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You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.
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You should be far more concerned with your current trajectory than with your current results.
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When you fall in love with the process rather than the product, you donβt have to wait to give yourself permission to be happy. You can be satisfied anytime your system is running.
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Goals are good for setting a direction, but systems are best for making progress.
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Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement
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Problem #1: Winners and losers have the same goals.
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Be the designer of your world and not merely the consumer of it.
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Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.
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Success is the product of daily habitsβnot once-in-a-lifetime transformations.
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When you canβt win by being better, you can win by being different.
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Professionals stick to the schedule;
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When nothing seems to help, I go and look at a stonecutter hammering away at his rock, perhaps a hundred times without as much as a crack showing in it. Yet at the hundred and first blow it will split in two, and I know it was not that last blow that did itβbut all that had gone before.
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You donβt have to be the victim of your environment. You can also be the architect of it.
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Some people spend their entire lives waiting for the time to be right to make an improvement.
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All big things come from small beginnings. The seed of every habit is a single, tiny decision. But as that decision is repeated, a habit sprouts and grows stronger. Roots entrench themselves and branches grow. The task of breaking a bad habit is like uprooting a powerful oak within us. And the task of building a good habit is like cultivating a delicate flower one day at a time.
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If you want better results, then forget about setting goals. Focus on your system instead.
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The only way to become excellent is to be endlessly fascinated by doing the same thing over and over. You have to fall in love with boredom.
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In fact, the tendency for one purchase to lead to another one has a name: the Diderot Effect. The Diderot Effect states that obtaining a new possession often creates a spiral of consumption
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We imitate the habits of three groups in particular: The close. The many. The powerful.
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With outcome-based habits, the focus is on what you want to achieve. With identity-based habits, the focus is on who you wish to become.
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Your actions reveal how badly you want something. If you keep saying something is a priority but you never act on it, then you donβt really want it. Itβs time to have an honest conversation with yourself. Your actions reveal your true motivations.
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The ultimate form of intrinsic motivation is when a habit becomes part of your identity. Itβs one thing to say Iβm the type of person who wants this. Itβs something very different to say Iβm the type of person who is this.
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The purpose of setting goals is to win the game. The purpose of building systems is to continue playing the game. True long-term thinking is goal-less thinking. Itβs not about any single accomplishment. It is about the cycle of endless refinement and continuous improvement. Ultimately, it is your commitment to the process that will determine your progress.
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The greatest threat to success is not failure but boredom. We get bored with habits because they stop delighting us. The outcome becomes expected. And as our habits become ordinary, we start derailing our progress to seek novelty.
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Getting 1 percent better every day counts for a lot in the long-run.
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Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become. No single instance will transform your beliefs, but as the votes build up, so does the evidence of your new identity. This is one reason why meaningful change does not require radical change. Small habits can make a meaningful difference by providing evidence of a new identity. And if a change is meaningful, it is actually big. That's the paradox of making small improvements.
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Good habits can make rational sense, but if they conflict with your identity, you will fail to put them into action.
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The more pride you have in a particular aspect of your identity, the more motivated you will be to maintain the habits associated with it. If youβre proud of how your hair looks, youβll develop all sorts of habits to care for and maintain it. If youβre proud of the size of your biceps, youβll make sure you never skip an upper-body workout. If youβre proud of the scarves you knit, youβll be more likely to spend hours knitting each week. Once your pride gets involved, youβll fight tooth and nail to maintain your habits.
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When scientists analyze people who appear to have tremendous self-control, it turns out those individuals arenβt all that different from those who are struggling. Instead, βdisciplinedβ people are better at structuring their lives in a way that does not require heroic willpower and self-control. In other words, they spend less time in tempting situations.
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It is easy to get bogged down trying to find the optimal plan for change: the fastest way to lose weight, the best program to build muscle, the perfect idea for a side hustle. We are so focused on figuring out the best approach that we never get around to taking action. As Voltaire once wrote, βThe best is the enemy of the good.
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Over the long run, however, the real reason you fail to stick with habits is that your self-image gets in the way. This is why you can't get too attached to one version of your identity. Progress requires unlearning. Becoming the best version of yourself requires you to continuously edit your beliefs, and to upgrade and expand your identity.
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Good habits make time your ally. Bad habits make time your enemy.
