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Seek freedom and become captive of your desires. Seek discipline and find your liberty.
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Frank Herbert (Chapterhouse: Dune (Dune #6))
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Your perspective on life comes from the cage you were held captive in.
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Shannon L. Alder
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I should have guessed you were Jace's sister," he said. "You both have the same artistic talent."
Clary paused, her foot on the lowest stair. She was taken aback. "Jace can draw?"
Nah." When Alec smiled, his eyes lit like blue lamps and Clary could see what Magnus had found so captivating about him. "I was just kidding. He can't draw a straight line.
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Cassandra Clare (City of Bones (The Mortal Instruments, #1))
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This dangerous girl. This captivating beauty.
This destroyer of worlds and creator of wonder.
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RenΓ©e Ahdieh (The Wrath and the Dawn (The Wrath and the Dawn, #1))
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Let us leave pretty women to men with no imagination.
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Marcel Proust (The Captive / The Fugitive (In Search of Lost Time, #5-6))
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I think if I gave you my heart, you would treat it tenderly.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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Her husband's visage captivated her from the first moment she saw him step out of the royal carriage a hundred years ago. How could it not? Flaminius was utterly gorgeous. But once she fell in love with him, she became happily enslaved.
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Therisa Peimer (Taming Flame)
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I hate fighting with you,β he whispers.
βWell, stop being such an arse.β
He chuckles and the captivating sound reverberates through his chest. He tightens his hold on me. βArse?β
βAss.β
βI prefer arse.β
βYou should. It suits you.
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E.L. James (Fifty Shades Freed (Fifty Shades, #3))
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Today expect something good to happen to you no matter what occurred yesterday. Realize the past no longer holds you captive. It can only continue to hurt you if you hold on to it. Let the past go. A simply abundant world awaits. (January 11)
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Sarah Ban Breathnach (Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort of Joy)
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For a moment, I was captivated as I studied them side by side. My mother: the perfect picture of guardian excellence and decorum. My father: always capable of achieving his goals, no matter how twisted the means. Uneasily, I began to understand how Iβd inherited my bizarre personality.
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Richelle Mead (Last Sacrifice (Vampire Academy, #6))
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Outer beauty attracts, but inner beauty captivates.
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Kate Angell (Squeeze Play (Richmond Rogues, #1))
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I lack," said Laurent, "the easy mannerisms that are usually shared with," you could see him pushing the words out, "a lover."
"You lack the easy mannerisms that are usually shared with anyone," said Damen.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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Thatβs right, Iβm still captured,β said Damen.
βYour eyes say, βFor now,ββ Laurent said. βYour eyes have always said, βFor now.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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Outer beauty pleases the EYE. Inner beauty captivates the HEART.
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Mandy Hale (The Single WomanβLife, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence)
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I'm captivated by you, baby, like a firework show.
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Taylor Swift
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Never let fear hold you captive.
Never let self-doubt hold you captive.
Never let frustration hold you captive.
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Roy T. Bennett (The Light in the Heart)
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Believe in your infinite potential. Your only limitations are those you set upon yourself.
Believe in yourself, your abilities and your own potential. Never let self-doubt hold you captive. You are worthy of all that you dream of and hope for.
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Roy T. Bennett (The Light in the Heart)
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This isn't a romance. You're not a damsel in distress and I'm not the handsome prince come to save you.
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C.J. Roberts (Captive in the Dark (The Dark Duet, #1))
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He was my tormentor and my solace; the creator of the dark and the light within.
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C.J. Roberts (Captive in the Dark (The Dark Duet, #1))
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Laurent could inspire homicidal tendencies simply by breathing.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince (Captive Prince, #1))
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Trauma is personal. It does not disappear if it is not validated. When it is ignored or invalidated the silent screams continue internally heard only by the one held captive. When someone enters the pain and hears the screams healing can begin.
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Danielle Bernock (Emerging With Wings: A True Story of Lies, Pain, And The LOVE that Heals)
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I see at intervals the glance of a curious sort of bird through the close set bars of a cage: a vivid, restless, resolute captive is there; were it but free, it would soar cloud-high.
