Statistics Love Quotes

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It's not the changes that will break your heart; it's that tug of familiarity.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Love is the strangest, most illogical thing in the world.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Is it better to have had a good thing and lost it, or never to have had it?
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.
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Scott Dikkers (You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day)
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Let’s start with this statistic: You are delicious. Be brave, my sweet. I know you can get lonely. I know you can crave companionship and sex and love so badly that it physically hurts. But I truly believe that the only way you can find out that there’s something better out there is to first believe there’s something better out there. What other choice is there?
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Greg Behrendt (He's Just Not That Into You)
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Did you know that people who meet at least three different times within twenty-four hour period are ninety-eight percent more likely to meet again?
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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He’s like a song she can’t get out of her head. Hard as she tries, the melody of their meeting runs through her mind on an endless loop, each time as surprisingly sweet as the last, like a lullaby, like a hymn, and she doesn’t think she could ever get tired of hearing it.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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It's one thing to run away when someone's chasing you. It's entirely another to be running all alone.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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He looks at her and smiles. "You're sort of dangerous, you know?" She stares at him. "Me?" "Yeah," he says sitting back. "I'm way too honest with you.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Who would have guessed that four minutes could change everything?
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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I like how you're neither here nor there. And how there's nowhere else you're meant to be while waiting. You're just sort of suspended.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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What are you really studying?" He leans back to look at her. "The statistical probability of love at first sight." "Very funny," she says. "What is it really?" "I'm serious." "I don't believe you." He laughs, then lowers his mouth so that it's close to her ear. "People who meet in airports are seventy-two percent more likely too fall for each other than people who meet anywhere else.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Because I was with you," he tells her. "I feel better when I'm with you.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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There's a formula for how long it takes to get over someone, that it's half as long as the time you've been together.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Is it possible not to ever know your type-not to even know you have a type-until quite suddenly you do?
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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People who meet in airports are seventy-two percent more likely to fall for each other than people who meet anywhere else.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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And in August it will be fifty-two years together.” β€œWow,” Oliver says. β€œThat’s amazing.” β€œI wouldn’t call it amazing,” the woman says, blinking. β€œIt’s easy when you find the right person.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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That’s the way these things work, kiddo,” he says. β€œLove isn't supposed to make sense. It's completely illogical.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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I can't believe you're here," she says, her voice soft. "I can't believe you found me." "You found me first," he says, and when he leans to kiss her, it's slow and sweet and she knows that this will be the one she always remembers. Because while the other two kisses felt like endings, this one is unquestionably a beginning.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Hadley didn't know it was possible to miss someone who's only a few feet away, but there it is.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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That's the thing about flying: You could talk to someone for hours and never even know his name, share your deepest secrets and then never see them again.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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There’s always a gap between the burn and the sting of it, the pain and the realization.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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You know what they say," Dad said. "If you love something set it free." "What if he doesn't come back?" "Something do, somethings don't," he said, reaching to tweak her nose. "I'll always come back to you anyway." "You don't light up," Hadley said, but Dad only smiled. "I do when I'm with you.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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You know what they say, if you love something, set it free.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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He was a professor, a lover of stories, and he was building her a library in the same way other men might build their daughters houses.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Look what a hard time I've given him. But no matter how many times I've pushed him away, he always comes back around again. And I wouldn't want it any other way.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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And see those clouds?' 'Hard to miss' 'Those are cumulus clouds. Did you know that?' 'I'm sure I should.' They're the best ones.' 'How come?' Because they look the way clouds are supposed to look, the way you draw them when you're a kid. Which is nice, you know? ...
