Lolita Book Quotes

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You get a strange feeling when you're about to leave a place, I told him, like you'll not only miss the people you love but you'll miss the person you are now at this time and this place, because you'll never be this way ever again.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Do not, under any circumstances, belittle a work of fiction by trying to turn it into a carbon copy of real life; what we search for in fiction is not so much reality but the epiphany of truth.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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You don't read Gatsby, I said, to learn whether adultery is good or bad but to learn about how complicated issues such as adultery and fidelity and marriage are. A great novel heightens your senses and sensitivity to the complexities of life and of individuals, and prevents you from the self-righteousness that sees morality in fixed formulas about good and evil.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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We had been everywhere. We had really seen nothing. And I catch myself thinking today that our long journey had only defiled with a sinuous trail of slime the lovely, trustful, dreamy, enormous country that by then, in retrospect, was no more to us than a collection of dog-eared maps, ruined tour books, old tires, and her sobs in the night โ€” every night, every night โ€” the moment I feigned sleep.
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Vladimir Nabokov (Lolita)
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It takes courage to die for a cause, but also to live for one.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Memories have ways of becoming independent of the reality they evoke. They can soften us against those we were deeply hurt by or they can make us resent those we once accepted and loved unconditionally.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Lolita is famous, not I. I am an obscure, doubly obscure, novelist with an unpronounceable name.
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Vladimir Nabokov
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None of us can avoid being contaminated by the world's evils; it's all a matter of what attitude you take towards them.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Empathy lies at the heart of Gatsby, like so many other great novels--the biggest sin is to be blind to others' problems and pains. Not seeing them means denying their existence.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Living in the Islamic Republic is like having sex with someone you loathe.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I have often noticed that we are inclined to endow our friends with the stability of type that literary characters acquire in the reader's mind. [...] Whatever evolution this or that popular character has gone through between the book covers, his fate is fixed in our minds, and, similarly, we expect our friends to follow this or that logical and conventional pattern we have fixed for them. Thus X will never compose the immortal music that would clash with the second-rate symphonies he has accustomed us to. Y will never commit murder. Under no circumstances can Z ever betray us. We have it all arranged in our minds, and the less often we see a particular person, the more satisfying it is to check how obediently he conforms to our notion of him every time we hear of him. Any deviation in the fates we have ordained would strike us as not only anomalous but unethical. We could prefer not to have known at all our neighbor, the retired hot-dog stand operator, if it turns out he has just produced the greatest book of poetry his age has seen.
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Vladimir Nabokov (Lolita)
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Reality has become so intolerable, she said, so bleak, that all I can paint now are the colors of my dreams.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Every fairy tale offers the potential to surpass present limits, so in a sense the fairy tale offers you freedoms that reality denies.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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A great novel heightens your senses and sensitivity to the complexities of life and of individuals, and prevents you from the self-righteousness that sees morality in fixed formulas about good and evil.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Art is as useful as bread.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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[A] novel is not moral in the usual sense of the word. It can be called moral when it shakes us out of our stupor and makes us confront the absolutes we believe in.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I grew, a happy, healthy child in a bright world of illustrated books, clean sand, orange trees, friendly dogs, sea vistas and smiling faces.
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Vladimir Nabokov (Lolita)
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The worst crime committed by totalitarian mind-sets is that they force their citizens, including their victims, to become complicit in their crimes. Dancing with your jailer, participating in your own execution, that is an act of utmost brutality.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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It is only through literature that one can put oneself in someone elseโ€™s shoes and understand the otherโ€™s different and contradictory sides and refrain from becoming too ruthless. Outside the sphere of literature only one aspect of individuals is revealed. But if you understand their different dimensions you cannot easily murder them. . .
