I knew it. I look terrible.'
'Aphrodite! I just said you look fine.'
'Yeah, well, fine is fine for most people. For me it's terrible.
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P.C. Cast (Untamed (House of Night, #4))
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There are intellectual vagabonds, to whom the hereditary dwelling-place of their fathers seems too cramped and oppressive for them to be willing to satisfy themselves with the limited space any more: instead of keeping within the limits of a temperate style of thinking, and taking as inviolable truth what furnishes comfort and tranquility to thousands, they overlap all bounds of the traditional and run wild with their imprudent criticism and untamed mania for doubt, these extravagating vagabonds.
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Max Stirner (The Ego and Its Own)
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Every time you're given a choice between disappointing someone else and disappointing yourself, your duty is to disappoint that someone else. Your job throughout your entire life, is to disappoint as many people as it takes to avoid disappointing yourself.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Sir, people never wanted me to make it to squire. They won't like it any better if I become a knight. I doubt I'll ever get to command a force larger than, well, just me.'
Raoul shook his head. 'You're wrong.' As she started to protest, he raised a hand. 'Hear me out. I have some idea of what you've had to bear to get this far, and it won't get easier. But there are larger issues than your fitness for knighthood, issues that involve lives and livelihoods. Attend,' he said, so much like Yayin, one of her Mithran teachers, that Kel had to smile.
'At our level, there are four kids of warrior,' he told Kel. He raised a fist and held up one large finger. 'Heroes, like Alanna the Lioness. Warriors who find dark places and fight in them alone. This is wonderful, but we live in the real world. There aren't many places without any hope or light.'
He raised a second finger. 'We have knights- plain, everyday knights, like your brothers. They patrol their borders and protect their tenants, or they go into troubled areas at the king's command and sort them out. They fight in battles, usually against other knights. A hero will work like an everyday knight for a time- it's expected. And most knights must be clever enough to manage alone.'
Kel nodded.
'We have soldiers,' Raoul continued, raising a third finger. 'Those warriors, including knights, who can manage so long as they're told what to do. These are more common, thank Mithros, and you'll find them in charge of companies in the army, under the eye of a general. Without people who can take orders, we'd be in real trouble.
'Commanders.' He raised his little finger. 'Good ones, people with a knack for it, like, say, the queen, or Buri, or young Dom, they're as rare as heroes. Commanders have an eye not just for what they do, but for what those around them do. Commanders size up people's strengths and weaknesses. They know where someone will shine and where they will collapse. Other warriors will obey a true commander because they can tell that the commander knows what he- or she- is doing.' Raoul picked up a quill and toyed with it. 'You've shown flashes of being a commander. I've seen it. So has Qasim, your friend Neal, even Wyldon, though it would be like pulling teeth to get him to admit it. My job is to see if you will do more than flash, with the right training. The realm needs commanders. Tortall is big. We have too many still-untamed pockets, too curse many hideyholes for rogues, and plenty of hungry enemies to nibble at our borders and our seafaring trade. If you have what it takes, the Crown will use you. We're too desperate for good commanders to let one slip away, even a female one. Now, finish that'- he pointed to the slate- 'and you can stop for tonight.
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Tamora Pierce (Squire (Protector of the Small, #3))
β
An afternoon drive from Los Angeles will take you up into the high mountains, where eagles circle above the forests and the cold blue lakes, or out over the Mojave Desert, with its weird vegetation and immense vistas. Not very far away are Death Valley, and Yosemite, and Sequoia Forest with its giant trees which were growing long before the Parthenon was built; they are the oldest living things in the world. One should visit such places often, and be conscious, in the midst of the city, of their surrounding presence. For this is the real nature of California and the secret of its fascination; this untamed, undomesticated, aloof, prehistoric landscape which relentlessly reminds the traveller of his human condition and the circumstances of his tenure upon the earth. "You are perfectly welcome," it tells him, "during your short visit. Everything is at your disposal. Only, I must warn you, if things go wrong, don't blame me. I accept no responsibility. I am not part of your neurosis. Don't cry to me for safety. There is no home here. There is no security in your mansions or your fortresses, your family vaults or your banks or your double beds. Understand this fact, and you will be free. Accept it, and you will be happy.
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Christopher Isherwood (Exhumations)
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Itβs okay to feel all of the stuff youβre feeling. Youβre just becoming human again. Youβre not doing life wrong; youβre doing it right. If thereβs any secret youβre missing, itβs that doing it right is just really hard. Feeling all your feelings is hard, but thatβs what theyβre for. Feelings are for feeling. All of them. Even the hard ones. The secret is that youβre doing it right, and that doing it right hurts sometimes.β
I did not know, before that woman told me, that all feelings were for feeling. I did not know that I was supposed to feel everything. I thought I was supposed to feel happy. I thought that happy was for feeling and that pain was for fixing and numbing and deflecting and hiding and ignoring. I thought that when life got hard, it was because I had gone wrong somewhere. I thought that pain was weakness and that I was supposed to suck it up. But the thing was that the more I sucked it up, the more food and booze I had to suck down.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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Selah is found in the Hebrew Bible seventy-four times. Scholars believe that when it appears in the text, it is a direction to the reader to stop reading and be still for a moment, because the previous idea is important enough to consider deeply. The poetry in scripture is meant to transform, and the scribes knew that change begins through reading but can be completed only in quiet contemplation. Selah appears in Hebrew music, too. Itβs believed to be a signal to the music director to silence the choir for a long moment, to hold space between notes. The silence, of course, is when the music sinks in.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)
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we all seem to function in the exact same way: We hurt people, and we are hurt by people. We feel left out, envious, not good enough, sick, and tired. We have unrealized dreams and deep regrets. We are certain that we were meant for more and that we donβt even deserve what we have. We feel ecstatic and then numb. We wish our parents had done better by us. We wish we could do better by our children. We betray and we are betrayed. We lie and we are lied to. We say good-bye to animals, to places, to people we cannot live without. We are so afraid of dying. Also: of living. We have fallen in love and out of love, and people have fallen in love and out of love with us. We wonder if what happened to us that night will mean we can never be touched again without fear. We live with rage bubbling. We are sweaty, bloated, gassy, oily. We love our children, we long for children, we do not want children. We are at war with our bodies, our minds, our souls. We are at war with one another. We wish weβd said all those things while they were still here. Theyβre still here, and weβre still not saying those things. We know we wonβt. We donβt understand ourselves. We donβt understand why we hurt those we love. We want to be forgiven. We cannot forgive. We donβt understand God. We believe. We absolutely do not believe. We are lonely. We want to be left alone. We want to belong. We want to be loved. We want to be loved. We want to be loved.
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Glennon Doyle (Untamed)