Steven Aitchison Quotes

People change for two main reasons: either their minds have been opened or their hearts have been broken

If you have the courage to be honest with everyone, including yourself, you may hurt a few people's feelings, but they will forever value your opinion more than your half truths.

Deep in my heart I know I am a loner. I have tried to blend in with the world and be sociable, but the more people I meet the more disappointed I am, so I’ve learned to enjoy myself, my family and a few good friends.

When you surround yourself with positive people who are making a difference in the world, you start to believe anything is possible.

Sometimes it's better to go against the crowd and feel alone, than to agree and have a false sense of belonging

Life is just a very slow death, so why not make the most of it while you can.

Most people know the physical senses, but a lot of people don’t know the soul’s senses: empathy, trust, intuition, love and harmony

Those who really know and care about you can hear you even when you haven’t spoken a word

The heart should never be completely locked, or you may regret the opportunities you had to let amazing people into your life

The people who really make you angry, control you!

Never engage in gossip, it kills your soul, and wounds another’s heart

Why waste a brand new day with your thoughts of yesterday

The heart is sometimes tainted with the songs of yesterday. Sing a new song today.

If you are ever asked why you are single, tell them: It's because you haven't found someone amazing enough to change your status

You are a beautiful soul wrapped up in a human body. It’s your job to unwrap, and find your soul again.

Serendipity: Such a beautiful word describing the occurrence of events by chance. I like to think it’s the energy you put out into the world returning your energy with love.

Sometimes the truth hurts because it uncovers the lies people are living

In the most beautiful relationships, silence is never awkward, for it’s in the silence that we come closer together.

Your self worth is not found in the opinions of others

Sometimes people may anger you, but realise that they are stealing your energy. Someone can only steal your energy if YOU allow them to.

To live life on your own terms, you've got to understand that you're going to get it wrong sometimes, but you'll have power of knowing that you are giving it everything you've got and blazing your own trail.

The most courageous thing you will do in your life is trusting someone enough to let them love you

Since our yesterdays are gone and our tomorrows are never promised, TODAY I want to thank all my amazing friends and family for being in my life.

A caterpillar must endure a season of isolation before it turns into a butterfly. Embrace the time you have alone, it will only make you stronger.

Opportunities are often missed when we constantly focus on our problems

The doors to your dreams are not always visible, and the only way to see them is to create them.

The most important thing you can do in a relationship is sit down and talk to each other, not with the TV on, or at the cinema, or over a meal, but just you and the other person where you can truly be heard and truly listen to each other

It’s better to be disliked for who you are than liked for who you are not.

If in life you choose something that is your second choice, whether it be clothes, a relationship, or a career, then don't choose it. Wait until you can have your first choice. Never settle for second best.

Prejudice is a belief born from a shortcut to thinking

You shouldn't live your life according to someone else's expectations

Every single one of us has the potential to change someone’s life by just taking the time to listen to them

Taking responsibility for your life is the biggest challenge you will have, but it is also the most beautiful gift you can give yourself.

A true joy in life should be knowing that you have touched the heart of another human being

Depression is not an absence of happiness, it’s a feeling that happiness may never return.

Everybody you have ever met in your life was brought to you for a reason.

Honesty has a power that very few people can handle

It’s better to stand alone and feel strong than standing with people who make you feel weak

I know I don’t know you all that well, but I honestly believe you can live a magical life, no matter what your situation is just now. How do I know this? Well, I believe in the power of the mind, and because of that I totally believe in you. I know, 100%, that you can have the life you want, and all you need is belief in yourself, and the motivation to take action to get what you want without giving up.

Never blow out someone else’s candle to try and make your one shine brighter

Wherever you are right now, is where you are meant to be

A kind heart: $0.00 A Smile $0.00 Laughing with friends $0.00 Time alone $0.00 The benefit to those around you: Worth A Fortune

Some of us don’t trust others unless there’s a reason to trust them. I prefer to trust others until they give me a reason not to.

Confidence is about knowing, and loving yourself enough to not compare yourself to others

Can you remember the person you were, before society told you who you should be?

If you're feeling a little down, remember some of the best days in your life haven't happened yet.

Society tells us when we are old and no longer useful - screw that! It’s your mind and attitude that will tell you when you are old.

It takes a strong person to do their own thing and not wait for anybody else to validate their existence.

Something remarkable happens when you truly stop seeking other peoples approval, you automatically gain it, and find that others will then seek your approval.

