Sylvester Mcnutt Iii Quotes

The pain that came to you is not always a choice, but keeping it on you is. Forgive. Stop the obsessive thinking related to it, and allow the pain to fade away.

because I was conditioned to think that people would hurt me if they didn’t like what I said or if my behavior didn’t align with what they wanted. Of course, I had to heal and

If you fight for it, I’ll fight with you. If you don’t want to fight for it, then I have to find someone who wants it as bad as I do.   —s. mcnutt

Giving love to others and not expecting it back is also a form of self-love.

Fact: people make time for people they care about.

Be completely aware of your pain, but don’t allow it to define who you are. Pain is an emotion that passes.

Make your life simpler by reducing how many decisions you make each day.

The practice of staying present will heal you. Obsessing about how the future will turn out creates anxiety. Replaying broken scenarios from the past causes anger or sadness. Stay here, in the moment.

Top-Ten Reasons Why I Don’t Care about Your Opinion ​​It has never paid any of my bills. ​​It will not be there when I am sick. ​​It does not give me orgasms. ​​It has never made me a better person. ​​It is negative and egocentric. ​​It doesn’t uplift, challenge, or encourage. ​​It came from you. ​​It will not marry me or carry my casket. ​​It is not based on facts. ​​It does not determine my worth.

Dear self, don't ever wait for another person to make your life better, that's your job. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and take charge of your life. Nobody will save you; but you can, if you are willing to take the steps.

Allow your heart to settle with a man who challenges you, a man who makes you think. A man who expands your consciousness is a man worth falling in love with over and over.

Healing from pain is a choice. You have to consciously decide that you deserve to feel free, that you deserve to let go of the weight that has been holding you down for too long.

I hope you get to be with someone who is a home and an adventure—a soul who calms you and drives you wild.

Choose your words wisely. Words can be forgiven, but the impact they have may not be forgotten.

You never know when it will be the last time you see someone. Make sure the last thought of you is welcome and warm, loving and kind.

To vibrate higher, we have to be okay with being alone, with being patient while we attract the right energy.

Stop chasing communication from adults who claim to be your friends but never call or text back. We are all busy, but even still, busy is no longer an excuse.

If I send you a song, it is because the music made me think about you, or even deeper, it’s helping me explain who I am to you in a way that I cannot.

When negative energy finds you, never fight back. If you do, you become it.

Suspend ego; pause, observe the energy around you, understand, and listen more than you speak.

This time in my life is dedicated to healing deeply, while attracting happiness.

Learn that living in the present moment will always heal you. Living in the past forces you to align with it, especially if there is pain. Living in the future forces you to be anxious—live here.

The emotion of love isn’t enough to keep two people together. There has to be communication, compatibility, understanding, and most importantly, there has to be desire on both ends to keep adding value to each other’s existence.

My solution for this is to change the narrative. Stop making abuse, pain, and neglect your story. Simply acknowledge that it is a story that you experienced. Literally changing your inner dialogue from This is what happened to me to Here is what I learned from this situation will change how the stories of your past feel.

I hope you get to be with someone who is a home and an adventure; a soul who calms you and drives you wild. I hope your heart settles with a person who accept you fully but pushes you to reach your highest potential. Someone who fights for love in the same crazy way that you do.

When on a date, stay off your phone and stay plugged into the art of connecting.

After you’ve been broken so much, you find this surreal inner strength—a strength that always allows you to put yourself back together.

I retired from dealing with the fake version of people. I only want your authentic self, no matter how dark or deep it is. I don’t expect perfect from myself or you, but I do expect real. I do expect honest.

Self-love is about participating in healthy environments that grow you and nourish you. It is also about cutting yourself off from evil and energy-draining environments that kill you slowly.

She’s a healer, a giver. She will nurse you back to health when you are sick.

Music has the ability to heal you, to help you feel understood.

Trust the vibes you get; energy doesn’t lie.

Energy is everything and it is everywhere. It’s in the food you eat, the music you listen to, and the people you surround yourself with. Always pay attention to energy.

Healing is a formula. Add what heals. Subtract what hurts. Learn from what goes. Cherish what stays.

You have to give yourself at least three to five seconds of pure relaxation before you respond to some things, and if you say these words in bold slowly, aloud if possible, this practice will change your life. I have been saying this to myself for ten years, and each year it gets easier and easier to let things go, to never give your power away. Tell yourself these words: pause, breathe, and relax.

And that’s the thing about pain. Sometimes it’s on our face as tears, and other times it’s hidden deep within.

Fact: obsessive overthinking never helps you. Let it be what it will be. Let it flow naturally.

This is what happened to me to Here is what I learned from this situation will change how the stories of your past feel.

When you feel like you are out of alignment, that is your body, your mind, your heart, and your intuition telling you that you must adjust.

You will overcome what you are fighting through, you will find inner-peace, and one day this struggle won’t feel as strong as it does now. Be patient and keep working towards healing.