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The Paradoxical Commandments
People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered.
Love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.
Think big anyway.
People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs.
Fight for a few underdogs anyway.
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway.
People really need help but may attack you if you do help them.
Help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you have anyway.
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Kent M. Keith (The Silent Revolution: Dynamic Leadership in the Student Council)
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Success is not how high you have climbed, but how you make a positive difference to the world.
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Roy T. Bennett (The Light in the Heart)
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Let the improvement of yourself keep you so busy that you have no time to criticize others.
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Roy T. Bennett (The Light in the Heart)
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I don't care if you're black, white, straight, bisexual, gay, lesbian, short, tall, fat, skinny, rich or poor. If you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you. Simple as that.
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Rejection is an opportunity for your selection.
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Bernard Branson
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Don't blow off another's candle for it won't make yours shine brighter.
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu (The Prince and the Pauper)
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Whenever I am in a difficult situation where there seems to be no way out, I think about all the times I have been in such situations and say to myself, "I did it before, so I can do it again.
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When you work on something that only has the capacity to make you 5 dollars, it does not matter how much harder you work β the most you will make is 5 dollars.
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Idowu Koyenikan (Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability)
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Great Leaders Create More Leaders
Good leaders have vision and inspire others to help them turn vision into reality. Great leaders create more leaders, not followers. Great leaders have vision, share vision, and inspire others to create their own.
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Roy T. Bennett (The Light in the Heart)
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Don't set your goals by what other people deem important.
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu (The Prince and the Pauper)
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If there is one trait that your brand must speak of, it is trust.
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Idowu Koyenikan (Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability)
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Whenever you see a successful business, someone once made a courageous decision.
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Peter F. Drucker
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Integrity is doing what is right and truthful, and doing as you say you would do.
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Roy T. Bennett (The Light in the Heart)
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The key to successful leadership is influence, not authority.
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Kenneth H. Blanchard
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Leadership begins and ends with relationships
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Richard Polak (Work Smart Now: How to Jump Start Productivity, Empower Employees, and Achieve More)
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Today is a new day and it brings with it a new set of opportunities for me to act on.
I am attentive to the opportunities and I seize them as they arise.
I have full confidence in myself and my abilities.
I can do all things that I commit myself to.
No obstacle is too big or too difficult for me to handle because what lies inside me is greater than what lies ahead of me.
I am committed to improving myself and I am getting better daily.
I am not held back by regret or mistakes from the past.
I am moving forward daily.
Absolutely nothing is impossible for me.
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Idowu Koyenikan (Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability)
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The supreme quality for leadership is unquestionably integrity. Without it, no real success is possible, no matter whether it is on a section gang, a football field, in an army, or in an office.
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No guts, no story.
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Chris Brady
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If you really want the key to success, start by doing the opposite of what everyone else is doing.
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Brad Szollose
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Be a King. Dare to be Different, dare to manifest your greatness.
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu (The Prince and the Pauper)
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A confident woman wears a smile and has this air of comfortability and pleasantness about her.
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Men love women who are courageous for it means they can go all the way with him in his pursuit of his good dreams and intentions.
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It had become usual to give Napoleon the Credit for every Successful achievement and every stroke of good fortune. You would often hear one hen remark to another, βUnder the guidance of our leader, Comrade Napoleon, I have laid five eggs in six daysβ or two cows, enjoying a drink at the pool, would exclaim,
βthanks to the leadership of Comrade Napoleon, how excellent this water tastes!β...
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George Orwell (Animal Farm)
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The elegance under pressure is the result of fearlessness.
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Ashish Patel
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Don't die without fulfilling your purpose.
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu (The Prince and the Pauper)
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Advice to my younger self:
1 Start where you are with what you have
2 Try not to hurt other people
3 Take more chances
4 If you fail, keep trying
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Germany Kent
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It's said that a wise person learns from his mistakes. A wiser one learns from others' mistakes. But the wisest person of all learns from others's successes.
