Ventura Quotes

I love my country, not my government.

Learn from history or you're doomed to repeat it.

You give me a water board, Dick Cheney and one hour, and I'll have him confess to the Sharon Tate murders." (Larry King Live, May 11, 2009)

Be careful how you choose your enemy, for you will come to resemble him. The moment you adapt your enemy's methods your enemy has won. The rest is suffering and historical opera.

Remember something, if you will, about voting: Voting is not a horse race, you're not going there thinking "Gee, I gotta pick the winner so I can brag to my friends 'Oh, I picked so-and-so and he or she won'". Voting is voting your heart and voting your conscience and when you've done that, don't ever, EVER let a Democrat or Republican tell you that you've wasted your vote because the fact is, if you DON'T vote your heart and conscience then you HAVE wasted your vote.

Organized religion is a sham and a crutch for weak-minded people who need strength in numbers. It tells people to go out and stick their noses in other people's business. I live by the golden rule: Treat others as you'd want them to treat you. The religious right wants to tell people how to live.

At the bottom of every person's dependency, there is always pain, Discovering the pain and healing it is an essential step in ending dependency.

I have an idea about voting, how about on every ballot we include "None of the above". People may laugh at that, but what that is, it is a vote of no confidence in your government and I'm willing to bet that in some elections, 'None of the Above' would win. Imagine if you won the election but lost to 'None of the Above'. Wouldn't that make you re-think your positions?

You are not an alcoholic or an addict. You are not incurably diseased. You have merely become dependent on substances or addictive behavior to cope with underlying conditions that you are now going to heal, at which time your dependency will cease completely and forever.

If you're patriotic, stand up for the Bill of Rights because once they strip your rights from you, you will pay hell to get them back. You will and we're in the process of it right now.

People who believe they have bad luck create bad luck. Those who believe they are very fortunate, that the world is a generous place filled with trustworthy people, live in exactly that kind of world.

Good is not the opposite of evil, joy is the opposite of evil.

The hurt is not intense when one is hardened to the cold.

It's convenient how everyone who supports waterboarding and torture, or "enhanced interrogation techniques" as they like to call it, have never experienced it themselves. Yet everyone who has, myself included, are firmly against it.

All paths cause pain, so to chose the safe over the audacious will not give you less pain, only less beauty.

Es importante tener un cómplice. No es indispensable, pero parece buena idea contar con alguien que también provenga de aquel lugar. Ojos que conocieron la misma guerra, que perdieron la misma patria.

Every fat person says it's not their fault, that they have gland trouble. You know which gland? The saliva gland. They can't push away from the table.

In a free society, how can you commit a crime against yourself?

If you examine your motive for doing anything, you'll soon discover that your reason is that you believe it will make you happy.

Buena suerte: que nadie tenga que cuidarte. Mala suerte: que nadie te cuide.

There is much more to being a patriot and a citizen than reciting the pledge or raising a flag.

I speak my mind. If it offends some people, well, there's not much I can do about that. But I'm going to be honest. I'm going to continue to speak my mind, and that's who I am...

Entre los rotos nos reconocemos fácilmente. Nos atraemos y repelemos en igual medida.

Foi por ti que num sonho de ventura A flor da mocidade consumi... E às primaveras disse adeus tão cedo E na idade do amor envelheci!

Siempre deja la ventura una puerta abierta en las desdichas, para dar remedio a ellas.

¡La importancia! ¿Es nada, por ventura? La importancia es el respeto de los necios, el pasmo de los niños, la envidia de los ricos y el desprecio del sabio.

Caro m'è 'l sonno, e più l'esser di sasso, mentre che 'l danno e la vergogna dura; non veder, non sentir m'è gran ventura; però non mi destar, deh, parla basso.