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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What are you really studying?" He leans back to look at her. "The statistical probability of love at first sight.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Well, I guess we all can't have epic loves at such a young age.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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People talk about books being an escape, but here on the tube, this one feels more like a lifeline...The motion of the train makes her head rattle, but her eyes lock on the words the way a figure skater might choose a focal point as she spins, and just like that, she's grounded again.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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After all, it's one thing to run away when someone's chasing you. It's entirely another to be running all alone.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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There's a kind of unfamiliar electricity that goes through her at the nearness of him, and she can't help wondering if he feels it, too.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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But Hadley understood. It wasn't that she was meant to read them all. Maybe someday she would, but for now, it was more the gesture itself. He was giving her the most important thing he could, the only way he knew how. He was a professor, a lover of stories, and he was building her a library in the same way other men might build their daughters houses.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Statistics show that most mortals sell their souls for five reasons: sex, money, power, revenge, and love. In that order.
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Richelle Mead (Succubus Blues (Georgina Kincaid, #1))
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Not everyone makes it fifty-two years, and if you do, it doesn't matter that you once stood in front of all those people and said that you would. The important part is that you had someone to stick by you all that time. Even when everything sucked.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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But just as she turns to walk away she hears him behind her, the word like the opening of some door, like an ending and a beginning, like a wish. "Wait," he says, and so she does.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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The important part is that you had someone to stick by you all that time. Even when everything sucked.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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You," he says, laughing in spite of himself, "are mad as a hatter.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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No one is useless in this world, who lightens the burden of it for any one else.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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He’s like a song she can’t get out of her head.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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She's four minutes late, which doesn't seem like all that much when you think about it's a commercial break, the period within classes, the time it takes to cook a microwave meal. Four minutes is nothing.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Cheerfulness and contentment are great beautifiers.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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When you're on the other side of it," she says, "fifty-two years can seem like about fifty-two minutes.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Airports are torture chambers if you're claustrophobic.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Statistics show that men are interested in three things: careers, sports, and sex. That's why they love professional cheerleaders." Cal put down his fork "Well, that's sexist." "Yes i know," she said. "But it's true isn't it?" "What?" Cal tried to find his place in the conversation. "Oh, the sports and sex thing? Not at all. This is the twenty-first century. We've learned how to be sensitive." "You have?" "Sure," Cal said. "Otherwise we wouldn't get laid.
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Jennifer Crusie (Bet Me)
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Love is not a product of reasonings and statistics. It just comes-none knows whence-and cannot explain itself.
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Mark Twain
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This time she didn't bother correcting him. Just this once, she'd like to believe that he's right.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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She hates the fact that she won't know. It's feels like the last day of school, the final night at summer camp, like everything is coming to an abrupt and dizzying end.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Because as far as she was concerned, there was no in-between: She wanted all or nothing, illogically, irrationally, even though something inside her knew that nothing would be too hard, and all was impossible.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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But it’s there in his face, a fleeting reluctance that matches her own. They stand there together for a long time, for too long, for what seems like forever, each unwilling to part ways, letting the people behind them stream past like a river around rocks. Page: 91
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Hadley grabs the laminated safety instructions from the seat pocket in front of her and frowns at the cartoon men and women who seem weirdly delighted to be bailing out of a series of cartoon planes. Beside her, Oliver stifles a laugh, and she glances up again. β€œWhat?” β€œI’ve just never seen anyone actually read one of those things before,” β€œWell,” she says, β€œthen you’re very lucky to be sitting next to me.” β€œJust in general?” She grins. β€œWell, particularly in case of an emergency.” β€œRight,” he says. β€œI feel incredibly safe. When I’m knocked unconscious by my tray table during some sort of emergency landing, I can’t wait to see all five-foot-nothing of you carry me out of here.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Hadley realises that even though everything else is different, even though there's still an ocean between them, nothing really important has changed at all. He's still her dad. The rest is just geography.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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People talk about books being an escape...this one feels more like a lifeline.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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And being here like this, so suddenly close to him is enough to make her lightheaded. It's a feeling like falling.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Those are cumulus clouds. Did you know that?" "I'm sure I should." "They're the best ones." "How come?" "Because they look the way clouds are supposed to look, the way you draw them when you're a kid. Which is nice, you know? I mean, the sun never looks the way you drew it.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Narcissistic personality disorder is named for Narcissus, from Greek mythology, who fell in love with his own reflection. Freud used the term to describe persons who were self-absorbed, and psychoanalysts have focused on the narcissist's need to bolster his or her self-esteem through grandiose fantasy, exaggerated ambition, exhibitionism, and feelings of entitlement.