Humility is the only defence against vanity

If you take more than you give you get less of what you can take

Impossibility is only a whisper away from reality

I’ve always been a bit weird, ever since I was a child. I didn’t really fit in anywhere. Then I realised it’s okay to be a bit weird, in fact it’s positively brilliant EMBRACE YOUR WEIRDNESS

Reality is based on your perception of the truth. Think about that statement for a bit, it will blow your mind, and blow the lid of what you perceive to be real and what is an illusion. You are here to live YOUR life, YOUR way and on YOUR terms, not for the people you work for, not the people in the media, and not to live in the little box that society may have placed you in. You are a unique individual, with talents, with drive, with passion, with ambition, with love, with laughter, with a soul that could melt the hardest of hearts, and with a mind as creative as Da Vinci. You chose this life for a reason, and it certainly wasn't to live a reality created by others. Is this the time to stand up, and say I can live my own reality, create what I want for my own life, have the things I want in life without guilt, knowing that you deserve anything you want and are prepared to put the time and effort into getting? What if there was a way to bend your reality, a way to use your mind consciously to get what YOU want in life, become wealthy, feel comfortable in your own skin, meet the perfect man or woman, become more spontaneous, feel free, love, be open, be honest, be heartfelt, be grateful, be the one, love life, live, feel it, breathe it.... Welcome to Mind Alchemy Is this the time to Bend Your Reality?

Sometimes we are so busy living our fears that we forgot to live our dreams

If you mix with people who are at a higher level of success than you, then they will pull you up to their level

Talking about our problems in life doesn’t endear us as much as talking about our joys

Two mental actions can change your life: Forgive Yourself Move On

Never make excuses for who you are

Your soulmate can also be found in a friendship

My family consists of everyone I love dearly and not just the people who are related to me.

Letting go is easier than holding onto something that isn’t real

Some people should remain a part of your past and not be a part of your future

Being close to water brings me closer to my soul

Life will give to the givers, and take from the takers

If I can inspire one person to live their life fully, I will die a happy man

Perfection is an illusion that stops people from trying

The trouble with being human is that we let the past control our future

Being courageous is less painful than being unhappy

Lets not use obstacles as excuses for not achieving our dreams, use them as signs that the dream is worth it.

To often we speak just to hear the sound of our own voice, when we should speak only when the words are sweeter than silence.

Trust your journey, trust the process, raise your energy and the right people will come into your life

I’d rather make a thousand mistakes trying for a better life, than to die not making any mistakes at all.

The right questions help you discover the right answers. Be careful what questions you are asking yourself…

You will never be lonely if you love yourself enough

For Magic to happen in our lives, we need to be open minded about magical things happening

There is a lot of pain in being lonely, but a lot of beauty in being alone.

We are all capable of so much more than we think, the only thing we need to do is change our beliefs

The world is not a shitty place, it’s your perception of the world that is shitty

The only thing that stands in the way of an amazing life are the excuses you tell yourself as to why you can’t achieve it

The pain of reaching your goal will only last a short while The pain of not trying, will last a lifetime

Seven things money can't buy: A happy family True Love Passion Time Knowledge Respect Inner peace

Fear is your brains way of protecting you, overcoming fear is the souls way of loving you

The love you do have in your life should not be overshadowed by the love you don’t

The past is a gift that should not be unwrapped in the present.

Your true friends are protectors of your heart

When you jump into the unknown, you will find that a net usually appears to catch you.

The only thing that stops the fear of doing something is DOING WHAT YOU FEAR

Walk in the direction where your peace is found

Important decisions are better made after a good nights sleep

Money flows where attention goes.

When you carry resentment towards another, you are effectively strengthening your relationship with that person. Let go of the resentment and you break the ties that bind you.

Most of us, unless we have consciously taken control of our thoughts, bully ourselves. There is no bigger bully than you. You would never talk to your friends or family the way you talk to yourself and yet you wonder why your life is a mess.

All your fears in life are constantly hungry DON’T FEED THEM

I don’t have time’ is the same as saying ‘I am not committed

Time really does seem to fly as we get older, that’s because we’ve forgotten to stop for a while to enjoy the time

Break from the chains that tie you to the past

When you let go of the toxic people in your life, you will find that life becomes so much easier

We die at a very young age, but sometimes don’t realise it until we’re much older

The best doctor in the world is yourself: Diagnose yourself with your heart Treat yourself with your mind Take care of yourself with your spirit Maintain yourself with your body If all else fails get a second opinion.