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The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness. We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom. We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often. We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things. We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less. These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete... Remember, to spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever. Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side. Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent. Remember, to say, "I love you" to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you. Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person might not be there again. Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.
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Bob Moorehead (Words Aptly Spoken)
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Hatred is like a long, dark shadow. Not even the person it falls upon knows where it comes from, in most cases. It is like a two-edged sword. When you cut the other person, you cut yourself. The more violently you hack at the other person, the more violently you hack at yourself. It can often be fatal. But it is not easy to dispose of. Please be careful, Mr.Okada. It is very dangerous. Once it has taken root in your heart, hatred is the most difficult think in the world to shake off.
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Haruki Murakami (The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle)
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Pleasures are like photographs: in the presence of the person we love, we take only negatives, which we develop later, at home, when we have at our disposal once more our inner dark room, the door of which it is strictly forbidden to open while others are present.
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Marcel Proust (In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower)
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The great source of both the misery and disorders of human life, seems to arise from over-rating the difference between one permanent situation and another. Avarice over-rates the difference between poverty and riches: ambition, that between a private and a public station: vain-glory, that between obscurity and extensive reputation. The person under the influence of any of those extravagant passions, is not only miserable in his actual situation, but is often disposed to disturb the peace of society, in order to arrive at that which he so foolishly admires. The slightest observation, however, might satisfy him, that, in all the ordinary situations of human life, a well-disposed mind may be equally calm, equally cheerful, and equally contented. Some of those situations may, no doubt, deserve to be preferred to others: but none of them can deserve to be pursued with that passionate ardour which drives us to violate the rules either of prudence or of justice; or to corrupt the future tranquillity of our minds, either by shame from the remembrance of our own folly, or by remorse from the horror of our own injustice.
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Adam Smith (The Theory of Moral Sentiments)
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We are stronger than we think. We have emotional, spiritual and even physical resources at our disposal. We may get knocked down, but we donโ€™t have to stay down.
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Steve Goodier
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...repeated trauma in childhood forms and deforms the personality. The child trapped in an abusive environment is faced with formidable tasks of adaptation. She must find a way to preserve a sense of trust in people who are untrustworthy, safety in a situation that is unsafe, control in a situation that is terrifyingly unpredictable, power in a situation of helplessness. Unable to care for or protect herself, she must compensate for the failures of adult care and protection with the only means at her disposal, an immature system of psychological defenses.
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Judith Lewis Herman (Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence - From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror)
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There is such a thing as looking through a person's eyes into the heart, and learning more of the height, and breadth, and depth of another's soul in one hour than it might take you a lifetime to discover, if he or she were not disposed to reveal it, or if you had not the sense to understand it.
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Anne Brontรซ (The Tenant of Wildfell Hall)
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Human nature is so well disposed towards those who are in interesting situations, that a young person, who either marries or dies, is sure of being kindly spoken of.
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Jane Austen
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Womanโ€™s role in creation should be parallel to her role in life. I donโ€™t mean the good earth. I mean the bad earth too, the demon, the instincts, the storms of nature. Tragedies, conflicts, mysteries are personal. Man fabricated a detachment which became fatal. Woman must not fabricate. She must descend into the real womb and expose its secrets and its labyrinths. She must describe it as the city of Fez, with its Arabian Nights gentleness, tranquility and mystery. She must describe the voracious moods, the desires, the worlds contained in each cell of it. For the womb has dreams. It is not as simple as the good earth. I believe at times that man created art out of fear of exploring woman. I believe woman stuttered about herself out of fear of what she had to say. She covered herself with taboos and veils. Man invented a woman to suit his needs. He disposed of her by identifying her with nature and then paraded his contemptuous domination of nature. But woman is not nature only. She is the mermaid with her fish-tail dipped in the unconscious.
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Anaรฏs Nin
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As I approached my fiftieth birthday, I had become more and more enraged and mystified by the idiot decisions made by my countrymen. And then I had come suddenly to pity them, for I understood how innocent and natural it was for them to behave so abominably, and with such abominable results: They were doing their best to live like people invented in story books. This was the reason Americans shot each other so often: It was a convenient literary device for ending short stories and books. Why were so many Americans treated by their government as though their lives were as disposable as paper facial tis-sues? Because that was the way authors customarily treated bit-part players in their made-up tales. And so on.Once I understood what was making America such a dangerous, unhappy nation of people who had nothing to do with real life, I resolved to shun storytelling. I would write about life. Every person would be exactly as important as any other. All facts would also be given equal weightiness. Nothing would be left out. Let others bring order to chaos. I would bring chaos to order, instead, which I think I have done. If all writers would do that, then perhaps citizens not in the literary trades will understand that there is no order in the world around us, that we must adapt ourselves to the requirements of chaos instead. It is hard to adapt to chaos, but it can be done. I am living proof of that: It can be done.
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Kurt Vonnegut Jr. (Breakfast of Champions)
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Through art alone are we able to emerge from ourselves, to know what another person sees of a universe which is not the same as our own and of which, without art, the landscapes would remain as unknown to us as those that may exist on the moon. Thanks to art, instead of seeing one world only, our own, we see that world multiply itself and we have at our disposal as many worlds as there are original artists, worlds more different one from the other than those which revolve in infinite space, worlds which, centuries after the extinction of the fire from which their light first emanated, whether it is called Rembrandt or Vermeer, send us still each one its special radiance.
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Marcel Proust (In Search of Lost Time, Vol 6: Time Regained and A Guide to Proust)
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...that melancholy which we feel when we cease to obey orders which, from one day to another, keep the future hidden, and realise that we have at last begun to live in real earnest, as a grown-up person, the life, the only life that any of us has at his disposal.
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Marcel Proust (Sodom and Gomorrah)
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There is no such thing as a person. There are only restrictions and limitations. The sum total of these defines the person. You think you know yourself when you know what you are. But you never know who you are. The person merely appears to be, like the space within the pot appears to have the shape and volume and smell of the pot. See that you are not what you believe yourself to be. Fight with all the strength at your disposal against the idea that you are nameable and describable. You are not. Refuse to think of yourself in terms of this or that. There is no other way out of misery, which you have created for yourself through blind acceptance without investigation. Suffering is a call for enquiry, all pain needs investigation. Donโ€™t be too lazy to think.
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Nisargadatta Maharaj
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Do you know about the spoons? Because you should. The Spoon Theory was created by a friend of mine, Christine Miserandino, to explain the limits you have when you live with chronic illness. Most healthy people have a seemingly infinite number of spoons at their disposal, each one representing the energy needed to do a task. You get up in the morning. Thatโ€™s a spoon. You take a shower. Thatโ€™s a spoon. You work, and play, and clean, and love, and hate, and thatโ€™s lots of damn spoonsย โ€ฆ but if you are young and healthy you still have spoons left over as you fall asleep and wait for the new supply of spoons to be delivered in the morning. But if you are sick or in pain, your exhaustion changes you and the number of spoons you have. Autoimmune disease or chronic pain like I have with my arthritis cuts down on your spoons. Depression or anxiety takes away even more. Maybe you only have six spoons to use that day. Sometimes you have even fewer. And you look at the things you need to do and realize that you donโ€™t have enough spoons to do them all. If you clean the house you wonโ€™t have any spoons left to exercise. You can visit a friend but you wonโ€™t have enough spoons to drive yourself back home. You can accomplish everything a normal person does for hours but then you hit a wall and fall into bed thinking, โ€œI wish I could stop breathing for an hour because itโ€™s exhausting, all this inhaling and exhaling.โ€ And then your husband sees you lying on the bed and raises his eyebrow seductively and you say, โ€œNo. I canโ€™t have sex with you today because there arenโ€™t enough spoons,โ€ and he looks at you strangely because that sounds kinky, and not in a good way. And you know you should explain the Spoon Theory so he wonโ€™t get mad but you donโ€™t have the energy to explain properly because you used your last spoon of the morning picking up his dry cleaning so instead you just defensively yell: โ€œI SPENT ALL MY SPOONS ON YOUR LAUNDRY,โ€ and he says, โ€œWhat theย โ€ฆ You canโ€™t pay for dry cleaning with spoons. What is wrong with you?โ€ Now youโ€™re mad because this is his fault too but youโ€™re too tired to fight out loud and so you have the argument in your mind, but it doesnโ€™t go well because youโ€™re too tired to defend yourself even in your head, and the critical internal voices take over and youโ€™re too tired not to believe them. Then you get more depressed and the next day you wake up with even fewer spoons and so you try to make spoons out of caffeine and willpower but that never really works. The only thing that does work is realizing that your lack of spoons is not your fault, and to remind yourself of that fact over and over as you compare your fucked-up life to everyone elseโ€™s just-as-fucked-up-but-not-as-noticeably-to-outsiders lives. Really, the only people you should be comparing yourself to would be people who make you feel better by comparison. For instance, people who are in comas, because those people have no spoons at all and you donโ€™t see anyone judging them. Personally, I always compare myself to Galileo because everyone knows heโ€™s fantastic, but he has no spoons at all because heโ€™s dead. So technically Iโ€™m better than Galileo because all Iโ€™ve done is take a shower and already Iโ€™ve accomplished more than him today. If we were having a competition Iโ€™d have beaten him in daily accomplishments every damn day of my life. But Iโ€™m not gloating because Galileo canโ€™t control his current spoon supply any more than I can, and if Galileo couldnโ€™t figure out how to keep his dwindling spoon supply I think itโ€™s pretty unfair of me to judge myself for mine. Iโ€™ve learned to use my spoons wisely. To say no. To push myself, but not too hard. To try to enjoy the amazingness of life while teetering at the edge of terror and fatigue.
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Jenny Lawson (Furiously Happy: A Funny Book About Horrible Things)
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There have been times when I felt that I might die of loneliness. People sometimes say they might die of boredom, that they're dying for a cup of tea, but for me, dying of loneliness is not a hyperbole. When I feel like that, my head drops and my shoulders slump and I ache, I physically ache, for human contact - I truly feel that I might tumble to the ground and pass away if someone doesn't hold me, touch me. I don't mean a lover - this recent madness aside, I had long since given up on any notion that another person might love me that way - but simply a human being. The scalp massage at the hairdresser, the flu jab I had last winter - the only time I experience touch is from people whom I am paying, and they are almost wearing disposable gloves at the time. I'm merely stating the facts.
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Gail Honeyman (Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine)
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The first thing the intellect does with an object is to class it along with something else. But any object that is infinitely important to us and awakens our devotion feels to us also as if it must be sui generis and unique. Probably a crab would be filled with a sense of personal outrage if it could hear us class it without ado or apology as a crustacean, and thus dispose of it. "I am no such thing," it would say; "I am MYSELF, MYSELF alone.
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William James (The Varieties of Religious Experience)
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My dear child,' said the old gentleman, moved by the warmth of Oliver's sudden appeal, 'you need not be afraid of my deserting you, unless you give me cause.' I never, never will, sir,' interposed Oliver. I hope not,' rejoined the old gentleman; 'I do not think you ever will. I have been deceived before, in the objects whom I have endeavoured to benefit; but I feel strongly disposed to trust you, nevertheless, and more strongly interested in your behalf than I can well account for, even to myself. The persons on whom I have bestowed my dearest love lie deep in their graves; but, although the happiness and delight of my life lie buried there too, I have not made a coffin of my heart, and sealed it up for ever on my best affections. Deep affliction has only made them stronger; it ought, I think, for it should refine our nature.
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Charles Dickens (Oliver Twist)
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Well, after all, this is the age of the disposable tissue. Blow your nose on a person, wad them, flush them away, reach for another, blow, wad, flush. Everyone using everyone else's coattails. How are you supposed to root for the home team when you don't even have a program or know the names? For that matter, what color jersey's are they reading as they trot out to the feild?
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Ray Bradbury
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The oldest, easiest to swallow idea was that the earth was man's personal property, a combination of garden, zoo, bank vault, and energy source, placed at our disposal to be consumed, ornamented, or pulled apart as we wished.
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Lewis Thomas (The Lives of a Cell: Notes of a Biology Watcher)
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...What is the key word today? Disposable. The more you can throw it away the more itโ€™s beautiful. The car, the furniture, the wife, the childrenโ€”everything has to be disposable. Because you see the main thing today isโ€”shopping. Years ago a person, he was unhappy, didnโ€™t know what to do with himselfโ€”heโ€™d go to church, start a revolutionโ€”something. Today youโ€™re unhappy? Canโ€™t figure it out? What is the salvation? Go shopping.... ...If they would close the stores for six months in this country there would be from coast to coast a regular massacre.
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Arthur Miller
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Every person whom we love, indeed to a certain extent every person is to us like Janus, presenting to us the face that we like if that person leaves us, the repellent face if we know him or her to be perpetually at our disposal.
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Marcel Proust (In Search of Lost Time [volumes 1 to 7])
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For we are so constituted by nature, that we are ever prone to compare ourselves with others; and our happiness or misery depends very much on the objects and persons around us. On this account, nothing is more dangerous than solitude: there our imagination, always disposed to rise, taking a new flight on the wings of fancy, pictures to us a chain of beings of whom we seem the most inferior.
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Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (The Sorrows of Young Werther)
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Margaret opened the door and went in with the straight, fearless, dignified presence habitual to her. She felt no awkwardness; she had too much of society for that. Here was a person come on business to her father; and, as she was one who had shown himself obliging, she was disposed to treat him with full measure of civility. Mr. Thornton was a good deal more surprised and discomfited than she. Instead of a quiet, middle-aged clergyman, a young lady came forward with frank dignity,-a young lady of a different type to most of those he was in the habit of seeing. (...) He had heard that Mr. Hale had a daughter, but he had imagined that she was a little girl.
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Elizabeth Gaskell (North and South)
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The lack of mystery in our modern life is our downfall and our poverty. A human life is worth as much as the respect it holds for the mystery. We retain the child in us to the extent that we honor the mystery. Therefore, children have open, wide-awake eyes, because they know that they are surrounded by the mystery. They are not yet finished with this world; they still donโ€™t know how to struggle along and avoid the mystery, as we do. We destroy the mystery because we sense that here we reach the boundary of our being, because we want to be lord over everything and have it at our disposal, and thatโ€™s just what we cannot do with the mysteryโ€ฆ. Living without mystery means knowing nothing of the mystery of our own life, nothing of the mystery of another person, nothing of the mystery of the world; it means passing over our own hidden qualities and those of others and the world. It means remaining on the surface, taking the world seriously only to the extent that it can be calculated and exploited, and not going beyond the world of calculation and exploitation. Living without mystery means not seeing the crucial processes of life at all and even denying them.
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Dietrich Bonhoeffer (God is in the Manger: Reflections on Advent and Christmas)
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And of course they used her like a disposable object, without regret or apology, because thatโ€™s what privilege isโ€”the license to treat other people like shit while still getting to believe that youโ€™re a good person.
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Tom Perrotta (Mrs. Fletcher)
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No matter. There is such a thing as looking through a personโ€™s eyes into the heart, and learning more of the height, and breadth, and depth of anotherโ€™s soul in one hour than it might take you a lifetime to discover, if he or she were not disposed to reveal it, or if you had not the sense to understand it.
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Anne Brontรซ (The Tenant of Wildfell Hall)
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While a battle is raging one can see his enemy mowed down by the thousand, or the ten thousand, with great composure; but after the battle these scenes are distressing, and one is naturally disposed to do as much to alleviate the suffering of an enemy as a friend.
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Ulysses S. Grant (Personal Memoirs of U.S. Grant: All Volumes)
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How strange," continued the king, with some asperity; "the police think that they have disposed of the whole matter when they say, 'A murder has been committed,' and especially so when they can add, 'And we are on the track of the guilty persons.
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Alexandre Dumas (The Count of Monte Cristo)
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...the end of law is not to abolish or restrain, but to preserve and enlarge freedom: for in all the states of created beings capable of laws, where there is no law, there is no freedom: for liberty is, to be free from restraint and violence from others; which cannot be, where there is no law: but freedom is not, as we are told, a liberty for every man to do what he lists: (for who could be free, when every other man's humour might domineer over him?) but a liberty to dispose, and order as he lists, his person, actions, possessions, and his whole property, within the allowance of those laws under which he is, and therein not to be subject to the arbitrary will of another, but freely follow his own.
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John Locke
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There is such a thing as looking through a personโ€™s eyes into the heart, and learning more of the height, and breadth, and depth of anotherโ€™s soul in one hour than it might take you a lifetime to discover, if he or she were not disposed to reveal it, or if you had not the sense to understand it.โ€™ โ€˜Then
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Anne Brontรซ (The Tenant of Wildfell Hall)
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Sect. 4. TO understand political power right, and derive it from its original, we must consider, what state all men are naturally in, and that is, a state of perfect freedom to order their actions, and dispose of their possessions and persons, as they think fit, within the bounds of the law of nature, without asking leave, or depending upon the will of any other man.
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John Locke (Second Treatise of Government)
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Peace (upeksha), tranquility or discrimination. There is no distinction between a loved one and a loved one in true love. Your pain is my pain. My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body. There is an element of self-disposal in true love. Happiness is no longer personal. Pain is no longer personal. There is no distinction between us. โ€œIn true love The distinction between loved ones and loved ones does not exist. Your pain is my pain. ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๋ถˆ๋ฒ•, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-์šฉ๋Ÿ‰, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒŒ๋Š”๊ณณ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํšจ๊ณผ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผํŒ๋งค My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one bodyโ€ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ,โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜…๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž… ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๋ถˆ๋ฒ•, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-์šฉ๋Ÿ‰, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒŒ๋Š”๊ณณ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํšจ๊ณผ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผํŒ๋งค
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Intuition is not to be consulted once and then forgotten. It is not disposable. It is to be consulted at all steps along the way, whether the woman's work be clashing with a demon in the interior, or completing a task in the outer world. It does not matter whether a woman's concerns and aspirations are personal or global. Before all else, every action begins with strengthening the spirit.
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Clarissa Pinkola Estรฉs (Women Who Run With the Wolves)
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The more aged I become, the more I tend to the view that evil is evil, mental illness or no. Weโ€™re all more or less disposed to evil actions, but our disposition cannot exonerate us. For heavenโ€™s sake, weโ€™re all sick with personality disorders. And itโ€™s our actions that define how sick we are.
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Jo Nesbรธ (The Snowman (Harry Hole, #7))
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Peace (upeksha), tranquility or discrimination. There is no distinction between a loved one and a loved one in true love. Your pain is my pain. My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body. There is an element of self-disposal in true love. Happiness is no longer personal. Pain is no longer personal. There is no distinction between us. โ€œIn true love The distinction between loved ones and loved ones does not exist. Your pain is my pain. ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๋ถˆ๋ฒ•, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-์šฉ๋Ÿ‰, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒŒ๋Š”๊ณณ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํšจ๊ณผ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผํŒ๋งค My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one bodyโ€ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ,โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜…๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž… ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๋ถˆ๋ฒ•, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-์šฉ๋Ÿ‰, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒŒ๋Š”๊ณณ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํšจ๊ณผ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผํŒ๋งค
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๋ž์Šˆ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ์ •ํ’ˆ๊ตฌ๋งค๋ฒ• ํ™˜๊ฐ์ œํŒŒํผํŒ๋งคโ–ณโ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ํŒŒํผ ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ์‚ฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…
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The conversion of poverty into a personal moral failure was intimately tied to the construction of black Americans as disposable and subject to mass incarceration.
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Jackie Wang (Carceral Capitalism)
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Because we cannot discover God's throne in the sky with a radiotelescope or establish (for certain) that a beloved father or mother is still about in a more or less corporeal form, people assume that such ideas are "not true." I would rather say that they are not "true" enough, for these are conceptions of a kind that have accompanied human life from prehistoric times, and that still break through into consciousness at any provocation. Modern man may assert that he can dispose with them, and he may bolster his opinion by insisting that there is no scientific evidence of their truth. Or he may even regret the loss of his convictions. But since we are dealing with invisible and unknowable things (for God is beyond human understanding, and there is no means of proving immortality), why should we bother about evidence? Even if we did not know by reason our need for salt in our food, we should nonetheless profit from its use. We might argue that the use of salt is a mere illusion of taste or a superstition; but it would still contribute to our well-being. Why, then, should we deprive ourselves of views that would prove helpful in crises and would give a meaning to our existence? And how do we know that such ideas are not true? Many people would agree with me if I stated flatly that such ideas are probably illusions. What they fail to realize is that the denial is as impossible to "prove" as the assertion of religious belief. We are entirely free to choose which point of view we take; it will in any case be an arbitrary decision. There is, however, a strong empirical reason why we should cultivate thoughts that can never be proved. It is that they are known to be useful. Man positively needs general ideas and convictions that will give a meaning to his life and enable him to find a place for himself in the universe. He can stand the most incredible hardships when he is convinced that they make sense; he is crushed when, on top of all his misfortunes, he has to admit that he is taking part in a "tale told by an idiot." It is the role of religious symbols to give a meaning to the life of man. The Pueblo Indians believe that they are the sons of Father Sun, and this belief endows their life with a perspective (and a goal) that goes far beyond their limited existence. It gives them ample space for the unfolding of personality and permits them a full life as complete persons. Their plight is infinitely more satisfactory than that of a man in our own civilization who knows that he is (and will remain) nothing more than an underdog with no inner meaning to his life.
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C.G. Jung (Man and His Symbols)
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I have been deceived, before, in the objects whom I have endeavoured to benefit; but I feel strongly disposed to trust you, nevertheless; and I am more interested in your behalf than I can well account for, even to myself. The persons on whom I have bestowed my dearest love, lie deep in their graves; but, although the happiness and delight of my life lie buried there too, I have not made a coffin of my heart, and sealed it up, forever,on my best affections. Deep affliction has but strengthened and refined them...