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Charlotte BrontΓ« (Jane Eyre)
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Once upon a time, Caleb held me captive in the dark, now he used it to seduce me.
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C.J. Roberts (Seduced in the Dark (The Dark Duet, #2))
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Losing people you love affects you. It is buried inside of you and becomes this big, deep hole of ache. It doesn't magically go away, even when you stop officially mourning.
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Carrie Jones (Captivate (Need, #2))
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I made the choice to be vegan because I will not eat (or wear, or use) anything that could have an emotional response to its death or captivity. I can well imagine what that must feel like for our non-human friends - the fear, the terror, the pain - and I will not cause such suffering to a fellow living being.
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Rai Aren
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Then, in the spirit of benevolence, "Your face is well balanced." She slapped him encouragingly on the back, "You have very long eyelashes. Like a cow.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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People often believed they were safer in the light, thinking monsters only came out at night.
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C.J. Roberts (Captive in the Dark (The Dark Duet, #1))
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Thatβs right. He is Charls. I am Charls. We are cousins,β said Charls, gamely, βnamed after our grandfather. Charls.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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Books... I canβt live without books. To me, a book is better than any movie. All I need is a good book, my imagination, and I am set free. Iβm in literature heaven.
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Belle Aurora (Willing Captive)
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There is a particular kind of pain, elation, loneliness, and terror involved in this kind of madness. When you're high it's tremendous. The ideas and feelings are fast and frequent like shooting stars, and you follow them until you find better and brighter ones. Shyness goes, the right words and gestures are suddenly there, the power to captivate others a felt certainty. There are interests found in uninteresting people. Sensuality is pervasive and the desire to seduce and be seduced irresistible. Feelings of ease, intensity, power, well-being, financial omnipotence, and euphoria pervade one's marrow. But, somewhere, this changes. The fast ideas are far too fast, and there are far too many; overwhelming confusion replaces clarity. Memory goes. Humor and absorption on friends' faces are replaced by fear and concern. Everything previously moving with the grain is now against-- you are irritable, angry, frightened, uncontrollable, and enmeshed totally in the blackest caves of the mind. You never knew those caves were there. It will never end, for madness carves its own reality.
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Kay Redfield Jamison (An Unquiet Mind: A Memoir of Moods and Madness)
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Stop enjoying yourself," Damen murmured. "We're going to be killed, any minute."
"Giant animal," said Laurent.
"Stop it.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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β"Love is seeing an imperfect person perfectly.. and he is far from being perfect. But thereβs something about him that captivates my heart.Whatβs so good about him anyway? Is it his radiant smile? His charisma? Maybe itβs his attractive face? I donβt know. But..Iβm falling.. hard.
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Bianca B. Bernardino (She's Dating the Gangster)
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To get what you want, you have to know exactly how much you are willing to give up.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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Did you know, the first time I saw you, I thought: Iβve never seen anything more captivating and beautiful?β
βWhy are you telling me this?β I said miserably.
βI saw you, and I wanted to be close to you. I wanted you to let me in. I wanted to know you in a way no one else did. I wanted you, all of you. That wanting nearly drove me mad.β Patch paused, inhaling softly, as though breathing me in. βAnd now that I have you, the only thing that terrifies me is having to go back to that place. Having to want you all over again, with no hope of my desire ever being fulfilled. Youβre mine, Angel. Every last piece of you. I wonβt let anything change that.
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Becca Fitzpatrick (Finale (Hush, Hush, #4))
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A golden prince was easy to love if you did not have to watch him picking wings off flies.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince (Captive Prince, #1))
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No one forgets that they were once captive, even if they are now free.
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Yaa Gyasi (Homegoing)
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You've been captive for so long that you don't even realize you want freedom anymore.
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Lauren DeStefano (Wither (The Chemical Garden, #1))
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...in my dreams the world would come alive, becoming so captivatingly majestic, free and ethereal, that afterwards it would be oppressive to breathe the dust of this painted life.
