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Whenever someone tries to deny the truth, ultimately, reality betrays him.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
An alternate explanation is not a refutation.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
There is no neutral ground when it comes to the tolerance question. Everybody has a point of view she thinks is right, and everybody passes judgment at some point or another. The Christian gets pigeonholed as the judgmental one, but everyone else is judging, too, even people who consider themselves relativists.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
It is not for us to calculate our victory or fear our defeat, but to do our duty and leave the rest in God's hands.
Alan Keyes
The belief that objective good and evil do not exist (relativism) is in conflict (rivalry) with a rejection of God based on the existence of objective evil.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Beware when rhetoric becomes a substitute for substance. You always know that a person has a weak position when he tries to accomplish with the clever use of words what argument alone cannot do.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
The only consistent response for a relativist is, "Pushing morality is wrong for me, but that's just my personal opinion, and has nothing to do with you. Please ignore me.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Here is the lesson: Don’t retreat in the face of opposition. Too much is at stake. Be the kind of soldier who instills respect in others because of your courage under fire. Make your case in the presence of hostile witnesses. Throw your gauntlet into the arena and see what the other side has to say. It’s one of the most effective ways to establish your case and to help you cultivate a bullet-proof faith over time.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Jesus said, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength” (Mark 12:30). Loving God with the mind is not a passive process. It is not enough to have sentimental religious thoughts. Rather, it involves coming to conclusions about God and his world based on revelation, observation, and careful reflection.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Interested is interesting.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Wisdom is an artful method—a skillful, tactical, fair, and diplomatic use of knowledge.
Gregory Koukl
If we disqualify legitimate discussion, we compromise our ability to know the truth.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Asking questions enables you to escape the charge, “You’re twisting my words.” A question is a request for clarification specifically so you don’t twist their words.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
The phrase 'Founding Fathers' is a proper noun. It refers to a specific group: the delegates to the Constitutional Convention. There were other important players not in attendance, but these fifty-five made up the core. Among the delegates were twenty-eight Episcopalians, eight Presbyterians, seven Congregationalists, two Lutherans, two Dutch Reformed, two Methodists, two Roman Catholics, one unknown, and only three deists- Williamson, Wilson, and Franklin. This took place at a time when church membership usually entailed "sworn adherence to strict doctrinal creeds." This tally proves that 51 of 55 -a full 93 percent- of the members of the Constitutional Convention, the most influential group of men shaping the political underpinnings of our nation were Christians, not deists.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
In a very real sense, every person who denies God is living of borrowed capital. He enjoys living as if the world is filled with morality, meaning, order and beauty, yet he denies the God whose existence makes such things possible. When you start with theism - "in the beginning God"- these destinations make complete sense. When you start with materialism though - "in the beginning, the particles" - that route takes you over a cliff of absurdity and despair.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
The greatest evil has not come from people zealous for God. It has resulted when people are convinced there is no God they must answer to.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
People don’t know what they mean much of the time. Often they’re merely repeating slogans.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
G. K. Chesterton saw the problem over half a century ago: [The modernist] goes first to a political meeting where he complains that savages are treated as if they were beasts. Then he takes his hat and umbrella and goes on to a scientific meeting where he proves that they practically are beasts. . . . In his book on politics he attacks men for trampling on morality, and in his book on ethics he attacks morality for trampling on men.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Second, pluralism presumes that similarities between faiths are more important than differences. Think about it, though. Are aspirin and arsenic basically the same because they both come in tablet form? For some things, it’s the differences that matter, not the similarities. Religion is one of them.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
C. S. Lewis notes: My argument against God was that the universe seemed so cruel and unjust. But how had I gotten this idea of just and unjust? A man does not call something crooked unless he has some idea of a straight line. 5 This is precisely the problem for the atheist. He must answer the question: Where does the moral scoring system come from that allows one to identify evil in the first place? Where is the transcendent standard of objective good that makes the whole notion of evil intelligible? Are moral laws the product of chance? If so, why obey them? What —or who —establishes how things are supposed to be?
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
carefully placed questions put you in the driver’s seat of the conversation. “Being an asker allows you control of situations that statement-makers rarely achieve,” Hewitt notes. “An alert questioner can judge when someone grows uneasy. But don’t stop. Just change directions. . . . Once you learn how to guide a conversation, you have also learned how to control it.”3 Questions can be casual conversation starters providing a simple, friendly way to get the ball rolling in a discussion, like it did for me with the witch in Wisconsin.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
When people say you can’t argue anyone into the kingdom, they usually have an alternative approach in mind. They might be thinking that a genuine expression of love, kindness, and acceptance, coupled with a simple presentation of the gospel, is a more biblical approach. If you are tempted to think this way, let me say something that may shock you: You cannot love someone into the kingdom. It can’t be done. In fact, the simple gospel itself is not even adequate to do that job. How do I know? Because many people who were treated with sacrificial love and kindness by Christians never surrendered to the Savior. Many who have heard a clear explanation of God’s gift in Christ never put their trust in him. In each case something was missing that, when present, always results in conversion. What’s missing is that special work of the Father that Jesus referred to, drawing a lost soul into his arms. Of this work Jesus also said, “Of all that He has given Me I lose nothing, but raise it up on the last day” (John 6:39). According to Jesus, then, two things are true. First, there is a particular work of God that is necessary to bring someone into the kingdom. Second, when present, this work cannot fail to accomplish its goal. Without the work of the Spirit, no argument — no matter how persuasive — will be effective. But neither will any act of love nor any simple presentation of the gospel. Add the Spirit, though, and the equation changes dramatically. Here’s the key principle: Without God’s work, nothing else works; but with God’s work, many things work. Under the influence of the Holy Spirit, love persuades. By the power of God, the gospel transforms. And with Jesus at work, arguments convince. God is happy to use each of these methods.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
And be forewarned. When someone says there’s no proof of God’s existence, it’s sometimes a trick. It may be a reasonable request for evidence, but often it’s not. Unless you know in advance what kind of evidence would count (scientific data? historical documentation? philosophical arguments? revelation?) or what kind of proof would be satisfying (absolute proof? proof beyond a reasonable doubt? proof based on the preponderance of evidence? proof that’s a reasonable inference to the best explanation?), you’ll probably be wasting your time. If you’re not clear on his criteria for proof, it will be too easy for an intellectually dishonest person to dismiss anything you offer. “Not good enough,” is all he needs to say. “That’s not proof.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Richard Lewontin is amazingly candid about this fact. In the New York Review of Books he makes this stunning admission: Our willingness to accept scientific claims that are against common sense is the key to an understanding of the real struggle between science and the supernatural. We take the side of science in spite of the patent absurdity of some of its constructs . . . in spite of the tolerance of the scientific community for unsubstantiated just-so stories, because we have a prior commitment, a commitment to materialism. It is not that the methods and institutions of science somehow compel us to accept a material explanation of the phenomenal world, but, on the contrary, that we are forced by our a priori adherence to material causes to create an apparatus of investigation and a set of concepts that produce material explanations, no matter how counterintuitive, no matter how mystifying to the uninitiated. Moreover, that materialism is absolute, for we cannot allow a Divine Foot in the door.4
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Sometimes authorities weigh in outside of their area of expertise. Other times they get their facts wrong, or philosophical bias distorts their judgment. The key to Rhodes Scholar is getting past the opinion of a scholar and probing the reasons for his opinions. This is the difference between being informed and being educated.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
We should never expect a fair shake or whine when it is not given. We are not to play the victim. That is disloyalty to Christ.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
No intentes refutar cada ficción concebida de la nada. Sitúa de nuevo la carga probatoria sobre los hombros de tus interlocutores. Pídeles razones, no la mera afirmación de un punto de vista. No te toca a ti refutar sus afirmaciones, sino a ellos defenderlas
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
The mind, not the Bible, is the very first line of defense God has given us against error.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Here’s the key principle: Without God’s work, nothing else works; but with God’s work, many things work.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
respond to possible comebacks. If I think of something, I practice
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
LET YOUR SPEECH ALWAYS BE WITH GRACE, SEASONED, AS IT WERE, WITH SALT, SO THAT YOU MAY KNOW HOW YOU SHOULD RESPOND TO EACH PERSON. (COLOSSIANS 4:6) — Paul , the apostle
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
3. Getting in the Driver’s Seat: The Columbo Tactic. 4. Columbo Step Two: The Burden of Proof 5. Step Three: Using Columbo to Lead the Way 6. Perfecting Columbo.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
When arguments are done well, they honor God. But
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
The first is the motto of the U.S. Marine Corps: Semper Fi. This is short for semper fidelis, a Latin phrase that means “Always faithful
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Greg Koukl’s book Tactics in Defending the Faith.
