Rj Intindola Quotes

There’s a distinct difference between confidence and boasting arrogance; when a problem hits a patch of difficult, the arrogant disappear but the confident remains in the fight.

The humble rarely brag about accomplishments because they are typically significant, and their mannerism is one of confidence; but those with low self-esteem have developed a character of conceit and deception. You’re thinking of one now.

She tried to destroy me, and I helped her. +

Life is a test, make sure you study for it.

One who possesses significant low self-esteem, is more likely to betray you.

You may remain a couple after betrayal and even establish a quality relationship, but the mental anguish never leaves, and your soul will haunt you forever.

Be careful not to fall in love with the fantasy you imagined instead of what’s standing before you.

When someone has broken the trust you bestowed in them, their likely to do it again. Be wary before speaking in front of them on any matter you do not want to be repeated.

Anger and aggressive behavior create a combative environment and temporarily reduces one’s ability to utilize their intellectual capacity.

A master of deception can turn the truth into a lie using self-fulfilling prophecies.

Reaching your destination is more important than the direction and speed at which you travel.

Sometimes our heart goes rogue and makes decisions without even telling us or letting us know in advance.

Love can play destructive games; one day overwhelming you with joy and euphoria and the next, destroying your life.

Those who become drunk with power and have enriched themselves unlawfully while serving, will continue the same path, while they remain in power.

Relationships sometimes break like a falling vase into fifty pieces. And when you glue the vase back together, you realize it has lost the luster and pristine appearance that will never return. Now you have two choices. Keep it as it is or throw it away.

Beware of people that envy you.

Sometimes you’re the only one that can rescue yourself; for no one is coming to save you.

People that are hiding truth deep within themselves will live a life cloaked in total anxiety.

If we do not have justice for the rule of law, then society shall be broken.

Do not wait until regrets are your only option, make the changes and act before it’s too late.

The fiercest warriors, do not carry a sword to the battlefield; instead, they are armed with wisdom.

Sometimes we anticipate conditions before they become real and we create our own heartbreaks.

Sometimes you’re the only one that can save yourself; for no one is coming to save you.

When our hearts are empty, deception can fill them with lies.

People with dirty minds make better lovers.

One’s enemies transmit your story in a distorted form; for they are wrought with envy, jealousy, and hatred. Their aim is to reduce your power and the level of presence.

Never allow your mind to decide what you have, when your heart knows what you want.

When you are captive between what is real and what should be, attempt an escape to real; should be is a mirage that does not exist.

It is always improper to intentionally offend anyone; and if someone is offended by your actions or words, they are not necessarily right.

Your presence has no meaning when your absence doesn’t alter their life.

When you continually must question the love you have, you need to start looking for the love you want.

As we grow older our sense of compassion becomes refined and matures; for we’ve received compassion for a lifetime of mistakes and mishaps.

A single thought of her reminds me what it's like to feel alive and once again to have deep meaning in my life; A simple vision of her smile makes me feel special.

The ultimate courage is fighting a battle one knows they will lose; but they confront the adversary, to prevent them from winning.

The value of anything is rarely assessed when in use, but always when discontinued or lost.

Life without a plan is a life without expectations.

Always admit when wrong; remain silent when right. RJ Intindola – (Gandolfo) – 1994

One who possesses significant low self-esteem, is more likely to betray you. RJ Intindola – (Gandolfo) – 1981

Your words and character travel different paths; you can deceive many, except the one who matters the most. RJ Intindola – (Gandolfo) – 1981

​Most, gleefully delight in your descent. And, are displeased and mock your ascension Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) – 1979

While there is no definitive formula for success and winning, there exists a deliberative mindset, confidence and emotional strength. For one must believe they are a champion before they can become one.

My heart is open to all who choose to enroll for exclusive membership. However, never betray, lie, act selfishly or speak ill of me when I am not present; for it shall be locked and you may never enter again.

To comprehend climate change, one must be educated and enlightened by the scientific evidence; those in disbelief follow the mantra of their tribe and cult for they lack resources to acquire an independent position.

When in love, a bridge is constructed between two souls. Each year the bridge evolves and grows stronger and at a point in the future appears indestructible; when betrayal appears in the form of dynamite, the bridge becomes gravely damaged. And the betrayer and betrayed must determine if it can ever be reconstructed. Regrettably, the scars and cracks remain; some visible, and others hidden beneath the water. Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola) – 1973

If you ever wondered why rivers are never straight as a line. It’s because they typically take the path of least resistance. So, learn to live and understand that most good created in your life will be by challenging resistance.

Quit telling us to forget the past and never look back. We learned from the past, gained wisdom from the past that we apply every day in the process of living. If we forget the past, we’ll forget who we are since that’s where we came from.

Some friends are more significant and important than other friends. A special friend can often change your life for the better. You will know when this special person enters your life because of the respect you have for them. They will never lie or set you aside for someone or something else. You will have undying trust in this person that any words spoken will never find another ear. They always returned calls at the earliest possible time. They will check in often to see what is going on in your life and just talk. Your accomplishments will be applauded with praise and losses will never be repeated. This friend has you melted within their heart as you do theirs. When you find such a person be sure to return the love and understand they have gifted you and your life.

If you give your word to someone, keep it.

