Pierre Jeanty Quotes

If you aren’t willing to love her, do not put dents on her heart that will influence her to believe that she is hard to love. That is cruel.

We hide our pain to keep us from getting hurt again. In the process we hurt people who never aimed to hurt us.

When you look at her, if you do not feel blessed to have her. She is not yours to keep. She is another man’s blessing.

Love her the way you crave to be loved.

If they cannot meet your standards, don't lower your standards so that they can.

Isn’t it ironic that the perfect moment for them to admit that they need you in their life is when you finally realize that you’re well off without them. In other words, the devil knows when you are getting close to heaven.

We live in a generation that applauds the bad more than it commends the good.

Just remember that it's not your responsibility to fix a broken man. It's not worth your time, your effort, your love or your tears. If he's not willing to fix himself for you, there's nothing left to do but walk away and move behind his selfish, immature, and ultimately abusive behavior. Not all men are broken, but you have to believe you deserve better. Expect better and you'll receive better, it's that simple.

The truth is, no strong man takes advantage of a woman's vulnerability. It is a trait of the weak.

Embrace who you are. Learn to be comfortable with who God made you. Develop the mindset that the creator doesn’t make mistakes.

It’s not her shape, her face, or her hair that makes her beautiful. Neither is it the smoothness of her skin, the boldness when she stands or the perseverance in her heart. But the condition of her heart, the gratitude she lives by and her love for God.

You love -you- far too much to compromise for too little.

One day you will marry your best friend, love will be real to you, and you will be on your journey to forever.

Love is a seed that has to be watered with effort and consistency. Lack thereof will cause the fire that once existed between two souls to burn out.

She preferred having her eyes lost in the night sky wondering about the stars, the universe and the creator.

Women like her are only hard to love by men who believe love is just a word.

She wasn’t created for everybody, her heart wasn’t made for everyone. Her love won’t be enough for just any man.

You deserve more of their attention than their phone does. You deserve quality time, not just time. You deserve effort, not just routines. You deserve to be treated as if you are a priority, not the last thing on their checklist. You are special and you deserve to be the only option. If that is too much to ask, you are asking it from the wrong person. If begging ever becomes your last approach to receive those things which ought to be freely given, it’s safe to say, you are out of your dang mind. Begging to be loved is suicide. It’s like going sky diving from the Eiffel Tower naked of proper equipment, and expecting gravity to overturn the outcome.

Don’t stop doing the nice things that the wrong women failed to appreciate. They’ll mean the world to the right woman.

What good are flowers without water? What good are promises without actions?

The day you begin to accept who you are is when the journey of knowing yourself begins. That day is when validation through others becomes something of the past, and loving you and evolving into who you were made to be will begin.

She’s a poetry book. You must read every letter, and digest every word. Every part of her paints a part of a bigger picture. You can’t love her, if you do not intend on reading every page and learning how to comprehend every piece of her.

To her past, I see you replay the worst scenes of her life over and over, trying to convince her that she is less than good. Listen to me, I will love her until you become a memory faded; until your words are without sound and empty to her ears. I will love her until you no longer get the best of her, until you are nothing to her.

Her worth is priceless and she is fully aware of that. It is why she doesn’t attract many and only those with quality taste and genuine hearts can afford a woman like her.

Sometimes one of the greatest deeds a woman can do, is to introduce a man to an experience that sobers him up in a way only love can. This is an experience that will convince him to be more of a man to the next woman.

she did not choose to be alone; she simply chose to love herself more, and that required her to be the love of her own life, until someone comes to fulfill that position.

Love is a force that can’t be forced. Let it find you. It knows your address and who it is supposed to deliver within your path will be shipped to you unexpectedly. Be sure that your life isn’t cluttered and that your heart is ready enough to welcome it. You will find “Nemo,” before you ever find love, let it find you.

How does someone find it easy to live life smiling after having hurt the soul of someone who only offered them love?

You don’t need to sleep with more men to gain more experience. You need to wake up and understand that practicing with different teams every time won’t make you perfect for one team. The team you need practice with is the team you’re guaranteed to be on forever. Get the ring first, then, get to practicing.

No matter how good of a woman you are, you will never be enough for a man who is not ready” – Unknown

Who you become in life isn’t determined by the circumstances you face, it is determined by the decisions you make in response to your circumstances.

Our cries for acceptance create the rivers in which we drown our identities.

She is more than a good woman and a good person. She is a beautiful soul who carries light in her smile and love in her bones.

You’ve grown tired of being the trophy for mature men, yet always approached by immature fellas running game, in, “Mr Right” disguise. They can’t understand, because all they see is the smile, the strength, perseverance, the accomplishments, but all are clueless about the sadness, loneliness, emotional breakdowns…the failures.

