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In principle and reality, libraries are life-enhancing palaces of wonder.
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Sometimes you simply needed someone kind to sit with you while you dealt with things.
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Although itβs good to try new things and to keep an open mind, itβs also extremely important to stay true to who you really are.
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I simply didn't know how to make things better. I could not solve the puzzle of me.
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In the end, what matters is this: I survived.
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Time only blunts the pain of loss. It doesnβt erase it.
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I have been waiting for death all my life. I do not mean that I actively wish to die, just that I do not really want to be alive.
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These days, loneliness is the new cancerβa shameful, embarrassing thing, brought upon yourself in some obscure way. A fearful, incurable thing, so horrifying that you dare not mention it; other people donβt want to hear the word spoken aloud for fear that they might too be afflicted, or that it might tempt fate into visiting a similar horror upon them.
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When you're struggling hard to manage your own emotions, it becomes unbearable to have to witness other people's, to have to try and manage theirs too.
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Some people, weak people, fear solitude. What they fail to understand is that you don't need anyone, you can take care of yourself.
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When the silence and the aloneness press down and around me, crushing me, carving through me like ice, I need to speak aloud sometimes, if only for proof of life.
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I find lateness exceptionally rude; itβs so disrespectful, implying unambiguously that you consider yourself and your own time to be so much more valuable than the other personβs.
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There are scars on my heart, just as thick, as disfiguring as those on my face. I know theyβre there. I hope some undamaged tissue remains, a patch through which love can come in and flow out. I hope.
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A philosophical question: if a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound? And if a woman who's wholly alone occasionally talks to a pot plant, is she certifiable? I think that it is perfectly normal to talk to oneself occasionally. It's not as though I'm expecting a reply. I'm fully aware that Polly is a houseplant.
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You can't have too much dog in a book.
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Your voice changes when youβre smiling, it alters the sound somehow.
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There are days when I feel so lightly connected to the earth that the threads that tether me to the planet are gossamer thin, spun sugar. A strong gust of wind could dislodge me completely, and Iβd lift off and blow away, like one of those seeds in a dandelion clock. The threads tighten slightly from Monday to Friday.
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The moment hung in time like a drop of honey from a spoon, heavy, golden.
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I feel sorry for beautiful people. Beauty, from the moment you possess it, is already slipping away, ephemeral. That must be difficult.
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Obscenity is the distinguishing hallmark of a sadly limited vocabulary.
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No thank you,β I said. βI donβt want to accept a drink from you, because then I would be obliged to purchase one for you in return, and Iβm afraid Iβm simply not interested in spending two drinksβ worth of time with you.
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I suppose one of the reasons weβre all able to continue to exist for our allotted span in this green and blue vale of tears is that there is always, however remote it might seem, the possibility of change.
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LOL could go and take a running jump. I wasnβt made for illiteracy; it simply didnβt come naturally.
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Youβve made me shiny, Laura,β I said. I tried to stop it, but a little tear ran down the side of my nose. I wiped it away with the back of my hand before it could dampen the ends of my new hair. βThank you for making me shiny.
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Iβm not sure Iβd like to be burned. I think I might like to be fed to zoo animals. It would be both environmentally friendly and a lovely treat for the larger carnivores. Could you request that?
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She had tried to steer me towards vertiginous heels again - why are these people so incredibly keen on crippling their female customers? I began to wonder if cobblers and chiropractors had established some fiendish cartel.
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You can't protect other people, however hard you try.
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Did men ever look in the mirror, I wondered, and find themselves wanting in deeply fundamental ways? When they opened a newspaper or watched a film, were they presented with nothing but exceptionally handsome young men, and did this make them feel intimidated, inferior, because they were not as young, not as handsome? Did they then read newspaper articles ridiculing those same handsome men if they gained weight or wore something unflattering?
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I took one of my hands in the other, tried to imagine what it would feel like if it was another person's hand holding mine. There have been times where I felt that I might die of loneliness.
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Three words, Ignis aurum probat. βFire tests gold.β The rest of the phrase: β. . . and adversity tests the brave.
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Grief is the price we pay for love, so they say. The price is far too high.
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There was, it seemed, no Eleanor-shaped social hole for me to slot
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She looked at him with so much love that I had to turn away. At least I know what love looks like, I told myself. That's something. No one had ever looked at me like that, but I'd be able to recognize it if they ever did.
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I pondered what else I should take for him. Flowers seemed wrong; they're a love token, after all. I looked in the fridge, and popped a packet of cheese slices into the bag. All men like cheese.
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Men like Raymond, pedestrial dullards, would always be distracted by women who looked like her, having neither the wit nor the sophistication to see beyond mammaries and peroxide.
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I felt like a newly laid egg, all swishy and gloopy inside, and so fragile that the slightest pressure could break me.