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Imagine you are walking down a leafy pathโ€ฆThe sun is receding, and you are walking alone, caressed by the breezy light of the late afternoon. Then suddenly, you feel a large drop on your right arm. Is it raining? You look up. The sky is still deceptively sunnyโ€ฆseconds later another drop. Then, with the sun still perched in the sky, you are drenched in a shower of rain. This is how memories invade me, abruptly and unexpectedlyโ€ฆ
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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We in ancient countries have our pastโ€”we obsess over the past. They, the Americans, have a dream: they feel nostalgia about the promise of the future.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I am suddenly left alone again on the sunny path, with a memory of the rain.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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It's frightening to be free, to have to take responsibility for your decisions.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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You get a strange feeling when you're about to leave a place...like you'll not only miss the people you love but you'll miss the person you are now at this time and this place, because you'll never be this way ever again.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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With fear come the lies and the justifications that, no matter how convincing, lower our self-esteem.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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If I turned towards books, it was because they were the only sanctuary I knew, one I needed in order to survive, to protect some aspect of myself that was now in constant retreat.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I'm a perfectly equipped failure.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Once evil is individualized, becoming part of everyday life, the way of resisting it also becomes individual. How does the soul survive? is the essential question. And the response is: through love and imagination.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I told them this novel was an American classic, in many ways the quintessential American novel. There were other contenders: The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, Moby-Dick, The Scarlet Letter. Some cite its subject matter, the American Dream, to justify this distinction. We in ancient countries have our past--we obsess over the past. They, the Americans, have a dream: they feel nostalgia about the promise of the future.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I eat my heart out alone.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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The commentator may be excused for repeating what he has stressed in his own books and lectures, namely that "offensive" is frequently but a synonym for "unusual;" and a great work of art is of course always original, and thus by its very nature should come more or less as a shocking surprise.
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Vladimir Nabokov (Lolita)
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Poshlust, Nabokov explains, "is not only the obviously trashy but mainly the falsely important, the falsely beautiful, the falsely clever, the falsely attractive.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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those who judge must take all aspects of an individual's personality into account.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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The more we die, the stronger we will become
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Lolita,โ€ he said, turning my book over in his hands. His eyes widened over the pink-lipped mouth on the cover, then handed it to me. Our fingers brushed, and a warm current coursed through them. My heart thundered so loud he could probably hear it. โ€œSo,โ€ he said, his eyes meeting mine. โ€œYouโ€™re a smuthound with daddy issues?โ€ The corner of his mouth turned up in a slow, condescending smile. I wanted to smack it off his face. โ€œWell, youโ€™re quoting it. And incorrectly, by the way. So what does that make you?โ€ His half-smile morphed into a whole grin. โ€œOh, Iโ€™m definitely a smuthound with daddy issues.
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Michelle Hodkin (The Unbecoming of Mara Dyer (Mara Dyer, #1))
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She resented the fact that her veil, which to her was a symbol of scared relationship to god, had now become an instrument of power, turning the women who wore them into political signs and symbols.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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You talk like a book.
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Vladimir Nabokov
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The novels were an escape from reality in the sense that we could marvel at their beauty and perfection. Curiously, the novels we escaped into led us finally to question and prod our own realities, about which we felt so helplessly speechless.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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The reason I am so popular is that I give others back what they need to find in themselves. You need me not because I tell you what I want you to do but because I articulate and justify what you want to do.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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ุงู„ุงู†ุณุญุงุจ ุงู„ู‰ ุงุญู„ุงู…ู†ุง ู‚ุฏ ูŠูƒูˆู† ุฎุทุฑุงู‹
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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You yourself told us that in the final analysis we are our own betrayers, playing Judas to our own Christ
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Other people's sorrows and joys have a way of reminding us of our own; we partly empathize with them because we ask ourselves: What about me? What does that say about my life, my pains, my anguish?
