Yung Pueblo Quotes

i cannot make you happy, but i can commit to support you in the creation of your own happiness

before i could release the weight of my sadness and pain, i first had to honor its existence.

taking a moment to figure out how you really feel instead of letting old patterns decide for you is one of the most authentic things you can do

i do not wish to change the past it made me who i am today i only want to learn from it and live in a new way

i want a love that doesn't break one that gives me water when i am consumed by fire one that offers me shelter when i am lose one that helps me see that the hero i am looking for is me

a real sign of progress is when we no longer punish ourselves for our imperfections

i closed my eyes to look inward and found a universe waiting to be explored

a hero is one who heals their own wounds and then shows others how to do the same

i can only give to you what i have already given to myself i can only understand the world as much as i understand myself

don't run away from heavy emotions honor the anger; give pain the space it needs to breathe this is how we let go

if you measure the length of your ego, it will equal the distance between you and your freedom if you are far away from yourself, how could you ever be close to another?

true power is living the realization that you are your own healer, hero, and leader. it is when you share your truth with compassion and peace. your power grows when you make progress in your own freedom and wisdom. those who are truly powerful do not harm themselves or others; instead, they use their energy to enrich all they know with love.

you have walked through fire survived floods and triumphed over demons remember this the next time you doubt your own power

Do not forget To send your love Into the earth Into the water Into the sky

the goal is not to heal and then begin your life the goal is to embrace healing as a life long journey and allow genuine connections to emerge organically along the way.

gratitude makes you happy attachment makes you struggle gentleness reveals inner wisdom harshness reveals inner turbulence calmness supports good decisions solitude supports transformation

time does not heal all wounds; it just gives them space to sink into the subconscious, where they will continue to impact your emotions and behavior. what heals is going inward, loving yourself, accepting yourself, listening to your needs, addressing your attachments and emotional history, learning how to let go, and following your intuition.

throw away the idea that healing is forgetting the real result is no longer reacting to old triggers with the same intensity as before the memories are still there, but they do not have the same power over your mind

self-love is a sincere acceptance of the past an agreement to make the most of the present and a willingness to allow the best to occur in the future

i kept running away from my darkness until i understood that in it i would find my freedom

reminder: a sign of growth is being okay with not being okay

you were born to create let it flow

being okay with not being okay helps you let go

your vibration is always shining and affecting your environment.

ask yourself: is the connection real if there is no space to be vulnerable?

sometimes growth hurts, but it is the type of pain that is easier to endure because it is helping us come forward as a better version of ourselves.

your growth in the midst of a big leap forward; hold steady and allow yourself to bloom.

the most widespread affliction that people suffer from is a lack of belief in their own power to be so broken to have fallen so deeply that the only thing you can do is rise into a new you

letting go is medicine that heals the heart letting go is a habit that requires practice letting go is best done through feeling, not thinking

sometimes deeper mental clarity is preceded by great internal storms healing yourself can be messy seeing yourself through honesty can be jarring and tough; it can even temporarily cause imbalance in your life it is hard work to open yourself up to release your burdens like removing thorns from your body, it may hurt at first, but it is ultimately for your highest good the dark clouds of rainfall are necessary for new growth.

sometimes people are simply meant to teach you how not to act in the future

if existing takes every ounce of your energy, then that alone is heroic work

maturity is knowing that when your mood is down you should not trust the way you see yourself

ask yourself: is this how i actually feel, or is this my emotional history trying to recreate the past?

real love began when we both stopped expecting and instead focused on giving

make sure the walls you build to protect yourself do not become a prison

much of my confusion and sadness came from being disconnected from myself. the greatest journey i have taken so far is the one where i ended the alienation between me and all that i am, the once where i connected my light and my darkness, where i united what i wanted to know with what i did not want to face. only through this union and truthfulness did i begin to feel at home within my own being.

many of our emotional reactions do not have to do with what is currently going on. they are actually old emotions accumulated from the past—patterns that arise when familiar situations appear.

we feel so safe with the ones we love that we often share with them our tension, our stress, our fear, our sadness, and even our anger but let us remember to also give them the best version of ourselves, our joy and happiness, our excitement and peace, our attention and care

do not confuse self-love with thinking that you’re better than everyone else true self-love is accepting yourself for all that you are, especially the darkest parts

maturity in a relationship is not expecting to always be on the same schedule.

your initial reaction is usually your past trying to impose itself on your present

The real you is not your initial reaction. The real you is your response that comes after your reaction. The real you is the one who can weave out of the grasp of the past and produce an authentic response that is based in the present.