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I had no idea how to respond, and opted for a smile, which serves me well on most occasions (not if it's something to do with death or illness, though -- I know that now.)
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I had to google "mofo" and must confess to being slightly alarmed by the result.
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Whenever I'd been sad or upset before, the relevant people in my life would simply call my social worker and I'd be moved somewhere else. Raymond hadn't phoned anyone or asked an outside agency to intervene. He'd elected to look after me himself. I'd been pondering this, and concluded that there must be some people for whom difficult behavior wasn't a reason to end their relationship with you. If they liked you -- and, I remembered, Raymond and I had agreed that we were pals now -- then, it seemed, they were prepared to maintain contact, even if you were sad, or upset, or behaving in very challenging ways. This was something of a revelation.
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I wasn't good at pretending, that was the thing. After what had happened in that burning house, given what went on there, I could see no point in being anything other than truthful with the world. I had, literally, nothing left to lose. But, by careful observation from the sidelines, I'd worked out that social success is often built on pretending just a little. Popular people sometimes have to laugh at things they don't find very funny, or do things they don't particularly want to, with people whose company they don't particularly enjoy. Not me. I had decided, years ago, that if the choice was between that or flying solo, then I'd fly solo. It was safer that way. Grief is the price we pay for love, so they say. The price is far too high.
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Some people, weak people, fear solitude. What they fail to understand is that thereβs something very liberating about it; once you realize that you donβt need anyone, you can take care of yourself. Thatβs the thing: itβs best just to take care of yourself.
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I do exist, donβt I? It often feels as if Iβm not here, that Iβm a figment of my own imagination. There are days when I feel so lightly connected to the earth that the threads that tether me to the planet are gossamer thin, spun sugar. A strong gust of wind could dislodge me completely, and Iβd lift off and blow away, like one of those seeds in a dandelion clock.
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If Iβm ever unsure as to the correct course of action, Iβll think, βWhat would a ferret do?β or, βHow would a salamander respond to this situation?β Invariably, I find the right answer.
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A woman who knew her own mind and scorned the conventions of polite society. We were going to get along just fine.
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realized that such small gestures β the way his mother had made me a cup of tea after our meal without asking, remembering that I didnβt take sugar, the way Laura had placed two little biscuits on the saucer when she brought me coffee in the salon β such things could mean so much.
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There was nothing to tempt me from the choice of desserts, so I opted instead for a coffee, which was bitter and lukewarm. Naturally, I had been about to pour it all over myself but, just in time, had read the warning printed on the paper cup, alerting me to the fact that hot liquids can cause injury. A lucky escape, Eleanor! I said to myself, laughing quietly. I began to suspect that Mr. McDonald was a very foolish man indeed, although, judging from the undiminished queue, a wealthy one.
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It turned out that if you saw the same person with some degree of regularity, then the conversation was immediately pleasant and comfortable -- you could pick up where you left off, as it were, rather than having to start afresh each time.
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...when you took a moment to see what was around you, noticed all the little things, it made you feel....lighter.
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Free-form jigging, communal shapes in the air; Dancing was easy!...YMCA! YMCA! Arms in the air, mimicking the letters - what a marvelous idea! Who knew that dancing could be so logical? ...From my limited exposure to popular music, people did seem to sing about umbrellas and firstarting and Emily Bronte novels, so, I supposed, why not a gender-and faith-based youth organization?
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Iβd tried to cope alone for far too long, and it hadnβt done me any good at all. Sometimes you simply needed someone kind to sit with you while you dealt with things.
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I felt the heat where his hand had been; it was only a moment, but it left a warm imprint, almost as though it might be visible. A human hand was exactly the right weight, exactly the right temperature for touching another person, I realized.
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Was this how it worked, then, successful social integration? Was it really that simple? Wear some lipstick, go to the hairdressers and alternate the clothes you wear?
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Did you enjoy yourself?' I asked.
'Mmm,' he said. 'It was fun, wasn't it?' He wasn't using a knife, but held a fork in his right hand like a child or an American. He smiled.
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Itβs SpongeBob, Eleanor,β he said, speaking very slowly and clearly as though I were some sort of idiot. βSpongeBob SquarePants?β A semi-human bath sponge with protruding front teeth! On sale as if it were something completely unremarkable! For my entire life, people have said that Iβm strange, but really, when I see things like this, I realize that Iβm actually relatively normal.
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There must be some piece of wiring left over in our brains, from our ancestors, something that means we canβt help but stare into a fire, watch it move and dance, warding off evil spirits and dangerous animalsΒ .Β .Β . thatβs what fireβs supposed to do, isnβt it?
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I was a human woman, no more and no less.
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But, by careful observation from the sidelines, Iβd worked out that social success is often built on pretending just a little. Popular people sometimes have to laugh at things they donβt find very funny, do things they donβt particularly want to, with people whose company they donβt particularly enjoy. Not me. I had decided, years ago, that if the choice was between that or flying solo, then Iβd fly solo. It was safer that way.
