Jen Gottlieb Quotes

The secret to standing out from the crowd and building an audience of raving fans isn’t being the perfect version of yourself that you think everyone wants you to be. It’s leveraging your number-one superpower: Being the real you!

Successful people lean in to their fear. They don’t expect it to totally go away. Instead, they embrace it and allow it to come along for the ride.

Follow the rule of 51 percent—you don’t need to believe in yourself 100 percent, you just need to believe a little more than you don’t.

Confidence comes from consistently sticking to the commitments you make with yourself.

Your unconscious mind runs the show when it comes to most of your daily actions, but it can’t tell the difference between a real memory and a fake memory. This means it’s easy for you to implant your own goals into your brain and trick them into thinking they’re already a reality.

If what you want doesn’t manifest exactly as you envisioned, it will show up eventually as something so much better than you could have imagined.

When you allow yourself to be seen in the rawest, realest, and sometimes darkest of times, you give yourself permission to begin healing.

Being grateful for things that haven’t happened (yet!) is a great way to trick your unconscious mind into showing you the path to get there.

Beware the Upper Limit: the point where we stop moving forward because the fear of failure becomes greater than our belief in what’s possible.

The Law of Attraction tells us that like attracts like, but you can’t spell “attraction” without ACTION.

Instead of waiting for the other shoe to drop, ask yourself, “How much better can it get?

Genuine, heartfelt connection to other people is truly the unfair advantage that kicks your growth into hyperdrive, whether we’re talking about business, relationships, or life goals.

Every time you don’t ask someone for help, you’re depriving them of a moment to feel seen, important, and valued.

Time never stops. Discomfort is temporary, but the growth on the other side of your discomfort is permanent.

20 percent of the value is in the original interaction, 80 percent of the value comes from what you do with it.

Don’t compare your Chapter 1 to someone else’s Chapter 20.

Success leaves clues, and it’s important to follow the footsteps of the people you’re FOMOing over to see how they did it—and how you can do it too.

It is your responsibility to be seen. Every single day that goes by that you’re not being seen is another day that the people who need your help are going to listen to someone else who’s maybe not as good as you are, can’t provide the value that you can, or doesn’t care as much as you do. Your audience—the people who need you—are going to hire them instead simply because they can’t find you.

Visibility is your responsibility.

Sitting-with-you-in-your-pain is one of the rare experiences that people get in the protected space of a therapy room, but it’s very hard to give or get outside of it—even for Jen, who is a therapist.

Sitting-with-you-in-your-pain is one of the rare experiences that people get in the protected space of a therapy room, but it’s very hard to give or get outside of it—even for Jen,

I’ll call you at lunch,” Jen says. “But in the meantime, I don’t know that this is the end of the story. Something’s screwy. Unless he’s a sociopath, it doesn’t jibe at all with what I saw for the past two years.” “Exactly,” I say. “Which means he’s a sociopath.” I hear her take a sip of water and put the glass down. “In that case,” she says, swallowing, “I have a great guy for you—one who’s not a kid hater.” She also likes Boyfriend’s new name. “In a few weeks, when you’re ready, I want to introduce you.