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Whenever you want to change your behavior, you can simply ask yourself: How can I make it obvious? How can I make it attractive? How can I make it easy? How can I make it satisfying?
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When you fall in love with the process rather than the product, you donβt have to wait to give yourself permission to be happy.
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True long-term thinking is goal-less thinking. Itβs not about any single accomplishment. It is about the cycle of endless refinement and continuous improvement. Ultimately, it is your commitment to the process that will determine your progress.
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Your outcomes are a lagging measure of your habits. Your net worth is a lagging measure of your financial habits. Your weight is a lagging measure of your eating habits. Your knowledge is a lagging measure of your learning habits. Your clutter is a lagging measure of your cleaning habits. You get what you repeat.
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You do it because itβs who you are and it feels good to be you. The more a habit becomes part of your life, the less you need outside encouragement to follow through. Incentives can start a habit. Identity sustains a habit.
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In short: genes do not determine your destiny. They determine your areas of opportunity.
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You get what you repeat.
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Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.
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In order to improve for good, you need to solve problems at the systems level. Fix the inputs and the outputs will fix themselves.
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Once your pride gets involved, youβll fight tooth and nail to maintain your habits.
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As a general rule, the more immediate pleasure you get from an action, the more strongly you should question whether it aligns with your long-term goals.
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Habits reduce cognitive load and free up mental capacity, so you can allocate your attention to other tasks.10
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We all deal with setbacks but in the long run, the quality of our lives often depends on the quality of our habits.
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One of the best ways to build a new habit is to identify a current habit you already do each day and then stack your new behavior on top. This is called habit stacking.
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Motivation is overrated, environment often matters more.
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Anyone can work hard when they feel motivated. Itβs the ability to keep going when work isnβt exciting that makes the difference.
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What comes naturally to me? For just a moment, ignore what you have been taught. Ignore what society has told you. Ignore what others expect of you. Look inside yourself and ask, βWhat feels natural to me? When have I felt alive? When have I felt like the real me?β No internal judgments or people-pleasing. No second-guessing or self-criticism. Just feelings of engagement and enjoyment. Whenever you feel authentic and genuine, you are headed in the right direction.
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Decide the type of person you want to be. Prove it to yourself with small wins.
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A lack of self-awareness is poison. Reflection and review is the antidote.
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The road less traveled is the road of delayed gratification. If youβre willing to wait for the rewards, youβll face less competition and often get a bigger payoff. As the saying goes, the last mile is always the least crowded.
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We donβt choose our earliest habits, we imitate them.
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Too often, we fall into an all-or-nothing cycle with our habits. The problem is not slipping up; the problem is thinking that if you can't do something perfectly, then you shouldn't do it at all.
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Complaining about not achieving success despite working hard is like complaining about an ice cube not melting when you heated it from twenty-five to thirty-one degrees. Your work was not wasted; it is just being stored. All the action happens at thirty-two degrees.
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The purpose of setting goals is to win the game. The purpose of building systems is to continue playing the game.
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Your culture sets your expectation for what is βnormal.β Surround yourself with people who have the habits you want to have yourself.
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This is why remaining part of a group after achieving a goal is crucial to maintaining your habits. Itβs friendship and community that embed a new identity and help behaviors last over the long run.
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You donβt have to build the habits everyone tells you to build. Choose the habit that best suits you, not the one that is most popular.
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The Goldilocks Rule states that humans experience peak motivation when working on tasks that are right on the edge of their current abilities. Not too hard. Not too easy. Just right.
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The implicit assumption behind any goal is this: βOnce I reach my goal, then Iβll be happy.β The problem with a goals-first mentality is that youβre continually putting happiness off until the next milestone.
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Becoming the best version of yourself requires you to continuously edit your beliefs, and to upgrade and expand your identity.
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Small changes often appear to make no difference until you cross a critical threshold. The most powerful outcomes of any compounding process are delayed. You need to be patient.
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A very small shift in direction can lead to a very meaningful change in destination
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This is the meaning of the phrase atomic habitsβa regular practice or routine that is not only small and easy to do, but also the source of incredible power; a component of the system of compound growth.
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Habits are like the atoms of our lives. Each one is a fundamental unit that contributes to your overall improvement.
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Put another way, the costs of your good habits are in the present. The costs of your bad habits are in the future.
