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Patience Is Not the Ability to Wait:
Patience is not the ability to wait. Patience is to be calm no matter what happens, constantly take action to turn it to positive growth opportunities, and have faith to believe that it will all work out in the end while you are waiting.
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Donβt let mental blocks control you. Set yourself free. Confront your fear and turn the mental blocks into building blocks.
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Think of the patience God has had for you and let it resonate to others. If you want a more patient world, let patience be your motto
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Steve Maraboli (Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience)
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We love being mentally strong, but we hate situations that allow us to put our mental strength to good use.
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Mokokoma Mokhonoana
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What good has impatience ever brought? It has only served as the mother of mistakes and the father of irritation.
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Patience is the only way you can endure the gray periods.
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Teri Hatcher (Burnt Toast: And Other Philosophies of Life)
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Youβve got to have confidence in the very thing that makes you unique β then wait for the world to catch up
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Roses do not bloom hurriedly; for beauty, like any masterpiece, takes time to blossom.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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Every flower blooms at its own pace.
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Suzy Kassem (Rise Up and Salute the Sun: The Writings of Suzy Kassem)
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Remember diamonds are created under pressure so hold on, it will be your time to shine soon.
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You're going to make it;
You're going to be at peace;
You're going to create, and love, and laugh, and live;
You're going to do great things.
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Germany Kent
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Do you know where your breakthrough begins? Your breakthrough begins where your excuses ends.
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Patience Johnson (Why Does an Orderly God Allow Disorder)
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Sometimes what seems so right turns out wrong and what seems so wrong turns out right. What do I call this phenomenon? Life.
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Charles F. Glassman (Brain Drain - The Breakthrough That Will Change Your Life)
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It is more important to go slow and gain the lessons you need along the journey then to rush the process and arrive at your destination empty.
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Germany Kent
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Patience, persistence and perspiration make an unbeatable combination for success.
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Common man's patience will bring him more happiness than common man's power.
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Goal Of LIFE Is patience,
Goal Of Patience Is LIFE!
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Wisdom is knowing the right thing to do and doing it at the right time to get the desired result. It is also the correct application of knowledge.
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In our culture we tend to equate thinking and intellectual powers with success and achievement. In many ways, however, it is an emotional quality that separates those who master a field from the many who simply work at a job. Our levels of desire, patience, persistence, and confidence end up playing a much larger role in success than sheer reasoning powers. Feeling motivated and energized, we can overcome almost anything. Feeling bored and restless, our minds shut off and we become increasingly passive.
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A well-built physique is a status symbol. It reflects you worked hard for it, no money can buy it. You cannot inherit it. You cannot steal it. You cannot borrow it. You cannot hold on to it without constant work. It shows dedication. It shows discipline. It shows self-respect. It shows dignity. It shows patience, work ethic, passion. That is why it's attractive to me.
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Have and show motivation to do and learn. That's the key for a good career. Everything else is an extrapolation of that.
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Sometimes great achievements arrive much later than we expect, but they arrive, and they are great.
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Without the desire to be patient patience doesn't happen,
Just like without the desire to grow, LIFE doesn't happen!
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A man with wisdom will always have a solution no matter how big his challenges may be. Wisdom makes you a problem solver.
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Every great accomplishment begins with a dream, never forget that within us all is the fortitude, patience and passion to change destiny.
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You canβt think about how much you have left to do because thatβs just one thought, one sad thought, thatβll make you bummed out all day long. Instead youβve got to think about how much youβve already done.
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You're the beginning,
You're the ending,
You're the one who rides the waves of my emotions,
One who makes me compassionate,
One who's the light of my dark self,
I'll be the one always testing your patience,
I'll be the one always annoying you,
I'll be the one always hurting you,
Why?
Because I know you'll always be there to bear the jokes I crack,
To tolerate my inside chaos,
To see my vulnerable self,
To misinterpreting your actions & intentions,
I'll always be hardcore to deal with,
Taking you over the edge,
Because that's what I only know.
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Hareem Ch (Hankering for Tranquility)
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Perseverance, endurance and patience are the three greatest survival skills.
