Campbell Quotes

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Life has no meaning. Each of us has meaning and we bring it to life. It is a waste to be asking the question when you are the answer.
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Joseph Campbell
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We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.
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Joseph Campbell
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History does not always repeat itself. Sometimes it just yells, 'Can't you remember anything I told you?' and lets fly with a club.
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John W. Campbell Jr.
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The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.
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Joseph Campbell
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To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.
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Thomas Campbell
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Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls.
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Joseph Campbell
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The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are.
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Joseph Campbell (A Joseph Campbell Companion: Reflections on the Art of Living)
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If you can see your path laid out in front of you step by step, you know it's not your path. Your own path you make with every step you take. That's why it's your path.
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Joseph Campbell
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If you do follow your bliss you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while, waiting for you, and the life that you ought to be living is the one you are living. Follow your bliss and don't be afraid, and doors will open where you didn't know they were going to be.
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Joseph Campbell
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Sit in a room and read--and read and read. And read the right books by the right people. Your mind is brought onto that level, and you have a nice, mild, slow-burning rapture all the time.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.
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Joseph Campbell
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If the path before you is clear, you're probably on someone else's.
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Joseph Campbell
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Your sacred space is where you can find yourself over and over again.
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Joseph Campbell
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The goal of life is to make your heartbeat match the beat of the universe, to match your nature with Nature.
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Joseph Campbell (A Joseph Campbell Companion: Reflections on the Art of Living)
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You must give up the life you planned in order to have the life that is waiting for you.
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Joseph Campbell
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If you are falling....dive.
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Joseph Campbell
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People say that what we’re all seeking is a meaning for life. I don’t think that’s what we’re really seeking. I think that what we’re seeking is an experience of being alive, so that our life experiences on the purely physical plane will have resonances with our own innermost being and reality, so that we actually feel the rapture of being alive.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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Life is like arriving late for a movie, having to figure out what was going on without bothering everybody with a lot of questions, and then being unexpectedly called away before you find out how it ends.
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Joseph Campbell (Creative Mythology (The Masks of God, #4))
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Myths are public dreams, dreams are private myths.
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Joseph Campbell
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All the gods, all the heavens, all the hells, are within you.
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Joseph Campbell
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We're not on our journey to save the world but to save ourselves. But in doing that you save the world. The influence of a vital person vitalizes.
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Joseph Campbell
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Myth is much more important and true than history. History is just journalism and you know how reliable that is.
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Joseph Campbell
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All religions are true but none are literal.
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Joseph Campbell
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Regrets are illuminations come too late.
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Joseph Campbell (The Hero with a Thousand Faces)
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Where you stumble and fall, there you will find gold.
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Joseph Campbell
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A bit of advice Given to a young Native American At the time of his initiation: As you go the way of life, You will see a great chasm. Jump. It is not as wide as you think.
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Joseph Campbell
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The psychotic drowns in the same waters in which the mystic swims with delight.
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Joseph Campbell (Psychology of the Future: Lessons from Modern Consciousness Research (Suny Series in Transpersonal and Humanistic Psychology))
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We're so engaged in doing things to achieve purposes of outer value that we forget the inner value, the rapture that is associated with being alive, is what it is all about.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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bookshops are time machines spaceships story-makers secret-keepers dragon-tamers dream-catchers fact-finders & safe places. (this book is for those who know this to be true)
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Jen Campbell (The Bookshop Book)
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As you proceed through life, following your own path, birds will shit on you. Don't bother to brush it off. Getting a comedic view of your situation gives you spiritual distance. Having a sense of humor saves you.
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Joseph Campbell
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You enter the forest at the darkest point, where there is no path. Where there is a way or path, it is someone else's path. You are not on your own path. If you follow someone else's way, you are not going to realize your potential.
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Joseph Campbell (The Hero's Journey: Joseph Campbell on His Life & Work (Works))
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The villains were always ugly in books and movies. Necessarily so, it seemed. Because if they were attractiveβ€”if their looks matched their charm and their cunningβ€”they wouldn't only be dangerous. They would be irresistible.
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Nenia Campbell (Horrorscape (Horrorscape, #2))
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Gods suppressed become devils, and often it is these devils whom we first encounter when we turn inward.
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Joseph Campbell
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I don't have to have faith, I have experience.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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There is a classic moment in β€˜The Sun Also Rises’ when someone asks Mike Campbell how he went bankrupt, and all he can say in response is, β€œGradually and then suddenly.” When someone asks how I lost my mind, that’s all I can say too.
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Elizabeth Wurtzel (Prozac Nation)
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Instead of clearing his own heart the zealot tries to clear the world.
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Joseph Campbell (Hero With a Thousand Faces)
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Hemingway has his classic moment in "The Sun Also Rises" when someone asks Mike Campbell how he went bankrupt. All he can say is, "Gradually, then suddenly." That's how depression hits. You wake up one morning, afraid that you're gonna live.
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Elizabeth Wurtzel (Prozac Nation)
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The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure
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Joseph Campbell
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Half the people in the world think that the metaphors of their religious traditions, for example, are facts. And the other half contends that they are not facts at all. As a result we have people who consider themselves believers because they accept metaphors as facts, and we have others who classify themselves as atheists because they think religious metaphors are lies.
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Joseph Campbell (Thou Art That: Transforming Religious Metaphor)
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The demon that you can swallow gives you its power, and the greater life’s pain, the greater life’s reply.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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The job of an educator is to teach students to see vitality in themselves
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Joseph Campbell
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Not all who hesitate are lost. The psyche has many secrets in reserve. And these are not disclosed unless required.
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Joseph Campbell (The Hero With a Thousand Faces)
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Follow your bliss. If you do follow your bliss, you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while waiting for you, and the life you ought to be living is the one you are living. When you can see that, you begin to meet people who are in the field of your bliss, and they open the doors to you. I say, follow your bliss and don't be afraid, and doors will open where you didn't know they were going to be. If you follow your bliss, doors will open for you that wouldn't have opened for anyone else.
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Joseph Campbell
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Computers are like Old Testament gods; lots of rules and no mercy.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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The black moment is the moment when the real message of transformation is going to come. At the darkest moment comes the light.
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Joseph Campbell
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CUSTOMER: I read a book in the sixties. I don’t remember the author, or the title. But it was green, and it made me laugh. Do you know which one I mean?
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Jen Campbell (Weird Things Customers Say in Bookshops)
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It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure.
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Joseph Campbell
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In the hall stood Richard Campbell Gansey III in his school uniform and overcoat and scarf and gloves, looking like someone from another world. Behind him was Ronan Lynch, his damn tie knotted right for once and his shirt tucked in. Humiliation and joy warred furiously inside Adam. Gansey strode between the pews as Adam's father stared at him. He went directly to the bench, straight up to the judge. Now that he stood directly beside Adam, not looking at him, Adam could see that he was a little out of breath. Ronan, behind him, was as well. they had run. For him.
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Maggie Stiefvater (Blue Lily, Lily Blue (The Raven Cycle, #3))
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Every religion is true one way or another. It is true when understood metaphorically. But when it gets stuck in its own metaphors, interpreting them as facts, then you are in trouble.
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Joseph Campbell
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The Hero Path We have not even to risk the adventure alone for the heroes of all time have gone before us. The labyrinth is thoroughly known ... we have only to follow the thread of the hero path. And where we had thought to find an abomination we shall find a God. And where we had thought to slay another we shall slay ourselves. Where we had thought to travel outwards we shall come to the center of our own existence. And where we had thought to be alone we shall be with all the world.
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Joseph Campbell
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A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself
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Joseph Campbell
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You become mature when you become the authority of your own life.
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Joseph Campbell (A Joseph Campbell Companion: Reflections on the Art of Living)
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God is the experience of looking at a tree and saying, 'Ah!
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Joseph Campbell
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Opportunities to find deeper powers within ourselves come when life seems most challenging.
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Joseph Campbell
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I think the person who takes a job in order to live - that is to say, for the money [not for purpose or passion]- has turned himself into a slave.
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Joseph Campbell
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Perhaps some of us have to go through dark and devious ways before we can find the river of peace or the highroad to the soul's destination.
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Joseph Campbell (The Hero With a Thousand Faces)
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Wherever the poetry of myth is interpreted as biography, history, or science, it is killed.
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Joseph Campbell (The Hero With a Thousand Faces)
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You want to be free. You also want to be mine. You can't be both.
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Nenia Campbell (Crowned by Fire (Shadow Thane, #3))
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When we quit thinking primarily about ourselves and our own self-preservation, we undergo a truly heroic transformation of consciousness.
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Joseph Campbell
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I don't believe people are looking for the meaning of life as much as they are looking for the experience of being alive.
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Joseph Campbell
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We save the world by being alive ourselves.
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Joseph Campbell
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CUSTOMER: Do you have this children's book I've heard about? It's supposed to be very good. It's called "Lionel Richie and the Wardrobe.
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Jen Campbell (Weird Things Customers Say in Bookshops)
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I need to stop getting into situations where all my options are potentially bad.
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Jack Campbell (Dauntless (The Lost Fleet, #1))
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I always feel uncomfortable when people speak about ordinary mortals because I've never met an ordinary man, woman or child.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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The experience of eternity right here and now is the function of life. Heaven is not the place to have the experience; here is the place to have the experience.
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Joseph Campbell
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Myth is what we call other people's religion.
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Joseph Campbell
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How to get rid of ego as dictator and turn it into messenger and servant and scout, to be in your service, is the trick.
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Joseph Campbell
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The fates lead him who will; him who won't they drag.
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Joseph Campbell
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The first step to the knowledge of the wonder and mystery of life is the recognition of the monstrous nature of the earthly human realm as well as its glory, the realization that this is just how it is and that it cannot and will not be changed. Those who think they know how the universe could have been had they created it, without pain, without sorrow, without time, without death, are unfit for illumination.
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Joseph Campbell
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Gansey stepped in then, putting his phone neatly into his pocket, fetching out his keys instead. There was still something stretched thin about his expression. He looked, in fact, like he had in the cave, his face streaked and unfamiliar. It was so strange to see him without his Richard Campbell Gansey III guise on in public that Blue couldn't stop staring at his face. No β€” it wasn't his face. It was the way he stood, his shoulder shrugged, chin ducked, gaze from below uncertain eyebrows. "SHE WAS ALL RIGHT," Jesse assured him. "My head knew that," Gansey said. "But the rest of me didn't.
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Maggie Stiefvater (Blue Lily, Lily Blue (The Raven Cycle, #3))
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We're in a freefall into future. We don't know where we're going. Things are changing so fast, and always when you're going through a long tunnel, anxiety comes along. And all you have to do to transform your hell into a paradise is to turn your fall into a voluntary act. It's a very interesting shift of perspective and that's all it is... joyful participation in the sorrows and everything changes.
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Joseph Campbell (Sukhavati:Place of Bliss)
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You are the Hero of your own Story.
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When you realize that eternity is right here now, that it is within your possibility to experience the eternity of your own truth and being, then you grasp the following: That which you are was never born and will never die. . . . (90)
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Joseph Campbell (Thou Art That: Transforming Religious Metaphor)
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Follow your bliss and doors will open where there were no doors before.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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CUSTOMER:Β If I were to, say... meet the love of my life in this bookshop, what section do you think they would be standing in?
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Jen Campbell (Weird Things Customers Say in Bookshops)
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There is perhaps nothing worse than reaching the top of the ladder and discovering that you’re on the wrong wall.
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Joseph Campbell
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Happiness is such a fragile thing, isn't it? So easily burst, like a bubble blown by a child, and always on the verge of being carried away.