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John C. Maxwell (Leadership Gold: Lessons I've Learned from a Lifetime of Leading)
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you must get the right talent and set the proper expectations. If you donβt, you will pay for the job twiceβthrough your employeesβ time and your own.
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Curtis L. Jenkins (Vision to Reality: Stop Working, Start Living)
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When you are just EXISTING, life happens to you⦠and you manage; when you are truly LIVING, you happen to life⦠and you lead.
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Steve Maraboli (Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience)
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Veni, Vidi, Vici. (I came, I saw, I conquered).
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Dare to be different. Represent your maker well and you will forever abide in the beautiful embrace of his loving arms.
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu (The Prince and the Pauper)
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Once you achieve intimacy and connection, I predict that innovation, partnership, execution and success won't be far behind.
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Susan Scott (Fierce Leadership: A Bold Alternative to the Worst "Best" Practices of Business Today)
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God is never tired of bringing the sun out every morning, taking it in the evenings and bringing out the moon.
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu (The Prince and the Pauper)
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Stop overestimating, thinking that you have all the time in the world. In fact, you donβt have time for most of what you think you have time for.
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In my experience, men who respond to good fortune with modesty and kindness are harder to find than those who face adversity with courage. For in the very nature of things, success tends to create pride and blindness in the hearts of men, while suffering teaches them to be patient and strong.
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A high-performing board of directors is the backbone of a successful company.
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Hendrith Vanlon Smith Jr. (Board Room Blitz: Mastering the Art of Corporate Governance)
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A board-established and led vision is a critical element of effective corporate governance. It provides direction, inspires stakeholders, and guides the company towards a successful future.
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Thunder roars but does not strike. Lightning strikes but does not roar. Choose to be lightning.
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To be successful, a Board of Directors must foster a culture of respect and appreciation.
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Critical to success in corporate governance is a vision that inspires and motivates employees at all levels.
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As a board, you want to be able to identify exactly what the company is succeeding at and exactly what it's failing at so that you can amplify the successes and correct the failures with surgical precision.
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Say to yourself, I am perfect, the way I am. Say to yourself, I am beautiful the way I am. Say to yourself, those who do not accept me the way I am, do not deserve me in their life.
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Abhijit Naskar (The Bengal Tigress: A Treatise on Gender Equality (Humanism Series))
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When you put together deep knowledge about a subject that intensely matters to you, charisma happens. You gain courage to share your passion, and when you do that, folks follow.
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Jerry Porras (Success Built to Last: Creating a Life That Matters)
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An average man is egoistic, proud and has strong self esteem. They always require partners who massage their ego not those who will drag their ego to the mud.
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu
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Business leaders make one of two mistakes: overestimating or underestimating their capabilities.
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Curtis L. Jenkins (Vision to Reality: Stop Working, Start Living)
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The most attractive thing about you should have less to do with your face or body and more to do with your attitude and how you treat people.
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Germany Kent
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Your words are powerful so what you say goes a long way to either establish or destroy you; this is why you should say things that God has said concerning you, not things that situations or circumstances say.
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Communication is how entrepreneurs tell their story, which, in turn, should inspire employees to work smart and encourage customers to action.
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Do you know where your breakthrough begins? Your breakthrough begins where your excuses ends.
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Patience Johnson (Why Does an Orderly God Allow Disorder)
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Everyone starts a business with passion, but not everyone starts it with enough planning.
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Pooja Agnihotri (17 Reasons Why Businesses Fail :Unscrew Yourself From Business Failure)
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We forget many times, but changes are not threatening as they are the only way to move forward.
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Itβs very possible that your inexperienced intern knows more than you think, even if you have been part of the industry for over thirty years.
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Itβs wonderful to dream big but you still have to be realistic.
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There canβt be anything more fatal to a business than making decisions based on somebody elseβs assumptions.
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An intelligent woman is a goldmine! She has the ability to learn, reason and understand things better and faster than her contemporaries. She is competent, alert and can reason out stuffs easily.
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Don't call yourself discouraged anymore;it's no longer your name.
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Victim fall in love with excuses
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Robin S. Sharma (The Leader Who Had No Title: A Modern Fable on Real Success in Business and in Life)
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You need to be a risk-taker, but you have to also make sure that you are a calculated risk-taker.
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Pooja Agnihotri (17 Reasons Why Businesses Fail :Unscrew Yourself From Business Failure)
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You donβt want to run your business based on mere suspicions and assumptions.
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A successful business owner will know their business as good as they know their favorite celebrity, their partner, and even their dogs.
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Being successful is not that tough, you just need a little mindset change.
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The path to innovation begins with curiosity
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Robert Iger (The Ride of a Lifetime: Lessons Learned from 15 Years as CEO of the Walt Disney Company)
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Restricted thoughts will keep you under the illusion that whatever youβre thinking is right and anyone who doesnβt think the same as you has no clue about how to run your business.
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Pooja Agnihotri (17 Reasons Why Businesses Fail :Unscrew Yourself From Business Failure)
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Accepting that youβre wrong, shows humility which will set a better example of you as a leader on your team than sticking to something that others can clearly see is wrong.
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Become a leader that shows humility and not stubbornness.
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Search engines' results arenβt always trustworthy. As a matter of fact, they can be easily manipulated.
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Once you bid farewell to discipline you say goodbye to success
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Alex Ferguson (Leading: Lessons in leadership from the legendary Manchester United manager)
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If you first take a minute, an hour or a month to let go of feeling annoyed, frustrated or critical of the person or situation that may be driving you crazy, you set yourself up for much greater leadership and personal success.
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John Kuypers (Who's The Driver Anyway? Making the Shift to a Collaborative Team Culture)
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When you lower the definition of success to such a level that any person can reach it, you donβt teach people to have big dreams; instead you inspirit mediocrity and nurture peopleβs inadequacies.
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Don't let any situation intimidate you anymore, don't accept defeat anymore.
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu (The Prince and the Pauper)
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Think of one thing you can do that will make a big difference in what you are trying to achieve.
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Curtis L. Jenkins (Vision to Reality: Stop Working, Start Living)
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The lion does not need the whole world to fear him, only those nearest where he roams.
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A.J. Darkholme (Rise of the Morningstar (The Morningstar Chronicles, #1))
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You gotta make it a priority to make your priorities a priority.
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Nothing is more regrettable
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Mouloud Benzadi
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Knowing your βwhyβ is much more important than setting a random goal.
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Curtis L. Jenkins (Vision to Reality: Stop Working, Start Living)
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Entrepreneurs must organize their business for success by developing a project management mindset that allows them to plan, build, divide, and conquer.
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When all seems to be against you, remember, a ship sometimes has to sail against the current, not with it.
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The President in particular is very much a figurehead β he wields no real power whatsoever. He is apparently chosen by the government, but the qualities he is required to display are not those of leadership but those of finely judged outrage. For this reason the President is always a controversial choice, always an infuriating but fascinating character. His job is not to wield power but to draw attention away from it. On those criteria Zaphod Beeblebrox is one of the most successful Presidents the Galaxy has ever had β he has already spent two of his ten presidential years in prison for fraud.
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The people who would like to manipulate and use you won't tell you your blind spots. They may plan to continue using them to their advantage.
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Assegid Habtewold (The 9 Cardinal Building Blocks: For continued success in leadership)
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Every entrepreneur faces mediocre moments or points in their careers when they are not meeting their goals. What they do in response to these shortcomings is what either leads them astray or guides them to success.
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Curtis L. Jenkins (Vision to Reality: Stop Working, Start Living)
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The happiest people in the world are those who feel absolutely terrific about themselves, and this is the natural outgrowth of accepting total responsibility for every part of their life.
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Brian Tracy
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A Visionaire always takes a step back during a crisis to get out of their own way.
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Believe in yourself. Under-confidence leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy that you are not good enough for your work.
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Attitude is that little thing that will make the most difference in the accomplishment of your goals.
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Don't just float through life; don't just agree to anything and everything, have a course you are known for at all times.
