Long.distance Quotes

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Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it inflames the great.
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Roger de Rabutin
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I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.
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Steve Maraboli (Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience)
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I'm often asked what I think about as I run. Usually the people who ask this have never run long distances themselves. I always ponder the question. What exactly do I think about when I'm running? I don't have a clue.
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Haruki Murakami (What I Talk About When I Talk About Running)
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I don't cry because we've been separated by distance, and for a matter of years. Why? Because for as long as we share the same sky and breathe the same air, we're still together.
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Donna Lynn Hope
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Returning home is the most difficult part of long-distance hiking; You have grown outside the puzzle and your piece no longer fits.
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Cindy Ross
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When you have only two minutes to say good-bye to the person you love most in the world, and you don’t know when you’ll see each other again, you can become logjammed with the effort to say and do and settle everything at once.
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Elizabeth Gilbert (Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage)
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Long distance is hard. You have to trust that as you each change on your own, your relationship will also change along with you. It takes hope, good humor, and idealism. It takes a massive dose of courage to protect the relationship at all odds. It is hard, but worth it. You'll both be stronger as a result.
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Craig M. Mullaney (The Unforgiving Minute: A Soldier's Education)
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One travels long distances not solely for large gatherings, but for something more intangible. I have always gone out on a limb for love. A dangerous, romantic, disappointing way to live.
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Jennifer Ball (Higher Math: The Book Moose Minnion Never Wrote)
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For me, running is both exercise and a metaphor. Running day after day, piling up the races, bit by bit I raise the bar, and by clearing each level I elevate myself. At least that’s why I’ve put in the effort day after day: to raise my own level. I’m no great runner, by any means. I’m at an ordinary – or perhaps more like mediocre – level. But that’s not the point. The point is whether or not I improved over yesterday. In long-distance running the only opponent you have to beat is yourself, the way you used to be.
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Haruki Murakami (What I Talk About When I Talk About Running)
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With each reunion (we) had to learn each other all over again. There was always that nervous moment at the airport when I would stand there waiting for him to arrive, wondering, Will I still know him? Will he still know me?
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Elizabeth Gilbert (Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage)
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Mga 3days-3weeks tapos unahan na yan mag-offline kunyari naputol connection ng internet pero naputol na yung mental and emotional connection.
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Ramon Bautista (Bakit Hindi Ka Crush ng Crush Mo?)
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I found that I missed him the more he was absent from my life, and the more I missed him, the more I loved him.
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Donna Lynn Hope (Willow (Willow Falls Saga, #1))
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Sometimes it's necessary to go a long distance out of the way in order to come back a short distance correctly.
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Edward Albee
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I have late night conversations with the moon; he tells me about the sun, and I tell him about you.
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S.L. Gray (Skin, Bones, and Too Much Love)
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You're too far for my hands to hold you, but too near for my heart to love you.
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Heraline
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The Quiet World In an effort to get people to look into each other’s eyes more, and also to appease the mutes, the government has decided to allot each person exactly one hundred and sixty-seven words, per day. When the phone rings, I put it to my ear without saying hello. In the restaurant I point at chicken noodle soup. I am adjusting well to the new way. Late at night, I call my long distance lover, proudly say I only used fifty-nine today. I saved the rest for you. When she doesn’t respond, I know she’s used up all her words, so I slowly whisper I love you thirty-two and a third times. After that, we just sit on the line and listen to each other breathe.
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Jeffrey McDaniel (Forgiveness Parade)
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I know we loved each other, but distance can do strange things to people and before I was willing to tell you about it, I wanted to be certain that it would last
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Nicholas Sparks (Nights in Rodanthe)
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Jesus said several times, β€œCome, follow me.” His was a program of β€œdo what I do,” rather than β€œdo what I say.” His innate brilliance would have permitted him to put on a dazzling display, but that would have left his followers far behind. He walked and worked with those he was to serve. His was not a long-distance leadership. He was not afraid of close friendships; he was not afraid that proximity to him would disappoint his followers. The leaven of true leadership cannot lift others unless we are with and serve those to be led.
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Spencer W. Kimball
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She affected me, even when she was absent.
