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some people come into your life for a reason, some a season, and some a lifetime.
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Whitney G. (Sincerely, Carter (Sincerely Yours, #1))
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People enter our lives for a season, a reason, or a lifetime.
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Matthew Quick (Every Exquisite Thing)
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For a reason or a season,' he said. 'For a year or a lifetime. For a poem or a song. For a victorious battle or a bloody death. For honor. I would stand by you for as long as I might live.
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Faith Hunter (Broken Soul (Jane Yellowrock, #8))
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You have three types of friends in life: Friends for a reason, friends for a season, and friends for a lifetime.
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Holding myself to perfectionistic standards, I used to think I had to become lifelong friends with everyone who entered my life. This was exhausting, and I now know itβs not true. I believe the old saying that people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.β (127)
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Jenni Schaefer (Goodbye Ed, Hello Me: Recover from Your Eating Disorder and Fall in Love with Life)
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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
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Jay Shetty (Think Like a Monk: Train Your Mind for Peace and Purpose Everyday)
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Itβs never too late to find that one person who can change you, for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
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Skye High (From Darkness To Diva)
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Someone once said, People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. They forgot one other option: Some people come only to give us their contact information, let us know that we really need to get together sometime, and why donβt we give them a call?
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Caprice Crane (Stupid and Contagious)
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That's real life. Things don't always work out the way you think they will. They're not so neat and tidy. But people come into your life with a purpose--I see that now. Claire likes to say that people cross your paths for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Astor was a reason. Hayley, though? Hayley is a lifetime.
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Rebecca Serle (The Edge of Falling)
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people come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Knowing how to discern the difference is a skill worth acquiring.
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Lissa Rankin (The Fear Cure: Cultivating Courage as Medicine for the Body, Mind, and Soul)
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Itβs been said that people come into your path for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Iβm hoping you are in my path for all three.
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Carolyn Brown (The Yellow Rose Beauty Shop)
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People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. (Original Author Unknown)
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Johanna Jackson
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You seem disappointed that I am not more responsive to your interest in "spiritual direction". Actually, I am more than a little ambivalent about the term, particularly in the ways it is being used so loosely without any sense of knowledge of the church's traditions in these matters.
If by spiritual direction you mean entering into a friendship with another person in which an awareness and responsiveness to God's Spirit in the everydayness of your life is cultivated, fine. Then why call in an awkward term like "spiritual direction"? Why not just "friend"?
Spiritual direction strikes me as pretentious in these circumstances, as if there were some expertise that can be acquired more or less on its own and then dispensed on demand.
The other reason for my lack of enthusiasm is my well-founded fear of professionalism in any and all matters of the Christian life. Or maybe the right label for my fear is "functionalism". The moment an aspect of Christian living (human life, for that matter) is defined as a role, it is distorted, debased - and eventually destroyed. We are brothers and sisters with one another, friends and lovers, saints and sinners.
The irony here is that the rise of interest in spiritual direction almost certainly comes from the proliferation of role-defined activism in our culture. We are sick and tired of being slotted into a function and then manipulated with Scripture and prayer to do what someone has decided (often with the help of some psychological testing) that we should be doing to bring glory to some religious enterprise or other. And so when people begin to show up who are interested in us just as we are - our souls - we are ready to be paid attention to in this prayerful, listening, non-manipulative, nonfunctional way. Spiritual direction.
But then it begins to develop a culture and language and hierarchy all its own. It becomes first a special interest, and then a specialization. That is what seems to be happening in the circles you are frequenting. I seriously doubt that it is a healthy (holy) line to be pursuing.
Instead, why don't you look over the congregation on Sundays and pick someone who appears to be mature and congenial. Ask her or him if you can meet together every month or so - you feel the need to talk about your life in the company of someone who believes that Jesus is present and active in everything you are doing. Reassure the person that he or she doesn't have to say anything "wise". You only want them to be there for you to listen and be prayerful in the listening. After three or four such meetings, write to me what has transpired, and we'll discuss it further.
I've had a number of men and women who have served me in this way over the years - none carried the title "spiritual director", although that is what they have been. Some had never heard of such a term. When I moved to Canada a few years ago and had to leave a long-term relationship of this sort, I looked around for someone whom I could be with in this way. I picked a man whom I knew to be a person of integrity and prayer, with seasoned Christian wisdom in his bones. I anticipated that he would disqualify himself. So I pre-composed my rebuttal: "All I want you to do is two things: show up and shut up. Can you do that? Meet with me every six weeks or so, and just be there - an honest, prayerful presence with no responsibility to be anything other than what you have become in your obedient lifetime." And it worked. If that is what you mean by "spiritual director," okay. But I still prefer "friend".