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Nenia Campbell (Endgame (Virtual Reality Standalones, #1))
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Some catastrophic moments invite clarity, explode in split moments: You smash your hand through a windowpane and then there is blood and shattered glass stained with red all over the place; you fall out a window and break some bones and scrape some skin. Stitches and casts and bandages and antiseptic solve and salve the wounds. But depression is not a sudden disaster. It is more like a cancer: At first its tumorous mass is not even noticeable to the careful eye, and then one day -- wham! -- there is a huge, deadly seven-pound lump lodged in your brain or your stomach or your shoulder blade, and this thing that your own body has produced is actually trying to kill you. Depression is a lot like that: Slowly, over the years, the data will accumulate in your heart and mind, a computer program for total negativity will build into your system, making life feel more and more unbearable. But you won't even notice it coming on, thinking that it is somehow normal, something about getting older, about turning eight or turning twelve or turning fifteen, and then one day you realize that your entire life is just awful, not worth living, a horror and a black blot on the white terrain of human existence. One morning you wake up afraid you are going to live. In my case, I was not frightened in the least bit at the thought that I might live because I was certain, quite certain, that I was already dead. The actual dying part, the withering away of my physical body, was a mere formality. My spirit, my emotional being, whatever you want to call all that inner turmoil that has nothing to do with physical existence, were long gone, dead and gone, and only a mass of the most fucking god-awful excruciating pain like a pair of boiling hot tongs clamped tight around my spine and pressing on all my nerves was left in its wake. That's the thing I want to make clear about depression: It's got nothing at all to do with life. In the course of life, there is sadness and pain and sorrow, all of which, in their right time and season, are normal -- unpleasant, but normal. Depression is an altogether different zone because it involves a complete absence: absence of affect, absence of feeling, absence of response, absence of interest. The pain you feel in the course of a major clinical depression is an attempt on nature's part (nature, after all, abhors a vacuum) to fill up the empty space. But for all intents and purposes, the deeply depressed are just the walking, waking dead. And the scariest part is that if you ask anyone in the throes of depression how he got there, to pin down the turning point, he'll never know. There is a classic moment in The Sun Also Rises when someone asks Mike Campbell how he went bankrupt, and all he can say in response is, 'Gradually and then suddenly.' When someone asks how I love my mind, that is all I can say too
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Elizabeth Wurtzel (Prozac Nation)
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Mythology is not a lie, mythology is poetry, it is metaphorical. It has been well said that mythology is the penultimate truth--penultimate because the ultimate cannot be put into words. It is beyond words. Beyond images, beyond that bounding rim of the Buddhist Wheel of Becoming. Mythology pitches the mind beyond that rim, to what can be known but not told.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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Writer’s block results from too much head. Cut off your head. Pegasus, poetry, was born of Medusa when her head was cut off. You have to be reckless when writing. Be as crazy as your conscience allows.
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Joseph Campbell (A Joseph Campbell Companion: Reflections on the Art of Living)
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We feel most alive when we are closest to death.
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Nenia Campbell (Terrorscape (Horrorscape, #3))
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You must have a room, or a certain hour or so a day, where you don’t know what was in the newspapers that morning, you don’t know who your friends are, you don’t know what you owe anybody, you don’t know what anybody owes to you. This is a place where you can simply experience and bring forth what you are and what you might be. This is the place of creative incubation. At first you may find that nothing happens there. But if you have a sacred place and use it, something eventually will happen.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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When she left, it was like someone had ripped my heart out, crumbled it up like a flimsy piece of loose leaf paper and crammed it back into my chest. It somehow managed to work, but it would never, ever feel the same.
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Steph Campbell (My Heart for Yours (Crawford, #1))
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The book is almost always better than the movie. You could have no better case in point than FROM HELL, Alan Moore's best graphic novel to date, brilliantly illustrated by Eddie Campbell. It's hard to describe just how much better the book is. It's like, "If the movie was an episode of Battlestar Galactica with a guest appearance by the Smurfs and everyone spoke Dutch, the graphic novel is Citizen Kane with added sex scenes and music by your favourite ten bands and everyone in the world you ever hated dies at the end." That's how much better it is.
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Warren Ellis
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It wasn't that she was sadβ€”sadness had very little to do with it, really, considering that most of the time, she felt close to nothing at all. Feeling required nerves, connections, sensory input. The only thing she felt was numb. And tired. Yes, she very frequently felt tired.
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Nenia Campbell (Terrorscape (Horrorscape, #3))
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You are the trip I did not take, you are the pearls I could not buy, you are my blue Italian lake, you are my piece of foreign sky. You are my Honolulu moon, you are the book I did not write, you are my heart's unuttered tune, you are a candle in my night. You are the flower beneath the snow, in my dark sky a bit of blue, answering disappointment's blow with "I am happy! I have you!
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Anne Campbell
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CUSTOMER: Hi, I just wanted to ask: did Anne Frank ever write a sequel? BOOKSELLER: ........ CUSTOMER: I really enjoyed her first book. BOOKSELLER: Her diary? CUSTOMER: Yes, the diary. BOOKSELLER: Her diary wasn’t fictional. CUSTOMER: Really? BOOKSELLER: Yes... She really dies at the end – that’s why the diary finishes. She was taken to a concentration camp. CUSTOMER: Oh... that’s terrible. BOOKSELLER: Yes, it was awful - CUSTOMER: I mean, it’s such a shame, you know? She was such a good writer.
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Jen Campbell (Weird Things Customers Say in Bookshops)
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Love is the burning point of life, and since all life is sorrowful, so is love. The stronger the love, the more the pain. Love itself is pain, you might say -the pain of being truly alive. [...] But love bears all things. [...] Love itself is pain, you might say - the pain of being truly alive.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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Just as anyone who listens to the muse will hear, you can write out of your own intention or out of inspiration. There is such a thing. It comes up and talks. And those who have heard deeply the rhythms and hymns of the gods, can recite those hymns in such a way that the gods will be attracted.
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Joseph Campbell (The Hero's Journey: Joseph Campbell on His Life & Work (Works))
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There seem to be only two kinds of people: Those who think that metaphors are facts, and those who know that they are not facts. Those who know they are not facts are what we call "atheists," and those who think they are facts are "religious." Which group really gets the message?
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Joseph Campbell (Thou Art That: Transforming Religious Metaphor)
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The agony of breaking through personal limitations is the agony of spiritual growth. Art, literature, myth and cult, philosophy, and ascetic disciplines are instruments to help the individual past his limiting horizons into spheres of ever-expanding realization. As he crosses threshold after threshold, conquering dragon after dragon, the stature of the divinity that he summons to his highest wish increases, until it subsumes the cosmos. Finally, the mind breaks the bounding sphere of the cosmos to a realization transcending all experiences of form - all symbolizations, all divinities: a realization of the ineluctable void.
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Joseph Campbell (The Hero With a Thousand Faces)
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The way to find out about happiness is to keep your mind on those moments when you feel most happy, when you are really happy β€” not excited, not just thrilled, but deeply happy. This requires a little bit of self-analysis. What is it that makes you happy? Stay with it, no matter what people tell you. This is what is called following your bliss.
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Joseph Campbell
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The usual hero adventure begins with someone from whom something has been taken, or who feels there is something lacking in the normal experience available or permitted to the members of society. The person then takes off on a series of adventures beyond the ordinary, either to recover what has been lost or to discover some life-giving elixir. It's usually a cycle, a coming and a returning.
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Joseph Campbell (The Hero With a Thousand Faces)
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Heaven and hell are within us, and all the gods are within us. This is the great realization of the Upanishads of India in the ninth Century B.C. All the gods, all the heavens, all the world, are within us. They are magnified dreams, and dreams are manifestations in image form of the energies of the body in conflict with each other. That is what myth is. Myth is a manifestation in symbolic images, in metaphorical images, of the energies of the organs of the body in conflict with each other. This organ wants this, that organ wants that. The brain is one of the organs.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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Once upon a time, there was a naΓ―ve and innocent girl who thought she could tame the beast and live happily ever after. But the beast did not want to be tamed, for he was a beast and beasts care not for such things, and the girl died along with her dreams. From childhood's grave sprang a young woman, jaded before her years, who knew that beasts could wear the skins of men, and that evil could exist in sunlight, as well as darkness. Plus Γ§a change, plus c'est la mΓͺme chose.
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Nenia Campbell (Terrorscape (Horrorscape, #3))
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I do like him. I'm sick of just liking people. I wish to God I could meet somebody I could respect.... .... Listen, don't hate me because I can't remember some person immediately. Especially when they look like everybody else, and talk and dress and act like everybody else." Franny made her voice stop. It sounded to her caviling and bitchy, and she felt a wave of self-hatred that, quite literally, made her forehead begin to perspire again. But her voice picked up again, in spite of herself. "I don't mean there's anything horrible about him or anything like that. It's just that for four solid years I've kept seeing Wally Campbells wherever I go. I know when they're going to be charming, I know when they're going to start telling you some really nasty gossip about some girl that lives in your dorm, I know when they're going to ask me what I did over the summer, I know when they're going to pull up a chair and straddle it backward and start bragging in a terribly, terribly quiet voice--or name-dropping in a terribly quiet, casual voice. There's an unwritten law that people in a certain social or financial bracket can name-drop as much as they like just as long as they say something terribly disparaging about the person as soon as they've dropped his nameβ€”that he's a bastard or a nymphomaniac or takes dope all the time, or something horrible." She broke off again. She was quiet for a moment, turning the ashtray in her fingers. Franny quickly tipped her cigarette ash, then brought the ashtray an inch closer to her side of the table. "I'm sorry. I'm awful," she said. "I've just felt so destructive all week. It's awful, I'm horrible.
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J.D. Salinger (Franny and Zooey)
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Shakespeare said that art is a mirror held up to nature. And that’s what it is. The nature is your nature, and all of these wonderful poetic images of mythology are referring to something in you. When your mind is trapped by the image out there so that you never make the reference to yourself, you have misread the image. The inner world is the world of your requirements and your energies and your structure and your possibilities that meets the outer world. And the outer world is the field of your incarnation. That’s where you are. You’ve got to keep both going. As Novalis said, 'The seat of the soul is there where the inner and outer worlds meet.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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Marriage is not a love affair. A love affair is a totally different thing. A marriage is a commitment to that which you are. That person is literally your other half. And you and the other are one. A love affair isn't that. That is a relationship for pleasure, and when it gets to be unpleasurable, it's off. But a marriage is a life commitment, and a life commitment means the prime concern of your life. If marriage is not the prime concern, you're not married....The Puritans called marriage "the little church within the Church." In marriage, every day you love, and every day you forgive. It is an ongoing sacrament – love and forgiveness.... Like the yin/yang symbol....Here I am, and here she is, and here we are. Now when I have to make a sacrifice, I'm not sacrificing to her, I'm sacrificing to the relationship. Resentment against the other one is wrongly placed. Life in in the relationship, that's where your life now is. That's what a marriage is – whereas, in a love affair, you have two lives in a more or less successful relationship to each other for a certain length of time, as long as it seems agreeable.
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Joseph Campbell (The Power of Myth)
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Nietzsche was the one who did the job for me. At a certain moment in his life,the idea came to him of what he called 'the love of your fate.' Whatever your fate is, whatever the hell happens, you say, 'This is what I need.' It may look like a wreck, but go at it as though it were an opportunity, a challenge. If you bring love to that moment--not discouragement--you will find the strength is there. Any disaster you can survive is an improvement in your character, your stature, and your life. What a privilege! This is when the spontaneity of your own nature will have a chance to flow. Then, when looking back at your life, you will see that the moments which seemed to be great failures followed by wreckage were the incidents that shaped the life you have now. You’ll see that this is really true. Nothing can happen to you that is not positive. Even though it looks and feels at the moment like a negative crisis, it is not. The crisis throws you back, and when you are required to exhibit strength, it comes.
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Joseph Campbell (A Joseph Campbell Companion: Reflections on the Art of Living)
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CUSTOMER: Which was the first Harry Potter book? BOOKSELLER: The Philosopher’s Stone. CUSTOMER: And the second? BOOKSELLER: The Chamber of Secrets. CUSTOMER: I’l take The Chamber of Secrets. I don’t want The Philosopher’s Stone. BOOKSELLER: Have you already read that one? CUSTOMER: No, but with series of books I always find they take a while to really get going. I don’t want to waste my time with the useless introductory stuff at the beginning. BOOKSELLER: The story in Harry Potter actually starts right away. Personally, I do recommend that you start with the first book – and it’s very good. CUSTOMER: Are you working on commission? BOOKSELLER: No. CUSTOMER: Right. How many books are there in total? BOOKSELLER: Seven. CUSTOMER: Exactly. I’m not going to waste my money on the first book when there are so many others to buy. I’l take the second one. BOOKSELLER: . . . If you’re sure. (One week later, the customer returns) BOOKSELLER: Hi, did you want to buy a copy of The Prisoner of Azkaban? CUSTOMER: What’s that? BOOKSELLER: It’s the book after The Chamber of Secrets. CUSTOMER: Oh, no, definitely not. I found that book far too confusing. I ask you, how on earth are children supposed to understand it if I can’t? I mean, who the heck is that Voldemort guy anyway? No. I’m not going to bother with the rest. BOOKSELLER: . . .
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Jen Campbell (Weird Things Customers Say in Bookshops)