is easier to let go of someone’s opinion of you when you understand that others see you through a combination of their past conditioning and their current emotional state without realizing it, they see themselves first, and through that lens they get an unclear picture of you

sometimes a person ends a good relationship because the areas they think are bad are being intensified by their personal issues that they have not dealt with properly. sometimes people break apart a home because they are unaware of their projections and are not ready to appreciate a good thing.

one of the clearest signs of personal growth is greater self-love, self-awareness, and love for all people.

sometimes you need to move slowly so you can then move powerfully

three things make life harder: not loving yourself refusing to grow not letting go

we never wanted to argue, but it kept happening because that is what hearts do when they are overflowing with old pain

i got lost while trying to survive

Building the foundation for a better life starts with what is happening in your mind.

i am not fully healed i am not fully wise i am still on my way what matters is that i am still moving forward

a real sign of progress is when we no longer punish ourselves for our imperfections

ask yourself: is this worry real or is my mind just looking for something to grab onto?

If you spent more time observing than reacting, you would start to notice how the absence of reaction also means the absence of tension. The absence of reaction is essentially a profound ability to let go.

feeling emotionally exhausted is common after opening up deeply or after experiencing a series of heightened emotions for an extended period of time. be prepared to take the quiet time and solitude you need to fully rejuventate. you are allowed to not be serious all of the time.

six signs of maturity: being open to vulnerability, learning, and letting go seeing more perspectives than just your own accepting responsibility for your happiness prioritizing practices that help you grow pausing to think instead of reacting

to expect another to resolve all of our issues and give us the happiness we desire is to expect to see the sunrise without opening our own eyes. it is to ask a river to give us nourishment without dipping our own hands into the water. another cannot answer a riddle that was only ever meant for our own minds to solve. the universe seeks to enlighten and empower us, thus it is only rational that we are our own greatest healers.

freedom is happening every moment when we are not craving something more.

emotional maturity is knowing the difference between your true needs and temporary cravings

It is to everyone's benefit to build a more compassionate world, because when fewer people are hurting, everyone is safer and there is more victory, celebration, and joy.

In a society based on speed and productivity, moving slowly is a radical act.

Letting go is essentially a profound acceptance of the present moment.

ask yourself often: am i observing the situation accurately or am i projecting how i feel onto what is happening?

next time you feel agitated because you are falling back into past patterns, remember that simply being aware that you are repeating the past is a sign of progress

It is easier to step away from an argument and remain calm when you realize they are not picking a fight with you. They are actually fighting themselves.

it is easy to get lost in the infinite space of hypotheticals instead of focusing too much on what if ground yourself in what is

reminder: you can love people and simultaneously not allow them to harm you

sometimes deeper mental clarity is preceded by great internal storms

you cannot build a deep connection with someone who is disconnected from themselves.

as our self-awareness deepens, we begin to understand that much of who we are and how we see the world is formed through the accumulation of past emotional reactions.

self-awareness combined with action opens the door to real change.

Embracing change is the path to alleviating and eventually eradicating suffering.

Self-love is a vehicle we use to travel through our own inner universe.

Love is freedom, while attachment is control.

As you become less of a mystery to yourself, you can start to look at other people with a greater sense of clarity and compassion.

to solely attempt to love others without first loving yourself is to build a home without a strong foundation

as she looked into her past, she noticed that the road she had traveled was no simple straight line. her journey toward fully loving herself and the world was full of forward and backward movement, twists, turns, detours, and even some pauses. at times, she doubted her progress, her potential, and even her power to change. but today, with the wisdom of experience at hand, she knows she could not have gotten to where she is without every movement she has ever made. (experience)

i want a love that doesn’t break one that gives me water when i am consumed by fire one that offers me shelter when i am lost one that helps me see that the hero i am looking for is me (partners)

you do not need a partner to feel whole you do not need to have everything figured out to feel successful you do not need to be fully healed to feel peace you do not need to be fully wise to feel happy embracing yourself as you are reinforces your worth and decreases the friction in your mind

then came the day when i looked into a mirror and saw ten thousand faces; in that moment i understood that my body not only holds a multitude of stories but that i also exist in many places and many times at once

sometimes we feel like exploding— not because of anything or to hurt anyone but simply because we are growing, releasing, letting the old parts die, so that new habits, new ways of being, have space to live (shedding)

find a partner who is not afraid to grow. if they are ready to notice their patterns, let go of old conditioning, and expand their perspective, then they will be ready to support a vibrant relationship. two people who are working on knowing and loving themselves as individuals will naturally deepen their love and understanding of each other.