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You forget that the world is full of ordinary decent people like yourselves, good Samaritans whoβll stop and help a soul in need.
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It takes a long time to learn to live with loss, assuming you ever manage it.
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My phone doesnβt ring oftenβit makes me jump when it doesβand itβs usually people asking if Iβve been mis-sold Payment Protection Insurance. I whisper I know where you live to them, and hang up the phone very, very gently.
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How brave are you prepared to be, Eleanor?β Laura asked. This was the correct question. I am brave. I am brave, courageous, Eleanor Oliphant.
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In the end, what matters is this: I survived.β I gave him a very small smile. βI survived, Raymond!β I said, knowing that I was both lucky and unlucky, and grateful for it.
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Nine years, and you've never had a day off sick, never used all your annual leave. That's dedication, you know. It's not easy to find these days."
"It's not dedication," I said. "I simply have a very robust constitution and no one to go on holiday with.
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I have always enjoyed reading, but I've never been sure how to select appropriate material. There are so many books in the world--how do you tell them all apart? How do you know which one will match your tastes and interests?
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Tiny slivers of life--they all added up and helped you to feel that you too could be a fragment, a little piece of humanity who usefully filled a space, however minuscule.
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Everything was there, obvious to us both, but it all remained unsaid.
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Life is all about taking decisive action, darling. Whatever you want to do, do itβ whatever you want to take, grab it. Whatever you want to bring to an end, END IT. And live with the consequences.
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But it's still love: animals, people. It's unconditional, and it's both the easiest and the hardest thing in the world.
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I realized what I felt . . . happy. It was such a strange, unusual feelingβlight, calm, as though Iβd swallowed sunshine.
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It wasn't that you could take them for granted, as such - heaven knows, nothing can be taken for granted in this life - it was simply that you would know, almost unthinkingly, that they'd be there if you needed them, no matter how bad things got.
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I finally managed to open the door, but couldnβt raise my head, didnβt have the strength to look up. At least the banging had stopped. That was my only objective.
βJesus Christ!β a manβs voice said.
βEleanor Oliphant,β I replied.
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Her home was so...shiny. She was shiny too, her skin, her hair, her shoes, her teeth. I hadn't even realized before; I am matte, dull and scuffed.
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Janey was planning a short engagement, she'd simpered, and so, of course, the inevitable collection for the wedding present would soon follow. Of all the compulsory financial contributions, that is the one that irks me most. Two people wander around John Lewis picking out lovely items for themselves, and then they make other people pay for them. It's bare-faced effrontery. They choose things like plates, bowls and cutleryβI mean, what are they doing at the moment: shoveling food from packets into their mouths with their bare hands? I simply fail to see how the act of legally formalizing a human relationship necessitates friends, family and coworkers upgrading the contents of their kitchen for them.
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I could not solve the puzzle of me.
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Human mating rituals are unbelievably tedious to observe. At least in the animal kingdom you are occasionally treated to a flash of bright feathers or a display of spectacular violence. Hair flicking and play fights donβt quite cut the mustard.
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My life, I realized, had gone wrong. Very, very wrong. I wasnβt supposed to live like this. No one was supposed to live like this. The problem was that I simply didnβt know how to make it right.
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I have often noticed that people who routinely wear sportswear are the least likely sort to participate in athletic activity.
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His eyes were light brown. They were light brown in the way that a rose is red, or that the sky is blue. They defined what it meant to be light brown.
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She certainly seems to have a life, not just an existence.
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I allowed my mind to wander. Iβve found this to be a very effective way of passing the time; you take a situation or a person and start to imagine nice things that might happen. You can make anything happen, anything at all, inside a daydream.
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I did not own any Tupperware, having no need of it until this point. I could go to a department store to purchase some. That seemed to be the sort of thing that a woman of my age and social circumstances might do. Exciting!
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All of the people in the room seemed to take so much for granted: that they would be invited to social events, that they would have friends and family to talk to, that they would fall in love, be loved in return, perhaps create a family of their own.
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When did people become embarrassed to sing in public? Was it because of the decline in churchgoing? And yet the television schedule was full of singing contests in which people, however untalented, were far from shy about participating.
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I'm responsible. I chose to put myself in a situation where I'm responsible, wanting to look after her, a small, dependent, vulnerable creature. It's innate and I don't even have to think about it. It's like breathing -- for some people.
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I feel sorry for beautiful people. Beauty, from the moment you possess it, is already slipping away, ephemeral. That must be difficult. Always having to prove that thereβs more to you, wanting people to see beneath the surface, to be loved for yourself, and not your stunning body, sparkling eyes or thick, lustrous hair.
