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Fatβ is just the current catchall word for all the things that we as a culture are afraid of: womenβs rights, people refusing to acquiesce to cultural pressures of conformity, fear of mortality. [People who hate fat people] see body love as a move toward people taking charge of their lives and choosing what they want to do, no matter what the culture says. This is really scary to a lot of people. The anger they express is actually toward themselves. A person who hates seeing a happy, liberated person wishes they had the strength to do that, but they are too entrenched or βbought inβ to the way things are right now to see it as a beautiful thing. So they see it and they hate it . . . People have invested a lot of time and a lot of resources into this game that says βthin wins.β So when people see exceptions to that rule, they feel personally invalidated, personally stolen from, personally affronted.
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Jes Baker (Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls: A Handbook for Unapologetic Living)