Strong doesn’t describe her, she defines strong.

You are not a fool for being fooled by a fool.

We were never taught that acknowledging our weaknesses opens the doors for strength. Sharing our weaknesses with loved ones opens the door for guidance and help.

You taught me what it means to fight for what you love. You showed me great endurance in a manner that was unusual to me. You fought for my heart until all the fight in you was gone without neglecting your brain. You displayed to me what unconditional love should look like, if I were to stare at it in a mirror. You loved me even on the days I found it difficult to even love myself. You scooped down to help me up at my lowest. You chained your heart to mine and stayed by my side even when all the signs gave you red lights about continuing our relationship. You remained loyal, even when I became disloyal, and fulfilled the belief that many men are dogs. You hung on longer than I expected, Loved me more than I could ever imagine. Some may have called you foolish for staying, but you showed me an aspect of love I’ve only read about in 1 Corinthians 13.

A man is not supposed to be an animal. Strength doesn't lie and how little pain he shows, but in how he handles the pain he feels. Be a man. Be real with yourself. Be human.

I hate you” is simply “I love you” clouded by fear and doubt

She did not fall out of love, she fell in love with wanting better.

Don't let any crumbs of attention he throws at your feet cause you to bow down to his curse again. I know you are hungry for love, but he has proven time and time again that he cannot bring enough to the table to feed you.

Be honest with him, tell him you don't know how to love yet, even when it's everything you want.

We are all different and if we all live our lives, instead of imitating the lives of others, we can all contribute something different to this world.

You deserve quality time, not just time. You deserve effort, not just routines. You deserve to be treated as if you are a priority, not the last thing on their checklist. You are special and you deserve to be the only option. If that is too much to ask, you are asking it from the wrong person.

Once upon a time, persuasive words would give her goosebumps, Sweet nothings would satisfy her cravings, the key to her heart belonged to thieves. But now She has grown to listen with her eyes, to only trust actions, to study behaviors and let time be the inspector to see what it will reveal

It was your lack of effort that screamed "Let go!" and whispered, "Move on," to her ears. Not her friends, family, or possible replacement.

She is independent, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t like having someone she can depend on.

The truth is, no strong man takes advantage of a woman’s vulnerability. It is a trait of the weak.

The greatest gift any man will try to take from you is your time...

The pain of your absence trapped me in the prison cell of my own skin.

Any soul on fire with love will keep going back to where the fire started

Love is color-blind, but so many are blinded by colors

anger and love cannot grow in the same garden.

What was the catch in making her feel safe, only to use your insecurities to terrorize her?

Bad Company corrupts good character

You my dear, knew your worth, and that made you worth so much more than you realized.

You can learn so much about her by exploring her scars and asking about her fears.

You deserve to be with someone who searches for the beautiful things in you.

Love is taking risks, and these risks keep taking from her.

Giving in has become more convenient than letting go.

As for me, the thought of me being spoon-fed so many lies while believing you respected me enough to pour me some truth is what makes me sick to my stomach.

We all wish we could live in a world where everyone looked past our outer appearances and focused on our inner being. The only likely way for that to happen is if someone is on a journey of loving us.

Mock me, say I will never change, throw dirt on my name…. I will rise above every bad choice, every foolish decision, and every bad experience. I will continue to grow into the good man I ought to be.   To

It is not her love coming to an end; she will always have love tucked underneath her rib cage. This is another failed love attempt reaching its last page, a relationship fading into the image of a memory, and a woman understanding that it is not her job to plant, water, and harvest love in a man all at once, especially one who doesn't want to taste the goodness of her love. All that matters now is that she gave it her best shot, another bullet wound from someone she handed the gun to.

Before she left She was gone before she left. Her heart started walking away long before she physically made her way out. She started leaving when you began to put her in the shadows, when you found more important things to invest your time in than being in her presence, when the things that made her smile became a burden you once carried for the sake of winning her heart, when her ears became a well that you dropped your promises in with no intention of picking them up and fulfilling them. She was gone mentally and emotionally. Her physically leaving was just a delayed response.

Isn’t it ironic that the perfect moment for them to admit that they need you in their life is when you finally realize that you’re well off without them. In other words, the devil knows when you are getting close to heaven.

This heart of yours is asking for time to be still, my dear. It's begging you to move on without moving into something new, to patiently be yours for a little while, to lay and cuddle a bit longer with the peace of your own presence.

What I learned from my generation is to never love too hard. To never show anyone you can’t live without them. It’s always about who can survive without the other while attempting to commit to each other. It’s a very contradicting mindset.