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Itβs hard to change your habits if you never change the underlying beliefs that led to your past behavior. You have a new goal and a new plan, but you havenβt changed who you are.
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We rarely think about change this way because everyone is consumed by the end goal. But one push-up is better than not exercising. One minute of guitar practice is better than none at all. One minute of reading is better than never picking up a book. Itβs better to do less than you hoped than to do nothing at all.
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The first mistake is never the one that ruins you. Itβs the spiral of repeated mistakes that follows.
The problem is not slipping up; the problem is thinking that if you can not do something perfectly, then you shouldnβt do it at all...
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Emotions drive behavior. Every decision is an emotional decision at some level. Whatever your logical reasons are for taking action, you only feel compelled to act on them because of emotion. In fact, people with damage to emotional centers of the brain can list many reasons for taking action but still will not act because they do not have emotions to drive them. This is why craving comes before response. The feeling comes first, and then the behavior.
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Being specific about what you want and how you will achieve it helps you say no to things that derail progress, distract your attention, and pull you off course
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A genius is not born, but is educated and trained.
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When preparation becomes a form of procrastination, you need to change something. You donβt want to merely be planning. You want to be practicing.
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Happiness is simply the absence of desire. When you observe a cue, but do not desire to change your state, you are content with the current situation. Happiness is not about the achievement of pleasure (which is joy or satisfaction), but about the lack of desire. It arrives when you have no urge to feel differently. Happiness is the state you enter when you no longer want to change your state.
However, happiness is fleeting because a new desire always comes along. As Caed Budris says, βHappiness is the space between one desire being fulfilled and a new desire forming." Likewise, suffering is the space between craving a change in state and getting it.
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Each book you read not only teaches you something new, but also opens up different ways of thinking about old ideas. As Warren Buffet says 'That's how knowledge works. It builds up, like compound interest'.
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Meanwhile, improving by 1 percent isnβt particularly notableβsometimes it isnβt even noticeableβbut it can be far more meaningful, especially in the long run. The difference a tiny improvement can make over time is astounding. Hereβs how the math works out: if you can get 1 percent better each day for one year, youβll end up thirty-seven times better by the time youβre done. Conversely, if you get 1 percent worse each day for one year, youβll decline nearly down to zero. What starts as a small win or a minor setback accumulates into something much more.
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perseverance, grit, and willpower are essential to success, but the way to improve these qualities is not by wishing you were a more disciplined person, but by creating a more disciplined environment.
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True behavior change is identity change. You might start a habit because of motivation, but the only reason youβll stick with one is that it becomes part of your identity.
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Bamboo can barely be seen for the first five years as it builds extensive root systems underground before exploding ninety feet into the air within six weeks.
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Does this behavior help me become the type of person I wish to be? Does this habit cast a vote for or against my desired identity?β Habits that reinforce your desired identity are usually good. Habits that conflict with your desired identity are usually bad.
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Missing once is an accident. Missing twice is the start of a new habit. This is a distinguishing feature between winners and losers. Anyone can have a bad performance, a bad workout, or a bad day at work. But when successful people fail, they rebound quickly. The breaking of a habit doesnβt matter if the reclaiming of it is fast. I think this principle is so important that Iβll stick to it even if I canβt do a habit as well or as completely as I would like. Too often, we fall into an all-or-nothing cycle with our habits. The problem is not slipping up; the problem is thinking that if you canβt do something perfectly, then you shouldnβt do it at all.
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Every habit produces multiple outcomes across time. Unfortunately, these outcomes are often misaligned. With our bad habits, the immediate outcome usually feels good, but the ultimate outcome feels bad. With good habits, it is the reverse: the immediate outcome is unenjoyable, but the ultimate outcome feels good.
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I once heard a story about a man who uses a wheelchair. When asked if it was difficult being confined, he responded, βIβm not confined to my wheelchairβI am liberated by it. If it wasnβt for my wheelchair, I would be bed-bound and never able to leave my house.β This shift in perspective completely transformed how he lived each day.
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At some point, everyone faces the same challenge on the journey of self-improvement: you have to fall in love with boredom.