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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A good novel is one that shows the complexity of individuals, and creates enough space for all these characters to have a voice; in this way a novel is called democratic - not that it advocates democracy but that by nature it is so. Empathy lies at the heart of Gatsby, like so many other great novels - the biggest sin is to be blind to others' problems and pains. Not seeing them means denying their existence.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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We all had to pay, but not for the crimes we were accused of. There were other scores to settle.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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ูŠุดุฌุนูˆู†ู†ุง ุนู„ู‰ ุฅุธู‡ุงุฑ ู…ุดุงุนุฑ ุญุจู†ุง ู„ู„ุฅู…ุงู… ุจุฃู‚ุตู‰ ุฃุดูƒุงู„ ุงู„ุชุนุจูŠุฑ ู…ุบุงู„ุงุฉุŒ ุจูŠู†ู…ุง ูŠุญุฑู‘ู…ูˆู† ุนู„ูŠู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ุธู‡ุฑ ุฃูŠ ุชุนุจูŠุฑ ุนู„ู†ูŠ ุนู† ู…ุดุงุนุฑู†ุง ุงู„ุดุฎุตูŠุฉุŒ ูˆุฃุนู†ูŠ ุงู„ุญุจ ุจุดูƒู„ ุฎุงุต
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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i could have told him to learn from Gatsby. from the lonely, isolated Gatsby, who also tried to retrieve his past and give flash and blood to a fancy, a dream that was never meant to be more than a dream.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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The only way to leave the circle, to stop dancing with the jailer, is to find a way to preserve one's individuality, that unique which evades description but differentiates one human being from the other.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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We envy people like you, and we want to be you; we can't, so we destroy you.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Thus, neither of us is alive when the reader opens this book. But while the blood still throbs through my writing hand, you are still as much part of blessed matter as I am, and I can still talk to you from here to Alaska. Be true to your Dick. Do not let other fellows touch you. Do not talk to strangers. I hope you will love your baby. I hope it will be a boy. That husband of yours, I hope, will always treat you well, because otherwise my specter shall come at him, like black smoke, like a demented giant, and pull him apart nerve by nerve. And do not pity C. Q. One had to choose between him and H.H., and one wanted H.H. to exist at least a couple of months longer, so as to have him make you live in the minds of later generations. I am thinking of aurochs and angels, the secret of durable pigments, prophetic sonnets, the refuge of art. And this is the only immortality you and I may share, my Lolita.
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Vladimir Nabokov (Lolita)
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A novel is not an allegory, I said as the period was about to come to an end. It is the sensual experience of another world. If you don't enter that world, hold your breath with the characters and become involved in their destiny, you won't be able to empathize, and empathy is at the heart of the novel. This is how you read a novel: you inhale the experience. So start breathing.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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At that time, she had worn the scarf as a testament to her faith. Her decision was a voluntary act. When the revolution forced the scarf on others, her action became meaningless.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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ุนุฌุจุง! ูƒูŠู ูŠู…ูƒู† ู„ู„ุญุธุฉ ุงู†ูุชุงุญ ูŠุชูŠู…ุฉ ุฃู† ุชุชุญูˆู„ ุฅู„ู‰ ุญุฑูŠุฉ ู‡ุงุฆู„ุฉุŸ
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I went on and on, and as I continued, I became more righteous in my indignation. It was the sort of anger one gets high on, the kind one takes home to show off to family and friends.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Hope for some means its loss for others; when the hopeless regain some hope, those in power--the ones who had taken it away--become afraid, more protective of their endangered interests, more repressive.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I wish wish I could steal the intricacies of language. But give my kids a breakโ€”remember, most of them were fed on Steinbeckโ€™s The Pearl.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I always had a hankering for the security of impossible dreams.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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How do you tell someone she has to learn to love herself and her own body before she can be loved or love?
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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This is how you read a novel: you inhale the experience. So start breathing.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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ุงุณุงุกุช ุงู„ุซูˆุฑุฉ ุงู„ุงุณู„ุงู…ูŠุฉ ู„ู„ุงุณู„ุงู… ุฃูƒุซุฑ ู…ู† ุฃูŠ ุบุฑูŠุจ ูƒุงู† ูŠู…ูƒู† ุงู† ูŠุณูŠุกุŒ ูˆุฐู„ูƒ ุจุงุณุชุฎุฏุงู… ุงู„ุฅุณู„ุงู… ูˆุณูŠู„ุฉ ู„ู„ุงูŠุณุชุจุฏุงุฏ ูˆุงู„ุฌูˆ
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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ููƒู„ู‘ ู…ู†ุง ูŠุถู…ูุฑ ููŠ ุฏุงุฎู„ู‡ ูŠู‡ูˆุฐุง ู„ู…ุณูŠุญู‡ ุงู„ุฎุงุต
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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ูƒุงู†ุช ู…ุณุชุงุกุฉ ุฌุฏุงู‹ ู…ู† ููƒุฑุฉ ุฃู† ุญุฌุงุจู‡ุงุŒ ุงู„ุฐูŠ ู‡ูˆ ุจู…ุซุงุจุฉ ุฑู…ุฒ ู„ู„ุนู„ุงู‚ุฉ ุงู„ู…ู‚ุฏุณุฉ ุจูŠู†ู‡ุง ูˆุจูŠู† ุงู„ู„ู‡ุŒ ูƒุงู† ู‚ุฏ ุฃุตุจุญ ููŠ ุฐู„ูƒ ุงู„ูˆู‚ุช ุฃุฏุงุฉ ุจูŠุฏ ุงู„ุณู„ุทุฉุŒ ุฌุงุนู„ูŠู† ู…ู† ุงู„ู†ุณูˆุฉ ุงู„ู„ูˆุงุชูŠ ุงุฑุชุฏูŠู†ู‡ ุฑู…ูˆุฒุงู‹ ูˆุดุนุงุฑุงุช ุณูŠุงุณูŠุฉ
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Living in the Islamic Republic is like having sex with a man you loathe.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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This is Tehran for me: its absences were more real than its presences
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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ูˆ ู„ูƒู†ู†ุง ููŠ ุฐู„ูƒ ุงู„ูˆู‚ุช ู„ู… ู†ูƒู† ู‚ุฏ ูˆุนูŠู†ุง ุจุนุฏู ุฅู„ู‰ ุฃูŠ ู…ุฏู‰ ูƒู†ุง ู†ุฎูˆู†ู ุฃุญู„ุงู…ู†ุง.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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In all great works of fiction, regardless of the grim reality they present, there is an affirmation of life against the transience of that life, an essential defiance. This affirmation lies in the way the author takes control of reality by retelling it in his own way, thus creating a new world. Every great work of art, I would declare pompously, is a celebration, an act of insubordination against the betrayals, horrors and infidelities of life. The perfection and beauty of form rebels against the ugliness and shabbiness of the subject matter.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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It is not accidental that the most unsympathetic characters in Austen's novels are those who are incapable of genuine dialogue with others. They rant. They lecture. They scold. This incapacity for true dialogue implies an incapacity for tolerance, self-reflection and empathy.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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When I read a book, I try my best, not always successfully, to let the wall crumble just a bit, the barricade that separates me from the book. I try to be involved. I am Raskalnikov. I am K. I am Humbert and Lolita. I am you. If you read these pages and think I'm the way I am because I lived through a civil war, you can't feel my pain. If you believe you're not like me because one woman, and only one, Hannah, chose to be my friend, then you're unable to empathize.
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Rabih Alameddine (An Unnecessary Woman)
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The highest form of morality is not to feel at home in ones own home." Most great works of the imagination were meant to make you feel like a stranger in your own home. The best fiction always forced us to question what we took for granted. It questioned traditions and expectations when they seemed too immutable. I told my students I wanted them in their readings to consider in what ways these works unsettled them, made them a little uneasy, made them look around and consider the world, like Alice in Wonderland, through different eyes.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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...do not, under any circumstances, belittle a work of fiction by trying to turn it into a carbon copy of real life; what we search for in fiction is not so much reality but the epiphany of truth.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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You ask me what it means to be irrelevant? The feeling is akin to visiting your old house as a wandering ghost with unfinished business. Imagine going back: the structure is familiar ,but the door is now metal instead of wood,the walls have been painted a garish pink ,the easy chair you loved so much is gone .Your office is now the family room and your beloved bookcases have been replaced by a brand-new television set . This is your house,and it is not. And you are no longer relevant to this house , to its walls and doors and floors ; you are not seen .
