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Even if you are on the right track, youβll get run over if you just sit there.
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Will Rogers
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Never miss a good chance to shut up.
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Will Rogers
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After all, Ginger Rogers did everything that Fred Astaire did. She just did it backwards and in high heels.
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Ann Richards
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Tomorrow will be better.β
βBut what if itβs not?β I asked.
βThen you say it again tomorrow. Because it might be. You never know, right? At some point, tomorrow will be better.
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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If there are no dogs in Heaven, then when I die I want to go where they went.
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Will Rogers
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When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, "Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.
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Fred Rogers
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When I say it's you I like, I'm talking about that part of you that knows that life is far more than anything you can ever see or hear or touch. That deep part of you that allows you to stand for those things without which humankind cannot survive. Love that conquers hate, peace that rises triumphant over war, and justice that proves more powerful than greed.
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Fred Rogers
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Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.
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Fred Rogers (The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember)
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The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.
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Carl R. Rogers (On Becoming a Person: A Therapist's View of Psychotherapy)
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The best discoveries always happened to the people who weren't looking for them.
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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Too many people spend money they haven't earned, to buy things they don't want, to impress people that they don't like.
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Will Rogers
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Anyone who does anything to help a child in his life is a hero to me.
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Fred Rogers
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Anything thatβs human is mentionable, and anything that is mentionable can be more manageable. When we can talk about our feelings, they become less overwhelming, less upsetting, and less scary. The people we trust with that important talk can help us know that we are not alone.
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Fred Rogers
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Part of the problem with the word 'disabilities' is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can't feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren't able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.
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Fred Rogers (The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember)
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I know, too, that death is the only god who comes when you call.
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Roger Zelazny (Frost & Fire)
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Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it inflames the great.
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Roger de Rabutin
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Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole.
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Roger A. Caras
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In times of stress, the best thing we can do for each other is to listen with our ears and our hearts and to be assured that our questions are just as important as our answers.
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Fred Rogers (The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember)
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If you could only sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to the people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.
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Fred Rogers
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Often when you think you're at the end of something, you're at the beginning of something else.
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Fred Rogers
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If you don't own a dog, at least one, there is not necessarily anything wrong with you, but there may be something wrong with your life.
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Roger A. Caras
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I like libraries. It makes me feel comfortable and secure to have walls of words, beautiful and wise, all around me. I always feel better when I can see that there is something to hold back the shadows.
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Roger Zelazny (Nine Princes in Amber (The Chronicles of Amber, #1))
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There are two novels that can change a bookish fourteen-year oldβs life:
The Lord of the Rings
and Atlas Shrugged. One is a childish fantasy that often engenders a lifelong obsession with its unbelievable heroes, leading to an emotionally stunted, socially crippled adulthood, unable to deal with the real world. The other, of course, involves orcs."
[Kung Fu Monkey -- Ephemera, blog post, March 19, 2009]
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John Rogers
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We live in a world in which we need to share responsibility. It's easy to say "It's not my child, not my community, not my world, not my problem." Then there are those who see the need and respond. I consider those people my heroes.
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Fred Rogers
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People are just as wonderful as sunsets if you let them be. When I look at a sunset, I don't find myself saying, "Soften the orange a bit on the right hand corner." I don't try to control a sunset. I watch with awe as it unfolds.
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Carl R. Rogers (A Way of Being)
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You rarely have time for everything you want in this life, so you need to make choices. And hopefully your choices can come from a deep sense of who you are.
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Fred Rogers
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The truth, however ugly in itself, is always curious and beautiful to seekers after it.
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Agatha Christie (The Murder of Roger Ackroyd (Hercule Poirot, #4))
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Saying good-bye is basically an invitation not to see a person again. It's making it okay for that to be the last conversation you have. So if you don't say it--if you leave the conversation open--it means you'll have to see them again." ~Roger Sullivan
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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The greatest gift you ever give is your honest self.
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Fred Rogers
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Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other's achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.
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Fred Rogers (The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember)
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I hope you're proud of yourself for the times you've said "yes," when all it meant was extra work for you and was seemingly helpful only to someone else.
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Fred Rogers (The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember)
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Some people walk in the rain, others just get wet.