You can see now from my comments that my gut feeling is that the most mature and reliable Christian guidance and understanding comes out of the most immediate and local of settings. The ordinary way. We have to break this cultural habit of sending out for an expert every time we feel we need some assistance. Wisdom is not a matter of expertise.
The peace of the Lord,
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Love is a gift without any strings attached. This means that with it comes the knowledge that not all relationships are meant to endure with equal strength indefinitely. Remember that you are also a season, a reason, and a lifetime friend to different people at different times, and the role you play in someone elseβs life wonβt always match the role they play in yours.
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I didnβt know it then, but my father and his fickle follower had practically predicted my futureβ¦
A few years after he gave that speech, he mustβve figured heβd obliged his βreasonβ in me and my momβs life because he left us both. Several years after that, my mother decided her βseasonβ of motherhood was done, and decided that she was tired of being a momβthat her real calling could be found in smoke bars and casinos. As far as for βa lifetime,β I could only think of one person who ever came closeβ¦
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Whitney G. (Sincerely, Carter (Sincerely Yours, #1))
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I do it for the same reason that a good butcher will only sell you fresh meat: I got a reputation and I want to keep it. The only two things I refuse to handle are guns and heavy drugs. I wonβt help anyone kill himself or anyone else. I have enough killing on my mind to last me a lifetime. Yeah, Iβm a regular Neiman-Marcus. And so when Andy Dufresne came to me in 1949 and asked if I could smuggle Rita Hayworth into the prison for him, I said it would be no problem at all. And it wasnβt. β’ β’ β’ When Andy came to Shawshank in 1948, he was thirty years old. He was a short, neat little man with sandy hair and small, clever hands.
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We tend to be unaware that stars rise and set at all. This is not entirely
due to our living in cities ablaze with electric lights which reflect back at us from our fumes, smoke, and artificial haze. When I discussed the stars with a well-known naturalist, I was surprised to learn that even a man such as he, who has spent his entire lifetime observing wildlife and nature, was totally unaware of the movements of the stars. And he is no prisoner of smog-bound cities. He had no inkling, for instance, that the Little Bear could serve as a reliable night clock as it revolves in tight circles around the Pole Star (and acts as a celestial hour-hand at half speed - that is, it takes 24 hours rather than 12 for a single revolution).
I wondered what could be wrong. Our modern civilization does not ignore
the stars only because most of us can no longer see them. There are definitely deeper reasons. For even if we leave the sulphurous vapours of our Gomorrahs to venture into a natural landscape, the stars do not enter into any of our back-to-nature schemes. They simply have no place in our outlook any more. We look at them, our heads flung back in awe and wonder that they can exist
in such profusion. But that is as far as it goes, except for the poets. This is simply a 'gee whiz' reaction. The rise in interest in astrology today does not result in much actual star-gazing. And as for the space programme's impact on our view of the sky, many people will attentively follow the motions of a visible satellite against a backdrop of stars whose positions are absolutely meaningless to them. The ancient mythological figures sketched in the sky were taught us as children to be quaint 'shepherds' fantasies' unworthy of the attention of adult minds. We are interested in the satellite because we made it, but the stars are alien and untouched by human hands - therefore vapid. To such a level has our technological mania, like a bacterial solution in which we have been stewed from birth, reduced us.
It is only the integral part of the landscape which can relate to the stars.
Man has ceased to be that. He inhabits a world which is more and more his own fantasy. Farmers relate to the skies, as well as sailors, camel caravans,
and aerial navigators. For theirs are all integral functions involving the fundamental principle - now all but forgotten - of orientation. But in an
almost totally secular and artificial world, orientation is thought to be un- necessary. And the numbers of people in insane asylums or living at home doped on tranquilizers testifies to our aimless, drifting metaphysic. And to our having forgotten orientation either to seasons (except to turn on the air- conditioning if we sweat or the heating system if we shiver) or to direction (our one token acceptance of cosmic direction being the wearing of sun-glasses because the sun is 'over there').