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Life is too short to be anything but happy. So kiss slowly. Love deeply. Forgive quickly. Take chances and never have regrets. Forget the past but remember what it taught you.
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Abhysheq Shukla (KISS Life "Life is what you make it")
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Think continally about what you want, not about the things you fear.
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Brian Tracy
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The Tone is the Message.
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Visionary decision-making happens at the intersection of intuition and logic.
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Paul O'Brien (Great Decisions, Perfect Timing: Cultivating Intuitive Intelligence)
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How much you can learn when you fail determines how far you will go into achieving your goals.
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Roy Bennett
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So many people think that they are not gifted because they donβt have an obvious talent that people can recognize because it doesnβt fall under the creative arts categoryβwriting, dancing, music, acting, art or singing. Sadly, they let their real talents go undeveloped, while they chase after fame. I am grateful for the people with obscure unremarked talents because they make our lives easier---inventors, organizers, planners, peacemakers, communicators, activists, scientists, and so forth. However, there is one gift that trumps all other talentsβbeing an excellent parent. If you can successfully raise a child in this day in age to have integrity then you have left a legacy that future generations will benefit from.
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Weigh whatever you are about to say; what will it do to your hearer - encouragement, edification, disappointment or fear? What will it do to your life - glorify, edify, beautify or weigh you down? Speak well and things will go well.
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Jaachynma N.E. Agu (The Prince and the Pauper)
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Your life is a trajectory. Every choice you make alters that trajectory, in a positive or negative way. Will you categorize that dinner with friends as a business expense? Will you be honest with your daughter? Will you take more credit than youβre due? These are just the small questions that we face every day, and little by little, the answers influence the trajectory of our lives and beings.
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Loneliness is the penalty of leadership, but the man who has to make the decisions is assisted greatly if he feels that there is no uncertainty in the minds of those who follow him, and that his orders will be carried out confidently and in expectation of success.
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If your organization requires success before commitment, it will never have either. Part of leadership (a big part of it, actually) is the ability to stick with the dream for a long time. Long enough that the critics realize that you're going to get there one way or another...so they follow.
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Seth Godin (Tribes: We Need You to Lead Us)
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A leader without a clear vision and plans only abuses his power because visions, dreams and plans are the fulcrum along which the loads of success will spine by your own efforts. And where power is abused, there is manipulation instead of inspiration.
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I believe it is the duty of each of us to act as if the fate of the world depended on him. Admittedly, one man by himself cannot do the job. However, one man can make a difference. We must live for the future of the human race, and not for our own comfort or success.
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Perfectionism is a particularly evil lure for women, who, I believe, hold themselves to an even higher standard of performance than do men. There are many reasons why womenβs voices and visions are not more widely represented today in creative fields. Some of that exclusion is due to regular old misogyny, but itβs also true thatβall too oftenβwomen are the ones holding themselves back from participating in the first place. Holding back their ideas, holding back their contributions, holding back their leadership and their talents. Too many women still seem to believe that they are not allowed to put themselves forward at all, until both they and their work are perfect and beyond criticism. Meanwhile, putting forth work that is far from perfect rarely stops men from participating in the global cultural conversation. Just sayinβ. And I donβt say this as a criticism of men, by the way. I like that feature in menβtheir absurd overconfidence, the way they will casually decide, βWell, Iβm 41 percent qualified for this task, so give me the job!β Yes, sometimes the results are ridiculous and disastrous, but sometimes, strangely enough, it worksβa man who seems not ready for the task, not good enough for the task, somehow grows immediately into his potential through the wild leap of faith itself. I only wish more women would risk these same kinds ofΒ wild leaps. But Iβve watched too many women do the opposite. Iβve watched far too many brilliant and gifted female creators say, βI am 99.8 percent qualified for this task, but until I master that last smidgen of ability, I will hold myself back, just to be on the safe side.β Now, I cannot imagine where women ever got the idea that they must be perfect in order to be loved or successful. (Ha ha ha! Just kidding! I can totally imagine: We got it from every single message society has ever sent us! Thanks, all of human history!) But we women must break this habit in ourselvesβand we are the only ones who can break it. We must understand that the drive for perfectionism is a corrosive waste of time, because nothing is ever beyond criticism. No matter how many hours you spend attempting to render something flawless, somebody will always be able to find fault with it. (There are people out there who still consider Beethovenβs symphonies a little bit too, you know, loud.) At some point, you really just have to finish your work and release it as isβif only so that you can go on to make other things with a glad and determined heart. Which is the entire point. Or should be.