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Again and again as we discussed Lolita in that class, our discussions were colored by my students' hidden personal sorrows and joys. Like tearstains on a letter, these forays into the hidden and the personal shaded all our discussions of Nabokov. And more and more I thought of that butterfly; what linked us so closely was this perverse intimacy of victim and jailer.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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We have it all arranged in our minds, and the less often we see a particular person the more satisfying it is to check how obediently he conforms to our notion of him every time we hear of him. Any deviation in the fates we have ordained would strike us as not only anomalous but unethical. We would prefer not to have known our neighbor, the retired hot-dog stand operator, if it turns out he has just produced the greatest book of poetry his age has seen.
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Vladimir Nabokov (Lolita)
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One cancels the other, and yet without one, the other is incomplete. In the first photograph, standing there in our black robes and scarves, we are as we had been shaped by someone elseโ€™s dreams. In the second, we appear as we imagined ourselves. In neither could we feel completely at home.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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She resented the fact that her veil, which to her was a symbol of her sacred relationship to God, had now become an instrument of power, turning the women who wore them into political signs and symbols. Where do your loyalties lie, Mr. Bahri, with Islam or the state?
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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There was something, both in fiction and in his life (Nabokov), that we instinctively related to and grasped, the possibility of a boundless freedom when all options are taken away. I could invent violin or be devoured by the void.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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There are different forms of seduction, and the kind I have witnessed in Persian dancers is so unique, such a mixture of subtlety and brazenness, I cannot find a Western equivalent to compare it to. I have seen women of vastly different backgrounds take on that same expression: a hazy, lazy, flirtatious look in their eyes. . . . This sort of seduction is elusive; it is sinewy and tactile. It twists, twirls, winds and unwinds. Hands curl and uncurl while the waist seems to coil and recoil. . . . It is openly seductive but not surrendering.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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You don't understand their mentality. They won't accept your resignation because they don't think you have the right to quit. They are the ones who decide how long you should stay and when you should be dispensed with. More than anything else, it was this arbitrariness that had become unbearable.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I was reminded of a painter friend who had started her career by depicting scenes from life, mainly deserted rooms, abandoned houses and discarded photographs of women. Gradually, her work became more abstract, and in her last exhibition, her paintings were splashes of rebellious color, like the two in my living room, dark patches with little droplets of blue. I asked about her progress from modern realism to abstraction. Reality has become so intolerable, she said, so bleak, that all I can paint now are the colors of my dreams.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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It wasn't courage that motivated this casual, impersonal manner of treating so much pain; it was a special brand of cowardice, a destructive defense mechanism, forcing others to listen to the most horrendous experiences and yet denying them the moment of empathy: don't feel sorry for me; nothing is too big for me to handle. This is nothing, nothing really.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Modern fiction brings out the evil in domestic lives, ordinary relations, people like you and me -- Reader! Bruder! as Humbert said. Evil in Austen, as in most great fiction, lies in the inability to "see" others, hence to empathize with them. What is frightening is that this blindness can exist in the best of us (Eliza Bennet) as well as the worst (Humbert). We are all capable of becoming the blind censor, or imposing our visions and desires on others.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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It was one of those rare nights when I was kept awake not by my nightmares and anxieties but by something exciting and exhilarating. Most nights I lay awake waiting for some unexpected disasterโ€ฆI think I somehow felt that as long as I was conscious, nothing bad could happenโ€ฆ
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I have a recurring fantasy that one more article has been added to the Bill of Rights: the right to free access to imagination. I have come to believe that genuine democracy cannot exist without the freedom to imagine and the right to use imaginative works without any restrictions. To have a whole life, one must have the possibility of publicly shaping and expressing private worlds, dreams, thoughts and desires, of constantly having access to a dialogue between the public and private worlds. How else do we know that we have existed, felt, desired, hated, feared?