Those who yearned for years for love after betrayal, are afraid and cautious when they find it.

Every human being on earth has two things in common. Death and a broken heart.

Everybody loves and desires success, but they dislike and are envious of successful people.

Friendship is rooted in the protection of deep dark secrets.

An empty heart eats lies.

Be the person people remember because you made them feel good about themselves.

The road to freedom and liberty is always paved and blood.

Closure is not always available in our lives. Sometimes, we must move on without the answer.

The best captains endure the most turbulence and greatest storms.

When one is not mindful of their continued misconduct, they cannot discern the distinction between right and wrong; wisdom dictates silence is the best approach.

Absence is the preferable option when your presence has no meaning.

Often, we fabricate the people we love to make loving them more palatable; the fictionalized version of them reduces the awareness of truth.

Enhancing One’s Story It is easier to move forward when you’re happy with your story.

Why settle for what is provided instead of being motivated to achieve what you want. Complacency is your contentment.

Fate is not going to come looking for you. You are going to have to find or create it yourself.

The fear of failure has sabotaged many hopes and dreams.

Never permit the flames of love and desire char you beyond recognition.

If you think it cannot be done, please don’t interfere or interrupt the rest of us trying to do it.

Hate is easy. Kind is a mindset.

Leaders typically don’t follow the crowd, that is unless they’re trying to escape a burning building.

Fate does not control who walks into your life, but it does have an impact on who you meet. Then, you determine the extent they will become a part of your life.

One who habitually jumps to conclusions to impress others with their knowledge, is offering opinions without reasoned judgment and wisdom.

True caring friends are a gift; be careful not to tear the wrapping when you open it.

If you are constantly in pain; seek out love; you will find the pain has been cut in half.

I am eternally grateful to those friends and others who gave me more than I could give to them. Memories of them are etched in my heart and will remain there forever.

When one cannot control their thoughts, they can become the most destructive force in their life. Our thoughts make us happy, content, irritable, and distraught. Control them and define each moment.

You judge the mistakes of others with indignation and distain in a demeaning manner; your mistakes, are littered with rationalizations and excuses, with indignation for those aware. And void of regrets.

The environment around us is constantly changing, including innovations, friends, employment and moving to a different location; those who accept and excel at adaptation have smoother transitions, while others struggle.

Deficient self-confidence and self respect, develops low self esteem, and induces the need to find faults in others; wisdom and quality self-confidence, engenders one’s ability to find excellence in the traits of others.

Never reveal your wounds. They will all believe your weaker. They will take advantage of you. When they see how scarred you are. Then you will have no choice. But to fight. And then they will feel the wrath of a warrior.

You hold onto disdain and contempt for those whose truth is spoken to your face. And cling to those who constantly disrespect and degrade you when absent. The one who directs their words you when present, care more about you.

When a seed or tree is first planted, they do not produce flowers or fruit. They must first develop maturity and grow. They must also receive sustenance, including water and food. Once they have rooted and develop strength, only then will they begin to produce.

We all acquired two types of scars; one is visible for all to see and the other resides deep within us. Both possess pain but others can only determine if the external scars have healed. The emotional scars within are usually more painful and can linger for years.

Not all who betray feel guilt and remorse. They often proclaim the betrayed deserved the punishment for past actions. A rationalization intended to ensnare the ignorant and offer warrant. Remember. The betrayer was either attempting to gain something for themselves, or to inflict pain upon you; or both.

If you love freedom, then you are going to have to pay for it. Not only by paying taxes but by making the commitment to live by the principles that are essential for freedom to survive. That includes respecting the rule of law and if you have set that aside for political reasons, then you are a threat to our democracy and our freedoms.

Small, minded people rarely have ideas, just a litany of excuses and complaints.

People who create change, change the future for others. Therefore, if you remain idle, the future will control how you change.

If you are the problem, then moving to a new town to start a new life is not a realistic option.

The pursuit of happiness never ends.

What I have learned is not to pay much attention to those that say, “Money will not make you happy.” To them, I answer, it’s certainly a good place to start. And not having it can make you sad.

One's most essential attributes cannot be defined by math, but instead, by opinion; and those that can be measured by a number, are less significant.

A hodgepodge of fantasies lies within you; some are sexual; live them.

Hundreds of life lessons are communicated and absorbed with every broken heart. So, let it break.

Love is often described as a fruit you can just reach out with your hand and pluck. However, one should beware, that although glowing in color, the fruit could be poisonous, tainted, or rotten.

I gave myself to her, but she sold me to fulfill her appetite for adventurous lust.

Never allow yourself to become comfortable for that is when fear is guiding your decisions. Confronting fear can be exciting and exhilarating. Let others believe your mad. Only you require truth.

When someone does not respond, not responding is their response.

Everyone has wins and losses within the realm of love. However, sometimes a win becomes a loss, and most of the time, a loss becomes a win. But neither are ever absolute.

The most successful relationships consist of compromises regarding expectations; all expectations are not equal, and therefore in each case one must judge the level of their individual desires.

Trust wisdom, the harder you work the better luck you have.

Beauty is seen through the eyes, but beautiful people are only known through their heart.

When you linger in tormented darkness, remember, the dawning always arrives on time.