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Charles Dickens (Oliver Twist)
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I thought Beatrice Keedsler had joined hands with other old-fashioned storytellers to make people believe that life had leading characters, minor characters, significant details, insignificant details, that it had lessons to be learned, tests to be passed, and a beginning, a middle, and an end. As I approached my fiftieth birthday, I had become more and more enraged and mystified by the idiot decisions made by my countrymen. And then I had come suddenly to pity them, for I understood how innocent and natural it was for them to behave so abominably, and with such abominable results: They were doing their best to live like people invented in story books. This was the reason Americans shot each other so often: It was a convenient literary device for ending short stories and books. Why were so many Americans treated by their government as though their lives were as disposable as paper facial tissues? Because that was the way authors customarily treated bit-part players in their madeup tales. And so on. Once I understood what was making America such a dangerous, unhappy nation of people who had nothing to do with real life, I resolved to shun storytelling. I would write about life. Every person would be exactly as important as any other. All facts would also be given equal weightiness. Nothing would be left out. Let others bring order to chaos. I would bring chaos to order, instead, which I think I have done. If all writers would do that, then perhaps citizens not in the literary trades will understand that there is no order in the world around us, that we must adapt ourselves to the requirements of chaos instead. It is hard to adapt to chaos, but it can be done. I am living proof of that: It can be done.
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Kurt Vonnegut Jr. (Breakfast of Champions)
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It can be hidden only in complete silence and perfect passivity, but its disclosure can almost never be achieved as a willful purpose, as though one possessed and could dispose of this "who" in the same manner he has and can dispose of his qualities. On the contrary, it is more than likely that the "who," which appears so clearly and unmistakably to others, remains hidden from the person himself, like the daimon in Greek religion which accompanies each man throughout his life, always looking over his shoulder from behind and thus visible only to those he encounters. This revelatory quality of speech and action comes to the fore where people are with others and neither for (the doer of good works) nor against them (the criminal) that is, in sheer human togetherness. Although nobody knows whom he reveals when he discloses himself in deed or word, he must be willing to risk the disclosure.
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Hannah Arendt (The Human Condition)
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Maybe, despite ideology, politics, and history, a genuine catastrophe is always personal bathos at the core. Life canโ€™t be impugned for any failure to trivialize people. You have to take your hat off to life for the techniques at its disposal to strip a man of his significance and empty him totally of his pride.
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Philip Roth (I Married a Communist (The American Trilogy, #2))
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What is certain is that he [the baby] has too much attention from the one person who is entirely at his disposal. The intimacy between mother and child is not sustaining and healthy. The child learns to exploit his mother's accessibility, badgering her with questions and demands which are not of any real consequence to him, embarrassing her in public, blackmailing her into buying sweets and carrying him.
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Germaine Greer (The Female Eunuch)
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The law has placed the collective force at the disposal of the unscrupulous who wish, without risk, to exploit the person, liberty, and property of others. It has converted plunder into a right, in order to protect plunder. And it has converted lawful defense into a crime, in order to punish lawful defense...When, then, does plunder stop? It stops when it becomes more painful and more dangerous than labor.
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Frรฉdรฉric Bastiat
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โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ์•„๋กœ๋งˆํ–ฅ ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์‚ฐ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ ์ •ํ’ˆ์œผ๋กœ๋งŒ ํŒ๋งคํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ตฌ๋งค์ „์— ์ œํ’ˆ๋„ ์ œํ’ˆ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌด์—‡๋ณด๋‹ค ์•ˆ์ „์ด ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ €ํฌ๋„ ์•ˆ์ „์„ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์˜ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊น”๋”ํ•œ์—…์ฒด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜์˜ ์ฃผ๋ฌธ์€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ์ด๋ป์ง€์‹œ๊ตฌ์š” ๊ธฐ์œํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋˜์„ธ์š”~ใ…Žใ…Ž Joy is not only for others, but also for yourself. Joy is just joy. If you are truly enjoying joy and healthy joy, it is good for others. But it is not good for others, unless it is pleasant, refreshing, and smiling. If you always have joy and joy, you can be a good person to those around you without doing anything. Peace (upeksha), tranquility or discrimination. There is no distinction between a loved one and a loved one in true love. Your pain is my pain. My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body. There is an element of self-disposal in true love. Happiness is no longer personal. Pain is no longer personal. There is no distinction between us. โ€œIn true love The distinction between loved ones and loved ones does not exist. Your pain is my pain. ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๋ถˆ๋ฒ•, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-์šฉ๋Ÿ‰, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒŒ๋Š”๊ณณ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํšจ๊ณผ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผํŒ๋งค My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one bodyโ€ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ,โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜…๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…
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๋ž์Šˆ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ์ •ํ’ˆ๊ตฌ์ž…ํ›„๊ธฐ ํ™˜๊ฐ์ œํŒŒํผํŒ๋งคโ–ณโ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ํŒŒํผ ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ์‚ฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…
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โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ์•„๋กœ๋งˆํ–ฅ ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์‚ฐ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ ์ •ํ’ˆ์œผ๋กœ๋งŒ ํŒ๋งคํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ตฌ๋งค์ „์— ์ œํ’ˆ๋„ ์ œํ’ˆ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌด์—‡๋ณด๋‹ค ์•ˆ์ „์ด ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ €ํฌ๋„ ์•ˆ์ „์„ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์˜ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊น”๋”ํ•œ์—…์ฒด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜์˜ ์ฃผ๋ฌธ์€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ์ด๋ป์ง€์‹œ๊ตฌ์š” ๊ธฐ์œํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋˜์„ธ์š”~ใ…Žใ…Ž Joy is not only for others, but also for yourself. Joy is just joy. If you are truly enjoying joy and healthy joy, it is good for others. But it is not good for others, unless it is pleasant, refreshing, and smiling. If you always have joy and joy, you can be a good person to those around you without doing anything. Peace (upeksha), tranquility or discrimination. There is no distinction between a loved one and a loved one in true love. Your pain is my pain. My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body. There is an element of self-disposal in true love. Happiness is no longer personal. Pain is no longer personal. There is no distinction between us.
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๋ฌผ๋ฝ•ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํด๋ŸฝํŒŒํ‹ฐ์ „์šฉ ์ •ํ’ˆghbํŒ๋งค โ–ณโ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜…โ–ณ ๋ฌผ๋ฝ•๊ตฌ์ž… ๋ฌผ๋ฝ•์•ฝํšจ ๋ฌผ๋ฝ•๊ตฌ์ž…๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•!
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๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ ๊ตฌ์ž… ํ™˜๊ฐ์ œ ํŒŒํผ ํŒ๋งค โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ํŒŒํผ ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ ์‚ฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ ๊ตฌ์ž… โ€œThere must be joy (mudita) in love. If love brings only sorrow, what will you love for? If you know how to please yourself, you will know how to please the other person as well as the whole world. ๋ฏฟ๊ณ  ์ฃผ๋ฌธํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”~์ €ํฌ๋Š” ์ œํ’ˆํŒ๋งค๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜๋“ค๊ณผ ์‹ ์šฉ๊ณผ์‹ ๋ขฐ์˜ ๊ฑฐ๋ž˜๋กœ ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ์•„๋กœ๋งˆํ–ฅ ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์‚ฐ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ ์ •ํ’ˆ์œผ๋กœ๋งŒ ํŒ๋งคํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ตฌ๋งค์ „์— ์ œํ’ˆ๋„ ์ œํ’ˆ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌด์—‡๋ณด๋‹ค ์•ˆ์ „์ด ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ €ํฌ๋„ ์•ˆ์ „์„ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์˜ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊น”๋”ํ•œ์—…์ฒด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜์˜ ์ฃผ๋ฌธ์€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ์ด๋ป์ง€์‹œ๊ตฌ์š” ๊ธฐ์œํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋˜์„ธ์š”~ใ…Žใ…Ž Joy is not only for others, but also for yourself. Joy is just joy. If you are truly enjoying joy and healthy joy, it is good for others. But it is not good for others, unless it is pleasant, refreshing, and smiling. If you always have joy and joy, you can be a good person to those around you without doing anything. Peace (upeksha), tranquility or discrimination. There is no distinction between a loved one and a loved one in true love. Your pain is my pain. My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body. There is an element of self-disposal in true love. Happiness is no longer personal. Pain is no longer personal. There is no distinction between us.
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๋ž์Šˆ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ ํ™˜๊ฐ์ œํŒŒํผํŒ๋งคโ–ณโ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ํŒŒํผ ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ์‚ฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…
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โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ์•„๋กœ๋งˆํ–ฅ ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์‚ฐ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ ์ •ํ’ˆ์œผ๋กœ๋งŒ ํŒ๋งคํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ตฌ๋งค์ „์— ์ œํ’ˆ๋„ ์ œํ’ˆ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌด์—‡๋ณด๋‹ค ์•ˆ์ „์ด ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ €ํฌ๋„ ์•ˆ์ „์„ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์˜ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊น”๋”ํ•œ์—…์ฒด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜์˜ ์ฃผ๋ฌธ์€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ์ด๋ป์ง€์‹œ๊ตฌ์š” ๊ธฐ์œํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋˜์„ธ์š”~ใ…Žใ…Ž Joy is not only for others, but also for yourself. Joy is just joy. If you are truly enjoying joy and healthy joy, it is good for others. But it is not good for others, unless it is pleasant, refreshing, and smiling. If you always have joy and joy, you can be a good person to those around you without doing anything. Peace (upeksha), tranquility or discrimination. There is no distinction between a loved one and a loved one in true love. Your pain is my pain. My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body. There is an element of self-disposal in true love. Happiness is no longer personal. Pain is no longer personal. There is no distinction between us. โ€œIn true love The distinction between loved ones and loved ones does not exist. Your pain is my pain. ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๋ถˆ๋ฒ•, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-์šฉ๋Ÿ‰, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒŒ๋Š”๊ณณ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํšจ๊ณผ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผํŒ๋งค My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one bodyโ€ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ,โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜…๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…
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๋ž์Šˆ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…ํ›„๊ธฐ ํ™˜๊ฐ์ œํŒŒํผํŒ๋งคโ–ณโ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ํŒŒํผ ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ์‚ฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…
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There must be joy (mudita) in love. If love brings only sorrow, what will you love for? If you know how to please yourself, you will know how to please the other person as well as the whole world. ๋ฏฟ๊ณ  ์ฃผ๋ฌธํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”~์ €ํฌ๋Š” ์ œํ’ˆํŒ๋งค๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜๋“ค๊ณผ ์‹ ์šฉ๊ณผ์‹ ๋ขฐ์˜ ๊ฑฐ๋ž˜๋กœ ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ์•„๋กœ๋งˆํ–ฅ ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์‚ฐ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ ์ •ํ’ˆ์œผ๋กœ๋งŒ ํŒ๋งคํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ตฌ๋งค์ „์— ์ œํ’ˆ๋„ ์ œํ’ˆ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌด์—‡๋ณด๋‹ค ์•ˆ์ „์ด ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ €ํฌ๋„ ์•ˆ์ „์„ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์˜ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊น”๋”ํ•œ์—…์ฒด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜์˜ ์ฃผ๋ฌธ์€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ์ด๋ป์ง€์‹œ๊ตฌ์š” ๊ธฐ์œํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋˜์„ธ์š”~ใ…Žใ…Ž Joy is not only for others, but also for yourself. Joy is just joy. If you are truly enjoying joy and healthy joy, it is good for others. But it is not good for others, unless it is pleasant, refreshing, and smiling. If you always have joy and joy, you can be a good person to those around you without doing anything. Peace (upeksha), tranquility or discrimination. There is no distinction between a loved one and a loved one in true love. Your pain is my pain. My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body. There is an element of self-disposal in true love. Happiness is no longer personal. Pain is no longer personal. There is no distinction between us. โ€œIn true love The distinction between loved ones and loved ones does not exist. Your pain is my pain. ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๋ถˆ๋ฒ•, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-์šฉ๋Ÿ‰, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒŒ๋Š”๊ณณ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํšจ๊ณผ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผํŒ๋งค My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body
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์ •ํ’ˆ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ,โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜…๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…
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In our hearts we know that with a different fate, we, too, could be in the ranks of the dispossessed, stripped of our identities and belonging nowhere. The refugee becomes a sinister symbol of what can quickly happen once personhood is denied and people are transformed into disposable units of contemptible impediments to the greed or power-mongering of others.
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Dave Mearns (Person-Centred Therapy Today: New Frontiers in Theory and Practice)
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Peter Hathaway Capstick (Death in the Long Grass: A Big Game Hunter's Adventures in the African Bush)
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๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ ๊ตฌ์ž… ํ™˜๊ฐ์ œ ํŒŒํผ ํŒ๋งค โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ํŒŒํผ ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ ์‚ฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ ๊ตฌ์ž… โ€œThere must be joy (mudita) in love. If love brings only sorrow, what will you love for? If you know how to please yourself, you will know how to please the other person as well as the whole world. ๋ฏฟ๊ณ  ์ฃผ๋ฌธํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”~์ €ํฌ๋Š” ์ œํ’ˆํŒ๋งค๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜๋“ค๊ณผ ์‹ ์šฉ๊ณผ์‹ ๋ขฐ์˜ ๊ฑฐ๋ž˜๋กœ ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ์•„๋กœ๋งˆํ–ฅ ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์‚ฐ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ ์ •ํ’ˆ์œผ๋กœ๋งŒ ํŒ๋งคํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ตฌ๋งค์ „์— ์ œํ’ˆ๋„ ์ œํ’ˆ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌด์—‡๋ณด๋‹ค ์•ˆ์ „์ด ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ €ํฌ๋„ ์•ˆ์ „์„ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์˜ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊น”๋”ํ•œ์—…์ฒด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜์˜ ์ฃผ๋ฌธ์€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ์ด๋ป์ง€์‹œ๊ตฌ์š” ๊ธฐ์œํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋˜์„ธ์š”~ใ…Žใ…Ž Joy is not only for others, but also for yourself. Joy is just joy. If you are truly enjoying joy and healthy joy, it is good for others. But it is not good for others, unless it is pleasant, refreshing, and smiling. If you always have joy and joy, you can be a good person to those around you without doing anything. Peace (upeksha), tranquility or discrimination. There is no distinction between a loved one and a loved one in true love. Your pain is my pain. My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body. There is an element of self-disposal in true love. Happiness is no longer personal. Pain is no longer personal. There is no distinction between us.
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๋ž์Šˆ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ์ •ํ’ˆ๊ตฌ์ž…๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ ํ™˜๊ฐ์ œํŒŒํผํŒ๋งคโ–ณโ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ํŒŒํผ ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ์‚ฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…
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The motivation for taking on debt is to buy assets or claims rising in price. Over the past half-century the aim of financial investment has been less to earn profits on tangible capital investment than to generate โ€œcapitalโ€ gains (most of which take the form of debt-leveraged land prices, not industrial capital). Annual price gains for property, stocks and bonds far outstrip the reported real estate rents, corporate profits and disposable personal income after paying for essential non-discretionary spending, headed by FIRE [Finance, Insurance, Real Estate]-sector charges.
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Michael Hudson (The Bubble and Beyond)
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There must be joy (mudita) in love. If love brings only sorrow, what will you love for? If you know how to please yourself, you will know how to please the other person as well as the whole world. ๋ฏฟ๊ณ  ์ฃผ๋ฌธํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”~์ €ํฌ๋Š” ์ œํ’ˆํŒ๋งค๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜๋“ค๊ณผ ์‹ ์šฉ๊ณผ์‹ ๋ขฐ์˜ ๊ฑฐ๋ž˜๋กœ ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ์•„๋กœ๋งˆํ–ฅ ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์‚ฐ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ ์ •ํ’ˆ์œผ๋กœ๋งŒ ํŒ๋งคํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ตฌ๋งค์ „์— ์ œํ’ˆ๋„ ์ œํ’ˆ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌด์—‡๋ณด๋‹ค ์•ˆ์ „์ด ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ €ํฌ๋„ ์•ˆ์ „์„ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์˜ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊น”๋”ํ•œ์—…์ฒด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜์˜ ์ฃผ๋ฌธ์€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ์ด๋ป์ง€์‹œ๊ตฌ์š” ๊ธฐ์œํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋˜์„ธ์š”~ใ…Žใ…Ž Joy is not only for others, but also for yourself. Joy is just joy. If you are truly enjoying joy and healthy joy, it is good for others. But it is not good for others, unless it is pleasant, refreshing, and smiling. If you always have joy and joy, you can be a good person to those around you without doing anything. Peace (upeksha), tranquility or discrimination. There is no distinction between a loved one and a loved one in true love. Your pain is my pain. My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body. There is an element of self-disposal in true love. Happiness is no longer personal. Pain is no longer personal. There is no distinction between us. โ€œIn true love The distinction between loved ones and loved ones does not exist. Your pain is my pain. ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๋ถˆ๋ฒ•, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-์šฉ๋Ÿ‰, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒŒ๋Š”๊ณณ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํšจ๊ณผ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผํŒ๋งค My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body
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๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ,โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜…๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…
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Anything and everything, depending on how one sees it, is a marvel or a hindrance, an all or a nothing, a path or a problem. To see something in constantly new ways is to renew and multiply it. That is why the contemplative person, without ever leaving his village, will nevertheless have the whole universe at his disposal. Thereโ€™s infinity in a cell or a desert. One can sleep cosmically against a rock.
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Fernando Pessoa (The Book of Disquiet)
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The medial woman is immersed in the psychic atmosphere of her environment and the spirit of her period, but above all in the collective (impersonal) unconscious. The unconscious, once it is constellated and can become conscious, exerts an effect. The medial woman is overcome by this effect, she is absorbed and moulded by it and sometimes she represents it herself. She must for instance express or act what is โ€œin the air,โ€ what the environment cannot or will not admit, but what is nevertheless a part of it. It is mostly the dark aspect of a situation or of a predominant idea, and she thus activates what is negative and dangerous. In this way she becomes the carrier of evil, but that she does, is nevertheless exclusively her personal problem. As the contents involved are unconscious, she lacks the necessary faculty of discrimination to perceive and the language to express them adequately. The overwhelming force of the collective unconscious sweeps through the ego of the medial woman and weakens it. By its nature the collective unconscious is not limited to the person concerned further reason why the medial woman identifies herself and others with archetypal contents. But to deal with the collective unconscious demands a solid ego consciousness and an adequate adaptation to reality. As a rule the medial woman disposes of neither and consequently she will create confusion in the same measure as she herself is confused. Conscious and unconscious, I and you, personal and impersonal psychic contents remain undifferentiated. As objective psychic contents in herself and in others are not understood, or are taken personally, she experiences a destiny not her own as though it were her own and loses herself in ideas which do not belong to her. Instead of being a mediatrix, she is only a means and becomes the first victim of her own nature.
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Toni Wolff
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In this martial world dominated by men, women had little place. The Church's teachings might underpin feudal morality, yet when it came to the practicalities of life, a ruthless pragmatism often came into play. Kings and noblemen married for political advantage, and women rarely had any say in how they or their wealth were to be disposed in marriage. Kings would sell off heiresses and rich widows to the highest bidder, for political or territorial advantage, and those who resisted were heavily fined. Young girls of good birth were strictly reared, often in convents, and married off at fourteen or even earlier to suit their parents' or overlord's purposes. The betrothal of infants was not uncommon, despite the church's disapproval. It was a father's duty to bestow his daughters in marriage; if he was dead, his overlord or the King himself would act for him. Personal choice was rarely and issue. Upon marriage, a girl's property and rights became invested in her husband, to whom she owed absolute obedience. Every husband had the right to enforce this duty in whichever way he thought fit--as Eleanor was to find out to her cost. Wife-beating was common, although the Church did at this time attempt to restrict the length of the rod that a husband might use.
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Alison Weir (Eleanor of Aquitaine: A Life (World Leaders Past & Present))
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Nothing breaks my heart more than seeing that person whoโ€™s struggling to lose weight who thinks that they need to run 20 miles a week. They have no desire to do it, their knees hurt, they hate it, and theyโ€™re not losing weight. And Iโ€™d like to say, โ€˜Well, Iโ€™ve got great news for you. You donโ€™t ever need to run another step a day in your life, because thereโ€™s no value in that.โ€™ โ€œThere is value in exercise, though, and I think that the most important type of exercise, especially in terms of bang for your buck, is going to be really high-intensity, heavy strength training. Strength training aids everything from glucose disposal and metabolic health to mitochondrial density and orthopedic stability. That last one might not mean much when youโ€™re a 30-something young buck, but when youโ€™re in your 70s, thatโ€™s the difference between a broken hip and a walk in the park.
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Timothy Ferriss (Tools of Titans: The Tactics, Routines, and Habits of Billionaires, Icons, and World-Class Performers)
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... Your questions, Captain Delmonico, go beyond the limits of acceptable behavior! I intend to report you to everyone in a position to discipline you, is that understood?" He was beginning to splutter. "You're a-a-Gestapo inquisitor!" "Mr. Smith," Carmine said gently, "a policeman investigating murder uses many techniques to obtain information, but more than that, he also uses them to learn in the small amount of time at his disposal what kind of person he's questioning. During our first interview you were rude and overbearing, which leaves me free to tread heavily on your toes, even though your toes are sheathed in handmade shoes. You imply that you have the power to see me - er - 'disciplined', but I must tell you that no one in authority will take any notice of your complaints, because those in authority all know me. I have earned my status, not bought it. Murder means that everything in your life is my business until I remove you from my list of suspects. Is that clear?
