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If you knew your potential to feel good, you would ask no one to be different so that you can feel good. You would free yourself of all of that cumbersome impossibility of needing to control the world, or control your mate, or control your child. You are the only one who creates your reality. For no one else can think for you, no one else can do it. It is only you, every bit of it you.
Esther Hicks
People will love you. People will hate you. And none of it will have anything to do with you.
Abraham Hicks
If something you want is slow to come to you, it can be for only one reason: You are spending more time focused upon its absence than you are about its presence. If
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
If you want it and expect it, it will be yours very soon.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
- But Abraham, you mean I'm supposed to make stuff up !?!? - You are creators, you make stuff up all the time!
Esther Hicks
There ain't no "baby mama drama" up in this Vortex, homie!
Esther Hicks
that nothing will come into your experience unless you invite it through your thought—with emotional
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
The universe does not know whether the vibration that you're offering is because of something you're observing or something you're remembering or something that you are imagining. It just receives the vibration and answers it with things that match it.
Abraham Hicks
Rather than being so ready to jump into action to get the things that you want, we say think them into being; see them, visualize them, and expect them—and they will be.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
In order for things to change, you have to see them as you want them to be rather than continuing to observe them as they are.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Only when you have a conscious working knowledge of these (Universal)laws are you able to be the Deliberate Creator of your own life experience,
Esther Hicks
The universe is not punishing you or blessing you. The universe is simply responding to the vibrational attitude that you are emitting.
Abraham Hicks
Change your mind and change your whole life experience.
C.G. Rousing (Thoughts To Die For)
Make a decision and then make it right. There just are no wrong decisions.
Abraham Hicks
It makes no difference whether you want the specifics of it or not; it is the vibrational essence of the subject of your attention that is attracted. That which you really, really want, you get—and that which you really, really do not want, you get.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Every time you praise something, every time you appreciate something, every time you feel good about something, you are telling the Universe, "More of this, Please." You need never again make another verbal statement of this intent, and if you were allowing your cork to float - all good things would flow to you.
Abraham Hicks
The basis of your life is absolute freedom, the goal is joy, and the result of that perfect combination is motion forward, or growth. Your goal is to find objects of attention that let your cork raise.
Abraham Hicks
To better understand the Law of Attraction, see yourself as a magnet attracting unto you the essence of that which you are thinking and feeling. And so, if you are feeling fat, you cannot attract thin. If you feel poor, you cannot attract prosperity, and so on. It defies Law.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
that you are free to create your world as you want it to be, while others
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
The greatest gift that you could ever give another is the gift of your expectation of their success.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Your Inner Being, or Source Energy, always offers a perspective that is to your greatest advantage, and when your perspective matches that, then positive attraction is occurring.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Your frequency is what you frequently see. Pay attention to synchronicity as there are valuable lessons to be learned in the repetition of your reality.
Jennifer Sodini
You are here for the experience of joyful expansion. It was by the power
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Worrying is using your imagination to create something you don't want.
Abraham Hicks
The emotion you feel is always about the vibrational variance between where you want to be and where you are. If you're out of balance, there are only two ways to bring yourself into alignment: Either raise your expectation to match your desire -or lower your desire to match your expectation.
Abraham Hicks
When joy is really important to you, you do not allow yourself to focus upon things that do not feel good—and the result of thinking only thoughts that feel good would cause you to create a wonderful life filled with all things that you desire.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
the combination of being more deliberate about what you want, more clear about what you intend, and more sensitive to the way you feel is, in essence, what the Deliberate Creative Process is all about.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
The longer you focus upon something, the more powerful it becomes; and the stronger that your point of attraction is to it, the more evidence of it appears in your life experience. Whether you are focusing upon things you want or things you do not want, the evidence of your thoughts continually flows toward you.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
The only problem with leaving and going someplace is that you take yourself with you. You take your vibrational habits and patterns with you.