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Vladimir Nabokov (Invitation to a Beheading)
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Laurent said, βHello, lover.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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So she told me a story. A story about a boy who was born with very green eyes, and the man who was so captivated by their color that he searched the world for a stone in exactly the same shade.β His voice is fading now, falling into whispers so quiet I can hardly hear him. βShe said the boy was me. That this ring was made from that very same stone, and that the man had given it to her, hoping one day sheβd be able to give it to me. It was his gift, she said, for my birthday." He stops. Breathes. βAnd then she took it off, slipped it on my index finger, and said, βIf you hide your heart, he will never be able to take it from you'.
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Tahereh Mafi (Ignite Me (Shatter Me, #3))
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I miss you," said Laurent. "I miss our conversations.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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I'll go gentle, baby," he whispered against my lips. "I promise. You'll always be safe with me."
Oh. My.
"Mitch," I breathed.
His soulful eyes held mine captive as he repeated firmly, "Always.
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Kristen Ashley (Law Man (Dream Man, #3))
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After a long moment Laurent said, with painful honesty, "I...find it difficult to let go of control."
"No kidding," said Damen.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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Soulmates aren't the ones who make you happiest, no. They're instead the ones who make you feel the most. Burning edges and scars and stars. Old pangs, captivation and beauty. Strain and shadows and worry and yearning. Sweetness and madness and dreamlike surrender. They hurl you into the abyss. They taste like hope.
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Victoria Erickson
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Don't", said Laurent, "toy with me. I - have not the means to defend against this.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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I would court you, with all the grace and courtesy that you deserve,
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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Is there anyone at this court who isn't my enemy?"
"Not if I can help it," Laurent said.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince (Captive Prince, #1))
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What would you not have accomplished if you had been free?"
"Possibly nothing at all; the overflow of my brain would probably, in a state of freedom, have evaporated in a thousand follies; misfortune is needed to bring to light the treasures of the human intellect. Compression is needed to explode gunpowder. Captivity has brought my mental faculties to a focus; and you are well aware that from the collision of clouds electricity is produced β from electricity, lightning, from lightning, illumination.
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Alexandre Dumas (The Count of Monte Cristo)
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We were keeping our eye on 1984. When the year came and the prophecy didn't, thoughtful Americans sang softly in praise of themselves. The roots of liberal democracy had held. Wherever else the terror had happened, we, at least, had not been visited by Orwellian nightmares.
But we had forgotten that alongside Orwell's dark vision, there was another - slightly older, slightly less well known, equally chilling: Aldous Huxley's Brave New World. Contrary to common belief even among the educated, Huxley and Orwell did not prophesy the same thing. Orwell warns that we will be overcome by an externally imposed oppression. But in Huxley's vision, no Big Brother is required to deprive people of their autonomy, maturity and history. As he saw it, people will come to love their oppression, to adore the technologies that undo their capacities to think.
What Orwell feared were those who would ban books. What Huxley feared was that there would be no reason to ban a book, for there would be no one who wanted to read one. Orwell feared those who would deprive us of information. Huxley feared those who would give us so much that we would be reduced to passivity and egoism. Orwell feared that the truth would be concealed from us. Huxley feared the truth would be drowned in a sea of irrelevance. Orwell feared we would become a captive culture. Huxley feared we would become a trivial culture, preoccupied with some equivalent of the feelies, the orgy porgy, and the centrifugal bumblepuppy. As Huxley remarked in Brave New World Revisited, the civil libertarians and rationalists who are ever on the alert to oppose tyranny "failed to take into account man's almost infinite appetite for distractions." In 1984, Orwell added, people are controlled by inflicting pain. In Brave New World, they are controlled by inflicting pleasure. In short, Orwell feared that what we fear will ruin us. Huxley feared that what we desire will ruin us.
This book is about the possibility that Huxley, not Orwell, was right.
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Neil Postman (Amusing Ourselves to Death: Public Discourse in the Age of Show Business)
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A pixie's true skin color is blue. Cookie Monster, Grover, and other lovable Muppets are also blue. Do not confuse the two. Muppets don't kill you. Usually.
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Carrie Jones (Captivate (Need, #2))
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To get what you want, you have to know exactly how much you are willing to give up.