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Colleen McCullough
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If a person is denied is denied a formal education ... she must be inventive in her quest for knowledge. She must study the folktales and the stories. She must learn however she can. She must use every tool at her disposal.
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Lynda Cohen Loigman (The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern)
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Ghouls," I heard Archer say. His voice was low and tense, like a person who's being confronted by a wild animal. "Reanimated human flesh, used as guardians. Seriously dark magic. Someone obviously didn't want us finding-" "Oh my God,less talking, more stabbing, please." My voice was squeaky with fear, and I knew my eyes wer huge when I swiveled around to look at Archer. He already had the sword in his hand, and he was crouching slightly. "I can slow them down, but ghouls can't be killed by blades. You're the one who has to stop them." "Come again?" I nearly squeaked. "You're a necromancer," he said. "They're dead." Oh,right. One of the many "perks" of having a lot of dark magic at my disposal. But I'd never seen the point in boning up on my necromancer skills. When was I ever going to need to order around the dead?
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Rachel Hawkins (Demonglass (Hex Hall, #2))
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When you see that a person's defects and bad qualities are so obvious, try to feel immediately that his defects and bad qualities do not represent him totally. His real self is infinitely better than what you see now. On the other hand, if you really want to love humanity, then you have to love humanity as it stands now and not expect it to come to a specific standard. If humanity has to become perfect before it can be accepted by you, then it would not need your love affection and concern. Right now, in its imperfect state of consciousness, humanity needs your help. Give humanity unreservedly even the most insignificant and limited help that you have at your disposal. This is the golden opportunity.
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Sri Chinmoy (The Wisdom of Sri Chinmoy)
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[...] intellectualism (as understood by Fascists) divocers thought from action, science from life, the brain from the heart, and theory from practice. It is the posture of the talker and the skeptic, of the person who entrenches himself behind the maxim that it is one thing to say something and another thing to do it; it is the utopian who is the fabricator of systems that will never face concrete reality; it is the talk of the poet, the scientist, the philosopher, who confine themselves to fantasy and to speculation and are ill-disposed to look around themselves and see the earth on which they tread and on which are to be found those fundamental human interests that feed their very fantasy and intelligence.
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Giovanni Gentile (Origins and Doctrine of Fascism: With Selections from Other Works)
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The vastly different sentences afforded drunk drivers and drug offenders speaks volumes regarding who is viewed as disposableโ€”someone to be purged from the body politicโ€”and who is not. Drunk drivers are predominantly white and male. White men comprised 78 percent of the arrests for this offense in 1990 when new mandatory minimums governing drunk driving were being adopted.65 They are generally charged with misdemeanors and typically receive sentences involving fines, license suspension, and community service. Although drunk driving carries a far greater risk of violent death than the use or sale of illegal drugs, the societal response to drunk drivers has generally emphasized keeping the person functional and in society, while attempting to respond to the dangerous behavior through treatment and counseling.66 People charged with drug offenses, though, are disproportionately poor people of color. They are typically charged with felonies and sentenced to prison.
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Michelle Alexander (The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness)
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Why were so many Americans treated by their government as though their lives were as disposable as paper tissues? Because that was the way authors customarily treated bit-part players in their made-up tales... Once I understood what was making America such a dangerous, unhappy nation of people who had nothing to do with real life, I resolved to shun storytelling. I would write about life. Every person would be exactly as important as any other. All facts would also be given equal weightiness. Nothing would be left out. Let others bring order to chaos. I would bring chaos to order, instead, which I think I have done.
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Kurt Vonnegut Jr. (Breakfast of Champions)
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The answer to all questions of life and death, "the absolute solution" was written all over the world he had known: it was like a traveller realising that the wild country he surveys is not an accidental assembly of natural phenomena, but the page in a book where these mountains and forests, and fields, and rivers are disposed in such a way as to form a coherent sentence; the vowel of a lake fusing with the consonant of a sibilant slope; the windings of a road writing its message in a round hand, as clear as that of one's father; trees conversing in dumb-show, making sense to one who has learnt the gestures of their language... Thus the traveller spells the landscape and its sense is disclosed, and likewise, the intricate pattern of human life turns out to be monogrammatic, now quite clear to the inner eye disentangling the interwoven letters. And the word, the meaning which appears is astounding in its simplicity: the greatest surprise being perhaps that in the course of one's earthly existence, with one's brain encompassed by an iron ring, by the close-fitting dream of one's own personality - one had not made by chance that simple mental jerk, which would have set free imprisoned thought and granted it the great understanding.
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Vladimir Nabokov (The Real Life of Sebastian Knight)
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Existentialist literature provides a more satisfactory account of the persistence of feminine narcissism. Simone de Beauvoir makes use of the existentialist conception of 'situation' in order to account for the persistence of narcissism in the feminine personality. A woman's situation, i.e., those meanings derived from the total context in which she comes to maturity, disposes her to apprehend her body not as the instrument of her transcendence, but as 'an object destined for another.' Knowing that she is to be subjected to the cold appraisal of the male connoisseur and that her life prospects may depend on how she is seen, a woman learns to appraise herself first. The sexual objectification of women produces a duality in feminine consciousness. The gaze of the Other is internalized so that I myself become at once seer and seen, appraiser and the thing appraised.
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Sandra Lee Bartky (Femininity and Domination: Studies in the Phenomenology of Oppression (Thinking Gender))
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โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜… ์•„๋กœ๋งˆํ–ฅ ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์‚ฐ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ ์ •ํ’ˆ์œผ๋กœ๋งŒ ํŒ๋งคํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ตฌ๋งค์ „์— ์ œํ’ˆ๋„ ์ œํ’ˆ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌด์—‡๋ณด๋‹ค ์•ˆ์ „์ด ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ €ํฌ๋„ ์•ˆ์ „์„ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์˜ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊น”๋”ํ•œ์—…์ฒด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜์˜ ์ฃผ๋ฌธ์€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ์ด๋ป์ง€์‹œ๊ตฌ์š” ๊ธฐ์œํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋˜์„ธ์š”~ใ…Žใ…Ž Joy is not only for others, but also for yourself. Joy is just joy. If you are truly enjoying joy and healthy joy, it is good for others. But it is not good for others, unless it is pleasant, refreshing, and smiling. If you always have joy and joy, you can be a good person to those around you without doing anything. Peace (upeksha), tranquility or discrimination. There is no distinction between a loved one and a loved one in true love. Your pain is my pain. My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body. There is an element of self-disposal in true love. Happiness is no longer personal. Pain is no longer personal. There is no distinction between us. โ€œIn true love The distinction between loved ones and loved ones does not exist. Your pain is my pain. ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๋ถˆ๋ฒ•, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-์šฉ๋Ÿ‰, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒŒ๋Š”๊ณณ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํšจ๊ณผ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผํŒ๋งค My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one bodyโ€ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ,โ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜…๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…
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์ •ํ’ˆ์—‘์Šคํ„ฐ์‹œ๊ตฌ๋งคํ›„๊ธฐ "์ฝ”๋ฆฌ์•„ํƒ‘" ์—‘์Šคํ„ฐ์‹œ๊ตฌ์ž…๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•,โ–ณโ˜…์นดํ†ก:kodak8โ˜…ํ…”๋ ˆ๊ทธ๋žจ:Komen68โ˜…โ–ณ์—‘์Šคํ„ฐ์‹œ์ •ํ’ˆํŒ๋งค,์—‘์Šคํ„ฐ์‹œํŒ๋งค,์ •ํ’ˆ๋ชฐ๋ฆฌ๊ตฌ์ž…๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•,
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The wider the gap between conscious and unconscious, the nearer creeps the fatal splitting of the personality, which in neurotically disposed individuals leads to neurosis, and, in those with a psychotic constitution, to schizophrenia and fragmentation of personality.
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C.G. Jung (Collected Works of C. G. Jung, Volume 5: Symbols of Transformation (The Collected Works of C. G. Jung))
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These scenes,โ€™ said Valancourt, at length, โ€˜soften the heart, like the notes of sweet music, and inspire that delicious melancholy which no person, who had felt it once, would resign for the gayest pleasures. They waken our best and purest feelings, disposing us to benevolence, pity, and friendship. Those whom I love โ€” I always seem to love more in such an hour as this.โ€™ His voice trembled, and he paused.
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Ann Radcliffe (The Romance of the Forest: A Gothic Novel (Annotated) (Reader's Edition))
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For, occupied incessantly with the consideration of the limits prescribed to their power by nature, they [philosophers of former times] became so entirely convinced that nothing was at their disposal except their own thoughts, that this conviction was of itself sufficient to prevent their entertaining any desire of other objects; and over their thoughts they acquired a sway so absolute, that they had some ground on this account for esteeming themselves more rich and more powerful, more free and more happy, than other men who, whatever be the favors heaped on them by nature and fortune, if destitute of this philosophy, can never command the realization of all their desires.
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Renรฉ Descartes (Discourse on Method and Meditations on First Philosophy)
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If D1 was a just distribution, and people voluntarily moved from it to D2, transferring parts of their shares they were given under D1 (what was it for if not to do something with?), isn't D2 also just? If the people were entitled to dispose of the resources to which they were entitled (under D1), didn't this include their being entitled to give it to, or exchange it with, Wilt Chamberlain? Can anyone else complain on grounds of justice? Each other person already has his legitimate share under D1. Under D1, there is nothing that anyone has that anyone else has a claim of justice against. After someone transfers something to Wilt Chamberlain, third parties still have their legitimate shares; their shares are not changed. By what process could such a transfer among two persons give rise to a legitimate claim of distributive justice on a portion of what was transferred, by a third party who had no claim of justice on any holding of the others before the transfer?
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Robert Nozick (Anarchy, State, and Utopia)
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There is such a thing as looking through a personโ€™s eyes into the heart, and learning more of the height, and breadth, and depth of anotherโ€™s soul in one hour than it might take you a lifetime to discover, if he or she were not disposed to reveal it, or if you had not the sense to understand it.
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Anne Brontรซ (The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (Centaur Classics))
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The shadow, when it is realized, is the source of renewal; the new and productive impulse cannot come from established values of the ego. When there is an impasse, and sterile time in our livesโ€”despite an adequate ego developmentโ€”we must look to the dark, hitherto unacceptable side which has been at our conscious disposalโ€ฆ.This brings us to the fundamental fact that the shadow is the door to our individuality. In so far as the shadow renders us our first view of the unconscious part of our personality, it represents the first stage toward meeting the Self. There is, in fact, no access to the unconscious and to our own reality but through the shadow. Only when we realize that part of ourselves which we have not hitherto seen or preferred not to see can we proceed to question and find the sources from which it feeds and the basis on which it rests. Hence no progress or growth is possible until the shadow is adequately confronted and confronting means more than merely knowing about it. It is not until we have truly been shocked into seeing ourselves as we really are, instead of as we wish or hopefully assume we are, that we can take the first step toward individual reality.
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Connie Zweig (Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power of the Dark Side of Human Nature)
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Hank Green's Secrets of Productivity: 1.) I have convinced myself that if I am not using all of the tools I have in my disposal to do the maximum amount of good [...] then I am less of a good person than I could otherwise could be. [...] 2.) I intentionally put myself in situations where people who I care about and who I respect rely on me to do things, which is very motivating. [...] 3.) I don't get caught up in doing everything perfectly. [...] I just want to try stuff and if it explodes... it exploded! And I learned! 4.) I love giving other people responsibility. I love putting them in difficult situations and saying: "Figure this out. Help me do this." And if they do it wrong or if they do it differently than how I would have done it, I don't get mad as long as they're learning, because there's no way to get good at stuff except to do it and fail and learn. [...] 5.) I follow and cultivate my own curiosity. I think curiosity is one of the top two or three human characteristics. It's something that I really like about myself. [...] I want to understand stuff! I want to understand people! Following my curiosity so frequently leads me to better life decisions and better business decisions but also - just feeling better! You're never going to feel bad about your whole life if you loved people and you were curious. I mean, that's kind of all I want!
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Hank Green
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For it is a conspicuous feature of democracy, as it evolves from generation to generation, that it leads people increasingly to take up public positions on the private affairs of others....each person thus becomes his own fantasy despot, disposing of others and their resources as he or she thinks desirable.
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Kenneth Minogue (The Servile Mind: How Democracy Erodes the Moral Life (Encounter Broadsides))
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In addition, Dr. Dannyboy has suggested a fifth element: positive thinking. Pointing out that their breathing, bathing, dining and screwing brought Alobar and Kudra much physical pleasure, and that an organism steeped in pleasure is an organism disposed to continue, he has said that the will to live cannot be overestimated as a stimulant to longevity. Indeed Dr. Dannyboy goes so far as to claim that ninety percent of all deaths are suicides. Persons, says Wiggs, who lack curiosity about life, who find minimal joy in existence, are all too willing, subconsciously, to cooperate with- and attract- disease, accident and violence.
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Tom Robbins (Jitterbug Perfume)
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What do think about abortion?โ€ โ€œI could feel the tension growing in the plane. I dropped my head, acknowledging that we had very different value systems for our lives. Then I thought of a way to respond to his question. โ€œYouโ€™re Jewish, right?โ€ I asked. โ€œYes,โ€ he said defensively. โ€œI told you I was!โ€ โ€œDo you know how Hitler persuaded the German people to destroy more than six million of your Jewish ancestors?โ€ The man looked at me expectantly, so I continued. โ€He convinced them that Jews were not human and then exterminated your people like rats.โ€ I could see that I had his attention, so I went on. โ€œDo you understand how Americans enslaved, tortured, and killed millions of Africans? We dehumanized them so our constitution didnโ€™t apply to them, and then we treated them worse than animals.โ€ โ€œHow about the Native Americans?โ€ I pressed. โ€œDo you have any idea how we managed to hunt Indians like wild animals, drive them out of their own land, burn their villages, rape their women, and slaughter their children? Do you have any clue how everyday people turned into cruel murderers?โ€ My Jewish friend was silent, and his eyes were filling with tears as I made my point. โ€œWe made people believe that the Native Americans were wild savages, not real human beings, and then we brutalized them without any conviction of wrongdoing! Now do you understand how we have persuaded mothers to kill their own babies? We took the word fetus, which is the Latin word for โ€˜offspring,โ€™ and redefined it to dehumanize the unborn. We told mothers, โ€˜That is not really a baby you are carrying in your belly; it is a fetus, tissue that suddenly forms into a human being just seconds before it exits the womb.โ€™ In doing so, we were able to assert that, in the issue of abortion, there is only one personโ€™s human rights to consider, and then we convinced mothers that disposing of fetal tissue (terminating the life of their babies) was a womanโ€™s right. Our constitution no longer protects the unborn because they are not real people. They are just lifeless blobs of tissue.โ€ By now, tears were flowing down his cheeks. I looked right into his eyes and said, โ€œYour people, the Native Americans, and the African Americans should be the greatest defenders of the unborn on the planet. After all, you know what itโ€™s like for society to redefine you so that they can destroy your races. But ironically, your races have the highest abortion rates in this country! Somebody is still trying to exterminate your people, and you donโ€™t even realize it. The names have changed, but the plot remains the same!โ€ Finally he couldnโ€™t handle it anymore. He blurted out, โ€œI have never heard anything like this before. I am hanging out with the wrong people. I have been deceived!
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Kris Vallotton
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Hatred is like a long, dark shadow. Not even the person it falls upon knows where it comes from, in most cases. It is like a two-edged sword. When you cut the other person, you cut yourself. The more violently you hack at the other person, the more violently you hack at yourself. It can often be fatal. But it is not easy to dispose of. Please be careful, Mr. Okada. It is very dangerous. Once it has taken root in your heart, hatred is the most difficult thing in the world to shake off.
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Haruki Murakami (The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle)
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The picture had no flourishes, but she liked its lowness of tone and the atmosphere of summer twilight that pervaded it. It spoke of the kind of personal issue that touched her most nearly; of the choice between objects, subjects, contactsโ€”what might she call them?โ€”of a thin and those of a rich association; of a lonely, studious life in a lovely land; of an old sorrow that sometimes ached to-day; of a feeling of pride that was perhaps exaggerated, but that had an element of nobleness; of a care for beauty and perfection so natural and so cultivated together that the career appeared to stretch beneath it in the disposed vistas and with the ranges of steps and terraces and fountains of a formal Italian gardenโ€”allowing only for arid places freshened by the natural dews of a quaint half-anxious, half-helpless fatherhood.
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Henry James
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The privileges of the clergy in those ancient times (which to us, who live in the present times, appear the most absurd), their total exemption from the secular jurisdiction, for example, or what in England was called the benefit of clergy, were the natural, or rather the necessary, consequences of this state of things. How dangerous must it have been for the sovereign to attempt to punish a clergyman for any crime whatever, if his order were disposed to protect him, and to represent either the proof as insufficient for convicting so holy a man, or the punishment as too severe to be inflicted upon one whose person had been rendered sacred by religion? The sovereign could, in such circumstances, do no better than leave him to be tried by the ecclesiastical courts, who, for the honour of their own order, were interested to restrain, as much as possible, every member of it from committing enormous crimes, or even from giving occasion to such gross scandal as might disgust the minds of the people.
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Adam Smith (An Inquiry into the Nature and Causes of the Wealth of Nations)
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The scalp massage at the hairdresser, the flu jab I had last winter โ€“ the only time I experience touch is from people whom I am paying, and they are almost always wearing disposable gloves at the time. Iโ€™m merely stating the facts. People donโ€™t like these facts, but I canโ€™t help that. If someone asks you how you are, you are meant to say FINE. You are not meant to say that you cried yourself to sleep last night because you hadnโ€™t spoken to another person for two consecutive days. FINE is what you say.
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Gail Honeyman (Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine)
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They are not yet finished with this world; they still donโ€™t know how to struggle along and avoid the mystery, as we do. We destroy the mystery because we sense that here we reach the boundary of our being, because we want to be lord over everything and have it at our disposal, and thatโ€™s just what we cannot do with the mysteryโ€ฆ. Living without mystery means knowing nothing of the mystery of our own life, nothing of the mystery of another person, nothing of the mystery of the world; it means passing over our own hidden qualities and those of others and the world. It means remaining on the surface, taking the world seriously only to the extent that it can be calculated and exploited, and not going beyond the world of calculation and exploitation. Living without mystery means not seeing the crucial processes of life at all and even denying them.
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Dietrich Bonhoeffer (God Is in the Manger: Reflections on Advent and Christmas)
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It is foolish to wish for beauty.ย  Sensible people never either desire it for themselves or care about it in others.ย  If the mind be but well cultivated, and the heart well disposed, no one ever cares for the exterior.ย  So said the teachers of our childhood; and so say we to the children of the present day.ย  All very judicious and proper, no doubt; but are such assertions supported by actual experience? We are naturally disposed to love what gives us pleasure, and what more pleasing than a beautiful faceโ€”when we know no harm of the possessor at least?ย  A little girl loves her birdโ€”Why?ย  Because it lives and feels; because it is helpless and harmless?ย  A toad, likewise, lives and feels, and is equally helpless and harmless; but though she would not hurt a toad, she cannot love it like the bird, with its graceful form, soft feathers, and bright, speaking eyes.ย  If a woman is fair and amiable, she is praised for both qualities, but especially the former, by the bulk of mankind: if, on the other hand, she is disagreeable in person and character, her plainness is commonly inveighed against as her greatest crime, because, to common observers, it gives the greatest offence; while, if she is plain and good, provided she is a person of retired manners and secluded life, no one ever knows of her goodness, except her immediate connections.ย  Others, on the contrary, are disposed to form unfavourable opinions of her mind, and disposition, if it be but to excuse themselves for their instinctive dislike of one so unfavoured by nature; and visa versa with her whose angel form conceals a vicious heart, or sheds a false, deceitful charm over defects and foibles that would not be tolerated in another.ย 
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Anne Brontรซ (Agnes Grey)
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Who needs me?โ€ is a question of character which suffers a radical challenge in modern capitalism. The system radiates indifference. It does so in terms of the outcomes of human striving, as in winner-take-all markets, where there is little connection between risk and reward. It radiates indifference in the organization of absence and trust, where there is no reason to be needed. And it does so through reengineering of institutions in which people are treated as disposable. Such practices obviously and brutally diminish the sense of mattering as a person, of being necessary to others. It could be said that capitalism was always thus. But not in the same way. The indifference of the old class-bound capitalism was starkly material; the indifference which radiates out of flexible capitalism is more personal because the system itself is less starkly etched, less legible in form.
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Richard Sennett (The Corrosion of Character: The Personal Consequences of Work in the New Capitalism)
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TO understand political power right, and derive it from its original, we must consider, what state all men are naturally in, and that is, a state of perfect freedom to order their actions, and dispose of their possessions and persons, as they think fit, within the bounds of the law of nature, without asking leave, or depending upon the will of any other man.
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John Locke (The John Locke Collection: 6 Classic Works)
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Well, after all, this is the age of the disposable tissue. Blow your nose on a person, wad them, flush them away, reach for another, blow, wad, flush.
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Ray Bradbury (Fahrenheit 451)
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Well, after all, this is the age of the disposable tissue. Blow your nose on a person, wad them, flush them away, reach for another, blow, wad, flush
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Ray Bradbury (Fahrenheit 451)
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The pedestrian fact remains that murderers are usually persons who have some fairly ordinary reason for wishing to dispose of people, and therefore turn out to be obvious.
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Delano Ames (She Shall Have Murder (Jane and Dagobert Brown #1))
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They werenโ€™t keen on sending someone to dispose of his clothing and other personal effects.
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Dean Koontz (The House at the End of the World)
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I loved this chick so much; she was my person. If I ever killed someone, I'd call her to help me dispose of the body.
