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My father taught me that you can you read a hundred books on wisdom and write a hundred books on wisdom, but unless you apply what you learned then its only words on a page. Life is not lived with intentions, but action.
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Shannon L. Alder
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...The human mind is a complicated place...We hold on to things, images, words, ideas, histories that we don't even know we're holding on to.
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Corey Ann Haydu (OCD Love Story)
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Feelings are like blankets, covering you up so you can't see clearly, or like mazes you can too easily get lost inside. I am terrified of getting lost.
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Corey Ann Haydu (OCD Love Story)
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Maybe we ought to look at a guy's response to our microwave from now on." Aunt Annie said.
Really." Mom said. "The narcissist looks at his reflection in it. The OCD guy thinks you don't keep it clean enough.The antisocial--"
Puts his fist through it because it reminds him of his father." Annie said. She'd read all of mom's books, too.
And the paranoid one would be jealous of the amount of time you spend cooking." Mom said
Were you using that microwave again? Is something going on between the two of you? I caught you looking right at its clock." Annie said.
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Deb Caletti (The Secret Life of Prince Charming)
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βOCD, ADHDβpretty sure if they come up with some new acronym tomorrow Iβd have it.
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Miley Styles (I See The Devil)
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We must respond to life's most difficult questions by humbly conceding 'I don't know the answer, and that's okay.
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Sheva Rajaee (Relationship OCD: A CBT-Based Guide to Move Beyond Obsessive Doubt, Anxiety, and Fear of Commitment in Romantic Relationships)
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I knew I could get help and, more importantly, get better. Because suddenly I wasnβt bad, it was bad. It was no longer me, it was something else. I wasnβt schizophrenic, or psychotic, or any of the other things I thought I was. I had Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, or OCD. In that unforgettable moment, I took back some of my power β chunks of it flooding into my psyche, called in from afar, returning home to me.
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Dana Da Silva (The Shift: A Memoir)
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At the Chinese restaurant, I stared out the window overlooking a tranquil garden with water features, ponds covered in lily pads, and koi fish. Amid the serenity and smell of dumplings, I struggled to breathe. It seemed the walls were closing in, and everyone was looking at me. Words danced around on the menu. I didnβt want the waiter near us. I wanted to shrink until I popped and disappeared.
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Dana Da Silva (The Shift: A Memoir)
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One of the great breakthroughs in my own recovery was coming to understand that, while I canβt rid myself of the nagging βwhat ifβ questions that plague me, I can choose not to give them my attention.
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Jeff Bell (When in Doubt, Make Belief: An OCD-Inspired Approach to Living with Uncertainty)
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When I am fully immersed in my work of nourishing humanity, it fills my head with all kinds of feel-good chemicals, such as endorphins, serotonin and dopamine. Problems occur during the brief intervals between the finishing of one work and the beginning of another. During these intervals, my biology starts to get filled with stress hormones cortisol and adrenalin, that worsens my OCD. That is why, I canβt sit still even a day after I finish writing a book. Because if I do, my OCD begins to suffocate me inside my head. Hence, as soon as I deliver a work, I have to start working on my next scientific literature.
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Abhijit Naskar (The Islamophobic Civilization: Voyage of Acceptance (Neurotheology Series))
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Though it may be a constant battle, let us not forget the strength and resilience it takes to face our fears and overcome the obstacles that OCD presents. Every step forward, no matter how small, is a triumph worth celebrating.
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Dr. Rameez Shaikh
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A particularly inspiring story was told by a mother whose autistic son just wanted to play with shapes and shadows. He was failing in his βSpecial Edβ program, where he was being forced to do things he didnβt want to do. She found that the more she encouraged him to do what he enjoyed, the more his shell cracked open. And when she followed his interests and made resources available to him to support those interests, he began to talk and to thrive. When he was three years old, she was told that he would never talk. At eleven years of age, he enrolled in a university and began studying mathematics.
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Anne Maxwell (Would You Teach a Fish to Climb a Tree?: A Different Take on Kids with ADD, ADHD, OCD and Autism)
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I have a confession. I'm a little OCD when I post on social media β I tend to edit more than I should. But then I started thinking, maybe we should all edit a little more - our posts, our thoughts, our words.
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Traci Lea LaRussa
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I wrote this handbook because I've repeatedly seen neurodivergent individuals believe they're broken, when in truth, they are simply different. This difference isn't a flaw to fix; it's a unique way of being human that deserves profound understanding, steadfast support, and heartfelt celebration.
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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Your neurodivergent brain isn't something to overcome. It's something to understand, appreciate, and work with. Let's figure out how to do that, together. You Already Have Everything You Need.
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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For anyone who was ever told they were too much or not enough, who tried to fit into boxes that were never made for them, who was told to quiet their spark or dim their light to make others comfortable, and who has been waiting their whole lives to hear: You are exactly right as you are. It is your time to thrive.
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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NeuroFlex ACT is grounded in the belief that: Your brainβs operating system is not broken; itβs different, and that difference is a source of strength.
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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NeuroFlex ACT isnβt about striving to fit a mold. Itβs about unfolding into your authentic self, with tools that honor your wiring and your humanity.
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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Adopting this strengths-based view doesn't mean pretending challenges don't exist. It means reframing them. Instead of asking 'What's wrong with me?' you get to ask 'What are my unique strengths? What do I need to thrive? What kind of support would actually help?
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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You're not less than anyone else. You're a vital, irreplaceable part of what makes humanity diverse, creative, and whole.
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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At its core, neurodivergence simply means your brain works differently than what's considered typical. Think of it like this: if neurotypical brains run on one operating system, yours runs on another. Neither is better or worse. They're just different. And that difference? It's not a bug in your code. It's a feature.
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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Your brain isn't broken. It's beautifully, uniquely yours.
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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Embracing this identity means something powerful: instead of trying to squeeze yourself into a mold that was never meant for you, you get to understand your actual strengths, honor your real needs, and live as your authentic self.
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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To understand the neurodivergent mind is not to fix it, but to learn its language, honor its rhythm, and discover the strength in difference. This is where that journey begins.
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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Neurodivergence doesnβt follow a straight line. It curves, overlaps, and branches into complex, beautiful configurations.
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Ronen Dancziger (The Therapist's Handbook for Neurodivergent People: A NeuroFlex ACT Guide for Living Fully with ADHD, Autism, OCD, and a Neurodivergent Life)
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The world doesnβt need you to shrink into its boxes. It needs you to stand tall in your unique brilliance and build bridges wide enough for others to walk beside you. Every time you show up as you are, ask for what you need, or celebrate your differences, you strengthen those bridges. With each person who crosses, the world grows richer with the creativity, insight, and joy that only comes when every mind has room to thrive.
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