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Shannon A. Thompson (Seconds Before Sunrise (Timely Death, #2))
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There seemed to be a mystifying universal conspiracy among textbook authors to make certain the material they dealt with never strayed too near the realm of the mildly interesting and was always at least a long-distance phone call from the frankly interesting.
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Bill Bryson (A Short History of Nearly Everything)
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People were... exhausting. They made her anxious. Leaving her apartment every morning was the turning over of a giant hourglass, the mental energy she’d stored up overnight eroding grain by grain. She refueled during the day by grabbing moments of solitude and sometimes felt her life was a long-distance swim between islands of silence.
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Abbi Waxman (The Bookish Life of Nina Hill)
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The sun sliced through the windshield, sealing me in light. I closed my eyes and felt the warmth on my eyelids. Sunlight traveled a long distance to reach this planet; an infinitesimal portion of that sunlight was enough to warm my eyelids. I was moved. That something as insignificant as an eyelid had its place in the workings on the universe, that the cosmic order did not overlook this momentary fact.
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Haruki Murakami
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Long-distance relationships are another way of avoiding intimacy.
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Danielle Steel (The Wedding)
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It's one of those things a person has to do; sometimes a person has to go a very long distance out of his way to come back a short distance correctly.
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Edward Albee (The American Dream & The Zoo Story)
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It’s a strange feeling. Everywhere I go, I’m the first. Step outside the rover? First guy ever to be there! Climb a hill? First guy to climb that hill! Kick a rock? That rock hadn’t moved in a million years! I’m the first guy to drive long-distance on Mars. The first guy to spend more than thirty-one sols on Mars. The first guy to grow crops on Mars. First, first, first!
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Andy Weir (The Martian: Stranded on Mars, one astronaut fights to survive)
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Living alone,' November whispered, 'is a skill, like running long distance or programming old computers. You have to know parameters, protocols. You have to learn them so well that they become like a language: to have music always so that the silence doesn't overwhelm you, to perform your work exquisitely well so that your time is filled. You have to allow yourself to open up until you are the exact size of the place you live, no more or else you get restless. No less, or else you drown. There are rules; there are ways of being and not being.
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Catherynne M. Valente (Palimpsest)
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The scary thing about distance is you don't know whether they'll miss you or forget you.
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The Notebook
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But I also realize that winning doesn't always mean getting first place; it means getting the best out of yourself.
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Meb Keflezighi (Run to Overcome: The Inspiring Story of an American Champion's Long-Distance Quest to Achieve a Big Dream)
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I've pushed your love away and I've run from you, sometimes I've checked out, but this is the reason. I just couldn't understand what we have. I mean we have never met in real life, yet we've loved each other for over 3 years.
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Chimnese Davids (My Unrequited Love Letters)
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Even though I always came back, he said he was always watching me leave.
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Kimberly Novosel (Loved)
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We need to bridge our sense of loneliness and disconnection with a sense of community and continuity even if we must manufacture it from our time on the Web and our use of calling cards to connect long distance. We must β€œlog on” somewhere, and if it is only in cyberspace, that is still far better than nowhere at all. (264)
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Julia Cameron (God is No Laughing Matter: Observations and Objections on the Spiritual Path)
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Meanwhile the 3 a.m. drunks of the world would lay in their beds, trying in vain to sleep, and deserving that rest, if they could find it.
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Charles Bukowski
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It's been a year and 3 months since we've kissed, and I rather have the ghost of his mouth on my lips than kiss anyone else.
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Alishah Khan
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Our lives were now worlds apart, separated by time, circumstance, and the unbridgeable chasm of money.
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Travis Luedke (The Shepherd)
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If you found that one person who is really worth the sacrifices, pain, and hardships then your efforts will not go to waste.
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Anna Agoncillo (Psychology Of Love, Money, & Life)
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Reading is human contact, and the range of our human contacts is what makes us what we are. Just imagine you live the life of a long-distance truck driver. The books that you read are like the travelers you take into your cab. If you give lifts to people who are cultured and profound, you'll learn a lot from them. If you pick up fools, you'll turn into a fool yourself.