Do not wait forever but do wait. Just remember that it’s not your responsibility to fix a broken man. It’s not worth your time, your effort, your love or your tears. If he’s not willing to fix himself for you, there’s nothing left to do but walk away and move beyond his selfish, immature, and ultimately abusive behavior. Not all men are broken, but you have to believe you deserve better. Expect better and you’ll receive better, it’s that simple.

It is silly to convince her that she is a sinner for being able to love so devotedly. It may not be normal to you, but let it be to her.

Men ought to cry because men are real people, with real feelings, real emotions

The commitment issues in me live not because I am still finding enjoyment in messing around with other women. It’s because the fear of not being man enough reigns in me.

Before you, I was a beggar Begging for attention, validation, short-term pleasure

Until a man grows out of the idea that he has to be cool, he will never win with those who he thinks are cool. He shouldn’t try to be cool, he should try to be himself.

The devil knows when you are getting close to heaven.

The day you hold her, You will feel as if you are carrying the world and all the beauty in it. She is tender and innocent, yet tough and full of fire.

Commitment without intent of marriage is a bad contract.

Your courage drove the coward in me insane.

...love is a marathon for those who are willing to commit to the finish line.

She will remember the moments you made her feel loved more than the times you said, “I love you.

Too many baby daddies not enough fathers Too many rappers not enough role models Too many entertainers not enough educators Too many preachers not enough spirit-led men

There is no greater revenge against someone who shattered your heart into pieces than letting go and opening the door for something good to walk into your life when the time is right.

The sun and the moon take turns admiring her, the sun watches her rise, as it finds its way to the other side of the world to cover its next shift. The moon tags in to watch her sleep.

If she cannot dance without care, laugh and tell you about the most embarrassing moments in her life. She is not yet free in your presence. She is in love when finds comfort in your presence.

It happens when we expect the person we are loving to do their part and love us the same, yet they don’t. When it happens, it hurts. No one goes through this life without meeting some type of hurt or pain. Do not let that disappointment lead to a disappointed life. Do not let it harden you heart, do not let this failed attempt at love, despite what number of try it is, make you give up.

You deserve quality time, not just time. You deserve effort, not just routines. You deserve to be treated as if you are a priority, not the last thing on their checklist. You are special and you deserve to be the only option. If that is too much to ask, you are asking it from the wrong person. If begging ever becomes your last approach to receive those things which ought to be freely given, it’s safe to say, you are out of your dang mind. Begging to be loved is suicide. It’s like going sky diving from the Eiffel Tower naked of proper equipment, and expecting gravity to overturn the outcome.

Some men are afraid of committing because they see themselves in no shape to build a future with someone else. Some are insecure about where they are in life and how far they are from their goals. They don’t want to bring a struggle to the table. They want to be stable and comfortable in life first. They don’t want to feel as if they aren’t man enough. They want to be able to protect and provide without bringing the woman they love into failure with them. To the man stuck in that situation: She loves you, she wants you. The most valuable thing you can give a woman whose heart belongs to you is your time and affection. You are getting in your own way, not your financial status or failures.

The power of influence is greater than many of us believe. Who I spent my time with helped shape me into who I became. The people anyone chooses to keep in his or her circle will become influences. The

Why was I told in every situation to man up and not cry? I’d manned up all my life and now my strength to stay tough broke down I felt robbed of a remedy to my pain

A first impression does make a lasting impression; sometimes it defines us to a person we’ll never see again.

She is the same as wine, without patience you will never see how better she gets with time.

Love should not cost you your sanity.

Desiring a man whose efforts speak in a higher tone than his promises, isn’t too much to ask for.

If you aren’t willing to love her, do not put dents on her heart that will influence her to believe that she is hard to love. That is cruel.

Dear good guy I can hear your cries I can feel your pain I can smell your frustration I can see the confusion in your eyes Confused about how women see you In a land of women tired of being played They still take you as a joke and think you’re all games They play you like they were played They can’t see the seriousness in your eyes When you call her “Queen” and ask for her heart And you cry for commitment, they back out and shut down Treat you like the bad guys treated them It’s so ironic You hate seeing these ladies get their hearts stomped on Their minds toyed with It’s killing you because you’ve done it to women yourself you’ve seen other guys do it You want to save them from the destruction But like a child who refuses to obey their mother’s wisdom, until they are wise enough to understand through experience They won’t value you until they get burned playing with the fire of curiosity Some of them crave destruction They crave the fun that these fellas who will degrade them have to offer They are being guided by curiosity and their wisdom is foolishness Fight the urge to become like the men these ladies who lack understanding chase after Don’t let rejection consume your heart and cause you to crumble Being a promiscuous man who lacks self-respect and morals is overrated Find peace with being the underdog Your type is needed in this world, my good friend Hold on There are women out there who are in search for someone like you One of them will be the one who appreciates the detailed things about you the previous women called corny There are women out there who will value your honesty, your character, your loyalty Hold on, my friend Narrow is the right path You are on the right path, my friend Your time will come in due time You will not just be getting a girl, you will be getting a woman who will be willing to finish off this life’s journey with you You are not alone I am with you and I understand the hardships you face, the doubt, the anger I want you to know you are doing a great job at being you Do not give up Stand firm and continue to be different You will be an example to many although you are in the minority Corruption