Never had he wanted something this badly, and held it in his hands knowing that tomorrow it would be gone, traded for the high cliffs of Ios, and the uncertain future across the border, the chance to stand before his brother, to ask him for all the answers that no longer seemed important. A kingdom, or this.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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A kingdom, or this
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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Youβve spent a morning with him and youβre warning me off. Just wait,β said Damen, βuntil youβve spent a full day with him.β
βYou mean that he improves with time?β
βNot exactly,β said Damen.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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Can't help who you fall in love with, princess.
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Belle Aurora (Willing Captive)
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People often believed they were safer in the light, thinking monsters only came out at night. But safety β like light β is a faΓ§ade.
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C.J. Roberts (Captive in the Dark (The Dark Duet, #1))
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Loving you is a full-time job. It's a great job, don't get me wrong. It's the best job in the universe. But it's not easy.
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Carrie Jones (Captivate (Need, #2))
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At first I did not love you, Jude; that I own. When I first knew you I merely wanted you to love me. I did not exactly flirt with you; but that inborn craving which undermines some women's morals almost more than unbridled passion--the craving to attract and captivate, regardless of the injury it may do the man--was in me; and when I found I had caught you, I was frightened. And then--I don't know how it was-- I couldn't bear to let you go--possibly to Arabella again--and so I got to love you, Jude. But you see, however fondly it ended, it began in the selfish and cruel wish to make your heart ache for me without letting mine ache for you.
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Thomas Hardy (Jude the Obscure)
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The only way to truly be safer, was to accept the dark, to walk in it with eyes wide open, to be a part of it. To keep your enemies close.
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C.J. Roberts (Captive in the Dark (The Dark Duet, #1))
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Nephew. you were not invited to these discussions.'
'And yet, here I am. It's very irritating, isn't it?' Said Laurent.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince (Captive Prince, #1))
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You see?β said Laurent. βHe has forgiven me for the small matter of the whip. I have forgiven him for the small matter of killing my brother. All hail the alliance.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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How can you trust me, after what your own brother did to you?"
"Because he was false", said Damen, "and you are true. I have never known a truer man.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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To gain everything and lose everything in the space of a moment. That is the fate of all princes destined for the throne.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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Damen's understanding of Laurent rearranged itself, in order that he might despise him more accurately.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince (Captive Prince, #1))
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I know who you are, Damianos,β said Laurent.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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We think you'll find that every woman in her heart of hearts longs for three things: to be romanced, to play an irreplaceable role in a great adventure, and to unveil beauty. That's what makes a woman come alive.
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John Eldredge (Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul)
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Damen now knew the precise number of arrows Laurent needed to have trained on him in order to shut him up. It was six.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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When laced into his clothing, Laurent's dangerous grace lent him an almost androgynous quality. Or perhaps it was more accurate to say that it was rare to associate Laurent with a physical body at all: you were always dealing with a mind.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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I am alive, and drunk on sunlight.
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George R.R. Martin (A Storm of Swords (A Song of Ice and Fire, #3))
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Nearing the Riefler's big red brick house he could see the yellow light spill out on the galerie Yvonne had insisted her German husband wrap around the house.Β There was a tightening in Victor's chest.Β It happened to him whenever he got close to the Riefler's house, or church on Sunday- anytime he thought he might catch a glimpse of Celena.
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Barbara Sontheimer (Victor's Blessing)
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What Orwell feared were those who would ban books. What Huxley feared was that there would be no reason to ban a book, for there would be no one who wanted to read one. Orwell feared those who would deprive us of information. Huxley feared those who would give us so much that we would be reduced to passivity and egoism. Orwell feared that the truth would be concealed from us. Huxley feared the truth would be drowned in a sea of irrelevance. Orwell feared we would become a captive culture. Huxley feared we would become a trivial culture, preoccupied with some equivalent of the feelies, the orgy porgy, and the centrifugal bumblepuppy. As Huxley remarked in Brave New World Revisited, the civil libertarians and rationalists who are ever on the alert to oppose tyranny "failed to take into account man's almost infinite appetite for distractions."
In 1984, Huxley added, "people are controlled by inflicting pain. In Brave New World, they are controlled by inflicting pleasure. In short, Orwell feared that what we hate will ruin us. Huxley feared that what we love will ruin us".