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Victor Pelevin (The Sacred Book of the Werewolf)
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My heart is your home, wherever in the world you are – you will always have a place to stay.
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K.A. Hill
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Distance is nothing when you are something.
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Zarry Hendrik (Dear Zarry's)
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Long distance relationships through mobile communication generally becomes poor because of the weak signals and ends up due to jammed networks
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Amit Abraham
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We were together even when we were apart.
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Shannon A. Thompson (Death Before Daylight (Timely Death, #3))
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Distance simply means separation in place but never in connections. Heart remains inseparable.
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DhelChen
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Another dream. Another long-distance call on my phantom party line. No wonder i had steadfastly refused to have dreams for most of my life. So stupid; such pointless, obvious symbols. Totally uncontrollable anxiety soup, hateful, blatant nonsense.
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Jeff Lindsay (Darkly Dreaming Dexter (Dexter, #1))
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simply-quotes Follow I close my eyes, thinking that there is nothing like an embrace after an absence, nothing like fitting my face into the curve of his shoulder and filling my lungs with the scent of him.
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Jodi Picoult (Keeping Faith)
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Our life is like a land journey, too even and easy and dull over long distances across the plains, too hard and painful up the steep grades; but, on the summits of the mountain, you have a magnificent view--and feel exalted--and your eyes are full of happy tears--and you want to sing--and wish you had wings! And then--you can't stay there, but must continue your journey--you begin climbing down the other side, so busy with your footholds that your summit experience is forgotten.
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Lloyd C. Douglas (The Robe)
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Friendships - and indeed most relationships - are measured in the closeness of hearts, minds and soul ties... not in the distance of physical miles or even the passing of time.
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Rasheed Ogunlaru
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At that moment, I knew we could last past the end of summer. That with Parker, I could make a long-distance relationship work.That relationships were a lot like roller coasters. filled with highs and lows, terrifying split seconds, and awesome moments when you simply enjoy the ride.
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Rachel Hawthorne (Thrill Ride)
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Freedom is not a reward or a decoration that you toast in champagne. On the contrary, it's hard graft and a long-distance run, all alone, very exhausting. Alone in a dreary room, alone in the dock before the judges, and alone to make up your mind, before yourself and before the judgement of others. At the end of every freedom there is a sentence, which is why freedom is too heavy to bear.
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Albert Camus (The Fall)
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How do you know if something is real? That’s easy. Does it change you? Does it form you? Does it give you wings? Does it give you roots? Does it make you look back at a month ago and say, β€œI am a whole different person right now”? If yes, then it’s real. The evidence of truth and reality, lies in how much something can touch you, can change you, even if it’s from very far away. Distance is only the evidence of what can be surpassed.
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C. JoyBell C.
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Just as it did when I spoke to you that day from the phone, your face comes into focus more and more as I hold you here beside me.
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Craig Clevenger (Dermaphoria)
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When two souls are one, they hear each other, even in silence.
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Matshona Dhliwayo
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It was terrible when a single conversation with someone determined your whole future relationship.
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Naomi Shihab Nye (There Is No Long Distance Now)
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I'll never leave you," he said thousands and thousands of miles away.
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Juansen Dizon (Confessions of a Wallflower)
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Crunches are an exercise where you lie on your back and angrily try to head-butt your crotch.
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Matthew Inman (The Terrible and Wonderful Reasons Why I Run Long Distances (Volume 5) (The Oatmeal))
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Absence makes the heart grows fonder, doesn't it?
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Simon Van Booy
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May be its a good idea to write something about you in my book... At least then, there will be a place where we will meet everyday... and be together forever!
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Anamika Mishra
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It will be a welcome change for her to feel his hands on her hips and his breath in her hair; She's been forlorn, but like all emotions, even loneliness doesn't last. She has fallen in love with the man with the quiet strength, the confident humility and the hands that show the flame of the heart.
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Donna Lynn Hope
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Long Distance training can be a positive & constructive form of selfishness. After all, once you're at the starting line, you're there by yourself. No one can run a single step for you. No one can jump in & help you. No one but you can make the decisions about what to do to keep going. It's all up to you.