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Serendipity is not the product of patience; itβs the product of action.
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There is a miracle in your mess, don't let the mess make you miss the miracle.
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How Many Marriages Would Be Better If the Husband and the Wife Clearly Understood That They're On the Same Side?
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Zig Ziglar (Great Quotes from Zig Ziglar: 250 Inspiring Quotes from the Master Motivator and Friends)
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Be (with) someone that promotes a healthy state of being: mind, body, and soul.
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Nature is a constant reminder of the beauty of consistence, the utility of patience and persistence, the vanity of arrogance, and the necessity of impermanence.
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Trust is the highest form of human motivation. It brings out the very best in people. But it takes time and patience, and it doesnβt preclude the necessity to train and develop people so that their competency can rise to the level of that trust.
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SUCCESS TONIC
β’ 1 tsp confidence
β’ 1 tsp courage
β’ 2 tsp patience
β’ 4 tsp prayer
β’ 4 tsp perseverance
β’ 4 tsp joy
β’ 6 tsp enthusiasm
Take one teaspoonful of this tonic three times daily.
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Patience, more than the ability to bear pains or endure waiting, is to be calm no matter what happens β constantly take action to turn it to positive growth opportunities β and have faith to believe that it will all work out in the end while you are waiting.
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Success is not the result of making one good choice, of taking one step. Real success requires step, after step, after step, after step. It requires choice after choice, it demands life-long education and passion and commitment and persistence and hunger and patience.
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Our levels of desire, patience, persistence, and confidence end up playing a much larger role in success than sheer reasoning powers. Feeling motivated and energized, we can overcome almost anything. Feeling bored and restless, our minds shut
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Robert Greene (Mastery)
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God promotes you based on your heart not based on your head. Your head might be right but if your heart is not right you will mess up the promotion. Men looks at the outward but God looks at the heart. From the heart flows the issues of life.
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School does not make people, it is learning that makes people great, that is why you see first class students fail and poor. The world is not ruled by those who went to school, it is ruled by those who learn everyday.
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Stay strong in spirit, be patient and you will overcome any situation.
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Lailah Gifty Akita (Think Great: Be Great! (Beautiful Quotes, #1))
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Be careful because God's gifts alone are not able to give you joy; God's gift can only bring you joy when they are joined with your gratitude.
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All the failures in my life freed me from all my fears so that I can succeed.
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Wisdom cannot be bought from the walmart, it can only come from the Holy Spirit of God.
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Love begets joy.
Joy begets peace.
Peace begets patience.
Patience begets kindness.
Kindness begets goodness.
Goodness begets faithfulness.
Faithfulness begets gentleness.
Gentleness begets self-control.
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Something important I have learned is patience, and turning each failure into a learning experience. ..Instead of calling them "failures" I call them "lessons". Instead of saying, "I failed at that," I say, "I learned from that." Each failure has taught me something incredibly valuable and by recognizing this I can see the hand of God in my life in situations where most people would feel abandoned by Him.
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Start today creating a vision for yourself, your life, and your career. Bounce back from adversity and create what you want, rebuild and rebrand. Tell yourself it's possible along the way, have patience, and maintain peace with yourself during the process.
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Sometimes what not to do is more important than what to do. Sometimes when you are in crisis, when frustration are high or when you are under pressure, what you don't do is more important than what you do. Don't be afraid. ....
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The secret of making lasting change is to acknowledge and accept that real change takes time and patience. We didn't get chronically ill overnight. We didn't gain weight in one week or even one month. Good chance, it may take us longer than twenty-one days to overcome whatever we're facing. Whether it's something physical, emotional, spiritual, or a combination, we may need to be realistic in our goals for meaningful change to happen. The first step is getting started!
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Ladder of success is made by nails of Patience.
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Vikrmn: CA Vikram Verma (Guru with Guitar)
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Always try to fix what is broken so that when the blessings come, you will be able to receive it. This generation does a lot of right things for wrong reasons.
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There are too many stars in the sky and none of them is overshadowing the other. Don't let anybody be a threat to your growth.
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Even with fasting and prayers you still need wisdom. At the root of every great accomplishment is wisdom. In all your getting get wisdom first.
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When it all comes together, it is oddly beautiful and it makes sense.
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Practice patience to get the results but don't be much patient to take actions.
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Patience is the ability to enjoy the calm of boredom.
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No man's advice can change you unless you speak to yourself. Bible school or seminars can't change you, going to church can't change you except you decide to change.
Psalm 139:23 - 24
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Offering care means being a companion, not a superior. It doesnβt matter whether the person we are caring for is experiencing cancer, the flu, dementia, or grief.
If you are a doctor or surgeon, your expertise and knowledge comes from a superior position. But when our role is to be providers of care, we should be there as equals.
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If you ask me I think the greatest breakthrough each and everyone of us need is not on finance, marriage, work, relationship, own house, car but self. The first breakthrough should start from being selfish.
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But confining myself more to the particular, I say that a prince may be seen happy to-day and ruined to-morrow without having shown any change of disposition or character. This, I believe, arises firstly from causes that have already been discussed at length, namely, that the prince who relies entirely upon fortune is lost when it changes. I believe also that he will be successful who directs his actions according to the spirit of the times, and that he whose actions do not accord with the times will not be successful. Because men are seen, in affairs that lead to the end which every man has before him, namely, glory and riches, to get there by various methods; one with caution, another with haste; one by force, another by skill; one by patience, another by its opposite; and each one succeeds in reaching the goal by a different method. One can also see of two cautious men the one attain his end, the other fail; and similarly, two men by different observances are equally successful, the one being cautious, the other impetuous; all this arises from nothing else than whether or not they conform in their methods to the spirit of the times. This follows from what I have said, that two men working differently bring about the same effect, and of two working similarly, one attains his object and the other does not.
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Gratitude without practicing maybe like practicing a faith without good work. A grateful heart is not enough without a grateful habit; because your joy is not produced by what you put in your heart but by habit you put in your life.
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If a man works without any selfish motive in view, does he not gain anything? Yes, he gains the highest. Unselfishness is more paying, only people have not the patience to practice it. It is more paying from the point of view of health also. Love, truth, and unselfishness are not merely moral figures of speech, but they form our highest ideal, because in them lies such a manifestation of power. In the first place, a man who can work for five days, or even for five minutes, without any selfish motive whatever, without thinking of future, of heaven, of punishment, or anything of the kind, has in him the capacity to become a powerful moral giant. It is hard to do it, but in the heart of our hearts we know its value, and the good it brings. It is the greatest manifestation of power β this tremendous restraint; self-restraint is a manifestation of greater power than all outgoing action.
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Sure we all need money but what do you really focus on? It is a matter of the heart. If your thoughts are on material and worldly things, no good fruits can come out of it.
Seek the kingdom of God first and the other things shall be added unto you not vice versa.
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Show me a man who mistakes patience for weakness and Iβll show you a fool.
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Patience is something I canβt wait to have!
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God is not interested in helping you finding out why you are in a mess, He is interested in fixing it.
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All my pains has always increased my sense of purpose.
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Whenever you are in transition it is always important to choose the words that you use. You call it crises in your life and I call it transition.
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Be careful the mistake of yesterday always lives with tomorrow.
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If want to become a person with vision, get back and reconnect to your source.
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In politics no permanent friends, no permanent enemies but permanent interest.
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There is no gift of principles, you must apply them if you want to move forward.
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Wisdom is the mother of solutions. You cannot upgrade in wisdom and lack solutions and you cannot have a wisdom and be stranded in any challenge you face.
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A lot of people pray for power, house, financial breakthrough, wealth etc. But only few ask God for wisdom. There are so many great power pack man and women of God who lack wisdom.
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You cannot occupy a proper place on earth without wisdom. It is the principal thing you must have.
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What you see and what you listen to will determine how high you will go.
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The forgiveness of God flows through me and because I am forgiven, I can forgive.