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Donald W. Black (DSM-5 Guidebook: The Essential Companion to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders)
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The clouds are thick as cotton and laced in silver from the sun, and she thinks back to what Oliver said on the plane, the word taking shape in her mind: cumulus. The one cloud that seemed both imaginary and true at the same time.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Someone once told her there's a formula for how long it takes to get over someone, that it's half as long as the time you've been together.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Because the truth is that now that he’s here, she can’t imagine it any other way. Now that he’s here, she worries that crossing an entire ocean with someone between them might be something like torture.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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He's looking at her like she's the answer to some sort of riddle.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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How long till you get her?" "Not long," she says. "Not long at all." He sighs again. "Good." "But dad?" "Yeah?" "Can you remind me where I'm going?
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Once," he says, "I was flying to California on the Fourth of July." She turns her head, just slightly. "It was a clear night, and you could see all the little fireworks displays along the way, these tiny flares going off below, one town after another.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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The idea that their paths might have easily not crossed leaves her breathless, like a near-miss accident on a highway, and she can't help marveling at the sheer randomness of it all. Like any survivor of chance, she feels a quick rush of thankfulness, part adrenaline and part hope.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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It didn’t help that she was right; when had that ever made anything better?
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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His answers were quite often like that. When she spoke of beauty, he spoke of the fatty tissue supporting the epidermis. When she mentioned love, he responded with the statistical curve that indicates the automatic rise and fall in the annual birthrate. When she spoke of the great figures in art, he traced the chain of borrowings that links these figures to one another.
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Robert Musil (The Man Without Qualities)
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There are 613,806,639 men in the world. Statistically, God has got you covered! So, never worry about one person not caring about you. Someone up to the challenge will always take his place.
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Shannon L. Alder
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This house is about two dictionaries away from caving in,' she'd say, 'and you're buying duplicates?
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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What are you doing a study on right now?" "A study on the statistical probablity of love at first sight.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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But though she’s told a longer version of the story a thousand times before to a thousand different people, she gets the feeling that Oliver might understand better than anyone else. It’s something about the way he’s looking at her, his eyes punching a neat little hole in her heart. She’s knows it’s not real: It’s the illusion of closeness, the false confidence of a hushed and darkened plane, but she doesn’t mind. For the moment, at least, it feels real.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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The stories had become a part of her by then; they stuck to her bones like a good meal, bloomed inside of her like a garden. They were as deep and meaningful as any other trait Dad had passed along to her: her blue eyes, her straw-colored hair, the sprinkling of freckles across her nose.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Perhaps if there were more time, or if time were more malleable; if she could be both places at once, live parallel lives
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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When you’re on the other side of it,” she says, β€œfifty-two years can seem like about fifty-two minutes. Just like when you’re young and in love, a seven-hour plane ride can seem like a lifetime.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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And for some reason, that was even worse. In the end, it's not the changes that will break your heart; it's that tug of familiarity
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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I love statistics because they place what happens to a scrap of humanity, like me, on a worldwide scale.
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Louise Erdrich (The Sentence)
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But no escape route." "Ah," he says. "So you're looking for an escape route." Hadley nods. "Always.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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There’s a star in the sky that refuses to stay put, and Hadley realizes it’s actually a plane, that just last night, that star was them.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Don't complain or blame to others, you are the one who selected wrong person,now get up ,wipe your tears and correct your statistics and now make a wiser choice. Learn to judge people, learn from your master(god,parents,teacher,best friend).