Hillary Morgan Ferrer (Mama Bear Apologetics™: Empowering Your Kids to Challenge Cultural Lies)
Our strategic advantage includes two areas. The first, called offensive apologetics, makes a positive case for Christianity by offering reasons that support our view - giving evidence for the existence of God or for the resurrection of Christ or for the inspiration of the Bible, for example. The second area, often called defensive apologetics, answers specific challenges meant to undermine or disprove Christianity - responding to attacks on the authority and historical reliability of the Bible or tackling the problem of evil or addressing the challenge of Darwinian macroevolution, to name a few.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Our strategic advantage includes two areas. The first, called offensive apologetics, makes a positive case for Christianity by offering reasons that support our view - giving evidence for the existence of God or for the resurrection of Christ or for the inspiration of the Bible, for example. The second area, often called defensive apologetics, answers specific challenges meant to undermine or disprove Christianity - responding to attacks on the authority and historical reliability of the Bible or tackling the problem of evil or addressing the challenge of Darwinian macroevolution, to name a few.
Greg Koukl
We are not in this alone. Yes, each of us has an important role to play, but all the pressure is on the Lord. Sharing the gospel is our task, but salvation is God’s responsibility.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
I am wholly responsible for my side of the ledger, and God is entirely responsible for his. I focus on being faithful, but I trust God to be effective. Some will respond, and some will not. The results are his concern, not mine. This lifts a tremendous burden from my shoulders.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
When Christians avoid principled conflict on things that matter because they fear disunity or division, they cripple the church in three ways. First, Scripture commands that we guard the truth within our ranks. But where arguments are few, error abounds. Second, believers are denied the opportunity to learn how to argue among themselves in a fair, reasonable, and gracious way. Third, the outcome for fight-phobic churches is often not genuine oneness but a contrived unanimity, a shallow and artificial peace.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Jesus said that when you find yourself as a sheep amidst wolves, be innocent, but shrewd (Matthew 10: 16).
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
These three skills —knowledge, an accurately informed mind; wisdom, an artful method; and character, an attractive manner —play a part in every effective involvement with a nonbeliever. The second skill, tactical wisdom, is the main focus of this book.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Tactics are not manipulative tricks or slick ruses. They are not clever ploys to embarrass other people and force them to submit to your point of view. They are not meant to belittle or humiliate those who disagree so you can gain notches in your spiritual belt.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
I have a general rule: If anyone in the discussion gets angry, you lose.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
We cannot grasp the authoritative teaching of God’s Word unless we use our minds properly. Therefore the mind, not the Bible, is the very first line of defense God has given us against error.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
When people say you can’t argue anyone into the kingdom, they usually have an alternative approach in mind. They might be thinking that a genuine expression of love, kindness, and acceptance coupled with a simple presentation of the gospel is a more biblical approach. If you are tempted to think this way, let me say something that may shock you: you cannot love someone into the kingdom. It can’t be done. Neither is the simple gospel by itself adequate to do that job.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Even though people have strong opinions, they rarely reflect on their views. Often they’re merely repeating slogans.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Simply ask yourself, Did he give me an argument, or did he just give me an opinion? If the latter, then say, “Well, that’s an interesting point of view, but what’s your argument? How did you come to that conclusion? Why should I take your point seriously? Please take a moment and give me some of your reasons.” When he answers you, be alert to the differences between what is possible, what is plausible, and what is probable, given his evidence.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Boy, it sounds like you know a lot more about this than I do, and you’ve raised some interesting points. My problem is that this is all new information for me. I wonder if you could do me a favor. I really want to understand your points, but you need to slow down a bit so I get them right. Would you take a moment to carefully explain your view and also your reasons for it to help me understand better? When you respond this way,2 it buys you valuable time. It also shows that you’re not afraid of the other person and you’re interested in taking his view seriously. So make sure you understand the ideas. Write them down if you need to. When all your questions have been answered, end the conversation by saying these magic words: “Thanks. Now let me think about it. Maybe we can talk more later.” These words—now let me think about it—are like magic because once you say them, you free yourself from any obligation to respond further at the moment. All the pressure is gone, since you’ve already pleaded ignorance. You have no obligation to answer, refute, or reply once you’ve admitted you’re outgunned and need to give the issue more thought.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
What has gone wrong here? The problem is with the premise, “Faith is believing things we cannot know.” This is not a biblical understanding of faith. Faith and knowledge are not opposites in Scripture. They are companions. The opposite of faith is not fact but unbelief. The opposite of knowledge is not faith but ignorance. Neither unbelief nor ignorance is a virtue in Christianity.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
If someone’s thinking is flawed, the key to finding the error is to listen carefully to the reasons and then ask if the conclusions follow from the evidence. Point out errors with questions rather than statements.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
These three skills — knowledge, an accurately informed mind; wisdom, an artful method; and character, an attractive manner — play a part in every effective involvement with a nonbeliever.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Ethicist Richard Taylor explains: “A duty is something that is owed . . . but something can be owed only to some person or persons. There can be no such thing as a duty in isolation. . . . The concept of moral obligation [is] unintelligible apart from the idea of God. The words remain, but their meaning is gone.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
A morally perfect God is the only adequate standard for the system of scoring that makes sense of the existence of evil to begin with. Since God must exist to make evil intelligible, evil cannot be evidence against God. The complaint commits Infanticide.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
The “why it works” question is what philosophers call the grounding problem. What grounds morality? What does it stand on, so to speak? What explanation best accounts for a moral universe? What worldview makes the most sense out of the existence of evil or good?
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Taking the Roof Off works because humans are made in the image of God and must live in the world God created. Any person who denies this fact lives in tension between the way he says the world is and the way the world actually
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Remember, reasons are more important than votes. If the reasoning is bad — if the facts are bad or the judgments are tainted by philosophic bias — it doesn’t matter if you are talking with scholars or students, the view is still compromised.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Ironically, the Christian’s bias broadens her categories making her more open-minded, not less. She has a greater chance of discovering truth because she can follow the evidence wherever it leads. That’s a critical distinction. Can bias make a person open-minded? Under the right set of circumstances, absolutely.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Those who believe in intelligent design, however, claim that these forces are knowable, at least in principle. Consider this analogy. When a dead body is discovered, an impartial investigation might indicate foul play and not an accident. If the body is bullet-ridden, chances are the death was not a result of natural causes. In the same way, scientific evidence could, in principle, indicate an agent in creation rather than chance. This is not faith vs. evidence, but evidence vs. evidence.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
sometimes one’s destination is predetermined by where one starts. If a scholar begins an investigation convinced that miracles cannot happen, it will be very difficult for him to conclude that something supernatural has taken place even when there is overwhelming evidence for it.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Since oppression and mayhem are neither religious duties for Christians nor logical applications of the teachings of Christ, violence done in the name of Christ cannot be laid at his door. This conduct might tell you something about people. It tells you nothing about God or the gospel.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
A judicial action, a factual assessment, a hypocritical arrogance — all are judgments. Only the third is disqualified by Jesus. The first two are actually virtues in their proper settings and therefore commanded by Scripture. Those are the scriptural facts.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
In a very real sense, every person who denies God is living on borrowed capital. He enjoys living as if the world is filled with morality, meaning, order, and beauty, yet he denies the God whose existence makes such things possible.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
The fact is, mankind is made in the image of God and must live in the world God created. Although culture shifts, human nature remains the same. Ideas change, but ultimate reality does not.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
The answer to guilt is not denial,” I say. “The answer to guilt is forgiveness. And this is where Jesus comes in.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
As ambassadors, we measure our legitimacy by faithfulness and obedience to Christ, who alone will bring the increase. The most important gauge of our success will not be our numbers or even our impact, but our fidelity to our Savior.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Strategy involves the big picture, which in our case means the content, information, and reasons why someone should believe Christianity is true. Tactics, on the other hand, involve the details of the engagement, the art of navigating through the conversation itself.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Tactics are not tricks, slick ruses, or clever ploys that belittle or humiliate the other person. Instead, tactics are used to gain a footing, to maneuver, and to expose another person’s bad thinking so you can guide him to truth.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
All I want to do is put a stone in someone’s shoe. I want to give him something worth thinking about, something he can’t ignore because it continues to poke at him in a good way.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Now, generally statements like “women should have a choice”are meaningless as they stand. Like the statement, “I have a right to take . . . ,” the claim requires an object. Choose . . . what? Take . . .what? No one has an open-ended right to choose. People only have the right to choose particular things. Whether anyone has a right to choose depends entirely on what choice they have in mind.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Sometimes the reason you are confused about another person’s meaning is because she is confused, too. She objects to Christianity for reasons she hasn’t thought through. The objection flourishes because no one has challenged the lack of clarity that led to the muddled thinking in the first place.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
The quickest way to deal with a personal attack is to simply point it out with a question. When someone goes after you rather than your argument, ask, “I’m a little confused about your response. Even if you were right about my character, could you explain to me exactly what that has to do with this issue?