Abraham Hicks
I want to know what I want. For in setting forth
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
It is our desire to help you understand that you can get to wherever you want to be from wherever you are, no matter where you are or what your current state of Being.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
You must make feeling good such an overriding priority for yourself above everything else. You must condition yourself to take the high road every single time, even if it means letting the other person be “right”. Again, this is what Abraham-Hicks mean when they say, “Nothing is more important than that I feel good.
Richard Dotts (The 95-5 Code: for Activating the Law of Attraction)
True Allowing is maintaining your own balance, your own joy, no matter what they are doing.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
want it and expect it, it will be yours very soon. However, it is not often that you have
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
That which is like unto itself, is drawn.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
People have trained you to care about how they think, because it's important to most people who are living conditionally for you to create conditions that they can live with.
Abraham Hicks
A belief is just a thought you keep thinking.
Abraham Hicks
think them into being; see them, visualize them, and expect them—and they will be. And you will be guided, inspired, or led to the perfect action that will bring about the process that will lead you to that which you seek . . . and there is a great difference between that which we have spoken and the way most of the world is going about it.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
As you talk to others about what you know they do not want, you assist them in their miscreating, because you amplify the vibration of attracting what is not wanted. If you see friends who are
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
If you are being swept into some current that is not comfortable, or not in harmony with your desire, you must remember that couldn't happen if you weren't offering a vibration that matched it in some way. If you're vibrating differently from that, you're not having that experience.
Abraham Hicks
Your current situation is a platform of experience that inspires the next thought and the next. When
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
What seeks you when you are not seeking, is the universe's way of speaking to you without speaking.
Jennifer Sodini
When you think everything is someone else's fault, you will suffer a lot. When you realize that everything springs from yourself, you will learn both peace and joy.
Dalai Lama XIV
it is the vibrational essence of the subject of your attention that is attracted. That which you really, really want, you get—and that which you really, really do not want, you get.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Make more decisions everyday. Because a decision is a summoning of life. That's why a little chaos is good for you, because often you don't make a decision until you get yourself in a jam. And then, in the middle of the jam, you make a decision, but that decision summons Life Force. Have you ever been a place where you couldn't quite make up your mind and you just felt sort of limp? "Oh, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know." And then you decided, and you felt alive again. We want you to know that you'll never get it done. so don't approach this from, "I gotta get on this" because you're not ever going to get it done, anyway. And the other thing we want you to know is, you cannot get it wrong. So, make a decision. Let it flow.
Abraham Hicks
miscreating. And so, when you recognize that you are feeling negative emotion—no matter why, no matter how it got there, no matter what the situation is—stop doing whatever it is that you are doing and focus your thoughts on something that feels better.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
The whole point of the physical experience is the expansion beyond that which Is. That’s why eternity is eternal. That’s why there is something more than Now. That’s why there is eternally more. Always has been, always will be.
Esther Hicks
Focus on how you want to feel and let the Universe fill in the details.
Abraham Hicks
I am feeling appreciation for what is and eagerness for what is coming.
Abraham Hicks
That which I give thought to and that which I believe or expect—is.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
The more you look for positive aspects of your current life, the more positive aspects will step forward to reveal themselves to you.
Abraham Hicks
Abraham-Hicks say, “Distraction is the fastest way back into alignment
Gabrielle Bernstein (Super Attractor: Methods for Manifesting a Life beyond Your Wildest Dreams)
You cannot get poor enough to help poor people thrive or sick enough to help sick people get well. You only ever uplift from your position of strength and clarity and alignment.
Abraham Hicks
You can sit and focus out of the Vortex and your life won't change at all. You can sit and focus in the Vortex and your life will change magnificently.
Abraham Hicks
There is nothing you cannot be do or have-- Abraham Hicks
C.F. Edwards (Mysteries of the Vondercrat (Volonians #1))
Who you really are is Nonphysical Energy focused is a physical body, knowing full well that all is well and always has been and always will be. You are here to experience the supreme pleasure of concluding new desires, and then of bringing yourself into vibrational alignment with the new desire that you've concluded - for the purpose of taking thought beyond that which it has been before.