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Nikhil Yadav
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Beside her, Oliver is craning his neck to read the signs for customs, already thinking about the next thing, already moving on. Because that's what you do in planes. You share an armrest with someone for a few hours. You exchange stories about your life, an amusing anecdote or two, maybe even a joke. You comment on the weather and remark about the terrible food. And then you say goodbye.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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That they were left with only this--this awkward, prearranged meet-up, this terrible silence--seemed almost more than she could bear, and the unfairness of it all welled up inside of her. It was his fault, all of it, and yet her hatred for him was the worst kind of love, a tortured longing, a misguided wish that made her heart hammer in her chest. She couldn't ignore the disjointed sensation that they were now two different pieces of two different puzzles, and nothing in the world could make them fit together again.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Here is a statistic that does matter: Three quarters of Americans believe the Bible teaches that β€œGod helps those who help themselves.” That is, three out of four Americans believe that this uber-American idea, a notion at the core of our current individualist politics and culture, which was in fact uttered by Ben Franklin, actually appears in Holy Scripture. The thing is, not only is Franklin's wisdom not biblical; it's counter-biblical. Few ideas could be further from the gospel message, with its radical summons to love of neighbor. On this essential matter, most Americansβ€”most American Christiansβ€”are simply wrong, as if 75 percent of American scientists believed that Newton proved gravity causes apples to fly up.
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Bill McKibben
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Now Hadley presses her forehead against the window of the taxi and once again finds herself smiling at the thought of him. He's like a song she can't get out of her head. Hard as she tries, the melody of their meeting runs through her mind on an endless loop, each time as surprisingly sweet as the last, like a lullaby, like a hymn, and she doesn't think she could ever get tired of hearing it.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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True," he says. "But I'm able to supplement it with my wealth of British intelligence and charm." "Right," Hadley says. "Charm. When do I get to see some of that?" He twists his mouth up at the corners. "Didn't some guy help carry your suitcase earlier?" "Oh yeah," she says, tapping a finger against her chin. "That guy. He was great. I wonder where he went?
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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People talk about books being an escape, but here on the tube, this one feels more like a lifeline. As she leafs through the pages, the rest of it fades away: the flurry of elbows and purses, the woman in a tunic biting her fingernails, the two teenagers with blaring headphones, even the man playing the violin at the other end of the car, its reedy tune working its way through the crowd. The motion of the train makes her head rattle, but her eyes lock on the words the way a figure skater might choose a focal point as she spins, and just like that, she’s grounded again.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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In the interest of ultimate honesty,” Celine cut in, β€œI’m pretty sure that everyone present would appreciate it if you two got a room.” β€œI wouldn’t,” Dean grumbled. β€œI am unbothered by displays of physical and emotional intimacy,” Sloane volunteered. β€œThe nuances and statistics underlying courtship behavior are quite fascinating.” The edges of Celine’s lips quirked upward as she met Sloane’s gaze. β€œYou don’t say.” Sloane frowned. β€œI just did.
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Jennifer Lynn Barnes (Bad Blood (The Naturals, #4))
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Would you have joined the Circle. Would you have stood by Valentine's side at the Uprising? Raise your hand, if you think it's possible." Simon was unsurprised to see not a single hand in the air. He'd played this game back in mundane school, every time his history class covered World War II. Simon knew no one ever thought they would be a Nazi. Simon also knew that, statistically, most of them were wrong.
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Cassandra Clare (The Evil We Love (Tales from the Shadowhunter Academy, #5))
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But the crowds are surging around them and her backpack is heavy on her shoulders and the boy's eyes are searching hers with something like loneliness , like the very last thing he wants is to be left behind right now. And that's something Hadley can understand, too, and so after a moment she nods in agreement, and he tips the suitcase forward onto it's wheels, and they begin to walk.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Generally speaking, though, Americans have an inability to relax into sheer pleasure. Ours is an entertainment-seeking nation, but not necessarily a pleasure-seeking one. Americans spend billions to keep themselves amused with everything from porn to theme parks to wars, but that's not exactly the same thing as quiet enjoyment. Americans work harder and longer and more stressful hours than anyone in the world today. But...we seem to like it. Alarming statistics back this observation up, showing that many Americans feel more happy and fulfilled in their offices than they do in their own homes. Of course, we all inevitably work too hard, then we get burned out and have to spend the whole weekend in our pajamas, eating cereal straight out of the box and staring at the TV in a mild coma (which is the opposite of working, yes, but not exactly the same thing as pleasure). Americans don't really know how to do NOTHING. This is the cause of that great sad American stereotype-the overstressed executive who goes on vacation but who cannot relax.