In most professions, getting older means getting better at your job, earning respect because of your seniority and experience. If your job depends on your looks, the opposite is trueβhow depressing. Suffering other peopleβs unkindness must be difficult too; all those bitter, less attractive people, jealous and resentful of your beauty. Thatβs incredibly unfair of them. After all, beautiful people didnβt ask to be born that way. Itβs as unfair to dislike someone because theyβre attractive as it is to dislike someone because of a deformity.
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Sometimes you're too quick to judge people. There are all kinds of reasons why they might not look like the kind of person you'd want to sit next to on a bus, but you can't sum someone up in a ten-second glance. That's simply not enough time.
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I was in a fast-food restaurant for the first time in my adult life, an enormous and garish place just around the corner from the music venue. It was mystifyingly, inexplicably busy. I wondered why humans would willingly queue at a counter to request processed food, then carry it to a table which was not even set, and then eat it from the paper? Afterward, despite having paid for it, the customer themselves are responsible for clearing away the detritus. Very strange.
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Life should be about trying new things ,exploring boundaries, I reminded myself.
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The streets were all named after poets - Wordsworth Lane, Shelley Close, Keats Rise - no doubt chosen by the building company's marketing department. They were all poets that the kind of person who'd aspire to own such a home would recognize, poets who wrote about urns and flowers and wandering clouds. Based on past experience, I'd be more likely to end up living in Dante Lane or Poe Crescent.
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Their laughter seemed to have turned into low whispering now. It never ceases to amaze me, the things they find interesting, amusing or unusual. I can only assume they've led very sheltered lives.
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What, I wondered, was the point of me? I contributed nothing to the world, absolutely nothing, and I took nothing from it either. When I ceased to exist, it would make no material difference to anyone. Most peopleβs absence from the world would be felt on a personal level by at least a handful of people. I, however, had no one. I do not light up a room when I walk into it. No one longs to see me or to hear my voice.
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This is what I felt: the warm weight of his hands on me; the genuineness in his smile; the gentle heat of something opening, the way some flowers spread out in the morning at the sight of the sun. I knew what was happening.
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Eyelids are really just flesh curtains. Your eyes are always βonβ, always looking; when you close them, youβre watching the thin, veined skin of your inner eyelid rather than staring out at the world.
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At the office, there was that palpable sense of Friday joy, everyone colluding with the lie that somehow the weekend would be amazing and that, next week, work would be different, better. They never learn.
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If Iβm ever unsure as to the correct course of action, Iβll think, βWhat would a ferret do?
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People seem to like me better with makeup on, for some reason,β I said. He raised his eyebrows and shrugged, apparently as stumped as I was.
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It often feels as if Iβm not here, that Iβm a figment of my own imagination. There are days when I feel so lightly connected to the earth that the threads that tether me to the planet are gossamer thin, spun sugar.
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I steeled myself as best I could, and, with teeth gritted, using only one finger I typed:
C U there E.
I sat back, feeling a bit queasy. Illiterate communication was quicker, that was true, but not by much. I'd saved myself the trouble of typing four whole characters. Still, it was part of my new credo, trying new things. I'd tried it, and I very definitely did not like it. LOL could go and take a running jump. I wasn't made for illiteracy; it simply didn't come naturally. Although it's good to try new things and to keep an open mind, it's also extremely important to stay true to who you really are. I read that in a magazine at the hairdressers.
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do not light up a room when I walk into it. No one longs to see me or to hear my voice. I do not feel sorry for myself, not in the least. These are simply statements of fact. I have been waiting for death all my life. I do not mean that I actively wish to die, just that I do not really want to be alive.
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Was this how it worked, then, successful social integration? Was it really that simple? Wear some lipstick, go to the hairdressers and alternate the clothes you wear? Someone ought to write a book, or at least an explanatory pamphlet, and pass this information on.
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My eye was drawn to a bright green hue, the same shade as a poisonous Amazonian frog, the tiny, delightfully deadly ones.
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What, I wondered, was the point of me?
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However much you loved someone, it wasn't always enough. Love alone couldn't keep them safe...
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...you're a bit bonkers-but in a good way. You make me laugh...you don't give a ____ about any of the stupid stuff...you just do your own thing, don't you?
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No one had ever bought me lunch before. It was a very pleasant feeling, to have someone incur expenditure on my behalf, voluntarily, expecting nothing in return.
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Youβre doing it already, Eleanor. Youβre braver and stronger than you give yourself credit for. Keep going.
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The crematorium was a busy place and the parking spaces were needed, I supposed. Iβm not sure Iβd like to be burned. I think I might like to be fed to zoo animals. It would be both environmentally friendly and a lovely treat for the larger carnivores. Could you request that? I wondered. I made a mental note to write to the WWF in order to find out.