Abraham Hicks
If you’ll just sit and pet your cat - or somebody’s cat - find a cat, for God’s sake! Find a cat! Or anything furry - and let it train you into a frequency that will cause you to allow enlightenment.
Abraham Hicks
And as you deliberately direct your thoughts and focus upon the things that you do want to draw into your experience, you will begin to receive the life experience that you desire on all subjects. Your
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Deliberately guiding your thoughts is the key to a joyful life, but a desire to feel joy is the best plan of all . . . because in the reaching for joy, you find the thoughts that attract the wonderful life you desire.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
We know that words do not teach, that only life experience teaches, but the combination of life experience coupled with words that define and explain can enhance the experience of learning—and it is in that spirit that we offer these words.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Here is the true secret of the Law of Attraction: You have a core vibrational frequency. It is purely uniquely you. It's a beacon. It's like a lighthouse. It shines. It radiates purely that signature frequency of your unique being. It never stops radiating that light, that frequency, that energy - never stops. Everything that is in alignment with that frequency is doing its utmost to come to you. Everything that is not aligned with that frequency is doing its utmost to get as far away from you as it possibly can. If the things that are aligned with that beacon aren't reaching you, it's not because "you're not vibrating at the resonance that you need to attract it". It's because your definitions and beliefs are holding it away. If the things that are trying to get away from you can't get away from you, it's not because they're not trying - it's because you're holding onto them. So the true Secret of the Law of Attraction is not "how to learn to attract what you prefer", it's how to learn to let go of what you don't, so that you can let in what is trying to get to you automatically - by definition. That's the true Secret and that's why it's effortless. It's just about letting go and letting in. It's not about having to learn to do something you're not already doing.
Bashar
That which you really, really want, you get—and that which you really, really do not want, you get.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Abraham-Hicks: “It’s not your work to make anything happen. It’s your work to dream it and let it happen. Law of Attraction will
Angelica Jayne Taggart (And So It Is: A Book of Uncommon Prayer)
Gratitude feels so good because it is the state of mind closest to your natural state in which you were born to live." - Abraham-Hicks
Louise Stapely (Law of Attraction - 30 Practical Exercises (Law of Attraction in Action Book 1))
David Seabury’s book The Art of Selfishness,
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
A teacher is only as effective as his ability to understand where his student is.
Abraham Hicks
You are the vibrational writers of the script of your life and everyone else in the Universe is playing the part that you have assigned to them.
Abraham Hicks
When you focus on the good, the good gets better.
Abraham Hicks
you feel sad (because you are focused on their lack and activating that within your own vibration), and from your place of sadness you offer them the action of money or food. The vibration that you are transmitting is actually saying to them, I do this for you because I see that you cannot do this for yourself. Your vibration is actually focused upon their lack of Well-Being and therefore, even though you have offered money or food through your action, your dominant offering is perpetuating their lack.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
And it is nice to know that it matters not what others are choosing, or what others are even thinking about what I am choosing. What is important is that I am pleased with me, and as I see myself, I certainly am.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Everything That Is, is the result of vibration. And if you don't like the result, change the vibration, that's all! 'How do I change a vibration?' Think differently. 'Well, how do I think differently? That's the way I've always thought.' Well, start paying attention to how the thoughts feel instead of the content of the thought.
Abraham Hicks
Joseph Campbell said, 'Follow your bliss.' Really good advice. We say: Follow your bliss. Follow your fun. Follow your pleasure. Follow your clarity. Follow your good feelings. Follow them as far as they will take you, and more will come.
