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One of the worst parts of the dating crisis is that women actively reward bad behavior. They enjoy emotional volatility, drama and irresponsibility. It makes them feel alive and thrilled. Ask any woman, listen to female music or watch their aspirational movies. They openly say this all the time.
This imprints bad habits in both sexes and removes standards of conduct. It creates a really irrational, low trust equilibrium. However, there is zero self awareness of this and thus it keeps spiraling. When women complain about being surrounded by fuckboi heartbreakers who don’t care about them, it’s because those are the exact traits they reward. None of those guys started out that way. They were romantics who had their hearts broken and started doing what the market rewarded.
It also shifts the blame to a place where it shouldn’t exist. It results in this schizophrenic situation where reasonable roles of sexual conduct are enforced haphazardly and in the breach. Stuff like guys being expected to pay for dates or take masculine burden of performance while they derive none of the benefits of the old system. No rules really exist, since women reward breaking the rules for some men in some circumstances while very harshly penalize men doing the exact same thing under different circumstances. It means in any given situation there’s no “correct” answer to pick as a man.
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