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Neil Postman (Amusing Ourselves to Death: Public Discourse in the Age of Show Business)
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Love rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness.
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Esther Perel (Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic)
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You remind me of him. He was the best man I have ever known.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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There was a man I was supposed to meet. Heβs got all these ideas about honour and fair play, and he tries to keep me from doing the wrong thing. But heβs not here right now. Unfortunately for you.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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Silently she stared at the splintered pieces and felt the flame in her soul gutter.Β The flame she had nurtured since she was a child. The flame that had in it what little sparks of happiness she had ever known as well as all her hopes and dreams for the future.Β She had tended it so carefully and for so long, and in one, horrendous, agonizing second, felt it simply... go out.
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Barbara Sontheimer (Victor's Blessing)
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Laurent entered, an edge to his grace, like a leopard with a headache.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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All her life, she had learned that passion, like fire, was a dangerous thing. It so easily went out of control. It scaled walls and jumped over trenches. Sparks leapt like fleas and spread as rapidly; a breeze could carry embers for miles. Better to control that spark and pass it carefully from one generation to the next, like an Olympic torch. Or, perhaps, to tend it carefully like an eternal flame: a reminder of light and goodness that would never - could never - set anything ablaze. Carefully controlled. Domesticated. Happy in captivity. The key, she thought, was to avoid conflagration.
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Celeste Ng (Little Fires Everywhere)
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The minute the door was opened, she wished she had made some excuse not to see them.Β Victor was sitting by the bed, and the tender expression on his face as he looked down at his wife and latest child, made something violent and jealous jump in Penelope's heart.Β She could have murdered Ethan for shutting the door loudly behind them, interrupting their intimacy.
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Barbara Sontheimer (Victor's Blessing)
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He's going macho again," Dev says, totally nonchalantly, while he unlocks the door.
He's always going macho," Is adds. "It must be the wolf thing."
I am not going macho. I am always macho," Nick says.
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Carrie Jones (Captivate (Need, #2))
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β¦in that moment, as he saw and smelled how irresistible its effect was and how with lightning speed it spread and made captives of the people all around himβin that moment his whole disgust for humankind rose up again within him and completely soured his triumph, so that he felt not only no joy, but not even the least bit of satisfaction. What he had always longed forβthat other people should love himβbecame at the moment of his achievement unbearable, because he did not love them himself, he hated them. And suddenly he knew that he had never found gratification in love, but always only in hatredβin hating and in being hated.
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Patrick SΓΌskind (Perfume: The Story of a Murderer)
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Some are condemned to remain mere βclock and smart phone watchersβ, inasmuch as they are not able to read and interpret the lines of their life or don't even treasure the enchantment of daily captivating moments. If we are not prepared to give some personal time to social time, we walk like blind men through gloomy alleys of our existence. ( " Please. Just a bit of a chat " )
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Erik Pevernagie
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We desire to possess a beauty that is worth pursuing, worth fighting for, a beauty that is core to who we truly are. We want beauty that can be seen; beauty that can be felt; beauty that affects others; a beauty all our own to unveil.
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Stasi Eldredge (Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul)
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While our country remains untainted with the principles and manners which are now producing desolation in so many parts of the world; while she continues sincere, and incapable of insidious and impious policy, we shall have the strongest reason to rejoice our local destination. But should the people of America once become capable of that deep simulation towards one another, and towards foreign nations, which assumes the language of justice and moderation, while it is practising iniquity and extravagance, and displays in the most captivating manner the charming pictures of candour, frankness, and sincerity, while it is rioting in rapine and insolence, this country will be the most miserable habitation in the world.
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John Adams (Thoughts on government applicable to the present state of the American colonies.: Philadelphia, Printed by John Dunlap, M,DCC,LXXXVI.)
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He's the captive Kastor sent you to train?' said Torveld, curiously. 'He's--safe?'
'He looks combative, but he's really very docile and adoring,' said Laurent, 'like a puppy.'
'A puppy,' said Torveld.
To demonstrate, Laurent picked up a confection of crushed nuts and honey and held it out to Damen as he had at the ring, between thumb and forefinger.
'Sweetmeat?' said Laurent.