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Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love)
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Definition: 'Love' is making a shot to the knees of a target 120 kilometres away using an Aratech sniper rifle with a tri-light scope. Statement: This definition, I am told, is subject to interpretation. Obviously, 'love' is a matter of odds. Not many meatbags could make such a shot, and strangely enough, not many meatbags would derive love from it. Yet for me, love is knowing your target, putting them in your targeting reticle, and together, achieving a singular purpose... against statistically long odds...
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HK-47
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I'm not sure I even believe in marriage," Hadley says and he looks surprised. "Aren't you on your way to a wedding?" "Yeah," she says with a nod. "But that's what I mean." He looks at her blankly. "It shouldn't be this big fuss, where you drag everyone halfway across the world to witness your love. If you want to share your life together, fine. But it's between two people, and that should be enough. Why the big show? Why rub it in everyone's faces?" Oliver runs a hand along his jaw, obviously not quite sure what to think. "It sounds like its weddings you don't believe in," he says finally. "Not marriage." "I'm not such a big fan of either at the moment." "I don't know," he says. "I think they're kind of nice." "They're not," she insists. "They're all for show. You shouldn't need to prove anything if you really mean it. It should be a whole lot simpler than that. It should mean something." "I think it does," Oliver says quietly. "It's a promise." "I guess so," she says, unable to keep the sigh out of her voice. "But not everyone keeps that promise." she looks over toward the woman, still fast asleep. "Not everyone makes it fifty-two years, and if you do, it doesn't matter that you once stood in front of all those people and said that you would. The important part is that you had someone to stick by you all that time. Even when everything sucked.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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She thinks of the way they stood together near the bathroom, how it seemed like they'd been on the brink of something, of everything, like the whole world was changing as they huddled together in the dark. And now here they are, like two polite strangers, like she'd only ever imagined the rest of it. She wishes they could turn around again and fly back in the other direction, circling the globe backward, chasing the night they left behind.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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As a kid, I couldn't sleep without this ratty stuffed elephant," she explains, not sure what made her think of it now. Maybe it's that she'll be soon seeing her dad again, or maybe it's just the plane keying up beneath her, prompting a childish wish for her old security blanket. [Oliver]"I'm not sure that counts" "Clearly you've never met Elephant" He laughs, "Did you come up with that name all by yourself?" "Damn right," she says
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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So," the woman asks, digging through her purse and emerging with a pair of foam earplugs, "how did you two meet?" They exchange a quick glance. "Believe it or not," Oliver says, "it was in an airport." "Oh how wonderful!" she exclaims, looking positively delighted. "And how did it happen?" "Well" he begins, sitting up a bit taller, "I was being quite gallant, actually, and offered to help her with her suitcase. And then we started talking and one thing lead to another..." Hadley grins "And he's been carrying my suitcase ever since." "It's what an true gentlemen would do," Oliver says with an exaggerated modesty. "Especially the really gallant ones.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Well," he begins, sitting up a bit taller, "I was being quite gallant, actually, and offered to help with her suitcase. And then we started talking and one thing led to another...." Hadley grins. "And he's been carrying my suitcase ever since." "it's what any true gentleman would do," Oliver says with exaggerated modesty. "Especially the really gallant ones." The old woman seems pleased by this, her face folding into a map of tiny wrinkles. "And here you both are." Oliver smiles. "Here we are.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Above them, one of the blackened television screens brightens, and there's an announcement about the in-flight movie. It's an animated film about a family of ducks, one that Hadley's actually see, and when Oliver groans, shes about to deny the whole thing. But then she twists around in her seat and eyes him critically. "There's nothing wrong with ducks," she tells him, and he rolls his eyes. "Talking ducks?" Hadley grins. "They sing, too." "Don't tell me," he says. "You've already seen it." She holds up two fingers. "Twice." "You do know it's meant for five-year-olds, right?" "Five- to eight-year-olds, thank you very much." "And how old are you again?" "Old enough to appreciate our web-footed friends." "You," he says, laughing in spite of himself, "are a mad as a hatter." "Wait a second," Hadley says in mock horror. "Is that a reference to a...cartoon?" No, genius. It's a reference to a famous work of literature by Lewis Carroll. But once again, I can see how well that American education is working for you.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Despite the earnest belief of most of his fans, Einstein did not win his Nobel Prize for the theory of relativity, special or general. He won for explaining a strange effect in quantum mechanics, the photoelectric effect. His solution provided the first real evidence that quantum mechanics wasn’t a crude stopgap for justifying anomalous experiments, but actually corresponds to reality. And the fact that Einstein came up with it is ironic for two reasons. One, as he got older and crustier, Einstein came to distrust quantum mechanics. Its statistical and deeply probabilistic nature sounded too much like gambling to him, and it prompted him to object that β€œGod does not play dice with the universe.” He was wrong, and it’s too bad that most people have never heard the rejoinder by Niels Bohr: β€œEinstein! Stop telling God what to do.
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Sam Kean (The Disappearing Spoon: And Other True Tales of Madness, Love, and the History of the World from the Periodic Table of the Elements)
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Do you think,” she says, the words emerging thickly, β€œwe might have used up all our conversation last night?” β€œNot possible,” says Oliver, and the way he says it, his mouth turned up in a smile, his voice full of warmth, unwinds the knot in Hadley’s stomach. β€œWe haven’t even gotten to the really important stuff yet.” β€œLike what?” she asks, trying to arrange her face in a way that disguises the relief she feels. β€œLike what’s so great about Dickens?” β€œNot at all,” he says. β€œMore like the plight of koalas. Or the fact that Venice is sinking.” He pauses, waiting for this to register, and when Hadley says nothing, he slaps his knee for emphasis. β€œSinking! The whole city! Can you believe it?” She frowns in mock seriousness. β€œThat does sound pretty important.” β€œIt is,” Oliver insists. β€œAnd don’t even get me started on the size of our carbon footprint after this trip. Or the difference between crocodiles and alligators. Or the longest recorded flight of a chicken.” β€œPlease tell me you don’t actually know that.” β€œThirteen seconds,” he says, leaning forward to look past her and out the window. β€œThis is a total disaster. We’re nearly to Heathrow and we haven’t even properly discussed flying chickens.
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Jennifer E. Smith (The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight)
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Creation is built upon the promise of hope, that things will get better, that tomorrow will be better than the day before. But it's not true. Cities collapse. Populations expand. Environments decay. People get ruder. You can't go to a movie without getting in a fight with the guy in the third row who won't shut up. Filthy streets. Drive-by shootings. Irradiated corn. Permissible amounts of rat-droppings per hot dog. Bomb blasts, and body counts. Terror in the streets, on camera, in your living room. Aids and Ebola and Hepatitis B and you can't touch anyone because you're afraid you'll catch something besides love and nothing tastes as good anymore and Christopher Reeve is [dead] and love is statistically false. Pocket nukes and subway anthrax. You grow up frustrated, you live confused, you age frightened, you die alone. Safe terrain moves from your city to your block to your yard to your home to your living room to the bedroom and all you want is to be allowed to live without somebody breaking in to steal your tv and shove an ice-pick in your ear. That sound like a better world to you? That sound to you like a promise kept?
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J. Michael Straczynski (Midnight Nation)
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what is the expression which the age demands? the age demands no expression whatever. we have seen photographs of bereaved asian mothers. we are not interested in the agony of your fumbled organs. there is nothing you can show on your face that can match the horror of this time. do not even try. you will only hold yourself up to the scorn of those who have felt things deeply. we have seen newsreels of humans in the extremities of pain and dislocation. you are playing to people who have experienced a catastrophe. this should make you very quiet. speak the words, convey the data, step aside. everyone knows you are in pain. you cannot tell the audience everything you know about love in every line of love you speak. step aside and they will know what you know because you know it already. you have nothing to teach them. you are not more beautiful than they are. you are not wiser. do not shout at them. do not force a dry entry. that is bad sex. if you show the lines of your genitals, then deliver what you promise. and remember that people do not really want an acrobat in bed. what is our need? to be close to the natural man, to be close to the natural woman. do not pretend that you are a beloved singer with a vast loyal audience which has followed the ups and downs of your life to this very moment. the bombs, flame-throwers, and all the shit have destroyed more than just the trees and villages. they have also destroyed the stage. did you think that your profession would escape the general destruction? there is no more stage. there are no more footlights. you are among the people. then be modest. speak the words, convey the data, step aside. be by yourself. be in your own room. do not put yourself on. do not act out words. never act out words. never try to leave the floor when you talk about flying. never close your eyes and jerk your head to one side when you talk about death. do not fix your burning eyes on me when you speak about love. if you want to impress me when you speak about love put your hand in your pocket or under your dress and play with yourself. if ambition and the hunger for applause have driven you to speak about love you should learn how to do it without disgracing yourself or the material. this is an interior landscape. it is inside. it is private. respect the privacy of the material. these pieces were written in silence. the courage of the play is to speak them. the discipline of the play is not to violate them. let the audience feel your love of privacy even though there is no privacy. be good whores. the poem is not a slogan. it cannot advertise you. it cannot promote your reputation for sensitivity. you are students of discipline. do not act out the words. the words die when you act them out, they wither, and we are left with nothing but your ambition. the poem is nothing but information. it is the constitution of the inner country. if you declaim it and blow it up with noble intentions then you are no better than the politicians whom you despise. you are just someone waving a flag and making the cheapest kind of appeal to a kind of emotional patriotism. think of the words as science, not as art. they are a report. you are speaking before a meeting of the explorers' club of the national geographic society. these people know all the risks of mountain climbing. they honour you by taking this for granted. if you rub their faces in it that is an insult to their hospitality. do not work the audience for gasps ans sighs. if you are worthy of gasps and sighs it will not be from your appreciation of the event but from theirs. it will be in the statistics and not the trembling of the voice or the cutting of the air with your hands. it will be in the data and the quiet organization of your presence. avoid the flourish. do not be afraid to be weak. do not be ashamed to be tired. you look good when you're tired. you look like you could go on forever. now come into my arms. you are the image of my beauty.
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Leonard Cohen (Death of a Lady's Man)
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The left and right sides of the brain also process the imprints of the past in dramatically different ways.2 The left brain remembers facts, statistics, and the vocabulary of events. We call on it to explain our experiences and put them in order. The right brain stores memories of sound, touch, smell, and the emotions they evoke. It reacts automatically to voices, facial features, and gestures and places experienced in the past. What it recalls feels like intuitive truthβ€”the way things are. Even as we enumerate a loved one’s virtues to a friend, our feelings may be more deeply stirred by how her face recalls the aunt we loved at age four.3 Under ordinary circumstances the two sides of the brain work together more or less smoothly, even in people who might be said to favor one side over the other. However, having one side or the other shut down, even temporarily, or having one side cut off entirely (as sometimes happened in early brain surgery) is disabling. Deactivation of the left hemisphere has a direct impact on the capacity to organize experience into logical sequences and to translate our shifting feelings and perceptions into words. (Broca’s area, which blacks out during flashbacks, is on the left side.) Without sequencing we can’t identify cause and effect, grasp the long-term effects of our actions, or create coherent plans for the future. People who are very upset sometimes say they are β€œlosing their minds.” In technical terms they are experiencing the loss of executive functioning. When something reminds traumatized people of the past, their right brain reacts as if the traumatic event were happening in the present. But because their left brain is not working very well, they may not be aware that they are reexperiencing and reenacting the pastβ€”they are just furious, terrified, enraged, ashamed, or frozen. After the emotional storm passes, they may look for something or somebody to blame for it. They behaved the way they did way because you were ten minutes late, or because you burned the potatoes, or because you β€œnever listen to me.” Of course, most of us have done this from time to time, but when we cool down, we hopefully can admit our mistake. Trauma interferes with this kind of awareness, and, over time, our research demonstrated why.
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Bessel van der Kolk (The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma)
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The Loneliness of the Military Historian Confess: it's my profession that alarms you. This is why few people ask me to dinner, though Lord knows I don't go out of my way to be scary. I wear dresses of sensible cut and unalarming shades of beige, I smell of lavender and go to the hairdresser's: no prophetess mane of mine, complete with snakes, will frighten the youngsters. If I roll my eyes and mutter, if I clutch at my heart and scream in horror like a third-rate actress chewing up a mad scene, I do it in private and nobody sees but the bathroom mirror. In general I might agree with you: women should not contemplate war, should not weigh tactics impartially, or evade the word enemy, or view both sides and denounce nothing. Women should march for peace, or hand out white feathers to arouse bravery, spit themselves on bayonets to protect their babies, whose skulls will be split anyway, or,having been raped repeatedly, hang themselves with their own hair. There are the functions that inspire general comfort. That, and the knitting of socks for the troops and a sort of moral cheerleading. Also: mourning the dead. Sons,lovers and so forth. All the killed children. Instead of this, I tell what I hope will pass as truth. A blunt thing, not lovely. The truth is seldom welcome, especially at dinner, though I am good at what I do. My trade is courage and atrocities. I look at them and do not condemn. I write things down the way they happened, as near as can be remembered. I don't ask why, because it is mostly the same. Wars happen because the ones who start them think they can win. In my dreams there is glamour. The Vikings leave their fields each year for a few months of killing and plunder, much as the boys go hunting. In real life they were farmers. The come back loaded with splendour. The Arabs ride against Crusaders with scimitars that could sever silk in the air. A swift cut to the horse's neck and a hunk of armour crashes down like a tower. Fire against metal. A poet might say: romance against banality. When awake, I know better. Despite the propaganda, there are no monsters, or none that could be finally buried. Finish one off, and circumstances and the radio create another. Believe me: whole armies have prayed fervently to God all night and meant it, and been slaughtered anyway. Brutality wins frequently, and large outcomes have turned on the invention of a mechanical device, viz. radar. True, valour sometimes counts for something, as at Thermopylae. Sometimes being right - though ultimate virtue, by agreed tradition, is decided by the winner. Sometimes men throw themselves on grenades and burst like paper bags of guts to save their comrades. I can admire that. But rats and cholera have won many wars. Those, and potatoes, or the absence of them. It's no use pinning all those medals across the chests of the dead. Impressive, but I know too much. Grand exploits merely depress me. In the interests of research I have walked on many battlefields that once were liquid with pulped men's bodies and spangled with exploded shells and splayed bone. All of them have been green again by the time I got there. Each has inspired a few good quotes in its day. Sad marble angels brood like hens over the grassy nests where nothing hatches. (The angels could just as well be described as vulgar or pitiless, depending on camera angle.) The word glory figures a lot on gateways. Of course I pick a flower or two from each, and press it in the hotel Bible for a souvenir. I'm just as human as you. But it's no use asking me for a final statement. As I say, I deal in tactics. Also statistics: for every year of peace there have been four hundred years of war.
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Margaret Atwood (Morning In The Burned House: Poems)