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There have been times when I felt that I might die of loneliness. People sometimes say they might die of boredom, that they're dying for a cup of tea, but for me, dying of loneliness is not a hyperbole. When I feel like that, my head drops and my shoulders slump and I ache, I physically ache, for human contact - I truly feel that I might tumble to the ground and pass away if someone doesn't hold me, touch me. I don't mean a lover - this recent madness aside, I had long since given up on any notion that another person might love me that way - but simply a human being. The scalp massage at the hairdresser, the flu jab I had last winter - the only time I experience touch is from people whom I am paying, and they are almost wearing disposable gloves at the time. I'm merely stating the facts.
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Life was so very precarious. I already knew that, of course. No one knew it better than me. I know, I know how ridiculous this is, how pathetic, but on some days, the very darkest days, knowing that the plant would die if I didnβt water it was the only thing that forced me up out of bed.
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How marvelous to be able to read someoneβs skin, to explore the story of his life across his chest, his arms, the softness at the back of his neck. The barman had roses and a treble clef, a cross, a womanβs face . . . so much detail, so little unadorned flesh.
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It was too hot inside the hospital and the floors squeaked. There was a hand-gel dispenser outside the ward, and a big yellow sign above it read Do Not Drink. Did people actually drink sanitizing hand gel? I supposed they must--hence the sign. Part of me, a very small sliver, briefly considered dipping my head to taste a drop, purely because I'd been ordered not to. No, Eleanor, I told myself. Curb your rebellious tendencies. Stick to tea, coffee, and vodka.
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There are scars on my heart, just as thick, as disfiguring as those on my face. I know they're there. I hope some undamaged tissue remains, a patch through which love can come in and flow out. I hope.
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This was an all too familiar social scenario for me; standing alone, staring into the middle of distance. It was absolutely fine. It was absolutely normal. After the fire, at each new school, I'd tried so hard, but something about me just didn't fit. There was, it seemed, no Eleanor-shaped social hole for me to slot into.
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Eyelids are really just flesh curtains.
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The gilded confines of the Beauty Hall were not my preferred habitat; like the chicken that had laid the eggs for my sandwich, I was more of a free-range creature.
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I had convinced myself that he was the one, that he would help to make me normal, fix the things that were wrong with my life.
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I had intended to buy Alphabetti Spaghetti, but, on impulse, chose hoops instead. Itβs good to keep an open mind,
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I should have been offended that he was commandeering my living space, but instead I felt relief, overwhelming relief at being taken care of.
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Social interaction, it appeared, was surprisingly expensiveβthe travel, the clothes, the drinks, the lunches, the gifts. Sometimes it evened out in the endβlike with the drinksβbut, I was finding out, more often than not, one incurred a net financial loss.
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He had the look of a gazelle or an impala, one of those boring beige animals with large, round eyes on the side of its face. The kind of animal that always gets eaten by a leopard in the end.
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What, I wondered, was the point of me? I contributed nothing to the world, absolutely nothing, and I took nothing from it either. When I ceased to exist, it would make no material difference to anyone.
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I have yet to find a genre of music I enjoy; itβs basically audible physics, waves and energized particles, and, like most sane people, I have no interest in physics. It therefore struck me as bizarre that I was humming a tune from Oliver! I mentally added the exclamation mark, which, for the first time ever, was appropriate.
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Noticing details, that was good. Tiny slivers of life β they all added up and helped you to feel that you, too, could be a fragment, a little piece of humanity who usefully filled a space, however minuscule.
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All you hear these days is that everythingβs going to hell in a handcart, how everybodyβs a pedophile or a crook, and itβs not true. You forget that the world is full of ordinary decent people like yourselves, Good Samaritans whoβll stop and help a soul in need.
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It seemed there was an announcement every five minutes from the mythical conductor, imparting sagacious gems such as "large items should be placed in the overhead luggage racks", or that "passengers should report any unattended items to the train crew as soon as possible". I wondered at whom these pearls of wisdom were aimed; some passing extraterrestrial, perhaps, or a yak herder from Ulan Bator who had trekked across the steppes, sailed the North Sea, and found himself on the Glasgow-Edinburgh service with literally no prior experience of mechanized transport to call upon?
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libraries are life-enhancing palaces of wonder
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It struck me that, in the nicest possible way, she didn't really have a personality. She was a mother.
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nebulous and milky, like light from an old, old star.
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As if a silver in the egg-and-spoon race was some sort of compensation for not understanding how to use an apostrophe.
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These days, loneliness is the new cancer β a shameful, embarrassing thing, brought upon yourself in some obscure way.
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I sat on my own and no one asked me to dance and I was absolutely fine with that.
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I was a thirty-year-old woman with a juvenile crush on a man whom I didnβt know, and would never know.
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I had no idea what it was, but I realized that I'd happily sit here in the warmth with him and watch a golf programme if that was all there was.
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She only really enjoyed her own company. She tolerated mine, but fundamentally she was a recluse at heart, like J.D. Salinger or the Unabomber.
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Whilst I am neither stylish nor fashionable, I am always clean; that way, at least, I can hold my head up when I take my place, however unexalted, in the world.
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My hair was mousy brown, parted in the center, straight and not particularly thick. Human hair, doing what human hair does: growing on my head.
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Silence sat between us, shivering with misery.
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I have yet to find a genre of music I enjoy; itβs basically audible physics, waves and energized particles, and, like most sane people, I have no interest in physics.
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Why is it that client-facing jobs hold such allure for misanthropes?
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Everybody needs to take a wee moment to themselves now and again, eh?
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In my eagerness to change, to connect with someone, Iβd focused on the wrong thing, the wrong person.
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Moments later, I received a response: :D Twenty-first-century communication. I fear for our nationβs standards of literacy.
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He wasn't mad. He just didn't have any socks on.
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After the shampoo was rinsed away, the girl performed a βshiatsu head massageβ. I have never known such bliss. She kneaded my scalp with firm tenderness and precision, and I felt the hairs stand up on my forearms, then a bolt of electricity run down my spine. It ended about nine hours before I would have liked it to.
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In primary school, sports day was the one day of the year when the less academically gifted students could triumph...As if a silver in the egg-and-spoon race was some sort of compensation for not understanding how to use an apostrophe
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The only criterion I have is that the books must look clean, which means that I have to disregard a lot of potential reading material in the charity shop. I don't use the library for the same reason, althought obviously, in principle and reality, libraries are life-enhancing palaces of wonder.
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My password? Of course. Three words, Ignis aurum probat. βFire tests gold.β The rest of the phrase:Β β.Β .Β .Β and adversity tests the brave.β How true. A strong password, strong indeed, exactly as required by the computer system. Thank you, Seneca.
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It occurs to me that there are many things in life that Iβve never considered doing, Raymond. I suppose I hadnβt realized that I had any control over them. That sounds ridiculous, I know,β I said.
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Did you have a good time on Saturday, then?β he asked. I wished it had been between mouthfuls, but it was, in fact, horrifically, during one. βYes, thank you,β I said. βIt was the first time Iβve tried dancing, and I quite enjoyed it.β He kept forking the food into his mouth. The process, and the noise, seemed almost industrial in its relentlessness.
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I'd worked out that social success is often built on pretending just a little. Popular people sometimes have to laugh at things they don't find very funny, do things they don't particularly want to, with people whose company they don't particularly enjoy
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There was no hope, things couldnβt be put right. I couldnβt be put right. The past could neither be escaped nor undone. After all these weeks of delusion, I recognized, breathless, the pure, brutal truth of it.
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I did sometimes wonder what it would be like to have someone - a cousing, say, or a sibling - to call in times of need, or even just to spend unplanned time with. Some who knows you, cares about you, who wants the best for you. A houseplant, however attractive and robust, doesn't quite cut the mustard, unfortunately. Pointless to speculate, though. I had no one, and it was futile to wish it was otherwise. After all, it was no more than I deserved. And, really, I was fine, fine, fine.
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The barman was well over six feet tall and had created strange, enormous holes in his earlobes by inserting little black plastic circles in order to push back the skin. For some reason, I was reminded of my shower curtain.
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I understood that assisted conception was the antithesis of careless, spontaneous or unplanned parenthood, that it was the most deliberate of decisions, undertaken only by women who were serious and dedicated in their quest to be mothers.
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I simply fail to see how the act of legally formalizing a human relationship necessitates friends, family and co-workers upgrading the contents of their kitchen for them.
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I'd tried to cope alone for far too long, and it hadn't done me any good at all. Sometimes you simply needed someone kind to sit with you while you dealt with things.
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He wasnβt using a knife, but held a fork in his right hand like a child or an American.
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Families came and went, and the whole place felt temporary, somehow, like theatrical scenery that had been hastily assembled and could be shifted at any time.
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I do feel that tube tops are best suited to the under twenty-fives, if, indeed, they are suited to anyone.
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There is such a paucity of good manners on display in the so-called service sector!
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A human hand was exactly the right weight, exactly the right temperature for touching another person, I realized.
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that palpable sense of Friday joy, everyone colluding with the lie that somehow the weekend would be amazing and that, next week, work would be different, better. They never learn.
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and Iβd lift off and blow away, like one of those seeds in a dandelion clock.
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Did Iβ¦did I look like the kind of person to be avoided in a game of bus seat selection?
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You donβt miss what youβve never had,
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I needed to make something happen, anything. I couldn't keep passing through life, over it, under it, around it. I couldn't go on haunting the world like a wraith.
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Everything seems worse in the darkest hours of the night; I was surprised to hear that the birds were still singing,
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I put my hands to my ears, unable to believe what I was hearing. Without exaggeration, it could only be described as the cacophonous din of hell.
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once you realize that you donβt need anyone, you can take care of yourself. Thatβs the thing: itβs best just to take care of yourself. You canβt protect other people, however hard you try.
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I feel sorry for beautiful people. Beauty, from the moment you possess it, is already slipping away, ephemeral. That must be difficult. Always having to prove that there's more to you, wanting people to see beneath the surface, to be loved for yourself, and not your stunning body, sparkling eyes or thick, lustrous hair.
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They choose things like plates, bowls and cutleryβI mean, what are they doing at the moment: shoveling food from packets into their mouths with their bare hands? I simply fail to see how the act of legally formalizing a human relationship necessitates friends, family and coworkers upgrading the contents of their kitchen for them.
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All of the seats already had an occupant, which meant I was going to have to position myself next to a stranger. In a different mood, I enjoyed this game: one had ten seconds to scan the occupants and select the slimmest, sanest, cleanest-looking person to sit next to.
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music. It was a cacophonous din, with too many guitars and not enough melody. It was, I thought, the sound of madness, the kind of music that lunatics hear in their heads just before they slice the heads off foxes and throw them into their neighborβs back garden. βIβve
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Things didn't feel right; I hadn't been able to relax yesterday, hadn't been able to settle to anything. I just felt on edge, somehow. If my mood was a crossword clue, the answer would be "discombobulated.
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Raymond hadnβt phoned anyone or asked an outside agency to intervene. Heβd elected to look after me himself. Iβd been pondering this, and concluded that there must be some people for whom difficult behavior wasnβt a reason to end their relationship with you. If they liked youβand, I remembered, Raymond and I had agreed that we were pals nowβthen, it seemed, they were prepared to maintain contact, even if you were sad, or upset, or behaving in very challenging ways. This was something of a revelation.
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Then I felt bad. Even alcoholics deserve help, I suppose, although they should get drunk at home, like I do, so that they donβt cause anyone else any trouble. But then, not everyone is as sensible and considerate as me.
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After much reflection on the political and sociological aspects of the table, I have realized that I am completely uninterested in food. My preference is for fodder that is cheap, quick and simple to procure and prepare, whilst providing the requisite nutrients to enable a person to stay alive.
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Sport is a mystery to me. In primary school, sports day was the one day of the year when the less academically gifted students could triumph, winning prizes for jumping fastest in a sack, or running from Point A to Point B more quickly than their classmates. How they loved to wear those badges on their blazers the next day! As if a silver in the egg-and-spoon race was some sort of compensation for not understanding how to use an apostrophe.
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Oh yes,β she said, and I heard her dismissive sideways hiss of cigarette smoke. βIt was just that I wanted to tell you that youβre a pointless waste of human tissue. That was all. Bye then, darling!β she said, bright as a knife.
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think I might like to be fed to zoo animals. It would be both environmentally friendly and a lovely treat for the larger carnivores. Could you request that, I wondered. I made a mental note to write to the WWF in order to find out.
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Animals, birds and insects can provide such useful insights. If Iβm ever unsure as to the correct course of action, Iβll think, βWhat would a ferret do?β or, βHow would a salamander respond to this situation?β Invariably, I find the right answer.
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These magazines could tell me which clothes and shoes to wear, how to have my hair styled in order to fit in. They could show me the right kind of makeup to buy and how to apply it. This way, I would disappear into everywoman acceptability. I would not be stared at. The goal, ultimately, was successful camouflage as a human woman.
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The shop floor was vast, and I decided to request assistance. The first woman I saw was matronly, and did not seem well placed to dispense fashion advice. The second was in her late teens or early twenties, and therefore too callow to advise me. The third, in the manner of Goldilocks, was just rightβaround my age, well groomed, sensible-looking. I approached with caution.
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He had his hands in the pockets of his low-slung denim trousers, and was wearing a strange, oversized woolen hat that I hadnβt seen before. It looked like the kind of hat that a German goblin might wear in an illustration from a nineteenth-century fairy tale, possibly one about a baker who was unkind to children and got his comeuppance via an elfin horde. I rather liked it.
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Itβs not you, libraries, itβs me, as the popular saying goes. The thought of books passing through so many unwashed handsβpeople reading them in the bath, letting their dogs sit on them, picking their nose and wiping the results on the pages. People eating cheesy crisps and then reading a few chapters without washing their hands first. I just canβt. No, I look for books with one careful owner.
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It fell open at a pivotal scene, the one where Jane meets Mr. Rochester for the first time, startling his horse in the woods and causing him to fall. Pilot is there too, the handsome, soulful-eyed hound. If the book has one failing, itβs that there is insufficient mention of Pilot. You canβt have too much dog in a book.
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Eyelids are really just flesh curtains. Your eyes are always 'on,' always looking; when you close them, you're watching the thin, veined skin of your inner eyelid rather than staring out at the world. It's not a comforting thought. In fact, if I thought about it for long enough, I'd probably want to pluck out my own eyes, to stop looking, to stop seeing all the time. The things I've seen cannot be unseen. The things I've done cannot be undone.
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During the next free-form jigging section, I started to wonder why the band was singing about, presumably, the Young Men's Christian Association, but then, from my very limited exposure to popular music, people did seem to sing about umbrellas and fire-starting and Emily Bronte novels, so, I supposed, why not a gender- and faith-based youth organization?
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This is what I felt: the warm weight of his hands on me; the genuineness in his smile; the gentle heat of something opening, the way some flowers spread out in the morning at the sight of the sun. I knew what was happening. It was the unscarred piece of my heart. It was just big enough to let in a bit of affection. There was still a tiny bit of room left.
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Sometimes, after counseling sessions, I desperately wanted to buy vodka, lots of it, take it home and drink it down, but in the end I never did. I couldnβt, for lots of reasons, one of which was that if I wasnβt fit to, then who would feed Glen? She isnβt able to take care of herself. She needs me. It isnβt annoying, her needβit isnβt a burden. Itβs a privilege. Iβm responsible. I chose to put myself in a situation where Iβm responsible. Wanting to look after her, a small, dependent, vulnerable creature, is innate, and I donβt even have to think about it. Itβs like breathing. For some people.
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I do exist, don't I? It often feels as if I'm not here, that I'm a figment of my own imagination. There are days when I feel so lightly connected to the earth that the threads that tether me to the planet are gossamer thin, spun sugar. A strong gust of wind could dislodge me completely, and I'd left off and blow away, like one of those seeds in a dandelion clock.
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I have always enjoyed reading, but I've never been sure how to select appropriate material. There are so many books in the world - how do you tell them all apart? How do you know which one will match your tastes and interests? That's why I just pick the first book I see. There's no point in trying to choose. The covers are of very little help, because they always say only good things, and I've found out to my cost that they're rarely accurate. "Exhilarating" "Dazzling" "Hilarious".
No.
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I wasn't good at pretending... I could see no point in being anything other than truthful with the world... But, by careful observation from the sidelines, I'd worked out that social success is often built on pretending just a little. Popular people sometimes have to laugh at things they don't find funny, do things they don't particularly want to, with people whose company they don't particularly enjoy. Not me. I had decided, years ago, that if the choice was between that or flying solo, then I'd fly solo.
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I talk to her sometimes, I'm not ashamed to admit it. When the silence and the aloneness press down and around me, crushing me, carving me like ice, I need to speak aloud sometimes, if only for proof of life.
A philosophical question: if a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound? And if a woman who's wholly alone occasionally talks to a pot plant, is she certifiable? I'm confident that it is perfectly normal to talk to oneself occasionally. It's not as though I'm expecting a reply. I'm fully aware that Polly is a houseplant.
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I wondered if thats what it would be like in a family -- it was simply that you would know, almost unthinkingly, that they'd be there if you needed them, no matter how bad things got. Im not prone to envy, as a rule, but I must confess I felt a twinge when I thought about this. Envy was a minor emotion in comparison to the sorrow I felt at never having a chance to experience this ... what was it? Unconditional love, I supposed.
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learned, could be very demanding; I still had limited direct contact with them, which suited me just fine. From what I could gather, they would routinely be completely unable to articulate their requirements, at which point, in desperation, the designers would create some artwork for them based on the few vague hints they had managed to elicit. After many hours of work, involving a full team of staff, the work would be submitted to the client for approval. At that point, the client would say, βNo. Thatβs exactly what I donβt want.β There
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I stared at the floor, my mind racing. Did IΒ .Β .Β . did I look like the kind of person who ought to be avoided in a game of bus seat selection? I could only conclude, in the face of the evidence, that I did. But why? I would have to reason my way to the answer. I wasnβt overweight. I didnβt smellβI showered daily, and I laundered my clothes regularly. That left madness, then. Was I mad? No. No, I wasnβt. I was suffering from clinical depression, but that was an illness. It wasnβt madness. Did I look mad, then? Act mad? I didnβt think so. But then, how would I know? Was it my scar? My eczema? My jerkin? Was it a sign of madness even to think you might be mad? I rested my elbows on my knees and placed my head in my hands. Oh God oh God oh God.
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I was almost sad when we arrived a the squat, white clubhouse. It was halfway to dark by then, with both a moon and a sun sitting high in a sky that was sugar almond pink and shot with gold. The birds were singing valiantly against the coming night, swooping over the greens in long, drunken loops. The air was grassy, with a hint of flowers and earth, and the warm, sweet outbreath of the day sighed gently into our hair and over our skin. I felt like asking Raymond whether we should keep walking, walk over the rolling greens, keep walking till the birds fell silent in their bowers and we could see only by starlight. It almost felt like he might suggest it himself.
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