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Go to every IEP with a plan of your own. Be the expert. Teachers and therapists know general information only. You, on the other-hand, know the specifics about your child – you are your child’s only real expert. Pop in unexpectedly to observe. Keep educators on their toes. Be kind and push gently. If needed, push hard.
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Liz Becker (Autism and the World According to Matt: A collection of 50 inspirational short stories on raising a moderate / severe mostly non-verbal autistic child from diagnosis to independence)
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Flexible thinking is a highly important ability that is often—to the detriment of the child—omitted as a teachable skill on a child’s IEP. It impacts a child in all environments, both now and in the future: school, home, relationships, employment, recreation.
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Temple Grandin (The Way I See It)
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The enemy is not the blunt adult perseverating on applied behavioral analysis (ABA) research, the enemy is not the parent wearing a puzzle piece t-shirt (but please don’t), the enemy is the system that makes it so exhausting for families to get in-home supports, it is the bias that creates inequity in IEPs, it is the administrative burden that makes county services or social security a multi-year battle. If we fight these systems from the perspective of the community as a whole then we can create a better outcome for everyone. So it’s time—I challenge everyone reading this, both parents and advocates, to put down our swords and hold ourselves accountable for what has happened in the past, but also move forward with forgiveness and humbleness. There is no shame in realizing that you were previously speaking from a less informed place, there is no shame in accepting that we have room to learn and grow still.
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Meghan Ashburn (I Will Die On This Hill: Autistic Adults, Autism Parents, and the Children Who Deserve a Better World)
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Even though there was not a shadow of doubt that my boy was an Aspie, we never pushed to get a formal diagnosis. He already had an IEP in place, so I figured, why bother? As long as he was getting the help, the modifications and the tools he needed to succeed, I didn’t care about the diagnosis. Then Jay entered 3rd grade, and well, that way of thinking changed. That year the other children started to notice Jay’s quirky behaviors and uncontrollable emotional outbursts. But even more importantly, Jay was starting to notice. He was not sleeping at night, his anxiety level was at an all-time high and his self-confidence was dangerously low. One day, in the middle of a meltdown, my boy blurted out, “I feel like I am a square peg trying to fit into a round hole, and no matter how hard I try to make myself fit, I can’t do it. Why am I like this, Mommy?” My heart broke for my son. Not believing was no longer an option. We took him to be officially diagnosed.
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Sharon Fuentes (The Don't Freak Out Guide To Parenting Kids With Asperger's)
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Alternatively, diagnosed autistics, self-diagnosed people, people in the process of getting a diagnosis, people seeking a diagnosis, wannabees, or misdiagnosed individuals will sometimes call themselves low-functioning when they aren't. What they may be instead is lazy, and they may use their diagnosis or their alleged diagnosis to obtain special privileges throughout life, such as: ◦ An IEP (Individualized Educational Program) in school ◦ Subsidized housing ◦ Work accommodations they would otherwise not be entitled to have ◦ Disability benefits ◦ Tax breaks ◦ Reduced admission costs at public and private functions and venues When it is discovered by people in the online and offline autism community that some people are not as functional as they say they are, or are more functional than they say they are, arguing and fighting can break out, and this results in factions forming. The more a faction's members have in common with one another, the stronger the bond between the faction's members. In
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Thomas D. Taylor (Autism's Politics and Political Factions)
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We all see this world out of our own eyes, but sometimes we let other people get in front of our vision. By letting other people’s voices and opinions invade our thoughts, we diminish ourselves. We let these people take pieces away from our character.
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Jordan Toma (I'm Just A Kid With An IEP)
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FAPE available "to each qualified handicapped person who is in the recipient's jurisdiction. . . ." 34 C.F.R. § 104.33(a). An appropriate education includes "provision of regular or special education and related aids and services that . . . are designed to meet individual educational needs of handicapped persons.. . ." 34 C.F.R. § 104.33(b)(1). As long as the public schools make a FAPE available, they bear no obligation to pay for a child's education in a private school. 34 C.F.R. § 104.33(c)(4). DL v. Baltimore City Board Of School Commissioners, (2013) The court found that "[t]he plain language of the statute and the regulations does not make clear whether public schools are
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LandMark Publications (Free Appropriate Public Education: IEPs and the IDEA (Litigator Series))
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under the law, schools were required to evaluate a child and formulate an individualized education program, or an IEP, to set forth the services and support he was supposed to receive and to help him achieve in his areas of need.
