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You haven't been loved well, until you've been loved just for sake of loving.
Love is such a generous force.
Being friends with opposite sex isn't always easy, but so very necessary for all of us, because at the end of the day we are all just humans in need of affection and care. And we are in need of caring, as much as being cared for.
It is so very liberating to be in state of platonic, yet, nonetheless deep and honest love. It is compassion personified.
The reason why I even mention opposite sex, is because, as a woman I truly value and enjoy company of great men. And it is often hard to allow men to be men, in sense of - their right to self expression, their right to be affectionate and protective and to embody all of those essential traits that make for a decent human being, without attaching a hidden agenda to their gestures of kindness and goodwill. Men, too, like to be of service. Men, too, like to be generous and kind - and God knows they are not only capable but also darn great at it.
That's all there is to it, really.
It is regrettable that often women don't feel safe in presence of men. Not so say that all men are the same, but truthfully, not all women are the same, either.
I think, when we heal as a collective, this gap will no longer require bridging. I am, certainly, hoping for it.
Friendship is the greatest gift we can gift to each others. But first, come acknowledgment and allowing ourselves to express our better nature without romanticizing or vilifying it.
Love is meant for us all, no exceptions.
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