In the stretched-out moment that followed, Damen thought explicitly about killing him.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince (Captive Prince, #1))
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I miss you too,β he said. βIβm jealous of Isander.β βIsanderβs a slave.β βI was a slave.β The moment ached. Laurent met his gaze, his eyes too clear. βYou were never a slave, Damianos. You were born to rule, as I was.
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C.S. Pacat (Kings Rising (Captive Prince, #3))
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Friends, Romans, countrymen, lend me your ears;
I come to bury Caesar, not to praise him;
The evil that men do lives after them,
The good is oft interred with their bones,
So let it be with Caesar ... The noble Brutus
Hath told you Caesar was ambitious:
If it were so, it was a grievous fault,
And grievously hath Caesar answered it ...
Here, under leave of Brutus and the rest,
(For Brutus is an honourable man;
So are they all; all honourable men)
Come I to speak in Caesar's funeral ...
He was my friend, faithful and just to me:
But Brutus says he was ambitious;
And Brutus is an honourable manβ¦.
He hath brought many captives home to Rome,
Whose ransoms did the general coffers fill:
Did this in Caesar seem ambitious?
When that the poor have cried, Caesar hath wept:
Ambition should be made of sterner stuff:
Yet Brutus says he was ambitious;
And Brutus is an honourable man.
You all did see that on the Lupercal
I thrice presented him a kingly crown,
Which he did thrice refuse: was this ambition?
Yet Brutus says he was ambitious;
And, sure, he is an honourable man.
I speak not to disprove what Brutus spoke,
But here I am to speak what I do know.
You all did love him once, not without cause:
What cause withholds you then to mourn for him?
O judgement! thou art fled to brutish beasts,
And men have lost their reasonβ¦. Bear with me;
My heart is in the coffin there with Caesar,
And I must pause till it come back to me
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William Shakespeare (Julius Caesar)
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Today, we turn to one person to provide what an entire village once did: a sense of grounding, meaning, and continuity. At the same time, we expect our committed relationships to be romantic as well as emotionally and sexually fulfilling. Is it any wonder that so many relationships crumble under the weight of it all?
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Esther Perel (Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic)
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Laurent wasn't loved. Laurent wasn't liked. Even among his own men, who would follow him off a cliff, there was the unequivocal consensus that Laurent was, as Orlant had once described him, a cast iron bitch, that it was a very bad idea to get on his bad side, and that as for his good side, he didn't have one.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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Let him come to Charcy, with his hithertos and his wherefores, and there he will find me, and with all the might of my kingdom I will scourge him from the field.
"And if you want a personal message," said Laurent, "You can tell my uncle boykiller that he can cut the head off every child from here to the capital. It won't make him into a king, it will simply mean he has no one left to fuck.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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Since then your sere Majesty and your Lordships seek a simple answer, I will give it in this manner, neither horned nor toothed. Unless I am convinced by the testimony of the Scriptures or by clear reason (for I do not trust either in the pope or in councils alone, since it is well known that they have often erred and contradicted themselves), I am bound by the Scriptures I have quoted and my conscience is captive to the Word of God. I cannot and I will not recant anything, since it is neither safe nor right to go against conscience. May God help me. Amen."
(Reply to the Diet of Worms, April 18, 1521)
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It was with a shock that he felt the touch of Laurent's fingers against the back of his wrist. [...] Laurent was shifting the fabric of his sleeve, sliding it back slightly to reveal the gold underneath, until the wrist cuff he had asked the blacksmith to leave on was exposed between them.
'Sentiment?' said Laurent.
'Something like that.'
Their eyes met and he could feel each beat of his heart. A few seconds of silence, a space that lengthened, until Laurent spoke.
'You should give me the other.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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That isn't why. She would have chosen him even if you'd had royal blood in your veins, even if you'd had the same blood as Kastor. You don't understand the way a mind like that thinks. I do. If I were Jokaste and a king maker, I'd have chosen Kastor over you too.'
'I suppose you are going to enjoy telling me why,' said Damen. He felt his hands curl into fists, heard the bitterness in his throat.