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Men are born soft and supple; dead, they are stiff and hard. Plants are born tender and pliant; dead, they are brittle and dry. Thus whoever is stiff and inflexible is a disciple of death. Whoever is soft and yielding is a disciple of life. The hard and stiff will be broken. The soft and supple will prevail. βLAO TZU
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Focus on whether you are fulfilling your own potential than comparing yourself to someone else. The fact that you have a natural limit to any specific ability has nothing too do with whether you are reaching the ceiling of your capabilities. People get so caught up in the fact that they have limits that they rarely exert the effort required to get close to them.
Genes can not make you successful if youβre not doing the work. Until you work as hard as those you admire, donβt explain away their success as luck.
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The work that hurts you less than it hurts others is the work you were made to do.
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It is so easy to overestimate the importance of one defining moment and underestimate the value of making small improvements on a daily basis.
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If youβre having trouble changing your habits, the problem isnβt you. The problem is your system. Bad habits repeat themselves again and again not because you donβt want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change. You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.23
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Negative thoughts compound. The more you think of yourself as worthless, stupid, or ugly, the more you condition yourself to interpret life that way. You get trapped in a thought loop. The same is true for how you think about others. Once you fall into the habit of seeing people as angry, unjust, or selfish, you see those kind of people everywhere.
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Suffering drives progress.- The source of all suffering is the desire for a change in state. This is also the source of all progress. The desire to change your state is what powers you to take action.
With craving, we are dissatisfied but driven. Without craving, we are satisfied but lack ambition.
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Breakthrough moments are often the result of many previous actions, which build up the potential required to unleash a major change. This pattern shows up everywhere. Cancer spends 80 percent of its life undetectable, then takes over the body in months. Bamboo can barely be seen for the first five years as it builds extensive root systems underground before exploding ninety feet into the air within six weeks. Similarly, habits often appear to make no difference until you cross a critical threshold and unlock a new level of performance. In the early and middle stages of any quest, there is often a Valley of Disappointment. You expect to make progress in a linear fashion and itβs frustrating how ineffective changes can seem during the first days, weeks, and even months. It doesnβt feel like you are going anywhere. Itβs a hallmark of any compounding process: the most powerful outcomes
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When scientists analyze people who appear to have tremendous self-control, it turns out those individuals aren't all that different from those who are struggling. Instead, 'disciplined' people are better at structuring their lives in a way that does not require heroic willpower and self-control. In other words, they spend less time in tempting situations. The people with the best self-control are typically the ones who need to use it the least. It's easier to practice self-restraint when you don't have to use it very often.
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Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement. The same way that money multiplies through compound interest, the effects of your habits multiply as you repeat them. They seem to make little difference on any given day and yet the impact they deliver over the months and years can be enormous. It is only when looking back two, five, or perhaps ten years later that the value of good habits and the cost of bad ones becomes strikingly apparent.
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Peace occurs when you donβt turn your observations into problems. The first step in any behavior is observation. You notice a cue, a it of information, an event. If you do not desire to act on what you observe , then you are at peace.
Craving is about wanting to fix everything. Observation without craving is the realization that you do not need to fix anything. Your desires are not running rampant. You do not crave a change in state. Your mind does not generate a problem for you to solve.
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When you can't win by being better, you can win by being different. By combining your skills, you reduce the level of competition, which makes it easier to stand out. You can shortcut the need for a genetic advantage (or for years of practice) by rewriting the rules. A good player works hard to win the game everyone else is playing. A great player creates a new game that favors their strengths and avoids their weaknesses.
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Problem #3: Goals restrict your happiness. The implicit assumption behind any goal is this: βOnce I reach my goal, then Iβll be happy.β The problem with a goals-first mentality is that youβre continually putting happiness off until the next milestone. Iβve slipped into this trap so many times Iβve lost count. For years, happiness was always something for my future self to enjoy. I promised myself that once I gained twenty pounds of muscle or after my business was featured in the New York Times, then I could finally relax. Furthermore, goals create an βeither-orβ conflict: either you achieve your goal and are successful or you fail and you are a disappointment. You mentally box yourself into a narrow version of happiness. This is misguided. It is unlikely that your actual path through life will match the exact journey you had in mind when you set out. It makes no sense to restrict your satisfaction to one scenario when there are many paths to success. A systems-first mentality provides the antidote. When you fall in love with the process rather than the product, you donβt have to wait to give yourself permission to be happy. You can be satisfied anytime your system is running. And a system can be successful in many different forms, not just the one you first envision.
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James Clear (Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones)