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Self-talk reflects your innermost feelings.
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All children should be taught to unconditionally accept, approve, admire, appreciate, forgive, trust, and ultimately, love their own person.
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Trauma does not have to occur by abuse alone...
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Childhood trauma does not come in one single package.
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Boundaries are, in simple terms, the recognition of personal space.
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Children are barometers of the chaos that exists within their lives.
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Forgiveness must be initiated before life can begin.
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Personal responsibility is the willingness to completely accept choices that we have made throughout our life.
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Challenge the negative by focusing on the positive of life.
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Resiliency is the essence of a global positive framework...
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Life is a combination of our positive and negative choices.
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Our human quest is to survive; our spiritual quest is to unite.
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Change: How much do you want it? Change: How much do you need it?
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If you wait to live you will never succeed. Living begins today and it begins within you.
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Pure happiness and peace are at their peak when your body is in harmony with itself.
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Remind children that their successes and failures are not representations of their worth.
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Blame and shame are simply mind games.
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Resiliency is not gender-, age-, or intellectually specific...
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Shame and blame should have no place in our body, mind, or spirit.
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Your core beliefs are the central part of your internal belief system.
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Secure attachment has been linked to a child's ability to successfully recover and prove resilient in the presence of a traumatic event.
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I, too, have made many mistakes, but one valuable lesson that I have learned is that we cannot allow our mistakes to become our identity.
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Be clear with your desires.
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Our perceptions are influenced by our surroundings.
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Life is a purposeful action.
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Your spiritual mind is greater than your physical mind.
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Responsibility is the admission that you have a role in this game called life.
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Love is a sacrificial item
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Flow is the ability to be so focused that all of life's obstacles seemingly and smoothly pass you by.
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Be motivated. No one else can achieve or receive the merits of happiness on your behalf.
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Be you. It is important that you allow your spiritual being to shine through each request and moment...
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Perfectionists are not all negative, miserable, unhappy and over controlling individuals
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Do not own negative self-talk.
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Sadly, we give little thought or consideration to the messages that we entertain.
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Be attentive, paying close attention to your internal and external needs.
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Allow yourself to be an anchor and anchored by others.
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Be engaged; attract that which you desire.
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Trauma can have a masking effect.
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For far too long, the female gender has been plagued with stereotypes, typecasting, as well as, subtle and blatant discrimination.
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Discipline is a vital aspect of growth, but of equal importance is praise.
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Traumatic experiences in early childhood may interfere with the child's ability to securely attach.
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Are you living in the moment?
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Children are sponges, soaking up every verbal and nonverbal interaction.
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Do not forget that children are like rainbows; they come in an array of personalities, levels of resiliency, and a variety of temperaments.
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The mind of a child is a precious thing.
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Are you seeking to be offended?
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Worldview is often confused with perception; rather, it is our perception that influences our worldview.
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Reading is a source of liberation.
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Love is abundant, and it is free.
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Praise, Praise, Praise a child for the good they commit and the wrongs they rectify.
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Teachers often fail students by complimenting the successful students and ignoring those who do not prove as successful. Teachers need to embrace and praise all children.
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Smiling can lift one's spirits, and moreover, make a difference in each life you encounter.
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We should be sensitive to the culture with which we live.
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Resiliency is the body's internal response to a stressful situation.
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The key to healthy communication is having a willingness to lay aside our defensive tendencies and accept responsibility for our part of the relationship
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Remember at the end of the day, homework will fade, teachers will retire, but a minute of acceptance can inspire.
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A truly healthy life is comprised of our entire being.
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Children want to feel as though their life matters.
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Healthy communication and an unconditional environment can prove the greatest asset to defeating at-risk behaviors.
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Fatherhood is the greatest education a man can ever receive.
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As fathers, we should have a desire to be active participants in our childrenβs lives.
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Children should be witnesses of parental affection.
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Failure is no more than a mere challenge begging us to be better.
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Successful people are inspired people; they are unwilling to accept the βstatus quo.
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What is an unconditional state?
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...at the end of the day, homework will fade, teachers will retire, but a minute of acceptance can inspire.
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I flip a cognitive coin while reading Dr. Briggs' take on life, theology, science, and the conception of human life.
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Reading is a source of liberation. Children who are taught to read early on, are commonly taught to communicate in other significant verbal and nonverbal ways.
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People often have images of what they are seeking when they enter a relationship.
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The benefits of smiling are limitless.
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A smile can reassure another, provide comfort to uncomfortable situations, and display personal self-confidence for all to see.
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I cannot be forced to love someone.
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The loss of my child broke my spirit.
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There is no greater grief, than when a parent losses a child.
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As a good parent or teacher, we should teach our children that failure is an opportunity for improvement and growth, rather than a blockade deterring us from our greatest potential.
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Domestic violence is any behavior involving physical, psychological, emotional, sexual or verbal abuse. It is any form of aggression intended to hurt, damage, or kill an intimate person.
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Failure is good, failure is necessary, failure stimulates a desire for success.
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Without failure, we could not relish in the achievement of our successes.
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What are the messages that you are entertaining?
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The importance of failure is that it reminds us that we can do better, be better, and achieve more
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Perfectionism is adaptive if you are mindful of your humanhood.
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Love is an unconditional state of being.
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Homelessness is not a choice, but rather a journey that many find themselves in.
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Toxic relationships are like a good pasta that has been overcooked.
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A child's dreams should never be discounted, rather uplifted to the stars
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The process of grieving any loss is dependent upon your relationship to the person.
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There is no debating that the effects of trauma experienced in childhood may have grave consequences.
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Abuse may consist of physical maltreatment or language that is belittling, discriminatory...
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Attachments that are not fostered may lend to the child's inability to properly attach or have no attachment at all.
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Attachment. A secure attachment is the ability to bond; to develop a secure and safe base; an unbreakable or perceivable inability to shatter to bond between primary parental caregiver(s) and child; a quest for familiarity; an unspoken language and knowledge that a caregiver will be a permanent fixture.
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Failure is not your identity.
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There is a reason fairy tales most commonly end with happy endings. It is because nobody wants to face the realization of human depravity.
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Human trafficking is not only an injustice to the victim, but it is an injustice unto the families and friends of that victim.
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Reflective listening reinforces that you have been actively listening.
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Perception and worldview are one's summary of life.
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Communication is an art form that is crafted throughout our lives.
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A child's temperament appears to play another significant role in the child's own perceptions and worldview.
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The loss of a child exploits the emotions of each individual it encounters.
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A life lived without forgiveness is a life lived in the past.
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In simple, the past is a time gone by and no longer exists in the present moment, but we choose to allow this past to occupy our minds, our bodies and our very existence.
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