'Because a king maker would always choose the weaker man. The weaker the man, the easier he is to control.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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She was intelligent, accomplished, beautiful. She was everything I could have asked for in a woman. But she was a king maker. She wanted power. She must have thought her only path to the throne was through Kastor.'
'My honourable barbarian. I wouldn't have picked that as your type.'
'Type?'
'A pretty face, a devious mind and a ruthless nature.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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I wrapped my arms around him and held on as hard as I could. He was my tormentor and my solace: the creator of the dark and the light within. I didnβt care that he would undoubtedly hurt me at any moment, right now; I just needed somebody to hold meβ¦ To tell me these exact words. Its going to be okay. It wasnβt of course, I knew that. But I didnβt care, I needed the lie.
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For [erotically intelligent couples], love is a vessel that contains both security and adventure, and commitment offers one of the great luxuries of life: time. Marriage is not the end of romance, it is the beginning. They know that they have years in which to deepen their connection, to experiment, to regress, and even to fail. They see their relationship as something alive and ongoing, not a fait accompli. Itβs a story that they are writing together, one with many chapters, and neither partner knows how it will end. Thereβs always a place they havenβt gone yet, always something about the other still to be discovered.
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Damen felt Laurent start shaking against him, and realised that, silently, helplessly, he was laughing.
There came the sound of at least two more sets of footsteps striding into the room, greeted with: 'Here he is. We found him fucking this derelict, disguised as the tavern prostitute.'
'This is the tavern prostitute. You idiot, the Prince of Vere is so celibate I doubt he even touches himself once every ten years. You. We're looking for two men. One was a barbarian soldier, a giant animal. The other was blond. Not like this boy. Attractive.'
'There was a blond lord's pet downstairs,' said Volo. 'Brained like a pea and easy to hoodwink. I don't think he was the Prince.'
'I wouldn't call him blond. More like mousy. And he wasn't that attractive,' said the boy, sulkily.
The shaking, progressively, had worsened.
'Stop enjoying yourself,' Damen murmured. 'We're going to be killed, any minute.'
'Giant animal,' said Laurent.
'Stop it.
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C.S. Pacat (Captive Prince: Volume Two (Captive Prince, #2))
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He said, 'Damianos.'
Before Damen could tell him to rise, he heard it again, echoed in another voice, and then another. It was passing over the gathered men in the courtyard, his name in tones of shock and of awe. The steward beside Nikandros was kneeling. And then four of the men in the front ranks. And then more, dozens of men, rank after rank of soldiers.
And as Damen looked out, the army was dropping to its knees, until the courtyard was a sea of bowed heads, and silence replaced the murmur of voices, the words spoken over and over again.
'He lives. The King's son lives. Damianos.'
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There is an emotional promiscuity weβve noticed among many good young men and women. The young man understands something of the journey of the heart. He wants to talk, to βshare the journey.β The woman is grateful to be pursued, she opens up. They share the intimacies of their lives - their wounds, their walks with God. But he never commits. He enjoys her... then leaves. And she wonders, What did I do wrong? She failed to see his passivity. He really did not ever commit or offer assurances that he would. Like Willoughby to Marianne in Sense and Sensibility.
Be careful you do not offer too much of yourself to a man until you have good, solid evidence that he is a strong man willing to commit. Look at his track record with other women. Is there anything to be concerned about there? If so, bring it up. Also, does he have any close male friends - and what are they like as men? Can he hold down a job? Is he walking with God in a real and intimate way? Is he facing the wounds of his own life, and is he also demonstrating a desire to repent of Adamβs passivity and/or violence? Is he headed somewhere with his life? A lot of questions, but your heart is a treasure, and we want you to offer it only to a man who is worthy and ready to handle it well.
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Stasi Eldredge (Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul)
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You see, women have been essential to every great move of God. Yes, Moses led the Isaelites out of Egypt, but only after his mother risked her life to save him! Closer to our time, Clara Barton was instrumental in starting the Red Cross. Harriet Beecher Stowe's Uncle Tom's Cabin put fire into people's heart to end slavery in the United States. Rosa Parks kicked the Civil Rights movement into gear with her quiet act of courage. Eunice Kennedy Shriver created the Special Olympics. Mother Teresa inspired the world by bringing love to countless thought unlovable. And millions of other women quietly change the world every day by bringing the love of God to those around them.
