Sherry Argov Quotes

Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.

Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion - be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards - only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.

Whenever you are too worried about someone else's approval, that person loses respect for you.

Anytime a woman competes with another woman she demeans herself.

Once you start laughing, you start healing.

He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.

Truly powerful people don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage someone who doesn't give it to them.

Live by your own rules Move to your rhythm, instead of dancing to the beat of someone else’s drum Decide how you want to be treated Choose what you will or will not tolerate Leave if you don’t get what you want.

When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too. This is the kind of relationship you want, and it's the only kind of relationship worth having.

Men don't respond to words. What they respond to is "no contact".

Relationship Principle 10 You can tell how much someone respects you by how much he respects your opinion. If he doesn't respect your opinion, he won't respect you.

Relationship Principle 1 In romance, there's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.

When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are.

Relationship Principle 11 It is better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not.

The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.

When a man sees you are happy with him but you can be just as happy having nothing to do with him, that’s when he won’t want to leave your side. When you are happy, you are sexy.

The most attractive quality of all is dignity.

There's nothing more prized to a man than something he had to wait for, work for, or strugle a little bit to get.

Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn't.

If someone else doesn't like your confidence, that's their problem. Why? You always come before they do, that's why.

Relationship Principle 3 He doesn't marry a woman who is perfect. He marries the woman who is interesting.

Agree with everything, explain nothing, then do what is best for you.

Success in love isn't about looks, it's about attitude.

Until he gives you a reason not to trust him, behave as though you trust him.

Sophia Loren said, "Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.

The nice girl makes the mistake of being available all the time.

Standing up for yourself doesn't always involve verbal confrontation. Sometimes it's about not wasting energy on people who are negative.

You always want what you can’t have.

That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you -- until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from "whence" he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy...and yes...your emotional stability...those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.

Men control the world, but women control the men.

When a man likes you, he will be interested in finding out what you like. If he makes you happy, he feels more secure. Everything men do is intended to impress women.

Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves

A dreamgirl, on the other hand, won't kill herself to impress anyone.

With a woman he's crazy about, he'll put in all the overtime in the world. He'll be doing things for you, he'll be considerate, he'll want to please you, he'll try to cheer you up if you are down, and he will enjoy every moment because you are the person he values most.

Men are intrigued by anything they do not completly control.

If you can't convince 'em, confuse 'em.

Many people lack the basic equipment to be in a relationship and there's nothing you can do to change it. You can't take a skunk and dip it in perfume and hope it becomes a puppy. Eventually, the perfume will wear off and you'll still have a skunk on your hands.

Relationship Principle 5 Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.

When you nag, you become the problem, an he deals with it by turning you out, but when you dont nag, he deals with the problem.

You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face

When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still right there.

Because of his hormones, he only has three emotions: crabby, hungry, horny.

Relationship Principle 9 Every guy knows he can find a girl who is simply satisfied with satisfying him. They are much more turned on by a woman who cares about her own pleasure as well.

A bitch is more selective about her availability. She’s available sometimes; other times she’s not. But she’s nice.

A beautiful woman can make herself look ugly in the eyes of a man if she is very insecure.

Women tend to love men in their presence, while men tend to love women in their absence.

It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.

Relationship Principle 6 Men see how you dress, and then make assumptions about your relationship potential.

He should accept me as I am!” says the woman who is too nice. Accept you? Oh no, sister. Slap yourself. He should want you madly. Acceptance has nothing to do with it. He accepts a doormat. But he desires his dreamgirl.

Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.

When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything.

If a man isn't being nice when you're out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early.

As soon as a manhas his guard up. he will not fall in love or get attached the only way he'll get attached is if you lower his guard first.

When you are happy, you are sexy

when something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless

The bitch is very nice. She is as sweet as a Georgia peach. But inside every sweet peach is a strong pit. And this means she won't explain the obvious when a man is disrespectful.

The bitch does not stop moving to her own rhythm. This, in and of itself, prevents her from becoming off-balance like a nice girl who abandons her routine.

The bitch is an empowered woman who derives tremendous strength from the ability to be an independent thinker, particularly in a world that still teaches women how to be self-abnegating. This woman doesn't live someone else's standards, only her own.

Expressing yourself when he takes for granted doesn't work.