Abraham Hicks
You can speed the creation of something simply by giving it more attention—the Law of Attraction takes care of the rest and brings to you the essence of the subject of your thought. We would define the words want or desire as follows: To focus attention, or give thought toward a subject, while at the same time experiencing positive emotion. When you give your attention to a subject and you feel only positive emotion about it as you do so, it will come very quickly into your experience.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
The purpose of your life is Joy. Your objective is to seek joy. Your objective is to find appreciation or pleasure or positive thought from wherever you stand, no matter how you got there. And when you align with that Energy, you are fulfilling your purpose.
Esther Hicks
Cravings are going to occur to you. So here's the rule of thumb about eating, or about investing in the stock market, or about anything else: If the impulse comes from a joyous thought that feels good, follow it. If the impulse comes from an uncomfortable thought that felt bad, don't follow it.
Abraham-Hicks Publications
Creation Here is an exercise that will assist you in your Deliberate Creating: Take three separate pieces of paper, and at the top of each page write one thing that you want. Now take the first page, and beneath the subject of what you have written, write: “These are the reasons that I want this. .. .” Write whatever comes to your mind—write whatever flows forth naturally; do not try to force it. And when nothing more comes, you are complete for now. Now, turn your paper over and write at the top of the second side of the page: “These are the reasons that I believe that I will have this.. . .” The first side of
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
By deliberately directing your thoughts—rather than merely observing what is happening around you—you will begin to change the vibrational patterns to which the Law of Attraction is responding. And in time, with far less effort than you may currently believe, you will no longer—by responding to what others perceive you to be—be creating a future that is so similar to your past and present. Instead, you will be the powerful deliberate creator of your own experience.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
In order to effect true positive change in your experience, you must disregard how things are—as well as how others are seeing you—and give more of your attention to the way you prefer things to be. With practice, you will change your point of attraction and will experience a substantial change in your life experience.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
When an idea occurs to you and you feel eagerness about it, that means that your Inner Being is a vibrational match to the idea, and your positive emotion is an indication that the vibration of your thought in this moment matches that of your Inner Being. That is, in fact, what inspiration is: You are, in the moment, a perfect vibrational match to the broader perspective of your Inner Being, and because of that alignment, you are now receiving clear communication, or Guidance, from your Inner Being.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
hospitals are filled to the brim with those who are now taking action to compensate for inappropriate thoughts. They did not create the illness on purpose, but they did create it—through thought and through expectation—and then they went to the hospital to take physical action to compensate. We see many people spending their days exchanging their action for money, because the money is essential to the freedom of life in this society. And yet, in most cases, the action is not action in joy. It is an attempt to
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
If you want to be happy, be" -- Leo Tolstoy "The hard part is knowing it's easy" -- Abraham Hicks
Ina Zajac
When you enter a new segment of your day, if you have not made a decision about what you want, you are easily swept up by the influence, or even the confusion, of those who surround you.
Esther Hicks (Daily Planning Calendar, The Science of Deliberate Creation : Abraham-Hicks Planning Calendar and Study Guide Workbook)
But when they take action before they have improved the content of their vibration, what they get is something that matches their current vibration instead of something that matches their desire.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
The hard part is knowing it's easy -- Abraham Hicks It's better than a sharp stick in the eye -- My brother "Remember who you are" -- Ingrid Please, Pretty Lights "Forever is now" -- Matt Please, Pretty Lights
Ina Zajac (Please Pretty Lights (Pretty Lights, #1))
No matter how long you've been in that place, no matter how long you've practiced that negative emotion, no matter what the conditions that you're standing in that you're observing that are making you feel less than good; it doesn't matter how big, bad and awful whatever-it-is is that you think you're living; 10 minutes is as long as we think it would ever take to achieve the important manifestation of the improved emotional state of being.
Abraham Hicks
There are always choices there for you. In other words, you can look at the hole in the wall or you can look at the beautiful painting. You can look at the lightbulb that is out, or you can see the lightbulb that is working. You can look at your mate in his positive aspect or you can look at your mate in his negative aspect. You can look at your own body and find something that pleases you or find something that doesn’t. You can remember your childhood and find something of pleasure or you can find something that makes you feel discouraged. You can remember a compliment or you can remember somebody down on you. You can remember your love or you can remember your hate. In other words, you have that choice in every moment.
