Rj Intindola Quotes

Life is a test, make sure you study for it.

When someone has broken the trust you bestowed in them, their likely to do it again. Be wary before speaking in front of them on any matter you do not want to be repeated.

There’s a distinct difference between confidence and boasting arrogance; when a problem hits a patch of difficult, the arrogant disappear but the confident remains in the fight.

She tried to destroy me, and I helped her. +

Be careful not to fall in love with the fantasy you imagined instead of what’s standing before you.

Anger and aggressive behavior create a combative environment and temporarily reduces one’s ability to utilize their intellectual capacity.

We all encounter the moment of agony, when our heart is hungry and the only one who could feed it, never will.

One who possesses significant low self-esteem, is more likely to betray you.

You may remain a couple after betrayal and even establish a quality relationship, but the mental anguish never leaves, and your soul will haunt you forever.

The humble rarely brag about accomplishments because they are typically significant, and their mannerism is one of confidence; but those with low self-esteem have developed a character of conceit and deception. You’re thinking of one now.

A master of deception can turn the truth into a lie using self-fulfilling prophecies.

Reaching your destination is more important than the direction and speed at which you travel.

Never allow your mind to decide what you have, when your heart knows what you want.

Those who become drunk with power and have enriched themselves unlawfully while serving, will continue the same path, while they remain in power.

Love can play destructive games; one day overwhelming you with joy and euphoria and the next, destroying your life.

Sometimes our heart goes rogue and makes decisions without even telling us or letting us know in advance.

Relationships sometimes break like a falling vase into fifty pieces. And when you glue the vase back together, you realize it has lost the luster and pristine appearance that will never return. Now you have two choices. Keep it as it is or throw it away.

People that are hiding truth deep within themselves will live a life cloaked in total anxiety.

Sometimes you’re the only one that can rescue yourself; for no one is coming to save you.

Beware of people that envy you.

The ultimate courage is fighting a battle one knows they will lose; but they confront the adversary, to prevent them from winning.

As we grow older our sense of compassion becomes refined and matures; for we’ve received compassion for a lifetime of mistakes and mishaps.

A single thought of her reminds me what it's like to feel alive and once again to have deep meaning in my life; A simple vision of her smile makes me feel special.

The value of anything is rarely assessed when in use, but always when discontinued or lost.

Sometimes we anticipate conditions before they become real and we create our own heartbreaks.

People with dirty minds make better lovers.

When you are captive between what is real and what should be, attempt an escape to real; should be is a mirage that does not exist.

Do not wait until regrets are your only option, make the changes and act before it’s too late.

It is always improper to intentionally offend anyone; and if someone is offended by your actions or words, they are not necessarily right.

One’s enemies transmit your story in a distorted form; for they are wrought with envy, jealousy, and hatred. Their aim is to reduce your power and the level of presence.

Sometimes you’re the only one that can save yourself; for no one is coming to save you.

When our hearts are empty, deception can fill them with lies.

The fiercest warriors, do not carry a sword to the battlefield; instead, they are armed with wisdom.

Your presence has no meaning when your absence doesn’t alter their life.

When you continually must question the love you have, you need to start looking for the love you want.

Life without a plan is a life without expectations.

​Most, gleefully delight in your descent. And, are displeased and mock your ascension Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) – 1979

Always admit when wrong; remain silent when right. RJ Intindola – (Gandolfo) – 1994

Your words and character travel different paths; you can deceive many, except the one who matters the most. RJ Intindola – (Gandolfo) – 1981

One who possesses significant low self-esteem, is more likely to betray you. RJ Intindola – (Gandolfo) – 1981

While there is no definitive formula for success and winning, there exists a deliberative mindset, confidence and emotional strength. For one must believe they are a champion before they can become one.

To comprehend climate change, one must be educated and enlightened by the scientific evidence; those in disbelief follow the mantra of their tribe and cult for they lack resources to acquire an independent position.

When in love, a bridge is constructed between two souls. Each year the bridge evolves and grows stronger and at a point in the future appears indestructible; when betrayal appears in the form of dynamite, the bridge becomes gravely damaged. And the betrayer and betrayed must determine if it can ever be reconstructed. Regrettably, the scars and cracks remain; some visible, and others hidden beneath the water. Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) – 1973

If you ever wondered why rivers are never straight as a line. It’s because they typically take the path of least resistance. So, learn to live and understand that most good created in your life will be by challenging resistance.

Quit telling us to forget the past and never look back. We learned from the past, gained wisdom from the past that we apply every day in the process of living. If we forget the past, we’ll forget who we are since that’s where we came from.

Some friends are more significant and important than other friends. A special friend can often change your life for the better. You will know when this special person enters your life because of the respect you have for them. They will never lie or set you aside for someone or something else. You will have undying trust in this person that any words spoken will never find another ear. They always returned calls at the earliest possible time. They will check in often to see what is going on in your life and just talk. Your accomplishments will be applauded with praise and losses will never be repeated. This friend has you melted within their heart as you do theirs. When you find such a person be sure to return the love and understand they have gifted you and your life.

Fate is not going to come looking for you. You are going to have to find or create it yourself.

Be the person people remember because you made them feel good about themselves.

Those who yearned for years for love after betrayal, are afraid and cautious when they find it.

Leaders typically don’t follow the crowd, that is unless they’re trying to escape a burning building.

The road to freedom and liberty is always paved and blood.

Hate is easy. Kind is a mindset.

Never leap into a lake without knowing what’s beneath the surface.

Fate does not control who walks into your life, but it does have an impact on who you meet. Then, you determine the extent they will become a part of your life.

If we do not have justice for the rule of law, then society shall be broken.

If you give your word to someone, keep it.