She can be difficult, there are times her words will be heavy with stubbornness, her tongue will be sharper than a new sword and attitude like a two-year-old. Aren’t we all difficult at times? Isn’t she human like everyone else?

We've all been fooled by something or someone. We've seen things go a different direction than expected. It happens when we expect the person we are loving to do their part and love us the same, yet they don't. When it happens, it hurts. No one goes through this life without meeting some type of hurt or pain. Do not let that disappointment lead to a disappointed life. Do not let it harden your heart, do not let this failed attempt at love, despite what number of try it is, make you give up. It's okay to be disappointed. It's frustrating when you play the fool, but it's not okay to give birth to the fear of disappointment that will rob you of a life of love and loving life." -Pierre Alex Jeanty, Apologies That Never Came

Feelings of a Pimp They think I was a player because I was devoted to the game They thought I worked hard on my offense to break down these women’s defenses just to score They think it’s the body count that made me manipulate them into my arms to get between their legs They think I’m satisfied with a different woman in my bed every night When during the day, even my bed can feel the loneliness They think I love the easy women They think it’s for the cool points that my heart grew cold They think they have me figured out Another dog chasing after every female dog in the streets They think I’m happy with all the texting buddies, but no wife But they don’t know They don’t know how tired I am of this, how tired I am of myself How tired I am of living like this How tired I am of these games, but that’s the only way I can score with a chick They don’t know how after sleeping with these ladies, I wish I had more chemistry with at least one of them to cuddle, to give goodnight kisses and wake up beside They don’t know how loneliness consumes me With a phone filled with women’s numbers, I still feel unwanted and unworthy They don’t know these easy women make it easy for me to feel confident about myself; although it’s the wrong type of confidence I feel validated by them, I feel accomplished, I feel loved although I’m having sex with them, not making love They don’t know how tired I am of chasing fool’s gold Chasing fast women who would sleep with me in a heartbeat Leaving me with the empty feeling I felt before I started the chase The player in me is played out. I just want love, but that’s the only thing I can’t seem to find So, I keep pimping in hope of finding love Her insecurities were beautiful They opened the door for me as an opportunist She was the perfect candidate Oh so sweet, but oh so hurt How smart would I be if I didn’t capitalize? Some fellas get women drunk and have their way with them I was doing nothing wrong but pretending to be prince charming, just to get the same results I became what they needed emotionally I was the shoulder to cry on, the ear to listen to, the one person who understood I was a smooth criminal manipulating the innocent Did not feel an ounce of guilt because I was weak myself I was insecure I couldn’t help preying on vulnerable women In their weakness I found strength I was a coward, a “wannabe” player I was playing the wrong games, winning the wrong prizes The truth is, no strong man takes advantage of a woman’s vulnerability. It is a trait of the weak. Diary of a Weak Man

We’ve been through so much together I’ve seen you grow into someone you thought you’d never be I’ve seen you endure challenges most will never see Mocked by your peers for being from a different culture Feeling deserted, you searched for ways to adapt and become accepted You resorted to fitting in instead of making a stand for your true self You’ve made countless mistakes in pursuit of acceptance To me, it was undeniable you were meant to be a misfit You dove into finding your talents and utilizing them Unapologetically, you began making your mark during your middle school years Discovering your skills as a runner made a way for you to flee from the norm Racing hard and your pace in this life Hurdle after hurdle, you never stopped jumping and running towards the finish line You lost focus numerous times running someone else’s race, matching their suicidal pace, but over time you opened your eyes and ran your race in your lane You used failures as your stepping stone to climb up to where you are now and where you’re going I love you, I love you even when you hate you Thank you for staying true to you, never justifying your flaws and running away from your consequences You’ve taught me so much. I’m proud of you I love you so much. Thank you for being a friend, an example, a brother Thank you for being the man you are now. I love you, man in the mirror