Pierre Alex Jeanty Quotes

If you aren’t willing to love her, do not put dents on her heart that will influence her to believe that she is hard to love. That is cruel.

We hide our pain to keep us from getting hurt again. In the process we hurt people who never aimed to hurt us.

When you look at her, if you do not feel blessed to have her. She is not yours to keep. She is another man’s blessing.

Love her the way you crave to be loved.

If they cannot meet your standards, don't lower your standards so that they can.

Isn’t it ironic that the perfect moment for them to admit that they need you in their life is when you finally realize that you’re well off without them. In other words, the devil knows when you are getting close to heaven.

Just remember that it's not your responsibility to fix a broken man. It's not worth your time, your effort, your love or your tears. If he's not willing to fix himself for you, there's nothing left to do but walk away and move behind his selfish, immature, and ultimately abusive behavior. Not all men are broken, but you have to believe you deserve better. Expect better and you'll receive better, it's that simple.

We live in a generation that applauds the bad more than it commends the good.

Embrace who you are. Learn to be comfortable with who God made you. Develop the mindset that the creator doesn’t make mistakes.

The truth is, no strong man takes advantage of a woman's vulnerability. It is a trait of the weak.

It’s not her shape, her face, or her hair that makes her beautiful. Neither is it the smoothness of her skin, the boldness when she stands or the perseverance in her heart. But the condition of her heart, the gratitude she lives by and her love for God.

You love -you- far too much to compromise for too little.

One day you will marry your best friend, love will be real to you, and you will be on your journey to forever.

Love is a seed that has to be watered with effort and consistency. Lack thereof will cause the fire that once existed between two souls to burn out.

She preferred having her eyes lost in the night sky wondering about the stars, the universe and the creator.

Women like her are only hard to love by men who believe love is just a word.

She wasn’t created for everybody, her heart wasn’t made for everyone. Her love won’t be enough for just any man.

You deserve more of their attention than their phone does. You deserve quality time, not just time. You deserve effort, not just routines. You deserve to be treated as if you are a priority, not the last thing on their checklist. You are special and you deserve to be the only option. If that is too much to ask, you are asking it from the wrong person. If begging ever becomes your last approach to receive those things which ought to be freely given, it’s safe to say, you are out of your dang mind. Begging to be loved is suicide. It’s like going sky diving from the Eiffel Tower naked of proper equipment, and expecting gravity to overturn the outcome.

What good are flowers without water? What good are promises without actions?

The day you begin to accept who you are is when the journey of knowing yourself begins. That day is when validation through others becomes something of the past, and loving you and evolving into who you were made to be will begin.

She’s a poetry book. You must read every letter, and digest every word. Every part of her paints a part of a bigger picture. You can’t love her, if you do not intend on reading every page and learning how to comprehend every piece of her.

To her past, I see you replay the worst scenes of her life over and over, trying to convince her that she is less than good. Listen to me, I will love her until you become a memory faded; until your words are without sound and empty to her ears. I will love her until you no longer get the best of her, until you are nothing to her.

she did not choose to be alone; she simply chose to love herself more, and that required her to be the love of her own life, until someone comes to fulfill that position.

Her worth is priceless and she is fully aware of that. It is why she doesn’t attract many and only those with quality taste and genuine hearts can afford a woman like her.

Sometimes one of the greatest deeds a woman can do, is to introduce a man to an experience that sobers him up in a way only love can. This is an experience that will convince him to be more of a man to the next woman.

Love is a force that can’t be forced. Let it find you. It knows your address and who it is supposed to deliver within your path will be shipped to you unexpectedly. Be sure that your life isn’t cluttered and that your heart is ready enough to welcome it. You will find “Nemo,” before you ever find love, let it find you.

How does someone find it easy to live life smiling after having hurt the soul of someone who only offered them love?

You don’t need to sleep with more men to gain more experience. You need to wake up and understand that practicing with different teams every time won’t make you perfect for one team. The team you need practice with is the team you’re guaranteed to be on forever. Get the ring first, then, get to practicing.

No matter how good of a woman you are, you will never be enough for a man who is not ready” – Unknown

She is more than a good woman and a good person. She is a beautiful soul who carries light in her smile and love in her bones.

You’ve grown tired of being the trophy for mature men, yet always approached by immature fellas running game, in, “Mr Right” disguise. They can’t understand, because all they see is the smile, the strength, perseverance, the accomplishments, but all are clueless about the sadness, loneliness, emotional breakdowns…the failures.

Strong doesn’t describe her, she defines strong.

You are not a fool for being fooled by a fool.