Every human being on earth has two things in common. Death and a broken heart.

Everybody loves and desires success, but they dislike and are envious of successful people.

If you are constantly in pain; seek out love; you will find the pain has been cut in half.

One who habitually jumps to conclusions to impress others with their knowledge, is offering opinions without reasoned judgment and wisdom.

An empty heart eats lies.

Friendship is rooted in the protection of deep dark secrets.

If you think it cannot be done, please don’t interfere or interrupt the rest of us trying to do it.

I am eternally grateful to those friends and others who gave me more than I could give to them. Memories of them are etched in my heart and will remain there forever.

Never permit the flames of love and desire char you beyond recognition.

Why settle for what is provided instead of being motivated to achieve what you want. Complacency is your contentment.

True caring friends are a gift; be careful not to tear the wrapping when you open it.

Often, we fabricate the people we love to make loving them more palatable; the fictionalized version of them reduces the awareness of truth.

Closure is not always available in our lives. Sometimes, we must move on without the answer.

The fear of failure has sabotaged many hopes and dreams.

Absence is the preferable option when your presence has no meaning.

Enhancing One’s Story It is easier to move forward when you’re happy with your story.

When one is not mindful of their continued misconduct, they cannot discern the distinction between right and wrong; wisdom dictates silence is the best approach.

The best captains endure the most turbulence and greatest storms.

When one cannot control their thoughts, they can become the most destructive force in their life. Our thoughts make us happy, content, irritable, and distraught. Control them and define each moment.

You judge the mistakes of others with indignation and distain in a demeaning manner; your mistakes, are littered with rationalizations and excuses, with indignation for those aware. And void of regrets.

My heart is open to all who choose to enroll for exclusive membership. However, never betray, lie, act selfishly or speak ill of me when I am not present; for it shall be locked and you may never enter again.

The environment around us is constantly changing, including innovations, friends, employment and moving to a different location; those who accept and excel at adaptation have smoother transitions, while others struggle.

Deficient self-confidence and self respect, develops low self esteem, and induces the need to find faults in others; wisdom and quality self-confidence, engenders one’s ability to find excellence in the traits of others.

Never reveal your wounds. They will all believe your weaker. They will take advantage of you. When they see how scarred you are. Then you will have no choice. But to fight. And then they will feel the wrath of a warrior.

You hold onto disdain and contempt for those whose truth is spoken to your face. And cling to those who constantly disrespect and degrade you when absent. The one who directs their words you when present, care more about you.

When a seed or tree is first planted, they do not produce flowers or fruit. They must first develop maturity and grow. They must also receive sustenance, including water and food. Once they have rooted and develop strength, only then will they begin to produce.

We all acquired two types of scars; one is visible for all to see and the other resides deep within us. Both possess pain but others can only determine if the external scars have healed. The emotional scars within are usually more painful and can linger for years.

Not all who betray feel guilt and remorse. They often proclaim the betrayed deserved the punishment for past actions. A rationalization intended to ensnare the ignorant and offer warrant. Remember. The betrayer was either attempting to gain something for themselves, or to inflict pain upon you; or both.

If you love freedom, then you are going to have to pay for it. Not only by paying taxes but by making the commitment to live by the principles that are essential for freedom to survive. That includes respecting the rule of law and if you have set that aside for political reasons, then you are a threat to our democracy and our freedoms.

Some friends are more significant and important than other friends. A special friend can often change your life for the better. You will know when this special person enters your life because of the respect you have for them. They will never lie or set you aside for someone or something else. You will have undying trust in this person that any words spoken will never find another ear. They always returned calls at the earliest possible time. They will check in often to see what is going on in your life and just talk. Your accomplishments will be applauded with praise and losses will never be repeated. This friend has you melted within their heart as you do theirs. When you find such a person be sure to return the love and understand they have gifted you and your life.

The most gut-wrenching experience anyone will endure, is knowing you’ve been used and lied to by someone you trusted.

In the end, your will and heart will determine the portrait of your life.

He who wears the emotional and physical scars of life should do so with honor and integrity.

Do not be afraid to burn a bridge you never want to cross again. RJ Intindola – (Gandolfo) – 2018

When I felt cornered in my life and wrought with crisis and turmoil, I wondered why friends stayed silent.

Our world is infested with resistance, from other people, the environment, but mostly from within ourselves.

Some doors slammed in your face need to be glued and nailed shut so they can never be reopened.

The silence of many is deafening. Especially when our country is under attack by those who challenge the moral values of our Constitution.

Fate controls who walks into your life, but you decide who leaves, stays, and who you refuse to let go. Who stays depends on the bindings between you.

How many times have we encountered a person that states, “can I ask a question,” and proceeds to ask the question before you can respond. In these cases, they have given us a choice and then take it away. What they are really doing here, is making a statement, and not asking you to decide.

Sometimes defining friendship can be simple. If your heart still aches after someone has passed, then you were a true and close friend. They may have physically left this world, but they still walk among us in our hearts. RJ Intindola – (Gandolfo) – 2018

When I hear a certain song playing in the background, I think of you and a vision of your face, pervades my soul. When the second song plays, your sweet fragrance fills the air around me. The third song and her gentle hand caresses my face and tingles my body that is covered with goosebumps. At the fourth song, I gently glide to the radio and turn it off. There is no sense roaming in the darkened marred past. And I have adjusted to living without her.

When today is no different than yesterday and you haven’t taken any action to improve your tomorrow, then all your days continue to be yesterdays.

The rationale for springing out our bed each morning is a sense of purpose. Purpose is the compass that guides us through the decision-making process and aids in the development of our behavior and actions. Lacking a sense of purpose is the equivalent of a feather thrown into a gusty wind.