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I say โ€œthen, as nowโ€ because the revolution that imposed the scarf on others did not relieve Mahshid of her loneliness. Before the revolution, she could in a sense take pride in her isolation. At that time, she had worn the scarf as a testament to her faith. Her decision was a voluntary act. When the revolution forced the scarf on others, her action became meaningless.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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We speak of facts, yet facts exist only partially to us if they are not repeated and re-created through emotions, thoughts and feelings. To me it seemed as if we had not really existed, or only half existed, because we could not imaginatively realize ourselves and communicate to the world, because we had used works of imagination to serve as handmaidens to some political ploy.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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There are gentle souls who would pronounce Lolita meaningless because it does not teach them anything. I am neither a reader nor a writer of didactic fiction, and, despite John Ray's assertion, Lolita has no moral in tow. For me a work of fiction exists only insofar as it affords me what I shall bluntly call aesthetic bliss, that is a sense of being somehow, somewhere, connected with other states of being where art (curiosity, tenderness, kindness, ecstasy) is the norm. There are not many such books. All the rest is either topical trash or what some call the Literature of Ideas, which very often is topical trash coming in huge blocks of plaster that are carefully transmitted from age to age until somebody comes along with a hammer and takes a good crack at Balzac, at Gorki, at Mann.
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Vladimir Nabokov (Lolita)
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It is also about loss, about the perishability of dreams once they are transformed into hard reality. It is the longing, its immateriality, that makes the dream pure. What we in Iran had in common with Fitzgerald was this dream that became our obsession and took over our reality, this terrible, beautiful dream, impossible in its actualization, for which any amount of violence might be justified or forgiven. This was what we had in common, although we were not aware of it then. Dreams, Mr Nyazi, are perfect ideals, complete in themselves. How can you impose them on a constantly changing, imperfect, incomplete reality? You would become a Humbert, destroying the object of your dream; or a Gatsby, destroying yourself. When I left the class that day, I did not tell them what I myself was just beginning to discover: how similar our own fate was becoming to Gatsby's. He wanted to fulfill his dream by repeating the past, and in the end he discovered that the past was dead, the present a sham, and there was no future. Was this not similar to our revolution, which had come in the name of our collective past and had wrecked our lives in the name of a dream?
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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No matter how many times we read "King Lear," never shall we find the good king banging his tankard in high revelry, all woes forgotten, at a jolly reunion with all three daughters and their lapdogs. Never will Emma rally, revived by the sympathetic salts in Flaubert's father's timely tear. Whatever evolution this or that popular character has gone through between the book covers, his fate is fixed in our minds...
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Vladimir Nabokov (Lolita)
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Every fairy tale offers the potential to surpass present limits, so in a sense the fairy tale offers you freedoms that reality denies. In all great works of fiction, regardless of the grim reality they present, there is an affirmation of life against the transience of that life, an essential defiance. The affirmation lies in the way the author takes control of reality by retelling it in his own way, thus creating a new world. Every great work of art, I would declare pompously, is a celebration, an act of insubordination against the betrayals, horrors and infidelities of life. The perfection and beauty of form rebels against the ugliness and shabiness of the subject matter. This is why we love "Madame Bovary" and cry for Emma, why we greedily read "Lolita" as our heart breaks for its small, vulgar, poetic and defiant orphaned heroine.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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In his forward to the English edition of Invitation to a Beheading (1959), Nabokov reminds the reader that his novel does not offer 'tout pour tous.' Nothing of the kind. 'It is,' he claims, 'a violin in the void.' [...] There was something, both in his fiction and in his life, that we instinctively related to and grasped, the possibility of a boundless freedom when all options are taken away. I think that is what drove me to create the class. My main link with the outside world had been the university, and now that I had severed that link, there on the brink of the void, I could invent the violin or be devoured by the void.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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The truth was that upsilamba was one of Nabokovs fascinating creations, possibly a word he invented. I said I associate Upsilamba with the impossible joy of a suspended leap. Yassi, who seemed excited for no particular reason, cried out that she always thought it could be a name of a dance- you know, "C'mon, baby, do the Upsilamba with me". Manna suggested that the word upsilamba evoked the image of small silver fish leaping in and out of a moonlit lake. Nima added in parentheses, Just so you won't forget me, although you have barred me from your class: an upsilamba to you too! For Azin it was a sound, a melody. Mahashid described an image of three girls jumping rope and shouting" Upsilamba" with each leap. For Sanaz, the word was a small African boy's secret magical name. Mitra wasn't sure why the word reminded her of the paradox of a blissful sigh. And for Nassrin it was a magic code that opened the door to a secret cave filled with treasures.