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John Bingham
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Thank God for men who manage to hold from afar, wipe tears away with tender words and dish out the life force that is hope. She has never felt so alone but out there, across an ocean, and in a foreign land, there is a man who loves her and would lay down his life just so she could feel the light once again.
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Donna Lynn Hope
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All of the emotions that hit people at times like these, all of them, were coursing through us both like a secret we couldn’t tell. Because if we said everything we were thinking and feeling right then…if we laid it all out for one another…we might not like the way the words strung together. Or the way fear and hope and bitterness and love mashed up into one big mess in the pits of our stomachs.
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Laura Anderson Kurk (Perfect Glass)
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It's never long distance between friends.
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Sarah Dessen
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Very often I realize that the time people spend apart is as important in maintaining relationships as the time they spend together.
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Joyce Rachelle
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God reveals Himself in rearview mirrors. And I've an inkling that there are times when we need to drive a long, long distance, before we can look back and see God's back in the rearview mirror. Maybe sometimes about as far as heaven -- that kind of distance.
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Ann Voskamp (One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are)
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The long distance hiker, a breed set apart, From the likes of the usual pack. He’ll shoulder his gear, be hittin’ the trail; Long gone, long β€˜fore he’ll be back.
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M.J. Eberhart
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Missing someone can hurt. But when you know they are yours forever, negativity it helps avert.
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Trishna Damodar
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Long distance sucks, but if you love someone, don’t you at least want to try?
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Ted Michael (Crash Test Love)
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With good reason, love's messengers, Eros and Kama, are armed with bows and long-distance arrows. No being, god or mortal, can choose love. Love comes despite ourselves; and then, if we have not already done so, we have the task of becoming our selves so we may welcome love.
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Diane Wolkstein (The First Love Stories: From Isis and Osiris to Tristan and Iseult)
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I prefer long-distance relationships. If we were dating, would you be offended if I asked you to stand back a few feet?
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Jarod Kintz (The Titanic would never have sunk if it were made out of a sink.)
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Evolution has no long-term goal. There is no long-distance target, no final perfection to serve as a criterion for selection, although human vanity cherishes the absurd notion that our species is the final goal of evolution.
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Richard Dawkins (The Blind Watchmaker: Why the Evidence of Evolution Reveals a Universe Without Design)
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I love when I reach Marcus on the phone and as he says hello, I can hear the music he's listening to in the background. That music is the sound of him without me. How he surrounds himself when I'm not there, which is almost all the time.
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Megan McCafferty (Charmed Thirds (Jessica Darling, #3))
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when the moon rises on this coast but the sun still burns shamelessly on yours i crumble knowing even our skies are different - long distance
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Rupi Kaur (the sun and her flowers)
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My only enemy is the miles of distance that's there between us, my favorite place is the road that leads me to you - the long road home
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Jyoti Patel (ANAMIKA: BEYOND WORDS)
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He was a telephone man who fell in love with long distance.
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Tennessee Williams (The Glass Menagerie)
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Maybe when your mother died young, you became instantly old.
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Naomi Shihab Nye (There Is No Long Distance Now)
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the long-distance run of an early morning makes me think that every run like this is a life- a little life, I know- but a life as full of misery and happiness and things happening as you can ever get really around yourself
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Alan Sillitoe (The Loneliness of the Long-Distance Runner)
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Now whenever I watched a Star Wars film, I found myself wondering how the Empire had the technology to make long-distance holographic phone calls between planets light-years apart, and yet no one had figured out how to make a remote-controlled TIE Fighter or X-Wing yet.
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Ernest Cline (Armada)
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I reached down and picked up a baseball bat at my feet and I flung it as hard as it could. It circled and arced high in the air until it slammed against the side of the dining hall with a crack and fell. I sat down in the dirt. Then I lay down in the dirt. Because not only was there no trail to follow, there was no evidence he’d ever been here. There was no evidence any of them had been here.
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Laura Anderson Kurk (Perfect Glass)
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As she starts to read, the book travels into her from a long distance, from his mind to mine, across a gap in time, and now she’s not in the room any more, she’s inside the sentences, one joined to the next like a series of tunnels, connected to each other at angles.