UncondiTional love is a beauTiful Thing. JusT be sure To give iT after your conditions have been meT :P

Let's replace "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you" with "Do unto others, after they show you they are worthy.

Anything a person chases in life runs away.

When it comes to believing in yourself, put your eye on the mark and don’t blink. If you have a goal, a dream, or an aspiration…believe in yourself while you are on the way to your destination, and you will have already arrived.

Whenever a woman requires too many things from a man, he’ll resent it. Let him give what he wants to give freely; then observe who he is.

If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from your partner.

if the sex was too easy to get, it was not that great.

It isn’t about looks; gorgeous women get dumped every day.

Instead of working so hard to please him, work harder to please yourself…because ultimately, this is what will truly please him.

Men can shift gears from romantic to practical - and so can the bitch.

If a relationship is on-and-off within the first year, that’s an immediate sign you are wasting your time.

If he still isn’t giving you what you want, the question to ask yourself is whether you really want him.

There is no way to hold your own in a relationship and simultaneously accept rude behavior.

If you want to control your emotions, you have to control your thoughts.

Expressing your feelings constantly is like pleading. It comes across as needy rather than dignified.

When a nice girl overcompensates, her behavior says, “What I have to offer isn’t enough, and who I am isn’t enough.

When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too.

If you appear weak, people take advantage of you.

For a woman the objective is often a committed relationship also known as the destination. For a men roadtrip on the way to the destination is often the more fun.

Forcing him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, he’ll pay even less attention to your feelings.

One man’s “ugly” is another man’s “beautiful.

Men are selfish and don't think about anything else but them self." pg. 45

She doesn’t realize that she becomes so involved in him that she loses herself, and in the process, she risks losing him as well.

Keeping it short and to the point is essential, otherwise he won’t hear a single word.

It's that a bit of irreverence is necessary to have any self-esteem at all. Not irreverence for people, but rather, for what other people think.

This is a touch game. There are times when you've got to play hurt when you've got to block out the pain.

Regardless of how pretty a woman is, looks alone will not sustain his respect. Appearance may pull him in, but it is your independence that will keep him turned on.

If you chase him in a black nightie, first he’ll have sex with you . . . and then he’ll run.

Always give the appearance that he has plenty of space. It gets him to drop his guard.

More than anything else, he watches to see if you’ll be too emotionally dependent on him.

Truly powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage someone who doesn’t give it to them.

she lets him see how afraid she is to be without him and he soon comes to feel as though he has a 100 percent hold on her. This is often the point when women begin to complain: “He doesn’t make enough time for me. He isn’t as romantic as he used to be.

Every guy knows he can find a girl who is simply satisfied with satisfying him. They are much more turnd on by a woman who cares about her own pleasures as well.

If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he'll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he'll also take time to appreciate who she is.

The person who is least dependent on the outcome of the relationship will automatically draw the other person in.

Sex appeal is 50% what you’ve got, and 50% what people think you’ve got.” —SOPHIA LOREN

One of the things women have to get out of their mindset is the notion of what a bitch is. A bitch is nice. She’s sweet as a Georgia peach. She smiles and she is feminine. She just doesn’t make decisions based on the fear of losing a man.

When a woman is secure with herself, she isn't afraid to define herself and defy public opinion. She has her own look. Her own style. Her own charisma. Her own brand of charm. A man wants something he doesn't see every day. Not in terms of a redhead versus a blonde. He wants the rare woman who can think for herself.

The nice girl loses an important protective mechanism when she assumes that life is fair, or that Prince Charming will always protect her. The smart fox is not governed by wishful thinking or the hope of a fantasy outcome, like Cinderella. Despite appearances, she trusts herself to watch her OWN back instead of giving a man the responsibility of doing it for her.

The best advice I ever heard is, don’t take anyone else’s advice.” There’s power in this because it puts you in the conductor’s seat, right at “the controls” in your life. It doesn’t mean you should stop seeking information or outside input, it just means that you’re the one driving. You choose your own destination.

The bitch isn't afraid to be different, which is why she won't be a "booty call" or a pearl on a long string of pearls. She won't be a man's late-night convenience. She won't be doing lap dances. She won't be afraid to turn thirty or forty years old. At any age, this woman will feel like a "prize." She won't be defined by the media's perception of aging; she won't be made to feel like detective livestock because she is no longer a teenager. Married, single, or divorced, this woman feels good about herself.