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Imagination in these works is equated with empathy; we can't experience all that others have gone through, but we can understand even the most monstrous individuals in works of fiction. A good novel is one that shows the complexity of individuals, and creates enough space for all these characters to have a voice; in this way a novel is called democraticโ€”not that it advocates democracy but that by nature it is so. Empathy lies at the heart of Gatsby, like so many other great novelsโ€”the biggest sin is to be blind to others' problems and pains. Not seeing them means denying their existence.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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I have often noticed that we are inclined to endow our friends with the stability of type that literary characters acquire in the reader's mind. No matter how many times we reopen 'King Lear,' never shall we find the good king banging his tankard in high revelry, all woes forgotten, at a jolly reunion with all three daughters and their lapdogs. Never will Emma rally, revived by the sympathetic salts in Flaubert's father's timely tear. Whatever evolution this or that popular character has gone through between the book covers, his fate is fixed in our minds, and, similarly, we expect our friends to follow this or that logical and conventional pattern we have fixed for them.
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Vladimir Nabokov (Lolita)
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We were thirsty for some form of beauty, even in an incomprehensible, overintellectual, abstract film with no subtitles and censored out of recognition. There was a sense of wonder at being in a public place for the first time in years without fear or anger, being in a place with a crowd of strangers that was not a demonstration, a protest rally, a breadline or a public execution...For a brief time we experienced collectively the kind of awful beauty that can only be grasped at through extreme anguish and expressed through art.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Drug addicts, especially young ones, are conformists flocking together in sticky groups, and I do not write for groups, nor approve of group therapy (the big scene in the Freudian farce); as I have said often enough, I write for myself in multiplicate, a not unfamiliar phenomenon on the horizon of shimmering deserts. Young dunces who turn to drugs cannot read โ€œLolita,โ€ or any of my books, some in fact cannot read at all. Let me also observe that the term โ€œsquareโ€ already dates as a slang word, for nothing dates quicker than conservative youth, nor is there anything more philistine, more bourgeois, more ovine than this business of drug duncery. Half a century ago, a similar fashion among the smart set of St. Petersburg was cocaine sniffing combined with phony orientalities. The better and brighter minds of my young American readers are far removed from those juvenile fads and faddists. I also used to know in the past a Communist agent who got so involved in trying to wreck anti-Bolshevist groups by distributing drugs among them that he became an addict himself and lapsed into a dreamy state of commendable metempsychic sloth. He must be grazing today on some grassy slope in Tibet if he has not yet lined the coat of his fortunate shepherd.
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Vladimir Nabokov (Strong Opinions)
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Such an act [testifying for an accused prison guard of the Shah's regime] can only be accomplished by someone who is engrossed in literature, has learned that every individual has different dimensions to his personality.... Those who judge must take all aspects of an individual's personality into account. It is only through literature that one can put oneself in someone else's shoes and understand the other's different and contradictory sides and refrain from becoming too ruthless. Outside the sphere of literature only one aspect of individuals is revealed. But if you understand their different dimensions you cannot easily murder them.... If we have learned this one lesson from Dr. A our society would have been in a much better shape today.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Nabokov calls every great novel a fairy tale, I said. Well, I would agree. First, let me remind you that fairy tales abound with frightening witches who eat children and wicked stepmothers who poison their beautiful stepdaughters and weak fathers who leave their children behind in forests. But the magic comes from the power of good, that force which tells us we need not give in to the limitations and restrictions imposed on us by McFate, as Nabokov called it. Every fairy tale offers the potential to surpass present limits, so in a sense the fairy tale offers you freedoms that reality denies. In all great works of fiction, regardless of the grim reality they present, there is an affirmation of life against the transience of that life, an essential defiance.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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We can't all leave this country, Bijan had told me-this is our home. The world is a large place, my magician had said when I went to him with my woes. You can write and teach wherever you are. You will be read more and heard better, in fact, once you are over there. To go or not to go? In the long run, it's all very personal, my magician reasoned. I always admired your former colleague's honesty, he said. Which former colleague? Dr. A, the one who said his only reason for leaving was because he liked to drink beer freely. I am getting sick of people who cloak their personal flaws and desires in the guise of patriotic fervor. They stay because they have no means of living anywhere else, because if they leave, they won't be the big shots they are over here; but they talk about sacrifice for the homeland. And then those who do leave claim they've gone in order to criticize and expose the regime. Why all these justifications?