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Damon Galgut (The promise)
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The ones that change...it’s not that going actually changed them its that they didn’t have something better waiting for them when they got back. They changed because its who they wanted to be. Not everyone is lucky enough to have the better half of his soul and the rest of his life waiting back home to remind him why he left in the first place.
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Hope Alcocer (Where Hope Lies)
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Beberapakali aku menemukan mimpiku sendiri terjerembab di depan pintu. Kuyup oleh hujan. Seperti pakaian kotor berulangkali kucuci dan kujemur di halaman luas. Pada saat saat seperti itu aku selalu ingat wajah dan matamu saat menatapku; selalu teduh dan meneguhkan. Maka aku yakin pada akhirnya jarak hanya memisahkan raga. Tapi ia tak pernah sanggup menjauhkan mimpi, imaji dan kenangan yang kita semat bersama dalam rindu yang paling diam.
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Helvy Tiana Rosa
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Seasons of the heart. To get through what I must I'm often encased in ice and for months he chips away until he can see my face and after a while, I begin to thaw. As warmth and feeling returns, my emotions continue to build until my personality is set on fire. When he leaves, the fire dwindles until there is but a flicker. Then there is stillness and winter returns.
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Donna Lynn Hope
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My father never went to college so it was really important I go to college. After college, I called him long distance and said, now what? My dad didn't know. When I got a job and turned twenty-five, long distance, I said, now what? My dad didn't know, so he said, get married. I'm a thirty-year-old boy, and I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer I need.
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Chuck Palahniuk (Fight Club)
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Just don't fall into a tanning bed. These machines are for vapid, narcissistic, idiots who have barren vacuums where their thoughts, fears, and passions should be. Spending time in a tanning bed will only earn you the appearance and intellect of an inbred baked potato. Don't be a baked potato. Be a person.
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Matthew Inman (The Terrible and Wonderful Reasons Why I Run Long Distances (Volume 5) (The Oatmeal))
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I never got to tell him again that he really was wrong, that miles didn’t matter, not if you loved someone. That borders and oceans weren’t obstacles, not for the mind. I wished I’d been able to tell him these things, because saying them out loud to someone real, instead of a mirror or a picture postcard, would have made them all the more convincing.
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Emylia Hall (The Book of Summers)
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Love liberates. It doesn't bind. Love says, I love you. I love you if you're in China. I love you if you're across town. I love you if you're in Harlem. I love you. I would like to be near you. I'd like to have your arms around me. I'd like to hear your voice in my ear. But that's not possible now, so I love you. Go.
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Maya Angelou
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I almost forgot,” said Red. His voice sounded very strange, as if from a long, long distance. He reached into his pocket. β€œI have something for you.” He put it into my hand. A round, shiny, perfect apple, green as new grass with a faint blush of rosy pink. And now his eyes had changed so that I saw what lay there, hidden deep, so deep only the bravest or most foolhardy would seek to find it. He has always understood me better, without words. So I laid my hand on my heart, held it there for a moment, and then moved it over and touched my palm against his breast. My heart. Your heart.
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Juliet Marillier (Daughter of the Forest (Sevenwaters, #1))
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Nina worried she liked being alone too much; it was the only time she ever fully relaxed. People were . . . exhausting. They made her anxious. Leaving her apartment every morning was the turning over of a giant hourglass, the mental energy she’d stored up overnight eroding grain by grain. She refueled during the day by grabbing moments of solitude and sometimes felt her life was a long-distance swim between islands of silence. She enjoyed peopleβ€”she really didβ€”she just needed to take them in homeopathic doses; a little of the poison was the cure.
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Abbi Waxman (The Bookish Life of Nina Hill)
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marathon: (noun) A popular form of overpriced torture wherein participants wake up at ass-o-clock in the morning and stand in the freezing cold until it's time to run, at which point they miserably trot for a god-awful interval of time that could be better spent sleeping in and/or consuming large quantities of beer and cupcakes. See also: masochism, awfulness, "a bunch of bullshit", boob-chafing, cupcake deprivation therapy
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Matthew Inman (The Terrible and Wonderful Reasons Why I Run Long Distances (Volume 5) (The Oatmeal))
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Ranger picked up and there was a moment of silence as if he was sensing me at the other end, taking my body temperature and heart rate long distance. β€œBabe,” he finally said. β€œDo you know the slum apartment building Bobby Sunflower owns on Stark?” β€œYes. It’s on the same block as his funeral home.” β€œThat’s the one. I’m going in to look for someone. If you don’t hear from me in a half hour maybe you could send someone to check.” β€œIs this a smart thing to do?” β€œProbably not.” β€œAs long as you know,” Ranger said. And he disconnected.
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Janet Evanovich (Sizzling Sixteen (Stephanie Plum, #16))
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When you were in a long-distance relationship, of course you made the most of the time you were together. But sometimes, it was the unexpected that really made the difference. The unexpected emotions you were hit with when you saw that face, looked into those eyes, felt those lips. The unexpected reminder of why you fell in love with this person could hit you so powerfully. And this was that time.
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Alice Clayton (Rusty Nailed (Cocktail, #2))
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I'm a human being and I've got thoughts and secrets and bloody life inside me that he doesn't know is there, and he'll never know what's there because he's stupid. I suppose you'll laugh at this, me saying the governor's a stupid bastard when I know hardly how to write and he can read and write and add-up like a professor. But what I say is true right enough. He's stupid, and I'm not, because I can see further into the likes of him than he can see into the likes of me.
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Alan Sillitoe (The Loneliness of the Long-Distance Runner)
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You are the stars hidden by clouds. I know you’re there even when I can’t see you. Your shine peeks out and reaches me in the depths of my soul. Tell me your arms are long enough to reach me across oceans. Tell me someday we will be together, somehow, some way. Tell me that this love we have can survive being together as well as we’ve survived being apart. Tell me we are more than the chasm of our divide.
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Jacqueline Simon Gunn
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No matter how much long-distance running might suit me, of course there are days when I feel kind of lethargic and don’t want to run. Actually, it happens a lot. On days like that, I try to think of all kinds of plausible excuses to slough it off. Once, I interviewed the Olympic running Toshihiko Seko, just after he retired from running and became manager of the S&B company team. I asked him, β€œDoes a runner at your level ever feel like you’d rather not run today, like you don’t want to run and would rather just sleep in?” He stared at me and then, in a voice that made it abundantly clear how stupid he thought the question was, replied, β€œOf course. All the time!
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Haruki Murakami (What I Talk About When I Talk About Running)
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The degree of personal freedom that exists in a society is determined more by the economic and technological structure of the society than by its laws or its form of government. Most of the Indian nations of New England were monarchies, and many of the cities of the Italian Renaissance were controlled by dictators. But in reading about these societies one gets the impression that they allowed far more personal freedom than our society does. In part this was because they lacked efficient mechanisms for enforcing the ruler’s will: There were no modern, well-organised police forces, no rapid long-distance communications, no surveillance cameras, no dossiers of information about the lives of average citizens. Hence it was relatively easy to evade control.
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Theodore J. Kaczynski (Industrial Society and Its Future)
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Maintaining a long-distance relationship requires a lot of discipline,” surmised Duncan. β€œThe loneliness that they experience is a formidable force to be reckoned with, and not everyone can withstand it. A physical entity is always more powerful than a voice distorted by static, more so when they encounter problems and want to share them with their partner in real time. In such cases, they usually turn to a third party, and that’s when the relationships fall apart like a house of cards.
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Alexis Lawrence (O.U.R. CafΓ©)
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I’d felt this before, when my granddad was in the hospital before he died. We all camped out in the waiting room, eating our meals together, most of us sleeping in the chairs every night. Family from far-flung places would arrive at odd hours and we’d all stand and stretch, hug, get reacquainted, and pass the babies around. A faint, pale stream of beauty and joy flowed through the heavy sludge of fear and grief. It was kind of like those puddles of oil you see in parking lots that look ugly until the sun hits them and you see rainbows pulling together in the middle of the mess. And wasn’t that just how life usually feltβ€”a confusing swirl of ugly and rainbow?