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The insistence is on merit, insinuating that any current majority white leadership in any industry has got there through hard work and no outside help, as if whiteness isnβt its own leg-up, as if it doesnβt imply a familiarity that warms an interviewer to a candidate. When each of the sectors I mentioned earlier have such dire racial representation, youβd have to be fooling yourself if you really think that the homogeneous glut of middle-aged white men currently clogging the upper echelons of most professions got there purely through talent alone. We donβt live in a meritocracy, and to pretend that simple hard work will elevate all to success is an exercise in wilful ignorance.
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Donβt strive to be a well-rounded leader. Instead, discover your zone and stay there. Then delegate everything else.
Admitting a weakness is a sign of strength. Acknowledging weakness doesnβt make a leader less effective.
Everybody in your organization benefits when you delegate responsibilities that fall outside your core competency. Thoughtful delegation will allow someone else in your organization to shine. Your weakness is someoneβs opportunity.
Leadership is not always about getting things done βright.β Leadership is about getting things done through other people.
The people who follow us are exactly where we have led them. If there is no one to whom we can delegate, it is our own fault.
As a leader, gifted by God to do a few things well, it is not right for you to attempt to do everything. Upgrade your performance by playing to your strengths and delegating your weaknesses.
There are many things I can do, but I have to narrow it down to the one thing I must do. The secret of concentration is elimination.
Devoting a little of yourself to everything means committing a great deal of yourself to nothing.
My competence in these areas defines my success as a pastor.
A sixty-hour workweek will not compensate for a poorly delivered sermon. People donβt show up on Sunday morning because I am a good pastor (leader, shepherd, counselor).
In my world, it is my communication skills that make the difference. So that is where I focus my time.
To develop a competent team, help the leaders in your organization discover their leadership competencies and delegate accordingly.
Once you step outside your zone, donβt attempt to lead. Follow.
The less you do, the more you will accomplish.
Only those leaders who act boldly in times of crisis and change are willingly followed.
Accepting the status quo is the equivalent of accepting a death sentence. Where thereβs no progress, thereβs no growth. If thereβs no growth, thereβs no life. Environments void of change are eventually void of life. So leaders find themselves in the precarious and often career-jeopardizing position of being the one to draw attention to the need for change. Consequently, courage is a nonnegotiable quality for the next generation leader.
The leader is the one who has the courage to act on what he sees.
A leader is someone who has the courage to say publicly what everybody else is whispering privately. It is not his insight that sets the leader apart from the crowd. It is his courage to act on what he sees, to speak up when everyone else is silent. Next generation leaders are those who would rather challenge what needs to change and pay the price than remain silent and die on the inside.
The first person to step out in a new direction is viewed as the leader. And being the first to step out requires courage. In this way, courage establishes leadership.
Leadership requires the courage to walk in the dark. The darkness is the uncertainty that always accompanies change. The mystery of whether or not a new enterprise will pan out. The reservation everyone initially feels when a new idea is introduced. The risk of being wrong.
Many who lack the courage to forge ahead alone yearn for someone to take the first step, to go first, to show the way. It could be argued that the dark provides the optimal context for leadership. After all, if the pathway to the future were well lit, it would be crowded.
Fear has kept many would-be leaders on the sidelines, while good opportunities paraded by. They didnβt lack insight. They lacked courage.
Leaders are not always the first to see the need for change, but they are the first to act.
Leadership is about moving boldly into the future in spite of uncertainty and risk.
You canβt lead without taking risk. You wonβt take risk without courage. Courage is essential to leadership.
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