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Stasi Eldredge (Your Captivating Heart: Discover How God's True Love Can Free a Woman's Soul)
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But what about human nature? Can it be changed? And if not, will it endure under Anarchism?
Poor human nature, what horrible crimes have been committed in thy name! Every fool, from king to policeman, from the flatheaded parson to the visionless dabbler in science, presumes to speak authoritatively of human nature. The greater the mental charlatan, the more definite his insistence on the wickedness and weaknesses of human nature. Yet, how can any one speak of it today, with every soul in a prison, with every heart fettered, wounded, and maimed?
John Burroughs has stated that experimental study of animals in captivity is absolutely useless. Their character, their habits, their appetites undergo a complete transformation when torn from their soil in field and forest. With human nature caged in a narrow space, whipped daily into submission, how can we speak of its potentialities?
Freedom, expansion, opportunity, and, above all, peace and repose, alone can teach us the real dominant factors of human nature and all its wonderful possibilities.
Anarchism, then, really stands for the liberation of the human mind from the dominion of religion; the liberation of the human body from the dominion of property; liberation from the shackles and restraint of government. Anarchism stands for a social order based on the free grouping of individuals for the purpose of producing real social wealth; an order that will guarantee to every human being free access to the earth and full enjoyment of the necessities of life, according to individual desires, tastes, and inclinations.
This is not a wild fancy or an aberration of the mind. It is the conclusion arrived at by hosts of intellectual men and women the world over; a conclusion resulting from the close and studious observation of the tendencies of modern society: individual liberty and economic equality, the twin forces for the birth of what is fine and true in man.
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It is the fate of great achievements, born from a way of life that sets truth before security, to be gobbled up by you and excreted in the form of shit. For centuries great, brave, lonely men have been telling you what to do. Time and again you have corrupted, diminished and demolished their teachings; time and again you have been captivated by their weakest points, taken not the great truth, but some trifling error as your guiding principal. This, little man, is what you have done with Christianity, with the doctrine of sovereign people, with socialism, with everything you touch. Why, you ask, do you do this? I don't believe you really want an answer. When you hear the truth you'll cry bloody murder, or commit it. β¦ You had your choice between soaring to superhuman heights with Nietzsche and sinking into subhuman depths with Hitler. You shouted Heil! Heil! and chose the subhuman. You had the choice between Lenin's truly democratic constitution and Stalin's dictatorship. You chose Stalin's dictatorship. You had your choice between Freud's elucidation of the sexual core of your psychic disorders and his theory of cultural adaptation. You dropped the theory of sexuality and chose his theory of cultural adaptation, which left you hanging in mid-air. You had your choice between Jesus and his majestic simplicity and Paul with his celibacy for priests and life-long compulsory marriage for yourself. You chose the celibacy and compulsory marriage and forgot the simplicity of Jesus' mother, who bore her child for love and love alone. You had your choice between Marx's insight into the productivity of your living labor power, which alone creates the value of commodities and the idea of the state. You forgot the living energy of your labor and chose the idea of the state. In the French Revolution, you had your choice between the cruel Robespierre and the great Danton. You chose cruelty and sent greatness and goodness to the guillotine. In Germany you had your choice between Goring and Himmler on the one hand and Liebknecht, Landau, and Muhsam on the other. You made Himmler your police chief and murdered your great friends. You had your choice between Julius Streicher and Walter Rathenau. You murdered Rathenau. You had your choice between Lodge and Wilson. You murdered Wilson. You had your choice between the cruel Inquisition and Galileo's truth. You tortured and humiliated the great Galileo, from whose inventions you are still benefiting, and now, in the twentieth century, you have brought the methods of the Inquisition to a new flowering. β¦ Every one of your acts of smallness and meanness throws light on the boundless wretchedness of the human animal. 'Why so tragic?' you ask. 'Do you feel responsible for all evil?' With remarks like that you condemn yourself. If, little man among millions, you were to shoulder the barest fraction of your responsibility, the world would be a very different place. Your great friends wouldn't perish, struck down by your smallness.
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