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Laura Anderson Kurk (Perfect Glass)
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It sickens me to think of you a prevalence of void unholy immovable damned. gifts. an overblown sense of his own importance. I wish you were dead. forget about you. crow florid with fantasies it's so awful a perfect imitation a liability to love forget you Ingrid Magnussen quite alone masturbating rot disappointment grotesque Your arms cradle poisons garbage grenades Loneliness long-distance cries forever never response. take everything feel me? the human condition Stop plotting murder penitence Cultivate it you forbid appeal rage important I cringe fuck you insane person dissonant and querulous my gas tanks marked FULL
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Janet Fitch (White Oleander)
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The time of dangling insects arrived. White houses with caterpillars dangling from the eaves. White stones in driveways. You can walk at night down the middle of the street and hear women talking on the telephone. Warmer weather produces voices in the dark. They are talking about their adolescent sons. How big, how fast. The sons are almost frightening. The quantities they eat. The way they loom in doorways. These are the days that are full of wormy bugs. They are in the grass, stuck to the siding, hanging in the hair, hanging from the trees and eaves, stuck to the window screens. The women talk long-distance to grandparents of growing boys. They share the Trimline phone, beamish old folks in hand-knit sweaters on fixed incomes. What happens to them when the commercial ends?
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Don DeLillo (White Noise)
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She stared heavenward and shook her head after finding out she'd sent me on a long-distance trip with the son of Lust. But the detail that sent her over the edge was the fact that my father had me haunted by those demons. No matter how much I tried to explain that it was necessary for me to be able to see the spirits, she was livid. When three o'clock approached and her mood hadn't lightened, I started to worry. When my dad arrived, Patti stood by the counter with her arms crossed. He appeared as large and frightening as ever. The kind of man nobody would dare to mess with. Patti walked right up and smacked him across the face. I jolted. He blinked. She stayed right in front of him and stabbed a finger at his chest, her other hand on her hip. β€œHow dare you do that to her? I don't care what your reasons were. Did you hear her screaming? She was terrified! Don't you ever sic those monsters on her again. Ever!
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Wendy Higgins (Sweet Evil (Sweet, #1))
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Salvation, then, is not β€œgoing to heaven” but β€œbeing raised to life in God’s new heaven and new earth.” But as soon as we put it like this we realize that the New Testament is full of hints, indications, and downright assertions that this salvation isn’t just something we have to wait for in the long-distance future. We can enjoy it here and now (always partially, of course, since we all still have to die), genuinely anticipating in the present what is to come in the future. β€œWe were saved,” says Paul in Romans 8:24, β€œin hope.” The verb β€œwe were saved” indicates a past action, something that has already taken place, referring obviously to the complex of faith and baptism of which Paul has been speaking in the letter so far. But this remains β€œin hope” because we still look forward to the ultimate future salvation of which he speaks in (for instance) Romans 5:9, 10.
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N.T. Wright (Surprised by Hope: Rethinking Heaven, the Resurrection, and the Mission of the Church)
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We’ve all encountered those people who out of the corner of our eye, from across the street, at magic hour appear astoundingly attractive, even god or goddess like: the way they move, the way the light hits them, invokes reverence and all, the impression. And then we got a closer look. Damn it. Let down. Good from afar, but far from good. Some people will never be more attractive than in that first impression, from a distance, in that light, at that time, in that way we saw them, when our hopes became highest and our wish fulfillment was fully let it. They will never look better than in that initial fuzzy edge clingups, impressions. The white shot. Some relationships are better in a white shot. More impressive in the impressions. Like in-laws, best to only see an hour a day, like neighbors, its while we have walls and fences, like that long distance romance that fell apart when you moved in together, like that summer fling that only lasted through August, that friend that became a lover that you now miss as a friend, like ourselves when we are a fraud. They are better from a distance, with less frequency, with less intimacy. Sometimes we need more space, it’s romance, it’s imagination. Distance is the flirt in a wing, it is frivolous, its mysterious, a fantasy, a constant honeymoon because we can’t quite see it, we aren’t quite sure about it, we don’t quite know it. It’s a fuck, it’s detachment, it’s separate, it’s public, it’s carefree, it’s painless, it’s for rent. And we like it that way, because sometimes it is better with the lights dimmed.
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Matthew McConaughey (Greenlights)