Abraham Hicks
As you are absolutely clear, in each segment of your day, about what it is that you want, you will be a a Selective Sifter, and you will receive only those thoughts that enhance that which you want -- while you will not receive those which do not.
Esther Hicks (Daily Planning Calendar, The Science of Deliberate Creation : Abraham-Hicks Planning Calendar and Study Guide Workbook)
We would recommend that if you hear of an assault, you say, “That is their experience. I do not choose that.” And then release the thought of what you do not want, and think of what you do want, because you get what you think about, whether you want it or not.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
.I see myself surrounded by others who, like me, want growth; and who are drawn to me by my willingness to allow them to be, do, or have whatever they want while I do not need to draw into my experience those things that they may be choosing that I do not like.I
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Abraham: It is not possible to push things that you do not want away from you, because in your pushing against them you are actually activating the vibration of them and therefore attracting them. Everything in this Universe is attraction based. In other words, there is no such thing as exclusion. When you shout “No!” at those things you do not want, you are actually inviting those unwanted things into your experience. When you shout “Yes!” at those things you do want, you are actually inviting those wanted things into your experience
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
as you are moving through your day, be sensitive to the way you are feeling. And whenever you find yourself feeling negative emotion, stop whatever it is you are doing that is bringing the emotion forth, for the negative emotion means that, in this moment, you are negatively creating. Negative emotion exists only when you are miscreating.And so, when you recognize that you are feeling negative emotion—no matter why, no matter how it got there, no matter what the situation is—stop doing whatever it is that you are doing and focus your thoughts on something that feels better.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Your job here in this Workshop is to assimilate data that you have been collecting from your real-life experiences (as you have been interacting with others and moving in and out of your physi-cal environment). Your work here is to bring the data together in a sort of picture of yourself, one that satisfies and pleases you.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
likely. They do such a good job of making you aware of the prevalence of robberies, bringing that awareness to your attention again and again, that you not only think of it with emotion—but you expect it. It is no wonder that you get so many of the things you do not want—you give so much of your attention to the things you do not want.. . . We
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
As you see anything that you think you would like to be in your life experience, see yourself collecting that data in a sort of mental bank. And then when you go into your Workshop, you can begin assimilating the data, and as you do so, you will prepare a picture of yourself from which you will begin attracting into your experience the essence of that which has been pleasing you.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
I Am Now in My Creative Workshop And so now you are feeling happy, and you are sitting someplace in your Workshop. Here is an example of the work you may do in your Creative Workshop: I like being here; I recognize the value and power of this time. I feel very good to be here. I see myself in a sort of total package, one that I know is of my own creating, and certainly a package of my choosing.I am full of energy in this picture of myself—tireless, and really moving through life experience without resistance. As I see myself gliding about, moving in and out of my car, in and out of buildings, in and out of rooms, in and out of conversations, and in and out of life experiences, I see myself flowing effortlessly, comfortably, and happily. I see myself attracting only those who are in harmony with my current intent. And I am clearer and clearer in every moment about what it is I want.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
Love and appreciation are identical vibrations. Appreciation is the vibration of alignment with who-you-are. Appreciation is the absence of everything that feels bad and the presence of everything that feels good. When you focus upon what you want – when you tell the story of how you want your life to be – you will come closer and closer to the vicinity of appreciation, and when you reach it, it will pull you toward all things that you consider to be good in a very powerful way.