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Don’t let someone flatten you by dropping a roof on your head. Make him build walls underneath his roof. Ask him for reasons or facts to support his conclusions.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
There are three questions you should always ask whenever someone offers an alternate explanation: Is it possible? Is it plausible? Is it probable?
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
As to legislating morality, Aristotle famously observed that all law rests upon a necessary foundation of morality. If the government’s exercise of power is not in the service of the common good, then its actions are illicit. Simply put, morality is the only thing you can legislate.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Even without God’s help, fallible human beings sometimes get it right. Our libraries are filled with books written by mere mortals who seem completely capable of accuracy, insight, and wisdom. If this is true of so many others, why not of Paul, Peter, John, or Jesus?
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
This line of questioning trades on an important bit of knowledge: There is no neutral ground when it comes to the tolerance question. Everybody has a point of view she thinks is right, and everybody passes judgment at some point or another. The Christian gets pigeonholed as the judgmental one, but everyone else is judging, too, even people who consider themselves relativists.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
To be of one mind biblically doesn’t mean that all have to share the same opinion. It means a warm fellowship based on communion with Christ in the midst of differences. It does not mean abandoning all attempts at refining our knowledge by enforcing an artificial unanimity. True maturity means learning how to disagree in an aggressive fashion, yet still maintaining a peaceful harmony in the church.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
The key to the Columbo tactic is to go on the offensive in an inoffensive way by using carefully selected questions to productively advance the conversation. Simply put, never make a statement, at least at first, when a question will do the job.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
I focus on being faithful, but I trust God to be effective.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
According to Jesus, then, two things are true. First, there is a particular work of God that is necessary to bring someone into the kingdom. Second, when present, this work cannot fail to accomplish its goal. Without the work of the Spirit, no argument — no matter how persuasive — will be effective. But neither will any act of love nor any simple presentation of the gospel. Add the Spirit, though, and the equation changes dramatically.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
As a general rule, go out of your way to establish common ground. Whenever possible, affirm points of agreement. Take the most charitable read on the other person’s motives, not the most cynical. Treat them the way you would like others to treat you if you were the one in the hot seat.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Who’s to say? Ultimately, the person who has the best reasons is in the best position to say what is true and what is false. This is the way sound thinking has always worked.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
If someone’s thinking is flawed, the key to finding the error is to listen carefully to the reasons and then ask if the conclusions follow from the evidence. Point out errors with questions rather than statements. You might soften your challenge by phrasing your concern as a request for clarification or by suggesting an alternative with the words “Have you considered . . .” before offering your own ideas.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
We may spend hours helping someone carefully work through an issue without ever mentioning God, Jesus, or the Bible. This does not mean we aren’t advancing the kingdom. It is always a step in the right direction when we help others think more carefully. If nothing else, it gives them tools to assess the bigger questions that eventually come up.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Critics rarely are prepared to defend their own “faith.” They have seldom thought through what they believe and have relied more on generalizations and slogans than on careful reflection. To expose their error, take your cue from Lieutenant Columbo. Scratch your head, rub your chin, pause for a moment, then say, “Do you mind if I ask you a question?
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
The more you sweat in training, the less you bleed in battle.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Peer review is based on a sound notion. If our ideas are easily destroyed by those acquainted with the facts, they ought to be discarded. But if our ideas are good, they will not be upended so easily. In the process, we will learn what the other side knows. We may even be surprised at how weak their resistance really is.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
A commitment to truth — as opposed to a commitment to an organization — means an openness to refining one’s own views.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Usually a person cannot deny moral truth without immediately affirming it. The minute they say, “and it’s wrong to push your morality on me,” they have sunk their own ship.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)
Although it is theoretically possible that determinism is true — there is no internal contradiction, as far as I can tell — no one could ever know it if it were. Every one of our thoughts, dispositions, and opinions would have been decided for us by factors completely out of our control. Therefore, in practice, arguments for determinism are self-defeating.
Gregory Koukl (Tactics: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions)