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Is it smash the patriarchy? I hope it’s smash the patriarchy.
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Jennifer Lynn Barnes (The Hawthorne Legacy (The Inheritance Games, #2))
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Smash the patriarchy, sweetheart
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Taylor Jenkins Reid
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For Lilah
Smash the patriarchy, sweetheart
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Taylor Jenkins Reid (The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo)
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Smashing atoms and the patriarchy
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Elle Kennedy (The Dare (Briar U, #4))
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One of the many idiosyncrasies of patriarchy is how it convinces us that the world isn’t actually biased or bigoted.
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Caroline Ervin (Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space)
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As feminist writer Naomi Wolf argues, the times in history when women have made the greatest political gains—getting the vote, gaining reproductive freedom, securing the right to work outside the home—have also been moments when standards for “ideal” beauty became significantly thinner and the pressure on women to adhere to those standards increased. Wolf explains that this serves both to distract women from their growing political power and to assuage the fears of people who don’t want the old patriarchal system to change—because if women are busy trying to shrink themselves, they won’t have the time or energy to shake things up. It’s hard to smash the patriarchy on an empty stomach, or with a head full of food and body concerns, and that’s exactly the point of diet culture.
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Christy Harrison (Anti-Diet: Reclaim Your Time, Money, Well-Being, and Happiness Through Intuitive Eating)
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For Lilah,
Smash the patriarchy, sweetheart
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Taylor Jenkins Reid (The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo)
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For Lilah Smash the patriarchy, sweetheart
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Taylor Jenkins Reid (The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo)
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We have to smash the patriarchy, for sure. And we have to dismantle white supremacy, and homophobia, and a whole bunch of other terrible shit that makes life difficult for people. Rage is great at helping us to destroy things. That’s why people are so afraid of it.
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Brittney Cooper (Eloquent Rage: A Black Feminist Discovers Her Superpower)
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Second-wave feminist rhetoric placed blame for the female condition entirely on men, or specifically on “patriarchy” . . . The exclusive focus of feminism was on an external social mechanism that had to be smashed or reformed. It failed to take into account women’s intricate connection with nature – that is, with procreation.’ Or why, ‘in this era of the career woman, there has been a denigration, or devaluing of the role of motherhood.
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Douglas Murray (The Madness of Crowds: Gender, Race and Identity)
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The patriarchy is very far from being smashed. In fact, maybe they’re even a little bit worse, because we pretend that the patriarchy is done and we’re in a society with gender equality, so we can’t even fight it because the fight’s over. How do I fight something that’s already playing dead but is still very much alive behind closed doors?
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Jesse Q. Sutanto (Didn't See That Coming)
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There is a paradox at the heart of contemporary Western feminism. Ideological feminists insist on grandiose goals such as “ending the patriarchy.” Yet campaigns against men-only clubs or for female representation on corporate boards are elitist concerns far removed from the daily existence of the average woman. If we think back to the sociologist Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of human needs, the issues Western feminists prioritize today are in the realm of self-actualization: enhancing conditions at work, having access to state-sponsored child care, joining all-male associations, balancing housework duties with male partners, and gaining prestige. This is not to say that we should forgo laudable goals such as smashing the glass ceiling. But the freedom for all women to live free from violence should come first.
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Ayaan Hirsi Ali (Prey: Immigration, Islam, and the Erosion of Women's Rights)
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On top of everything else, women are not happy. A dramatic 2009 study issued by the National Bureau of Economic Research revealed that women are not growing happier as feminist ideals are embraced. In fact, the opposite is true. In the 1970s, women rated their overall life satisfaction higher than men did, but it has been on the steady decline ever since. The study revealed that “women of all education groups have become less happy over time with declines in happiness having been steepest among those with some college.” The study also concluded that “on average, women are less happy with their marriage than men and women have become less happy with their marriage over time.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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My conscious mind wants to smash the patriarchy; my unconscious habits snuggle comfortably at his slippered feet.
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Katie Anthony (Feminist Werewolf)
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Rhi stabbed her fork at her. “Patriarchy.” Eve grinned. “Smash it.” “Nah.” Rhi’s teeth flashed. “Murder it dead.
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Alisha Rai (Hurts to Love You (Forbidden Hearts, #3))
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They went on to form NOW and, with that organization, achieve their stated goal of taking down the Patriarchy through a massive coordinated promotion of promiscuity, eroticism, prostitution, abortion and homosexuality. Their proposed method was to infiltrate every institution in the nation: the universities, the media, primary and secondary schools, PTAs, Teachers Unions, city and state governments, the library system, the executive branches of government as well as the judiciaries and legislatures. One of their most desired results was the smashing of every taboo in Western culture. Imagine that! Think of that alone! The normalizing of every taboo: polygamy, bestiality, Satanism, pornography, promiscuity, witchcraft, pedophilia—all activities which rot the human soul and city.
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Paul Kengor (The Devil and Karl Marx: Communism's Long March of Death, Deception, and Infiltration)
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The second issue is that men are now edging women out of prized positions and awards while wearing dresses and heels. The hottest flashpoint in the culture today is the transgender movement, with the progressive mob even coming after feminists, such as the famed author of the Harry Potter series, J. K. Rowling. Anyone who dares to oppose the idea that men can become women (or vice versa) is targeted. Activists use the derogatory term “trans-exclusionary radical feminists,” or “TERFs,” to criticize those who, like Rowling, embrace the idea that a woman is someone who is a biological female, from birth, distinct from mere gender expression.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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Meanwhile, biological men in women’s clothing have increasingly encroached on celebrity, sports, and politics. TIME magazine’s “Woman of the Year” Caitlyn Jenner, the first “female” four-star admiral in the Commissioned Corps Rachel Levine and the NCAA “female” swimming champion Lia Thomas are all lauded as examples of female achievement, despite their radically distinct hormonal baselines, higher testosterone levels, and greater physical strength, especially in the upper body.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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Much of women’s unhappiness can be tied to the rise of “bureaugamy.” Bureaugamy is a term coined by the sociologist Lionel Tiger. Bureaugamy is the relationship that has developed in which a woman’s core needs are met by the state, and not her father or spouse. The progressive solution has been to fix or shore up problems with the help of more government assistance and programs to take the place the family once held.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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The Soviets, given the communist priority of work and political party over all else, viewed women through an androgynous lens, sending women out to work, corralling children in government care, and providing limitless abortions to ensure that work wasn’t interrupted under the justification of liberation. Many of these ideals would make their way into American culture forty to fifty years later, and the Congress of American Women (CAW) was an important part of that effort.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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Mary Wollstonecraft's main concerns were that women of her day were coquettish, too focused on vain pleasures like clothing and beauty, too intent on having a small appetite, too engrossed in alluring men, while remaining mis- or undereducated. Well over two hundred years later, women appear to have many of these same vices, despite the overwhelming effort to reshape and reform the minds of women.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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Civilizations are hollowed out by their own decadence instead of being pulled down by outside aggressors.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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,,For Lilah
Smash the patriarchy, sweetheart
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Taylor Adams (Dot Markers Animal Activity Book For Kids: Gorgeous And Unique Stress Relief And Relaxation Animal Dot Markers Coloring Book For Kids)
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For 150 years, women agitated against the patriarchy but never quite figured out a way to erase it completely. Then it happened, as if the magic spell had been discovered. Women found the secret way to bring down the patriarchy once and for all in Kate Millett’s litany: destroying the family.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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stay curious. build empathy. raise hell.
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Cristen Conger (Unladylike: A Field Guide to Smashing the Patriarchy and Claiming Your Space)
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How could something that homosexuals don’t need swing the general opinion about homosexuality? Sanger and birth control, particularly the arrival of the Pill, transformed sex in the American and Western mind. Prior to these generally effective, though certainly not foolproof, ways of controlling birth—something previous generations of feminists could have only dreamed of—sexuality was always tightly connected in people’s minds with fertility. Sex meant children. With birth control’s arrival, sex no longer had to include children. Sex could be only about pleasure and uniting a couple together, through the release of significant bonding hormones. Suddenly, sex could be about feelings and pleasure it produced without any concern for babies. It took a while for the childless notion of sex to take hold of culture, but as the LGBT+ movement made inroads, people began to ask themselves: How is their sex any different than ours? We do it for pleasure. They do it for pleasure. We don’t have children unless we want to children. They don’t have children. Fertility and babies became terribly passé unless one was actively trying to achieve pregnancy or if something didn’t work as promised.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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We have been lulled into thinking that all the millions of dead children are not a problem. In fact, they might just be the solution, the LEGO® box of spare parts for our medical needs or the wide array of other uses. We may have been successful in making life “tidy, elegant, and long,” but the pirates are truly still with us, still plundering, lying, and slaughtering. Although they may be polished, creased, ironed, slicked, and starched, they know how to capitalize off the very young, the weak, and the defenseless. Thousands are killed daily in the form of abortion, with populations the size of Ukraine or Spain being wiped out each year.28
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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Women need men and men need women—and children need both parents.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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First we defeat the werewolves. Then we smash the patriarchy.
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Mike Reeves-McMillan (Auckland Allies 4: Wolf Park)
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Patriarchy is inevitable. God has built it into the fabric of the cosmos. It is part of the divine created order. You could as soon smash it as you could smash gravity. It is natural and irrevocable. Cicero was right: “Custom will never conquer nature; for it is always invincible.”1 Men were made to rule. They always have and always will. Nothing can change that. Nothing will. It is not a question of whether men will be ruling, but which ones and how. This is what patriarchy is: the natural rulership of men. The term comes from Greek and means simply “father rule.
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Michael Foster (It's Good to Be a Man: A Handbook for Godly Masculinity)
Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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Human societies haven’t always been patriarchal—scholars believe man’s rule began somewhere around 4000 BCE. (Homo sapiens have been around for two hundred thousand years in all, for context.) When people talk about “smashing the patriarchy,” they’re talking about challenging this oppressive system, linguistically and otherwise. Which is relevant to us because in Western culture, patriarchy has overstayed its welcome. It’s high time the subject of gender and words makes its way beyond academia and into the rest of our everyday conversations. Because twenty-first-century America finds itself in a unique and turbulent place for language. Every day, people are becoming freer than ever to express gender identities and sexualities of all stripes, and simultaneously, the language we use to describe ourselves evolves. This is interesting and important, but for some, it can be hard to keep up, which can make an otherwise well-meaning person confused and defensive. We’re also living in a time when we find respected media outlets and public figures circulating criticisms of women’s voices—like that they speak with too much vocal fry, overuse the words like and literally, and apologize in excess. They brand judgments like these as pseudofeminist advice aimed at helping women talk with “more authority” so that they can be “taken more seriously.” What they don’t seem to realize is that they’re actually keeping women in a state of self-questioning—keeping them quiet—for no objectively logical reason other than that they don’t sound like middle-aged white men.
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Amanda Montell (Wordslut: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English Language)
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Scientific data concerning when life begins, or when a child’s life is worth saving, elude our public narrative. Pro-lifers are willing to debate, but those on the pro-choice side know they will be trounced. They don’t have reason on their side, just tired and old rhetoric.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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There are plenty of examples in the culture today, with pressure on men to call themselves feminists or the vitriol hurled at manly men, packed neatly into the phrase “toxic masculinity.
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Carrie Gress (The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us)
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To fight the patriarchal environment that prevails in the Indian courtrooms, there are
women who are making their mark and are utilizing the law and the legal system to make a dent in patriarchy. These courageous women are standing up against the powerful institutionalized structural imbalance and asserting their rights while showing that the Constitution, the law, and the courtrooms do not belong to a handful of judges and lawyers but belong to the people, the litigants, the poor, the marginalized, the women – to the people of the country. The system may be
powerful or corrupt but people are more powerful than the system and have the power to smash the loopholes within it.
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Shalu Nigam
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he law is a blunt tool and though it makes tall claims of being
objective and neutral, in itself, the law is fragile and will not smash patriarchy. Rather, The courts have always favored the power structure and shielded those who are resourceful. The courtrooms, themselves as a symbol of authority, defend the values of supremacy and protect the oppressive
and regressive system. However, those on the margins with their conviction and belief in the values of democracy, justice, and the rule of law, need to shake the system. With individual or through collective action the marginalized are challenging the power structure and are compelling the state and the society to make social and political transformation at a larger level. Angela Davis said that “in a racist society it is not enough to be a non-racist. We must be anti-racist”. Similarly, here it may be derived that `in a patriarchal society, it is not enough to be a non-patriarchal. We must be anti-patriarchy’. The women with their sheer will and conviction are marching ahead to smash
patriarchy using law as an instrument of change. However, what is required is the radical interpretation of constitutional values by the courts and this should be strengthened by assuring the equal representation of women within the judiciary at all levels to open up the possibility of nondiscrimination within the patriarchal hostile settings.
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Shalu Nigam
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Oh what power she wielded over the male species. I hope she did some good and smashed the patriarchy with it.
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Sara Farizan (Come On In)
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MUSLIM WOMEN are commanding audiences, cracking jokes, and forging careers as stand-up comics and entertainers. From viral videos to one-woman shows, we deploy humor to enlighten and illuminate, but more importantly, we use humor to experience joy. We laugh till we cry, till we pee, till we forget. We belly laugh to give ourselves the strength to smash the patriarchy, find a date, do the laundry, write a book, get out of bed. In a world that tries to laugh at us, Muslim women have turned the tables and weaponized an art form: Humor is our not-so-secret weapon, joy is our punchline.
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Seema Yasmin (Muslim Women Are Everything: Stereotype-Shattering Stories of Courage, Inspiration, and Adventure)
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You may need to witness several false dawns fully to understand that all women are, in patriarchal terms, the losers. That is our role; it is baked into patriarchal understandings of history, progress, success, failure, creativity, genius, what really matters, what doesn’t. Insisting yours is the cohort of women who will finally smash the patriarchy, whereas the one that preceded it represents its last stand, is itself patriarchal.
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Victoria Smith (Hags: The Demonisation of Middle-Aged Women)