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Freedom comes from focus, focus brings freedom. Focus on fear you will always be in prison, focus on faith and is nothing the world can keep you knocked down.
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Slavery of the soul is worst than the slavery of the flesh.....
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Your body can be in captivity, your life can be in captivity, but there is only one thing you should not allow to be in captivity; that is your soul.
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Never assume that because you cannot see the answer, there is no answer. There is. Give it prayer. Give it faith. Give it patience. Give it time. You will have your answer eventually.
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A good leader doesnβt have to know everything. Nobody knows everything thatβs why you surround yourself with people who are experts in different areas.
βThatβs what makes a good leader.
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How much kindness should I show?
Enough to set all hearts aglow.
Just how patient must I be?
Enough to calm the stormy sea.
How much love doth God require?
Enough to lift the heavens higher.
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If negative emotions have gain access into your heart, it is because you have given it attention. If memories of pain and hurt dominates your heart, it is because you gave them attention. How can a memory hurt you when it has only happened? It can only hurt you when you give it attention.
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Trying to go faster than the Lordβs timing is like trying to cross a bridge before the entire structure is built. Trust God. Trust his timetable. He will help you traverse stormy waters safely.
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It seems important to me to distinguish between religion and spirituality. Religion implies a system of beliefs based on metaphysical foundations, along with the teaching of dogmas, rituals, or prayers. Spirituality, however, corresponds to the development of human qualities such as love, compassion, patience, tolerance, forgiveness, or a sense of responsibility. These inner qualities, which are a source of happiness for oneself and for others, are independent of any religion. That is why I have sometimes stated that one can do without religion, but not without spirituality. And an altruistic motivation is the unifying element of the qualities that I define as spiritual. Β
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[Young] adults who take gap years tended to be less motivated than their peers before the gap year. But after their gap year, most of them find new motivation. They had higher performance outcomes, career choice formation, improved employability, and a variety of life skills. The gap year can be seen as an educational process in which skills and critical reflection contribute to an individual's development.
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Be your best self and do not imitate anyone else. Find your strengths. They are your talents. They will make you smile and cause you to real joy on the inside.
Donβt listen to those who ridicule the choices you make or the dreams you share. Let no one despise your youth. As Og Mandino explained in The Greatest Salesman in the World, βExperience is overrated, usually by old men who nod wisely and speak stupidly.β Create your own experiences. And know that you are creating memories for a lifetime.
Life is not about finding yourself; it is about creating yourself.
You have to take chances to make your dreams reality. Face your fears head-on and move rapidly. Donβt be afraid of making mistakes. Make lots of them! Your odds for success will increase with the number of decisions you make.
Have patience with your dreams and the expectations you have for others. Be impatient with yourself daily. Live as if this is your last day. Say βI love youβ to all those who matter. Know that everyone matters.
You must play full-out right now. Sit up, hold your head high. Breathe deeply. Lift your chest up. Stand up straight and with confidence. Dust yourself off. Stop being a party pooper in your own life. Smile. A bigger noticeable smile. Start acting happy. Yes, you act first. I promise the feeling of happiness will soon follow.
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If you want to see the beauty of any fish, throw it into the water, you will see how best it can swim because that is its source. Do you want to see the beauty in you? Don't look in the mirror, don't put on makeups, no jewelleries or expensive designer clothes, just go back and reconnect to your source and I bet, the best of you will show up. Until you return back to God, your best won't come out because He is your source.
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The open door is never behind you; the open door is always before you. Quit looking at your past life and mistakes. Look unto Jesus who is the Author and Perfector of our faith. Your open door is not in the opportunity you missed ten years ago, it is not in some stuffs behind you that you can't get back. You can't gain your access by giving attention to your past life.
Your past days are behind you and what God has for you is in front of you. Just pay attention.
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You can't love me if you don't love you, you can't think of nothing to do with me if you can't think of nothing to do with yourself, stop feeling sorry for yourself and tidy up, clean up the apartment until you get a house, do that job until you build your own company. Look at what you have and think on how to make it better.