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Jaymin Eve (Ash (Hive Trilogy, #1))
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I had started on the marriage and motherhood beat by accident with a post on my personal, read only by friends, blog called โ€˜Fifty Shades of Menโ€™. I had written it after buying Fifty Shades of Grey to spice up what Dave and I half-jokingly called our grown up time, and had written a meditation on how the sex wasnโ€™t the sexiest part of the book. โ€œDear publishers, I will tell you why every woman with a ring on her finger and a car seat in her SUV is devouring this book like the candy she wonโ€™t let herself eat.โ€ I had written. โ€œItโ€™s not the fantasy of an impossibly handsome guy who can give you an orgasm just by stroking your nipples. It is instead the fantasy of a guy who can give you everything. Hapless, clueless, barely able to remain upright without assistance, Ana Steele is that unlikeliest of creatures, a college student who doesnโ€™t have an email address, a computer, or a clue. Turns out she doesnโ€™t need any of those things. Here is the dominant Christian Grey and heโ€™ll give her that computer plus an iPad, a beamer, a job, and an identity, sexual and otherwise. No more worrying about what to wear. Christian buys her clothes. No more stress about how to be in the bedroom. Christian makes those decisions. For women who do too muchโ€”which includes, dear publishers, pretty much all the women who have enough disposable income to buy your booksโ€”this is the ultimate fantasy: not a man who will make you come, but a man who will make agency unnecessary, a man who will choose your adventure for you.
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Jennifer Weiner (All Fall Down)
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The person who prays and who wants to gain a deeper understanding of the word he desires to worship (in order to be more single-mindedly at the wordโ€™s disposal) will select with great care basic works for his studies which will observe the so-called exactitude of scholarship without losing sight of the most important exactitude, namely, the ordering of all thought toward prayer.
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Hans Urs von Balthasar (Prayer)
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A zeal for different opinions concerning religion, concerning government, and many other points, as well of speculation as of practice; an attachment to different leaders ambitiously contending for pre-eminence and power; or to persons of other descriptions whose fortunes have been interesting to the human passions, have, in turn, divided mankind into parties, inflamed them with mutual animosity, and rendered them much more disposed to vex and oppress each other than to co-operate for their common good. So strong is this propensity of mankind to fall into mutual animosities, that where no substantial occasion presents itself, the most frivolous and fanciful distinctions have been sufficient to kindle their unfriendly passions and excite their most violent conflicts.
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Alexander Hamilton (The Federalist Papers (Illustrated))
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Who needs me?โ€ is a question of character which suffers a radical challenge in modern capitalism. The system radiates indifference. It does so in terms of the outcomes of human striving, as in winner-take-all markets, where there is little connection between risk and reward. It radiates indifference in the organization of absence of trust, where there is no reason to be needed. And it does so through reengineering of institutions in which people are treated as disposable. Such practices obviously and brutally diminish the sense of mattering as a person, of being necessary to others.
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Richard Sennett (The Corrosion of Character: The Personal Consequences of Work in the New Capitalism)
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Last night, at a press conference, the City Council reminded everyone that the Dog Park is there for our community enjoyment and use, and so it is important that no one enter, look at, or think about the Dog Park. They are adding a new advanced camera system to keep an eye on the great black walls of the Dog Park at all times, and if anyone is caught trying to enter it, they will be forced to enter it, and will never be heard from again. If you see hooded figures in the Dog Park, no you didnโ€™t. The hooded figures are perfectly safe, and should not be approached at any costs. The City Council ended the conference by devouring a raw potato in quick, small bites of their sharp teeth and rough tongues. No follow-up questions were asked, although there were a few follow-up screams. We have also received word via encrypted radio pulses about the opening of a new store: Lennyโ€™s Bargain House of Gardenwares and Machine Parts, which until recently was that abandoned warehouse the government was using for the highly classified and completely secret tests I was telling you about last week. Lennyโ€™s will serve as a helpful new source for all needs involving landscaping and lawn-decorating materials and also as a way for the government to unload all the machines and failed tests and dangerous substances that otherwise would be wasted on things like โ€œsafe disposalโ€ or โ€œburying in a concrete tomb until the sun goes out.โ€ Get out to Lennyโ€™s for their big grand opening sale. Find eight government secrets and get a free kidnapping and personality reassignment so that youโ€™ll forget you found them!
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Joseph Fink (Welcome to Night Vale (Welcome to Night Vale, #1))
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In Mary this petition has been granted: she is, as it were, the open vessel of longing, in which life becomes prayer and prayer becomes life. Saint John wonderfully conveys this process by never mentioning Maryโ€™s name in his Gospel. She no longer has any name except โ€œthe Mother of Jesusโ€.1 It is as if she had handed over her personal dimension, in order now to be solely at his disposal, and precisely thereby had become a person.
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Hans Urs von Balthasar (Mary: The Church at the Source)
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Understand: the greatest impediment to creativity is your impatience, the almost inevitable desire to hurry up the process, express something, and make a splash. What happens in such a case is that you do not master the basics; you have no real vocabulary at your disposal. What you mistake for being creative and distinctive is more likely an imitation of other peopleโ€™s style, or personal rantings that do not really express anything.
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Robert Greene (Mastery)
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The first thing the intellect does with an object is to class it along with something else. But any object that is infinitely important to us and awakens our devotion feels to us also as if it must be sui generis and unique. Probably a crab would be filled with a sense of personal outrage if it could hear us class it without ado or apology as a crustacean, and thus dispose of it. โ€œI am no such thing,โ€ it would say; โ€œI am MYSELF, MYSELF alone.
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William James (The Varieties of Religious Experience: A Study in Human Nature)
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the Mediterranean region was the first to see the acceptance of a personโ€™s right to dispose over a recognised private domain, thus allowing individuals to develop a dense network of commercial relations among different communities.
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Friedrich A. Hayek (The Fatal Conceit: The Errors of Socialism (The Collected Works of F. A. Hayek Book 1) (Volume 1))
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For we are so constituted by nature, that we are ever prone to compare ourselves with others; and our happiness or misery depends very much on the objects and persons around us. On this account, nothing is more dangerous than solitude: there our imagination, always disposed to rise, taking a new flight on the wings of fancy, pictures to us a chain of beings of whom we seem the most inferior. All things appear greater than they really are, and all seem superior to us.
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Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (The Sorrows of Young Werther)
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As for Iagoโ€™s jealousy, one cannot believe that a seriously jealous man could behave towards his wife as Iago behaves towards Emilia, for the wife of a jealous husband is the first person to suffer. Not only is the relation of Iago and Emilia, as we see it on stage, without emotional tension, but also Emilia openly refers to a rumor of her infidelity as something already disposed of. Some such squire it was That turned your wit, the seamy side without And made you to suspect me with the Moor. At one point Iago states that, in order to revenge himself on Othello, he will not rest till he is even with him, wife for wife, but, in the play, no attempt at Desdemonaโ€™s seduction is made. Iago does not encourage Cassio to make one, and he even prevents Roderigo from getting anywhere near her. Finally, one who seriously desires personal revenge desires to reveal himself. The revengerโ€™s greatest satisfaction is to be able to tell his victim to his face โ€“ "You thought you were all-powerful and untouchable and could injure me with impunity. Now you see that you were wrong. Perhaps you have forgotten what you did; let me have the pleasure of reminding you." When at the end of the play, Othello asks Iago in bewilderment why he has thus ensnared his soul and body, if his real motive were revenge for having been cuckolded or unjustly denied promotion, he could have said so, instead of refusing to explain.
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W.H. Auden (The Dyer's Hand and Other Essays)
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The repeated attempts that have been made to improve humanity - in particular to make it more peacable - have failed, because nobody has understood the full depth and vigour of the instincts of aggression innate in each individual. Such efforts do not seek to do more than encourage the positive, well-wishing impulses of the person while denying or suppressing his aggressive ones. And so they have been doomed to failure from the beginning. But psychoanalysis has different means at its disposal for a task of this kind. It cannot, it is true, altogether do away with man's aggressive instinct as such; but it can, by diminishing the anxiety which accentuates those instincts, break up the mutual reinforcement that is going on all the time between his hatred and his fear. When, in our analytic work, we are always seeing how the resolution of early infantile anxiety not only lessens and modifies the child's aggressive impulses, but leads to a more valuable employment and gratification of them from a social point of view; how the child shows an ever-grwing, deeply rooted desire to be loved and to love, and to be at peace with the world about it; and how much pleasure and benefit, and what a lessening of anxiety it derives from the fulfilment of this desire - when we see all this, we are ready to believe that what now would seem a Utopian state of things may well come true in those distant days when, as I hope, child-analysis will become as much a part of every person's upbringing as school-education is now. Then, perhaps, that hostile attitude, springing from fear and suspicion, which is latent more or less strongly in each human being, and which intensifies a hundredfold in him every impulse of destruction, will give way to kindlier and more trustful feelings towards his fellowmen, and people may inhabit the world together in greater peace and goodwill than they do now.
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Melanie Klein (Love, Guilt and Reparation: And Other Works 1921-1945 (The Writings of Melanie Klein, Volume 1))
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Time isnโ€™t a disposable resource. You canโ€™t spend time. No matter what you do or donโ€™t do, time passes on its own. You have no choice regarding whether to spend time or not; your only choice is how you direct your focus in the present moment.
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Steve Pavlina (Personal Development for Smart People: The Conscious Pursuit of Personal Growth)
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Handling a dead body is not a repugnant or frightening experience and, somehow, it helps to accept the fact that the soul of that person has gone if you treat the body with reverence and respect before it is finally disposed of by cremation or burial.
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Jennifer Worth (In the Midst of Life)
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The interests of large classes had been unfavourably affected by the establishment of the new diligences; and, as usual, many persons were, from mere stupidity and obstinacy, disposed to clamour against the innovation, simply because it was an innovation. It
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Thomas Babington Macaulay (The History of England, from the Accession of James II.)
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Pleasures are like photographs: in the presence of the person we love, we take only negatives, which we develop later, at home, when we have at our disposal once more our inner darkroom, the door of which it is strictly forbidden to open while others are present.
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Marcel Proust (In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower)
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Thus all consent to that maxim of Crassus, that a prince cannot have treasure enough, since he must maintain his armies out of it; that a king, even though he would, can do nothing unjustly; that all property is in him, not excepting the very persons of his subjects; and that no man has any other property but that which the king, out of his goodness, thinks fit to leave him.ย  And they think it is the princeโ€™s interest that there be as little of this left as may be, as if it were his advantage that his people should have neither riches nor liberty, since these things make them less easy and willing to submit to a cruel and unjust government.ย  Whereas necessity and poverty blunts them, makes them patient, beats them down, and breaks that height of spirit that might otherwise dispose them to rebel.ย 
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Thomas More (Utopia)
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Hunter was a deeply sentimental man, and like most sentimentalists, he was a pack rat, because such people, and I am one, confer on objects the essence of a person, place, or event. They are tangible reminders of the good and significant, and they are more than simply reminders, they are talismans, objects consecrated by memory. They have magical properties and they are not to be lightly disposed of or given away, because in losing them we lose a part of our memory, and memories are the bricks of the houses of our selves, our lives.
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Juan F. Thompson (Stories I Tell Myself: Growing Up with Hunter S. Thompson)
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that evil is evil, mental illness or no. Weโ€™re all more or less disposed to evil actions, but our disposition cannot exonerate us. For heavenโ€™s sake, weโ€™re all sick with personality disorders. And itโ€™s our actions which define how sick we are. Weโ€™re equal before the law,
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Jo Nesbรธ (The Snowman)
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The United States is a conceited nation with shallow roots, and what happened before living memory doesn't seem to interest most people I know at home. We like living in our houses with our new furniture, on our new streets in new neighborhoods. Everything is disposable and everything is replaceable. Personal family history can feel simply irrelevant in our new world, beyond the simplest national identifications, and even those who can get sort of vague for people. I remember a boy in high school who told the history teacher he was 'half Italian, half Polish, half English, half German, and one-quarter Swedish.' I think one of the reasons so many of us are disconnected from our histories is because none of it happened where we live in the present; the past, for so many, is a faraway place across an ocean.
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Katharine Weber (The Music Lesson)
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This is something I grieve: the severed tie to someone who knew me since college, the cokeeper of our memories, the person who could tell my kids what I was like during those years, the person who could tell me what I was like, the person I shared my life with. All of it, disposable.
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Maggie Smith (You Could Make This Place Beautiful)
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There is such a thing as looking through a personโ€™s eyes into the heart, and learning more of the height, and breadth, and depth of another's soul in one hour than it might take you a lifetime to discover, if he or she were not disposed to reveal it, or if you had not the sense to understand it.
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Anne Brontรซ (The Tenant of Wildfell Hall)
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People, even smart ones, come up with weird or silly reasons to entertain bad ideas all the time. In fact, smart people may be more prone to creating irrational stories and engaging in dumb behavior than lesser smart people, for the simple fact that there are more (cognitive) tools at their disposal.
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T. A. Rhodes (The Lost Art of Searching: Embracing Uncertainty, Discovering Intrinsic Value, and Charging Through Life One Ride at a Time)
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The law has gone further than this; it has acted in direct opposition to its own purpose. The law has been used to destroy its own objective: It has been applied to annihilating the justice that it was supposed to maintain; to limiting and destroying rights which its real purpose was to respect. The law has placed the collective force at the disposal of the unscrupulous who wish, without risk, to exploit the person, liberty, and property of others. It has converted plunder into a right, in order to protect plunder. And it has converted lawful defense into a crime, in order to punish lawful defense.
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Frรฉdรฉric Bastiat (The Law)
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Atticus came in for his share of criticism. If only he had loved Cicero enough he would have given him better advice; instead he had โ€œlooked on and done nothing.โ€ Atticus very sensibly paid no attention to this unfair jibe and went on doing all he could to help, even offering to place his personal fortune, now much augmented by the death of an โ€œextremely difficultโ€ but extremely wealthy uncle, at Ciceroโ€™s disposal. This was a gesture of some significance for, with the confiscation of his property, Ciceroโ€™s financial affairs were in a very poor state. Ciceroโ€™s letters to Atticus are full of practical advice, complaints and queries.
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Anthony Everitt (Cicero: The Life and Times of Rome's Greatest Politician)
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I tipped young Hylas with a sesterce and turned away discreetly while he disposed of it somewhere about his person. Slaves, especially small ones, must resort to certain subterfuges in order to prevent larger slaves from acquiring their wealth, and it is often inadvisable to wonder too much about where our money has been.
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John Maddox Roberts (The Tribune's Curse (SPQR, #7))
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I keep having the same experience and keep resisting it every time. I do not want to believe it although it is palpable: the great majority of people lacks an intellectual conscience. Indeed, it has often seemed to me as if anyone calling for an intellectual conscience were as lonely in the most densely populated cities as if he were in a desert. Everybody looks at you with strange eyes and goes right on handling his scales, calling this good and that evil. Nobody even blushes when you intimate that their weights are underweight; nor do people feel outraged; they merely laugh at your doubts. I mean: the great majority of people does not consider it contemptible to believe this or that and to live accordingly, without first having given themselves an account of the final and most certain reasons pro and con, and without even troubling themselves about such reasons afterward: the most gifted men and the noblest women still belong to this "great majority." But what is goodheartedness, refinement, or genius to me, when the person who has these virtues tolerates slack feelings in his faith and judgments and when he does not account the desire for certainty as his inmost craving and deepest distressโ€”as that which separates the higher human beings from the lower. Among some pious people I found a hatred of reason and was well disposed to them for that; for this at least betrayed their bad intellectual conscience. But to stand in the midst of this rerum concordia discors and of this whole marvelous uncertainty and rich ambiguity of existence without questioning, without trembling with the craving and the rapture of such questioning, without at least hating the person who questions, perhaps even finding him faintly amusingโ€”that is what I feel to be contemptible, and this is the feeling for which I look first in everybody. Some folly keeps persuading me that every human being has this feeling, simply because he is human. This is my type of injustice.
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Friedrich Nietzsche
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Morals, including especially, our institutions of property, freedom and justice, are not a creation of manโ€™s reason but a distinct second endowment conferred on him by cultural evolution - runs counter to the main intellectual outlook of the twentieth century. The influence of rationalism has indeed been so profound and pervasive that, in general, the more intelligent an educated person is, the more likely he or she now is not only to be a rationalist, but also to hold socialist views (regardless of whether he or she is sufficiently doctrinal to attach to his or her views any label, including โ€˜socialistโ€™). The higher we climb up the ladder of intelligence, the more we talk with intellectuals, the more likely we are to encounter socialist convictions. Rationalists tend to be intelligent and intellectual; and intelligent intellectuals tend to be socialist. Oneโ€™s initial surprise at finding that intelligent people tend to be socialist diminishes when one realises that, of course, intelligent people will tend to overvalue intelligence, and to suppose that we must owe all the advantages and opportunities that our civilisation offers to deliberate design rather than to following traditional rules, and likewise to suppose that we can, by exercising our reason, eliminate any remaining undesired features by still more intelligence reflection, and still more appropriate design and โ€™rational coordinationโ€™ of our undertakings. This leads one to be favorably disposed to the central economic planning and control that lie at the heart of socialismโ€ฆ And since they have been taught that constructivism and scientism are what science and the use of reason are all about, they find it hard to believe that there can exist any useful knowledge that did not originate in deliberate experimentation, or to accept the validity of any tradition apart from their own tradition of reason. Thus [they say]: โ€˜Tradition is almost by definition reprehensible, something to be mocked and deploredโ€™.
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Friedrich A. Hayek (The Fatal Conceit: The Errors of Socialism)
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Nonetheless, death images came to him: dead frog plastered to the turnpike like a grisly stamp; Daddyโ€™s broken watch lying on top of a box of junk to be thrown out; gravestones with a dead person under every one; dead jay by the telephone pole; the cold junk Mommy scraped off the plates and down the dark maw of the garbage disposal.
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Stephen King (The Shining (The Shining #1))
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Death is the Santa Claus of the adult world. Except Santa Claus in reverse. The guy who takes all the presents away. Big bag over the shoulder, climbing up the chimney carrying everything in a person's life, and taking off, eight-reindeered, from the roof. Sleigh loaded down with memories and wineglassesand pots and pans and sweaters and grilled cheese sandwiches and Kleenexes and text messages and ugly houseplants and calico cat fur and half-used lipstick and laundry that never got done and letters you went to the trouble of handwriting but never sent and birth certificates and broken necklaces and disposable socks with scuffs on the bottom from hospital visits.
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Maria Dahvana Headley (Magonia (Magonia, #1))
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To understand political power right, and derive it from its original, we must consider what state all men are naturally in, and that is, a state of perfect freedom to order their actions and dispose of their possessions and persons, as they think fit, within the bounds of the law of nature; without asking leave, or depending upon the will of any other man.
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John Locke (Two Treatises of Government and A Letter Concerning Toleration (Rethinking the Western Tradition))
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All life produces waste. The act of living produces costs, hazards and disposal questions, and so the Ministry has found itself in the center of all life, mitigating, guiding and policing the detritus of the average person along with investigating the infractions of the greedy and short-sighted, the ones who wish to make quick profits and trade on others' lives for it.
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Paolo Bacigalupi (The Windup Girl)
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When youโ€™re young, you think everything you do is disposable. You move from now to now, crumpling up time in your hands, tossing it away. Youโ€™re your own speeding car. You think you can get rid of things, and people too - leave them behind. You donโ€™t know about the habit they have, of coming back. Time in dreams is frozen. You can never get away from where youโ€™ve been.
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Markus Zusak
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It is foolish to wish for beauty. Sensible people never either desire it for themselves or care about it in others. If the mind be but well cultivated, and the heart well disposed, no one ever cares for the exterior. So said the teachers of our childhood; and so say we to the children of the present day. All very judicious and proper, no doubt; but are such assertions supported by actual experience? We are naturally disposed to love what gives us pleasure, and what more pleasing than a beautiful face--when we know no harm of the possessor at least? A little girl loves her bird--Why? Because it lives and feels; because it is helpless and harmless? A toad, likewise, lives and feels, and is equally helpless and harmless; but though she would not hurt a toad, she cannot love it like the bird, with its graceful form, soft feathers, and bright, speaking eyes. If a woman is fair and amiable, she is praised for both qualities, but especially the former, by the bulk of mankind: if, on the other hand, she is disagreeable in person and character, her plainness is commonly inveighed against as her greatest crime, because, to common observers, it gives the greatest offence; while, if she is plain and good, provided she is a person of retired manners and secluded life, no one ever knows of her goodness, except her immediate connections. Others, on the contrary, are disposed to form unfavourable opinions of her mind, and disposition, if it be but to excuse themselves for their instinctive dislike of one so unfavoured by nature; and visa versa with her whose angel form conceals a vicious heart, or sheds a false, deceitful charm over defects and foibles that would not be tolerated in another. They that have beauty, let them be thankful for it, and make a good use of it, like any other talent; they that have it not, let them console themselves, and do the best they can without it: certainly, though liable to be over-estimated, it is a gift of God, and not to be despised.
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Anne Brontรซ
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If they show themselves disposed to accept their proper position I will assist them to start virtuously in life by a present of one hundred pounds each. This sum I authorize you to pay them, on their personal application, with the necessary acknowledgment of receipt; and on the express understanding that the transaction, so completed, is to be the beginning and the end of my connection with them. The
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Wilkie Collins (No Name)
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Every action is a losing, a letting go, a passing away from oneself of some bit of oneโ€™s own reality into the existence of others and of the world. In Jesus Christ, this character of action is not resisted, by trying to use our action to assert ourselves, extend ourselves, to impose our will and being upon situations. In Jesus Christ, this self-expending character of action is joyfully affirmed. I receive myself constantly from Godโ€™s Parenting love. But so far as some aspects of myself are at my disposal, these I receive to give away. Those who would live as Jesus didโ€”who would act and purpose themselves as Jesus didโ€”mean to love, i.e., they mean to expend themselves for others unto death. Their being is meant to pass away from them to others, and they make that meaning the conscious direction of their existence. Too often the love which is proclaimed in the churches suppresses this element of loss and need and death in activity. As a Christian, I often speak of love as helping others, but I ignore what this does to the person who loves. I ignore the fact that love is self-expenditure, a real expending and losing and deterioration of the self. I speak of love as if the person loving had no problems, no needs, no limits. In other words, I speak of love as if the affluent dream were true. This kind of proclamation is heard everywhere. We hear it said: 'Since you have no unanswered needs, why donโ€™t you go out and help those other people who are in need?' But we never hear people go on and add: 'If you do this, you too will be driven into need.' And by not stating this conclusion, people give the childish impression that Christian love is some kind of cornucopia, where we can reach to everybodyโ€™s needs and problems and still have everything we need for ourselves. Believe me, there are grown-up persons who speak this kind of nonsense. And when people try to live out this illusory love, they become terrified when the self-expending begins to take its toll. Terror of relationship is [that] we eat each other. But note this very carefully: like Jesus, we too can only live to give our received selves away freely because we know our being is not thereby ended, but still and always lies in the Parenting of our God.... Those who love in the name of Jesus Christ... serve the needs of others willingly, even to the point of being exposed in their own neediness.... They do not cope with their own needs. They do not anguish over how their own needs may be met by the twists and turns of their circumstances, by the whims of their society, or by the strategies of their own egos. At the center of their lifeโ€”the very innermost centerโ€”they are grateful to God, because... they do not fear neediness. That is what frees them to serve the needy, to companion the needy, to become and be one of the needy.
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Arthur C. McGill (Dying Unto Life (Theological Fascinations))
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But now I speculate re the ants' invisible organ of aggregate thought... if, in a city park of broad reaches, winding paths, roadways, and lakes, you can imagine seeing on a warm and sunny Sunday afternoon the random and unpredictable movement of great numbers of human beings in the same way... if you watch one person, one couple, one family, a child, you can assure yourself of the integrity of the individual will and not be able to divine what the next moment will bring. But when the masses are celebrating a beautiful day in the park in a prescribed circulation of activities, the wider lens of thought reveals nothing errant, nothing inconstant or unnatural to the occasion. And if someone acts in a mutant un-park manner, alarms go off, the unpredictable element, a purse snatcher, a gun wielder, is isolated, surrounded, ejected, carried off as waste. So that while we are individually and privately dyssynchronous, moving in different ways, for different purposes, in different directions, we may at the same time comprise, however blindly, the pulsing communicating cells of an urban over-brain. The intent of this organ is to enjoy an afternoon in the park, as each of us street-grimy urbanites loves to do. In the backs of our minds when we gather for such days, do we know this? How much of our desire to use the park depends on the desires of others to do the same? How much of the idea of a park is in the genetic invitation on nice days to reflect our massive neuromorphology? There is no central control mechanism telling us when and how to use the park. That is up to us. But when we do, our behavior there is reflective, we can see more of who we are because of the open space accorded to us, and it is possible that it takes such open space to realize in simple form the ordinary identity we have as one multicellular culture of thought that is always there, even when, in the comparative blindness of our personal selfhood, we are flowing through the streets at night or riding under them, simultaneously, as synaptic impulses in the metropolitan brain. Is this a stretch? But think of the contingent human mind, how fast it snaps onto the given subject, how easily it is introduced to an idea, an image that it had not dreamt of thinking of a millisecond before... Think of how the first line of a story yokes the mind into a place, a time, in the time it takes to read it. How you can turn on the radio and suddenly be in the news, and hear it and know it as your own mind's possession in the moment's firing of a neuron. How when you hear a familiar song your mind adopts its attitudinal response to life before the end of the first bar. How the opening credits of a movie provide the parameters of your emotional life for its ensuing two hours... How all experience is instantaneous and instantaneously felt, in the nature of ordinary mind-filling revelation. The permeable mind, contingently disposed for invasion, can be totally overrun and occupied by all the characteristics of the world, by everything that is the case, and by the thoughts and propositions of all other minds considering everything that is the case... as instantly and involuntarily as the eye fills with the objects that pass into its line of vision.
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E.L. Doctorow (City of God)
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If you were to show a piece of intelligible writing to a reasonable person and say to him: 'do you know its writer?' and he said 'no', he would be speaking truly. But if he said 'yes: its writer is a man living and powerful, hearing and seeing, sound of hand and knowledgeable in the practise of writing, and if I know all this from [the sample] how can I not know him?-he too would be speaking truly. Yet the saying of the one who said 'I do not know him' is more correct and true, for in reality he has not known him. Rather he only knows that intelligible writing requires a living writer, knowing, powerful, hearing, and seeing; yet he does not know the writer himself. Similarly, every creature knows only that this ordered and precisely disposed world requires an arranging, living, knowing, and powerful maker.
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Abu Hamid al-Ghazali (Al-Ghazali on the Ninety-nine Beautiful Names of God (Ghazali series))
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but freedom is not, as we are told, " a liberty for every man to do what he lists:" (for who could be free, when every other man's humour might domineer over him ?) but a liberty to dispose and order as he lists his person, actions, possessions, and his whole property, within the allowance of those laws under which he is, and therein not to be subject to the arbitrary will of another, but freely follow his own.
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John Locke (Two Treatises of Government and A Letter Concerning Toleration (Rethinking the Western Tradition))
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As I wrote in the last chapter of the first series, I had given myself my word that during the whole of this time I would do no writing whatsoever, but would only, for the well-being of the most deserving of these subordinate parts, slowly and gently drink down all the bottles of old calvados now at my disposal by the will of fate in the wine-cellar of the Prieurรฉ, and specially provided the century before last by people who understood the true sense of life. Today I have decided, and now I wishโ€”without forcing myself at all, but on the contrary with great pleasureโ€”to set to work at my writing again, of course with the help of all the corresponding forces and also, this time, with the help of the law-conformable cosmic results flowing in from all sides upon my person from the good wishes of the readers of the first series.
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G.I. Gurdjieff (Meetings With Remarkable Men)
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For we must not dwell on Death, as it is a mystery and it is something Unknown we leave to the Lord and his disposing for if we knew everything we would be too full of perfectly known things, and thus never rested nor content but driven with busyness and stuffed full. When I rode out in the early mornings in summertimes everything appeared to me, one after the other, in its own selfe without having to be known about beforehand, before you even get to it. In the order of the world is a deep pattern. You canโ€™t know if beforehand. If you did you would remain forever unsurprised and dwarfed and hardened. In the early mornings one after another we broke up the planes of water in the pools of Beaverdam with slow steps, horse and rider, and the trees appeared in their reflections like underwater spirits of themselves. Before these things a person is silent.
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Paulette Jiles (Enemy Women)
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Mrs. Wagner had all the time in the world at her disposal, and expected all persons within earshot to share her fondness for idle conversation. She had also adopted Rachel as a surrogateโ€ฆsomething. Not a daughter. Definitely not a daughter. It was more like she thought of Rachel and Santino as feral cats who had moved into the abandoned house next door, and she was trying to domesticate them through proximity and the occasional gift of food.
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K.B. Spangler (State Machine (Rachel Peng, #3))
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There must be joy (mudita) in love. If love brings only sorrow, what will you love for? If you know how to please yourself, you will know how to please the other person as well as the whole world. ๋ฏฟ๊ณ  ์ฃผ๋ฌธํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”~์ €ํฌ๋Š” ์ œํ’ˆํŒ๋งค๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜๋“ค๊ณผ ์‹ ์šฉ๊ณผ์‹ ๋ขฐ์˜ ๊ฑฐ๋ž˜๋กœ ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์นดํ†กใ€AKR331ใ€‘๋ผ์ธใ€SPR331ใ€‘์œ„์ปคใ€SPR705ใ€‘ํ…”๋ ˆใ€GEM705ใ€‘ ์•„๋กœ๋งˆํ–ฅ ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ์•„์‚ฐ ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ ์ •ํ’ˆ์œผ๋กœ๋งŒ ํŒ๋งคํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ตฌ๋งค์ „์— ์ œํ’ˆ๋„ ์ œํ’ˆ์ด์ง€๋งŒ ๋ฌด์—‡๋ณด๋‹ค ์•ˆ์ „์ด ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์ €ํฌ๋„ ์•ˆ์ „์„ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์˜ํ•˜๊ณ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊น”๋”ํ•œ์—…์ฒด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๊ณ ๊ฐ๋‹˜์˜ ์ฃผ๋ฌธ์€ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ ์ด๋ป์ง€์‹œ๊ตฌ์š” ๊ธฐ์œํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋˜์„ธ์š”~ใ…Žใ…Ž Joy is not only for others, but also for yourself. Joy is just joy. If you are truly enjoying joy and healthy joy, it is good for others. But it is not good for others, unless it is pleasant, refreshing, and smiling. If you always have joy and joy, you can be a good person to those around you without doing anything. Peace (upeksha), tranquility or discrimination. There is no distinction between a loved one and a loved one in true love. Your pain is my pain. My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body. There is an element of self-disposal in true love. Happiness is no longer personal. Pain is no longer personal. There is no distinction between us. โ€œIn true love The distinction between loved ones and loved ones does not exist. Your pain is my pain. ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๋ถˆ๋ฒ•, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-์šฉ๋Ÿ‰, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒŒ๋Š”๊ณณ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํŒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-ํšจ๊ณผ, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ๊ตฌ์ž…, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผํŒ๋งค My happiness is your happiness. Loved ones and loved ones are one body
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๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ฐ€๊ฒฉ,์นดํ†กใ€AKR331ใ€‘๋ผ์ธใ€SPR331ใ€‘๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ๋งค, ๋Ÿฌ์‰ฌํŒŒํผ-๊ตฌ์ž…
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my mother had plunged me into that state of doubt in which I had been already when, my father having given me permission to go to Phรจdre, and above all to become a man of letters, I had suddenly felt too heavy a responsibility, the fear of upsetting him, and the melancholy that comes when we cease to obey orders that, day by day, hide the future from us, and realize that we have at last begun to live life in earnest, as a grown-up person, to live the one life of which each of us is free to dispose. It
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Marcel Proust (Sodom and Gomorrah)
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If Anaxagoras with his 'ฮฝฮฟแฟกฯ‚' seemed like the first sober person among nothing but drunken philosophers, Euripides may also have conceived his relation to the other tragic poets under a similar figure. As long as the sole ruler and disposer of the universe, the ฮฝฮฟแฟกฯ‚, was still excluded from artistic activity, things were all mixed together in a chaotic, primitive mess;โ€”it is thus Euripides was obliged to think, it is thus he was obliged to condemn the 'drunken' poets as the first 'sober' one among them.
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Friedrich Nietzsche (The Birth of Tragedy)
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Whether this propensity be one of those original principles in human nature of which no further account can be given; or whether, as seems more probable, it be the necessary consequence of the faculties of reason and speech, it belongs not to our present subject to inquire. It is common to all men, and to be found in no other race of animals, which seem to know neither this nor any other species of contracts. Two greyhounds, in running down the same hare, have sometimes the appearance of acting in some sort of concert. Each turns her towards his companion, or endeavours to intercept her when his companion turns her towards himself. This, however, is not the effect of any contract, but of the accidental concurrence of their passions in the same object at that particular time. Nobody ever saw a dog make a fair and deliberate exchange of one bone for another with another dog. Nobody ever saw one animal by its gestures and natural cries signify to another, this is mine, that yours; I am willing to give this for that. When an animal wants to obtain something either of a man or of another animal, it has no other means of persuasion but to gain the favour of those whose service it requires. A puppy fawns upon its dam, and a spaniel endeavours by a thousand attractions to engage the attention of its master who is at dinner, when it wants to be fed by him. Man sometimes uses the same arts with his brethren, and when he has no other means of engaging them to act according to his inclinations, endeavours by every servile and fawning attention to obtain their good will. He has not time, however, to do this upon every occasion. In civilised society he stands at all times in need of the cooperation and assistance of great multitudes, while his whole life is scarce sufficient to gain the friendship of a few persons. In almost every other race of animals each individual, when it is grown up to maturity, is entirely independent, and in its natural state has occasion for the assistance of no other living creature. But man has almost constant occasion for the help of his brethren, and it is in vain for him to expect it from their benevolence only. He will be more likely to prevail if he can interest their self-love in his favour, and show them that it is for their own advantage to do for him what he requires of them. Whoever offers to another a bargain of any kind, proposes to do this. Give me that which I want, and you shall have this which you want, is the meaning of every such offer; and it is in this manner that we obtain from one another the far greater part of those good offices which we stand in need of. It is not from the benevolence of the butcher, the brewer, or the baker that we expect our dinner, but from their regard to their own interest. We address ourselves, not to their humanity but to their self-love, and never talk to them of our own necessities but of their advantages. Nobody but a beggar chooses to depend chiefly upon the benevolence of his fellow-citizens. Even a beggar does not depend upon it entirely. The charity of well-disposed people, indeed, supplies him with the whole fund of his subsistence. But though this principle ultimately provides him with all the necessaries of life which he has occasion for, it neither does nor can provide him with them as he has occasion for them. The greater part of his occasional wants are supplied in the same manner as those of other people, by treaty, by barter, and by purchase. With the money which one man gives him he purchases food. The old clothes which another bestows upon him he exchanges for other old clothes which suit him better, or for lodging, or for food, or for money, with which he can buy either food, clothes, or lodging, as he has occasion.
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Adam Smith (The Wealth of Nations)
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The victim of infidelity lives a lie of assumed safety with the person they love. The lie goes on for months or years, maybe even decades. But unlike the mugging victim, the infidelity victim gives freely. Theyโ€™re not held up at gunpoint. No, they generously give their wallet, their sex life, their career, their children, their timeโ€”every resource they have at their disposal goes to the cheater. Itโ€™s a much more insidious theft. And the theft is possible only because weโ€™ve been duped into believing this person loves us and is on our team.
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Tracy Schorn (Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide)
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Without money of my own, I had no doctors, no hormones, no surgeries. Without money of my own, I had no independence, no control over my life and my body. No one person forced me or my friends into the sex trade; we were groomed by an entire system that failed us and a society that refused to see us. No one cared about or accounted for us. We were disposable, and we knew that. So we used the resources we hadโ€”our bodiesโ€”to navigate this failed state, doing dirty, dangerous work that increased our risk of HIV/AIDS, criminalization, and violence.
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Janet Mock (Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More)
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Fred had first come to Fire Island Pines when he was thirty. He wasnโ€™t ready for such beauty, such potential, such unlimited choice. The place scared him half to death. It was a warm and sunny weekend and there were one thousand bathing-suited handsomenesses on The Botel deck at Tea Dance. They all seemed to know each other and to touch and greet and smile at each other. And there he was, alone. Though he had acquired his 150-pound body for the first time (of his so-far three: the first for himself, the second for Feffer, number three, with muscles, for Dinky), he still felt like Mrs. Shelleyโ€™s monster, pale, and with a touch of leprosy thrown in. Not only had he no one to talk to, not only did the overwhelmingness of being confronted by so much Grade A male flesh, most of which seemed superior to his, which would make it difficult to talk to, even if he could utter, which he could not, floor him, but everyone else seemed so secure, not only with their bodies (all thin and no doubt well-defined since birth), tans, personalities, their smiles and chat, but also with that ability to use their eyes, much like early prospectors must have looked for gold, darting them hither and yon, seeking out the sparkling flecks, separating the valued from the less so, meaning, he automatically assumed, him. Their glances his way seemed like disposable bottles, no deposit, no return. He felt like Mr. Not Wanted On The Voyage, even though it was, so be it, his birthday. Many years would pass before he would discover that everybody else felt exactly the same, but came out every weekend so to feel, thus over the years developing more flexible feelings in so feeling.
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Larry Kramer (Faggots)
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Dear patient (first name, last name)! You are presently located in our experimental state hospital. The measures taken to save your life were drastic, extremely drastic (circle one). Our finest surgeons, availing themselves of the very latest achievements of modern medicine, performed one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten operations (circle one) on you. They were forced, acting wholly in your interest to replace certain parts of your organism with parts obtained from other persons, in strict accordance with Federal Law (Rev. Stat. Comm. 1-989/0-001/89/1). The notice you are now reading was thoughtfully prepared in order to help you make the best possible adjustment to these new if somewhat unexpected circumstances in your life, which, we hasten to remind you, we have saved. Although it was found necessary to remove your arms, legs, spine, skill, lungs, stomach, kidneys, liver, other (circle one or more), rest assured that these mortal remains were disposed of in a manner fully in keeping with the dictates of your religion; they were, with the proper ritual, interred, embalmed, mummified, buried at sea, cremated with the ashes scattered in the windโ€”preserved in an urnโ€”thrown in the garbage (circle one). The new form in which you will henceforth lead a happy and healthy existence may possibly occasion you some surprise, but we promise that in time you will become, as indeed all our dear patients do, quite accustomed to it We have supplemented your organism with the very best, the best, perfectly functional, adequate, the only available (circle one) organs at our disposal, and they are fully guaranteed to last a year, six months, three months, three weeks, six days (circle one).
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Stanisล‚aw Lem (The Futurological Congress: From the Memoirs of Ijon Tichy)
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If any considerable number of the people believe the Constitution to be good, why do they not sign it themselves, and make laws for, and administer them upon, each other; leaving all other persons (who do not interfere with them) in peace? Until they have tried the experiment for themselves, how can they have the face to impose the Constitution upon, or even to recommend it to, others? Plainly the reason for absurd and inconsistent conduct is that they want the Constitution, not solely for any honest or legitimate use it can be of to themselves or others, but for the dishonest and illegitimate power it gives them over the persons and properties of others. But for this latter reason, all their eulogiums on the Constitution, all their exhortations, and all their expenditures of money and blood to sustain it, would be wanting. VIII. The Constitution itself, then, being of no authority, on what authority does our government practically rest? On what ground can those who pretend to administer it, claim the right to seize men's property, to restrain them of their natural liberty of action, industry, and trade, and to kill all who deny their authority to dispose of men's properties, liberties, and lives at their pleasure or discretion? The most they can say, in answer to this question, is, that some half, two-thirds, or three-fourths, of the male adults of the country have a tacit understanding that they will maintain a government under the Constitution; that they will select, by ballot, the persons to administer it; and that those persons who may receive a majority, or a plurality, of their ballots, shall act as their representatives, and administer the Constitution in their name, and by their authority. But
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Lysander Spooner (No Treason: The Constitution of No Authority (Complete Series))
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In the days of slavery, the moral reasoning went something like this: Black slaves are not fully human but are the powerless, voiceless property of powerful slave owners to dispose of as they choose. Call it โ€œproperty justice,โ€ if you will. The moral reasoning for abortion is identical. In โ€œreproductive justice,โ€ the unborn are not fully human but rather are the powerless, voiceless property of mothers. According to the Women of African Descent for Reproductive Justice, women have the right to exercise their โ€œpersonal bodily autonomyโ€ by disposing of their unborn as they see fit.
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Scott David Allen (Why Social Justice Is Not Biblical Justice: An Urgent Appeal to Fellow Christians in a Time of Social Crisis)
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He spent two years in the extermination camp at Auschwitz. According to his own reluctant account, he came this close to going up a smokestack of a crematorium there: "I had just been assigned to the Sonderkommando," he said to me, "when the order came from Himmler to close the ovens down." Sonderkommando means special detail. At Auschwitz it meant a very special detail indeed--one composed of prisoners whose duties were to shepherd condemned persons into gas chambers, and then to lug their bodies out. When the job was done, the members of the Sonderkommando were themselves killed. The first duty of their successors was to dispose of their remains. Gutman told me that many men actually volunteered for the Sonderkommando. "Why?" I asked him. "If you would write a book about that," he said, "and give the answer to that question, that 'Why?'--you would have a very great book." "Do you know the answer?" I said. "No," he said, "That is why I would pay a great deal of money for a book with the answer in it." "Any guesses?" I said. "No," he said, looking me straight in the eye, "even though I was one of the ones who volunteered." He went away for a little while, after having confessed that. And he thought about Auschwitz, the thing he liked least to think about. And he came back, and he said to me: "There were loudspeakers all over the camp," he said, "and they were never silent for long. There was much music played through them. Those who were musical told me it was often good music--sometimes the best." "That's interesting," I said. "There was no music by Jews," he said. "That was forbidden." "Naturally," I said. "And the music was always stopping in the middle," he said, "and then there was an announcement. All day long, music and announcements." "Very modern," I said. He closed his eyes, remembered gropingly. "There was one announcement that was always crooned, like a nursery rhyme. Many times a day it came. It was the call for the Sonderkommando." "Oh?" I said. "Leichentรคrger zu Wache," he crooned, his eyes still closed. Translation: "Corpse-carriers to the guardhouse." In an institution in which the purpose was to kill human beings by the millions, it was an understandably common cry. "After two years of hearing that call over the loudspeakers, between the music," Gutman said to me, "the position of corpse-carrier suddenly sounded like a very good job.
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Kurt Vonnegut Jr. (Mother Night)
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There is no doubt that the poorer classes in our country are much more charitably disposed than their superiors in wealth. And I fancy it must arise a great deal from the comparative indistinction of the easy and the not so easy in these ranks. A workman or a pedlar cannot shutter himself off from his less comfortable neighbours. If he treats himself to a luxury he must do it in the face of a dozen who cannot. And what should more directly lead to charitable thoughts?... Thus the poor man, camping out in life, sees it as it is, and knows that every mouthful he puts in his belly has been wrenched out of the fingers of the hungry. But at a certain stage of prosperity, as in a balloon ascent, the fortunate person passes through a zone of clouds, and sublunary matters are thenceforward hidden from his view. He sees nothing but the heavenly bodies, all in admirable order, and positively as good as new. He finds himself surrounded in the most touching manner by the attentions of Providence, and compares himself involuntarily with the lilies and the skylarks. He does not precisely sing, of course; but then he looks so unassuming in his open landau! If all the world dined at one table, this philosophy would meet with some rude knocks.
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Robert Louis Stevenson (The Collected Works of Robert Louis Stevenson: PergamonMedia)
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But by these very words which left it to me to decide my own happiness, my mother had plunged me into that state of doubt in which I had been plunged long ago when, my father having allowed me to go to Phรจdre and, what was more, to take up writing as a career, I had suddenly felt myself burdened with too great a responsibility, the fear of distressing him, and that melancholy which we feel when we cease to obey orders which, from one day to another, keep the future hidden, and realise that we have at last begun to live in real earnest, as a grown-up person, the life, the only life that any of us has at his disposal.
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Marcel Proust (Sodom and Gomorrah)
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As the last factor I must in all modesty describe my own person: Irreplaceable. Neither a military man nor a civilian could replace me. Attempts at assassination may be repeated. I am convinced of my powers of intellect and of decision. Wars are always ended only by the annihilation of the opponent. Anyone who believes differently is irresponsible. Time is working for our adversaries. Now there is a relationship of forces which can never be more propitious for us. No compromises. Hardness toward ourselves. I shall strike and not capitulate. The fate of the Reich depends only on me. No one has ever achieved what I have achieved. My life is of no importance in all this. I have led the German people to a great height, even if the world does hate us now. I am setting this work on a gamble. I have to choose between victory or annihilation. I choose victory. Greatest historical choice, to be compared with the decision of Frederick the Great before the first Silesian war. Prussia owes its rise to the heroism of one man. Even there the closest advisers were disposed to capitulation. Everything depended on Frederick the Great. Also the decisions of Bismarck in 1866 and 1870 were no less great. Speech to the OKW Flensburg, November 23, 1939
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Adolf Hitler (Collection of Speeches: 1922-1945)
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let us resign and yield ourselves up unto him a thousand times, to be governed by his laws, and disposed of at his pleasure; and though our stubborn hearts should start back and refuse, yet let us tell him we are convinced that his will is always just and good; and, therefore, desire him to do with us whatsoever he pleaseth, whether we will or not. And so, for begetting in us a universal charity towards men, we must be frequently putting up wishes for their happiness, and blessing every person that we see; and when we have done any thing for the relief of the miserable, we may second it with earnest desires, that God would take care of them, and deliver them out of all their distresses.
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Henry Scougal (The Life of God in the Soul of Man)
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Freedom requires that the individual be allowed to pursue his own ends: one who is free is in peacetime no longer bound by the common concrete ends of his community. Such freedom of individual decision is made possible by delimiting distinct individual rights (the rights of property, for example) and designating domains within which each can dispose over means known to him for his own ends. That is, a recognisable free sphere is determined for each person. This is all-important. For to have something of oneโ€™s own, however little, is also the foundation on which a distinctive personality can be formed and a distinctive environment created within which particular individual aims can be pursued.
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Friedrich A. Hayek (The Fatal Conceit: The Errors of Socialism (The Collected Works of F. A. Hayek Book 1) (Volume 1))
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Surely it was strange that so young a woman should be living here quite unattached, quite independent apparently of all control, with a great deal of money at her disposal, and only one little girl to give her a countenance? Suppose she were not a proper person at all, suppose she were an outcast from society, a being on whom her own countrypeople turned their backs? This desire to share her fortune with respectable ladies could only be explained in two ways: either she had been moved thereto by an enthusiastic piety of which not a trace had as yet appeared, or she was an improper person anxious to rebuild her reputation with the aid and countenance of the ladies of good family she had entrapped into her house.
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Elizabeth von Arnim (Delphi Collected Works of Elizabeth von Arnim (Illustrated))
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It is often maintained that while a let-alone, limited government policy was feasible in sparsely settled nineteenth-century America, government must play a far larger, indeed dominant, role in a modern urbanized and industrial society. One hour in Hong Kong will dispose of that view. Our society is what we make it. We can shape our institutions. Physical and human characteristics limit the alternatives available to us. But none prevents us, if we will, from building a society that relies primarily on voluntary cooperation to organize both economic and other activity, a society that preserves and expands human freedom, that keeps government in its place, keeping it our servant and not letting it become our master
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Milton Friedman (Free to Choose: A Personal Statement)
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SOME People are subject to a certain delicacy of passion,1 which makes them extremely sensible to all the accidents of life, and gives them a lively joy upon every prosperous event, as well as a piercing grief, when they meet with misfortunes and adversity. Favours and good officesยฐ easily engage their friendship; while the smallest injury provokes their resentment. Any honour or mark of distinction elevates them above measure; but they are as sensibly touched with contempt.ยฐ People of this character have, no doubt, more lively enjoyments, as well as more pungentยฐ sorrows, than men of cool and sedate tempers: But, I believe, when every thing is balanced, there is no one, who would not rather be of the latter character, were he entirely master of his own disposition. Good or ill fortune is very little at our disposal: And when a person, that has this sensibilityยฐ of temper, meets with any misfortune, his sorrow or resentment takes entire possession of him, and deprives him of all relish in the common occurrences of life; the right enjoyment of which forms the chief part of our happiness. Great pleasures are much less frequent than great pains; so that a sensible temper must meet with fewer trials in the former way than in the latter. Not to mention, that men of such lively passions are apt to be transported beyond all bounds of prudence and discretion, and to take false steps in the conduct of life, which are often irretrievable. There
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David Hume (Essays: Moral, Political, and Literary)
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A young woman faces the decision of whether to marry a certain man whom she loves but who has deeply rooted, traditional ideas concerning marriage, family life, and the roles of men and women in each. A sober assessment of her future tell the woman that each of the two alternatives offers real but contrasting goods. One life offers the possibility of a greater degree of personal independence, the chance to pursue a career, perhaps more risk and adventure, while the other offers the rewards of parenting, stability, and a life together with a man whom, after all, she is in love with. In order to choose in a self-determined mode the woman must realize that the decision she faces involves more than the choice between two particular actions; it is also a choice between two distinct identities. In posing the questions "Who am I? Which of the two lives is really me?" she asks herself not a factual question about her identity but a fundamental practical question about the relative values of distinct and incommensurable goods. The point I take to be implicit in Tugendhat's (and Fichte's) view of the practical subject is that it would be mistaken to suppose that the woman had at her disposal an already established hierarchy of values that she must simply consult in order to decide whether to marry. Rather, her decision, if self-determined, must proceed from a ranking of values that emerges only in the process of reflecting upon the kind of person she wants to be.
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Frederick Neuhouser (Fichte's Theory of Subjectivity (Modern European Philosophy))
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... the Trappist world appeals to me as a model of wisdom...so infitesimally is the day divided among different occupations. The man who keeps rabbits, for example, hurries from his hutches to the chapel, or the chapter-room, or the refectory, all day long: every hour he has an office to sing, a duty to perform; from two, when he rises in the dark, till eight, when he returns to receive the comforting gift of sleep, he is upon his feet and occupied with manifold and changing business. I know many persons, worth several thousands in the year, who are not so fortunate in the disposal of their lives... We speak of hardships, but the true hardship is to be a dull fool, and permitted to mismanage life in our own dull and foolish manner.
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Robert Louis Stevenson
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Once he has recognized his invisible guide, a mystic sometimes decides to trace his own isnlld, to reveal his spiritual genealogy, that is, to disclose the "chain of transmission" culminating in his person and bear witness to the spiritual ascendancy which he invokes across the generations of mankind. He does neither more nor less than to designate by name the minds to whose family he is conscious of belonging. Read in the opposite order from their phenomenological emergence, these genealogies take on the appearance of true genealogies. Judged by the rules of _our historical criticism, the claim of these genealogies to truth seems highly precarious. Their relevance is to another "transhistoric truth," which cannot be regarded as inferior (because it is of a different order) to the material historic truth whose claim to truth, with the documentation at our disposal, is no less precarious. Suhrawardi traces the family tree of the IshrlqiyOn back to Hermes, ancestor of the Sages, (that Idris-Enoch of Islamic prophetology, whom Ibn rArabi calls the prophet of the Philosophers) ; from him are descended the Sages of Greece and Persia, who are followed by certain ๏ฟฝofis (Abo Yazid Bastlmi, Kharraqlni, I;Ialllj, and the choice seems particularly significant in view of what has been said above about the Uwaysis}, and all these branches converge in his own doctrine and school. This is not a history of philosophy in our sense of the term; but still less is it a mere fantasy.
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Henry Corbin (Alone with the Alone: Creative Imagination in the Sufism of Ibn 'Arabi)
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Later, some evil-disposed person invented Kodaks, and Begglely went everywhere slung on to a thing that looked like an overgrown missionary box, and that bore a legend to the effect that if Begglely would pull the button, a shameless Company would do the rest. Life became a misery to Begglelyโ€™s friends. Nobody dared to do anything for fear of being taken in the act. He took an instantaneous photograph of his own father swearing at the gardener, and snapped his youngest sister and her lover at the exact moment of farewell at the garden gate. Nothing was sacred to him. He Kodaked his auntโ€™s funeral from behind, and showed the chief mourner but one whispering a funny story into the ear of the third cousin as they stood behind their hats beside the grave.
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Jerome K. Jerome (Complete Works of Jerome K. Jerome)
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XXIV. But Molon, who had a great dislike to Plato, says โ€œThere is not so much to wonder at in Dionysius being at Corinth, as in Platoโ€™s being in Sicily.โ€ Xenophon, too, does not appear to have been very friendlily disposed towards him: and accordingly they have, as if in rivalry of one another, both written books with the same title, the Banquet, the Defence of Socrates, Moral Reminiscences. Then, too, the one wrote the Cyropรฆdia and the other a book on Politics; and Plato in his Laws says, that the Cyropรฆdia is a mere romance, for that Cyrus was not such a person as he is described in that book. And though they both speak so much of Socrates, neither of them ever mentions the other, except that Xenophon once speaks of Plato in the third book of his Reminiscences.
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Diogenes Laertius (The Lives and Theories of Eminent Philosophers: Enriched edition.)
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I hate the Moor: And it is thought abroad, that 'twixt my sheets He has done my office: I know not if't be true; But I, for mere suspicion in that kind, Will do as if for surety. He holds me well; The better shall my purpose work on him. Cassio's a proper man: let me see now: To get his place and to plume up my will In double knaveryโ€”How, how? Let's see:โ€” After some time, to abuse Othello's ear That he is too familiar with his wife. He hath a person and a smooth dispose To be suspected, framed to make women false. The Moor is of a free and open nature, That thinks men honest that but seem to be so, And will as tenderly be led by the nose As asses are. I have't. It is engender'd. Hell and night Must bring this monstrous birth to the world's light.
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William Shakespeare (Othello)
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Though all the brilliant intellects of the ages were to concentrate upon this one theme, never could they adequately express their wonder at this dense darkness of the human mind. Men do not suffer anyone to seize their estates, and they rush to stones and arms if there is even the slightest dispute about the limit of their lands, yet they allow others to trespass upon their lifeโ€”nay, they themselves even lead in those who will eventually possess it. No one is to be found who is willing to distribute his money, yet among how many does each one of us distribute his life! In guarding their fortune men are often closefisted, yet, when it comes to the matter of wasting time, in the case of the one thing in which it is right to be miserly, they show themselves most prodigal. And so I should like to lay hold upon someone from the company of older men and say: "I see that you have reached the farthest limit of human life, you are pressing hard upon your hundredth year, or are even beyond it; come now, recall your life and make a reckoning. Consider how much of your time was taken up with a moneylender, how much with a mistress, how much with a patron, how much with a client, how much in wrangling with your wife, how much in punishing your slaves, how much in rushing about the city on social duties. Add the diseases which we have caused by our own acts, add, too, the time that has lain idle and unused; you will see that you have fewer years to your credit than you count. Look back in memory and consider when you ever had a fixed plan, how few days have passed as you had intended, when you were ever at your own disposal, when your face ever wore its natural expression, when your mind was ever unperturbed, what work you have achieved in so long a life, how many have robbed you of life when you were not aware of what you were losing, how much was taken up in useless sorrow, in foolish joy, in greedy desire, in the allurements of society, how little of yourself was left to you; you will perceive that you are dying before your season!"7 What, then, is the reason of this? You live as if you were destined to live forever, no thought of your frailty ever enters your head, of how much time has already gone by you take no heed. You squander time as if you drew from a full and abundant supply, though all the while that day which you bestow on some person or thing is perhaps your last. You have all the fears of mortals and all the desires of immortals. You will hear many men saying: "After my fiftieth year I shall retire into leisure, my sixtieth year shall release me from public duties." And what guarantee, pray, have you that your life will last longer? Who will suffer your course to be just as you plan it? Are you not ashamed to reserve for yourself only the remnant of life, and to set apart for wisdom only that time which cannot be devoted to any business? How late it is to begin to live just when we must cease to live! What foolish forgetfulness of mortality to postpone wholesome plans to the fiftieth and sixtieth year, and to intend to begin life at a point to which few have attained!
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Seneca (On the Shortness of Life: Life Is Long if You Know How to Use It (Penguin Great Ideas))
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I believe my soul wasnโ€™t with me during the time of abuse. My soul retreated into a protection mode. This soul loss saved my life and my sanity. Had my soul stayed and endured the years of torture, I would have been a broken person forever. I could have given in, turned my back on my family, and remained a sex slave, a full-time prostitute for the Chaldean ringleaderโ€™s benefit. Until they wearied of me and replaced me with a younger, fresher girl and disposed of me physically or threw me aside with nowhere to go. I could have ended up in a mental institution, driven crazy from the abuse, with no one to confide in. Though I felt empty, my body devoid of a soul, I also felt a protective bubble encircling my body, an energy that appeared when I was alone with my thoughts, my despair.
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Theresa L. Flores (The Slave Across the Street)
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[I]t's a con, at children's expense. When self-esteem advocates tell us to flatter the young about their views, in reality they ask adults to abandon the difficult task of disciplining them. Emphasizing that adults must 'express unconditional positive regard and acceptance for children' effectively destroys the inter-generational duty of passing on knowledge, setting boundaries for behavior and the broader task of socialization. It is not good for children and can mean adults indulging even the most destructive aspects of young people's behavior. In 2013, a self-harming pupil at Unsted Park School in Godalming, Surrey was given a disposable safety razor to slash himself with, supervised by a teacher. A spokeswoman from selfharm.co.uk justified this irresponsible collapse of adult judgement using the mantras of pupil voice and self-esteem: 'The best way to help is to listen without judging, accept that the recovery process may take a while and avoid "taking away" the self-harm' because 'self-harm can be about control, so it's important that the young person in the center feels in control of the steps taken to help them'. That's an extreme case but it touches on how focusing on the schoolchild's self-esteem can create the impression that the world should circle around pupils' desires. This in turn puts pressure on adults to tip-toe around young people's sensitivities and to accede to their opinions. Combined with student voice orthodoxies, this can lead to the peculiar diktat that teachers express respect for pupils' views, however childish or even poisonous.
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Claire Fox (โ€˜I Find That Offensive!โ€™)
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The communists believe that they have found the path to deliverance from our evils. According to them, man is wholly good and is well-disposed to his neighbour; but the institution of private property has corrupted his nature. The ownership of private wealth gives the individual power, and with it the temptation to ill-treat his neighbour; while the man who is excluded from possession is bound to rebel in hostility against his oppressor. If private property were abolished, all wealth held in common, and everyone allowed to share in the enjoyment of it, ill-will and hostility would disappear among men. Since everyoneโ€™s needs would be satisfied, no one would have any reason to regard another as his enemy; all would willingly undertake the work that was necessary.I have no concern with any economic criticisms of the communist system; I cannot enquire into whether the abolition of private property is expedient or advantageous. But I am able to recognize that the psychological premisses on which the system is based are an untenable illusion. In abolishing private property we deprive the human love of aggression of one of its instruments, certainly a strong one, though certainly not the strongest; but we have in no way altered the differences in power and influence which are misused by aggressiveness, nor have we altered anything in its nature. Aggressiveness was not created by property. It reigned almost without limit in primitive times, when property was still very scanty, and it already shows itself in the nursery almost before property has given up its primal, anal form; it forms the basis of every relation of affection and love among people (with the single exception, perhaps, of the motherโ€™s relation to her male child). If we do away with personal rights over material wealth, there still remains prerogative in the field of sexual relationships, which is bound to become the source of the strongest dislike and the most violent hostility among men who in other respects are on an equal footing. If we were to remove this factor, too, by allowing complete freedom of sexual life and thus abolishing the family, the germ-cell of civilization, we cannot, it is true, easily foresee what new paths the development of civilization could take; but one thing we can expect, and that is that this indestructible feature of human nature, will follow it there.
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Sigmund Freud (Civilization and Its Discontents)
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At the telegraph office, while drafting my telegram with all the excitement of a man burning with hope, I noted how much less helpless I was now than in my childhood and in relation to Mlle dโ€™ร‰porcheville than to Gilberte. I need do no more than take the simple trouble to write my telegram, and the clerk had only to accept it, for the swiftest of electric communications networks to transmit it across the length and breadth of France, right down to the Mediterranean coast. Robert would bring his whole libertine past to bear on identifying the person whom I had just encountered, would place it at the disposal of the fiction that I was starting to sketch and which I need not even worry about any more, for the reply would be bound to bring my romance to a conclusion in one way or another before twenty-four hours had elapsed.
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Marcel Proust (The Fugitive: In Search of Lost Time, Volume 6 (Penguin Classics Deluxe Edition))
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It is true that we instinctively recoil from seeing an object to which our emotions and affections are committed handled by the intellect as any other object is handled. The first thing the intellect does with an object is to class it along with something else. But any object that is infinitely important to us and awakens our devotion feels to us also as if it must be sui generis and unique. Probably a crab would be filled with a sense of personal outrage if it could hear us class it without ado or apology as a crustacean, and thus dispose of it. โ€œI am no such thing,โ€ it would say; โ€œI am MYSELF, MYSELF alone.โ€ The next thing the intellect does is to lay bare the causes in which the thing originates. Spinoza says: โ€œI will analyze the actions and appetites of men as if it were a question of lines, of planes, and of solids.
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William James
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Someone despises me? That is his concern. But I will see to it that I am not found guilty of any word or action deserving contempt. Will he hate me? That is his concern. But I will be kind and well-intentioned to all, and ready to show this very person what he is failing to see- not in any criticism or display of tolerance, but with genuine good will, like the famous Phocion (if, that is, he was not speaking ironically). This should be the quality of our inner thoughts, which are open to the gods' eyes: they should see a man not disposed to any complaint and free of self-pity. And what harm can you suffer, if you yourself at this present moment are acting in kind with your own nature and accepting what suits the present purpose of universal nature- a man at full stretch for the achievement, this way or that, of the common good? p108
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Marcus Aurelius
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I started this book by talking about data as exhaust: something we all produce as we go about our information-age business. I think I can take that analogy one step further. Data is the pollution problem of the information age, and protecting privacy is the environmental challenge. Almost all computers produce personal information. It stays around, festering. How we deal with itโ€”how we contain it and how we dispose of itโ€”is central to the health of our information economy. Just as we look back today at the early decades of the industrial age and wonder how our ancestors could have ignored pollution in their rush to build an industrial world, our grandchildren will look back at us during these early decades of the information age and judge us on how we addressed the challenge of data collection and misuse. We should try to make them proud.
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Bruce Schneier (Data and Goliath: The Hidden Battles to Collect Your Data and Control Your World)
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Hers might be different in many ways from a really fashionable drawing-room in which you would have been struck by the absence of a number of middle class ladies to whom Mme. de Villeparisis was โ€˜at home,โ€™ and would have noticed instead such brilliant leaders of fashion as Mme. Leroi had in course of time managed to secure, but this distinction is not perceptible in her Memoirs, from which certain unimportant friendships of the author have disappeared because there is never any occasion to refer to them; while the absence of those who did not come to see her leaves no gap because, in the necessarily restricted space at the authorโ€™s disposal, only a few persons can appear, and if these persons are royal personages, historic personalities, then the utmost impression of distinction which any volume of memoirs can convey to the public is achieved
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Marcel Proust (In Search Of Lost Time (All 7 Volumes) (ShandonPress))
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Letโ€™s say that you could carry around a perfect copy of a three-dimensional realization of a Caravaggio painting (or if your tastes are more modern make it a Picasso). You would carry a small box in your pocket, and whenever you wanted, you could press a button and the box would open up into life-sized glory and show you the picture. You would bring it to all the parties you attended. The peak of the culture of the seventeenth century (or say the 1920s if you prefer Picasso) would be at your disposal. Alternatively, letโ€™s say you could carry around in your pocket an iPhone. That gives you thousands of songs, a cell phone, access to personal photographs, YouTube, email, and web access, among many other services, not to mention all the applications that have not yet been written. You will have a strong connection to the contemporary culture of small bits.