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Lisa Scottoline (Damaged)
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law says a child’s IEP must be drafted without any influence of financial limitations.
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Penny Williams (What to Expect When Parenting Children with ADHD: A 9-step plan to master the struggles and triumphs of parenting a child with ADHD)
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Con el desplazamiento de la inflación y el terrorismo como las principales preocupaciones nacionales, los renovados problemas económicos y sociales han vuelto a adquirir relevancia. Ante un nuevo escenario social, caracterizado por la presencia de un electorado despolitizado que premia el éxito individual, las fórmulas presidenciales de los outsiders persiguen atraer a los votantes ofreciendo productos acordes con los requerimientos del mercado."
De: Política y Sociedad en el Perú - IEP 1994 pág. 226
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Cotler, Julio
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Ze merkte niet dat er een lekkere dikke vlieg over het plafond wandelde. Dat de lucht langzaam grijs werd met een beetje zeepgroen erdoorheen. Dat er een meisje binnenkwam dat de stilte wegjoeg.
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Joke van Leeuwen (Iep!)
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This book will breathe unprecedented new life into the education and well-being of our children, as it sheds light on why so many students are still struggling in school despite remedial help, IEP's, and medication.
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Wendy Beth Rosen (The Hidden Link Between Vision and Learning: Why Millions of Learning-Disabled Children Are Misdiagnosed)
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The following recommendations are suggestive and should not be included in IEP interventions unless agreed to by IEP team. Parents and teachers are encouraged to modify interventions according to Elton’s unique needs and response and to discontinue any recommendations not resulting in positive progress.
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Jerry Turner (So, You Are a School Psychologist: A Guide for Interns and First Year Psychologist)
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That's what it says in my IEP, which is more letters. More initials that define who I am.
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Nora Raleigh Baskin (Anything But Typical)
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On December 14, 2015, Cruz’s IEP team decided to allow him to attend MSD full time. Cruz had made progress in the intensive therapeutic setting of Cross Creek, where well-trained professionals could watch him like a hawk. But when he transitioned to MSD, his old “behavior management” plan was discontinued and no new plan was created. Teachers were left uninformed about who this student was, what to watch for, and how to support him. Looking back on the transition, Bone lamented, “They just threw him to the wolves.
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Andrew Pollack (Why Meadow Died: The People and Policies That Created The Parkland Shooter and Endanger America's Students)
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On paper, Cruz’s first semester at MSD was a great success. Although she knew it wasn’t true, with only one disciplinary incident officially recorded, Bone could not write anything to the contrary on his IEP update at the end of the year. She did not return to MSD the next school year. She moved out of Broward County altogether.
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Andrew Pollack (Why Meadow Died: The People and Policies That Created The Parkland Shooter and Endanger America's Students)
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Bone voiced her concerns to MSD’s assistant principal for ESE, Denise Reed, on November 6, 2015. Bone told us that she does not believe that Reed had read Cruz’s IEP. Bone told Reed that Cruz was dangerous and it would be a grave mistake to mainstream him full time. Bone recalled that Reed told her to “stay in your lane” because these decisions were not hers to make.
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Andrew Pollack (Why Meadow Died: The People and Policies That Created The Parkland Shooter and Endanger America's Students)
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I looked over at Ms. Cloves’ desk, and Dare was typing away on his school-appointed laptop. What was he busying himself doing? “I’m completing the two IEP’s Ms. Cloves left behind,” he answered telepathically. I shook my head. “Stay out of my head. You’re driving me insane,” I replied the same way. “Then let me drive you wild. I got a tongue like a hurricane, and you will thoroughly enjoy it.” “Oh my goodness!” I shouted out loud instead of in my head.
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Wynta Tyme (Chosen by a Vampire)