Why should I have to hide the fact that I don't believe there’s a supreme being? There’s no proof of it. There’s no harm in saying you’re an atheist. It doesn't mean you treat people any differently. I live by the Golden Rule to do unto others, as you'd want to be treated. I just simply don't believe in religion, and I don’t believe necessarily that there’s a supreme being that watches over all of us. I follow the teachings of George Carlin. George said he worshipped the sun. He was a fellow atheist. I’m in good company … Albert Einstein, Mark Twain, Charles Darwin. It’s not like I’m not with good company and intelligent people. There have been some good, intelligent atheists who have lived in the world.

We call our country home of the brave and land of the free, but it's not. We give a false portrayal of freedom. We're not free — if we were, we'd allow people their freedom. Prohibiting something doesn't make it go away. Prostitution is criminal, and bad things happen because it's run illegally by dirt-bags who are criminals. If it's legal, then the girls could have health checks, unions, benefits, anything any other worker gets, and it would be far better.

George Bush keeps saying that terrorists keep attacking us because we have freedom here in America. So what, the solution is to take away our freedoms and they won't attack us?

No one can see my neuroses except me. The way I see myself is not how other people see me. Everything is okay. I belong here.

Enhanced Interrogation is Dick Cheney changing a word, Dick Cheney comes up with a new word to cover his ass!

If we could identify our last times as easily as our first times, thousands of moments would be lived more intensely.

I knew I was cheating on my husband for the right reasons (having a lover makes me even more inaccessible and mysterious).

My husband has no name; he is my husband, he belongs to me.

Existe una raza de hombres inadaptados, de hombres que no pueden parar ni establecerse, hombres que destrozan el corazón de quien se acerque a ellos y que vagan por el mundo a la ventura... Recorren la tierra, remontan los ríos, escalan de la montaña las cimas más altas, llevan en sí la maldición de la sangre gitana y no saben lo que quiere decir descansar. Si no se movieran de una misma senda llegarían lejos: fuertes son, valientes y sinceros. Pero acaban cansándose siempre de todas las cosas y sólo adoran lo extraño y lo nuevo.

There are no return trips on this line,” the woman said softly. “Once you get to the ninth kingdom, there is no going back. It is the kingdom of negation, of the frozen will. It has many names.

It's a good thing I'm not the president, because I would prosecute everybody who was involved in that torture, I would prosecute the people who did it, I would prosecute the people who ordered it and they would all go to jail! Because Torture is against the law!

Treatment for dependency at substance abuse treatment centers must change if alcoholism and addiction are to be overcome in our society.

When it comes to love, I’ve learned nothing: I love too intensely and I’m consumed by my own love (analysis, jealousy, doubt)—so much that when I’m in love, I always end up slightly extinguished and saddened. When I love, I become harsh, serious, intolerant. A heavy shadow settles over my relationships. I love and want to be loved with so much gravitas that it quickly becomes exhausting (for me, for the other person). It’s always an unhealthy kind of love.

drive past Stansbury and make a right onto Ventura and let it take me through Studio City, where the boulevard became Cahuenga, and then head into Hollywood, cruising along Sunset until I hit Beverly Glen

Go to the internet and go to the FBI website and go to their international list of top ten terrorists. You will see Bin Laden there, bring his name up and his picture. Amazingly, all the charges: the embassy of '98 and this other stuff is all listed. But, ironically nothing on 9/11. NOTHING! Now when the FBI was pressed as to why 9/11 wasn't included, their response was "We don't have enough evidence." Now, people, if you're like me that is extremely disturbing; we've fought two wars, we've changed our entire foreign policy and we've had the PATRIOT act put on us, all, supposedly, because of Osama Bin Laden!

If Waterboarding is okay, then why don't we let our police do it to criminals so they can find out what they know? Because it's against the law. If we're not going to be a country that stand's for the rule of law, when it's convenient or inconvenient, then what DO we stand for.

Entonces Éowyn miró a Aragorn a los ojos y dijo: -¡Deséame ventura, mi señor y curador! Y él respondió: -Siempre te deseé ventura desde el día en que te conocí. Y verte ahora feliz cura una herida en mi corazón.