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Tyler Cowen (The Age of the Infovore: Succeeding in the Information Economy)
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You create your reality. Corky reinforced this idea for me. He believes that even when youโ€™re not feeling on top of your game, you need to tell yourself that you are and put that image out there. Itโ€™s like shifting a gear from off to on. If you are not feeling happy or driven, then make an effort to radiate a sense of confidence. If youโ€™re mortified that you screwed up a dance, pretend youโ€™re proud and unfazed. Itโ€™s not self-deception; itโ€™s creating your own reality. Put it out there in the universe and watch what happens. You begin to realize who you are is what you believe you are. Your personal perception of reality is determined by how you think and feel. Your thoughts and feelings create your attitude, and your attitude dictates how you act. We all have an incredible power at our disposal: the power to become what we think about. Visualize what you want. See it, own it, be it.
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Derek Hough (Taking the Lead: Lessons from a Life in Motion)
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One of the biggest shifts in the last decade of anthropology, one of the discoveries in the field that has changed everything, is the realization that we evolved as cooperative breeders. Bringing up kids in a nuclear family is a novelty, a blip on the screen of human family life. We never did child rearing alone, isolated and shut off from others, or with just one other person, the childโ€™s father. It is arduous and anomalous and itโ€™s not the way it โ€œshouldโ€ be. Indeed, for as long as we have been, we have relied on other femalesโ€”kin and the kindly disposedโ€”to help us raise our offspring. Mostly we lived as Nisa didโ€”in rangy, multifamily bands that looked out for one another, took care of one another, and raised one anotherโ€™s children. You still see it in parts of the Caribbean today, where any adult in a small town can tell any kid to toe the line, and does, and the kids listen. Or in Hawaii, where kids and parents alike depend on hanai relationshipsโ€”aunties and uncles, indispensible honorary relations who take a real interest in an unrelated childโ€™s well-being and education. No, it wasnโ€™t fire or hunting or the heterosexual dyad that gave us a leg up, anthropologists now largely concur; it was our female Homo ancestors holding and handling and caring for and even nursing the babies of other females. That is in large part why Homo sapiens flourished and flourish still, while other early hominins and prehominins bit the dust. This shared history of interdependence, of tending and caring, might explain the unique capacity women have for deep friendship with other women. We have counted on one another for child care, sanity, and survival literally forever. The loss of your child weighs heavily on me in this web of connectedness, because he or she is a little bit my own.
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Wednesday Martin (Primates of Park Avenue)
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The property which every man has in his own labour, as it is the original foundation of all other property, so it is the most sacred and inviolable. The patrimony of a poor man lies in the strength and dexterity of his hands; and to hinder him from employing this strength and dexterity in what manner he thinks proper, without injury to his neighbour, is a plain violation of this most sacred property. It is a manifest encroachment upon the just liberty, both of the workman, and of those who might be disposed to employ him. As it hinders the one from working at what he thinks proper, so it hinders the others from employing whom they think proper. To judge whether he is fit to be employed, may surely be trusted to the discretion of the employers, whose interest it so much concerns. The affected anxiety of the lawgiver, lest they should employ an improper person, is evidently as impertinent as it is oppressive.
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Adam Smith (An Inquiry into the Nature and Causes of the Wealth of Nations)
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No decent person ought associate with murderers, by the same token any collaboration with that greatest of criminalsโ€”Natureโ€”is inexcusable. Yet what is burial but collaboration through a game of hide-and-seek? The point being to dispose of the body, as accomplices are wont to do; on the tombstones various inconsequential things are written, save the only one that is material: for if people would but dare to look the truth in the eye, they would be carving there instead a couple of the more pungent profanities, addressed to Mother Nature, for it is she who got us into this. Meanwhile no one breathes a word, as if a murderer clever enough always to get away with it deserved, for that, some special consideration. Not โ€œmemento moriโ€ but โ€œEstote ultores,โ€ onward to immortality, that should be the cry, even if it means parting with our traditional appearance. Such was the ontological testament of that eminent philosopher.
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Stanisล‚aw Lem (The Star Diaries: Further Reminiscences of Ijon Tichy (From the Memoirs of Ijon Tichy Book 1))
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People who follow millenarian cults are groups, writes Willa Appel, โ€œwhose expectations have undergone sudden change,โ€ who feel โ€œfrustrated and confused.โ€ They are attempting โ€œto re-create reality, to establish a personal identity in situations where the old world view has lost meaning.โ€ Millenarianism is attractive to marginal people, who โ€œhave no political voice, who lack effective organization, and who do not have at their disposal regular, institutionalized means of redress.โ€ The cults offer โ€œrites of passage in a society where traditional institutions seem to be failing.โ€ Cults follow an authoritarian structure. Cults preach โ€œrenunciation of the world.โ€ Cult members believe that they alone โ€œare gifted with the truth.โ€ According to Appel, cult members develop, from these three convictions, โ€œan attitude of moral superiority, a contempt for secular laws, rigidity of thought, and the diminution of regard for the individual.
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Naomi Wolf (The Beauty Myth)
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He could galvanize the dead with his talk. It was a sort of devouring process: when he described a place he ate into it, like a goat at tacking a carpet. If he described a person he ate him alive from head to toe. If it were an event he would devour every detail, like an army of white ants descending upon a forest. He was everywhere at once, in his talk. He attacked from above and below, from the front, rear and flanks. If he couldn't dispose of a thing at once, for lack of a phrase or an image, he would spike it temporarily and move on, coming back to it later and devouring it piecemeal. Or like a juggler,- he would toss it in the air arid, just when you thought he had forgotten it, that it would fall and break, he would deftly put an-arm behind his back and catch it in his palm without even turning his eye. It wasn't just talk he handed out, but language โ€” food and beast language. He always talked against a landscape, like the protagonist of a lost world.
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Henry Miller (The Colossus of Maroussi)
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Televisionโ€™s greatest appeal is that it is engaging without being at all demanding. One can rest while undergoing stimulation. Receive without giving. Itโ€™s the same in all low art that has as goal continued attention and patronage: itโ€™s appealing precisely because itโ€™s at once fun and easy. And the entrenchment of a culture built on Appeal helps explain a dark and curious thing: at a time when there are more decent and good and very good serious fiction writers at work in America than ever before, an American public enjoying unprecedented literacy and disposable income spends the vast bulk of its reading time and book dollar on fiction that is, by any fair standard, trash. Trash fiction is, by design and appeal, most like televised narrative: engaging without being demanding. But trash, in terms of both quality and popularity, is a much more sinister phenomenon. For while television has from its beginnings been openly motivated by โ€” has been aboutโ€”considerations of mass appeal and L.C.D. and profit, our own history is chock-full of evidence that readers and societies may properly expect important, lasting contributions from a narrative art that understands itself as being about considerations more important than popularity and balance sheets. Entertainers can divert and engage and maybe even console; only artists can transfigure. Todayโ€™s trash writers are entertainers working artistsโ€™ turf. This in itself is nothing new. But television aesthetics, and television-like economics, have clearly made their unprecedented popularity and reward possible. And there seems to me to be a real danger that not only the forms but the norms of televised art will begin to supplant the standards of all narrative art. This would be a disaster. [...] Even the snottiest young artiste, of course, probably isnโ€™t going to bear personal ill will toward writers of trash; just as, while everybody agrees that prostitution is a bad thing for everyone involved, few are apt to blame prostitutes themselves, or wish them harm. If this seems like a non sequitur, Iโ€™m going to claim the analogy is all too apt. A prostitute is someone who, in exchange for money, affords someone else the form and sensation of sexual intimacy without any of the complex emotions or responsibilities that make intimacy between two people a valuable or meaningful human enterprise. The prostitute โ€œgives,โ€ but โ€” demanding nothing of comparable value in return โ€” perverts the giving, helps render what is supposed to be a revelation a transaction. The writer of trash fiction, often with admirable craft, affords his customer a narrative structure and movement, and content that engages the reader โ€” titillates, repulses, excites, transports him โ€” without demanding of him any of the intellectual or spiritual or artistic responses that render verbal intercourse between writer and reader an important or even real activity." - from "Fictional Futures and the Conspicuously Young
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David Foster Wallace (Both Flesh and Not: Essays)
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What renders studying the Holocaust so frustrating is its facelessness: the unacceptable anonymity of victims recognized in their individuality at the moment of death, which every society marks with a solemn ritual, even for the lowliest and poorest. To invoke a million people gassed at Auschwitz, to paraphrase a well-known saying, is only to quote a number. But such is the nature of the subject and the evidence at our disposal that in writing Holocaust history references to staggering numbers of victims cannot be avoided. Nonetheless we yearn to pierce the oblivion to which this relegates individual victims, if only because the violent death they suffered was by nature an intimate and personal experience. Restricted to abstraction, we would not understand what had happened, and our account of the Holocaust would not be truthful. Because, at the risk of stating the obvious, specific individuals were killed in this man-made calamity, and specific individuals carried out the killings.
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Jan Tomasz Gross (Zล‚ote ลผniwa)
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To deny manโ€™s biological determinants or to reduce them by relegating his specific traits to zoology is absurd. The hereditary part of humanity forms only the basis of social and historical life: human instincts are not programmed in their object, i.e., man always has the freedom to make choices, moral as well as political, which naturally are limited only by death. Man is an heir, but he can dispose of his heritage. He can construct himself historically and culturally on the basis of the presuppositions of his biological constitution, which are his human limitations. What lies beyond these limitations may be called God, the cosmos, nothingness, or Being. The question of โ€˜whyโ€™ no longer makes sense, because what is beyond human limitations is by definition unthinkable. Thus, the New Right proposes a vision of a well-balanced individual, taking into account both inborn, personal abilities and the social environment. It rejects ideologies that emphasize only one of these factors, be it biological, economic, or mechanical.
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Alain de Benoist
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The law isnโ€™t supposed to be about unspoken excuses and behind-the-scenes calculations. The beauty of the system is that judges and juries are allowed to consider only what is seen and heard in open court. In between the white lines of this arena, itโ€™s all supposed to make sense. This is where we all get to be equal again. In the defendantโ€™s chair, rich and poor ride the same roller coaster, face the same music. Case has to match case. Sentence should match sentence. But they donโ€™t match anymore. They probably never did, and probably it was never even close. But at least there was the illusion of it. Whatโ€™s happened now, in this new era of settlements and non prosecutions is that the state has formally surrendered to its own excuses. It has decided just to punt from the start and take the money which doesnโ€™t become really wrong until it turns around the next day and decides to double down on the less-defended, flooring it all the way to trial against a welfare mom or some joker who sold a brick of dope in the projects. Repeat the same process a few million times, and thatโ€™s how the jails in American get the population they have. Even if every single person they sent to jail were guilty, the system would still be an epic failโ€”itโ€™s the jurisprudential version of Pravda, where the facts int he paper might have all been true on any given day, but the lie was all in what was not said. Thatโ€™s what nobody gets, that the two approaches to justice may individually make a kind of sense. but side by side theyโ€™re a dystopia, here common city courts become factories for turning poor people into prisoners, while federal prosecutors on the white-collar beat turn into overpriced garbage men, who behind closed doors quietly dispose of the sins of the rich for a fee. And itโ€™s evolved this way over time and for a thousand reasons, so that almost nobody is aware of the whole picture, the two worlds so separate that theyโ€™re barely visible to each other. The usual political descriptors like โ€œunfairnessโ€ and โ€œinjusticeโ€ donโ€™t really apply. itโ€™s more like a breakdown into madness.
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Matt Taibbi
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Amber was painfully aware of the mismatch between her politics and her desires. She was an intersectional feminist, an advocate for people with disabilities, and a wholehearted ally of the LGBT community in all its glorious diversity. As a straight, cisgender, able-bodied, neurotypical, first-world, middle-class white woman, she struggled to maintain a constant awareness of her privilege, and to avoid using it to silence or ignore the voices of those without the same unearned advantages, who had more of a right to speak on many, many subjects than she did. It went without saying that she was a passionate opponent of capitalism, patriarchy, racism, homophobia, transphobia, rape culture, bullying, and microaggression in all its forms. But when it came to boys, for some reason, she only ever liked jocks. It kind of sucked ... And of course they used her like a disposable object, without regret or apology, because thatโ€™s what privilege isโ€”the license to treat other people like shit while still getting to believe that youโ€™re a good person.
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Tom Perrotta (Mrs. Fletcher)
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Because totalitarian rule strives for the impossible and wants to place at its disposal the personality of man and destiny, it can be realized only in a fragmentary manner. It lies in its being that its goal can never be attained and made total but must remain a tendency, a claim to rule. . . . Totalitarian rule is not a thoroughly rationalized apparatus, that works with equal effectiveness in all its parts. This is something it would well like to be and in some places it may perhaps approach this ideal, but seen as a whole, its claim to power is realizable only in a diffuse manner, with very different intensities at various times in various realms of life; at the same time, totalitarian and non-totalitarian features are always commingled. But this is precisely why the consequences of the totalitarian claim to power are so dangerous and oppressive, because they are so hazy, so incalculable, and so difficult to demonstrate. . . . This contortion follows from the unfulfillable aspiration to power: it characterizes life under such a regime and makes it so exceedingly difficult for all outsiders to grasp.
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Richard Pipes (Communism: A History (Modern Library Chronicles Series Book 7))
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In the absence of any precise idea as to what railways were, public opinion in Frick was against them; for the human mind in that grassy corner had not the proverbial tendency to admire the unknown, holding rather that it was likely to be against the poor man, and that suspicion was the only wise attitude with regard to it. Even the rumor of Reform had not yet excited any millennial expectations in Frick, there being no definite promise in it, as of gratuitous grains to fatten Hiram Fordโ€™s pig, or of a publican at the โ€œWeights and Scalesโ€ who would brew beer for nothing, or of an offer on the part of the three neighboring farmers to raise wages during winter. And without distinct good of this kind in its promises, Reform seemed on a footing with the bragging of peddlers, which was a hint for distrust to every knowing person. The men of Frick were not ill-fed, and were less given to fanaticism than to a strong muscular suspicion; less inclined to believe that they were peculiarly cared for by heaven, than to regard heaven itself as rather disposed to take them inโ€”a disposition observable in the weather.
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George Eliot (Middlemarch)
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In such cases the natural needs appropriate to the childโ€™s age cannot be integrated, so they are repressed or split off. This person will later live in the past without realizing it and will continue to react to past dangers as if they were present. People who have asked for my assistance because of their depression have usually had to deal with a mother who was extremely insecure and who often suffered from depression herself. The child, most often an only child or the first-born, was seen as the motherโ€™s possession. What the mother had once failed to find in her own mother she was able to find in her child: someone at her disposal who could be used as an echo and could be controlled, who was completely centered on her, would never desert her, and offered her full attention and admiration. If the childโ€™s demands became too great (as those of her own mother once did), she was no longer so defenseless: she could refuse to allow herself to be tyrannized; she could bring the child up in such a way that he neither cried nor disturbed her. At last she could make sure that she received consideration, care, and respect.
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Alice Miller (The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self)
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Liberty is a word which, according as it is used, comprehends the most good and the most evil of any in the world. Justly understood it is sacred next to those which we appropiate in divine adoration; but in the mouths of some it means anything, which enervate a necessary government; excite a jealousy of the rulers who are our own choice, and keep society in confusion for want of a power sufficiently concentered to promote its good. It is not strange that the licentious should tell us a government of energy is inconsistent with liberty, for being inconsistent with their wishes and their vices, they would have us think it contrary to human happiness. . . . A government capable of controling the whole, and bringing its force to a point, is one of the prerequisites for national liberty. We combine in society, with an expectation to have our persons and properties defended against unreasonable exactions either at home or abroad. If the public are unable to protest against the unjust impositions of foreigners, in this case we do not enjoy our natural rights, and a weakness of government is the cause. If we mean to have our natural rights and properties protected, we must first create a power which is able to do it, and in our case there is no want of resources, but a civil constitution which may draw them out and point their force. . . . Some men are mightily afraid of giving power lest it should be improved for oppression; this is doubtless possible, but where is the probability. The same objection may be made against the constitution of every state in the union, and against every possible mode of government; because a power of doing good always implies a power to do evil if the person or party be disposed. The right of the legislature to ordain laws binding on the people, gives them a power to make bad laws. The right of the judge to inflict punishment, gives him both power and opportunity to oppress the innocent; yet none but crazy men will from thence determine that it is best to have neither a legislature nor judges. If a power to promote the best interest of the people, necessarily implies a power to do evil, we must never expect such a constitution in theory as will not be open in some respects to the objections of carping and jealous men. The new Constitution is perhaps more cautiously guarded than any other in the world, and at the same time creates a power which will be able to protect the subject; yet doubtless objections may be raised, and so they may against the constitution of each state in the union. . . . If, my countrymen, you wait for a constitution which absolutely bars a power of doing evil, you must wait long, and when obtained it will have no power of doing good. I allow you are oppressed, but not from the quarter that jealous and wrongheaded men would insinuate. You are oppressed by the men, who to serve their own purposes would prefer the shadow of government to the reality.
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Oliver Ellsworth
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All of this, undoubtedly, follows from an extremely potent and persuasive model of freedom, one that would not have risen to such dominance in our culture if it did not give us a sense of liberty from arbitrary authority, and of limitless inner possibilities, and of profound personal dignity. There is nothing contemptible in this, and there is no simple, obvious moral reproach to be brought against it. Nevertheless, as I have said, it is a model of freedom whose ultimate horizon is, quite literally, nothing. Moreover, if the will determines itself principally in and through the choices it makes, then it too, at some very deep level, must also be nothing: simply a pure movement of spontaneity, motive without motive, absolute potentiality, giving birth to itself. A God beyond us or a stable human nature within us would confine our decisions within certain inescapable channels; and so at some, usually unconscious levelโ€”whatever else we may believeโ€”we stake ourselves entirely upon the absence of either. Those of us who now, in the latter days of modernity, are truest to the wisdom and ethos of our age place ourselves not at the disposal of God, or the gods, or the Good, but before an abyss, over which presides the empty power of our isolated wills, whose decisions are their own moral index. This is what it means to have become perfect consumers: the original nothing ness of the will gives itself shape by the use it makes of the nothingness of the worldโ€”and thus we are free.
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David Bentley Hart (Atheist Delusions: The Christian Revolution and Its Fashionable Enemies)
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This Compost" Something startles me where I thought I was safest, I withdraw from the still woods I loved, I will not go now on the pastures to walk, I will not strip the clothes from my body to meet my lover the sea, I will not touch my flesh to the earth as to other flesh to renew me. O how can it be that the ground itself does not sicken? How can you be alive you growths of spring? How can you furnish health you blood of herbs, roots, orchards, grain? Are they not continually putting distemper'd corpses within you? Is not every continent work'd over and over with sour dead? Where have you disposed of their carcasses? Those drunkards and gluttons of so many generations? Where have you drawn off all the foul liquid and meat? I do not see any of it upon you to-day, or perhaps I am deceiv'd, I will run a furrow with my plough, I will press my spade through the sod and turn it up underneath, I am sure I shall expose some of the foul meat. 2 Behold this compost! behold it well! Perhaps every mite has once form'd part of a sick personโ€”yet behold! The grass of spring covers the prairies, The bean bursts noiselessly through the mould in the garden, The delicate spear of the onion pierces upward, The apple-buds cluster together on the apple-branches, The resurrection of the wheat appears with pale visage out of its graves, The tinge awakes over the willow-tree and the mulberry-tree, The he-birds carol mornings and evenings while the she-birds sit on their nests, The young of poultry break through the hatch'd eggs, The new-born of animals appear, the calf is dropt from the cow, the colt from the mare, Out of its little hill faithfully rise the potato's dark green leaves, Out of its hill rises the yellow maize-stalk, the lilacs bloom in the dooryards, The summer growth is innocent and disdainful above all those strata of sour dead. What chemistry! That the winds are really not infectious, That this is no cheat, this transparent green-wash of the sea which is so amorous after me, That it is safe to allow it to lick my naked body all over with its tongues, That it will not endanger me with the fevers that have deposited themselves in it, That all is clean forever and forever, That the cool drink from the well tastes so good, That blackberries are so flavorous and juicy, That the fruits of the apple-orchard and the orange-orchard, that melons, grapes, peaches, plums, will none of them poison me, That when I recline on the grass I do not catch any disease, Though probably every spear of grass rises out of what was once a catching disease. Now I am terrified at the Earth, it is that calm and patient, It grows such sweet things out of such corruptions, It turns harmless and stainless on its axis, with such endless successions of diseas'd corpses, It distills such exquisite winds out of such infused fetor, It renews with such unwitting looks its prodigal, annual, sumptuous crops, It gives such divine materials to men, and accepts such leavings from them at last.
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Walt Whitman
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It is for his great mental faculties that I dread him," said he. "It is incalculable what evil such a person as he may do, if so disposed. There is a sublimity in his ideas, with which there is to me a mixture of terror; and, when he talks of religion, he does it as one that rather dreads its truths than reverences them. He, indeed, pretends great strictness of orthodoxy regarding some of the points of doctrine embraced by the reformed church; but you do not seem to perceive that both you and he are carrying these points to a dangerous extremity. Religion is a sublime and glorious thing, the bonds of society on earth, and the connector of humanity with the Divine nature; but there is nothing so dangerous to man as the wresting of any of its principles, or forcing them beyond their due bounds: this is of all others the readiest way to destruction. Neither is there anything so easily done. There is not an error into which a man can fall which he may not press Scripture into his service as proof of the probity of, and though your boasted theologian shunned the full discussion of the subject before me, while you pressed it, I can easily see that both you and he are carrying your ideas of absolute predestination, and its concomitant appendages, to an extent that overthrows all religion and revelation together; or, at least, jumbles them into a chaos, out of which human capacity can never select what is good. Believe me, Mr. Robert, the less you associate with that illustrious stranger the better, for it appears to me that your creed and his carries damnation on the very front of it.