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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One of the most wonderful things about Pride and Prejudice is the variety of voices it embodies. There are so many different forms of dialogue: between several people, between two people, internal dialogue and dialogue through letters. All tensions are created and resolved through dialogue. Austen's ability to create such multivocality, such diverse voices and intonations in relation and in confrontation within a cohesive structure, is one of the best examples of the democratic aspect of the novel. In Austen's novels, there are spaces for oppositions that do not need to eliminate each other in order to exist. There is also space - not just space but a necessity - for self-reflection and self-criticism. Such reflection is the cause of change. We needed no message, no outright call for plurality, to prove our point. All we needed was to reach and appreciate the cacophony of voices to understand its democratic imperative. There was where Austen's danger lay.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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That first day I asked my students what they thought fiction should accomplish, why one should bother to read fiction at all. It was an odd way to start, but I did succeed in getting their attention. I explained that we would in the course of the semester read and discuss many different authors, but that one thing these authors all had in common was their subversiveness. Some, like Gorky or Gold, were overtly subversive in their political aims; others, like Fitzgerald and Mark Twain, were in my opinion more subversive, if less obviously so. I told them we would come back to this term, because my understanding of it was somewhat different from its usual definition. I wrote on the board one of my favorite lines from the German thinker Theodor Adorno: โ€œThe highest form of morality is not to feel at home in oneโ€™s own home.โ€ I explained that most great works of the imagination were meant to make you feel like a stranger in your own home. The best fiction always forced us to question what we took for granted. It questioned traditions and expectations when they seemed too immutable. I told my students I wanted them in their readings to consider in what ways these works unsettled them, made them a little uneasy, made them look around and consider the world, like Alice in Wonderland, through different eyes.
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Azar Nafisi (Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books)
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Vladimir Nabokov and George Orwell had quite different gifts, and their self-images were quite different. But, I shall argue, their accomplishment was pretty much the same. Both of them warn the liberal ironist intellectual against temptations to be cruel. Both of them dramatise the tension between private irony and liberal hope. In the following passage, Nabokov helped blur the distinctions which I want to draw: ...'Lolita' has no moral in tow. For me a work of fiction exists only in so far as it affords me what I shall bluntly call aesthetic bliss, that is a sense of being somehow, somewhere, connected with other states of being where art (curiosity, tenderness, kindness, ecstasy) is the norm. There are not many such books. All the rest is either topical trash or what some call the Literature of Ideas, which very often is topical trash coming in huge blocks of plaster that are carefully transmitted from age to age until somebody comes along with a hammer and takes a good crack at Balzac, at Gorki, at Mann. Orwell blurred the same distinctions when, in one of his rare descents into rant, "The Frontiers of Art and Propaganda," he wrote exactly the sort of thing Nabokov loathed: You cannot take a purely aesthetic interest in a disease you are dying from; you cannot feel dispassionately about a man who is about to cut your throat. In a world in which Fascism and Socialism were fighting one another, any thinking person had to take sides... This period of ten years or so in which literature, even poetry was mixed up with pamphleteering, did a great service to literary criticism, because it destroyed the illusion of pure aestheticism... It debunked art for art's sake.
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Richard Rorty (Contingency, Irony, and Solidarity)