We drove back through the valley, down to Ventura Boulevard, and over the hills to Hollywood and then west to the Château Marmont, waiting like Tangiers for strangers to find happiness. The land of self-enchantment had, once more, upheld its end of the deal—to be there for those willing to stay. By then, the jacaranda flowers had all fallen and squashed onto the streets in sticky mush, no longer turning the town lavender with clouds, but still they’d be there again next May and so would I.

If you can stop using substance or stop your addictive behavior for extended periods of time without craving, you are not dependent. You are dependent only if you can't stop without physical or psychological distress (you have unpleasant physical and/or psychological withdrawal symptoms) or if you stop and then relapse.

I don’t know what’s the trouble with children these days. They seem to get worse and worse.

»Sea moderado tu sueño, que el que no madruga con el sol, no goza del día; y advierte, ¡oh Sancho!, que la diligencia es madre de la buena ventura, y la pereza, su contraria, jamás llegó al término que pide un buen deseo.

I can’t hope for anything more, I can’t hope for anything better, and yet the void that I feel is immense, and I am always waiting for him to fill it. But what could possibly fill what is already full?

Though many strive to hide their human libidinousness from themselves and each other, being a force of nature, it breaks through. Lots of uptight, proper Americans were scandalized by the way Elvis moved his hips when he sang "rock and roll." But how many realized what the phrase rock and roll meant? Cultural historian Michael Ventura, investigating the roots of African-American music, found that rock 'n' roll was a term that originated in the juke joints of the South. Long in use by the time Elvis appeared, Ventura explains the phrase "hadn't meant the name of a music, it meant 'to fuck.' 'Rock,' by itself, has pretty much meant that, in those circles, since the twenties at least." By the mid-1950s, when the phrase was becoming widely used in mainstream culture, Ventura says the disc jockeys "either didn't know what they were saying or were too sly to admit what they knew.

To be physically astute and psychologically tended, yet morally insulated and conceptually blind--is to be crazy, not healthy.

Our choices are truncated in evil's presence.

That's what America's all about, man, if it's about anything. You can choose your own name.

It is that quick, it is that strong, it is that beautiful. And it is also totally impossible.

Lo roto se puede volver a romper mil veces. Yo lo sé porque lo he hecho.

El problema del silencio es que siempre gana las discusiones.

No sé crear, pero puedo destruir.

More generally, the idea that my husband existed before meeting me is surreal, even revolting.

[...]no debes negarte a iniciar un nuevo camino, ya que no sabes qué venturas te esperan en él.

I spent the rest of that day and most of the night thinking about all the hundreds of people I had met in rehabs and sober living houses and on the streets. We were all medicating our fears and our pain!

It's the causes, not the dependent person, that must be corrected. That's why I see the United States' War on Drugs as being fought in an unrealistic manner. This war is focused on fighting drug dealers and the use of drugs here and abroad, when the effort should be primarily aimed at treating and curing that causes that compel people to reach for drugs.

It may be that it is not given to us to know when we are angels. We may only be given to know when others are. This may be one of the reasons we need each other so.

I wrote this book to show you that a cure is entirely possible because I've seen it happen over and over again.

Para mí, y esto no es algo que haya cambiado con el tiempo, cualquier persona que se interesara remotamente en mi existencia era considerado un amigo.

El silencio es un vacío, pero pesa. Es la neblina que cubre el mundo.

O coração é a víscera, ferida de paralisia, a primeira que falece sufocada pelas rebeliões da alma que se identifica à natureza, e a quer, e se devora na ânsia dela, e se estorce nas agonias da amputação, para as quais a saudade da ventura extinta é um cautério em brasa; e o amor, que leva ao abismo pelo caminho da sonhada felicidade, não é sequer um refrigério.

Una vez que se secan las lágrimas, los ojos parecen listos para mirarlo todo distinto, como si fuera la primera vez. No hay primeras veces. Tan sólo la repetición infinita del mismo episodio incomprensible. Con lágrimas no se forman ríos, sino pantanos.

I love our children, that goes without saying. I love them, but still, I would rather have not had them. I love them, but I would rather have lived alone with my husband. Today, I think I can say with certainty that I could survive the death of one of my children, but not of my husband.