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Roger Miller
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Dogs have given us their absolute all. We are the center of their universe. We are the focus of their love and faith and trust. They serve us in return for scraps. It is without a doubt the best deal man has ever made.
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Roger A. Caras
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Itβs not about the destination. Itβs getting there thatβs the good part.
- Leonard
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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If there is a book you want to read but isn`t written yet,write it.
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Shel Silverstein (Roger Was a Razor Fish, and Other Poems)
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There are three kinds of men. The ones that learn by readinβ. The few who learn by observation.
The rest of them have to pee on the electric fence for themselves.
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Will Rogers
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I'd found out that if you pushed people away hard enough, they tended to go.
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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The connections we make in the course of a life--maybe that's what heaven is.
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Fred Rogers
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Nobody steals books but your friends.
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Roger Zelazny (The Guns of Avalon (The Chronicles of Amber, #2))
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The only person who is educated is the one who has learned how to learn and change.
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Carl R. Rogers
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Everything is funny as long as it is happening to somebody else.
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Will Rogers
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Inherited Will, The Destiny of the Age, and The Dreams of the People. As long as people continue to pursue the meaning of Freedom, these things will never cease to be!" - Gol D. Roger
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Eiichiro Oda
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There are three ways to ultimate success:
The first way is to be kind.
The second way is to be kind.
The third way is to be kind.
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Fred Rogers
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Catholics don't believe in divorce. We do believe in murder. There's always Confession, after all.
--Brianna Fraser to Roger MacKenzie
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Diana Gabaldon (An Echo in the Bone (Outlander, #7))
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The child is in me still and sometimes not so still.
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Fred Rogers (The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember)
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Whether we're a preschooler or a young teen, a graduating college senior or a retired person, we human beings all want to know that we're acceptable, that our being alive somehow makes a difference in the lives of others.
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Fred Rogers (The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember)
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Who we are in the present includes who we were in the past.
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Fred Rogers (Life's Journeys According to Mister Rogers: Things to Remember Along the Way)
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There are two theories to arguing with a woman. Neither works.
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Will Rogers
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What is most personal is most universal.
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Carl R. Rogers (On Becoming a Person: A Therapist's View of Psychotherapy)
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We need to help people to discover the true meaning of love. Love is generally confused with dependence. Those of us who have grown in true love know that we can love only in proportion to our capacity for independence.
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Fred Rogers (The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember)
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Why not go out on a limb? Isnβt that where the fruit is?
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Frank Scully
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Amelia Bedelia," said Mrs. Rogers,
"Christmas is just around the corner."
"It is?" said Amelia Bedelia. "Which corner?"
Mrs. Rogers lauhged and said,
"I mean tomorrow is Christmas Day."
"I know that," said Amelia Bedelia.
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Peggy Parish (Merry Christmas, Amelia Bedelia)
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A writer who says that there are no truths, or that all truth is βmerely relative,β is asking you not to believe him. So donβt.
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Roger Scruton (Modern Philosophy: An Introduction and Survey)
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All I know is just what I read in the papers, and that's an alibi for my ignorance.
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Will Rogers
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Love and trust, in the space between whatβs said and whatβs heard in our life, can make all the difference in the world.
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Fred Rogers
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Ad astra per aspera, to the stars through adversity
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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Forgiveness is a strange thing. It can sometimes be easier to forgive our enemies than our friends. It can be hardest of all to forgive people we love. Like all of life's important coping skills, the ability to forgive and the capacity to let go of resentments most likely take root very early in our lives.
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You've got to have pride in your home. You are where you're from. Otherwise, you're always going to be lost.
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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If you like everything, thatβs basically just saying that you donβt really like anything.
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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Thus the expert in battle moves the enemy, and is not moved by him.
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Sun Tzu (The Art of War)
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Don't wake me for the end of the world unless it has very good special effects.
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Roger Zelazny (Prince of Chaos (The Chronicles of Amber, #10))
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It's not what a movie is about, it's how it is about it.
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Roger Ebert
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No word matters. But man forgets reality and remembers words.
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Roger Zelazny (Lord of Light)
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It is completely unimportant. That is why it is so interesting.
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Agatha Christie (The Murder of Roger Ackroyd (Hercule Poirot, #4))
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We canβt know whatβs going to happen. We can just try to figure it out as we go along.
- Roger Sullivan
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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Rumor travels faster, but it don't stay put as long as truth.
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Will Rogers
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Being challenged in life is inevitable, being defeated is optional.
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Roger Crawford
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Discovering the truth about ourselves is a lifetimeβs work, but itβs worth the effort.
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Fred Rogers
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I never met a man that I didn't like.
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Will Rogers
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It's very dramatic when two people come together to work something out. It's easy to take a gun and annihilate your opposition, but what is really exciting to me is to see people with differing views come together and finally respect each other.
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Fred Rogers (The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember)
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Roger: "God, I've been wanting to do that for a long time."
Amy: "Really"
Roger: "Oh yes. Since Kansas. At least.
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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Iβd found out that when youβre never going to see someone again, itβs not the good-bye that matters. What matters is that youβre never going to be able to say anything else to them, and youβre left with an eternal unfinished conversation.
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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The kingdom of God is for the broken hearted
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Fred Rogers
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...You can do something extraordinary, and something that a lot of people can't do. And if you have the opportunity to work on your gifts, it seems like a crime not to. I mean, it's just weakness to quit because something becomes too hard...
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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Don't let yesterday take up too much of today
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Will Rogers
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Life is for service.
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Fred Rogers (Life's Journeys According to Mister Rogers: Things to Remember Along the Way)
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The road to success is dotted with many tempting parking spaces.
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Will Rogers
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I believe empathy is the most essential quality of civilization.
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Roger Ebert
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The thing I remember best about successful people I've met all through the years is their obvious delight in what they're doing and it seems to have very little to do with worldly success. They just love what they're doing, and they love it in front of others.
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Fred Rogers (The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember)
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What I am is good enough if I would only be it openly.
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Carl R. Rogers
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Little by little we human beings are confronted with situations that give us more and more clues that we are not perfect.
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Fred Rogers
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Common sense ain't common.
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Will Rogers
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Roger, he has a chain saw," I hissed. "I am not going to die in Kentucky!
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?
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Carl R. Rogers
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Everyone is ignorant, only on different subjects.
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Will Rogers
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Right, then, mate, terribly sorry for my unspeakable rudeness, and I do beg your pardon. I can only say that it was caused by my natural affront to the notion of her as my sister. Since I'll be shagging her tonight, you can imagine how I'd be distressed at the thought of rogering my sibling"
"You shmuck! The only thing you'll be shagging tonight is yourself!"
"You wanted sincerity, well, luv, I was sincere.
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Jeaniene Frost (Halfway to the Grave (Night Huntress, #1))
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In the external scheme of things, shining moments are as brief as the twinkling of an eye, yet such twinklings are what eternity is made of -- moments when we human beings can say "I love you," "I'm proud of you," "I forgive you," "I'm grateful for you." That's what eternity is made of: invisible imperishable good stuff.
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Fred Rogers (The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember)
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a person is a fluid process, not a fixed and static entity; a flowing river of change, not a block of solid material; a continually changing constellation of potentialities, not a fixed quantity of traits.
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Carl R. Rogers (On Becoming A Person: A Therapist's View of Psychotherapy)
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The best discoveries always happened to the people who weren't looking for it. Columbus and America. Pinzon, who stumbled on Brazil while looking for the West Indies. Stanley happening on Victoria Falls. And you. Amy Curry, when I was least expecting her.
-Roger Sullivan
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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And sometimes,β she added, in slightly hushed tones, like she was letting me in on a secret, βif you donβt feel great on the inside, just look great on the outside, and after a while you wonβt be able to tell the difference.β (Bronwyn)
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Morgan Matson (Amy & Roger's Epic Detour)
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When we treat children's play as seriously as it deserves, we are helping them feel the joy that's to be found in the creative spirit. It's the things we play with and the people who help us play that make a great difference in our lives.
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Fred Rogers
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The door opened.
"We're here," said Mrs. Rogers.
Aunt Myra came in.
"Now!" said Amelia Bedelia.
"Greetings, greetings, greetings,"
said the three children.
"What's that about?" said Mrs. Rogers.
"You said to greet Aunt Myra with Carols," said Amelia Bedelia.
"Here's Carol Lee, Carol Green, and Carol Lake."
"What lovely Carols," said Aunt Myra.
"Thank you.