Abraham
Abraham: It is often felt that there are those who do not like certain characteristics about other Beings, so in their dislike of those characteristics, they are responsible for the prejudice. We want to point out that it is not only the doing of the one who is accused of being prejudiced. More often, the one who feels discriminated against is the most powerful creator in that experience. The Being who feels that others do not like him—for whatever reason—whether it is religion, race, gender, or social status . . . no matter what the reason is that he feels that he is being discriminated against—it is his attention to the subject of the prejudice that attracts his trouble.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
We would attempt to bridge our belief in this way: This is usually the time of year that I get the flu. I don’t want to get the flu this year. I hope I don’t get the flu this year. It seems like everyone gets it. That may be an exaggeration. Everyone doesn’t get the flu. In fact, there have been many flu seasons when I didn’t get the flu. I don’t always get the flu. It’s possible that this flu season could come and go without touching me at all. I like the idea of being healthy. Those past flu experiences came before I realized that I can control my experience. Now that I understand the power of my own thoughts, things have changed. Now that I understand the power of the Law of Attraction, things have changed. It isn’t necessary for me to experience the flu this year. It isn’t necessary for me to experience anything that I don’t want. It’s possible for me to direct my thoughts toward things I do want to experience. I like the idea of guiding my life to things that I do want to experience.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
them intentionally, effectively, and satisfactorily through your physical expression of life. The Law of Attraction is the first of the Laws that we will offer, for if you do not understand, and are not able to effectively apply, the Law of Attraction, then the second Law, the Science of Deliberate Creation, and the third, the Art of Allowing, cannot be utilized. You must first understand and effectively utilize the first Law in order to understand and utilize the second. And you must be able to understand and utilize the second Law before you will be able to understand and utilize the third. The first Law, the Law of Attraction, says: That which is like unto itself, is drawn. While this may seem like a rather simple statement, it defines the most powerful Law in the Universe—a Law that affects all things at all times. Nothing exists that is unaffected by this powerful Law. The second Law, the Science of Deliberate Creation, says: That which I give thought to and that which I believe or expect—is. In short, you get what you are thinking about, whether you want it or not. A deliberate application of thought is really what the Science of Deliberate Creation is about, for if you do not understand these Laws, and deliberately apply them, then you may very well be creating by default. The third Law, the Art of Allowing, says: I am that which I am, and I am willing to allow all others to be that which they are. When you are willing to allow others to be as they are, even in their not allowing of you, then you will be an Allower, but it is not likely that you will reach that point until you first come to understand how it is you get what you get. Only when you understand that another cannot be a part of your experience unless you invite them in through your thoughts (or through your attention to them), and that circumstances cannot be a part of your experience unless you invite them to you through your thought (or through your observation of them), will you be the Allower that you wanted to be when you came forth into this expression of life. An understanding of these three powerful Universal Laws, and a deliberate application of them, will lead you to the joyous freedom of being able to create your own life experience exactly as you want it to be. Once you understand that all people, circumstances, and events are invited into your experience by you, through your thought, you will begin to live your life as you intended when you made the decision to come forth into this physical body. And so, an understanding of the powerful Law of Attraction, coupled with an intention to Deliberately Create your own life experience, will ultimately lead you to the unparalleled freedom that can only come from a complete understanding and application of the Art of Allowing.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)
For example, let us say that a woman has recently come from a bad relationship where her partner has verbally and physically abused her. She did not want that or like that. In fact she hated the life that she lived with that person. So, from her place of really knowing what she does not want, she makes a clear statement of what she does want. She wants a partner who loves her and treats her with kindness and respect. But she feels very insecure without a partner, and she wants a new partner immediately. And so, she goes someplace where she is accustomed to going and meets a new person who seems nice enough. But what she may not realize is that the Law of Attraction is still matching her up with whatever is dominant within her. And right now, what is still dominant within her is the vibration of what she does not want because the unwanted parts of her last relationship are much more active within her thoughts than the new intentions that have been established. In her eagerness to soothe her feelings of insecurity, she takes action and jumps into this new relationship—and gets more of what is dominant within her vibration. It would be our encouragement that she take things more slowly and spend more time thinking about what she wants until those thoughts are the basis for the dominant vibration within her. And then, let the Law of Attraction bring her wonderful new partner to her.
Esther Hicks (The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham)