Ayobami Adebayo Quotes

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The things that matter are inside me, locked up below my breast as though in a grave, a place of permanence, my coffin-like treasure chest.
Ayobami, Adebayo
There were no incisions on my daughter's body, no lacerations, no scars, not one single lash mark from a previous life. Still they named her Rotimi, a name that implied that she was an Abiku child who had come into the world intending to die as soon as she could. Rotimi - stay with me.
Ayobami, Adebayo
A mother must be vigilant. She must be able and willing to wake up ten times during the night to feed her baby. After her intermittent vigil, she must see everything clearly the next morning so that she can notice any changes in her baby. A mother is not permitted to have blurry vision. She must notice if her baby’s wail is too loud or too low. She must know if the child’s temperature has risen or fallen. A mother must not miss any signs.
Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀ (Stay with Me)
I did not ask questions because I did not want to know the answers. It was convenient to believe my husband was trustworthy; sometimes faith is easier than doubt.
Ayobami, Adebayo
If the burden is too much and stays too long, even love bends, cracks, comes close to breaking and sometimes does break. But even when it’s in a thousand pieces around your feet, that doesn’t mean it’s no longer love.
Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀
A good mother’s life is hard’, she said. ‘ A woman can be a bad wife but she must not be a bad mother.
Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀
This is it then - fifteen years here and, though my house is not on fire, all I'm taking is a bag of gold and a change of clothes. The things that matter are inside me, locked up below my breast as though in a grave, a place of permanence, my coffin-like treasure chest.
Ayobami, Adebayo
The world crackled in my ears, iyale - first wife. It was a verdict that marked me as not woman enough for my husband.
Ayobami, Adebayo
Every time her married a new wife, my father would tell his children that family was about having people who would look for you if you got kidnapped. He'd then add that he was doing his best to build an army just in case one of us did get kidnapped. It was a bad joke and I was the only one who ever laughed. I laughed at all his jokes.
Ayobami, Adebayo
I don’t want to eat grass and sand. You know that is what people eat when they don’t have any money
Adebayo Ayobami
Anger is easier than shame
Adebayo Ayobami
What would be left of love without truth stretched beyond its limits?
Adebayo Ayobami
Do we ever really know what we will do in any situation until the situation presents itself?
Adebayo Ayobami
Even the tongue and the teeth cannot cohabit without fighting
Adebayo Ayobami
Before you call the snail a weakling, tie your house to your back and carry it around for a week
Adebayo Ayobami
When life laughs at you, you laugh and pretend you are in on the joke
Adebayo Ayobami
Wisdom cannot become so scarce in this world to the point where we have to travel to heaven before we find some
Adebayo Ayobami