You taught me what it means to fight for what you love. You showed me great endurance in a manner that was unusual to me. You fought for my heart until all the fight in you was gone without neglecting your brain. You displayed to me what unconditional love should look like, if I were to stare at it in a mirror. You loved me even on the days I found it difficult to even love myself. You scooped down to help me up at my lowest. You chained your heart to mine and stayed by my side even when all the signs gave you red lights about continuing our relationship. You remained loyal, even when I became disloyal, and fulfilled the belief that many men are dogs. You hung on longer than I expected, Loved me more than I could ever imagine. Some may have called you foolish for staying, but you showed me an aspect of love I’ve only read about in 1 Corinthians 13.

A man is not supposed to be an animal. Strength doesn't lie and how little pain he shows, but in how he handles the pain he feels. Be a man. Be real with yourself. Be human.

Don't let any crumbs of attention he throws at your feet cause you to bow down to his curse again. I know you are hungry for love, but he has proven time and time again that he cannot bring enough to the table to feed you.

Be honest with him, tell him you don't know how to love yet, even when it's everything you want.

You deserve quality time, not just time. You deserve effort, not just routines. You deserve to be treated as if you are a priority, not the last thing on their checklist. You are special and you deserve to be the only option. If that is too much to ask, you are asking it from the wrong person.

Once upon a time, persuasive words would give her goosebumps, Sweet nothings would satisfy her cravings, the key to her heart belonged to thieves. But now She has grown to listen with her eyes, to only trust actions, to study behaviors and let time be the inspector to see what it will reveal

She is independent, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t like having someone she can depend on.

The greatest gift any man will try to take from you is your time...

It was your lack of effort that screamed "Let go!" and whispered, "Move on," to her ears. Not her friends, family, or possible replacement.

The truth is, no strong man takes advantage of a woman’s vulnerability. It is a trait of the weak.

Giving in has become more convenient than letting go.

As for me, the thought of me being spoon-fed so many lies while believing you respected me enough to pour me some truth is what makes me sick to my stomach.

You can learn so much about her by exploring her scars and asking about her fears.

You my dear, knew your worth, and that made you worth so much more than you realized.

You deserve to be with someone who searches for the beautiful things in you.

The pain of your absence trapped me in the prison cell of my own skin.

Bad Company corrupts good character

Any soul on fire with love will keep going back to where the fire started

Love is color-blind, but so many are blinded by colors

We all wish we could live in a world where everyone looked past our outer appearances and focused on our inner being. The only likely way for that to happen is if someone is on a journey of loving us.

It is not her love coming to an end; she will always have love tucked underneath her rib cage. This is another failed love attempt reaching its last page, a relationship fading into the image of a memory, and a woman understanding that it is not her job to plant, water, and harvest love in a man all at once, especially one who doesn't want to taste the goodness of her love. All that matters now is that she gave it her best shot, another bullet wound from someone she handed the gun to.

Isn’t it ironic that the perfect moment for them to admit that they need you in their life is when you finally realize that you’re well off without them. In other words, the devil knows when you are getting close to heaven.

This heart of yours is asking for time to be still, my dear. It's begging you to move on without moving into something new, to patiently be yours for a little while, to lay and cuddle a bit longer with the peace of your own presence.

What I learned from my generation is to never love too hard. To never show anyone you can’t live without them. It’s always about who can survive without the other while attempting to commit to each other. It’s a very contradicting mindset.

Do not wait forever but do wait. Just remember that it’s not your responsibility to fix a broken man. It’s not worth your time, your effort, your love or your tears. If he’s not willing to fix himself for you, there’s nothing left to do but walk away and move beyond his selfish, immature, and ultimately abusive behavior. Not all men are broken, but you have to believe you deserve better. Expect better and you’ll receive better, it’s that simple.

Commitment without intent of marriage is a bad contract.

The day you hold her, You will feel as if you are carrying the world and all the beauty in it. She is tender and innocent, yet tough and full of fire.

The devil knows when you are getting close to heaven.

anger and love cannot grow in the same garden.

Your courage drove the coward in me insane.

...love is a marathon for those who are willing to commit to the finish line.

She will remember the moments you made her feel loved more than the times you said, “I love you.

It is silly to convince her that she is a sinner for being able to love so devotedly. It may not be normal to you, but let it be to her.

Men ought to cry because men are real people, with real feelings, real emotions

The commitment issues in me live not because I am still finding enjoyment in messing around with other women. It’s because the fear of not being man enough reigns in me.

Before you, I was a beggar Begging for attention, validation, short-term pleasure

There is no greater revenge against someone who shattered your heart into pieces than letting go and opening the door for something good to walk into your life when the time is right.

The sun and the moon take turns admiring her, the sun watches her rise, as it finds its way to the other side of the world to cover its next shift. The moon tags in to watch her sleep.

If she cannot dance without care, laugh and tell you about the most embarrassing moments in her life. She is not yet free in your presence. She is in love when finds comfort in your presence.

It happens when we expect the person we are loving to do their part and love us the same, yet they don’t. When it happens, it hurts. No one goes through this life without meeting some type of hurt or pain. Do not let that disappointment lead to a disappointed life. Do not let it harden you heart, do not let this failed attempt at love, despite what number of try it is, make you give up.

You deserve quality time, not just time. You deserve effort, not just routines. You deserve to be treated as if you are a priority, not the last thing on their checklist. You are special and you deserve to be the only option. If that is too much to ask, you are asking it from the wrong person. If begging ever becomes your last approach to receive those things which ought to be freely given, it’s safe to say, you are out of your dang mind. Begging to be loved is suicide. It’s like going sky diving from the Eiffel Tower naked of proper equipment, and expecting gravity to overturn the outcome.

Some men are afraid of committing because they see themselves in no shape to build a future with someone else. Some are insecure about where they are in life and how far they are from their goals. They don’t want to bring a struggle to the table. They want to be stable and comfortable in life first. They don’t want to feel as if they aren’t man enough. They want to be able to protect and provide without bringing the woman they love into failure with them. To the man stuck in that situation: She loves you, she wants you. The most valuable thing you can give a woman whose heart belongs to you is your time and affection. You are getting in your own way, not your financial status or failures.

there are hints in the songs she loves, they may make your ears bleed; but, they will help you interpret the words buried under her tongue and the caged thoughts of her mind.

young love is beautiful, but old love is real.

you don't need closure to find happiness again, you need to find reasons to start a new chapter, and put down that old book. here is one reason, you deserve to be happy.

The unfortunate thing is that not every existing caterpillar becomes a butterfly.

A sweet irony it would be to die for the very thing that would make you feel alive.

You violently fought against the idea of settling, planting inside your mind the belief that only dust should settle.

She has had plenty of men willing to give her the world but none were willing to make her their world.

God took his time on you, you’re proof that His most beautiful design is a woman.

Too many baby daddies not enough fathers Too many rappers not enough role models Too many entertainers not enough educators Too many preachers not enough spirit-led men

The people anyone chooses to keep in his or her circle will become influences.

Why was I told in every situation to man up and not cry? I’d manned up all my life and now my strength to stay tough broke down I felt robbed of a remedy to my pain

A first impression does make a lasting impression; sometimes it defines us to a person we’ll never see again.

Desiring a man whose efforts speak in a higher tone than his promises, isn’t too much to ask for.

If you aren’t willing to love her, do not put dents on her heart that will influence her to believe that she is hard to love. That is cruel.

Love should not cost you your sanity.

She is the same as wine, without patience you will never see how better she gets with time.

We've all been fooled by something or someone. We've seen things go a different direction than expected. It happens when we expect the person we are loving to do their part and love us the same, yet they don't. When it happens, it hurts. No one goes through this life without meeting some type of hurt or pain. Do not let that disappointment lead to a disappointed life. Do not let it harden your heart, do not let this failed attempt at love, despite what number of try it is, make you give up. It's okay to be disappointed. It's frustrating when you play the fool, but it's not okay to give birth to the fear of disappointment that will rob you of a life of love and loving life." -Pierre Alex Jeanty, Apologies That Never Came

She is a heavenly being trapped in this dark world, There is nothing I’d like to do more than remind her to never let the darkness oppress her and lead her to forget that she is made of light.

The difference is that the right one will outlast the days. The truths will stay as truth, the lies will come with sincere apologies and true repentance, and the fall will be one you won’t need to get up from.

She can be difficult, there are times her words will be heavy with stubbornness, her tongue will be sharper than a new sword and attitude like a two-year-old. Aren’t we all difficult at times? Isn’t she human like everyone else?

This heart of yours is asking for time to be still, my dear. It's begging you to move on without moving into something new, to patiently be yours for a little while, to lay and cuddle a bit longer with the peace of your own presence

This heart of yours is asking for time to be still, my dear. It's begging you to move on without moving into something new, to patiently be yours for a little while, to lay and cuddle a little bit longer with the peace of your own presence.

I think of her as a best seller, handwritten by God on pages made from his magnificent robe. her choices are every word. her eyes are every page. her heart is an untold story. each chapter may have missing paragraphs, but the further you get inside the more she will become easily comprehended. I advise that you take your time with her; learning of her has to be a marathon or you'll sprint past some important details.

I think of her as a best seller, handwritten by God on pages made from his magnificent robe. her choices are every word. her eyes are every page. her heart is an untold story. each chapter may have missing paragraphs, but the further you get inside the more she will become easily comprehended. I advise that you take your time with her; learning of her has to be a marathon or you'll sprint past some important details.

when you have to realize is that she remembers when it ended, it ended long before she left. she held on until her hand grew numb, until she grew too weak to hold on any longer. she had to convince herself far too many times to fight for practically nothing. the memories of how it started still have a special place in her mind, but you must know this: her leaving took wrestling against every part of herself. her leaving you is an act of love, realizing that she has to love herself more than she cares for you.