Each new person who enters into our life is an additional dilution of his attention, a dilution of him, and I’m horrified by this. The energy he expends toward others hurts me: it tells me that I am not enough for him.

AA purports to be open to anyone, as it is stated in Tradition Tree, "The only requirement for AA membership is a desire to stop drinking," but it isn't open to everyone. It's open only to those who are willing to publicly declare themselves to be alcoholics or addicts and who are willing to give up their inherent right of independence by declaring themselves powerless over addictive drugs and alcohol, as stated in Step One, "We admitted we are powerless over alcohol- that our lives had become unmanageable.

People who are dependent are merely using alcohol as a crutch to get through the day. Yet doctors and scientists are still treating "alcoholism" as if it is the problem, when it has nothing to do with the problem. They might as well be studying "scratchism" for people who have a chronic itch.

The people that you have to lie to, own you. The things you have to lie about, own you. When your children see you owned, they are not your children any more, they are the children of what owns you. If money owns you, they are the children of money. If your need for pretense and illusion owns you, they are the children of pretense and illusion. If your fear of loneliness owns you, they are the children of loneliness. If your fear of the truth owns you, they are the children of fear of the truth.

It's as absurd to expect a life to have meaning, in contrast to the vastness of the Universe, as it is absurd to take off your shoe and hang it from a tree, but both are wonderful in their way—for I assure you, if you could see that tree, you’d think it wonderful, you’d approve, you’d think that in a wacko way something had been done, something worth doing.

Whether the underlying cause of your dependency is a chemical imbalance, unresolved events from the past, beliefs you hold that are inconsistent with what is true, an inability to cope with current conditions, or a combination of these four causes, know this: not only are all the causes of dependency within you, but all the solutions are within you as well.

In joy, our choices may appear to be few, but one's responses are anything but confined, they're inspired, expanded.

The totally alive, totally conscious, and totally aware Universe takes care of itself completely. It is totally self-reliant and totally self- sufficient. it is perfect.

You are not alone in your quest to be who you want and have what you want.

«Pero ¿qué es el noveno reino?», le pregunta a una mujer de ojos azules y piel arrugada. «Es el reino de la negación, de la voluntad congelada -responde-. No hay retorno posible.»

I do my best, but most of the time I’m too busy being in love to be a good mother.

Work is a sacrament. Don't despise anyone's.

You have chosen to exist, and more than just exist-- you've been chosen to share in the Universal consciousness.

The world is actually a mirror, and as you change, you will see everything around you changing as well, mirroring your changes.

Think about the stigma that is attached to the idea that alcoholism is a disease, an incurable illness, and you have it. That's a terrible thing to inflict on someone. Labeling alcoholism as a disease, a cause unto itself, simply no longer fits with what we know today about its causes.

In your twenties, separation can take an entire year, but if one of you lacks the courage, you can add two years more to the count. After forty, it takes at least ten years to separate. Ten years between the moment you realize it’s not working anymore and the moment you decide to leave.

The advertise their products in such a fashion as to make it seem wonderful to drink their ethanol products. It does not matter if they give their products fancy name like Cabernet Sauvignon or Pinot Noir, or if they put bubbles in an ethanol product and call it champagne or beer- everyone is selling ethanol.

To give up power to change for the better is inherently distasteful to everyone, and to force people to affirm that they are addicts or alcoholics so they can speak in a meeting is shameful and demoralizing.

They think I may be dangerous, and I am, but not in the way they fear. I have tasted of Paradise. Not because I wanted to. I didn't want to. But it has borne down upon me and there is no escaping it any more. All Things Are Possible. It bears down upon everyone and we run from it as hard as we can and many manage to keep it at bay, but I have not, I am condemned, now, never.... to settle... for the lesser.... ever... again. And yes, that makes me a dangerous man. They think I have become one of the wild animals at the zoo, and I have become one of the wild animals at the zoo. This is a great day.

Depression can be due to a low endocrine function, nutritional deficiencies, blood sugar problems, food allergies, or systemic yeast infection. Depression can also result from medical illnesses such as stroke, heart attack, cancer, Parkinson's disease, and hormonal disorder. It can also be caused by a serious loss, a difficult relationship, a financial problem, or any stressful, unwelcome life change.

We recognize that you've used substances to try to regain your lost balance, to try to feel the way you did before the need arose to use addictive drugs or alcohol. We know that you use substances to alter your mood, to cover up your sadness, to ease your heartbreak, to lighten your stress load, to blur your painful memories, to escape your hurtful reality, or to make your unbearable days or nights bearable.

He became a surgeon because he was afraid of knives. He got married because he was afraid of women. He had a child because he was afraid of responsibility. Now, his marriage over and his child no longer speaking to him, he turned off all the lights in the house because he was afraid of the dark

Take a few minutes now and see your current circumstances- your physical condition, your emotional condition, your possessions, your financial condition, where and how you live, your relationships, the situations surrounding your life, and the way you believe other people see you- as mirrors showing you "Who You Are.

My relief mitigates my pain. It’s the relief that comes when what we’ve been dreading finally happens. When we’re playing hide - and - seek and our hiding place is discovered. When a loved one we cared for deeply who’s been sick for a long time passes away. When the main character of a horror movie is caught by the monster who’s been hunting them. It’s a good thing. I have nothing left to fear, because what was bound to happen has happened. I have nothing left to fear, because the worst has happened.

In reality, marriage didn’t calm me down. I realized at the very moment we said “I do” that my husband could still divorce me. Then I hoped that he would want to buy a house with me, and then have a child with me, certain that these acts would be more solid than a contract signed at city hall or a promise made before God. I was constantly awaiting the next step. I discovered a world of proofs of love, with commitment everywhere and love nowhere. And fifteen years after our first date, I still sleep just as poorly.

Free Falling" She's a good girl, loves her mama Loves Jesus and America too She's a good girl, crazy 'bout Elvis Loves horses and her boyfriend too It's a long day livin' in Reseda There's a freeway runnin' through the yard I'm a bad boy, 'cause I don't even miss her I'm a bad boy for breakin' her heart And I'm free, I'm free fallin' All the vampires walkin' through the valley Move west down Ventura Blvd All the bad boys are standing in the shadows All the good girls are home with broken hearts And I'm free, I'm free fallin' I wanna glide down over Mulholland I wanna write her name in the sky I wanna free fall out into nothin' Gonna leave this world for a while And I'm free, I'm free fallin

Tonight, I decide that if I could have one magical power, I would want to control dreams. I would inflict horrible nightmares on anyone who posed a threat to me, and meddle in my husband’s sleep to make him dream of me each night. I would imbue the fear of losing me into his subconscious, constructing a world in which I leave him for another man and he dies of sadness. I would show him my body in its most magnificent form so that he would never stop desiring me, and our house looking its best so that he would always want to stay. I would weave beautiful images of us into each of his nights so that he would continue loving me.

One of the first actions we take at Passages is to ruthlessly scrutinize, always under a doctor's supervision and care, the specific necessity of any mind- altering or mood-altering medications that our clients are taking. As soon as any non essential drugs are out of their systems, the feelings they were trying to suppress usually emerge. When that happens, we can see what symptoms the client was masking with drugs or alcohol.

If those underlying conditions aren't treated, the return of those symptoms may cause us so much discomfort that we'll go back to using addictive drugs or alcohol to obtain relief. That's the primary reason there is such a high rate of relapse among people who have become dependent of alcohol and addictive drugs. It has little to do with alcohol and addiction themselves and almost everything to do with the original causes that created the dependency.

«Il mio problema?» «Sì! Il tuo problema. Perché sei mister Bravo Ragazzo con tutti gli altri e con me un maledetto stronzo?» «Non solo con te.»« Anche con Nicky. Cazzo. Mi puoi svelare cosa ha fatto uno di noi due a Sua Altezza Reale del rock ‘n’ roll per comportarti così?» «Con lui, è semplice: non mi piace. Con te, c’è molto di più.» «Cosa? Io non ti piaccio, e allora sono insulti su insulti? Ottimo.» «Tu sei un treno impazzito, okay? Un cliché. Sei l’incarnazione di ogni battuta mai detta sulle vecchie rock star sbandate, e non ti rendi nemmeno conto di quanto tu sia penoso. Sì, sono attratto da te. No, non voglio fare nulla. Odio che il mio corpo reagisca al tuo, perché non voglio avere niente a che fare con quel gran casino che è Shane Ventura. Niente.» Shane si mise comodo, poggiandosi ai cuscini del sedile, sotto shock. Dio, è orribile. Avrebbe voluto poter tornare indietro, non fare domande, scendere da quella cazzo di limousine, e non dover mai più vedere l’uomo che aveva davanti

When I’m with my husband, I don’t need to see our friends. I also don’t have any desire to visit my parents, and I don’t miss my children. My husband is enough for me. He, on the other hand, likes to be surrounded by people. He comes alive when he’s among groups. He likes going out and meeting new people. But his sociability is painful for me. Each new person who enters into our life is an additional dilution of his attention, a dilution of him, and I’m horrified by this. The energy he expends toward others hurts me: it tells me that I am not enough for him.

Dejando a un lado la cuestión de la genialidad de los representantes del pueblo, considérese simplemente el carácter complejo de los problemas pendientes de solución, aparte de los ramos diferentes de actividad en que deben adoptarse decisiones, y se comprenderá entonces la incapacidad de un sistema de gobierno que pone la facultad de la decisión final en manos de una asamblea, entre cuyos componentes sólo muy pocos poseen los conocimientos y la experiencia requeridos en los asuntos a tratar. Pues así como las más importantes medidas en materia económica resultan sometidas a un foro cuyos miembros, en sus nueve décimas partes, carecen de la preparación necesaria. Lo mismo ocurre con otros problemas, dejando siempre la decisión en manos de una mayoría compuesta de ignorantes e incapaces, pues la organización de esa institución permanece inalterada, al paso que los problemas que en ella son tratados se extienden a todos los ámbitos de la vida pública. Es completamente imposible que los mismos hombres que tratan de asuntos de transportes se ocupen, por ejemplo, de una cuestión de alta política exterior. Sería preciso que todos fuesen genios universales, los que tan sólo de siglo en siglo aparecen. Infelizmente, se trata no de verdaderas "cabezas" pero sí de diletantes, tan vulgares que incluso están convencidos de su valor. De ahí proviene también la ligereza con que frecuentemente estos señores deliberan y resuelven cuestiones que serían motivo de honda reflexión aun para los más esclarecidos talentos. Allí se adoptan medidas de enorme trascendencia para el futuro de un Estado como si no se tratase de los destinos de toda una nacionalidad, sino solamente de una partida de naipes, que es lo que resultaría más propio de tales políticos. Sería naturalmente injusto creer que todo diputado de un parlamento semejante se halle dotado de tan escasa noción de responsabilidad. No. De ningún modo. Pero, el caso es que tal sistema, forzando al individuo a ocuparse de cuestiones que no conoce, lo corrompe paulatinamente. Nadie tiene allí el valor de decir: "Señores, creo que no entendemos nada de este asunto; yo al menos no tengo ni idea". Esta actitud tampoco modificaría nada porque, aparte de que una prueba tal de sinceridad quedaría totalmente incomprendida, no por un tonto honrado se resignarían los demás a sacrificar su juego. Quien, además, conoce a los hombres, comprende que en una sociedad tan ilustre nadie quiere ser el más tonto y, en ciertos círculos, honestidad es siempre sinónimo de estupidez. Así es como el representante aún sincero es obligado forzosamente al camino de la mentira y de la falsedad. Justamente la convicción de que la reacción individual poco o nada modificaría, mata cualquier impulso sincero que por ventura surja en uno u otro. A fin de cuentas, se convencerá de que, personalmente, lejos está de ser el primero entre los otros y que con su colaboración tal vez impida males mayores.