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James Hogg
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For the good man is neither uplifted with the good things of time, nor broken by its ills; but the wicked man, because he is corrupted by this world's happiness, feels himself punished by its unhappiness. Yet often, even in the present distribution of temporal things, does God plainly evince His own interference. For if every sin were now visited with manifest punishment, nothing would seem to be reserved for the final judgment; on the other hand, if no sin received now a plainly divine punishment, it would be concluded that there is no divine providence at all. And so of the good things of this life: if God did not by a very visible liberality confer these on some of those persons who ask for them, we should say that these good things were not at His disposal; and if He gave them to all who sought them, we should suppose that such were the only rewards of His service; and such a service would make us not godly, but greedy rather, and covetous. Wherefore, though good and bad men suffer alike, we must not suppose that there is no difference between the men themselves, because there is no difference in what they both suffer. For even in the likeness of the sufferings, there remains an unlikeness in the sufferers; and though exposed to the same anguish, virtue and vice are not the same thing. For as the same fire causes gold to glow brightly, and chaff to smoke; and under the same flail the straw is beaten small, while the grain is cleansed; and as the lees are not mixed with the oil, though squeezed out of the vat by the same pressure, so the same violence of affliction proves, purges, clarifies the good, but damns, ruins, exterminates the wicked. And thus it is that in the same affliction the wicked detest God and blaspheme, while the good pray and praise. So material a difference does it make, not what ills are suffered, but what kind of man suffers them.
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Augustine of Hippo (City of God)
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[Magyar] had an intense dislike for terms like 'illiberal,' which focused on traits the regimes did not possess--like free media or fair elections. This he likened to trying to describe an elephant by saying that the elephant cannot fly or cannot swim--it says nothing about what the elephant actually is. Nor did he like the term 'hybrid regime,' which to him seemed like an imitation of a definition, since it failed to define what the regime was ostensibly a hybrid of. Magyar developed his own concept: the 'post-communist mafia state.' Both halves of the designation were significant: 'post-communist' because "the conditions preceding the democratic big bang have a decisive role in the formation of the system. Namely that it came about on the foundations of a communist dictatorship, as a product of the debris left by its decay." (quoting Balint Magyar) The ruling elites of post-communist states most often hail from the old nomenklatura, be it Party or secret service. But to Magyar this was not the countries' most important common feature: what mattered most was that some of these old groups evolved into structures centered around a single man who led them in wielding power. Consolidating power and resources was relatively simple because these countries had just recently had Party monopoly on power and a state monopoly on property. ... A mafia state, in Magyar's definition, was different from other states ruled by one person surrounded by a small elite. In a mafia state, the small powerful group was structured just like a family. The center of the family is the patriarch, who does not govern: "he disposes--of positions, wealth, statuses, persons." The system works like a caricature of the Communist distribution economy. The patriarch and his family have only two goals: accumulating wealth and concentrating power. The family-like structure is strictly hierarchical, and membership in it can be obtained only through birth or adoption. In Putin's case, his inner circle consisted of men with whom he grew up in the streets and judo clubs of Leningrad, the next circle included men with whom he had worked with in the KGB/FSB, and the next circle was made up of men who had worked in the St. Petersburg administration with him. Very rarely, he 'adopted' someone into the family as he did with Kholmanskikh, the head of the assembly shop, who was elevated from obscurity to a sort of third-cousin-hood. One cannot leave the family voluntarily: one can only be kicked out, disowned and disinherited. Violence and ideology, the pillars of the totalitarian state, became, in the hands of the mafia state, mere instruments. The post-communist mafia state, in Magyar's words, is an "ideology-applying regime" (while a totalitarian regime is 'ideology-driven'). A crackdown required both force and ideology. While the instruments of force---the riot police, the interior troops, and even the street-washing machines---were within arm's reach, ready to be used, ideology was less apparently available. Up until spring 2012, Putin's ideological repertoire had consisted of the word 'stability,' a lament for the loss of the Soviet empire, a steady but barely articulated restoration of the Soviet aesthetic and the myth of the Great Patriotic War, and general statements about the United States and NATO, which had cheated Russia and threatened it now. All these components had been employed during the 'preventative counter-revolution,' when the country, and especially its youth, was called upon to battle the American-inspired orange menace, which threatened stability. Putin employed the same set of images when he first responded to the protests in December. But Dugin was now arguing that this was not enough. At the end of December, Dugin published an article in which he predicted the fall of Putin if he continued to ignore the importance of ideas and history.
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Masha Gessen (The Future Is History: How Totalitarianism Reclaimed Russia)
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The intellectual conscience. I keep having the same experience and keep resisting it every time. I do not want to believe it although it is palpable: the great majority of people lacks an intellectual conscience. Indeed, it has often seemed to me as if anyone calling for an intellectual conscience were as lonely in the most densely populated cities as if he were in a desert. Everybody looks at you with strange eyes and goes right on handling his scales, calling this good and that evil. Nobody even blushes when you intimate that their weights are under-weight; nor do people feel outraged; they merely laugh at your doubts. I mean: the great majority of people does not consider it contemptible to believe this or that and to live accordingly, without first having given themselves an account of the final and most certain reasons pro and con, and without even troubling themselves about such reasons afterward: the most gifted men and the noblest women still belong to this "great majority." But what is goodheartedness, refinement, or genius to me, when the person who has these virtues tolerates slack feelings in his faith and judgments and when he does not account the desire for certainty as his inmost craving and deepest distress-as that which separates the higher human beings from the lower. Among some pious people I found a hatred of reason and was well disposed to them for that; for this at least betrayed their bad intellectual conscience. But to stand in the midst of this rerum concordia discors and of this whole marvelous uncertainty and rich ambiguity of existence without questioning, without trembling with the craving and the rapture of such questioning, without at least hating the person who questions, perhaps even finding him faintly amusing - that is what l feel to be contemptible, and this is the feeling for which I look first in everybody. Some folly keeps persuading me that every human being has this feeling, simply because be is human. This is my type of injustice.
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Friedrich Nietzsche (The Gay Science: With a Prelude in Rhymes and an Appendix of Songs)
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Scrupling to do writings relative to keeping slaves has been a means of sundry small trials to me, in which I have so evidently felt my own will set aside that I think it good to mention a few of them. Tradesmen and retailers of goods, who depend on their business for a living, are naturally inclined to keep the good-will of their customers; nor is it a pleasant thing for young men to be under any necessity to question the judgment or honesty of elderly men, and more especially of such as have a fair reputation. Deep-rooted customs, though wrong, are not easily altered; but it is the duty of all to be firm in that which they certainly know is right for them. A charitable, benevolent man, well acquainted with a negro, may, I believe, under some circumstances, keep him in his family as a servant, on no other motives than the negro's good; but man, as man, knows not what shall be after him, nor hath he any assurance that his children will attain to that perfection in wisdom and goodness necessary rightly to exercise such power; hence it is clear to me, that I ought not to be the scribe where wills are drawn in which some children are made ales masters over others during life. About this time an ancient man of good esteem in the neighborhood came to my house to get his will written. He had young negroes, and I asked him privately how he purposed to dispose of them. He told me; I then said, "I cannot write thy will without breaking my own peace," and respectfully gave him my reasons for it. He signified that he had a choice that I should have written it, but as I could not, consistently with my conscience, he did not desire it, and so he got it written by some other person. A few years after, there being great alterations in his family, he came again to get me to write his will. His negroes were yet young, and his son, to whom he intended to give them, was, since he first spoke to me, from a libertine become a sober young man, and he supposed that I would have been free on that account to write it. We had much friendly talk on the subject, and then deferred it. A few days after he came again and directed their freedom, and I then wrote his will.
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Benjamin Franklin (The Complete Harvard Classics - ALL 71 Volumes: The Five Foot Shelf & The Shelf of Fiction: The Famous Anthology of the Greatest Works of World Literature)
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He was a good, even a shining light as a Castalian to the extent that he had a many-sided mind, tirelessly active in scholarship as well as in the art of the Glass Bead Game, and enormously hard-working; but in character, in his attitude toward the hierarchy and the morality of the Order he was a very mediocre, not to say bad Castalian. The greatest of his vices was a persistent neglect of meditation, which he refused to take seriously. The purpose of meditation, after all, is adaptation of the individual to the hierarchy, and application in it might very well have cured him of his neurasthenia. For it infallibly helped him whenever, after a period of bad conduct, excessive excitement, or melancholia, his superiors disciplined him by prescribing strict meditation exercises under supervision. Even Knecht, kindly disposed and forgiving though he was, frequently had to resort to this measure. There was no question about it: Tegularius was a willful, moody person who refused to fit into his society. Every so often he would display the liveliness of his intellect. When highly stimulated he could be entrancing; his mordant wit sparkled and he overwhelmed everyone with the audacity and richness of his sometimes somber inspirations. But basically he was incurable, for he did not want to be cured; he cared nothing for co-ordination and a place in the scheme of things. He loved nothing but his freedom, his perpetual student status, and preferred spending his whole life as the unpredictable and obstinate loner, the gifted fool and nihilist, to following the path of subordination to the hierarchy and thus attaining peace. He cared nothing for peace, had no regard for the hierarchy, hardly minded reproof and isolation. Certainly he was a most inconvenient and indigestible component in a community whose idea was harmony and orderliness. But because of this very troublesomeness and indigestiblity he was, in the midst of such a limpid and prearranged little world, a constant source of vital unrest, a reproach, an admonition and warning, a spur to new, bold, forbidden, intrepid ideas, an unruly, stubborn sheep in the herd. And, to our mind, this was the very reason his friend cherished him.
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Hermann Hesse (The Glass Bead Game)
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One can readily imagine in what terms a man of today would speak if called upon to make a pronouncement on the only religion ever to have introduced a radical formula of salvation: "The quest for deliverance can be justified only if one believes in the transmigration, in the endless vagrancy of the self, and if one aspires to halt it. But for us who do not believe in it, what are we to halt? This unique and negligible duration? It is obviously not long enough to deserve the effort an escape would require. For the Buddhist, the prospect of other existences is a nightmare; for us, the nightmare consists in the termination of this one, this nightmare. Give us another one, we would be tempted to clamor, so that our disgraces will not conclude too soon, so that they may, at their leisure, hound us through several lives. Deliverance answers a necessity only for the person who feels threatened by a surfeit of existence, who fears the burden of dying and redying. For us, condemned not to reincarnate ourselves, what's the use of struggling to set ourselves free from a nonentity? to liberate ourselves from a terror whose end lies in view? Further more, what's the use of pursuing a supreme unreality when everything here-below is already unreal? One simply does not exert oneself to get rid of something so flimsily justified, so precariously grounded. Each of us, each man unlucky enough not to believe in the eternal cycle of births and deaths, aspires to a superabundance of illusion and torment. We pine for the malediction of being reborn. Buddha took exorbitant pains to achieve what? definitive death - what we, on the contrary, are sure of obtaining without meditations and mortifications, without raising a finger." ... That's just about how this fallen man would express himself if he consented to lay bare the depths of his thought. Who will dare throw the first stone? Who has not spoken to himself in this way? We are so addicted to our own history that we would like to see it drone on and on, relentlessly. But whether one lives one or a thousand lives, whether one has at one's disposal a single hour or all of time, the problem remains the same: an insect and a god should not differ in their manner of viewing the fact of existence as such, which is so terrifying (as only miracles can be) that, reflecting on it, one understands the will to disappear forever so as not to have to consider it again in other existences. This is what Buddha emphasized, and it seems doubtful he would have altered his conclusion had he ceased to believe in the mechanism of transmigration.
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Emil M. Cioran
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Because we cannot discover God's throne in the sky with a radiotelescope or establish (for certain) that a beloved father or mother is still about in a more or less corporeal form, people assume that such ideas are "not true." I would rather say that they are not "true" enough, for these are conceptions of a kind that have accompanied human life from prehistoric times, and that still break through into consciousness at any provocation. Modern man may assert that he can dispose with them, and he may bolster his opinion by insisting that there is no scientific evidence of their truth. Or he may even regret the loss of his convictions. But since we are dealing with invisible and unknowable things (for God is beyond human understanding, and there is no means of proving immortality), why should we bother about evidence? Even if we did not know by reason our need for salt in our food, we should nonetheless profit from its use. We might argue that the use of salt is a mere illusion of taste or a superstition; but it would still contribute to our well-being. Why, then, should we deprive ourselves of views that would prove helpful in crises and would give a meaning to our existence? And how do we know that such ideas are not true? Many people would agree with me if I stated flatly that such ideas are probably illusions. What they fail to realize is that the denial is as impossible to "prove" as the assertion of religious belief. We are entirely free to choose which point of view we take; it will in any case be an arbitrary decision. There is, however, a strong empirical reason why we should cultivate thoughts that can never be proved. It is that they are known to be useful. Man positively needs general ideas and convictions that will give a meaning to his life and enable him to find a place for himself in the universe. He can stand the most incredible hardships when he is convinced that they make sense; he is crushed when, on top of all his misfortunes, he has to admit that he is taking part in a "tale told by an idiot." It is the role of religious symbols to give a meaning to the life of man. The Pueblo Indians believe that they are the sons of Father Sun, and this belief endows their life with a perspective (and a goal) that goes far beyond their limited existence. It gives them ample space for the unfolding of personality and permits them a full life as complete persons. Their plight is infinitely more satisfactory than that of a man in our own civilization who knows that he is (and will remain) nothing more than an underdog with no inner meaning to his life.
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C.G. Jung
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he importance and influence of Charles Darwinโ€™s theory of evolution by natural selection can scarcely be exaggerated. A century after Darwinโ€™s death, the great evolutionary biologist and historian of science, Ernst Mayr, wrote, โ€˜The worldview formed by any thinking person in the Western world after 1859, when On the Origin of Species was published, was by necessity quite different from a worldview formed prior to 1859โ€ฆ The intellectual revolution generated by Darwin went far beyond the confines of biology, causing the overthrow of some of the most basic beliefs of his age.โ€™1 Adrian Desmond and James Moore, Darwinโ€™s biographers, contend, โ€˜Darwin is arguably the best known scientist in history. More than any modern thinkerโ€”even Freud or Marxโ€”this affable old-world naturalist from the minor Shropshire gentry has transformed the way we see ourselves on the planet.โ€™2 In the words of the philosopher Daniel C. Dennett, โ€˜Almost no one is indifferent to Darwin, and no one should be. The Darwinian theory is a scientific theory, and a great one, but that is not all it isโ€ฆ Darwinโ€™s dangerous idea cuts much deeper into the fabric of our most fundamental beliefs than many of its sophisticated apologists have yet admitted, even to themselves.โ€™3 Dennett goes on to add, โ€˜If I were to give an award for the single best idea anyone has ever had, Iโ€™d give it to Darwin, ahead of Newton and Einstein and everyone else. In a single stroke, the idea of evolution by natural selection unifies the realm of life, meaning, and purpose with the realm of space and time, cause and effect, mechanism and physical law.โ€™4 The editors of the Cambridge Companion to Darwin begin their introduction by stating, โ€˜Some scientific thinkers, while not themselves philosophers, make philosophers necessary. Charles Darwin is an obvious case. His conclusions about the history and diversity of lifeโ€”including the evolutionary origin of humansโ€”have seemed to bear on fundamental questions about being, knowledge, virtue and justice.โ€™5 Among the fundamental questions raised by Darwinโ€™s work, which are still being debated by philosophers (and others) are these: โ€˜Are we different in kind from other animals? Do our apparently unique capacities for language, reason and morality point to a divine spark within us, or to ancestral animal legacies still in evidence in our simian relatives? What forms of social life are we naturally disposed towardsโ€”competitive and selfish forms, or cooperative and altruistic ones?โ€™6 As the editors of the volume point out, virtually the entire corpus of the foundational works of Western philosophy, from Plato and Aristotle to Descartes to Kant to Hegel, has had to be re-examined in the light of Darwinโ€™s work. Darwin continues to be read, discussed, interpreted, used, abusedโ€”and misusedโ€”to this day. As the philosopher and historian of science, Jean Gayon, puts it, โ€˜[T]his persistent positioning of new developments in relation to a single, pioneering figure is quite exceptional in the history of modern natural science.
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Charles Darwin (On the Origin of Species)
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A:Surely youยท know that one can read a book many times-perhaps you almost know it by heart, and nevertheless it can be that, when you look again at the lines before you, certain things appear new or even new thoughts occur to you that you did not have before. Every word can work productively in your spirit. And finally if you have once left the book for a week and you take it up again after your spirit has experienced various different changes, then a number ofthings will dawn on you. On the higher levels of insight into divine thoughts, you recognize that the sequence of words has more than one valid meaning. Only to the all-knowing is it given to know all the meanings of the sequence of words. Increasingly we try to grasp a few more meanings." .... I: "But Philo Judeaus, if this is who you mean, was a serious philosopher and a great thinker. Even John the Evangelist included some of Philo's thoughts in the gospe!." A: "You are right. It is to Philo's credit that he furnished language like so many other philosophers. He belongs to the language artists. But words should not become Gods." I: "I fail to understand you here. Does it not say in the gospel according to John: God was the Word. It appears to make quite explicit the point which you have just now rejected." A: "Guard against being a slave to words. Here is the gospel: read from that passage where it says: In him was the life. "What does John say there?" I: "'And life was the light of men and the light shines in the darkness and the darkness has not understood it. But it became a person sent from God, by the name of John, who came as a witness and to be a witness of the light. The genuine light, which That is what I readh ere. But what do you make of this?" A: "I ask you, was this AorOL [Logos] a concept, a word? It was a light, indeed a man, and lived among men. You see, Philo only lent John the word so that John would have at his disposal the word 'AorOL' alongside the word 'light' to describe the son of man. John gave to living men the meaning of the AorOL, but Philo gave AorOL as the dead concept that usurped life, even the divine life. Through this the dead does not gain life, and the living is killed. And this was also my atrocious error." I:"Iseewhatyoumean.Thisthoughtisnewtomeandseems worth consideration. Until now it always seemed to me / as if it were exactly that which was meaningful in John, namely that the son of man is the AorOL, in that he thus elevates the lower to the higher spirit, to the world of the AorOL. But you lead me to see the matter conversely; namely that John brings the meaning of the AorOL down to man." A: "I learned to see that John has in fact even done the great service of having brought the meaning of the AorOL up to man." I: "You have peculiar insights that stretch my curiosity to the utmost. How is that? Do you think that the human stands higher than the logos?" A: "I want to answer this question within the scope of your understanding: if the human God had not become important above everything, he would not have appeared as the son in the flesh, but as Logos.
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C.G. Jung
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William James, offered a colorful illustration of this problem: โ€œProbably a crab would be filled with a sense of personal outrage if it could hear us class it without ado or apology as a crustacean, and thus dispose of it. โ€˜I am no such thing,โ€™ it would say; โ€˜I am MYSELF, MYSELF alone.
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Bradley L. Herling (A Beginner's Guide to the Study of Religion)
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The atmosphere of division my grandfather created in the Trump family is the water in which Donald has always swum, and division continues to benefit him at the expense of everybody else. Itโ€™s wearing the country down, just as it did my father, changing us even as it leaves Donald unaltered. Itโ€™s weakening our ability to be kind or believe in forgiveness, concepts that have never had any meaning for him. His administration and his party have become subsumed by his politics of grievance and entitlement. Worse, Donald, who understands nothing about history, constitutional principles, geopolitics, diplomacy (or anything else, really) and was never pressed to demonstrate such knowledge, has evaluated all of this countryโ€™s alliances, and all of our social programs, solely through the prism of money, just as his father taught him to do. The costs and benefits of governing are considered in purely financial terms, as if the US Treasury were his personal piggy bank. To him, every dollar going out was his loss, while every dollar saved was his gain. In the midst of obscene plenty, one person, using all of the levers of power and taking every advantage at his disposal, would benefit himself and, conditionally, his immediate family, his cronies, and his sycophants; for the rest, there would never be enough to go around, which was exactly how my grandfather ran our family.
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Mary L. Trump (Too Much and Never Enough: How My Family Created the World's Most Dangerous Man)
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In the past, a young man from a village of average size could choose among maybe twenty girls of similar age with whom he went to school. He knew their families and vice versa, leading to a decision based on several well-known attributes. Nowadays, in the era of online dating, millions of potential partners are at our disposal. It has been proven that the stress caused by this mind-boggling variety is so large that the male brain reduces the decision to one single criterion: physical attractiveness. The consequences of this selection process you already know- perhaps even from personal experience. ..The more choice you have the more unsure and therefore dissatisfied you are afterward." ~ The Art of Thinking Clearly by Rolf Dobelli
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Rolf Dobelli
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Any more than four ratings gives a false sense of precision. Too many ratings make managers feel they should be able to achieve a level of granularity in their assessment of peopleโ€™s performance that isnโ€™t actually possible. Also, when managers have too many ratings at their disposal they tend to try to show an uptick every review to make the person โ€œfeelโ€ like they are improving
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Kim Malone Scott (Radical Candor: Be a Kick-Ass Boss Without Losing Your Humanity)
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My focus is on using everything at my disposal, from storytelling to access to finances, to help create a better and freer future for all people of color, especially young people. In large part, this means finding ways to educate and inform the white people who want to listen and grow.
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Frederick Joseph (The Black Friend: On Being a Better White Person)
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It is impossible for any clear-headed person to suppose that the ever more destructive stupidities of war can be eliminated from human affairs until some common political control dominates the earth, and unless certain pressures due to the growth of population, due to the enlarging scope of economic operations or due to conflicting standards and traditions of life, are disposed of.
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H.G. Wells (The Open Conspiracy: What Are We To Do With Our Lives?)