happiness is not fulfilling every pleasure or getting every outcome you desire. happiness is being able to enjoy life with a peaceful mind that is not constantly craving more. it is the inner peace that comes with embracing change.

your immediate reaction does not tell you who you are it is how you decide to respond after the reaction that gives you real insight into how much you have grown your first reaction is your past your intentional response is your present

i spent most of my life trying to prove to myself and others that i had no pain and felt no sorrow some people hit rock bottom before they can change themselves drastically because at that distance they can best see who they really want to be

It is easier to let go of someone’s opinion when you understand that people see you through a combination of their past conditioning plus their current emotion. Without realizing it, they see themselves first and through that lens they get an unclear picture of you.

the magic happens once you accept that you can’t regulate others’ emotions or experiences that’s when you begin to live your most authentic life some people will not “get” you, but what matters is that you get you be kind, help others, and don’t forget to live for yourself

reclaiming your power is noticing when a story based on assumptions is making your mind tense and intentionally bringing yourself back to the present moment as a way to cut the delusion it is not about managing your emotions; it is about managing your reactions to your emotions

the happiest people, the ones who have successfully purified their minds of all conditioning and craving, tend to have such a strong compassion and understanding of love that their lives naturally focus on giving to others. in this giving and clarity of mind they find happiness.

i trust and feel at home around the ones who are not afraid to be vulnerable with themselves, who live confidently in their power and gentleness, who try their best to live without harming others, who are serious about their growth and healing, and who have the humility to say, “i do not know.

Healing does not erase the past, and the point of healing is not to forget what has happened. Old memories from hard moments may come up even after deep healing has taken place, but what shifts is how we react to them when they arise. If the intensity of the reaction is decreasing, then real progress is being made.

pick the path that lights you up the one you know deep down is the right choice stop listening to doubt start connecting with courage do not let the idea of normal get in the way it may not be the easy path but you know great things take effort lean into your determination lean into your mission lean into the real you

healing begins with acceptance and culminates in letting go. when a great misery occurs, it remains with us for as long as we hold on to it. attachments form because of the energy we use to keep what happened, or the image of what we want to happen, locked away within our mind and body—this is the cause of tension in our being.

I spent so much time creating versions of myself that were far from the truth, characters i would perform depending on who i was around layers that could hide the inner dance of turmoil, between my lack of confidence, the pain i did not understand, and the uneasiness that comes with reaching out to others for the love that i was not giving myself (before the healing)

find a partner you do not have to perform for. when you are both committed to honesty and have active compassion for each other, there is no need to behave in ways that are not genuine. true love is welcoming each other’s changing emotions with open arms. though you are both dedicated to becoming the best versions of yourselves, you also understand that not every day will be a good day and not every step will be a step forward. being in a relationship with a high degree of authenticity and gentleness allows both partners to let down their guards and feel at home.

sometimes we don’t see our hopes and expectations for the ones closest to us as conditional forms of love, because we perceive what we want for them as “good.” unknowingly, in our wanting of what is “best” for them we limit our ability to give them the finest and most powerful form of love, a selfless love that empowers them to decide for themselves what is best for their lives.

there may be times when you feel like a lot of what you’ve understood no longer makes sense. this might make you feel as though you have regressed, but it is actually a sign that you are opening new space for deeper wisdom and greater perception. when your previous understandings disintegrate, they are not always immediately replaced by better or deeper understandings. when you take your growth seriously, you will often find yourself in this in-between state; it is okay to live without clear answers. growth is not about forcing understanding; it is about allowing it

heaviness comes from hanging on tightly to emotions that were always meant to be ephemeral. it is not easy to let go, especially when all we know is attachment. we want things to last forever and we turn difficult moments into long-lasting pain simply because we have not learned to let go. we have not learned that the beauty of living comes from the movement of change. letting go does not mean that we forget, and it does not mean that we give up. it just means that we are not letting our present happiness be determined by things that happened in the past or by things we wish to happen in the future.

happiness is often confused with perfection; it is seen as a smoothness in external events where everything you like and love about life remains precisely abundant. the problem with perfection is that it is mythical; it is an imaginary pathway that, with enough time, will lead back to sorrow. being attached to perfection is not only a refusal to accept the ups and downs of reality but also a manifestation of the craving to control. life does not unfold in a straight and unbreakable line; its movements are choppy, unpredictable, more similar to waves in the ocean. and much of it is out of our control. giving external events a high degree of importance over how you feel inside will lead you far away from happiness.