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They have courage, but not your faith;
patience, but not your long suffering;
composure, but not your discipline;
skill, but not your talent;
ability, but not your mastery;
ego, but not your confidence;
facts, but not your truth;
money, but not your wealth;
possessions, but not your joy;
intelligence, but not your wisdom;
strength, but not your power;
connections, but not your character;
education, but not your experience;
position, but not your authority;
force, but not your command;
awards, but not your merit;
titles, but not your honor;
recognition, but not your dignity;
fame, but not your influence;
resources, but not your blessing;
and chance, but not your destiny.
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A cloth seller is wandering from street to street. Itβs evening, still no sales. It feels like he is walking through a desert, dying to get a drop of water, dying to make a sale. He is frustrated now. He gets angry at a customer who actually wanted to buy a lot of clothes from him.
Those who walk miles and miles through a desert often die just a few feet away from water.
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This is therefore a time, not for unkindly criticism of fellow Christians, but for friendly conference; not for disputing over divergent views, but for united action; not for dogmatic assertion of prophetic programs, but for the humble acknowledgment that βwe know in part;β not for idle dreaming, but for the immediate task of evangelizing a lost world. For such effort, no one truth is more inspiring, than that of the return of Christ. None other can make us sit more lightly by the things of time, none other is more familiar as a Scriptural motive to purity, holiness, patience, vigilance, love.
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Amos 3:3
βDoes This Person Belong in your Life?β
A toxic relationship is like a limb with gangrene: unless you amputate it the infection can spread and kill you. Without the courage to cut off what refuses to heal, youβll end up losing a lot more. Your personal growth - and in some cases your healing - will only be expedited by establishing relationships with the right people. Maybe youβve heard the story about the scorpion who asked the frog to carry him across the river because he couldnβt swim. βIβm afraid youβll sting me,β replied the frog. The scorpion smiled reassuringly and said, βOf course I wonβt. If I did that weβd both drown!β So the frog agreed, and the scorpion hopped on his back. Wouldnβt you know it: halfway across the river the scorpion stung him! As they began to sink the frog lamented, βYou promised you wouldnβt sting me. Whyβd you do it?β The scorpion replied, βI canβt help it. Itβs my nature!β Until God changes the other personβs nature, they have the power to affect and infect you. For example, when you feel passionately about something but others donβt, itβs like trying to dance a foxtrot with someone who only knows how to waltz. You picked the wrong dance partner! Donβt get tied up with someone who doesnβt share your values and God-given goals. Some issues can be corrected through counselling, prayer, teaching, and leadership. But you canβt teach someone to care; if they donβt care theyβll pollute your environment, kill your productivity, and break your rhythm with constant complaints. Thatβs why itβs important to pray and ask God, βDoes this person belong in my life?
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Thereβs an interesting story about Abraham Lincoln. During the American Civil War he signed an order transferring certain regiments, but Secretary of War Edwin Stanton refused to execute it, calling the president a fool. When Lincoln heard he replied, βIf Stanton said Iβm a fool then I must be, for heβs nearly always right, and he says what he thinks. Iβll step over and see for myself.β He did, and when Stanton convinced him the order was in error, Lincoln quietly withdrew it. Part of Lincolnβs greatness lay in his ability to rise above pettiness, ego, and sensitivity to other peopleβs opinions. He wasnβt easily offended. He welcomed criticism, and in doing so demonstrated one of the strengths of a truly great person: humility. So, have you been criticised? Make it a time to learn, not lose.