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Peggy Parish (Merry Christmas, Amelia Bedelia)
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No matter how old you are now. You are never too young or too old for success or going after what you want. Hereβs a short list of people who accomplished great things at different ages
1) Helen Keller, at the age of 19 months, became deaf and blind. But that didnβt stop her. She was the first deaf and blind person to earn a Bachelor of Arts degree.
2) Mozart was already competent on keyboard and violin; he composed from the age of 5.
3) Shirley Temple was 6 when she became a movie star on βBright Eyes.β
4) Anne Frank was 12 when she wrote the diary of Anne Frank.
5) Magnus Carlsen became a chess Grandmaster at the age of 13.
6) Nadia ComΔneci was a gymnast from Romania that scored seven perfect 10.0 and won three gold medals at the Olympics at age 14.
7) Tenzin Gyatso was formally recognized as the 14th Dalai Lama in November 1950, at the age of 15.
8) Pele, a soccer superstar, was 17 years old when he won the world cup in 1958 with Brazil.
9) Elvis was a superstar by age 19.
10) John Lennon was 20 years and Paul Mcartney was 18 when the Beatles had their first concert in 1961.
11) Jesse Owens was 22 when he won 4 gold medals in Berlin 1936.
12) Beethoven was a piano virtuoso by age 23
13) Issac Newton wrote Philosophiæ Naturalis Principia Mathematica at age 24
14) Roger Bannister was 25 when he broke the 4 minute mile record
15) Albert Einstein was 26 when he wrote the theory of relativity
16) Lance E. Armstrong was 27 when he won the tour de France
17) Michelangelo created two of the greatest sculptures βDavidβ and βPietaβ by age 28
18) Alexander the Great, by age 29, had created one of the largest empires of the ancient world
19) J.K. Rowling was 30 years old when she finished the first manuscript of Harry Potter
20) Amelia Earhart was 31 years old when she became the first woman to fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean
21) Oprah was 32 when she started her talk show, which has become the highest-rated program of its kind
22) Edmund Hillary was 33 when he became the first man to reach Mount Everest
23) Martin Luther King Jr. was 34 when he wrote the speech βI Have a Dream."
24) Marie Curie was 35 years old when she got nominated for a Nobel Prize in Physics
25) The Wright brothers, Orville (32) and Wilbur (36) invented and built the world's first successful airplane and making the first controlled, powered and sustained heavier-than-air human flight
26) Vincent Van Gogh was 37 when he died virtually unknown, yet his paintings today are worth millions.
27) Neil Armstrong was 38 when he became the first man to set foot on the moon.
28) Mark Twain was 40 when he wrote "The Adventures of Tom Sawyer", and 49 years old when he wrote "Adventures of Huckleberry Finn"
29) Christopher Columbus was 41 when he discovered the Americas
30) Rosa Parks was 42 when she refused to obey the bus driverβs order to give up her seat to make room for a white passenger
31) John F. Kennedy was 43 years old when he became President of the United States
32) Henry Ford Was 45 when the Ford T came out.
33) Suzanne Collins was 46 when she wrote "The Hunger Games"
34) Charles Darwin was 50 years old when his book On the Origin of Species came out.
35) Leonardo Da Vinci was 51 years old when he painted the Mona Lisa.
36) Abraham Lincoln was 52 when he became president.
37) Ray Kroc Was 53 when he bought the McDonalds Franchise and took it to unprecedented levels.
38) Dr. Seuss was 54 when he wrote "The Cat in the Hat".
40) Chesley "Sully" Sullenberger III was 57 years old when he successfully ditched US Airways Flight 1549 in the Hudson River in 2009. All of the 155 passengers aboard the aircraft survived
41) Colonel Harland Sanders was 61 when he started the KFC Franchise
42) J.R.R Tolkien was 62 when the Lord of the Ring books came out
43) Ronald Reagan was 69 when he became President of the US
44) Jack Lalane at age 70 handcuffed, shackled, towed 70 rowboats
45) Nelson Mandela was 76 when he became President
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Pablo
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When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, "Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping." To this day, especially in times of "disaster," I remember my mother's words and I am always comforted by realizing that there are still so many helpers β so many caring people in this world.
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Fred Rogers
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At the center of the Universe is a loving heart that continues to beat and that wants the best for every person. Anything that we can do to help foster the intellect and spirit and emotional growth of our fellow human beings, that is our job. Those of us who have this particular vision must continue against all odds. Life is for service.
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Fred Rogers
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I believe that if, at the end of it all, according to our abilities, we have done something to make others a little happier, and something to make ourselves a little happier, that is about the best we can do. To make others less happy is a crime. To make ourselves unhappy is where all crime starts. We must try to contribute joy to the world. That is true no matter what our problems, our health, our circumstances. We must try.
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Roger Ebert
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Red Sox looked around Jane at the patient, βYour mind reading coming back?β
βWith her? Sometimes?β
βHuh. You getting anything from anyone else?β
βNope.β
Red Sox repositioned his hat. βWell, ahβ¦let me know if you pick up shit from me, k? There are some things that Iβd prefer to keep private, feel me?β
βRoger that. Although I canβt help it sometimes.β
βWhich is why Iβm going to take up thinking about baseball when youβre around.β
βThank fuck youβre not a Yankees fan.β
βDonβt use the Y-word. Weβre in mixed company.
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J.R. Ward (Lover Unbound (Black Dagger Brotherhood, #5))
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Wish You Were Here
So, so you think you can tell
Heaven from Hell,
Blue skys from pain.
Can you tell a green field
From a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade
Your heros for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange
A walk on part in the war
For a lead role in a cage?
How I wish, how I wish you were here.
We're just two lost souls
Swimming in a fish bowl,
Year after year,
Running over the same old ground.
What have we found?
The same old fears.
Wish you were here.
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Roger Waters
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I look at the blanked-out faces of the other passengers--hoisting their briefcases, their backpacks, shuffling to disembark--and I think of what Hobie said: beauty alters the grain of reality. And I keep thinking too of the more conventional wisdom: namely, that the pursuit of pure beauty is a trap, a fast track to bitterness and sorrow, that beauty has to be wedded to something more meaningful.
Only what is that thing? Why am I made the way I am? Why do I care about all the wrong things, and nothing at all for the right ones? Or, to tip it another way: how can I see so clearly that everything I love or care about is illusion, and yet--for me, anyway--all that's worth living for lies in that charm?
A great sorrow, and one that I am only beginning to understand: we don't get to choose our own hearts. We can't make ourselves want what's good for us or what's good for other people. We don't get to choose the people we are.
Because--isn't it drilled into us constantly, from childhood on, an unquestioned platitude in the culture--? From William Blake to Lady Gaga, from Rousseau to Rumi to Tosca to Mister Rogers, it's a curiously uniform message, accepted from high to low: when in doubt, what to do? How do we know what's right for us? Every shrink, every career counselor, every Disney princess knows the answer: "Be yourself." "Follow your heart."
Only here's what I really, really want someone to explain to me. What if one happens to be possessed of a heart that can't be trusted--? What if the heart, for its own unfathomable reasons, leads one willfully and in a cloud of unspeakable radiance away from health, domesticity, civic responsibility and strong social connections and all the blandly-held common virtues and instead straight toward a beautiful flare of ruin, self-immolation, disaster?...If your deepest self is singing and coaxing you straight toward the bonfire, is it better to turn away? Stop your ears with wax? Ignore all the perverse glory your heart is screaming at you? Set yourself on the course that will lead you dutifully towards the norm, reasonable hours and regular medical check-ups, stable relationships and steady career advancement the New York Times and brunch on Sunday, all with the promise of being somehow a better person? Or...is it better to throw yourself head first and laughing into the holy rage calling your name?
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Donna Tartt (The Goldfinch)
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I believe it will have become evident why, for me, adjectives such as happy, contented, blissful, enjoyable, do not seem quite appropriate to any general description of this process I have called the good life, even though the person in this process would experience each one of these at the appropriate times. But adjectives which seem more generally fitting are adjectives such as enriching, exciting, rewarding, challenging, meaningful. This process of the good life is not, I am convinced, a life for the faint-fainthearted. It involves the stretching and growing of becoming more and more of one's potentialities. It involves the courage to be. It means launching oneself fully into the stream of life. Yet the deeply exciting thing about human beings is that when the individual is inwardly free, he chooses as the good life this process of becoming.
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Carl R. Rogers (On Becoming a Person: A Therapist's View of Psychotherapy)