Dyer Wayne Quotes

Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.

How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.

Friends are God's way of apologizing for your family.

When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.

You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with.

When given the choice between being right or being kind, choose kind. - Dr Wayne W. Dyer

With everything that has happened to you, you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift. Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. You get to choose.

You are not stuck where you are unless you decide to be.

Your reputation is in the hands of others. That's what the reputation is. You can't control that. The only thing you can control is your character.

I am realistic – I expect miracles.

When the choice is to be right or to be kind, always make the choice that brings peace

You have everything you need for complete peace and total happiness right now.

Passion is a feeling that tells you: this is the right thing to do. Nothing can stand in my way. It doesn't matter what anyone else says. This feeling is so good that it cannot be ignored. I'm going to follow my bliss and act upon this glorious sensation of joy.

Conflict cannot survive without your participation

Circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him.

The more you see yourself as what you'd like to become, and act as if what you want is already there, the more you'll activate those dormant forces that will collaborate to transform your dream into your reality.

You'll see it when you believe it.

If you knew who walked beside you at all times, on the path that you have chosen, you could never experience fear or doubt again.

you don't need to be better than any one else you just need to be better than you used to be

Heaven on Earth is a choice you must make, not a place you must find.

Begin to see yourself as a soul with a body rather than a body with a soul.

We are not human beings in search of a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings emersed in a human experience.

When you dance, your purpose is not to get to a certain place on the floor. It's to enjoy each step along the way.

In any relationship in which two people become one, the end result is two half people.

Your children will see what you're all about by what you live rather than what you say.

You cannot always control what goes on outside. But you can always control what goes on inside.

loving people live in a loving world.hostile people live in a hostile world.same world.

The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don't know anything about

When you're at peace with yourself and love your self, it is virtually impossible to do things to yourself that are destructive.

Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice.

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.

Each experience in your lifewas absolutely necessary in order to have gotten you to the next place, and the next place, up to this very moment.

I am thankful to all those who said no. It's because of them, I did it myself.

Before speaking, consult your inner-truth barometer, and resist the temptation to tell people only what they want to hear.

You leave old habits behind by starting out with the thought, 'I release the need for this in my life'.

I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not.

The state of your life is nothing more than a reflection of the state of your mind.

Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.

There's no scarcity of opportunity to make a living at what you love. There is only a scarcity of resolve to make it happen.

Peace is the result of retraining your mind to process life as it is, rather than as you think it should be.

You are in a partnership with all other human beings, not a contest to be judged better than some and worse than others.

if we focus on what's ugly, we attract more ugliness into our thoughts, and then into our emotions, and ultimately into our lives

When you are able to shift your inner awareness to how you can serve others, and when you make this the central focus of your life, you will then be in a position to know true miracles in your progress toward prosperity.

What comes out of you when you are squeezed is what is inside of you.

Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life.

If you meet someone whose soul is not aligned with yours, send them love and move along.

Don't die with the music still in you.

You get treated in life the way you teach people to treat you.

Make peace with silence, and remind yourself that it is in this space that you'll come to remember your spirit. When you're able to transcend an aversion to silence, you'll also transcend many other miseries. And it is in this silence that the remembrance of God will be activated.

It is easy to love people when they smell good, but sometimes they slip into the manure of life and smell awful. You must love them just as much when they smell foul.

Heaven is a state of mind, not a location.

It's never crowded along the extra mile

Never underestimate your power to change yourself; never overestimate your power to change others.

When you abandon making choices, you enter the vast world of excuses.

Everything I need now is here

You'll seldom experience regret for anything that you've done. It is what you haven't done that will torment you. The message, therefore, is clear. Do it! Develop an appreciation for the present moment. Seize every second of your life and savor it.

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, it will not change you.

You are what you choose to be today. Not what you've chosen to be before.

Once you believe in yourself and see your soul as divine and precious, you'll automatically be converted to a being who can create miracles.

No one knows enough to be a pessimist

As You Think, So Shall You Be.

Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.

Begin with the end in mind. Start with the end outcome and work backwards to make your dream possible.

Embrace silence since meditation is the only way to truly come to know your Source.

A mind at peace a mind centered and not focused on harming others is stronger than any physical force in the universe.

Acceptance means no complaining, and happiness means no complaining about the things over which you can do nothing.

I have absolutley no limits on what I intent to create.

You are an infinite spiritual being having a temporary human experience.

No one can create negativity or stress within you. Only you can do that by virtue of how you process your world.

Attachment to being right creates suffering. When you have a choice to be right, or to be kind, choose kind and watch your suffering disappear.

Love what you do; Do what you love.

Present-moment living, getting in touch with your now, is at the heart of effective living. When you think about it, there really is no other moment you can live. Now is all there is, and the future is just another present moment to live when it arrives.

The purpose of dancing isn't to end up at a particular spot on the floor. The purpose of dancing and of life is to enjoy every moment and every step, regardless of where you are when the music ends.

The meaning of life is to get meaning for life.

Your teacher might be a child who takes you by the hand and asks you a question that you hadn't considered before, and your answer to the child is your answer to yourself.

See the light in others, and treat them as if that is all you see.

What we think determines what happens to us, so if we want to change our lives, we need to stretch our minds.

Remind yourself that you cannot fail at being yourself.

You must become the producer, director and actor in the unfolding story of your life.

There is one grand lie - that we are limited. The only limits we have are the limits we believe.

Everything in the universe has a purpose. Indeed, the invisible intelligence that flows through everything in a purposeful fashion is also flowing through you

My goal is not to be better than anyone else, but to be better than I used to be.

We are divine enough to ask and we are important enough to receive.

You cannot fail, you can only produce results.

Enjoying life is far superior to being graded on your performance in life.

A belief system is nothing more than a thought you've thought over and over again.

The greatest gift that you were ever given was the gift of your imagination.

When given the choice between being right or being kind, choose kind.

Not only do you become what you think about, but the world also becomes what you think about. Those who think that the world is a dark place are blind to the light that might illuminate their lives. Those who see the light of the world view the dark spots as merely potential light.

Remember, purpose is about giving...All you can do with your life is to give it away in the service of others.

Love is my gift to the world. I fill myself with love, and I send that love out into the world.

Society demands conformity at the expense of individual liberty. Let us be for once a non conformist to be fully alive.

A non-doer is very often a critic-that is, someone who sits back and watches doers, and then waxes philosophically about how the doers are doing. It's easy to be a critic, but being a doer requires effort, risk, and change.

Fear of the unknown. They are afraid of new ideas. They are loaded with prejudices, not based upon anything in reality, but based on… if something is new, I reject it immediately because it’s frightening to me. What they do instead is just stay with the familiar. You know, to me, the most beautiful things in all the universe, are the most mysterious.

Judgements prevent us from seeing the good that lies beyond appearances.

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.

You must attach yourself spiritually to what you have placed in your imagination as a future fact, and never allow anyone, anything, any circumstance, no matter how persuasive their case, to alter what you know to be your destiny.

When you squeeze an orange, you'll always get orange juice to come out. What comes out is what's inside. The same logic applies to you: when someone squeezes you, puts pressure on you, or says something unflattering or critical, and out of you comes anger, hatred, bitterness, tension, depression, or anxiety, that is what's inside. If love and joy are what you want to give and receive, change your life by changing what's inside.

Love is a word that has as many definitions as there are people to define it. Try this one on for size. The ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves, without any insistence that they satisfy you.

Becoming the observer (step back) you begin to live in process, trusting where our source is taking you. You begin to detach from the outcome. That detachment allows you to stop fighting and allows things to just come to you; you no longer make things happen but allow them to show up. The fight is gone!