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SCRIPTURE READING: EPHESIANS 4:1β15 KEY VERSES: EPHESIANS 4:14β15 That [you] . . . speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the headβChrist. The pattern Jesus gave us to live by is one of love. Paul wrote, βI . . . implore you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing tolerance for one another in loveβ (Eph. 4:1β2 NASB). As a believer, live each day in such a way that your life honors the Lord, who saved you through His mercy and grace. This means to live in a βmanner worthyβ of your calling. How did Jesus call you? Did He come to you with a list of demands, requiring you to fulfill each one before He would consider caring for you? No. He came to you in love. Redemptive love brought Him to earth so that you might receive eternal salvation. Love was all the motivation He needed to be crucified at Calvary. His love watches over you, protects you, plans your future, and encourages you not to give up in times of sorrow and discouragement. You will spend eternity in the radiant goodness and greatness of His blessings, all because He chooses to love you. Love that is from God is humble and gentle. It loves with the surety of Christ. Someone today is hurting because he thinks God could not possibly love him. You know the truth about His love; will you tell him? Thank You, Lord, that I know the truth about Your love. Help me to share it with others. (SEEKING HIS FACE)
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Charles F. Stanley (I Lift Up My Soul: Devotions to Start Your Day with God)
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Hope is more than wishing things will work out. It is resting in the God who holds all things in his wise and powerful hands. We use the word hope in a variety of ways. Sometimes it connotes a wish about something over which we have no control at all. We say, βI sure hope the train comes soon,β or, βI hope it doesnβt rain on the day of the picnic.β These are wishes for things, but we wouldnβt bank on them. The word hope also depicts what we think should happen. We say, βI hope he will choose to be honest this time,β or, βI hope the judge brings down a guilty verdict.β Here hope reveals an internal sense of morality or justice. We also use hope in a motivational sense. We say, βI did this in the hope that it would pay off in the end,β or, βI got married in the hope that he would treat me in marriage the way he treated me in courtship.β All of this is to say that because the word hope is used in a variety of ways, it is important for us to understand how this word is used in Scripture or in its gospel sense. Biblical hope is foundationally more than a faint wish for something. Biblical hope is deeper than moral expectation, although it includes that. Biblical hope is more than a motivation for a choice or action, although it is that as well. So what is biblical hope? It is a confident expectation of a guaranteed result that changes the way you live. Letβs pull this definition apart. First, biblical hope is confident. It is confident because it is not based on your wisdom, faithfulness, or power, but on the awesome power, love, faithfulness, grace, patience, and wisdom of God. Because God is who he is and will never, ever change, hope in him is hope well placed and secure. Hope is also an expectation of a guaranteed result. It is being sure that God will do all that he has planned and promised to do. You see, his promises are only as good as the extent of his rule, but since he rules everything everywhere, I know that resting in the promises of his grace will never leave me empty and embarrassed. I may not understand what is happening and I may not know what is coming around the corner, but I know that God does and that he controls it all. So even when I am confused, I can have hope, because my hope does not rest on my understanding, but on Godβs goodness and his rule. Finally, true hope changes the way you live. When you have hope that is guaranteed, you live with confidence and courage that you would otherwise not have. That confidence and courage cause you to make choices of faith that would seem foolish to someone who does not have your hope. If youβre Godβs child, you never have to live hopelessly, because hope has invaded your life by grace, and his name is Jesus! For further study and encouragement: Psalm 20
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Paul David Tripp (New Morning Mercies: A Daily Gospel Devotional)
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8 Ways to Shine a Positive Light on Others
1. Let the other person appear smart. The person who desperately tries to be the smartest person in the room inevitably comes off as the least.
2. Donβt bring attention to anything which may embarrass another person. Whether your conversation partner has poor grammar, a pimple on his chin, or lacks social grace, a discreet person does not say or do anything which would make another feel ashamed, embarrassed, or humiliated. Allow the other person to maintain his own grace and dignity.
3. Ask their opinions, seek their advice, ask them inquiring questions. By allowing them to reveal their opinions and knowledge, you will demonstrate respect and make them feel important.
4. Practice patience. Sometimes it takes a person a moment to gather her thoughts, process information, or respond appropriately. Your patience is respectful and appreciated.
5. Maintain your calm. Rather than react with anger or defensiveness, regulate your response and shift the energy into a more positive direction.
6. Put your ego aside. Allow another to triumph and enjoy the spotlight.
7. Be aware and concerned for the feelings of others.
8. Purposely seek ways to put others at ease and make them feel comfortable.
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Susan C. Young (The Art of Connection: 8 Ways to Enrich Rapport & Kinship for Positive Impact (The Art of First Impressions for Positive Impact, #6))