We have debased what was once the integral nature of life channelled by cosmic orientations - a wholeness - to the ennervated tepidity of skin sensations and retinal discomfort. Our interior body clocks, known as circadian rhythms, continue to operate inside us, but find no contact with the outside world.
They therefore become ingrown and frustrated cycles which never interlock with our environment. We are causing ourselves to become meaningless body machines programmed to what looks, in its isolation, to be an arbitrary set of cycles. But by tearing ourselves from our context, like the still-beating heart ripped out of the body of an Aztec victim, we inevitably do violence to our psyches. I would call the new disease, with its side effect of 'alienation of the young', dementia temporalis.
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People enter our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime" - The bubblegum reaper
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Matthew Quick
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People enter our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
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Matthew Quick (Every Exquisite Thing)
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Men for a season, sometimes for a reason, but never a lifetime,ββ I quote.
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Olivia Hayle (Say Yes to the Boss (New York Billionaires, #3))
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There is no REASON to keep SEASONAL people around for a LIFETIME.
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Oscar Auliq-Ice
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They say that people come into our lives for a lifetime, a season or a reason.
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Jeanie Seward-Magee (A Mindful Way - Eight Weeks to Happiness (Mindful Living))
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People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
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Iyanla Vanzant, Michelle Ventour
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People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
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Iyanla Vanzant (Acts of Faith: Daily Meditations for People of Color)
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You say what you need to say, and never let a bitch see you sweat! If you want to get emotional, you do that shit with me in the comfort of my arms. If you want to beat that nigga ass, well you gone have to let me handle that because you pregnant. But he doesnβt deserve your fucking tears, I know you gave your life to him. Just know that god does things for a reason, a season, and a lifetime. That nigga was your season, he was never meant to be your lifetime.
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K. Renee (A Real One Captured My Heart)
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A well-known poem by Jean Dominique Martin says, βPeople come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.β These three categories are based on how long that relationship should endure. One person might enter your life as a welcome change. Like a new season, they are an exciting and enthralling shift of energy. But the season ends at some point, as all seasons do. Another person might come in with a reason. They help you learn and grow, or they support you through a difficult time. It almost feels like theyβve been deliberately sent to you to assist or guide you through a particular experience, after which their central role in your life decreases. And then there are lifetime people. They stand by your side through the best and worst of times, loving you even when you are giving nothing to them. When you consider these categories, keep in mind the circle of love. Love is a gift without any strings attached. This means that with it comes the knowledge that not all relationships are meant to endure with equal strength indefinitely. Remember that you are also a season, a reason, and a lifetime friend to different people at different times, and the role you play in someone elseβs life wonβt always match the role they play in yours. These
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Jay Shetty (Think Like a Monk: Train Your Mind for Peace and Purpose Everyday)
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People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
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Michelle Vestur
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*Advice to his younger self
B.J. was very anxious during the first season of The Office because he was always trying to write something extra on the side that he never had time to finish. He really didn't stop to enjoy the incredible, once-in-a-lifetime experience of The Office. B.J. wishes he had told him self back then that it was a very special time in his life, and that he should own it and enjoy it, instead of being so nervous, for what ended up being no reason at all.
'And you know what I also tell people all the time? If Will Smith isn't in a move for 3 years, you're not walking around saying, 'Where's Will Smith?' Nobody's paying attention to anyone else at all. You think everyone is, but they're not. So take as long as you want if you're talented. You'll get their attention again if you have reason to.'" B.J. Novak
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The saying goes that people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. I'd hoped and prayed that Kiernan would be with me for lifetime, but in the end it was for a reason that he was sent to me. Kiernan changed my life. He changed me. He showed me that there was more to life then existing. Taught me how to live it, how to experience it, how to treasure it. He gave me hope, and love, and family. But above all, Kiernan Parks taught me how not to be afraid
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Jamie Canosa (Falling to Pieces (Pieces, #1))
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people came into your life for either a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
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Donna Alam (Hard (Great Scots, #2))
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Our tastebuds have a harder time detecting flavors in cold foods. Thatβs why chilled soup must be aggressively seasoned. But cold soups also have almost no aroma, which is another reason that they require a heavier hand when seasoning. The aroma that wafts up to your nose from a piping-hot bowl of soup affects your perception of the flavor. Take away that aroma and the food does not seem as flavorful.
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β Whitney Gracia Williams, Sincerely, Carter
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People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetimeβ.
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